WHY YOU CAN'T LET GO OF A MAN THAT'S NOT GOOD FOR YOU:

good night everybody hope everybody's doing good on this wonderful Saturday night praying for all of my my babies in Houston Texas I want you all to stay safe we're not going to have a worship tomorrow at new home Family Worship Center Houston Houston New Orleans new home Houston will not have worship tomorrow because of the flooding and I don't want don't want you on the roads and possibly running into things that could be hazardous so just chill I'll see you all Wednesday night new home Houston take care of yourselves don't run around the street take this thing very seriously but I wanted to look at something tonight in fact about it if Wednesday night when I get back there we may have relationship Wednesday at new home Houston the very same thing we did in New Orleans East this week we'll do that in Houston Wednesday night where we're dealing with the things men and women misunderstand about one another it was powerful in New Orleans and so I'm thinking about doing it in Houston on Wednesday night but this thing has been on my mind for a minute now about why is it that and I don't I don't know if I have a definitive answer but the question just lingers at the front of my mind why is it that a woman in particular cannot let go of a man that has proven to be detrimental toxic deplorable why is it that she she cannot let let this man go and of course it happens with men as well you know when men fall in love with a woman and she doesn't love them back men have sometimes even a harder time letting go of a woman that they really love but she didn't love them back or did not love them the same way but more often it's women why is that you know and I was looking at you go into Genesis you look in Genesis God created Adam and Eve and he commanded that man should leave his father and his mother and cleave to his wife a few things you can see in that number one you see that God never intended that the soul of the psyche would be set up that we should ever feel that we cannot separate from people because if he says a man should leave his father and his mother the people that birth you protected you and raised you and brought you to manhood if God says man should leave them it means that God has equipped man when man is in his rightful state in place to be able to walk away from relationships in a healthy fashion and then God says to man cleave to your woman cleave to your wife he has to command him to cleave to his wife because man was created in a natural state of individuality Adam was created first he was created next so it was the it's the second nature of a whole man or a whole woman to be comfortable complete and at ease with themselves and God so when we get to this thing where we deal with soul ties and we're dealing with people who say I can't let him go he's abused me for you know he's done this to me he's cursed me he's beat me he's cheated on me but I still love him is that really love is that really love or is that is that demonic influence now there's this illustration that the Lord gave Lisa and I the other day and this illustration can be used in a number of ways we're going to use it she's going to use it at our Royals marriage seminar which is happening October the 14th you can go and register now the one in Houston Texas is happening October the 14th it's just $50 per couple we're hosting 100 couples in Houston and Lisa and I are teaching it but here's illustration and this depicts for you what your life looks like in what your life becomes when you engage relationships that are not ordained of God an illustration is this imagine I had before you a tennis shoe and that tennis shoe would have one lace but that one lace would have two ends or two tips now if you lace that tennis shoe if you use those two ends the proper way it comes out to be a beautiful bowl that you can tighten you can untie with ease it's an easy flow but if you tie the two ends together in a wrong fashion you don't create a bowl you create knots and see when you begin to develop relationships with people based purely on perversion based purely on sex based purely on lies and deceit you know when you're sleeping with another woman's husband or you know you just you got this man bringing you all outside of your sphere of principle and you're creating these these relationships that outside of the will of God you are creating knots and the thing about strings that are a string that is not it is that the knot is very easy to make but it's very hard to undo and in in some cases you create one not up on top of another not and that depicts that somewhat depicts the relationship that says to a person I can't let him go there's something psychotic about that there's something psychotic about saying to yourself I cannot let a person go that is destroying my future in my life there's something psychotic about you opening your mouth and saying I just love him he's his beaten year he's cheated on you he's taken all of your money he talks to you like you're trash and something in your mind says I can't let go it's psychotic and it's demonic you have developed a relationship you've developed a soul time that is consisting of knots and you do not know how to release yourself from it now here's the thing the Lord the another vision the Lord gave me relative to the soul time when he showed me those stripper string on the shoe the Lord said soul ties are created where there are loose ends soul ties are created wherever there are loose ends see there are some things that you need to perfect there's some things you need to get together there are some things that you need to master personally before you engage another person in terms of any kind of significant