THE 5 TENETS OF QUEENOLOGY- The 5 principles of the movement by RC BLAKES

good morning good afternoon rather I'm Mrs E Blake's and I am so happy to be able to share with you today I'm going to jump right in this is your first time checking out my channel I'm a pastor and I'm an author and I wrote I wrote this book entitled Queen ology this book is actually the follow-up book to another book I wrote entitled the father-daughter talk now the father-daughter talk was written at a time some many years ago well a lot of years ago when I just kind of took a paternal or fatherly I made a paternal or fatherly fatherly observation of society and I saw where our women had degraded in terms of their personal perspective to the point of becoming what I call slave conditioned by you know societal restraints and you know the limitations that society puts upon women in terms of who you are what you can do where you value lies and I saw that a lot of women were falling back on their sexuality as a success strategy and the Holy Spirit said to me it's because they've not had the father-daughter talk and the father-daughter talk is simply a conversation that every father should have with his daughter no young woman should enter into the world without having had that conversation with her father relative to what to expect and how to conduct yourself in a world that views you as prey and so I wrote that book in that book just it took off it still had books cells all around the world every day and then after that the follow-up was this book queen ology after we've dealt with the father-daughter talk and we talk about what the father wound creates in a woman in terms of her deficiencies and how she sees herself and how she functions in the world then we need to deal with this clean Amagi this deals with the psychology of a woman it doesn't matter what kind of hand you were dealt doesn't matter what you were you know lacking or who was or wasn't in your life at the end of the day when you wake up as a woman there's a crown in your room and there's a throne in your room and at some point you have to you have to come out of your history and you have to face your destiny and you have to realize that the crown in the room is yours and the throne belongs to you you have to position the crown on your head which speaks of what adjusting your mentality and you have to sit on the throne which speaks of owning who you are in spite of the limitations that society has heaped upon you circumstances trauma and pain have done their best to miniaturize you and to break you when you when you become conscious when you wake up when you get this information and you know who you really are and every woman is a queen that's what I teach every woman is a queen the prostitute on the corners the queen a stripper on the pole is a queen the woman that works in corporate America is a queen every woman is a queen most women are just unaware no one's told them because it benefits a perverted male society it benefits of perverted world to keep the Queen's unconscious because if I if I keep the Queen's unconscious then I can do what I can use CERP there our I can use SERP their authority and that is what's going on today we have a generation of women who are completely oblivious to the fact of who they are and so the world creates this the world creates this scenario around you that keeps you locked into a mindset that you are no more than your sexuality you're no more than your fashion and so most women live to be sexy and live to be cute and never really tap into the deeper dimensions of who you really are so in this book queen ology which is also the conference that I do my wife and I Lisa and I do together in this book and in this conference there are five basic tenets or principles that are communicated though in the book we have multiple chapters many more chapters than five the the book and the conference speaks to basically five tenets if you take it all and you you know boil it down it boils down in my opinion to these five tenets as I have you know combed through this and this is the product of my own heart and the tenets is a principle or a belief it is it is especially one of the main principles of a philosophy and queen ology is a philosophy about living it is a principle for life and it's based in you know I get sometimes I get pushback from people especially my my religious people I'm a pastor by the way I'm no counselor no therapist and I'm just a pastor all of my training has been theological but my life has been experienced you and so I learned from just living us at this point I'm 55 years old and so I'm sitting and I'm reading the scripture and I'm looking in Genesis and I don't have him a Bible in front of me so I'll reference it you can go and find it but I'm looking in Genesis where God creates Adam and Eve he creates male and female alike and God says to them have dominion he says to the man and to the woman to what have dominion now Dominion is a word that applies to rulers if I if I say to you have Dominion I am Telling You to rule over something and when you start talking about giving someone authority to rule you're talking about monarchs you're talking about the equivalent if you use the language you're talking about the equivalent of kings and queens you know like in terms of a home a man says I'm the king of my castle woman says I'm the queen of my castle why because in our home we rule I'm blessed right now to have my my two younger kids home from college they're both in the house together it feels good it's been a while since they've both been here together at the same time and they're in here now but they don't rule this place no Lisa in Robert Blake's ruled this place we have dominion here now when we step outside of these