When the “Nice Guy” Puts You in Weird Situations

what's the most uncomfortable situation a nice guy has put you in met a nice guy over okc a couple years ago i gave him my number after we chatted for a bit and talked about possibly meeting when he suggested we meet at a local elementary school in the middle of the night i nope the frick out and told him it was nice talking to him but i didn't want to meet anymore he kept trying to convince me by saying he would buy me gifts he really likes me and thinks we could hit it off when i told him no he blew up and called me a b a w the usual he tells me that i now owe him 15 because he had already bought me a present for our first date and that i needed to meet him right now to give him his money or i could meet him and have a good time and forget about all of this blocked his number right away and didn't hear from him until the next day when he calls me from a different number when i picked up he acted pleasant and asked me what time we were going to meet today for our date i told him to frick off and blocked him again then i get a text a couple hours later from another freaking phone number saying that if i don't meet him he was going to kill himself after a bit of unnecessarily dramatic conversation i basically told him that i didn't care if he killed himself he was psychotic and needed to leave me alone i blocked him and forgot about it fast forward to about six months ago when i got a text from an unknown number i knew exactly who it was when i read the text i have twenty dollars and a fun night planned for us want to meet sometime soon miss you blocked it changed my number never giving it out to a stranger again a whole twenty dollars oh there was a guy in high school who had a crush on me he was never shy about it and from day one he made me feel really uncomfortable he'd ask me out multiple times a day always in front of my friends who didn't help because they'd always egg me on to go out with him i was the new kid in school and they'd all been friends with him since elementary school when i kept saying no he assumed it was because i was seeing someone else so he started telling people i was sleeping with random guys in school i wasn't i had no interest in dating any of the boys i went to high school with any time i tried to tell him to stop doing that he and anyone else around for that matter said he was just joking and i needed to lighten up it all came to a head at the homecoming dance my junior year he was a senior so it was his last homecoming apparently the day before homecoming he told one of my friends that he'd asked me to the dance and i said yes he had not asked me i never had any intention of going to the dance he kept going on to my friend about how special he wanted it to be that he spent all his money on tickets gas new shoes and a corsage my friend was so excited for him that she went over to his house the day of homecoming and helped him get everything ready she also told all our friends what was going on so everyone was under the impression i was going to the dance with him let me also add no one checked with emmy that i was going to the dance so this was all going on without my knowledge he told everyone that i was going to get dropped off by my parents so he and all my friends waited outside for me they waited for three hours apparently any time my friends told him to come inside and that i wasn't coming he'd start tearing up and say just five more minutes so of course i show up to school on monday and everyone was furious at me none of my friends wanted to talk to me i sat alone at lunch for three days completely confused about what was going on before some girl i'd never talked to before ask me why i'd stood this guy up so i went up to the guy when he was alone asked what the frick he'd done and he just started laughing hysterically and said if you agree to go out with me i'll tell everyone it was just a misunderstanding never talk to the guy again it permanently damaged my friendships with several people because they thought i was a massive butthole to this guy who they thought was really sweet this is potentially the creepiest post on this thread i had to get a ride from a friend my junior year of high school for some reason i didn't have my car i don't remember all the details he stopped about a mile from my house and pulled over onto the side of the road he told me he had a dream where we had made out and that i was a really good kisser and he decided i could either walk home from there or kiss him holy crap i have a story so i'm a big dude and that my first semester at a university i came in as a junior there was this guy that was just way too freaking into me and he was super creepy about it the dude would just sit uncomfortably close to me like if i was sitting on a chair he'd sit on the armrest or if i was talking to someone he'd place himself directly between me and the person i was talking to it was annoying he would always bring up discussions to make sure everyone in the room knew he was b and ask everyone their orientation and every dude would answer straight and he'd awkwardly flirt with me or some other dude after months of this we were playing ping pong and were getting in a stupid argument where he was just flat out wrong it had something to do with game engines and pixel art it was stupid he would hate to admit he was wrong but he decided this was a good point to show me he was able to accept defeat in an argument he goes