7 THINGS I BADLY WANT TO TELL WOMEN - MANual Conference 2020 - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo

hello ladies were back at that special time of the year again the manual conference the title is several things I badly want to tell women have several things that are burning in my heart and I want to tell you man about [Music] I have several things I want to share women and people have always said oh man you're always talking to women because a lot of times women are just more interesting women are just more connected sometimes men do here would think that married note I'm talking about you talk and talk on top 10 times well here's a phrase good one woman enough 50th wedding anniversary the axe now what was your biggest surprise he said for the first five days of our marriage the husband was deaf and dumb you tell him something looking like this no he ain't hey Leslie praise God so I got elected to manager once that generally they have bigger dreams for relationship and actually the ones that you know are not happy relationships most men are happy in their relationships I will tell you I praise God most being happy most of men are not even the women that want to have bigger dreams concerning relations women dream so I love touch women they are interested they are fun to connect with so I'm telling you several things I badly want to tell women how many things seven things and this is based on my short years an experience as a counselor and as a relationship coach if I had so I thought if I had the chance to talk to women what are the seven things I need I would need to tell them and decide the things all right it's based on all the experiences I've had counseling women and all that all the cases I've seen these seven things I important and I feel all women should know it so number one have standards have what stanga's number one ladies have standards standards we save you standards we save you standards receive you have standards the reason why many women don't have standards is that somewhere along the line they are thinking that standards will actually drive the right men out of my life in other was totally the opposite standards will attract the right man into your life as a mother fact you don't want any kind of man in your life you want the right kind of mana standards actually the best way to actually screen is the best way to screen the guys that are not serious because you know the way life works actually you know today the way life still works largely is that we men stay on their own and men do the toasting or the proposing or make the first move am I correct that's I happens and the challenge with that is that's a woman even when you see prospective guys or the kind of guys you think you like you are not really at liberty you know to really really just go and tell them say hey fine boy what's up I like you you can do that so you have to just chill you know on to the guide notices you however for men men you know have the luxury and the Liberty to look at amongst ladies and look at the one they like and approach that lady do you understand what I'm saying because of that your best bet is to have standards standards will help you screen because anybody can come to you anybody is free to approach you how do you differentiate those that are serious with those that are not serious how did if I set those that you can share life with and those you should never even see a handshake with standards standards it's somebody getting what I'm saying standards are good stand that scream those of you that each as I've said in story many times not meet Carla Varma kind to just you know so anytime I travel that what I do my spare time I go to cash up showrooms and car shows things like that so one day I traveled abroad there was a major cash show in town oh I went for the car show and I was going to all the car shops and I was entering all the cars I went out put it on outside and put it on started our ask question was this like this work and it was a me know commencing everybody go in that car shop and that's our show the hard way this was holding me back my back is the senior brother of Miss dispensed Benz is already expensive then me back is the luxurious Vince so you can picture what the price is like when I got there of course which I wanted a bounce inside they just stopped me excuse me you can go is it all casual I'm here to change they said no they said this segment is strictly by invitation ah they say do you have an invitation I said no I invite myself a I'm sorry you know what on one hand I look like ah they are chasing a potential customer you see they know who their customers are the price of my back you can be passing by and by it I can what I'm saying there are things you can passing by and you are not lying to buy before John sees I like it on by the appraisal ooh things like Farrell didn't like me back you must have allotted your account of his ass month ahead that they will meet Joe withdraw you must have checked it out you don't buy something that is two million dollars you know out of just excitement you must have checked it out made inquiries had meetings it's somebody good when I'm saying they were able to screen underwear correct I was not going to buy I was not gonna buy and we just roll it past people are shown him passed on by the sexy you need to put value on yourself I've had a vet a vet guy said how can we marry is a something we have not tested you can buy a car you have not tested it's not occurs and the figures what I'm saying have standards when I tell ladies all the time now hey it's better not to sleep with somebody until you're married it looks a cake it looks stupid but trust me check the divorce rates it to show that bodies device when men are doing they're always not working for them how can we but get a cow who have not test-driven trust me like a ceramic engine is not all cars you can test drive like I said is my is my hobby so when I travel abroad I went on some cars they were Allah meters Ravi the devil know me some lady phone if I can't drive but I talk well good afternoon oh is this the cover the c7 Sin City okay see the Wonder hast a bite oh god bless I almost no cousin say yes I'm looking at you not have been checking the couch so can I test it so yes sir I would drive drive bye I'm not buying I'm just testing what they are some cars I enter some shop same time an anti-fairy shop when you go inside nobody is attending to you you enter the door nobody's answering but is walking by time you go around and you have seen the price tag you know I didn't answer you there was one I caught the attendant I say I'm interested in this car they said do you own a Ferrari I said no I said they say you this can't be your first Ferrari you can buy this type as your first one you ought to have had one before you can try this one I say yes sir I don't know semi yeah I'm your Posse somebody can say that kind of Ferrari that is $500,000 you can test test drive what we have tested it you can test it again so one guy was trying to convince me I need to test it the guy said you don't watch these guys a few test drive it if something scratch if somebody hits you what is I gonna busy excuse me I never get what I'm saying this is gonna bring your insurance rate test-drive it that way we are covered what kind of test drive you point to that is that is more costly test drive without a fantasy he wants to have value I'm not a villopoto's driving do you know discuss the test drive in a car lot by time they are selling they are not selling it the price there in most cash shops they have the car they allow everybody test drive after many years of people Transdev indica they will sell it way lower than his real price because it was the car they were using to test drive he happens to many women you a lot of people to be test driving you and it's not about test drive day I must know by after two hours of test driving I say I'm sorry this is not what I had in mind I will not be you in Jesus name so have standards okay to have standards