doors you know the city the city of Pearland Texas dominates the streets but inside of here we have Dominion so when Genesis talks about he gave male and female man and woman Dominion he's talking about rulership so when I when I say when I used the term queen ology and some of my religious people say oh there's no such thing as Queens in the Bible number one though this book is steeped in the Bible the principle of it transcends the biblical it it spills over into everyday life clean ology does not speak of a position on a physical throne clean ologist speaks of a disposition see because I can put you on a physical throne and I can put an actual crown on your head but if your mentality has not elevated you know you just sitting on a throne you're just sitting on a big chair you're just wearing a fancy hat so when we start talking about queen ology there's a queen in you when we do these conferences we're we're not talking about a physical position we're not talking about a position at all you walk around and you you're the clean like Queen the Queen of England no no we're talking about a disposition a shifting in the mindset he's shifting in the mindset of every woman that says what I'm better than this this behavior is beneath me this relationship is beneath me I'm a queen I deserve XYZ Queens are not governed by clowns Queens are only sensitive to the voices of kings it's a mindset that we're working on you understand it's a mindset so when you see on social media or wherever clean allergy queen ology queen ology I'm sharing this with you so you can kind of understand what it's all about it's it's kind of I guess this is a good way to describe it it's introducing most women to themselves for the first time queen ology is introducing most women to themselves for the first time because most women from very little girls have been raised up to believe that watch this either directly or indirectly oak over overtly or covertly you've been trained that number one you're less than a man and when you go back to the book of Genesis God told Adam he created Adam first he told Adam to dominate everything the animals the fish the birds and all of that he never told him to dominate Eve God never gave man the authority to dominate man he never gave Eve the authority to dominate Adam why because they were equals but if you listen to the rhetoric that is spilled through media many times unfortunately through religion through entertainment it makes the woman less than the man the man is fully clothed in the videos wearing gold chains and fancy clothes all of the women around him a naked and what does that say to our young daughters all you are as a sexual object and to succeed in life you have to perform sexually for men who are not even worth a conversation with you so it's introducing queen ology is introducing the woman to herself for the first time most women when they attend the queen ology conference and our next one may be our last one for the year I wanted to do a couple more but I'm looking at my schedule and I don't know how I'm gonna be able to fit it in if I were like a normal person I would have these once or twice a month in different parts of the country of the world but I have a lot of other things going on and our last one I think this will be our last one it certainly will be one of the last two for this year but we're going to Orlando August 30th and 31st and I just opened that up a week and a half ago you know that's how hectic my schedule is but when people come you know a lot of ladies cry because it's like they they never heard this before and it's it's like a revelation so now let me get into what I actually called you on here for I want to show you just give you an overview of the five tenets of clean ology that we deal with in the conference now on the fact that this is called queen ology the intimate experience so the tickets are limited in number we limit the tickets to about 100 and it's it consists of a Friday night and Saturday morning through afternoon Friday night is a time where we come together and it's Q&A Tazz eating there's this dinner rather there's entertainment and there's Q&A well sit in a chair and I just answer questions whatever question you ask I answer and it's an all-white affair Saturday we wake up that morning for 9:00 and we go from like 9:00 to 1:00 or 2:00 and we have one break and it's just me and and the audience and I'm pouring out like four hours or more of nothing but content you'll have the the Queen ology tablet that we give and you you know you're gonna fill that tablet up it's it's a lot of content but here are the five tenets number tenant number one is is self-awareness these are the principles that a queen conscious woman builds her life on self-awareness which speaks of identity self-awareness which speaks of identity and here's here's how it here's how it reads my identity is in my relationship with God and my understanding of myself as an individually gifted woman I am NOT defined by what I do what I have or Who I am with I am a single distinct and limitless individual that's that's ten and number one self-awareness so that's the first part we work on and I think that's probably I think that's probably the largest block of content is in dealing with tenant number one self-awareness identity and working to get the the ladies to understand that they are not defined by what they do you know or what they have you're not defined by because when you when a woman is not conscious of the value she has innately invested in her by her creator what she does is she excels in career she excels in education she excels in all of these things because she's searching for fulfillment in in performance or she's defining herself about what she does titles and what-have-you