7 TRAITS OF THE VIRTUOUS WOMAN - #Queenology by RC Blakes

call them and tell them to check me out on adjustment how's everybody doing how's everybody doing i pray that um pray that you're well and that you're safe on this um holiday um i'm excited uh to be alive i'm excited to be able to share with you tonight for a few minutes for those of you that have time um i know i may be interrupting your family festivities and what have you but this is something i wanted to deliver and when i when i feel an unction to um deliver you know i like to follow it because i never know when i might have time to do it again so as we uh take our time and deliver this tonight share this on your other platforms i think you can copy the link and share it on your your facebook your twitter um yeah let's try to let's try to make this really resonate tonight because i think it's a it's a it's a really important subject matter because you know i'm i'm i'm known for um the message queenology which is breaks down what the study of queens queenology but the reality is uh the principles that the principles that i teach in queenology are found right there in your bible um and i say all the time you know religious people read the bible for religious rhetoric and they read the bible for ammunition to abuse others but people like you and i who are really searching for a real connection with god we don't see the bible as just a source for rhetoric or a means of religious narcissism but rather we see the bible as a manual for healthy and whole living and this is why you know i believe every day of my life i open up my email and from all parts of the world people are saying i love what you're doing i love your message but the thing that really stands out for me the most is that you apply scripture to talwana thank you so much you apply scripture to the principles and the reality is that i don't think i'm necessarily applying scripture to the principles i think i'm drawing the principles from the scripture i think it's it's what i what i see in the scripture as it pertains to how to live well and so there's a text in the bible i won't read the whole thing because it's just too lengthy and though i've uh titled this message as seven traits of the virtuous woman the reality is that there are far more in this text than the seven that i'm going to highlight and it's found in proverbs chapter number 31 and maybe this is a part one that'll lead to part two who knows because there's so much that i i left on the table but this text proverbs 31 is famously known um for um highlighting the virtuous woman the virtuous woman uh was a biblical character a fictional biblical character highlighted to depict the epitome of female dignity now listen to listen to that statement right there very well the virtuous woman in proverbs 31 was a biblical a female biblical character highlighted to depict the epitome of female dignity you and your brother samuel blakes have helped me with the process of a broken heart from a toxic relationship so grateful for that pamela thank you for sharing if you look in proverbs 31 29 and what i'm going to do is i'm going to kind of like hopscotch around the chapter as i pull the points out that i want to make but i encourage you to read the whole thing when we're done proverbs 31 irene thank you so much thank you so much in proverbs 31 29 listen to what it says it says many daughters have done virtuously but thou speaking of this particular woman excellenced them all in other words there are a lot of bad girls there are a lot of bad sisters out here there are a lot of boss chicks out here but you have excelled them all now that's you you know that i i say this now that text is talking about you many women have done virtuously and and the term virtuous simply means to have or to show high moral standards it means to be of the highest dignity many women have been dignified many women have shown high you know moral standards but you excel them all now i know for some of you that's a difficult um designation for you to accept from me right now i know that i know when you when you heard me say that's talking about you in your mind you resisted that and you said something like he he can't be talk he's not talking about me he doesn't know me he's not talking about me the reality is proverbs 31 29 is talking about every woman and the only thing that separates her the woman from realizing or actualizing the virtuous or the virtuosity if that's a word i may be making up a word of proverbs 31 29 is the woman's awareness of who she is and her acceptance of who she is and there are a few things that will prevent you from accepting the designation that you are the proverbs 31 29 woman that excels them all and one of those things is your history you what what is my statement i make all the time you can't get a date with destiny as long as you're married to history there are a lot of you that are watching me right now and you may already have tears in your eyes because you feel like you've fallen so far short of this standard that there's no redemption for you but here's the reality however you feel about yourself as a woman right now listening to me you're listening to a guy who is the male version of what you think you are i come from that i i was the epitome of that there's no way in the world you could have told me that i