THE BASIC COMPONENTS A MAN SHOULD HAVE IN PLACE BEFORE A WOMAN CONSIDERS HIM by RC BLAKES

hello hello hello this evening I hope that somebody's there I know it's a little late in in most parts of the the country I'm trying to get this lighting right yeah my light is acting a little strange I guess it's time to replace it hope everybody's doing well I hope you have your bell what is the little Bell thing activated on your YouTube so that you can get me if you if you don't mind I'd love for you to share this out this is impromptu and live so it's not as polished it's not as polished as I would like it to be yeah and now I have nobody here to help me so you know this is what you get but I had this on my heart and I wanted to share it with you tonight how's everybody doing I hope you're doing well hope you're doing well can you hear me can everybody hear me well my light is flashing so try to ignore that my iPad is dead this is just it's dead so I don't have the access to my iPad so I have to go old school but I hope everybody's doing good Lisa's out for a second she'll be coming back soon breaking in I'm sure disturbing us but there was a question that was asked of me when I was at queen ology when I was at queen ology in what is it Las Vegas and if the question was what are the basic components by which an iPad reading the small writing is a challenge what are the basic components that a man should have already in place before a woman considers him because you know when you're looking in the book of Genesis and I can already tell this is gonna be too much of a challenge for me to try to find the text that I'm looking for and read it so our reference to text I want I don't I don't remember all of the book chapter and verse but you can use it in accordance and go and search out whatever I might mention but when you look in the in the in the book of Genesis and God says you know it's not good for the man to be alone and then God creates he says we'll make him an help meet and God creates the woman so God created the woman to help the man and I need you to really hear that God created the woman to help the man so the woman is not to make the man but the woman is to help the man because the man was what already made let me say that again God did not make the woman to make the man God created the woman to help the man because God had already made the man but because the man was already made and he already had purpose he needed a woman to help him so it is ill-advised for a woman to attempt to make a man something that he's not already and that is where I think I've I think I see what I'm looking for that is where many women fall into the trap of toxic relationships because you attempt to step into a man's life to make him something that God did not [Music] God is not ordained or God has not purposed him for you cannot a woman cannot make a man I'll be with you in just a second let me just just make certain that verify this text I'm looking for a woman is not to make a man a woman is to help a man so man has to already have his purpose he has to already have his form yes to already have his shape and then the woman is what an aunt it may capable of helping the man but you're fooling yourself if you think that you're going to make a man something that he's not already and that's where a lot of women get in trouble you you take on this this god complex and rather than finding a man to help and help indicates what he already is already doing something he already knows what his mission is what his vision is and then God sends him a woman to fit into the scheme of whatever it is he's accomplishing or attempting to accomplish in life and the woman isn't longer to help him to take whatever he's doing and to bring it to the next level man finds wife he obtains favor but if he does not have the basic components in place there's not a lot of woman can do for him you know and and so often I think it boils down to the fact that too many women are a women too often should I say look you're you're skimming the surface you know you're skimming do you you say you're fishing for sharks but you're you're skimming from the bank you don't you on the bank of of a river talking about you're fishing for shark you cannot fish for shark unless you go out into deep waters and you have to be able to you know go deep and so often when women are you know searching for the right man you're searching on the surface you're searching for things like looks and swag and charisma and you never really get to the true essence of of the man which balls down to what his character and so you keep coming up with minnows you keep coming up with catfish and you're wondering why is it you say I'm you know I'm a woman that's qualified for a shark tarpon but I keep coming up with these trout knees catfish it's it's where yours it's where you're fishing you're you're not looking deep enough and you're not you're not getting beyond the like just just lack of a more sophisticated term you're just not getting beyond the surface and you keep getting exactly what you aim for you aim for nothing you end up with nothing and if you aim for a little boy you're gonna always come up with a little boy and so there's some basic things that you got to have that a man has to have in place before woman what even consol one should consider him now there's an interesting text and it's found in First Samuel it's weird that we're in a day and time now where it feels weird to actually open a physical Bible and that that is nuts everything's electronic