and she gets those things and then she realizes the void is still there it's because that vault was never intended to be filled by what you do and then you have the next woman who defines herself by who she's with so you have the woman that defines herself by what she what she does I'm this I'm that this is my title this is the power I have and she's still miserable because she's empty and then you have the other woman who defines herself by who she's with so this lady is searching for identity in relationships and I made a statement in Austin Texas the other night it's an audience of male and female actually in this statement applies to both if if you're a person that needs to be married you're not a person that needs to be married because if if you feel a need I just need to be married and I'm miserable you know with myself by myself it means that you have some personal work internally to do because another person coming into your life is not going to give you identity or bring fulfillment to you in fact about it I just responded to a dear heart today you know was posing a question along these lines in my response was the only person you are guaranteed to be with for the rest of your life is you no one else is guaranteed to be in your life for the rest of your life but you you had better get busy learning to be happy with you finding your sense of identity and self-awareness because you're the only person that's guaranteed to be in your life for the rest of your life your parents your children your boyfriend your husband your wife they're not guaranteed to be in your life for the rest of your life the only person that's guaranteed to be there is you and the reason we have so many people that are so miserable as individuals is because they find their value in what they do so if they're not doing okay if you lose your job as a woman what becomes of you have you lost child entity because you don't go to that building and go to that office anymore if you're if you're you're your man walks out on you have you lost your identity because you no longer have the ring and you no longer have the last name what what what becomes of you and then it says at the end of the principle at the end of the tenant statement it says I'm a single distinct and limitless individual I am a single distinct and limitless individual you must one of the things we teach is that every woman and this of course applies to men as well but we're talking about queen ology here every woman must invest herself in to the discovery of her own individuality and the way we we teach or the way we illustrate individuality is like a pair of shoes you know and this would I guess this was model a pair of shoes you have a left shoe distinctly and left you in a right shoe fact about it if you remove the right shoe you still be able to define the left shoe as a left shoe and it's a whole left shoe it's not just the sole it's not just strings it's not just a heel it's everything that goes into a shoe it's a complete and whole it is a distinct individual unit by itself that has an identity as it stands alone it is a left shoe you then bring into the equation a right shoe which is a distinct individual unit by itself it is a right shoe whole sole heel canvas strings everything that goes into a right shoe there's no mistaking it this is not a left shoe this is a right shoe this is not a right shoe it's a left shoe all right oh did I say that wrong this is not a left shoe the right shoe this is not a right shoe it's a left shoe now when you bring them together in they're both whole they then become together what they could have never been individually they become a what pair but you cannot create a pair until you have two individual holes so if I have a whole left shoe and I bring a half of a right shoe and put it in a box and try to sell it as a pair somebody has a lawsuit because that's not a pair it takes an individual whole right shoe individual whole left shoe brought together put in the same space called marriage or relationship to create a pair or a union or a relationship anything short of that is a situation ship but self-awareness you know bringing a woman took place where she knows herself loves herself learns learns to be happy within herself finds all of the happiness she needs within herself in our creator and then knows how and who to let into her life to perpetuate the happiness that's already generated within her herself because she's so self-aware nintendon't number two is self mastery which speaks of discipline self-awareness speaks of identity the second tenet is self mastery which speaks of the woman's discipline the Queen's discipline and here's how the tenant reads I am in control of myself no one has access to my controls I am mastering my emotions relationships sexuality spirituality and financial choices self mastery so we outline a few things there emotions if you're out of control emotionally as a woman you've not mastered yourself Queens Queens do not Queens do not do not have what's the word I'm looking for the luxury of going on emotional being emotionally out of control Queens don't have that luxury because Queens are in control of too much in too much rites on the stability of the queen the kingdom rights on the stability of the Queen so Queens don't have the luxury of having emotional meltdowns Queens learn sooner than later how to master their emotions Queens can feel something in the world and never know it Queens maintain a circle where they vent Queens don't vent on social media and I know that stung a lot of you Queens don't get on on Facebook or Instagram and vent everything that's going on in their lives because Queens master their emotions Queens master their relationships Queen notes Queens don't just have random