5 THINGS QUEENS NEVER NEGOTIATE by R.C. BLAKES

good evening good evening good evening I guess depending on what part of the world you in because for some of you who it's early in the morning I'm RC Blake's if this is your first time checking out my channel i'm RC Blake's I am I'm a pastor I'm a man I'm an author I'm a husband I'm a father I'm you know all of that and I like to come on YouTube and I like to discuss issues that are relevant to me and quite often it's relevant to other people I like to discuss issues surrounding life and people I love people and I'm a student of life I'm no psychologist I'm no therapist I'm no licensed counselor just to pass it in a man and I've written a book entitled queen ology and when you break that you know that whole saying up queen ology or that whole theme it speaks of the study of Queens and what this particular book and this particular movement does is it impacts the woman's self-awareness it impacts the woman's self-consciousness and it's written from a father's perspective you know it's just me as a man writing to a generation of women who largely have not had fathers to speak into their lives it's me speaking as a father word to his daughter relative to how Queens function in the earth you know building from the premise that all women are Queens most are just unaware every woman is born a queen most are just uninformed and we call that broken consciousness if you follow my my teachings or my you read my books or you to my conferences you begin to understand this language we call that broken consciousness it is when a woman has been separated from her true identity to the point that she cannot function on the level the creator made her for and this is what you see with many women today you see many women who are struggling with broken consciousness and it's the imagery of a queen well let me say this before I say that when a woman struggles with broken consciousness she is then toyed with by the world and when we say the world were largely talking about a perverted male society that seeks to manipulate use and abuse the value called woman when a woman is not aware of who she is she is abused by the world and the imagery of that is a queen on a corner being pimped by a clown the question we often ask inside of queen ology is how does a PhD of a woman be manipulated by a GED of a man and that that's not making little or making light of any educational position because intelligence has absolutely nothing to do with degrees earn some of the most foolish people in the world that I know have multiple degrees and some of the wisest have none but it speaks to a woman who is everything being manipulated by men who are quite often shallow and empty how does that happen so that's just an introduction someone told me that I should not approach my sessions on YouTube as though everyone knows me because some do not and that is so true if this is not your first time watching live I'm certain that there will be many of you who will thank you so much I'm certain that there will be many of you who will watch for the first time the replay so that's an introduction to me and who I am and what I do now tonight I want to look at something that was just kind of burning in my heart to the point that I hope my signal is good to the point that I sat on the back porch and and little religious kind of wrote this out and came in immediately and sat down and set up to talk to you and I would love for you to share this if you have Facebook I'd love you to share it on Facebook presently we have three hundred and ninety six of you in here I'm looking for that number to climb so I need you to give me some thumbs up they tell me that that helps the channel I don't know all of these things about you know that but I just listen to what people tell me who do know I want to talk tonight about five non-negotiables of a queen conscious woman five non-negotiables of a queen conscious woman you know what a negotiation is it's when you and someone else it's when you guys are kind of going back and forth relative to what kind of deal you want to make surrounding whatever particular item you know it's thank you so much it's kind of like when you go to the car dealership dealership you're kind of a custom we are kind of a custom at least at least in the United States of America we're custom to going through the whole song and dance of negotiating you know they tell me well can't do it for more than this and you're walking away from the table saying well I don't want them going down the street and they calling you back and you know just negotiating going back and forth over this what car well there's a certain level that a queen conscious woman sees herself at views herself at and there's certain things that are just not negotiable and the negotiable items do not start when the Queen enters the world there are certain things that the Queen refuses to negotiate even within her own mind her her stability is established within her and the things watch this she refuses to entertain within herself to the point that when the woman when the Queen walks into the earth walks into the world the world picks up on her presence because she has come to a certain and definite conclusion about herself and what she will and/or will not tolerate from herself so before she even it's kind of like going back to the car