would be doing what i'm doing now and that my life would look like it's looking now but before i could actualize that before i could actually become the rrc blakes that now touch his lives around the world i had to accept god's ignatian for me and i had to understand that my life was more than my history and that there were a lot of things that i did that did not define who i was and so it is with you i say again proverbs 31 29 where it says many daughters have done virtuously but you excel them all it is talking about you it's talking about you and you may have homeboy in the house right now trying to figure out how you're going to get this man out of your life you may have made a whole lot of mistakes this week but i still say to you that proverbs 31 29 is talking about you and when you wake up thank you kimberly thank you so much when you wake up and you accept your true identity it is then that you will begin to cooperate with the holy spirit to actualize it don't tell me what god can't do he did it for me and if he did it for me a dude how much more can he do it for you and he did it for me man in in such a supernatural way that it's you know it sounds like a fairy tale when i try to tell it to people but it doesn't matter it doesn't matter see i don't know why i'm just feeling led to go here with you it doesn't matter it doesn't matter that you you you've slept with more men than you are you know would like to even admit your shame to admit how many men you slept with it doesn't matter that you've made all of these mistakes it doesn't matter that you've been broken you've been abused you've been used it doesn't matter if the the holy spirit gave me a revelation some years ago well maybe a couple years ago of a crown and there was a massive dent in the crown but the crown was solid gold and i saw this vision and the holy spirit said is the crown worth less because of the dent or the damage i said no it's solid gold value is innate its value is not in its structure or its visual appeal its value is in it its gold you cannot tamper with the value of gold and so it is with you your value is innate it doesn't matter that life is beat you up td jigs used the illustration of the 100 bill he said what is this worth they said a hundred dollars he folded it greased it he said what is it worth it said a hundred dollars he threw it on the floor he stumped on it what is this worth it said a hundred dollars he tore it had the two pieces like this what is this worth they said a hundred dollars he crumbled it up threw it on the floor what is this worth they said a hundred dollars it didn't matter what the bill had gone through it was still worth what it was worth and so i'm saying to you today i just feel this pull to minister right now before i get into this content i say to you today that you're worth what the creator says you're worth now let's get into it number one i have seven points i want to highlight i didn't mean to go in that direction so quickly constance thank you so much thank you so much number one if you're writing number one number one she comes seven traits of the virtuous woman number one she comes with a price oh yeah number one the virtuous woman these are these are the seven traits that i pulled from proverbs 31 she comes with a price man phase thank you and kimberly thank you thank you so much i love you all i appreciate you she comes with a price the virtuous woman somebody said oh she come with a price that sounds like a prostitute no no she's not a prostitute the virtuous woman is not a prostitute but she demands a price look what the bible says in proverbs 31 10 says who can find a virtuous woman for her price is far above rubies for her price is far above rubies a virtuous woman does not produce value listen to this very carefully a virtuous woman does not produce value without price she does not function before contract what do you mean by that past okay i'll tell you what i mean by that she's not going to the virtuous woman is not going to give a man husband benefits who's not qualified as husband material she's not going to play house she has certain demands to box evolution thank you she has certain demands that must be met before she will even come off of the porch because the virtuous woman comes with a price now why is it why is it important for a woman to understand see because watch this you've been conditioned and trained as a generation of women and even you know this present generation my generation generations before all kind of conditioned that you know a woman just supposed to stand by her man don't worry about no you know he ain't got just i i just stand by your man you know and you should stand by your man as long as you got a man and a real man that's paying the cost to be the boss why why does the virtuous woman demand such a high price chelsea thank you thank you thank you aj thank you thank you thank you i appreciate you all thank you for your guidance and for restoring queen and king consciousness may god bless you aj i'm getting ready to work on these kings in a minute thank you for pouring into us bishop you are a blessing to my life thank you chelsea thank both of you i appreciate you uh natasha i think i'm reading it right thank you why does the virtuous woman demand price watch this listen to this very carefully this is this is some real