now but in First Samuel chapter 16 God is sending Samuel the Prophet to go and to anoint David to be king and and listen to what the Word says he's starting at verse 3 of 1st Samuel 16 it says and call Jesse to know let's go to verse 4 and Samuel did that which the Lord spake and came to Bethlehem and the elders of the town trembled and at his coming and said come as thou peaceably and he said peaceably I am come to sacrifice unto the Lord sanctify yourselves and come with me to the sacrifice he sanctified Jesse and his sons and called them to the sacrifice it came to pass when they were come that he looked on le ab and said surely the Lord's anointed is before him he's looking at the stature of le AB he was looking at his physical traits he said surely the Lord's anointed is before me and watch verse 7 but the Lord said unto Samuel look not on his countenance or on the height of his stature because I have refused him now listen it is very carefully you can learn a lot from this God says this to Samuel you're searching for the man that's anointed and but you the mistake you're making is that you're looking on the you're looking on the stature and you're looking at the physical appearance of the man and you're concluding that this has to be the anointed of God because of the way he looks on the surface but the Lord said unto Samuel look not on his countenance or on the height of his stature because I have refused him now when you when you hear that and you think about that you know from the perspective of how women choose men and quite often how men choose the wrong women it goes both ways it boils down to the fact that we're kind of like Samuel we look on the countenance and we look at the height or we look at the statue of the person the man is looking at the shape of the woman the woman is looking at the height of the man how broad is chest is how big muscles are you know how what kind of hit of hair does he have or if he has any but look here he says don't look on his hide or statues countenance because I have refused him for the Lord seeth not as man saith for man looketh on the outward appearance but the Lord looketh on the heart and then Jesse called all of his other sons and God refused them and the one that God chose was a little boy by the name of David who did not measure up in terms of height or stature to his brothers but God was not looking for the externals of the man God was looking for he was looking on the heart of David that's a lesson that's a lesson for all of us that we must be certain that we do not follow the natural human tendency to judge people based on their externals women especially have to be certain that you do not choose a man conclude that this has to be the anointed of God for my life based on how tall he is you know how fine is how you know whatever whatever whatever whatever but we have to begin to look like God looks and that is God does not look on the outward appearance God looks on the heart so let me see if I can remember the young lady asked me this question at queen ology it was it was yeah I don't think it was during a Friday night Q&A it was during the Saturday sessions and just at some point she just asked this question she said well what are some of the basic things a man should have before I would consider him and I'm trying to remember them but I remember number one was I'm writing as I think I remembered number one was well I didn't made it in didn't list them in this order then but this is the way I'm listing them tonight a man must have his own Drive a man that you would choose to submit your life to he must have his own Drive if a man is without Drive if a man is without ambition if a man with is without motivation as a woman you cannot give it to him the what will come of that situation because is frustration you will become frustrated as a woman because you are not designed to give a grown man Drive you were designed to help a man who already knows why he exists you were designed to step into a man's life who has his own Drive and help him to facilitate it if you're dealing with the man that you have to motivate he relaxed one of the fundamental qualities that any man must have to keep a woman [Music] satisfied fulfilled because you can fool yourself you can talk yourself into that but at some point sooner than later you're going to become very frustrated when you have to wake a man up you have to whine a man up pump a man up constantly constantly cuz now don't get me wrong a woman you know a woman does step into a man's life and when he's down she has the ability his woman has the ability to motivate him into to lift him but you are not designed to have to pick a man up lift a man up push a man drive a man a man has to have his own Drive he has to have he has to have his own vision and if he does not have vision he won't have Drive where there is no vision the people perish in other words when the Bible says the people perish it means that they lose control they cast they all over the place because they don't have a particular direction they're going to so they're all over the highway it's like a person is driving on a five lane highway and they're from one side to the other they're just just just weaving from one side to the other that's a dangerous person that's an accident waiting to happen you cannot give a man Drive and I know that there's some of you who believe that you can take a man who has no Drive who has no vision and somehow you can talk to him and you can you can turn him into a visionary the reality