dealership scenario it's kind of like knowing what you want to pay for this car period and and going into the dealership and saying to the people immediately well this is the car I'd like to have but this is what I'm paying period now you know we're not gonna haggle you're not gonna play the little dance in a song with me this is what I'm willing to pay well when you enter in with that mindset and they realize that you're not desperate to buy this car from them and watch this that you do have excellent credit and you have options well then they they cut the fat out and they stop playing with you well when a queen has certain things that she's established in her own heart that she says within herself this is what I'm not going to tolerate within meat like it one of the chapters in the book queen ology Queens do not tolerate insecurities within herself she does not tolerate insecurities there are certain things that you as a woman cannot allow to play out even in your thinking there are certain things that you have to just make up your mind I'm not tolerating that not out of me because if I tolerate this out of me the world will take advantage whatever I tolerate the world will take advantage of now what is a non-negotiable this is my this is my definition for what that's worth a non-negotiable is a standard that you are fundamentally incapable of falling beneath you've established I'm sitting in in my house while there's a floor and there's a ceiling well the foundation of this house cannot be altered we cannot go lower we cannot go lower thank you now we can go higher we can you know knock the roof off this place and possibly put another level on it but you cannot goal or a non-negotiable is a standard that you are fundamentally incapable of falling or going beneath it is a behavior that would break your soul and divorce you from yourself Thank You Denise thank you it's hard for me to read some of your name so if I don't call your name is because it's just hard for me to read it thank you it is a behavior that would break your soul and divorce you from yourself it's a non-negotiable you know like as a man as a leader as a pastor there are non-negotiables in my life that I didn't have prior when I was a younger man and wasn't really conscious there were there were certain things that I would tolerate well there's certain things I don't tolerate out of me you know it's a non-negotiable I'm going to be a man of my word I'm going to be a faithful man I'm going to be a trustworthy man I'm going to be a safe man these are non negotiables you know these are Nanak wherever you meet me in the world you're gonna find me functioning in the same in sync with those standards for myself that I'm going to live what I preach you know you're not gonna find me on here preaching one thing and then you see me out in the street or somewhere in the country or in other parts of the world and doing something different these are non-negotiables these are things that what I as a man don't tolerate so when I walk into the world I walk into the world with my mindset established and pay attention to that word mindset see all of us have a mindset the question is who set your mind well for Queens and for Kings we establish our mindset before we enter the world the world does not impose its mind upon us the world does not set our minds we establish our own mindset what our standards are before we enter the world and there's some work some internal self work that every Queen must do in her own brain in her own mind in her own soul before she enters the world because the world is constantly seeking to influence the Queen and if the Queen does not have her mind set the world will influence her into a lesser version of herself Bible says it puts it this way in Romans 12 and 2 it says and be not conformed to this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind the world is constantly pressuring to squeeze you into a miniature version of yourself the world is constantly pressuring you to turn you into a female slave I call it female slave conditioning where you do not see yourself as a queen where you where you see yourself as purely a sexual object where you go into public half naked to entertain men who don't even matter that's female slave conditioning a queen has to she cannot be conformed but she's transformed by the renewing of her mind in other words she she builds her self-esteem even if she's unfortunate the sense that she may not have had a biological father to pour into her self-esteem she works on her own soul to the point that when she enters the world she enters it with confidence and with certainty and that she's no toy to be played with and she's not to be manipulated she is not so naive and gullible that she is you know malleable in the hands of a perverted society but she knows who she is she knows what she's worth and she demands her price because she has certain non-negotiables now stay with me and I'll jump right in only have five only a five number one okay now I wrote these understanding I just left off of the porch with this so I wrote these as I was thinking them out and and and I thought them out as if I were you you know and so I'm I wrote them like this I wrote them like this and you'll be able to extract from it what the non-negotiable is here's how I wrote number one if I do not learn to define