hey hey Tony Gaskins here I want to pop in not it's a special video I was taking the day off today Friday Friday as a slow day it's my day off y'all don't watch videos on Friday so I wasn't gonna shoot a video so but let me tell you something this is a secret to life this is secret to like listen to me listen to what I'm telling you okay now you happen to be listening to somebody who is blessed and highly favored but I'm gonna tell you a secret that I have learned and I put this in another video but I understand everybody doesn't see every video so I need to put this different in a different video and what just triggered this is or lady asks me and I've been seeing this a lot lately I later asked me um Tony you know it's a lot of ads in the video and that was right after me seeing another lady saying them ads with a frowny face tell my the advertisements in the video I don't place the ads in the video but let me tell you something that's how you to make money that's how the creators make money so I add in a your video has to be three minutes long for one advertisement when you get the ten minutes then you can have more than one advertisement you can have multiple my videos is 60 minutes so they may put up to 20 ads in that video which will be add every three minutes you some of them you have to watch some of them after four seconds you click skip ad so I have YouTube premium which is what you can do so when I have a complain about something I find a solution I go and get you to a premium I say okay if I don't I don't want to watch all these ads hangout time so let me invest $14.99 a month for you to a premium if I'm not gonna put my money where my mouth is then I'm just my mouth ain't gonna complain about something that I'm not gonna do something about it you see what I'm saying that's a life lesson stop complaining and do something about it make the change okay the other thing is if I'm watching somebody YouTube video and I'm watching it and I'm not in my account and an ad come up if I got to watch the whole 15-second act just what I'm gonna do I'm gonna say that's a cool look product that's cool probably my need yeah or I'm gonna say let me see this production value and it's a good camera they're using oh man look at how he got on ah but he don't know how to act look at that bad smile you should say I'm gonna get something out of that commercial I'm gonna turn it into something then if they say skill add I'll watch the other day from my wife account she don't have you to premium and we watching her beauty bloggers and ad came on at the beginning of video the one that hadn't even said anything yet I would hit with an ad I said you know what I'm a creator on YouTube I'm gonna watch this whole ad I don't need this ad 1 watch this whole ad cuz I don't know what it's gonna do for her and then later on it popped up and it was one where it's a skill ad after four seconds and say skip ad if I don't watch the whole when the next one I might hit skip ad but ain't complaining about it because I understand that's a business so I have the opportunity to sit in the comfort of my home or wherever I am and go on this system that costs hundreds of millions of dollars to build and hundreds of millions of dollars to maintain and hundreds of millions of dollars to market and I did not pay a dime to help build it I didn't spend a second in somebody garage to help create it so why am I going to complain about how they stay afloat if they're providing value for my life you said I'm saying so this what I need you to help you understand about the secret of life and that's just an example but here's the thing you get what you are see life does for you what you do for it you cannot receive if your hand is closed because you want to punch somebody you cannot receive if your hand is open because you're looking for a handout see you're gonna receive when you put your hand out to help to reach to understand and to work so see this is the thing in order to get anything in your life in order to get anything in your life you have to change your mindset I don't seen somebody this example on a scene where I may be helping this person let's say I help this person and I'd have had it to where I'm helping this person and this person goes to somebody else and cries the blues I'm so broke I'm so down and out and then that person does not know that I'm helping this person but then that person comes and talks to me and say yeah I was talking to Lindsay or Jeffrey and he said that well she said it so broke it so down they just need this little small amount of money and I'm like huh are you kidding me I said you didn't know this cuz I ain't tellin nobody business but the person that you talkin to me about I send them X amount of dollars a month so you mean to tell me this person coming to you and twisting your arm for money when I'm blessing person like this is what happens so then it helps me realize that is why that person is where they are in life that is why that person could be more gifted than me smarter than me or have my same gifts but not have 1% of my success because the mindset is a mindset of scarcity the mindset is a mindset of greed the mindset is a mindset of jealousy see here's the problem we don't want to see anybody else happy we don't want to see anybody else blessed we don't want to be inconvenienced or we feel in convinced when somebody else doing something for us if and this just how I changed my mindset because I used to be there I used to be that person I used to be jealous to see somebody else get money making it building a brand I used to be jealous and I was just hitting the wall stalemate when I changed my mindset and I look at somebody i'ma tell you with my spirit at now if I go watch somebody video and I'm looking at it signed out at YouTube but from somebody else account they don't have you to premium and I'm watching this person video and it's something I want to see something I want to learn if the max amount of ads that YouTube can put in there is in that video if the max amount of ads in there this I'm gonna respond to it oh wow okay whoo wet wet overdone whoa but again paid by YouTube making some money okay hey I see you ade do your thing why because you got kids to feed you got it you got a household to take care man you giving me an hour your time hey congratulations okay all I got a little weight fo seconds and hits kill ya see that's my mindset that's why I'm blessed because I'm okay to see this person over here blessed I'm okay to see this person over here eating now see if this your mindset you watching the YouTube video and come up 2 minutes later or add come up three minutes later add come up but all you got to do is 4 seconds and hits kill add you watching the video you don't want to spend $14.99 but you want everything to be done your way for you so the video come on the act oh my goodness again another ad oh my goodness oh this is ridiculous you know what I'm getting these comments up and I'll let him know this is too many ads this is ridiculous up about the ads now let me put what else could go with that let me put what else could go with that okay what else could be said with that you know which one can you do somebody's ass because I am coming on here and I am paying you $100 275 dollars an hour which is your coaching fee so being that I paid $275 but this video I don't expect to see a single ad that's what ought to be said with that but if you come and you complain about something you don't pay for your spirit is in the wrong place well even if you remember the Blessed right that's a dollar ninety-nine what I'm giving 30-plus hours of content every month your spirit is in the wrong place if you complain about advertisement that is business that's the people who run in the ad is paying so they got to get what they spent Dave millions on them they spending hundreds of thousands of thousands