is as a woman as a queen you need a man that has his own vision understands where he's going is already motivated and then in that man's life you can help him to facilitate what God has already put within him but if a man doesn't have Drive if a man is lazy and if a man is without direction and if a man is without energy how long do you think you're gonna really be content with that that may be cue to get through your little wedding and everything you know you want a wedding so bad but you have to also understand that wedding does not equate to marriage that's why you have so many divorces you have all these weddings but you never have marriages is because they have to be some fundamental things that a do got to have to keep a woman content fulfilled satisfied how are you gonna submit to a man that has no motivation especially if you a motivated woman if you're driven woman how are you gonna submit your life to a man that has no motivation no Drive just because he's fine how long do you think that's gonna last it's not gonna last finding or last find doesn't last and even even before the fan runs out you won't get tired of waking up to a man that is lethargic you know he wakes up every day and he has no Direction no clear direction no no energy no motivation you got to wind him up you you got to wake him up you have to wake a grown man a grown man gets up on purpose he may wake you up because he gets up hustlin wrong man wake up on purpose you don't have to wake a grown man up you don't have to just prime and pump a grown-man fact about it when you get a grown man he'll be moving so fast here where you are glad man G can you slow down dude can you slow down no we got to get it done baby we got to get it done I got to make this happen I got to see that happen I want to make this happen for you one make December two children we got to get this done I got to get this business moving not no man sitting around just just drinking beer all day and what you gonna have your name you going to worry yeah I'm going to what you doing I don't know just just chilling just chilling mm-hmm a man has to have Drive second thing trying to remember these things second thing a man I believe a man has to have in place and these are not in sequential autumn for you to consider a man he has to be a safe man he has to be a safe man and by that I mean he has to be tempered he has to have the the fruit of temperance on his life what does that mean that means you have to see you have to be able to see this man completely angry to the point of being enraged and still be at the point or still be in a place where as his woman you never feel threatened or fearful he has to have at implement that he can even be angry with you and you never feel threatened or intimidated in his presence at all if a man makes you afraid he's not a man that you should spend time with he's certainly not a man that you should dedicate your life to he has to be a man that has self-control you know his language with you his his demeanor you know even the way he looks at you if a man looks at you like you know I yeah I think I want to put hands on you if if a man talks crazy to you and is always apologizing he's not he's not he's not he's not the kind of man that you should even consider submitting your life to he lacks the fundamental characteristics of you know what it takes to be a husband because a husband is is not one that terrorizes a husband is one that brings security he brings a sense of security that even when you out a character you know he's not gonna let your being out of character take him out of character mm-hmm he's gonna always be a man that you are safe with that you feel safe with you know and you can't keep making excuses for a man that is belligerent angry and has issues you just can't keep making excuses for that because that that turns into you know evening news you know if the first time a man shows you any form of aggression from him towards you because even even even the even even thugs in the street you know thugs in the street can go out in the street and fight and shoot and all that kind of stuff when they come home to a woman that they really love that woman never feels threatened by that man she feels minute and then some of y'all that can testify to this you know she may be talking to him about all the stuff he carries on the street but when he comes home she never feels threatened by that man she feels secure in his hand she feels like somebody bother he's subject to go off at any moment you know to make certain that he covers her but your man should never be it should never be a source of intimidation or terror and if you have a man that in the slightest bit makes you feel apprehensive or afraid I told y'all she was coming in here he ain't the one he ain't the one you can't change him I know you guys I can change him I can I can change him mm-hmm it ain't your job to change him he can change but it's not your job to change him if he's gonna change its gonna take God God's hand touching him to change him and you don't need to be around for the process you need to allow God to do whatever you gonna do with that man and you need to put as much distance between you and that as possible he doesn't qualify a third thing you can't give a man you cannot I'm writing this as I go give a man a back bone see it's cute to have a little man that that you can talk to any kind of way and run over because you saw your mama do that to your daddy but that's gonna become unattractive very soon that's going to