myself from within myself I will forever be defined by someone else if I do not learn to define myself from within myself I will forever be defined by someone else now where did that stem from well I kind of read this to be completely honest I kind of read this thought somewhere on social media it wasn't exactly like this but it was admit exactly what this means if if a woman does not define herself from within herself she will always be defined by someone else so from that I would extract the non-negotiable is I I can never allow myself to view myself as worthy or worthless based on who I am attached - I must establish thank you Margherita thank you so much as a woman you must establish your sense of self and your value and worth from within you so those of you who are seeking relationships and the real basis of your desire for the relationship is that you do not really feel defined without one you automatically know that you're not really ready for a relationship because as a queen conscious woman one of your non-negotiables with yourself has to be I will never allow myself to be defined by my connection to someone else why is that important you're not certain that someone else is always going to be present in your life and if you're not if you're not capable of finding a sense of definition and peace and fulfillment within you yourself as an individual you automatically know what I'm not healthy I'm not healthy if you're if I don't male or female if you're sitting there and you cannot fathom a sense a healthy sense of identity and the steam by yourself as an individual you automatically know that you're not healthy if if being single to you is just the end of the world and you know you're on the brink of a breakdown because you you're not engaged or you're not married or you're not you don't have somebody you're going out with you automatically know that you're not healthy and you've allowed yourself to sink there and to be defined by someone else because you've not really defined yourself from within see like me as an individual I think I really thank God that I am completely my sense of identity my sense of value and worth contained I don't need organizations I don't need titles I don't need people to feel like I'm RSC blinks I don't need money I don't need things you know I don't I have a I have a car here and that car that truck is it's the only vehicle I have here in the city of New Orleans and it's I think it's about 15 about 15 years old just on the KY a people say oh you drive a 15 yo and it's not in the best of shape it rides great but it doesn't look the best you know but I'm not defined by that stuff my sense of definition comes from with in me I'm not defined by relationship so when people that I thought would have been in my life forever choose to leave my life so be it I mean I hurt like anyone else you know I won't act like it doesn't bother me bothers me like it bothers anyone else but it doesn't shake me a break me because my sense of definition is from within as much as I love my wife Lisa and you all ever anybody that knows me knows how much I love my wife my sense of definition does not come from her now god forbid I would not want to try to live without her but I can in a will if I have to because I'm defined from within it's me and God that brings definition to me that's a non-negotiable when I start finding myself defining myself and ascribing value to myself based on who I'm connected to our who's connected to me I didn't know I have to go back and I have to do some self work because that's never healthy that's never healthy I'll go as far as to say this even when you have children it's not wise to define yourself by your children because you have your children to raise your children that your children may grow up and become independent and leave and the day will come just like Lisa and I that all of your children are gonna be gone and you're gonna be in the house just you and your spouse urges you you and you cannot okay let me lead that along I can feel them getting on somebody's nerves Acts chapter 17 verse 28 says for in him God we live and move and have our being it is in God that I live and I move and I have my being that's a non-negotiable for Queen I'm never going to allow myself to be defined as a king you as a queen must never allow yourself to be defined by anyone outside of you and only one only ones that are within you are you in God look what the Bible says in second Timothy three six and seven chapter three verses 6 and 7 for this sort are they which creep into houses and lead captives silly women laden with sins led away with divers lust wanting all kinds of stuff lusting after all kinds of things ever learning and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth these women know what's right know what they need but they're never able to perform it in the Bible calls them silly which means they're women without dignity they are women without dignity because they have not taken the time to go inside and to locate their self-esteem bank and to fill it with those things that stem from God they have allowed the world to conform them into a miniature version of who they really are so though they're Queens they function like slaves and the perverted male society sniffs them out and takes advantage of them every time so if you if you if you've been a woman