people running their lives wrecking and pillaging and plundering one clown after another in the crown running through your life taking taking taking taking breaking you and breaking you and breaking you and you you keep on going through the same cycles over and over again queens master their relationships queens may make a mistake one time but then she steps back from that and she learns and then she begins to interview the next man she begins to ask him questions because queens understand that questions reveal motives and if she's going to master this relationship she has to get to the bottom of the man's agenda and any man that has the wrong agenda queens know that questions will run him off quick fast and in a hurry because clowns don't like questions because especially when queens that ask questions that only Kings can answer clowns will move on because queens master their emotions they master their relationships and they master their sexuality they master their sexuality you learn to get a handle on that thing you don't you don't you don't allow soul ties and all of this other stuff that keeps so many women caught up in cycles that are so self-destructive you don't allow that the spirituality and then financial choices Queens definitely master their money Queens don't play with with with the bag Queens Queens Queens master their money Queens are not running up and down the street buying stuff they really can't afford trying to impress people who really don't matter a queen would buy a modest outfit at a modest price keep it clean look good in it and have her have something in the bank rather than walking around here with all of this stuff on a 2,000 dollar bag with $20 in it that's not that's not the mentality of Queens because means have self-mastery there they have self-mastery in other words Queens build their lives where they are sustained within themselves in their relationship with God so watch this if if if there's never a man that comes into her life that says don't uh I'm here to save the day she's still good and she's so she's so balanced in her own mindset that when a man shows up and has that capability she's able to fall back and let him play his role and when he needs some help she's strong enough to step into the situation and take the wheel because Queens live a disciplined life based on what self mastery number lieutenant number three we only have five self-sufficiency which speaks of what independence so we go from self-awareness identity self mastery discipline self-sufficiency independence here's how the tenant reads I am capable and I am motivated to trust to trust God and to be the source for my life and its necessities I will not beg or plead with inferiors to do for me what I will do for myself I am self-sufficient that kind of speaks for itself right that you know as a queen you you you you live your life and I looted to it really you live your life in a fashion that you and God or what you depend on you're not you're not sitting around you know hoping and praying that some man finds you cute enough and he has enough money to take care of you that's great if you if you got that but you shouldn't be a woman that needs that you should be a woman that lives her life and builds her life for a level a measure of self-sufficiency that I can take care of myself thank God for my wife and I take care of my wife you know when my wife got pregnant with our baby daughter who's now 21 I think she's 21 maybe 202 she's actually an old one she pulled away from her career to take care of her then and she got pregnant again with my son and you know she's been working with me ever since but my wife doesn't you know even though I take care of my wife my wife can take care of herself she is self-sufficient I remember when Hurricane Katrina hit the city of New Orleans I was 40 years old and all of my ministry was gone so my livelihood was gone and my wife said to me she said well you know I can go get a job and take care of us and I wouldn't have it any other way you know I wouldn't have it any other way you know this is the wrong world for a woman to be in who's sitting around hoping and wishing and praying that somebody's gonna come in and save the day for you it's the wrong world for that and there are too many opportunities you got you got you got you got real estate you could be investing in you can learn how to work the stock market I mean there's just so much you can be doing you know what I mean online businesses you could be developing you should have three or four or five different revenue streams making certain that you're what always good not sitting around just cute cute all I'm focused on is being cute baby you got to be profitable so you don't understand this until you you put everything you got all your eggs into the basket of a relationship that falls apart on you in fact couldn't even fall apart it just leaves overnight homeboy fell in love with somebody else and he's gone he and his back he and his bag are gone and now you sitting there crying but you broke because you have not spent any time building your life to be self-sufficient every woman I teach my daughter's this every woman in in today's world every woman needs to make certain that she can always take care of myself don't ever let a man talk you out of finishing school don't ever let an unproven man talk you out of quitting your job you don't quit your job for somebody you living with you know I'm old school so I don't believe in that living with stuff no way if you go if we're gonna live together we may as well be married it's the same thing it's the same thing u-unless my talk you into living with them you having sex with them every day you washing their clothes cooking a food and then they gonna talk you out of your