4 TOUGH DECISIONS THAT DETERMINE ONE’S DESTINY by RC BLAKES

good evening good evening good evening good evening this is RC Blake's and this is Christmas Eve 2019 and we're getting ready to go into New Year in about a week or so and so I'm excited and so I want to just kind of just look tonight it's something that that I was thinking about that I think him benefit a lot of us I think it'll benefit a lot of us in terms of you know getting ourselves prepared for a brand new year in a real way you know not not the traditional New Year's resolution stuff that we never really fulfilled we never keep up with it never really amounts to much but you know embracing this this time in this change of season with a mindset to actually change there are too many of us that want change that don't want to change and I'm guilty of it I think most of us are actually you know really desiring and wanting change maybe even suffering you know emotionally or even physically because of things that we actually could control if we just made up our minds to do something different most health conditions quite honestly are the result of our not taking action or it's the result of inaction on things that we could have long ago shifted that's just the reality we don't always like to face that reality but it's true and so you know when I look at life now through a more mature lens through a consciousness most people are not conscious most people are not aware of who they are they're not really aware of God they're not aware of why they're here they're not even aware of what they're presently doing to perpetuate their own misery most of the people who are suffering can change their suffering if they were just made conscious of who they are what they're doing and why they are where they are right most of the folk who are begging and begging for life to let up on them and you know begging for God to do something the reality is that he said well why didn't God do something the reality was that it was not for God to do it was something that was within the parameters of our personal control God has given us God is not going to do for us what he's empowered us to do for ourselves right and so one of the things that I've come to the conclusion of Thank You yen God bless you one of the things I've come to the conclusion of is that life is more driven by choice than we'd like to accept you know we we all we all love to be the victim you know we all love it because we love the we love the sympathy of garners we love the the pity it produces we love for people to take up our cause and be on our side and you know o me o mine the world is against me and sometimes the world is but most of the time we are stuck in a place that is uncomfortable we're stuck in a place that is less than we deserve simply because we refuse to make certain choices in terms of how we live our lives life is choice driven destiny is decision based and so I want to talk to tonight because we struggle internally you know we struggle internally we go emotionally we struggle spiritually and most of our problems are internal they are spiritual they are emotional and they manifest in terms of physical difficulties financial difficulties or you know just poor quality of life but these things oftentimes are engineered beneath the surface in those immaterial aspects of our life or our lives the way we think the stuff we hold on to the decisions we make or don't make create the world that we hate you know like there are many that are watching right now who struggle with high blood pressure and if you boil that thing down many times it's based on stuff in your heart that you refuse to let go of you know you're poisoning yourself with your own your with your own thoughts it is uh it is a sick soul that is producing or what sick life and so therefore tough decisions that all of us at some point have to make but very few of us find it easy to make most of us at some point will you know falter and fail in terms of making one or more of these decisions if not all some of us avoid all of them which makes for a very sad existence and makes for a very debilitated dysfunctional life the Bible says in geo 314 or let's look at Deuteronomy 30 and 19 Deuteronomy 30 and 19 says I call heaven and earth to record this day against you that I have set before you life and death blessing and cursing therefore choose life that both that both bow and that seed may live make a choice I've set before you life and death blessing and cursing choose life make a decision life destiny is what decision based Joelle 314 records a passage that really speaks about eschatology or the end times or things to come in terms of what's going to ultimately happen with the world and all of that but there's an interesting statement made here in Joel 3:14 multitudes multitudes in the valley of decision for the day of the Lord is near in the valley of decision you know we'd like to think that somehow eternity is gonna swallow us up and it's beyond our doing and we either go here or there after you know death based on something out of our control and the reality is that all of us while we're breathing we're in the what valley of decision and so your life will be a direct result of the decisions you make or you know the things you choose for or against for things I want to share with you that become very tough decisions that can alter or shift your life shift your reality drastically number one is a tough one it's the decision to forgive it's the decision to forgive you have just a little over a week before we turn another year not only another year but another decade and