that's been running around your girlfriend some on how you just don't know how you're gonna make it in 2020 without a man you have work to do BAE you have a lot of work to do and those of you who have girlfriends that have said stuff like that you cannot just sit there and let her say toxic stuff like that that's crazy to say you cannot control when someone else is going to be in your life when someone else is going to show up in your life or if someone else is going to stay in your life you cannot control that what you can control is your own soul so you must learn to define yourself from within yourself if you don't you will forever be defined by someone else and that's a Mis definition so hope that made sense number two happiness now listen to this one very very carefully listen to this one very very carefully happiness attained at the expense of my virtue is short-lived and shallow and your virtue is your excellence you know there's an excellent way to live life and that which is excellent is that which meshes with your values your sense of God and your purpose well when you compromise your values your sense of God and your purpose for something that gives you moment momentary thrill you're deceiving yourself so I'll read it again happiness attained at the expense of my virtue is short-lived and shallow now can I just get straight to it and I know that you know this is a different day in age and sometimes I'm called antiquated and old fogey and all of this kind of thing and I get it you know I am I am a lot older than a whole lot of you that probably watched me and my values are probably different than a lot of y'all's but see all this jumping you as a woman jumping in the bed with every man fooling yourself to mug you happy with that you not happy with that you're not happy with that you're not you're not happy with that you just lying you are not happy with that just in and out of bits with men that you don't even know come on now you not had something broken in you this is why you behave like that something is broken in you and you have been slave conditioned through music through movies through literature to believe that you have to be like this and I almost said what this is you have to be like this to be accepted by people who don't even matter your queen performing for congregation of clowns you're not happy with that and though you know it might get you in the club and you might ride in the car and all that kind of thing and you might you might drink champagne for a night when you when you wake up and you come to yourself and you realize what you've done and what you've given up for nothing you what what you've given up for nothing you're gonna lay your body down for nothing for champagne or riding a car that don't even belong to you he probably rented the car though you don't y'all don't know that you can rent extravagant cars now and you laying in the bed just for some pictures on Instagram to say you was with so-and-so come on man happiness attained at the expense of my virtue is short-lived and shallow so what's the non-negotiable I can never compromise my virtue I have to always think I have to always think through my choices because I can never compromise my virtue you know what happens when you compromise your virtue you may be happy for that for that night or whatever but when you wake up the next morning and you you have to look yourself in the mirror the one person you will never be able to get rid of is you and when you have to wake up in the morning and then you have to look yourself in the mirror because you compromised your virtue for nothing it ain't gonna be a pretty picture and I know you may be cutting me off and you may not like me and you may send me some bad you may give me a whole bunch of thumbs down call me pops and all that I think I can be pops I'm I ain't got no problem being pops I my playboy days are over I'm an old man trying to educate a new generation so I'm cool with being pops but at the end of the day you ain't gonna be happy with yourself compromising your virtue there are standards that you have that your mama gave you your grandma gave you your church gave you wherever you go gave you and when you start falling beneath those standards see you can you can tear the roof off of this house and it can be repaired but when you destroy if you crack the foundation all the way through and you destroy the foundation the whole house goes there's certain things relative to your virtue that are the foundation of your soul and so many women your souls are broken because you have compromised too much for so little you're never to compromise your virtue you're never to compromise your virtue your virtue is supposed to be a non-negotiable you mean the time it's gonna take that oh no I'm how I can't do that I can't do that you know like for instance you know I'll give you an example there are a lot of people over the last over the over the over the last few years we've reached out to me said well you know we'd like to partner with you can you promote this or promote that I'm looking to make okay no that doesn't that doesn't mention with who I am that doesn't mention it will pay X amount mm-hmm that doesn't mesh with Who I am mm-hmm that doesn't that doesn't play into my mission that doesn't speak to my core values I cannot compromise my virtue for a dollar because