shed i have aspergers it's really hard for me to look someone in the eye i can only do it if i am really mad at a person or if i really want to freak them but don't worry i'm not mad at you all while staring right into my face i just put my crap down and walked away okay that asperger's comment peed me off the most about this you do not weaponize a mental illness ugh what is wrong with this dude i was like 19 and working third shift at a gas station casually sweeping the floor the door opens and i hear that ding so i look up and make eye contact with some guy i can't explain what was going on in this guy's head but it was like he thought it was some kind of slo-mo movie situation and he staggered back gasping and widening his eyes and staring at me i am not the kind of person to notice this kind of stuff in other people i felt like i was reading a scene from twilight in my head i went behind the checkout counter he grabbed his red bull or whatever he kept obviously looking at me in shock and shaking his head like he was trying to psych himself up for something ladies you know the feeling when you know someone wants to catch your attention and talk to you but you're trying to keep it casual full stop this went on for like 20 minutes and i couldn't accomplish anything because i'm waiting for this dude to check out anyway so he walks up to the checkout super dramatically i check him out he stares the whole time and finally sighs saying i never expected to see such a beautiful woman at a gas station this is fate you shouldn't be working here i just can't help myself i have to ask you to go out with me i said sorry i have a boyfriend he seriously looked enraged he clenched his fists and gave me this overly dramatic scary look grabbed his stuff and stormed out the door he moved his car so the bright headlights were facing the front of the store and sat there until the next customer came probably an hour later honestly i wasn't too scared it was just like really i just wanted to finish my list of duties at this crappy gas station and live my life but some joe concocted a bizarre dream scenario in his head and somehow that was my fault gotta love the sheer stupidity of thinking both that you're way too pretty to be here but then being shocked and enraged that you could possibly have a boyfriend what a nutcase nice guy said he was doing me a favor by trying stick his hands down my pants because he was the only one that would give me experience being the size i was jokes on him i lost 65 pounds after that and turned my life around completely frick that noise it doesn't matter how big you are rape is never ever freaking justified had a very difficult traumatic ending to a long term live an engagement he went to jail i decided to go to europe to backpack for the summer best friend m agreed to come along and was very aware this was a post-breakup getaway to clear my head and have fun he flew out ahead of me to visit family i arrived at the airport to see him waiting for me in europe on bended knee ring and flowers and all i was furious and that friendship was destroyed vacation was equal parts horrendously awkward intense and amazing but ended with him drunkenly ranting about it all again in a hostel one night ultimately becoming sexually and physically aggressive toward me and a group of stranger hostile bunkies helping to quietly pack my stuff while he was finally passed out and get me to the airport and home immediately i haven't seen him since about eight years now how can you possibly justify proposing after something like that lol met a guy at a gathering at a mutual friend's place and ended up getting stuck talking to him all night night ends and i don't give it another thought couple weeks later he calls my house i didn't give him my last name or phone number since he now has my number he also knows my address and starts showing up at my house at weird times sometimes with his equally creepy sister fast forward a few years i haven't lived at home for at least a year he shows up dad answers the door and just tells him i'm not in not that i don't live there or anything later that same night dad lets the dog out for a pee before bed dog disappears into the backyard chasing something she really wants to catch she thinks it's a skunk or something until he hears the gate on the neighbor's fence open and close quickly dog has chased a person out of the backyard my old bedroom window faced our backyard we don't know for sure but i think my dog chased that freaking creep out of our yard frick you adam that's a good doggo drinking too much on a first date in order to stay over at my apartment and sleep on my couch and then try to worm into my bed at 3am same thing has happened to me late to the thread but here we go i knew this kid in ninth grade who seemed like a nice enough dude let's call him frank we became friends over our mutual love of video games with him seeming to be a lot more invested in the friendship but like i said he seemed harmless one day i invite him over to my house to play games on my playstation we have a good enough time him continuously talking about how he's so happy to have a friend who likes video games and is a girl red flag i know i get to school the next day and during class my friends tell me that frank went and bragged to anyone that would hear that i invited him over and that he heard i was easy and brought a condom just in case being an angry and petty teenager i walk up to him during lunch period