common sense wisdom that most people look over a man does not value anything he does not pay for oh if i had a mic i would drop it thank you danielle thank you so much a man a true man does not value anything he does not pay for when a man can walk up in your life and get all of your benefits and pay nothing for it he doesn't value that he doesn't value that my father bought me a car when i was a young man and man i wouldn't put all in the car i would drive the car like like a you know a rented mule you know i didn't pay for that car but when i bought my own car and i had to actually pay for it i was washing the car two and three times a week i was making sure that all one time i had so much all in the thing this is the old engines i had so much all in the thing it was spilling over onto the engine creating smoke i put too much oil in the thing you know why did i why why did i value the one i had to pay for it's because men are built to value the things that they have to pay for if you give a man something for free he doesn't see the value in it oh i just said something right there good god almighty oh lord have mercy i just said something right there that's a t-shirt right there if you give a man something for free he does not see the value in it it may be all out valuable thank you rachel thank you so much it may be all out valuable it may have worth and value but if you give it to him for nothing he does not see the value in that now that's doesn't that that answers a question for a lot of you why is it that i why is it that i can't seem to land a husband you're giving away too much value for nothing you're giving away value without price that's the problem and see you've been conditioned by society to believe that's the way to get a man give a man whatever you want make a man happy please a man and when they start they talk about sex they talking about cooking they talk about cleaning they talk about submitting here you submitting to man that you're not even married to man has no covenant with you he has not honored you and you submitting to him you you giving him sex you giving him dinner you cleaning his dirty clothes you entertaining this man no cost at all thank you lynn and you wondering why thank you vicky thank you bishop for your teachings you have taught me i am truly a queen yes you are i just answered a lot of y'alls now they all don't even send me email now you cannot land a husband not because you're not a great woman it's just that you don't know how great you are and you out here giving stuff of great price away for free bible says of this virtuous woman her price is far above rubies look what the bible says back to my point man does not value anything he does not pay for listen to what the bible says in luke 12 34 for where your treasure is there will your heart be also where you put where you put your money on the line your heart follows and watch this you can reverse that wherever your heart is your money will follow now that that statement right there should redefine a lot of your so-called situation ships because you got to do that that's you know he ain't paying no price he won't even pay for dinner dude let your lights get cut off he you treating this dude like he husband you know you sexting this man giving this man all of this stuff here giving this man your body and everything and he gonna let your lights get cut off and you gonna still sit up there and talk about this my man but see when you when you when you tap into this right here and you become conscious right here you're gonna have a certain price and if a dude can't pre if a dude can't pay that price ella thank you so much thank you pastor r.c blakes you are truly a blessing may god continue to bless you and your family thank you and may he do the same for you and yours watch this under number one she comes with price number one what's some of the things that a man has to pay number one he has to pay attention to her so you all thought i was just telling my money i am talking about money but not just money see that's you know not just money you got to pay attention to anybody any man that doesn't pay attention to you and how do you know if a man is paying attention to you a man that is paying attention to you knows you intimately and when you start talking about intimately i'm not talking about sex you can go get any dummy off the street to have great physical sex i'm talking about intimacy intimacy is what where a man intentionally dives deep into your soul and he wants to know you from your depth and watch this intimacy is not only where man dives deep into your soul and knows how to make love to your mind but intimacy is also a man that goes deep and is consistent if there's no consistency he's not he's not intimate he's not paying attention to you he's not paying attention to you no it be you need to pay some bills you got to pay some bills now he ain't got to be rich you don't even have to he doesn't even have to make as much money as you make because the days you know uh women are sometimes more educated than men and the way the job situation is set up sometimes women can find better jobs than men but he got to have a work ethic and he got to have some money unless he unless he's disabled or something happened to him you know what i mean or he's just really in a situation where he's in an area of