dollars are spent and they're gone but when your virtue has been shattered you got to live with that okay look what the Bible says in Proverbs 14 12 and 13 there's a way listen to the wisdom of the scriptures there's a way which seemeth right unto a man let me just change it a little there's a way which right unto a queen but the end thereof are the ways of death watch what the next verse is even and laughter the heart is sorrowful and the end of that mirth is heaviness that's deep says there's a way that seems right to you but you get involved in it it ends up in death and he says even even in your laughter the heart is sorrowful you're laughing and you grinning and you you snapping things on for Instagram and all of this kind of thing or or are the whatever on on YouTube now but at the you know your heart is full of sorrow and he says at the end of that mirth is heaviness depression it ends in depression and there's some on here who can testify of that now that they did things where they knew they were compromising their virtue and it brought them into a place a pit of depression it brought them into a pit of depression you know that's the that's that's you know really the self-knowledge self-awareness is is probably the biggest I think it's one of the biggest components of living a consistent stable and successful life because I understand me and I know my I know my standards and I know the boundaries in my life I don't compromise I don't even get close I don't allow myself to even get close to compromising my virtues and my values because I know I know I can't deal with the aftermath of that you know what I mean it would take too much if if I like went off the rails for instance you know and I'm not I'm not talking like I'm just you know I'm not perfect but I'm smart enough to realize I'm not perfect if I just like went off the rails and became or behaved in a manner that is completely and totally opposite of what I portray in my ministry social media in the public or wherever I already know that the depression and the heaviness that would follow that because of my awareness because I would be so aware that I have not so much disappointed you or anyone else but how disappointed me and how disappointed God and see you have to understand there's certain things you cannot get away with and happiness attained at the expense of my virtue is short-lived and shallow that stuff is not gonna last it's not gonna last it's not gonna last and I'll add this before I move on to 0.3 only half five when somebody demands or even suggest that you make a deposit of your virtues to win them you automatically know you're being played now what do I mean by that for man I said well you know yeah you know you really love me give me something mm-hmm you automatically know there's some game being run your virtue is not to be number three let me get off of that the inability is number three is number three the inability to reject less than I deserve is an invitation to self abuse I'll read it again the inability for me to reject less than I deserve is an invitation to self abuse now what do I mean by that when you're of the mindset that you will compromise and you will accept less than you know your worth or deserve you are then unknowingly participating in self abuse because once you accept less the price keeps dropping and you accept less and less and less and so you you put up with stuff so what's the non-negotiable I will never I will never accept less than I deserve so I'm not when it comes down to relationships I'm not gonna sit up here and talk about well I'm 50 years old or I'm 40 years old I'm 60 years old and you know if your woman is it's just a wonder you know that a man even want me at this age what are you talking about what are you talking about are you losing your mind it's better for you to be whole and happy by yourself then to be locked up in a force of a relationship with somebody who is not brought to the table what you completely deserve so the inability to reject you see you got to be willing to turn some stuff away to really run up on what God really has for you there are too many of you that are saying yes to everything that's how you that's how you you move in and out of so many different relationships you're not rejecting anything you're not rejecting anything and the reason you're not rejecting anything is because you just feel so privileged that this clown and all men are not clowns don't get me wrong this is not a men's bashing session here all men are not clowns you have some Kings out there the problem is that too many times the Queen's are preoccupied with the clowns and when the Kings pass by you've you've accepted less than you deserve whereas if you learn to reject what you know is beneath you you then leave space and you leave room for what you really deserve right now here's a real-life example of you know of how this works or how it's worked in my life anybody that knows my story knows my testimony I had been involved in I won't call them relationships but situation ships from a very young kid one one girl one woman after another and when I was a very young man I was always attracted to older women it was older women that sexualized me prematurely I didn't realize that that was sexual abuse because the world told me I was the man I was having sex with older women as young as I was I