in front of a bunch of guys and called him out for what he said he began stuttering but before he could finish i told him he was a creep and to never talk to me again cut to a few months later and i'm called into the vice principal's office i get there and she asked me if i was friends with frank and i responded that we used to be she asked what ended our friendship and i explained the situation to her she looks at me and says that's not what he told us but i think i know who's telling the truth turns out that after i ended our friendship frank fixated on another girl only to discover she had a boyfriend frank decided the best course of action to get rid of the boyfriend was to pull a knife on the kid in the hallway and threaten him security of course gets him and discovers he only had a butter knife still he threatened someone and so he was called into the principal's office whereupon he explained that the only reason he pulled the knife on this guy was because he was so heartbroken after i dumped him following our six-month anniversary and fell in love with this other girl because she treated him right he got suspended but since it was close to the end of the school year he just never came back and transferred schools the following school year good riddance i considered him a friend stayed at his apartment when visiting his town he slept in the living room i in the bedroom when it got late he started making jokes about how he had hidden the bedroom key and that i should get ready for him i spent the night half awake and fully dressed from sheer fair in the morning i packed and wanted to leave but he wouldn't let me go without having a goodbye kiss he physically blocked the door so i couldn't get out i tried to play it off and somehow managed to squeeze by him without getting kissed but it was a terrifying experience and that was the end of our friendship well that is just something else holy heck i've got a weird one a good buddy of mine was moving across the country had known him for a while and while he's very gay and i'm not we were still pretty close friends he had his going away party a very gay bar here in austin no big i'm comfortable in my heterosexuality i'll go and have a few drinks dance a little and go home with my girlfriend who went to the party with me well we get there and about 20 minutes in she gets a text that her friend's sister had been in a bad car accident so she leaves to go help a friend i decide i'll stay for another hour or so before heading home i'm at the bar having a drink and i start to feel tired so i'm going to go outside and call anubha as i'm outside one guy from the party group bill who i didn't know at all asked what was going on and i told him i was leaving he was like dude i live right by you i'll drop you off i didn't think about it at the time but would have no clue where i lived because we barely had been introduced at the party i get in his car and as we turn the corner he puts his hand on my leg i kind of snap out of it and say you know what man i'm uncomfortable here why don't you let me out of the car i get the whole nabro i'll get you home safe it's fine and won't stop doesn't pull over comes up to a stoplight i try to open the door and the door won't open he won't look at me and by this point i'm saying very forcibly to let me go i normally conceal carry but not this night since i was in a bar and i was drinking both illegal to carry a gun while doing so after a few more lights and silence where i realize that he's taking me somewhere against my will i realize that i have a window breaker on my keychain it's one of those combo thingies that can cut a seatbelt and break a window if your car is underwater so i pull it out and immediately break the passenger side window at the next light and try to start crawling out luckily there were like eight people that saw it happen and came running over he still wouldn't unlock the door when he saw them running over to help he opened the door and pushed me out and sped off he was in a stolen car and no one knew him at the party he had just started associating with our group early on and i thought he was part of the party it was scary crap i worked for a few years at a children's museum there was this single dad with three daughters who was cute but way too old for me especially at the time when i was 19 and he was about 35 i also got a weird vibe from him but he was always very sweet if a little uncomfortable his daughters were adorable the following events happened over probably a six-month period one day some guest approaches me and asks me if i've seen this missed connections on craigslist about the museum it was about me the guy was writing about things we had talked about and was saying how good we would be together etc thinking back i honestly think that she must have been friends with the guy because it was too weird that she approached me out of all the other workers then asked emmy what i thought about the guy who wrote the ad later he found me on facebook and tried to add me i didn't add him and the next time he was in the museum he followed me room to room and just glared at me from afar not talking to me super uncomfortable i thought it would be easier just to add him so i did then he starts commenting really weird cringy sexual stuff on my photos like a jifa pikachu biting his lip or just fap fap fap fat fap so i decide enough is enough and deleted him then he tries to win me back or something he brings a wrapped