I don't know if you've paid attention or not but you should have noticed by now that holding on to the bitterness holding on to the unforgiveness is really not serving you very well it has for some of you it has impacted your health it has impacted your relationships it has impacted your quality of life emo personally it has impacted your life negatively on a spiritual level you've been holding on to this stuff holding on to these people that have done you wrong and you you've not made the decision to forgive them and as a consequence it has done nothing but consistently ruin your life Wow while you're holding on to this person or these people in the meantime they've moved on with their lives and in some cases they have made their peace with God and they've shifted their lives to another level while you're still there holding on to what somebody did you you cannot control what is behind you but you have complete control over what is in front of you and choosing to forgive as I always say choosing to forgive is not about me or them who may have done you wrong choosing to forgive is about you and your your mental emotional and spiritual health choosing to forgive is about you it's really it's really a selfish maneuver when one chooses to forgive and to choose to forgive I'm gonna clarify is about making a choice that I'm going to let my commitment in my attachment to hating you and recalling what you've done every day I'm going to release that relinquish that I'm gonna leave you in the hands of God while I move forward with my life I cannot I cannot look back and hold on to what you did to me in the past and take hold of what's waiting for me in 2020 the only way I can take hold of what's waiting for me in 2020 is that I have to make a decision to let you go like Jesus hang on the cross and he says while they're crucifying and Father forgive them well there's some things we're gonna talk about relative to what forgiveness is not because some of you have not made a choice to forgive because you don't you don't really understand what it is or what it's not and sometimes you have to understand what something is not before you can really grasp what it is in Matthew 5:43 through 45 uses you have heard that it had been said thou shalt love thy neighbour and hate thine enemy but I say unto you love your enemies bless them that curse you do good to them that hate you pray for them which despitefully use you and persecute you that she may be the children of your father which is in heaven for he maketh his Sun to rise on the evil and on the good and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust one day Jesus was teaching about forgiveness and they asked how many times should we forgive should we forgive seven times jesus said in all seven times seventy is something like that was something wild in other words for forgiveness is supposed to be a choice and a lifestyle because the greatest emotional asset one has is the power to forgive if you can let people go you'll always be free if you can let people go you'll always be free and you know when you forgiving well then may not get into that I don't want to take too long tonight but I want to show you four things that forgiveness does not require first decision is what first tough decision in life is to forgive to forgive people not people I'm not talking about people that you think that you wrong I'm talking about people that you know that you are forgiving them just releasing them wishing them ill letting them go leaving them in the hands of God or you choose to move forward with your life to forgive is simultaneously a choice to move forward with my life right four things misconceptions about forgiveness and this is probably a lesson to itself number one forgiveness is not a feeling you know because oh I don't feel like I've like forgiving or I don't feel like I forgiving it's not a feeling forgiveness is not a feeling you don't have to feel it you don't have to feel like it you just make a decision you understand and the repercussions of bitterness that bitterness always springs up in your heart and troubles you and then you make a decision you make a conscious decision to forgive to relinquish yeah it's not it's not a feeling oh I just don't feel like I'm ready to forgive I just don't feel it it's not a feeling ii conception about forgiveness is that to forgive means you got to forget if you don't forget you've not forgiven a lot of religious folk to say that but ain't no Bible for that be honest with you God God you know he takes any cast our sins into the sea of forgetfulness and he remembers them no more but doesn't but that ain't you and me doesn't that's not that's not me I can forgive you but it doesn't mean that I'm gonna necessarily forget fact about it a lot of people that i've forgiven i don't harbor these memories the holy spirit after certain length of time he purges it out of my heart but i remember enough to know that this person is not to be trusted and sometimes i remember exactly what they did and i still forgive them i forgive to a point where i can embrace them in a in a hospitable whatever the other word I'm searching for is you know because it's not it's not emotional it's not necessarily forgetting I can forgive you and remember everything you did I can forgive you and remember everything now I'm not working to hold on to it and to just recall this stuff but sometimes what you did is so deeply etched in my soul that I don't have a choice but to remember what you did but at the same time I can do I can remember what you did and still release you not wish you any ill-will