the country of the world where he literally can't find a job but he has a track record of holding it down financially i wouldn't advise that you just jump off into a new relationship with a man that's around here with all of these you know financial issues a man should get his finances together before he even um has an interest in trying to bring a woman into his life god gave adam a house a job and some resources before he ever gave him a woman the the driving force of a man's manhood is being able to provide for his woman if you got a man that's comfortable not providing financially for you you got to question what kind of man is this because one of the things i'm most proud of and i consider myself an enlightened and mature man and i know that life is more than all but i'm proud of the fact that i take care of my wife my wife ain't got no needs that she have that i don't meet she has access to all my resources i can be out of the country she ain't got to call me to figure out nothing she can go in the thing and get the money out and do whatever she needs to do i'm proud of that because that's that's the driving force of manhattan like like the driving force of womanhood is a woman is proud of the fact her house is together her house is always clean her children always together when she comes when you come to her house everything laid out her family eating good and all that one was proud of that and any woman that's up in a nasty house and not taking care of children not thinking a man you got a crush you got to question what kind of woman is this well just like that's the natural reactions of a woman to life the natural reactions to man is i got to get these monies because i got to take care of homegirl i don't want homegirl worrying about nothing if homegirl wake up there tomorrow say i don't want to go to work no more i want to be able to hold it that's how a real man thinks but y'all got these dudes that ain't paying no price they ain't paying no attention to you they ain't paying no bills what you got him for uh let us see you got to pay respect and that speaks for itself and then letter d must pay with as i said earlier he is the price of consistency be consistent don't be don't be all over the place in my life you know as as a woman i deserve better than that see you got to you got to think like that i'm speaking for you right now but see these are the things you got to say i i deserve better than a man who's unstable in his thinking and you're all over the place and i can't read you or figure out where you're going to be you cannot cover my life you cannot consider yourself my husband or the covering of me and my children if you're not consistent you can't you can't do good for three months and then then mess up for the next uh nine of every year you've got to be consistent i got to know that i can rely on you the this is these are some of the things that go into the price when the bible says a price is far above rubies that's that's that's what is some of what it's about number two seven trays of the virtuous woman are moving too slow she does an internal watch this the virtuous woman does an internal self-assessment of her own worth the virtuous woman does an internal self-assessment of her own worth in other words she does not allow anybody else to set a value on her she sets her own value from the inside out what is the problem with generations of women who have what i call in my program queenology or in my book queenology broken consciousness the problem with this generation of women who suffer from broken consciousness is that they have been programmed by society from from academia to religion to um entertainment to whatever to the nuclear family structure they've been conditioned to believe that they are only as valuable as society and when we say society we're talking about perverted male society says they are so perverted male society through music through videos through literature through pictures says that if you want to be viewed as valuable show me your body so now you have a generation of women with broken consciousness who are walking around basically naked walking the streets of america the world naked i was in i was in it showed you how the united states of america drives culture i was in and it blew my mind i was in uh israel and little jewish girls walking around half naked trying to be like americans walk around their little iphones and listening to music and half naked well that's that's that's that's broken consciousness these are women who do not possess the wherewithal to make an internal assessment of their own values so they're always taking their signals from society and specifically for men the empowerment queen thank you for this very valuable information we women need to operate in this excellence and we are and you are say we i'm not a woman and you are because fathers had to teach this most women flunking in this area because you ain't no father's the teacher now mind you sometimes you got fathers that can teach it and you still go out there and you do whatever you want to do i promise you i got three daughters you know time y'all hard-hitted but at the end of the day it helps to hear a man say this is where you ought to be because most men are saying take your clothes off you want to be valuable get up on that pole come on down for me come on