canvas to the museum and gives it to my boss saying it would be too weird to just give it to her and my boss calls me down later and makes me open it in front of everyone it was a very fun workplace and we love to rip on each other and it was a painting of one of my photos from facebook i was so mortified i put it away but one of my co-workers and also my best friend replaced the clock in the break room with my portrait because she is a dong lol while it was funny i also asked my boss to kinda watch out for him so from then on i didn't see him anymore and i blocked him on facebook so i think i'm safe out of all the weird crap he did the facebook comments are the most baffling fat fap fat fap is the worst possible thing i bet she would be into imagining me at my computer desk masturbating in the dark while stalking her facebook nice guy from college we're talking trench coat and fedora fingerless gloves pathetically sleazy smile the whole shebang in a tropical country at that who kept trying to talk to me even as i was clearly trying to do my homework now i was okay with multitasking i could do homework and listen and respond to him but he wouldn't have it hey tuna you know what i really hated when women yes not people women specifically ignore me i was dumbfounded but also really offended so i shot back that i was listening to him even if i wasn't looking at him no but when i'm talking to someone i want them to look at me friend overheard this and went off on him faster than i did he left me alone after that not as terrible as the other answers here but that was my first real taste of it it's amazing how andy bernard's voice immediately appeared in my head as soon as i read hey tuna a co-worker gave me a ride to the train station because i had missed my bus when i was a trainee it is a 10-15 minutes ride and i thought it nice of him but did not think much of it i thought he was just helping out when we were still in the car he then mentioned wanting to invite me for a drink one day then offered me to drive me all the way back home he was living near the train station we were heading to and it would have made a 45 minutes drive to get to my place i declined because i felt uncomfortable and because without traffic the train was actually more convenient for me he mistaked my refusal for politeness or just outright ignored it and insisted saying it was not bothering him to drive all the way here at this point i did not care about him i was just starting to get scared he insisted and insisted and i had to argue and practically begged him to just drop me at the train station finally mentioning that my dad was waiting for me anyway at the terminus and pretended we could have a drink someday and he let it go but it all happened as we were driving in the highway so i really felt trapped and it was really uncomfortable thankfully it was my last week here and i avoided him the last few days i worked let me sleep over because i lived an hour away and we'd been drinking and he pulls the olay you're really lucky i'm a nice guy most guys would force themselves on you right now but i don't because i'm nice you're really lucky despite us having been normal platonic friends for a few months before this and me having established a few times that i wasn't interested in anything else with him i was on a discord server and spoken voice chat frequently one time this dude came in and didn't speak only in text chat he kept putting himself down for attention so i told him that he shouldn't worry blah blah blah just to be polite and try to get him to stop this went on for quite a bit and i think he may have taken that politeness as something more i had already told most people on the server that i don't swing that way and he got all down about it and literally complained to everyone on that server that he has a crush but she hates him fast forward an hour or so and are also and are also and are also and are also and are also and are also and are also and are also and are also and you are also and you are also and you are also and you are also and you are also and you are also and you are also and are also nice guy asks me out in high school on the bus and i declined he gave me the silent treatment after that the next day he appears in my friend group with his arms encasing one of my friends who looked clearly uncomfortable he tells her he loves her and how great of a woman she is to be giving him a chance to treat her like a princess he looks at me while saying this i talked to her after and he had asked her over and over to date him until she said yes she was a very nice girl and i felt bad for her i told her what happened and that seemed to give her the confidence to stop the dating after only a few hours we never saw him much after that thank goodness i met this super sweet guy online me and my friends met up with him and his friend at a bar and really hit it off we went to a nightclub and had a great time i decided to go home with him we made out and started having sex all of a sudden it was as if he changed my arm got stuck in an uncomfortable position and i tried to tell him and move it but i couldn't because he was using his whole body weight to hold me down and he was ignoring me completely as if he wasn't having sex with me anymore but rather jerking off inside me not sure how to explain it but he wouldn't listen to me that i was in pain then he told me he was going to frick me in my butt until i was bleeding upon which i just