job what is that that's just a trap to make you what dependent to tie your life up then I can abuse you like I want to abuse you because now you're depending on me you never want to be in a place you want to always as a queen you want to be in a place of self-sufficiency independence when you're looking at the Bible proverbs 31 you see the what the what we typically call the virtuous woman that woman had a husband that was was a big-shot and yet that woman had her own businesses and she made her own money manage their own money took care of her children had had employees took care of the less fortunate took care of our children but she was self-sufficient even though she had a man that could provide every and anything she was self-sufficient so I'm not impressed with you walking around with with your Chanel bag and you have no revenue stream or you know you have no ability to create one if you needed to I'm not impressed with that because Queens are self-sufficient so he watched his self-awareness number one speaks of identity tenant number two self masters self mastery which speaks of discipline tenant number three self-sufficiency which speaks of independence tenant number four self-projection self projection which speaks of confidence and let me read the tinted for you I will never be invisible in any space because I have presence I make a statement without ever saying a word I will assert myself whenever necessary and will leave my mark with grace humility excellence and kindness self-projection speaks of confidence queens are not walking around timid now watch this on the flip side of that queens are not arrogant and brash queens have presence that's one of the things we talk about in this book Queens hath presence and presence does not mean that a queen bus until a rumor hey the day were here that they were here and that's a clown that's a clown that's a clown that's not that's not what we're talking about a queen has a certain measure certain dimension of self-confidence and grace and humility all married together to the point that when she walks into the room you know that somebody of another caliber has arrived and Queens don't cower down Queens don't play small to make inferior people feel equivalent you know like a lot of women who find who think they find their identity in a relationship with a with a man that's too small for them what the woman does is she decreases and diminishes herself rather than projecting herself she diminishes herself to make the little man feel better and that's not a sustainable model because you're never gonna be happy it's it's you know diminishing yourself rather than projecting yourself confidently is like taking an eagle and putting an eagle in a birdcage that little cage is going to kill that eagle because there's gonna kill the spirit of that eagle that eagle was never designed to be miniaturized and limited to that little cage and so as a queen self-projection you know you speak up you speak with grace and you speak with humility but you speak with intelligence you speak with confidence you speak with certainty you look people in the eye you know what I mean you you you don't demand respect you command respect because of the character that you walk in you just you know you never come down to the level of clowns you never on Facebook or Instagram battling with somebody that's you no no no no you you you you you you project yourself you don't sit in the back and and act like you dumb no no you sit in the front and you and you look like you know what you're talking about sometimes you don't say a word you just listen and sometimes it's your quietness that projects you even the more but when it's time for you to step to the plate and swing the bat you not tell my well you you take it I don't know no no no it's timeout for that Queens don't play it like that Queens project themselves and you should and any man that's not enough to accept you projecting yourself is not enough man for you bottom line so a lot of y'all try to figure out why is it that you know you you you your girlfriend got all of these cats holla nada and ain't nobody howling at you when when men don't knowledge is because they're intimidated by you and they realize that they're not enough for you it's not a bad thing it's not a you you a lot of ladies say that like you know it's it's a bad thing that I don't get a whole lot of men flirting with me well you know men don't men don't men don't flirt up they flirt down or at most a flirt with someone that they think is equivalent when a man thinks a woman is above him he he's very timid about how he approaches that because the last thing a man wants is what rejection so when you don't get a lot of men howling at you it's that they view you they see the projection of you and they realize that this is above my paygrade it's kind of like a broke man you can't get a broke man to go into a rolls-royce dealership a man that knows he can't afford that car he ain't going in a dealership because he don't even want to have a conversation with those people because he knows he can't afford that right well when a man looks at a woman and he's a Chevrolet man and he looking at a rolls-royce of a woman he moves by and he hollers at the Chevy or he hollers at the forward because it is your projection it's it's what it's the presence you know what I mean it's the presence that you have as a queen when you know who you are and you walk in it and you own it it's the presence that you have that's why you don't get a bunch of men howling at you you seen what the world says to you is that if a bunch of men ojala let you mean you're not cute hey no baby it just means that this sense of character in you that challenges them in places that they're deficient now this is why the