down for me but a virtuous woman does an internal self-assessment of homework she does not allow anybody else to set her value in proverbs 31 18 it says she perceiveth that her merchandise is good her candle goeth not out by night she perceived that what she's producing in other words is good she don't need you to come in and and approve what you think about what you think about what i'm doing what you think about my stuff oh it's good or uh you work on that no no the bible says she perceives and this actually speaks of the fact that watch this she discerns going back to the statement the word that the lady just used she discerns the excellence of her own product and cannot be convinced otherwise baby listen you got to know what you working with you got to know your own value you have to know your own worth you can't sit around here depending on a man to tell you you fine you should have figured that out when you woke up this morning and looked in the mirror you should have said that to yourself so you should not have been so excited about hearing a man say that you you have to know that your merchandise is good and when you understand this when a woman does an internal self assessment of her own worth watch this she will not give discounts to appeal to an inferior clientele i pause like that because i want you to think when you read the old testament you you read a a hebrew word selah s-e-l-a-h and it means pause and think about it so when you hear me stop like that it's a salah moment i want you to pause and think about it when you do your own internal assessment of your worth you will not give discounts to appeal to an inferior clientele you cannot go to bmw with no volkswagen money and you cannot go to the bentley dealership with no bmw money you may be able to talk to the people at bmw and get them to bring the numbers down a little bit and maybe mercedes a little bit uh but not like you you can do a toyota certainly not like you can do it chevrolet and when you get over to the bend the people you come in they're talking about you know give me a discount they call in the security because here's a nick row that ain't supposed to be up in here remove him from the premises you do not come up in no bentley on a rolls-royce dealership to mark discounts this is not the discount center no no no no no no no no you need to go six miles west take a left and stop at the first ford chevy dealership you can find you at rolls-royce right now you you you when you when you do your own internal assessment of your worth you will not give discounts to appeal to an inferior clientele rolls royce is not trying to take chevrolet's uh customers see because a chef a man a man that's selling chevrolets he got to sell maybe ten of them things to everyone rolls royce the man over there working at rose russell so the man at rose ross sitting there chilling he got his ferragamo uh shoes on his ferragamo loafer zone got his briony soon you know what i mean got his canalis shirt and got his gucci tie pocket square cut up real nice he chilling sitting in his leather chair and he ain't bothering you walk up in the roars dealership he just keeps sitting there filing his nails or whatever he doing and when you ready for him he pops up out the seat he chilling because this is not this is not a place where you come all right let it be this is all under number two she does not she does an internal self-assessment of her own worth uh she will not haggle and bargain you won't discount now you want to haggle with me no no no haggling it is what it is you can you this is either your level or it's not you know what i'm saying this is either your level or is not i i'm not going to be going back and forth with you see this has to be your mindset as a queen i'm not going back and forth with you because i've already assessed the value of my merchandise now if you can't see that it means you ain't man enough for me because if you can't see me you can't leave me and if you can't see me you can't even maintain my attention so holla let us see you will not get a test ride to see if you like it or not when when a woman makes her own internal assessment thank you nina you're speaking directly to me god bless you pastor thank you so much if there's anybody i missed i apologize you know i you know i'm a stickler for that i just this is hard for me to not say thank you when you when people are kind to me but back to my thing you will not get a test ride to see if you like it or not when you know your own value and you know you you've made your own estimation you know you don't come up in a test run i mean if i like it no no let me let me let me get a test ride for about 10 years and then i'll figure out let me give me a baby or two then i'm gonna figure out no no no no no no no no you ain't just riding here bro no no you need to go five miles west take a left stop at the nearest chevy dealership you can find look what psalm 139 14 says i will praise thee for i am fearful and wonderfully made marvelous of thy works and here's the part i love most about this text that and that my soul knoweth right well ma he says i'm fearfully wonderfully made your works are marvelous but when he says in that my soul knoweth right well what he's saying is i'm convinced of it in my own mind vereta thank you so much i joined the cyber church today so excited