that's the point C standards are not bad they are good standards don't drive away the wrong people it actually drives away the wrong people it doesn't drive away the right person drives away the wrong question standards are good standards that good so I told them on the island I said don't be just kind of girls I said car I can't marry a guy that's not rich that's the wrong by using the wrong parameter to measure there are mad people that are rich so just in a comely somewhere that knowledge is not the right thing to measure look for real values real qualities to measure the kind of person you want to spend your life with these are the things that see in love women I am married this way they have been treated like slaves they have been treated like a lower being see even though the Bible talks about submission it's not in the it's not slavery is not dominance like I said I'm a man being the head is not superiority it's actually responsibility he's the chief responsibility officer of that house he's not that superior to everybody in that house and if you are getting what I'm saying but many women guess that's the approach they they use their sale may I don't have sense I just follow this man no sometimes you are way smarter I've had many times you are way smarter but God because of order he has to put somebody in charge or as there'll be chaos if all of us have to you know if I time to get out of this hall in a hurry if we all go together at the same time who would take us longer if we line up in on any file in straight line who get our faster that's what I was trying to achieve order it's somebody getting what I'm saying so have the right standards not a camera guy does he have money why should be saying it's a camera guy that doesn't respect me that's a better sense of value that's what you be saying the hey if you can't respect me we have no deal the same things like a camera man that doesn't listen to me that's the better thing those are money matters you have money the Bible said who can find a virtuous woman her price is more than rubies the day you fix a price on your dignity there will be somebody willing to paint there people have stupid money so once you say I can't just say whoopee somebody get what I'm saying young people that have crazy money so you only can never be what you used to measure your value if I said her price is more than rubies meaning that there's no amount of money you can use to measure ha ha ha ha value you must never make any amount of money the thing that makes you do something or not do it every time where I watch on TV or whatever them to say ah if you're ever upset just send that lots I just love I say what kind of women that is boomerang that a latke if you're a latke movea other people's heavier a lot we move how just send harlots really how cheap there's some guys that are rich you know in countries that some countries where you can't pockets and in places they'll give you tickets you know those places some guys that's so rich because they don't want to go the distance to pack in the right place they pack in those beside the saying we're gonna give it a sell open that I reach if money is the only punishment there are people that would be say if you slap me if you slap somebody is 500 they say they would drop 1k and give you two slaps and I got what I'm saying once you put your value in cash there are people that we PMS Europe you must put higher standards than money don't be the kind of kind of Gaza see if you like America oh oh but reverse Africa that can be watch I used to pick that was a screen well there's a guy I watch the videos on Fred a sinner on social media a kind of flew his car from UAE to America if flew his car Lamborghini from UAE to America to drive the car from America to Canada if so police stopped him and said your car has foreign number plates you know my plate was the problem he said nothing that I flew my car to drive it here the guy said well you have to have look up the rich guy said no that he has all the documents that is something it does normally I have so the documentation the police were never had that kind of thing before and the the rich man was now making an example to the policeman say it just like when you want to drive your kind European you just fly to Europe I said I don't drive my you see but that was not my experience of that guy he's just a flying in sky anyway he's going you know the way you cut it back or cutter you're shooting at Travis um okay that car do you know what that means you pay exports you pay customs you work late then when you finish you will export it back do you understand once more nice to watch I used to Brad we have people that we pay and I'll tell you so it has it a camera man dies knowledge what if the madman and is rich what is an abuse on his rich what if this is why many women I marriage where they have been abused because the listen is said the one that was I he was village so it was a rich madman he met your criteria he must be rich some rich by slop so in the range of I will give you longer in slop they are many men driving fancy cars there have been horrible lives no respect worships in the how many mana doesn't respect me that's why should be saying if women have Sanders they will be happy I marriages they'll pick well and it's not just when you are single when you're married men do better with standards if you live men they don't men don't guide themselves well it's just how men can be reckless is you that would constantly tell them here you can't cross this line and you we mean it when I hear the kind of seasonal men go through hasn't died in somebody's where they have constantly been abused constantly how did you allow me get that far have standards if on your marriage you to let the man know that there's some things we don't do there's some things we don't just some piece you won't take it might look like oh maybe look he wouldn't know what you can't take off you tell him what you can take it's not gonna choose no for you I've never seen anywhere they are selling something where you caught my cell at the prices is high I mean is low and you tell them to increase that's Apple TV phone that's a limb bad you get a like the battery how much about say two thousand the last you say this bad is what to five can I pay you to five example nobody increases anybody's value our the only thing we do Casa is round reduce we lose value people don't know how far or what your value is except you tell them have standards are you here somebody man how is okay with states in what they want to relationships that's why I like how men men understanding if a man just want to be sleeping with you we say it let just be hanging out just be my babe let's just see how it goes men always say what they want let's see how he goes he will tell you I wanna just mess up what you wanna mess around with you it's women on the other hand I never say what they want women up let you did mindset that's let me play along so that he will run and when I marry him I will change him that's woman's taxes I never works out well because this what happens in a marriage a man is money you hope you in ever change a human is money in the man hoping he will change won't it be nice if we could read a man's mind or if you could at least know why he thinks the way he thinks this book my new book titled manual answers your questions many women have found it frustrating dealing with men because men think differently so if you whether a single woman or a mild woman and you want to have interactions with men this book will help you as my new book titled man off how men think I broke down what informs a man see shows why he does the things that he does just like your device that come to the manor considered this your manual for decoding men in your life as newly available is hot off the press you can order from any part of the world they are in and we have boarded soft copy and in hard 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Length: 17min 43sec (1063 seconds)

Published: Fri Jan 31 2020