and move forward with my life at the same time and I know that I forgiven you because I don't drag you no more hey I know that I forgiven you because I have opportunities where I could drag you but I don't drag you because I forgiving you and when people say things about you I could participate in the conversation and I could drop you no real truth with as the young folks say receipts attached but I don't drop receipts because I don't walk in unforgiveness I forgive people and I move forward with my life because it's not a feeling I don't necessarily have to forget it does not require forgetting what a person is done sometimes it's it would be stupid to forget quite honestly the third misconception about forgiveness is that if I forgive you I gotta trust you again not so not so not so not so forgiveness does not require you to trust Trust is not a gift given it is a privilege earned and so there are a lot of people that you will forgive that you will never again if you and your right mind trust them again right a lot of folk you will forgive that if you stay in your right mind you you you will never get in life trust these people again I'm not gonna trust you to be of my house no more you don't need my cell phone no more you don't need that kind of access it does not require emotion it does not require forgetting it does not require trust I can forgive you and not trust you and then the fourth misconception about forgiveness and I'll move on to point number two is that if I forgive you it means that I got to resume the relationship no no no no no no just because I forgive you does not mean I restore you to the same place you held in my life just because I forgive you does not mean that I have to put you back in the same slot because I forgave you now man I can forgive you and reposition you or just move you out of my life entirely and yet forgive you the whole lot of folk that I forgive that I'm not going I'm not gonna resume the relationship there is no more relationship you will never have access to me again never not what the dirt you did some folk you'll be able to resume the relationship to some extent I suppose some folk you break the relationship down and then there other folk you just will have absolutely nothing to do with but it has nothing to do with you're making a choice to forgive it's interesting when you look at the when you look at the Gospels and you look at the life of Jesus and you see in his latter hours he has Judas betraying him and then he has Peter denying him when Jesus long story short raises up from the dead he tells the disciples you know meet men such as such and bring Peter with you tenacious one god bless you thank you he says his disciples meet me in such in such a place this is after he's resurrected and bring Peter after Jesus Judas kissed Jesus Jesus said absolutely nothing about Judas nothing he didn't ask God to forgive him he didn't you know ask where you know he mentioned Judas no more just because I forgive you doesn't that mean that you resume your place in my life because once Maya Angelou said once a person tells you or shows you who they are believe them the first time you're not going to show you're not gonna prove to me that you're a snake and you bite me and I recover I'll forgive you but I'm not gonna wrap you around my neck again like a winter scarf so the first the first difficult decision that determines destiny is the decision to forgive there's some of you that have some people you need to forgive let's pray right now then I move to point to father I thank you for this time that I have with your people now God I ask you to give them the supernatural ability to release and let people go give them the supernatural ability to release and to let people go god I declare in the name of Jesus that they will not bring bitterness into the new decade they will release people and they will let them go they will not be loaded down with bitterness and ill-will in the new decade their destiny depends on it in Jesus's name Amen the second difficult second difficult decision that determines destiny number one is to forgive that's a decision the second difficult decision that will determine your destiny is to take responsibility nobody wants to take responsibility you know people like me that struggle with weight we want to blame it on McDonald's we want to sue McDonald's for puttin whatever they put in a food and you know you got all the fast food restaurants messing up all the taste of the food because people like me that's overweight and out of control you know want to want to try to sue the people for putting the stuff in the food that draws us to the food is we say well they doing stuff in the food to make it addictive and all of this kind of stuff McDonald's didn't start that your grandma started that especially if you if you come from a black house black family like I do or an african-american family like I do your garment started that you get McDonald's ain't start no create no food that's addictive gram mom started at that great-great grandma started that if you're Italian you know why you know started it but we want to blame everybody else for our situation nobody wants to take responsibility here's the reality you can spend year after year after year blaming me blaming you know black folk won't blame the white folk the white folk wanna blame Hispanic fokin you know the Democrats want to blame Trump Trump wanna blame Nancy Pelosi and all of this kind of stuff and we all sitting around here playing the blame game and we don't realize that while we're failing to take responsibility for ourselves we