become an unattractive aerosol you get you get a little weak find this man that you can just handle in any kind of way and see a grown man wrong man can check you without ever getting out of character he's never gonna raise his voice or get aggressive with you or make you feel afraid but a grown man to tell you right now mm-hmm that ain't gonna work over here that's you're not gonna talk to me like now you may have talked to your last little boyfriend's like that but you're not gonna talk to me like this and it's just the way it's gonna go now you can flower break dishes do whatever you want to do I ain't hang around for the drama but you're not gonna talk to me like this I'm a grown man in fact I'm your man and you don't respect me like that period now you don't get that you know I'm gonna take a ride and give you a minute to figure this out but you cannot give a man a backbone if if if you if you marry a man that you can run over if you marry a man that you can just talk to any kind of way and he doesn't have any backbone and he's not going he's not going to establish you know where where the boundaries are and check you and tell you hey babe you know I don't don't talk to me like no child I'm not a child don't talk to me like this and don't help him see because if you don't have a backbone with you you know gonna have a backbone in the street he not gonna backbone on the job you never have backbone with his family he just not gonna have a backbone how you gonna have a man that you're gonna submit to this week in the spine you came you can't make you can't give him a backbone you can't do that if he's a little weak man he was he was more than likely raised that way he probably saw his mama do that to his daddy and he was is been conditioned that way and you may lack a whole lot of different things about him but as a grown woman as a queen another thing you can't give a man is you cannot give a man oh I guess this Oh drop my top I guess this is at the top of the list actually you can't give a man a relationship with God you can't give a man you cannot give a man our relationship with God if a man didn't have now don't get me wrong don't get me wrong I'm not saying a man has to be super spiritual I'm not even saying a man has to be spiritually mature necessarily you know but a man has to have a fundamental relationship with God especially if if your life is you know founded on the things and the principles of God and the Bible how are you gonna submit your life to a man that has no relationship with God and then think that somehow it has happened but it's not advised not advised you know nobody nobody should advise you to do this you don't you don't think that you gonna marry a man submit your life to a man and then think that you're gonna force that man into a relationship with God after the fact no no you cannot give a man you cannot give a man a relationship with God he doesn't necessarily be on your level but he he mean I didn't go to church but he has to have some some level of God consciousness if you woman of God now if you not a woman of God well y'all might be equally yoked but he has to have some kind of God consciousness he has to have some kind of God consciousness if he's gonna love you as Christ loved the church how can he love you as Christ loved the church and he don't know Jesus now you know no we got all these different religions out here and all these are people with all this stuff but as for me Jesus does it for me I wear my low uh y'all see my little star David because I you know I go to Israel a lot I love Israel and and somebody bought this for me and I love it you know but it's all about Jesus for me Jesus does it for me me and my house is all about Jesus up in here I don't know what y'all doing yours god bless you but I couldn't lead a hit of that woman back then that room back there if I didn't have a relationship with Jesus because she loves Jesus and if you love Jesus how you gonna submit your life to man that don't know him you can't give him that that's that's something that you should that should be almost a non-negotiable you should even entertain a man that clearly indicates that he doesn't want anything to do with Jesus I don't care how much money make I don't care fine he is if his spiritual life is not intact and if it does not synchronize itself with yours how's he gonna be your head how's it gonna be your head Oh what else must a man have okay here's a good is another good one you cannot give a man self-control now what do I mean by that a lot of people a lot of women many times married men that have serious weaknesses okay let's just get straight to the main issue men they don't have control of their sex life you know you're constantly catching them cheating and then you still runs it all two of them you keep catching this man cheating on you but then you still won't you don't want to go through this wedding as if okay I like the way is the divine Franklin I think his name is I like the way he said it in a certain interview about his book he says you know as if you know this paper that we get at the altar is going to and we sign that paper as though you sign that little marriage license and the preacher sign and he signed in with and all of a sudden magical happen that the man that just cheated on you two months prior to the wedding that all of a sudden nonsense we signed this paper he no cheat tomorrow but you okay now watch this this is something I teach I believe with all of my heart that women miss the greatest opportunity to test