listen for some information i'm going to be sending you all some information very very very soon thank you for joining the family i'm glad to have you um when he says my soul north right well it means i'm convinced of it in my own mind not only am not only do i possess all of this value but i know i got it i not only have you put all of this value in me but i know i got it and the last thing the world wants is a queen to wake up and know what she working with coach rod god bless you man of god you're my mentor oh i'm so proud listen email me because you know it looks like god is connecting my brothers to me now email me at uh pastorrcblix gmail.com and put coach rod in the in the heading so i can distinguish it put it in all caps i want to reach out to you number three number three okay man i'm taking too long now listen um i want you all to this is off the path right now my brother's going to come on at some point tonight on youtube and uh tara spencer i want you all to listen to my brother you know some of y'all don't know i have a brother my that's my only sibling pastor bishop samuel blakes he's gonna be on tonight if you've never heard my brother you might listen to my brother stop listening to me because he's he's you know he's the bomb so he's going to be on tonight and hopefully he'll come in and put his i i forget what his thing is but just look for s r blakes or samuel blakes on youtube and you'll find him and subscribe to his channel number three she possesses a spiritual foundation so what was number one number one uh she comes with a price can't get up for nothing number two she does an internal self-assessment of her worth number three she possesses a spiritual foundation she is a woman that is guided by the spirit of god now let me say this to my my kings out here because my kings are looking for you know thighs and eyes yeah my kings are looking for tips and lips and a side of hips that ain't gonna cut it all the time no doc that's that's cute that's nice you know that's nice for honeymoon you know a little while for you know but when life get real real when i mean when life get real real real you gonna have to have a woman that knows how to get in contact with god see while you got a woman with hips and lips and tips and thighs and eyes i got a woman with knees that know how to get on her knees and talk to god and when i can't figure stuff out i can come home to my woman and she knows how to get in touch with god because she possesses a spiritual foundation to be quite honest with you my dear sisters and daughters in here listen to me if you had had your relationship with god on point you would not have made the last five mistakes you made you made those last five situationship blunders because you didn't have no contact with god your discernment wasn't working and when your discernment ain't working your common sense shuts down but look what the bible says in proverbs 31 30 fave is deceitful and beauty is vain but a woman that feareth the lord she shall be praised she fears thinking nikki did i said right flores thank you so much when she fears god it means that she honors god above all others when it says she shall be praised listen to this it means that she will be invid and honored when a woman fears god knows who she is sets her own price she will be invid and honored she'll be envied by her enemies but she'll be honored by her people nia thank you so much i appreciate you did y'all hear what i just said she said that a lot of you all that are listening to me that don't have no spiritual foundation and you know you blame it on well you know all the preachers in the church sleeping with the women that ain't true i don't sleep with no women i sleep one woman in my church and her name is lisa sister lisa that's the one i sleep with i don't i air preach ain't doing that you think i could be on here talking this kind of stuff if i was running through my congregation living like that and all this stuff wide open for anybody to say whatever they want to say whenever you notice i have no restrictions on my stuff go to all my platforms ain't got no restrictions people don't get on here saying nothing about me because it ain't nothing to say and see a lot of y'all have run away from god or you really you're running away from the church not embracing god because of all of these you know issues thank you ramona your messages gave me strength and i left thank you sometime that's the best thing dude get on the back there but you got to have a spiritual foundation back to my original thought you're making all of these blunders because you're not making room for god number four she makes wise decisions oh i like this one right here i know i'm a camp out right here for a minute i'm already on here too long she makes wise decisions concerning men seven traits of a virtuous woman she makes wise decisions concerning men a virtuous woman will never settle for a man she will never settle for a man she chooses a certain kind of man she will never settle you'll never catch a virtuous woman to mouth a piece of man is better than no man at all that's broken consciousness right there uh i think it's the apostle paul that wrote about that called her a silly woman leading with sins led away with divers lust man creep within come on now no no no a virtuous woman never settles for a man thank