world works overtime to break the consciousness of the queen down because even though you're above me you only shelf this too high for me to reach if I can break you down and make you believe that you're less than you are I can bring you to a place where I can usurp your power but Queens project themselves okay let me hurry up 40 minutes good god number five and I'm done now the fifth tenet of clean ology is self-actualization which speaks of what self manifestation or manifesting all that is within you tenet number one again with self awareness which which speaks of identity tenant number two self mastery which speaks of discipline tenant number three self-sufficiency which speaks of independence tenant number four is self projection which speaks of confidence in in tenant number five is self-actualization which speaks of manifestation and here's how the tenant reads and I'm done I will not bring the value in gifts that God has given me to the grave I will not waste my purpose and potential on secondary matters every vision dream and our assignment will be manifested I will live my life for the complete expression of who I was created to be I am becoming more every day self-actualization you know it's it's coming to this place where in your mind as a woman you say everything that God has put in me I am going to manifest it in fact about it I'm going to become so obsessed with self-actualization the manifestation of all of my gifts and abilities that I'll be so consumed with self-actualization that I won't even have time to worry about when is you know a man coming or when am I going to get married or when am I going to have a child or when am I gonna do this I won't even be that concerned about that because my days will be consumed with self-actualization I'm gonna be so busy working on me I'm gonna I'm gonna fall so in love with the the manifestation of me and the evolution of me so that's those are the five tenets of clean ology that's that's that's you know just a few minutes nutshell of what we go over in the sessions and and I you know I really love doing it because it really shifts and changes people's lives those of you who are interested in coming to clean ology Orlando go to RSC Blake's calm back about it I'm going to put up a hyperlink in the description and you actually be able to go straight there and just hit the link and go and register for Queen knowledge your land or not that's happening in about three weeks I think it is that's August 30th and 31st in Orlando Florida I'm so excited about it and I wanted to just share that with you and I hope that it's enlighten you hope that it's it's helped you hope it's given you some insight as it pertains to what to expect when you come to a queen ology conference and we call this the intimate experience because we keep it small and it makes it gives me the ability to be a little more in touch with everybody there you know as opposed to doing something bigger where all I can do is you know do so much but in these settings we get a chance to hug and take pictures and I get I can answer questions and you can tell me a little bit about your story of course if there's a line behind you don't tell me all your story just give me enough of it and then we can connect by way of email afterwards and you get a chance to network with so many women from across the country and sometimes from other countries well in fact I think every time we've had queen ology we've had international presence and so that's what it's all about I'd love for you to share this especially with women that may be in the area that need this kind of teaching and training I love you and let me pray for you then I gotta go father I thank you for this time that I've had to share with the women and maybe even some brothers that have tuned in God I thank you that everything pertaining to them you've already worked it out I thank you God for making all of the adjustments in our mindsets bringing us dear God to the place the level that you've called us to be anything that works against the best version of us God we cancel it in the name of Jesus Christ god I thank you for supernaturally shifting the lives of every person that's watching this right now supernaturally God let your presence rest upon them even now and make them to know that something spiritual something supernatural something divine and isn't has as engaged and is encountering they're encountering the supernatural and they're encountering the almighty God and that all things are well in Jesus's name well I love you I love you I love you and I look forward to seeing you in in Orlando and you can reach out to Lisa and I Lisa or I and I at passed the RSC Blake's at gmail.com if you've not subscribed to the channel subscribe please share this on all of your various social media outlets like you know get the link and put it on Facebook and all of that and and tag me in it and all of that kind of thing I need to get the message out to as many people as possible well I love you I hope that this has helped you if it did just leave me some comments so I can kind of read it encourages me when I read your comments alright I'm sorry that I'm really never able to keep up with your comments as we're flowing it's like too many moving at one time and then you know I don't want to get distracted from the message when I get distracted sometimes I distract the people that need to hear the message so I love you and I'll be praying for you and just why I well remember this you're on top and you're going how you god is more in store for you I'm RC Blake's and I'm saying to you once 1 again you're on top so I'll see you I'll see you at the top god bless you talk to you soon

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Published: Mon Aug 05 2019