the true character of a man during the dating process and when I say that this is what I mean when you give in to man's sexual pressure you know y'all exclusive in all the nice thing about [ __ ] I just want you so bad and I can't I can't control myself and you know I don't want to cheat no less and and you know you know I'm a man I have needs I mean that's an S that's some nice little rhetoric tip that we as men have used to talk women down off of their standards and their principles and their values to get you to give in sexually but the reality is this here's the reality oh I wish I had that quote if a man if a man does not have enough self-control to wait for the woman he loves sexually to have sex with her within the context of marriage what makes you think see because that that means that that man is driven by lust what makes you think that that same lust after he marries you and he sleeps with you every night in the spirit of familiarity says in what makes you think that that same spirit of lust is not gonna drive him to cheat the greatest way to test a man's character his self-control his discipline is for you as his woman to say we're gonna wait till we do this God's Way and if he can't do that I mean I was it was a quote that one of the sisters made there was a statement one of the sisters made at queen ology Las Vegas last weekend and it went something like this I know I'm about to butcher it what's something like this I wish I had it at hand it's it's it went something like this if a man if if you if you're worth as a woman if you're worth a man having sex with if you're worth a man having sex with I'm I don't have it but I'm gonna try if you're worth a man having sex with you're worth marrying if you're worth marrying you're worth waiting on if the man you're considering having sex with is not willing to wait he's not worth having sex with if he's not worth having sex with he's not husband material I butchered it but you get the point see that now to test a man on this this self-control thing means that you have to as a woman it means that you have to have control of yourself which which also means that many of you need to go on some fast and you need to get control of your flesh because your flesh is way out of control that's just the truth you know everybody talked like it's just dudes out here that's turned up sexually but these women you know y'all turned up to and you you you you know you're trying to figure out how you gonna make out without this you need to figure out how are you gonna make out without this because you are the most precious thing God made and nobody is supposed to experience you outside of the context of what is divinely in order and if you're out of control you can't test the can you can't test the self-control of a man you feel me these are things that should be in place before you even consider a man another thing you can't give a man you can't give him a work ethic if a man is just you know doesn't want a job you know set aside you know drive a brother just don't eat doesn't even want a basic job he's satisfied just not working he's satisfied just you know government assistance or hustling nickels and dimes here today and he doesn't want a job he won't keep a job while him try to get a job you can't give him and a work ethic you can marry man thank you oh I'm gonna I'm gonna teach him I'm gonna turn him into mm-hmm he's gonna turn you into something you know what that nobody's gonna turn you into he's gonna turn you into the man of the house but you were not ordained to be you will be walking around the house you got to be the mama you gonna have to be the the walk you're going to be the man you have to be the provider you have to make the bacon cook the bacon clean the skillet can't give a man a work ethic and you know people say to me I shouldn't say what I'm getting ready to say but I'm gonna say it cause it's what I believe now I'm not necessarily always right I think I'm wrong a whole lot of times but I'll figure it out when I meet God he'll let me know where I was wrong if I were a woman in a way in the world I would even consider man that wasn't concerned about making no money I'm gonna say it one more time if our woman I wouldn't consider a man that's not concerned about making money what you think Lee huh you think I'm right about that you think I'm wrong now don't get me wrong and I'm not talking about a woman should be a gold digger but the reality is that she shouldn't have to dig for it he should put it on table that woman had my money from the moment she had my heart she had too little money our hair whenever I had a lot of money she had that she got she got because the Bible says where a man's treasure is there will his heart be also if a man doesn't have a work ethic if a man says he loves you and he wants to marry you and he doesn't have a work ethic he won't even get off his bottom to go to a job that should tell you enough what's gonna happen to you if you can't work scrapping to your children we got you got a lazy man before God gave Adam Eve he gave him a job he gave him resources he gave him gave him home a home somewhere to bring the woman no broke man spoke they have no sex with no woman broke man useful to have no sex that's a different story if a man you know has been holding it down he has issues you know sometimes brothers have injuries stuff go on things go wrong in life you heard that brother down I never will forget when Katrina hit and disrupted my whole life my wife said to me sitting in a hotel we