you to shauna oh jesus you're teaching good dad love it on another note can you do a teaching on church hurt especially when the hurt or soul ties caused by your spiritual leader i sure can i most certainly could i think i did one too on spiritual religious narcissist i think somewhere in there in that in that teaching i addressed that but she makes wise decisions concerning men in proverbs 31 23 it says her husband is known in the gates thank you jay he left me and i'm heartbroken i'm 20. babe let me tell you something some one of the biggest blessings god can give you is the break your heart sometimes your heart has to break for your soul to heal you're 20 years old which means your baby sometimes you sometimes you think a person has left and the reality is that god kicked him out because he knew you were not strong enough to do the job sometimes your heart has to break for your soul to heal there's some women on here tonight that can testify they may be twice your age or three times your age and they can testify that the best thing that ever happened to them was a broken heart one wasn't until then that their lives came together so be encouraged my baby be encouraged now watch this so she makes wise decisions concerning men uh when you look at proverbs 31 23 it says her husband talking about the kind of man that that the virtuous woman chooses her husband is known in the gates when he sitteth among the elders of the land a few things i pull from that number one letter a relative to her husband he has a good reputation bible says he's known in the gates it means he has a reputation he's known in high places he's known in the places of commerce and government he's known in the gates he has a good reputation there a lot of y'all that's entertaining men that don't even have a decent reputation but he fine you see that's that broken consciousness that's why you need to read my book queenology that's why you need to go and get my program queenology and sit there and let me talk into your spirit for hours to get that garbage out of your mind so he he has a good reputation let it be he has memes because they ain't gonna let him sit you know the bible says he's known in the gates when he sitteth among the elders they're not gonna let him sit there if he ain't got no money broke folk don't sit at the gate with the elders let us see thank you sabrina bishop thank you for your wisdom you have cultivated my consciousness and spiritual growth tremendously thank you so much that means the world to me let us see he has a certain measure of wisdom when the bible says he sitteth among the elders of the land fools don't sit in that in that place he has he has a good reputation thank you kids i appreciate you he has means he has a certain measure of wisdom and in letter d he's man enough to celebrate his wife this woman this woman the virtuous woman makes wise decisions concerning men he's man enough to celebrate his wife the bible says in proverbs 31 27-28 she looketh well to the ways of our household and he does not the bread of idleness her children arise up and call her blessed her husband also and he praiseth her thank you sean i appreciate you her husband what praises her the virtuous woman would not have a man that could not celebrate her if a man cannot celebrate his woman that's a bad sign especially when she's an ambitious visionary woman how can you have a man that how can you how can you allow a man to attach to your life who does not have the capacity who is too small to celebrate you you can applaud him and you can cheer him on and then when it's your turn he can't celebrate you he's too small to celebrate your victories because he views his manhood as being superior to you he doesn't see you as an equal partner in dominion like like like a king sees the queen see when when a king looks at a queen he sees his female equivalent and he handles her like that now watch his number five because i'm taking too long and my brother's getting ready to come on here i don't know exactly he gonna let me know when number five she exercises self-care virtuous woman takes care of herself meticulously proverbs 31 22 she maketh herself coverings of tapestry her clothing is silk and purple so she's very specific about what she wears she's also specific about what she eats she's specific about her spiritual health she's specific about her mental health she exercises self-care number six she maintains her personal goals though she has joined in marriage and though she has a husband she maintains her personal goals she never loses sight of her personal goals why is that it's because she understands that the only way to be a great partner is to be a healthy and strong individual you cannot make a set a pair of shoes out of one shoe that's half put together and another shoe that's whole the only way to create a pair is to have a complete whole right shoe and a complete hole left shoe and then bring them together and they become together what they could have never been individually they become a pair but you cannot create a pair if something is missing in the individual you cannot create a marriage out of a half of a woman and a half of a man you got to have a whole woman and a whole man meaning what you don't lose your individuality to come into a marriage you bring your into that individuality and you merge