relationship when you go into these relationships with these loose ends low self-esteem no identity having overcome your abandonment issue from the previous person still emotionally reeling from the emotional abuse out of the previous relationship all of these things become loose ends that the enemy uses to tie your life up into a bowl of poison let me show you something and then I'm going to get off of here in a math you chapter number 22 Matthew 22 starting at verse 37 it says Jesus said unto Him thou shalt love the Lord thy God now listen to this very carefully thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart and with all thy soul and with all thy mind this is the first and Great Commandment he says you suppose the love God with all of your soul all of your heart and all of your mind I'm just curious let me see let me see what another translation reads I'm just curious I don't know what it's saying but nummy know here it is an amplified it says and he replied to him you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind or intellect the same thing basically let me see what the message Bible version is saying y'all with me jesus said love the Lord your God with all your passion and prayer and intelligence this is the most important the first on any list love the Lord your God with all your passion and prayer and intelligence what is my point what is my point why are we having all of these relationship risen experiences where we're tied to all of these people and we don't know how it happened and we don't know how to break free from it and and I just rather I just almost rather be gone than to be without him or to be without her how did this happen how about where did you get that love from where did that come from because the Bible I'm reading is saying that we are to love the Lord our God with all our soul all our heart and all of our minds meaning what God is supposed to have all of me the first soul time I am supposed to have is a so tied to God and then it is out of the context of that relationship that loving relationship with God that all other subsequent relationships are developed my relationship with the spouse my relationship with family and friends they are all relationships that are subordinate to my relationship with God because my love relationship with God is the what love him with all all of my heart all of my soul all of my mind so when I'm sitting and I'm saying I'm getting ready to lose my mind over this woman or this I'm getting ready to lose my mind over this man we know that there was a loose in in your life that you did not tie properly to God when you allow somebody to get so deep into your soul but they can't control you and can steer you away from the perfect will of God for your life and a part of you can desire to want to do what God has called you to do but another part of you can't say no you know that you have you have a loose end there's a part of you in other words that belongs to God that you've given to someone else and now Satan is using that occasion that infraction that desecration of that part of your life it is desecrating are y'all with me and so you trying to figure out why are these things going on it's because you have not it really boils down to in many instances you have not really made God number one that's why you have all of these demonic soul ties develop you've not made God number one you have people in your life that you are using because you you know you know that the relationship is not healthy for you but because you you were abandoned by your first or two men now the last thing you want to see is another man walk out on you so you'd rather hold on cling to a man that's clearly no good for you just to see just to not have to see another man walk out on you you got issues you have personal issues that that must be dealt with because I'm gonna tell you anything any day of the week that you wake up and you say I cannot live without so-and-so I don't know what I'm gonna do without so-and-so I keep thinking about so-and-so and my mind is stuck on so-and-so on you bout to tell your family up running behind a soul time you have some loose ends and if you pay attention you're not creating bows you create nuts because it's not our deigned and this stuff is easy to get into but it's hell to get out of it's easy to get into but it's hell to come out of and so I wanted to just come today and talk to y'all you you you know you got you got some work to do man first thing you got to do I don't have my book in front of me you don't have my book so ties go to ROC Blake's comm pick it up it'll bless your life first thing you got to do is you got to repent for your part in this because see you engage this stuff you open this door you played all those freaky sexual games and you did all that stuff that opened you up to all kinds of demonic influence you need to repent for that stuff and in the second thing you need to do is that you need to go and confess to somebody that's gonna hold you accountable because somebody needs to be able to pull your coat string when you going off the deep end third thing you need to do is get your mind renewed with the Word of God if you had as much word in you as you have that trash we wouldn't be having this conversation right now you need some word you can't overcome you can't get your soul cleanse but through the Word of God it is the Word of God you're clean through the word which I have spoken unto you is what the Lord says you got to get your mind filled with the Word of God and then you got to pray for the Holy Spirit to give you a clear and perfect revelation of who you are in him the reason you're clinging to someone else is because you've not discovered your own individuality the reason you