lived in a hotel for two months in Houston Texas my wife said to me she said bate you've been holding us down she said you know I'll go get a job until you figure this out man that you know that did wonders for me woman ought to do that but just to have a man up in your house to mug this your husband this your baby daddy come on now and he don't have a job and you you you didn't walk down our marriage this man sleeping up in the bed with a man that don't won't make no money well one of your greatest needs as a woman and security and the Bible says that money is a defense and you got a man that you call your husband that is not concerned about making money he's satisfied with the status quo he will have no dreams of y'all gone to the next level and you you think that's so you datin this dude right now and he doesn't want a job and everywhere you go he's spending your money and you I almost said something but I don't know if n nobody you naive enough to let this man that doesn't this grown man that doesn't want a job spend your money y'all sitting on they eating in restaurants and you swiping your card and you call this your man come on let's have a father-daughter talk when you see that am and I'm on the job you know that there's it doesn't fit until you future not unless you just not unless you just a bum now if you bum you know y'all might be Polly oh but if you plan on going somewhere and you clown provide a certain kind of lifestyle for your children you got to have a man like Adam a man that understands his relationship right with God a man that knows why is he why he's here a man that has resources a man that can take care of you you've got to have that you don't need no man just have on your arm two mighty cute and all that he is walking around his chest poked out cuz eat him walked out all day and don't have a dime in his pocket credit bad don't have a don't even have a job application here we know what a job application look like because he got women just been taking care of it because he can make his make his chest jump you don't like that Terry Crews you make one side jumping you just make his chest dance and then y'all just go and pay for it come on my man let me get off here cuz I'm about to about to go in but there's certain things you cannot give a man and you got to know that these things are in place before you would submit your life to man if a man's okay Missy [Applause] if a man give a man character okay watch this you cannot give a man character you cannot give a man character if he's dishonest if he's not a man of his word if he's not loyal you know that soon into the dating process why go further why go further let me shut it down with this the big mistake you make as women when it comes down to choosing men that don't have the basics so may God have all of this stuff in place for you to be in a position where you can really help him the biggest mistake you make as a woman when you consider a man that doesn't have the basic fundamental components of manhood is that you fail to understand that when you marry a man watch this even even before that when you sleep with a man you run the risk of having that man seed and when you look at a man and if his character is not to an extent that you can say I'd love for my children or my sons more specifically to be like this dude if you look at the man that you didn't wouldn't dating now and you say if I have a son but his do do I want my son to be exactly like his father and if you come back with no you might need to really reconsider what you're doing because all to the Old Testament the Bible says and this one was the son of that one and he continued in the sins of his father the character of a man usually shows up in the character of his sons and it impacts when a man lacks character it impacts the stability of his daughters this thing about choosing a man is serious because if you if you're really looking at relationships from the perspective from a biblical perspective the Bible says that the man should be head over the woman doesn't mean that he's superior to the woman I don't teach that nor do I believe that but I do believe that there's a position that the man holds is almost like the pilot in a plane who wants to fly on a plane with a drunk pilot he's the captain of the ship whichever direction he brings this thing as the direction is going if he crashes it guess what everybody on board is crashing why would you submit your life if you would not get on a plane with a drunk pilot if you knew he was drunk you would you sit down and buckle up and take off no you would not why would you then continue in a relationship with a man that's clearly his characters clearly flawed and he's clearly inept in the ways of manhood but yet you're considering surrendering and submitting yourself and your children maybe your present children but definitely your future show are the possible future children to the oversight of a man that doesn't even have the power to oversee himself so no a woman cannot make a man she shouldn't try to make a man no my wife didn't have to come and make me my wife came and she helped me I knew where I was going I knew who I was you know I had all of the components in place I just needed a woman in the favour that a woman brings to help me pull it all together when a woman has to make a man she doesn't have a she doesn't have a husband she has a son women make sons they don't make husbands and so with that said I can't think of nothing else I don't even know if I got all the ones I said at