are going nowhere we are going nowhere you're not going to move forward into destiny until you take responsibility because here's the reality here's the reality your life is not stuck because of me or anybody else nobody has that kind of power nobody has that kind of power that they can do something that can cause your life to get stuck to a point that you can't move forward when you're not moving forward it means that you're not taking responsibility for things that are well within your control like we at least and I was sitting down last night having a conversation with a very wise man very wise man you known all over the world and he said something powerful he's talking about how his approach to teaching about fatherhood and teaching men in particular and how men want to say well you know I'm not a good husband because I have a daddy or you know I'm in jail because I didn't have a dad in or I'm you know I'm I'm broke because I didn't have a daddy and and of course the father wound plays a role absolutely but even in my online program about transcending the father wound we talked about substitutes how God will raise up substitutes in your life and we also talked about which he said last night God is not going to give you a destiny and then say to another person even it even if it is your biological father you have control over this person's future so if you don't do XY and Z they can't make it mm-hmm if you had a father or didn't have one if you're stuck in a rut you're stuck in a rut because you're not taking responsibility for your life and you're buying into the world telling you that because your father wasn't there you have an excuse or because you're black you have an excuse or because you're Hispanic you have an excuse or because you're white for whatever reason you have an excuse we don't have no excuse I'm so loving life thank you thanks to all of you all you don't have no excuse God is not gonna put your destiny in my care it ain't gonna happen man in angle that's my father right there see that dude right there that is my biological father that's the man that taught me pretty much everything I know that's the man that established a foundation for my life and everything you see me doing this dude right here is is presently in heaven he's deceased going on seven years now he didn't have a father or a mother he was raised by his grandparents in Woodville Mississippi they took him out of school when he was I think nine years old or something like that maybe a little older is an adolescent he came to the city of New Orleans and he took responsibility for his own life he got into adult education program God is is a graduate equivalence or high school diploma equivalent whatever you call it went on the seminary became one of the greatest religious spiritual leaders in the nation that man right there without father or mother was the greatest father anybody could ever have became a father to thousands of other people so when you see me with all of that it's nothing new I got that from this guy but the thing I love about this guy is that he never made excuses for well you know I started below zero I didn't have I didn't have support I didn't have anybody in my corner he never made excuses he always took responsibility for his own life and as a consequence he rose above the crowd but he always took responsibility you one of the toughest decisions you will make in life is to take responsibility and not fall into this trap of playing into you know the pity program pal Ainge god bless you thank you thank you all tonight holding ourselves responsible is an act against our pride when I take responsibility when I can say ok this is what I did it wasn't good it wasn't right but I did it I won't do it again holding ourselves responsible is an act against our pride and self-interest when you're not enlightened when you're not conscious as a woman or man you're more consumed with looking good rather than being good you're more consumed with imagery over character but when you become conscious and you are enlightened you more you're more moved by your true care because that's the only thing that's going to last see my painting a picture for y'all and you know faking to be something I'm not that can only last as long as that little you know gig can go but when I am when I take when I take responsibility for my life and I actually make concrete changes in my life that goes into eternity with me look what the Bible says in proverbs 28:13 he had covered his sins shall not prosper but whoso what confesseth and forsaketh him shall have mercy whosoever takes responsibility for his shortcomings shall have what mercy but the one that covers this in shall not possible most folk of covering their sins there they're protecting their image cannon bundle image man I care about reality I don't care what people you know I mean to a certain extent of course I care what people think but realize I don't care what people think not as long as I know I'm right or getting right I don't have to be perfect because nobody is but I got to be in the process of perfecting and to perfect means I have to take responsibility for the areas where I'm flawed it's a tough tough decision most folk don't won't do it man most folks don't want to take responsibility they'll argue you down and they'll just keep you know flipping the conversation just to protect their image no substance just style right look what the Bible says in 1st John chapter 1 verses 8 through 10 it says if we say that we have no sin we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us if we confess take responsibility