decided to lay still and hope he wouldn't follow up on his words luckily he came pretty fast after saying those words i never really understood why he did that i was already consenting to sex with him he didn't need to force me yet he did i think this dude wanted to rape i never really understood why he did that i was already consenting to sex with him he didn't need to force me yet he did i think this dude wanted to rape more than likely that's some jeffrey dahmer sounding crap i was at a friend's house when their friend shows up he keeps saying he wants to go to an amusement park but he has nobody to go with heavily hinting towards me my friend suggests the guy take me and i tell him i'm too broke to go he offers to pay and i say no a few times he insists more so i say okay if you insist but this is not a date and we are just going as friends he says okay and he understands that he did not the way there he kept telling me how beautiful i was in trying to hold my hand i continued to tell him i said we were going as friends and he said of course but when we got there and we're waiting in lines for rides he kept trying to kiss me and hold my hand i turned my head away i dk how many times and i slapped his hand away and he continued to persist eventually i just pretended not to feel good and he took me home the guy tried to message me on facebook the next day asking me out on a date i told him i was not interested in dating him as i had explained before we could be friends though he then called me a bee a c and everything else before blocking me good riddance he was my co-worker and 20 years older than me i know some people might go for that but it personally weeds me out anyway he started sexually harassing me he would call at odd hours i think he was masturbating he left me racy pictures in my box at work gave me presents so i reported him and he got a little slap on the wrist but next time he saw me he started rubbing my shoulders and i told him to stop not to touch me he blew up started screaming at me in front of all the customers after that though he left me alone should have been fired the day at least he left me alone but unfortunately i'm pretty sure he chose another woman to harass in my place good thing is he's on disability now out of the workforce so good i can't believe he wasn't fired even just for the pictures first boyfriend a socially awkward 16 total shadow wanted a girl to be a total virgin and innocent but also know how to be a total dirty sub i was just innocent half this guy wanted stuff to happen between us but didn't want to initiate crap i was so not tuned into sexual stuff and he obviously didn't realize i needed to be hand led through this he would hand things to me but they would just fly over my head like i went to south america to visit family and i was online talking to him and he said a girl made him an offer i to this day have no clue what he meant he never said what she offered him 16 year old me was like what he then decided to attack me for not giving him a bj the minute i met him he started the rant off with guys in my class have done stuff with girls and i finally clicked and lost it on him the only thing i got from that relationship was a backbone experience is a great teacher the guy was probably around not only when the dinosaurs were born but when dirt became a thing he was super nice and calm but no was not an answer for him let me walk you to your car i didn't drive you shouldn't walk alone there's some crazy people out there i'm waiting for a friend i can walk you to their car we're actually going to the restaurant there five steps away and no not really to any of this but i don't do strangers walking me to my car especially this guy who insists on it come on i can walk you to your car and if anyone tries to stop you i've got a 12 gauge in my truck i've used it on so many people before i'm not going out to my car i'm waiting for a friend i know how handcuffs are used as well i don't care leave me alone don't you want to know not really you use the cuffs on the feet rope to tie the hands up and then hang people i've done that once or twice my friend just went in the restaurant goodbye guy uses other entrance of the restaurant to come in and stand behind me as i'm telling host about the situation him and another big dude walk me to my car after oldie leaves i drove home with nine one one typed in the phone i also didn't drive home immediately because someone followed me i quickly turned off and drove to a public lit turned off all lights and sat until the car drove past then i waited doors locked for 10 minutes and pitch dark before driving home intentionally going in circles on the way wouldn't leave me alone while i was working kept saying it was a shame i had a boyfriend because you're so pretty and i'd treat you right over tipped like way too much because you're so beautiful i work at a busy music venue so he basically had to yell all of this at me while i was helping a hundred other customers i eventually had to tell him to buzz off which just meant he stared at me all night from the crowd waving at me after the lights went up he came over and launched into visit to shame you have a boyfriend bit so i gave him some crappy excuse and booked it why come to a show if you're just going to creep on someone while she's working dudes creep on me sometimes but never as a self described better than your boyfriend guy i think it is funny how the default seems to be that every