the meeting with that said hope that you guys and ladies got something out of this tonight I just wanted to come and spend this time with you you know I think it's something that's that's you know I think it needs to be discussed because so many women are and the illustration I used illustration that I use a lot rather is you know with the shoes it's kind of like you know a pair of shoes all the way you you can call a pair of shoes a pair of shoes is that the right shoe has to be hold the left shoe has to be hold and they have to coincide they have to be of the same kind and even the same size in most cases now if I bring you two shoes that are of the same kind in the same size but one shoe is half put together and I match it next to another shoe that is complete and whole that's still not a pair that's a whole shoe with a half of shoe so you have to make certain that a man is whole before you try to couple or pair yourself with that man all right with that said there's Christina god bless you Christina with that said I'm done I just wanted to talk with you all tonight now let me make a few announcements first announcement I want to make is that queen ology is coming to Philadelphia July 26 and 27 and it is just about halfway sold out already just put it up a few days ago and it's just about halfway sold out god bless you Philly I love y'all it's just about half halfway sold out already that's amazing to me that is absolutely amazing to me let me also make this announcement and just to be certain that people don't get confused this is what is the day's date Lee this is April the 23rd 19 or 20 members in 1920 19 so if you're watching this at some other point in the future you won't think I'm talking about that time we're getting ready to have our major conference in the city of New Orleans June 18th 19th and 20th and a lot of major speakers but within this conference there's this this track called swim sisters winning in ministry and it's basically where it's a it's a network of four women in ministry that I organized and I basically just I'm gonna spend those days along with some other guest speakers pouring into women women who are in ministry because so often in the church women in ministry are forgotten about and are not nurtured and so swim is a network where women in ministry come together and I kind of cover and I pour whatever wisdom I have from anything that you might want to talk about we'll deal with it along with some some other fantastic speakers that are gonna be a part of that track but even if that's not your thing we have a track for men the manhood challenge for men and young boys we have girls of Destiny where Lisa is going to take young girls certain ages that she's gonna pour the principles of queen ology into them on their level we have the leaders lab businesspeople leaders in ministry wherever the preachers Lab for those of you who are preachers and want to sharpen ability to preach we're gonna have the the music track with Bishop Dave Hollister who's gonna talk about music from ministry to industry man we're just gonna have a lot it's gonna be a lot gonna have child care services it's gonna be it's gonna be phenomenal and registration for that is only $49 for regular registration for VIP is just 99 you can go to F OC F i dot org and you can register for that I'd love to have you now that's our biggest conference that we have every year I'd love to have you in the city of New Orleans to spin those days with me especially if you're a woman in ministry our pastor and evangelist or whatever you just you haven't found a network of people that really do it for you I believe that swim is it all right anything else I need to talk about Lee all right well I think I'm done let me pray for you all then I'm going to let you go father I thank you for this time that you've allowed me to spend with the people of God and now founder what what there are many that have to make some serious decisions and choices gotta ask you now to just breathe wisdom into them give them the the wisdom and the courage to make certain moves that they know they need to make and God I thank you now that all is well in Jesus's name I love you all don't forget to stop by my website RC Blake's com sign up for my mailing list in fact about it when you sign up for the mailing list there's a free download of a very popular book that's no longer in print and it's called the laws of manifesting your vision when you sign up for my mailing list I don't know how long I'm gonna leave that up there you can download for free the book the laws of manifesting your vision but you got to sign up for the mailing list I want you on my mailing list so you didn't know exactly what's going on where I'm gonna be in what's happening don't forget to pick up my books from Amazon Queen Allah further daughter talk has been out of stock on Amazon for the longest got that straight thing it's back in stock I think it's gonna be on the site actually in about another four I have days so those of you who've been asking what's going on with Amazon it that book moves it's amazing how fast that book moves queen ology and all of that just you know I don't know what to do god bless you I love you I want you to have a great night and know that Lisa and I are praying for you you're on top and you're going high your God has more in store for you god bless you until next time

Channel: RC Blakes, Jr

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Id: 27NMOwhA3b0

Length: 52min 30sec (3150 seconds)

Published: Tue Apr 23 2019