feel a strong need for someone else is because you have not discovered your own sense of individuality you need a you need a revelation of who you are it's just time for you to put your foot down and to declare I will not be in bondage to this any longer and invite the Holy Spirit to come into this situation to break this thing off of your life because you are wasting your life you are destroying great relationships and destroying families with this foolishness you carrying on you need to break this thing this is spiritual warfare break this thing in the name of Jesus and I mean break it now by the power of the Holy Spirit no longer will you be around here like a puppet to some man that has misused your some woman that has misused you all of that all of the time you've been with them it's time for you to be free in the name of Jesus and I'm gone I'm gone I'm gone but it's time for you to be free block them cut them off that's everything isolation isolation isolation is probably the strongest maneuver you can make in breaking a soul tie isolate yourself from the poison in God will meet you at the point that you say I'm ready to do this but I'm here to tell you isn't out of God it's demonic you're psychotic you were never designed to be so dependent on another person break it in the name of Jesus all right I love you all have a great night come visit me a new home if you're anywhere in New Orleans tomorrow morning 7:30 16 16 Robert Blake senior hats and caps we blend into generations old school music new school music and I'm talking about three things that keep you constantly coming up with what you don't want why is it that you keep getting what you don't want they're three things I want to share with you about why people constantly get what they do not want in life it's going to be a blessing and of course East New Orleans eight thirty 13800 Haim Boulevard meet us out there it's going to be a blessing I'll see you at those two services Houston y'all shut down relax yourselves if you if you if you if you love God enough go and pay your tithes online but I'll see you on Wednesday night if you pay your tithes online get past a little email or text message just encourage my heart for me to see that some of my babies actually love God like that well I love you all I see my wife I see to nail dr. Carter who else is on I can't make out anybody else can't make out anybody else but I love you all have a great one take care of my sweet my wife I love you Ben vacation god bless you Keisha I love you baby it's my baby she's recuperating y'all all right I gotta go you're on time I'll talk to y'all tomorrow I hope to see you at church tomorrow record number if your first-time visitor been wanting to come tomorrow's a great time to come I'd love to hug your neck and I like to take pictures I would like to see my pictures on Facebook and stuff so come take some pictures with me tomorrow come take some pictures with me tomorrow it's gonna be an amazing word and an amazing worship experience like you've never experienced and hey don't forget man September 12 13 and 14 we're having the dreamers Institute and Bishop Keith Clark is coming to talk to us each 90s are lecture and he's talking about principles for living the best version of your life now but the thing I'm more excited about is that our young emerging leaders of fo CFI pastor Dee Lewis who is our oversee of young leadership darica Marie who's the overseer of young women in the new home ministries and - Ann Washington past of the love church Beth's best-selling essence off and all that kind of thing they're going to be conducting the empowerment sessions every evening at 6 o'clock in these sessions are designed for young Millennials young people and even older people but the topics and in the the presenters are all young people millennial era and they're gonna be dealing with issues like I'm saved but I still won't sex what do I do that's a real deal we don't talk about it in the church I'm saved that - Ann wrote a book it doesn't say I'm saved it says I'm saved and horny that is a word you know what do I do what we're gonna talk about it and that's going to be her session and then I think we're gonna deal with I'm saved and educated and still don't know my purpose and then we're gonna deal with I'm saved educated whatever whatever whatever still can't find mr. missus right so I need you all this is free there's no registration I want you all to be at that meeting I want the churches packed at six o'clock before we ever get to the seven o'clock hour it's going to be an amazing event but I enjoyed the video with you and firstly thank you god bless you baby thank you so that's what's going on man so y'all mark it down on September 12 13 and 14 mark it down mark it down it's gonna be amazing only let if only I live close enough it's gonna be amazing all right I gotta go have a great night pray for me now pray for me pray did I sleep well tonight that I have great energy tomorrow and that the Lord will just bless and keep this rain back god bless you spread the word for me go to my facebook page follow me there RC Blake's RC Blake's I can't take on any more friends but you can follow me there and share my stuff especially relative to the dreamers Institute share that you can find me on go to my youtube channel that's where I really need y'all to go go to my youtube channel I have so many videos there that I think would bless you and you find me on YouTube at under Robert Blake's not roc Blake's but Robert Blake's and subscribe to my channel and start checking my stuff out alright I love you all have a great one I'll talk to you and I'll see you tomorrow god bless

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Published: Sat Aug 26 2017