didn't realize I had been sexually abused and so I had this thing for older women I would always have these older women and I had multiple relationships all of my life from a very young man I had been divorced clearly because of me clearly because of me you don't need to read my testimony too much to understand that I had to be the cause I was absolutely the cause it wasn't until I had never been faithful to a woman never never wanted to be faithful to a woman I never claimed to want to be faithful to no woman I just it just wasn't me God called me to preach I said I hide it's gonna work because you know I don't wanna be faithful to no woman you know how I feel about women you know how I feel about sex how is this gonna work and man one day God got a hold of me and something shifted in me and I felt God God showed me what he wanted to do with my life but he said I can't do it with you the way you are now and they have to be some things within me that fundamentally changed and I came to this place where I was content with God I was a young man and I was content with God and the vision and the purpose that God had set before me to the point that some people said oh he's gay he's gay some women say he's gay because I didn't you know wasn't dealing with them anymore but anybody you know Rachel's was blind and his presently dead and Ray Charles can see that there's nothing gay about me I nothing but it was to that extent they had never seen a young black man that had lived the kind of life I had lived and had changed so drastic I didn't want I didn't need a relationship I didn't want one and so it wasn't until then here's the his there is the shot of it God didn't send me my soulmate until I had gotten to a point that I was capable of rejecting less I was no longer in a position where I was addicted to sex I didn't have I didn't none of that it wasn't until I got into a place where I was perfectly fine with God and my life was clear and open because I rejected everything that was not for my life I had come to a place where I could reject it then God sends my wife into my life and we've gone on 25 years married we had we had gone out on how many years but I didn't this is the first woman that I have ever been faithful to this is the first woman that I've had a relationship with over X amount of years none of my relationships last lasted clearly you can see why but you have to have the ability to reject less than you deserve because if you don't it's an invitation to self abuse when you start accepting less than you deserve the world will bring you lower and lower and lower and lower and lower especially as a woman especially as a woman when you start devaluing yourself and you start looking at the calendar and you start looking at your age and you start settling for stuff especially in relationships because you're a certain age Luke 17 3 says take heed to yourselves if thy brother trespass against thee rebuke him and if he repent forgive him now what's the principle I'm pulling out of there when stuff is not right you have to articulate it you can't just keep settling and pushing stuff under the rug you have to articulate it the inability to reject less than I deserve is an invitation to self abuse so if if if my articulating my truth is going to drive you away from me it means that our season is up anyway thank you so much thank you so much number four listen to this one strength is my only option to entertain ideas of weakness is self-sabotage strength is my only option to entertain ideas of weakness is self-sabotage what's the non-negotiable I don't have I don't have an option I am NOT weak I cannot be weak I will not be weak as a woman you don't have the option the world does not afford you the option to be weak even when God blesses you with a husband you're going to have to be a strong woman because the world is coming so and you know viciously that it will require the strength of the king and the queen at times you have no option to be weak you cannot you cannot entertain weakness not even in your mind you can't even let that come out of your mouth you don't even put that energy in there I just came at you and I can't take it come on man come on man you ain't got nobody else to fall back on but you and God in most cases you don't have that you don't have the option to be weak strength is your only option you cannot entertain not even the thought of weakness as a woman when you when you're weak it's like you know they tell me I'm you know I don't deal with dogs I'm just I let I love the way other people dogs look but I don't deal I'm scared of dog you know but they tell me dogs can smell fear the world can smell weakness and as a woman you got to walk strong that doesn't mean that you you masculinize yourself and you're walking like a dude no no no it doesn't mean that you become you know you know something fight for to a man that might be a potential suitor but it means that you walk with a confidence and a certainty and even when it feels like life is unraveling in your private life you don't bring that out into the public you don't broadcast that all over social media you can never portray weakness as a woman this is the wrong world for it you all own Facebook and Instagram with all of this weak talk and you have you have predatory men that will sniff it out and be at your front door and manipulate