for our sins he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness if we say that we have not sinned cover up our you know issues we make him a liar and his word is not in us how do we make him a liar because God is the one who set all of sinned so it's no news but you and I are flawed that's not news God been said that that's why we needed this town me turn this into a Bible study but that's why we needed Jesus to come because in the beginning Adam the first man was put in a perfect situation and he sinned in the wages of sin is death Jesus had to come that's why Jesus didn't have a natural father the Holy Spirit the Bible says leaped into Mary's womb and said to her now you've conceived she was a virgin she gave birth to a son that was the son of God and he lived a sinless life like no man could ever do and died on the cross for all men's sins one portion of Scripture said through one man's disobedience we all became sinners through another man's righteousness we all become righteous I didn't mean to go there so number one is the decision to forgive that's a tough one number two is the decision to take responsibility number three I only have four now the third tough decision that determines destiny is the decision are y'all waiting for it to let go tough tough decision the decision to forgive Lee if you need to move around you can move around at least look unless you want to get in the kitchen they don't care they'd like to see you anyway so the decision to forgive the decision to what take responsibility and then thirdly is the decision to let go tough tough decision but you can't imagine how many people are stuck in a place in life that they hate because they just won't make the decision to let go they're waiting on a feeling but letting go requires a decision sometimes it's your children you gotta let go when they get to a certain age you got to just let them go you got to let them go and learn on their own sometimes they got to hit the head against the wall that you've you know encountered in the past you can't protect them from that you gotta let them go and you gotta what move forward with your life live your life sometimes it's a person that you were in love with and you thought that you would spend the rest of your life with this person and they proved to be a low-down no-good mmm blanket a blanket it Blake you gotta call it what it is there they go let them go so many people are struggling with not letting go just not being able to let go everybody you know the narcissist and how the soul time all of these things are real but at some point you gotta just sit there and yo you got to sit there in the situation and you got to look at this thing you gotta say okay this is killing me there's a part of me that's attached to this but I know that's not healthy it's not productive I got to make a decision to let this go and I gotta sit in it until I overcome this urge a lot of times you don't overcome the pull of the soul times because you keep going back reom bracing it you gotta just make up your mind you're gonna let it go and you're gonna walk through the pain you have to you have to you have to be willing to walk through the pain of purification as your soul is being cleansed it's gonna hurt as you drop in friends that never really should have been in your life it's gonna hurt but you got to make a decision to let it go we find it hard to be finished we find it very difficult to be finished with the things that are dead clearly did and it's the visual of a person that keeps performing CPR on things that haven't had a pulse for a long time it's like performing CPR on a corpse was walking through the hospital a of a day and I looked on one of the things and they have little flip signs over doors and on certain doors you walk past they'd have DNR do-not-resuscitate in other words this person codes don't bring them back but how many of us are working on things that have coated and we're wearing ourselves out you know when those people performing CPR and they're just pushing and working more that's a whole lot of work this is constantly how many folk on here tonight are wearing yourselves out trying to breathe life back into something that has not had a pulse for a long time are you were going to a new decade with a dead relationship that you've been trying to resuscitate for the last decade gone you some of y'all been working on it for the last two decades are you gonna bring that into rap are you still trying you are you still around here trying to fit into this circle that you call friends and your friend to them but they've never been friends to you are you still around here and you haven't let this go yet what is wrong with you you got to be delivered look what the Bible says in Isaiah 43 18 and 19 I'm almost done he says remember ye not the former things neither consider the things of old don't remember not the former things forget to stuff this behind you neither consider the things of old stop remembering the good old times when we're looking for some good new times now behold look observe pay attention I will do a new thing now which shall spring forth shall he not know it I will even make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert God says when you take your eyes off what's behind you and you let that go and you look forward to what I have for you I will begin to create miracles way in the wilderness rivers in the desert God says I have some miraculous stuff I'm trying to bring the pass in your life okay here is there is there is the real a lot of you that are concerned with mostly ladies when isn't when is my