7 THINGS I BADLY WANT TO TELL WOMEN Part 1 - MANual Conference 2020 - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo

hello ladies were back at that special time of the year again the manual conference the title is several things I badly wanna tell women I have several things but I've burning in my heart and I want to tell you man about [Music] I want to talk about seven things I badly want to tell women so I've been a relationship coach for over twenty something years and I've always been a bit passionate about women because always tell us oh pass the why do we stop two women why is everything look like so because the truth is that is women they always feel the pain of relationships is room and I always feel it even though this whole series is no leah by relationship but you really cannot talk to women and not put that there somewhere it's a part of women's making makeup all right and let me just say this ladies don't don't ever be embarrassed or tired of being interested in relationships it's just um it as a relational being you are just created like that the first thing if saw was a man as the festive encounter so you are naturally gonna be relational it's the same way a woman is a nurturing being because you came with a whoop you came with breast that is a that's already implicated you alright do you understand by creation you will love children you know because you ate your makeup you have physically even created men on the other hand men need relationships just that they are not aware of it is not so much in their consciousness I mean a man incredibly needs a woman if I never know how some men even survive without a woman in their life I've made for a long time now so it's very far into me so if you imagine that could be existing without being married right now I'm so used to having a helper and not just the helper a helper that is better than me praise God you can't drive me if I Drive what are you any figure what I'm saying I've never had a driver I gotta be more the driving to him you want to fire the person I don't if you I'm just gonna drive us down here and not break your present he's supposed to be driving you poor you are doing the driving you fire that guy or you hire a cleaner and you are having to go around.we him or her so say clean this place then but if you are doing the same job and in fact that's what I'm saying so when God designed the home God made man Broadman man and God Himself said I see when God says something you can be arguing with God God made man I looked at man remember that day God had made Abdullah God had made different things he had made the Sun the stars the light everything and it was saying it was good it was good it was good and for the first time God made man I'm God Himself said it's not good God said something he made it's not good for this man to be what you know but I look I'm gonna remedy the situation by creating what so God actually packaged everything that the man did not have and put it in a woman and give that woman to the man so as a woman the truth is that potentially you are extremely more sophisticated and more gifted than the average man totally anything anytime a woman will knock a man of any day and it 101 you are too gifted a lot of things you take for granted it amazes us you are bilities your ability to process things you have bility to observe things you have please to make decisions man away slower that's why they say man she's mobile we meant it's better we may not suffice if a woman is sitting here nobody would know if is a husband or boyfriend our band drop away she city honey will know he will be with her phone and not know that it is going wife a man is sitting here he be tying his phone on his leg before we have passed what the hospice what the hospice world so whatever need to check it the way you are getting it as already implicated you if a man sees a fine girl to Estella ever who knows another girl if they Garrett has a room and wants to scan the room shall scan the room unknown the eligible guys and non-eligible without looking a lot of time guys think that you want approach they do not want our president man adapt less gas you know how you do it now you already know who you want to torture who don't want to talk to men I've decided from the end any room you've checked out everybody checked out how this one is dressed so I can walk only these two guys then we passed there as often as you need to show them what you got baby yeah so much that women approach many men don't know man think that one that was Tara she's the one that was with you somebody get what I'm saying you are extremely sophisticated so you need to know that you need to know that that you are such a blessing and my desires that you start seeing the value yourself many GD just don't know it but you need to also value yourself because men can value you more than you value yourself I've never seen any business and any market when somebody goes to the shop and since how much is this rolls-royce and they tell him two million dollars and he says I want a bill 2.5 million dollars I'm messing that what happens that when they say to be honest people try to bring the price down and that's what happens in life people who try to bring your value down it's up to you to keep your value but what most women sometimes they try to determine their value by what people are pricing them don't follow that people can feel free to price you anything it's up to you to defend your value people price you and if you're not careful they will reduce your price to the lowest possible in fact they even take you for free and take you for granted so several things I want to tell you my number one please have standards ladies have standards oh man I can't say this enough in my years of counseling I usually discover this is all the first areas that women make big mistakes we men always assume that if I lower my standards I will get a good deal with men is totally opposite because men