you with your own mindset strength is your only option look what the Bible says in Proverbs 24 and 10 if thou faint in the day of adversity I strength this small meaning your what when he says your strength is small what he's talking about is you're in a constitution meaning what you have self work to do meaning you need to grow from the inside out as a woman you have work to do every time every every little test that comes against you you faint new if you notice ain't nobody to catch you carry granny here no mo he can't catch you huh whoever the old stars movie stars were they ain't here to catch you chivalry you know best stop all that thing you better stop all that and fainting as a woman you better stand up on your own two feet and you better be strong like God created you that's that's a that's a myth anyway that you know y'all so weak the Bible calls you the weaker vessel but it never called you weak women are some of the strongest creatures on the planet you got to behave like that you can't buy into that female slave conditioning oh I'm just a woman I'm just weak cuz they ain't nobody that'll catch you bait see it's easy to fall out when you got somebody to catch it but huh you know how you're gonna fall out hit my head on that piano over there bust my head on this thing you wake me wake up me and I wake up cuz I done fainted no no mm-hmm I'm strong B I got to stand I don't have no choice but to stand some of y'all got your babies depending on you you ain't got no choice but to stand you got to give up on this idea that you weakened you can't take it and old me poor me and all this kind of stuff you got to give up on all of that that don't work no more I got to be strong you can't even entertain that that's a non-negotiable I got to be strong I've got to be strong now when God blesses you with a husband you know deal look break you know your man hold you up and all that but Kings don't need no weak clean even Kings are looking for strong Queens ain't got no option and then number five and I'm out of here self-reliance is a must self-reliance self-reliance is a must assistance is a bonus you have to start you have to this has to be a non-negotiable I will make my plans based on God and me if God blesses me with someone to help me that's a bonus self-reliance is a must I must always be in a position where I am self-reliant as a king as a queen I must always be in a position where I am self-reliant doesn't mean that I'm not able to accept help when help shows up but I view that help as a bonus not a given self-reliance is a must assistance is a bonus so all this whining about you don't have nobody won't hear that God has put within you everything you need to manifest to actualize to materialize the vision he's put in you and to see your potential come to fruition all of that is within you if God blesses you with somebody to help you great but that's that's a bonus what is a given is that self-reliance is a must as a woman as a queen you must be self-reliant that means a few things that means a few things and I don't mean to just I try I'm trying to calm down and not talk to y'all like I talk you know to the daughters in the church or like my biological daughters but sometimes I can't help myself that means you don't have time as a young woman to be sitting around here spending more money on your hair and your nails then you do your mind that means you need to be educated as best you can be you need to learn a trade you got to get off of your Kube self and go and figure out how to maximize your own earning potential and stop sitting around here thinking you're gonna live off cute and men gonna keep paying for your lifestyle cute don't last but three or four weekends you got to get up off of you're cute and you got to get on top of your brain game because self reliance is a must you ain't you learning nothing about money you learning nothing about money all of these are earning potential all the discerning potential we got in the world today all of these and the earning opportunities and you're taking advantage of nothing none of them you just sitting around here being cute popping gum uh-huh come on you got self-reliance is a must I've raised three girls looking at the pictures on the wall here all three of my totem say man hey you ain't guaranteed to have no man that's gonna go out here and hump and work and take care of you and I pray that you smart enough not to have a man living in your house that won't get a job but even if you do have a hard-working man more than likely in the days that we livin in is gonna require your income and here's to make it happen but you ain't you not even you're not even guaranteed to have a man you've got to be able to take care of yourself your daddy ain't gonna be a forever self-reliance is a must that has to be a non-negotiable in your mind you must never allow yourself to be positioned where you are depending on a system or another person you must never as a woman as a queen conscious woman put yourself in a position where you depending on the United States of America to finance your life in your your you and your children's well-being or some man that is unproven self-reliance is a must it's a must these are things you've got to work on this year self-reliance is a must and the Bible says I felt like a preacher right there and the Bible says in