husband gon show up well he may have shown up a few times but every time he shows up every time the King shows up you got the clown sitting on the throne see you can't expect me to park the car when you got somebody else in the space because you haven't let that go see they're too many of us that want to hold on to what was and think we're going to take hold of what can be not gonna happen you gotta let that go and you got to fully embrace what God has for you moving forward and then God says oh look I'm gonna do a new thing I'm gonna show you some stuff you've never seen before but you don't wanna let that go that's why that's why that's why that's why that's why that's why and then finally the fourth difficult decision that determines destiny what was number one number one was the decision to forgive number two was to take responsibility number three was to let it go and in number four is to finally do it you've been talking about it but it's it's time to make the decision to finally do it you've been just procrastinating you've just been procrastinating running your mouth wasting time I mean absolutely wasting time in life God has given you so much potential that you have not even committed yourself to pursuing you're just sitting around wasting life and the Lord says now it's time for you to make the difficult decision to finally do it just make up your mind you're gonna do it it is not going to happen until you do it nobody's nobody's gonna ride in on a white horse and done to the dog save the date and do it for you it ain't gonna happen until you do it and you have to make the decision that in 2020 I'm doing it period in fact about it I'm gonna get started this week before this last week of 2019 ends I'm gonna get started because I'm making a decision right now to do it let's pray and then imma finish this father I thank you I thank you for the oil for the grace of decisiveness I bind the spirit of procrastination and confusion lethargy laziness I bind them in the name of Jesus and god I thank you for the power that works within us to make a decision and we make a decision now that we are going to do it whatever you've put in our hearts we are going to do it we're not gonna sit around waiting we're not waiting on you know some group to come in and support us God we're going to do it with whatever you've given us we're going to do it I make a decision tonight gonna do it Jesus's name look what the Bible says in Ecclesiastes 9 and 10 he says whatsoever the hand find that to do do it with thy might but there's no work nor device nor knowledge nor wisdom in the grave whither thou goest in other words whatever you gonna do you got to do while you live in have you noticed a faster years of passing by well it ain't gonna happen once you once you check out of here you can't leave no leg you can't create no legacy once you did you got to do what you're gonna do while you're breathing but you got to make a decision to finally do it what is it what is it that you have in your heart that God expects you to produce before you die and you're just sitting around wasting life producing none of it what is it you gotta make a decision now I'm gonna do it I'm scared Oh Kevin about that I'm gonna do it and the Bible says in Ecclesiastes 11:4 through six he that observed the wind shall not sow and he that regardeth the clouds shall not reap as thou knowest not what is the way of the spirit nor how the bones do grow in the womb excuse me of her that is with child even so thou knowest not what no it's not the works of God who make it all in the morning so that seed and in the evening with hole not thine hand but thou knowest not whether shall prosper either this or that or whether they both shall be alike good what he's saying is if you sitting around waiting on the perfect time to do what you know you're supposed to do you'll never do anything you're just observing as well it's not a good time it's never gonna be a good time at some point you got to just make up your mind this is the time I have and I'm going to do it I'm taking advantage of the time that I have and I'm going to do it thank you sure I'm going to do it I'm going to do it 2020 is my year to get off of my bottom stop making all of these excuses well I'm too old you know I'm traumatized I got PTSD I may I may have all that but I'm doing it I'm doing it I'm not regarding the age I'm doing it I don't care nothing about what my bank account look like I'm doing it I'm gonna make my I'm gonna make the first step of God's gonna show me miracles I'm gonna forget what's behind me and I'm going to step into what God has in front of me and I'm gonna see the power of God do for me what I could have never done for myself all God is waiting on is for me to do it and I'm going to make the tough decision to do it so that's my little message for tonight on this Christmas Eve and I hope to come to you a little more on next week as we wind the year down back about it this may be premature but I'll say it I invite you if you're anywhere around the cities of New Orleans Louisiana or Houston Texas I invite you now Laure god bless you that's my baby from Los Angeles god bless you I invite you now to join us this weekend at the new home Family Worship Center I'm going to be talking about and peek you know stay close pay close attention because I'm gonna be talking about making a contract with yourself for 2020 making a contract with yourself not a resolution but a contract with yourself for 2020 and if I'm able to do what I'm thinking it'll be something that if you if you plan on attending you'll be able to download the