powers oh i feel like preaching up in here so she maintains her personal goals when you read that proverbs 31 woman thank you stacy when you read that proverbs 31 woman all through that she has a great husband but you see all of all of her goals and maybe that's some of the stuff we'll go back to she she had businesses she was buying and selling she had staff she maintains her personal goals there are too many of you with this broken consciousness broken broken consciousness the weaver thank you so much who give up on your personal goals as soon as you get a man or you settle for a man that demands that you give up on your personal goals to be his woman that ain't bible i'ma leave that alone because i know that that's a fight right there proverbs 31 31 says give her the fruit of her hands watch this and let her own works praise her in the gates her own works this woman had a great husband a baller a shot caller come on y'all and yet she had her own works had her own enterprises made her own money they were they were a power couple you're not supposed to give up on life and forget about all your dreams and your goals because now you got a man is it caitlyn i hope i'm saying right thank you pastor you truly are my virtual spiritual leader that means the world to me thank you i appreciate you okay watch this so she establishes her legacy in her own accomplishments she establishes her legacy in her own accomplishments see like now where in my life the way me and my my wife have worked is that she put her stuff on the back burner for me to to become who i became who i've become but i was never a man that needed my wife i didn't need my wife i didn't need to dim my wife for me to shine and so we work together to accomplish certain things and it's not my accomplishments it's our accomplishments and so now we're in a season where i'm like hey you know what is it that you what is it that you want to do personally so she got a lot of personal irons in the fire that y'all will be hearing about her stuff and now i'm just what supporting her she she runs uh she runs the publishing company that does my books until potential that's hers so i i ain't got the quotes nobody's got to publish my books i don't need nobody to sell them i don't my wife publishes them she's working on own book as we speak and i'm doing what i'm just laying in the cut backing my girl up because now she has some personal goals that she put on the side to help a man get to where i needed to get so i could bring the family up but now you know i'm upset so now her personal stuff is taking over the agenda is that making sense to y'all and that's what this woman was she she the virtuous woman one of her traits was she maintained a personal goal she wasn't just writing i'm misses i'm mrs i'm misses i'm mischievous i'm missing just around i just i miss it what okay who are you though we know about your husband who are you what what what are you doing huh other than spending your husband money all day what are you doing huh what are your goals what is your identity i'm mrs i'm mrs i'm mrs i'm missus you got to run around saying that all day you ain't doing nothing thank you stacey i'm grateful to god for you pastor this helped me get over my soul tie it's been one year now thank you god bless you i appreciate you too all right now let me shut this down because i've been on here too long number seven and i'm out seventh trait and i think i might do a part two on this because when y'all read that proverbs 31 there's so much in there it's unbelievable number seven she is a wise and kind woman the virtuous woman is not around here telling people off kicking her shoes off in the parking lot cussing everybody out walking around with a bad attitude because she got some money now looking down on people all arrogant and crazy like you don't remember what it was the live off bologna sandwiches and pork and beans and wieners thank you lavi thank you thank you thank you there's my daughter marcy i love you morris thank you lavi lavi lady i like that name no no she chills she is a wise and kind woman she's a wise and kind woman doesn't matter how much money she gets she's wise and kind as my son dwight walker i love you bud she's wise and kind laquana laquana music god bless you thank you so much and the bible says in proverbs 31 26 she openeth her mouth with wisdom and in her tongue is the law of kindness so she speaks with wisdom and in her mouth is the law of kindness her words bring healing her words are kind so they're the seven traits of a virtuous woman again i say to you there's so much more in proverbs 31 that you you can glean from there and if i'm led to do so i may do a part two on this because there is more now let me pray for you father god i thank you for just this revelation i thank you for the scripture i thank you for your guidance through the scripture and now father i thank you that no one listening to me tonight will struggle with um guilt or shame but god let them let them receive the this message these principles as the loving guidance of the heavenly father showing them the right way to go in jesus name and we give you praise and honor for shifting lives and those that are heartbroken for whatever reason god we thank you now for mending those hearts 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Published: Mon May 25 2020