Philippians chapter 4 in verse 13 I not we I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me I can do all things everybody only any child give me a thumbs up come on come on if I'm talking to you I need you to give me a thumbs up I can do all things through Christ I can do it I can do it I can do it everything I need God has put within me that man who walks out of my life I'm cool I'll be all right because I can do it I can do it I can do it I can do it thank you thank you I can do it I've been only almost an hour but I want to say I want to say this to you before I let you go tonight there's gonna be the Spirit of God spoke something to us last night in church and the word the prophetic word was the prophetic word was excuse me the wall Fair is over some of you that have been struggling in your minds and your hearts and your spirits Thank You Deidre God says the warfare is over god is adjusting some things in your spirit and this is going to be the most fantastic emotional year of your life you're gonna get a grip on your soul this year you're going to get a grip on your soul this year and the things that the enemy has used to pull you down into that deep dark place in the past it will not work this year God is getting ready to enlighten you and give you an understanding of him not religion not religion of him thank you and yourself this is gonna be a powerful year for you now I want you to take and I want you to just look at this again and then there are some of you that will add certain non-negotiables yeah I love you all let me pray for you father I thank you for just my extended family I called the Messiah by family and as they prepare as I prepare to leave them God and as they go forth in life this year thank you for doing everything that you've spoken to my heart thank you for making adjustments from the inside out and I thank you for victory god I thank you for extracting every person from their hearts and the souls that should have never been there and I think you God for giving them the strength to override anything that did not come from you in Jesus's name listen if you're anywhere around if you're anywhere in Europe I need y'all's help I'm on my way to London England March 27th and 28th and Lisa and I are coming along with some of the team for bringing Queen ology to London England and I just need to see this I need to see the seed selling I need to see the seed selling I'm excited about coming but I need to I need to feel the love from London I need to feel that those of you that are in that area I need you to share I'm also excited that our queen ology Cruise which is happening in July of 2020 we're cruising the Western Caribbean I'm understanding that the the cabins that we've been allotted are selling out that's amazing that God just told me to do that and the cabins are selling out and Lisa was just sharing that with me the other day and day before yesterday and so hey man God is doing some big things I thank you all for helping us to make a lot of this possible and but those of you in Europe I need you to spread the word that queen ology London is happening and I want to see the people of God in London England Lisa and I don't forget to go by what is it you know the place Amazon buy all of my books just got through writing King ology yes I'm done with it it's in the hands of the editors now so we'll be releasing that very soon in fact about it if we get enough men for the cruise we'll have sessions for Queen ology as well as sessions for King ology some say well can I bring my son absolutely one dear heart I told if he's the only of a male on the ship in our group other than myself out spend time with him personally so I'm excited about all this happening this year keep your keep your ears glued it's just gonna be an amazing year it's moving fast and hey if you're anywhere around the New Orleans area or at the Houston Texas area come and see us this weekend at the new home Family Worship Center I promise you it'll be a blessing to you 8:00 a.m. uptown New Orleans it's at 16:16 Robert Blake senior drive new home Family Worship Center 8 a.m. 9 a.m. at new home Family Worship Center East that's 13800 Haines Boulevard and the 11 a.m. in new home Family Worship Center Houston and I will be in Houston this Sunday so those of you who've been waiting to come to Houston because you weren't certain if I was going to be there or not I will be there this Sunday that's at 4805 Sherman Road and just know that Lisa and I love you and we're praying for you and expect this to be a tremendous year for you and I hope to talk to you real soon god bless you thank you for hanging out with me tonight thank you for hanging out with me tonight I'm certain that I'm forgetting something but stop by my website look at my online programs all of the other stuff that we have going on I'll be in Chicago I'll be in Chicago let me say that I'll be in Chicago on the 25th and if you go to my website look under live events you'll see the I'm going I'm coming to Chicago for another room but I'll be there on the 25th that's a Saturday and I have two hours to present and I'm looking forward to meeting all of my friends in Chicago god bless you I love you have a great night talk to you real soon [Music]

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Length: 57min 26sec (3446 seconds)

Published: Fri Jan 10 2020