document and print it and bring it with you Thank You Janelle oh thank you I'm amazing god bless you you'll be able to download it and print it and bring it to the service with you as we go through the lesson certain parts of it you'll be able to fill in and when we're done you'll have all of the notes to the lesson making a contract with myself for 28 20 I'm intent that you're going to get more out of life in 2020 if you follow me I'm gonna do my best to give you some of the tools to actually maximize your life for 2020 so this weekend at new home Family Worship Center New Orleans 8 a.m. 9 a.m. in the East 8:00 a.m. uptown New Orleans and in Houston Texas for 11 a.m. all three of those services I invite you to come and be a part of it it's going to bless you life right also if you anywhere around the cities of New Orleans or Houston you can join us for Christmas worship tomorrow in New Orleans 9 a.m. eastern New Orleans and uptown and even in Houston at 9 a.m. tomorrow Lisa and I would love to meet you if you anywhere around Houston and ok don't forget this and I got to go we are coming to London England Lisa and I are bringing Queen ology to London England March the 27th and 28th if you go to RSC Blake's calm you can get tickets for that event queen ology comes to London England that Friday night the 27th we'll have dinner we'll have Q&A maybe a panel discussion of some kind and in that Saturday we wake up that morning and it's going to be four hours of soul of just you know poring over the five tenants of Queen consciousness it's going to be amazing it's going to be amazing in London England and I want all of you that in Europe I need you to help me to spread the word RC Blake's calm go there and I would love to see you in London England also don't forget that and you live 2020 we are we're having the Queen ology Western Caribbean cruise and what a date sleep if you lie 19 through the 26th also at RSC Blake's calm you can get the information about how to tap into that if you desire to come and to cruise with us we calling it the clean ology cruise I will have released my book in fact I spent all day today writing on my book King ology I will have released it by then and if we have enough men we'll have sessions for the Kings as well as the Queen's it's going to be amazing man stay tuned we have a powerful conference coming up in June it's going to be amazing it's going to be life-changing if you're anywhere around Chicago I'll be Chicago next month in January I'll be in Chicago go to my website RC Blake's comm and look under live events and you can plug in to the information about where I'll be in Chicago won't be my event I'm the guest speaker but I think I have like two and a half to three hours to be to really just deal with the people that will be present and I'd love to see you so many of you asked for me to come to come to Chicago and we are bringing clean ology to Chicago but I'll be there next month and the registration is very very minimal so I'd love to see you in Chicago when I'm there anything I'm forgetting me that's it that's it that's all folks I love you all I love you all thank you so much for giving me some of your time on this Christmas Eve yeah god bless you thank you for giving me so much of your time on this Christmas Eve I apologize for being so long but I just needed to get that out Merry Christmas to all of you if you've not signed up for my email list please go to ROC Blake's dot-com on the front page there's a tab that will lead you directly to it takes less than a minute sign up for my email list you get all of the information relative to what I'm doing where I'm going when I send out steady notes or whatever you know positive messages whatever don't forget that I just recently dropped the online program queen ology and I'm working on we just finished up we'll be uploading it very soon a document that goes along with the online program online program is ten sessions where it's just kind of you and I talking and we're continuing the discussion and along with it this week we're dropping we're putting we're uploading to the site what is the equivalent of the study guide for the online program or yeah I guess you can call it study guide but what it is it's uh it's it's a document that you can download it I think it's like almost a 16,000 word so it's pretty extensive that goes along with each session and you can it'll help you remember the principles it'll give is going to give you questions to help cement the message their their confessions with each session and there's a prayer with each session and so we just got through working on that we'll be uploading that once it's proofed those of you that have already purchased the program you'll be able to go back in of course and access that so as you go through session one through ten you'll have the document to be able to do the work behind each session and it's designed to do what just cement the message to your soul cement the message to your soul those of you that have not purchased in my books go to Amazon if you won't study guides you can go to RSC Blake's store calm in fact there is a Paulo there now at RSC Blake's store calm you have the queen ology shirt that everybody loves it's usually only available at the conference you have the Queen conscious shirt and you also have what's the other one I have a bitly oh and perfectly holy yeah yeah so that's enough yo I'm talked enough I love you all have a great night and have a merry merry Christmas I'll talk to you real soon god bless you

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Published: Tue Dec 24 2019