boyfriend is a douche and treats his gf badly all while they are the ones portraying girls like a trophy i'm a guy i had a close female friend years ago who was super friendly and outgoing we easily became friends because we had a lot in common but i never liked her in that way and vice versa however her outgoing and friendly personality would often attract the nice guys she was telling me about this guy who she was sort of friends with who offered to take her shopping one day when she said she needed new shoes being polite and friendly she went with him but then he insisted on paying for her shoes which were two hundred dollars because he was a nice guy then he asked if it was okay for them to drop by his house on their way to her house when they got there his mother apparently made a big deal about my friend and left the two of them alone in the house assuming they were boyfriend and girlfriend during this time apparently the guy was grinning sheepishly and taking in all the praise she had to set him straight after that but he'd get annoyed and harass her about stupid stuff like hanging out with other guy friends etc i think eventually he got the message but i thought the story was worth sharing in prison you never accept a gift from anyone you don't intend on having sex with this guy would fit right in last semester of college i had a class with this weird and obviously desperate but super awkward and negative guy he acted really fake to boot he always tried talking to me but his intentions were super obvious aka women are not human they are this elusive thing and i need to catch one of them one day i ran into the guy at the college shuttle he said hi to me and i did respond with a simple hi i didn't really know him so i left it at that he sat behind me and starts audibly and angrily muttering to himself about how girls don't pay attention to him and that he just tries and tries so hard yada yada yada that he's being nice that there just be etc it was so uncomfortable and he kept bitching the whole time i wasn't physically reacting ofc i went to a meetup group for the first time the app is really safe and a fun thing to do if you're traveling so i met a guy and i really enjoyed his company he was very attractive and charming so the next night he asked me if i would like to go out for drinks with his friends i said yes and headed that way he picked me up from the train station and told me his friends were just down the street at the pub but first he needed to go to his apartment and charge his phone for 15 minutes i agreed to go with him stupid and when we got to his apartment he was still charming and talkative then he moved closer to me and started kissing my neck and smelling my hair so i stood up and said i'm not sleeping with you and he got super p off and said that all of his friends were gone anyway and there was no group hang out and it was just a way to get me to come over i was so embarrassed i didn't say anything and just left oh man i've got a bad one so i was 16 there was this guy i knew from my social circle we weren't super close but we were friends it became apparently that he had a huge crush on me but i just wasn't entrusted i told him very nicely when he asked me out but he went off and told me that the thought of one day being with me was the only reason he had not killed himself yet about a month later he starts texting me very these very graphic and violent sexual stories that he's written for me i'd get about 50 messages at a time i asked him to stop because it was harassment and he knew it was wrong and he replied i know it word for word because i ended up having to read his messages to so many people oh boo boo some creepy weirdo won't stop texting me what should i do you're a real b you know that if you could have seen i was a nice guy i wouldn't have to resolve to doing his but you've left me no choice this went on for a few months before we got the school involved who threatened to hit him with a restraining order it's crazy that they still think they're nice guys when they're aware they've started harassing you i've met a few nice guys in my time and i'm glad it never went this far glad it was all resolved for you oh i've had my fair share of those one guy had a crush on me in high school i didn't really know him besides small interactions that really didn't make me like him one day i get sms from this unknown number sending me romantic messages etc anonymously figured out it was him and called him out that it is weird that he has my number he was insisting for days to go out so i agreed just to meet so we can get this over with so we went out it was awkward i told him i am not looking for a relationship or anything okay went home then the shitstorm started immediately after the date he started pressuring me to date him after i repeatedly and politely rejected him again i got tons of messages from different numbers breathing calls you name it calling me a bee he didn't even like me ill be begging for his dong followed by apologies then the same cycle it escalated to his friends and family members approaching me in public and going to my parents at work to ask me to date him that he is actually a very nice guy i got sick of it and showed the messages to a member of his family they were shocked and then i was left alone after that i never saw him in person again he appeared 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Length: 34min 11sec (2051 seconds)

Published: Fri Mar 05 2021