are hunters by lowering your standards you don't help yourself have standards standards protect you standards are crucial to you be your best have standards you are more powerful than you think in this game you are more powerful than you think in this life you are the gift you are the price you had the other thing them see inside every man he genuinely desires to impress you somebody gets what I'm saying oh you'll be amazed in length some guys go to get a woman's attention there are men that are buying things for women and their mothers in the village with a food to it may wanna press you many years ago many many years ago we love dogs I love dogs big dogs massive dogs then I was I was thinking of breathing drugs to sell so I had many dogs in house many so I need there's no way I could take care of the dogs and I need there's no way I could had to have a female household I need a male house help because those dogs were bigger bubbles or any fewer bubbles are but a very massive south african dog has a very very massive big dogs those dogs you don't take them for a walk they take you for what class how massive they are so they pull you when they attack they take you home so I need like I couldn't get a female house empty of glass so I thought it Milhouse L then after a while it became obvious that the male house help you know could not really love domestic things in the house and because he was always dealing with dogs we didn't want him touching jams and all that I'm bringing it to wash dishes or cook so we knew it also discovered a woman to get a female house up so we made the horrible mistake of having ambition of having a male and female house elf together if you do that you're breathing it's not only dogs you breathe you breathe on a beach you're not blind ovary so I just come back now this guy funny lady came he was just my name is business gonna buy his job from the dead lady London you take off his possible what is your flat chest he was going crazy in the house because it woman has come he wants to impress her and that's what's happening this whole world people are doing different much of things just to get woman's attention doing different things they have no business doing just to get woman's attention somebody get what I'm saying have standards the average man really wants to please you Boise see let me tell you it's like it's like ladies understand this now you've gone to shop you've seen it back you'll love this back but you know that in business you can't show too much excitement you do this in every day so you like this babble you see how much since then ah ah your mind I say oh boy you see how somebody you pass then you be check you open in your bio then you come again say ah this Bob yes Uday yeah like I'll give you five games you know it's 10k last yeah okay you know you know you know what you can pay you know you love this bad boy you would do your best that's why this with marriage and relationship when the guy knows he has found a good thing he would keep trying to see how I can push you and unfortunately for women this we women think women did this what happens men are very easy I mean I'm very used to stating what they want in relation you see men and I am motion out they are transactional okay women marry because I love you men marry because I need you transactional semantically how can I gain from my English woman if she well-to-do she hard-working as you take care of kids but should men are transactional in their love women emotional India love so you ma can love somebody like there's no business love in a person why do you love him and I just love him men are never like that men we always mention something that you are adding or doing for them so when a man enters your life he is very clear about what he wants if he just wants to be sleeping which you make it clear I just want us to B I just wanted to be going I ought to be hanging out I just want us to be together he would try not to promise what he doesn't want and if you take that offer I just want us to be hanging out if that's okay for you do we enjoy it and when it started when when you say I'm now I'm tired of us man I'm very clear then we say what they want if they want to mess you up if they just want to use you don't keep you as a torchic fortune then we tell you it was all about sex then we tell you the problem woman's a woman are very shy about saying what they want out of their relationship so you might be thinking in our mind now if I just pretend and if I just give him all he wants maybe I would get all I want bad decision-making and usually ends up with the man getting all he wants and human not getting anything she wants so we have lots of mighties where women have resentment and loads because she has she married with the hope but she never made this hope Claire she does my with a secret open I heard that maybe if I do everything he wants he will do something I want not only that men are not that selfless men I usually selfish won't it be nice if we could read a man's mind or if you could at least know why he thinks the way he thinks this book my new book titled manual answers your questions many women have found it frustrating dealing with men because men think differently so if you whether a single woman or a married woman and you want to have interactions with men this book will help you as my new book titled man or how men think I broke down what informs him as he shows why he does the things that he does just like your device that comes to the manor considered this your manual for decoding men in your life its newly available is hot off the press you can connect from any part of the world they are in and we have put in soft copy and in hard copy I look forward to sending you this copy of this book rush right now and get it it will bless you and tell us the recommended really [Music] you

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Length: 13min 21sec (801 seconds)

Published: Mon Feb 03 2020