or millions on advertisement to build a business that helped a business survive in the midst of what we're going through so you think about that did you you too may put more ads because it may be less advertisers so they may say look if we got some people who'd given us on our word for content let's put more ads over there because we got less advertising got less avatar dollars coming in we don't want to have to be filing bankruptcy because we helping a billion people get release by relaxing and watching the video you said I'm saying so you got to change your mindset and I'm just using this example we own YouTube and it's an advertisement situation and I don't I don't do that I don't set the ass I don't edit my videos I shoot my video I upload my video from my phone I'm shooting this on my phone I upload from my phone everything else that's on you - okay and so this was but see this the I'm using this an example but the point I'm making is bigger than this the point I'm making is until you get to the place in your life that you can have peace that you could be happy to see other people doing good making money earning a living that you could be happy when somebody might look like they doing better than you when you could stop being selfish and you could put the shoe on the other foot and you can say well if I was doing that I would want that too well I would expect that too if I was doing what they don't that would be a blessing to me if I was doing what they don't see when you take in you shift and you stop worrying about and you stop trying to make everything fit you everything fits you I was in dealing with real estate here recently and I'm doing a little real estate and tell you know getting the house for a family member and I say you know family member may have trouble credit so let me know what you need up front and they said well we want first month last month and security I said okay boom that's cool here you go hit go a check I put it I put the check in the mail tomorrow because you taking a risk on somebody who may have a full hundred five hundred credit score so let's make this a win-win ain't go in there and say listen I can only do first month's rent I can't do security deposit I can't do last month well I can do first month and security but I can't do first last and security with no 500 credit score ain't going to trying to negotiate that for a family member or a friend because I realize I got to create a win-win situation so that's how we sound today we want everything to suit us but we're not thinking about that other person we want everything to be perfect and laid out and pristine for us but we think about the other people involved when you get to the place to where you okay with a win-win situation that's when you start to win I was talking to a guy last night in the email about another real estate investment and I say man I want to do on or finance because I don't want to deal with the bank because they because when you go to the bank especially right now they're gonna be like okay right here you went to Burger King alrighty alright then you made $5 from YouTube okay then you went to what is this nail salon okay so let me ask you something why are you getting your nails done and then eating a whopper didn't you think you would get nail polish on the whopper so that's how the real estate people doing you right now you're going to office all right and so I said I want to own the finance the man said okay what what turned you proposing I say you tell me what the owner woman because I wanted to I wanted to suit that owner cuz the owner will be taking a chance to do owner financing on this on this investment property for me so tell me what he won't let's see if it's bad if it ain't fair I called it up and we'll meet in the middle ground cuz see guess what that person might not be like me that person might say well oh okay tell you what I want them to get everything out it know then I bring them on back to reality we'll find a happy ground the words win-win stead of me going in and say I wanted this this this is this and it's all in my favor now yes that is the nature of business that's what people try to do but guess what guess what that's why I have never stood next to somebody that I felt like was more blessed than me cuz it ain't bought more money I just stood next to people that got more money than me way more money than me I'm stood next people that look better than me talk better than me walk better than me I look honest I dress better than me I just stood next to people that got better than me but I don't feel this person more blessed than me when I look at the holistic picture and the reason why is because I shifted my heart to where I want to win win I want this to be for you you you pay a dollar ninety nine to be on the blessed tribe so what do I do I live three to four times a week so you can ask me questions and I make it to where it's only you only the people who in the Blessed try paying that dollar ninety-nine get to be in the chat that's my effort one one video I can't answer all the questions so I do two or three or four a week so that it's a win-win so that even if your question don't get answered you still could say well it's only a dollar ninety-nine so just listening to all these other answers is helping me this could be a hotline that costs a dollar ninety-nine a minute that's what y'all paying when you call it in tarot reader and the psychic reader you paying a dollar ninety-nine or 399 a minute for 60 minutes you called a sick hotline nah y'all nasty you calling a hotline when I was working a group on my head you know clients some of the men they'll call the set hotline then they'll get a phone bill to block my phone we go $500 I think yeah you own the hotline what's your thinking that called money so here's for that dollar ninety-nine what I'm gonna try to do return a string value what did my mentor got life you know what my mentor that life is that's the site where a life coach can go and sign up and create a profile to be booked by clients so guess what this coach pays $19.99 a month you got monthly q and A's we got one tomorrow morning at 10:30 for the life coaches got monthly q and A's if you're not on the my Tony Jackson Academy in that life coaching if you ain't take the course then you probably need to email about the Q&A tomorrow morning so email support if you want my mentor dot like but you didn't take my certification $19.99 a month guess what if that person makes a session $25 an hour and they get booked one time they didn't paid for that month plus put a few dollars in their pocket after they do that ten times when one guy hit me he was at 25 an hour he say hey man I didn't got 12 sessions this month so that means he made $300 guess what his investment was to be on the site $19.99 but he made 300 I created it like that on purpose the where you pay $19.99 but you keep all of your earnings so one day when it build up if you can make a thousand a month through my mentor that life outside of the marketing you doing yourself and getting your own clients guess what you paying $20 and making a thousand and as your rate goes up then and as you build your brand and you driving them to that and you got blog post picture bio $20 of mine now guess what the people who built the site for me the developers when they was doing the tense version of a site do you know what they had the monthly price set at 299 dollars a month because they just assumed that that that's the business investment that if somebody is going to have a business in a box to where they got me bio they got me here shot they got the calendar they could be booked they got blog post that that is their entire business right there and their mindset they over know the race than me their mindset is $300 a month to run your business to market yourself if you're serious that's nothing I took that from 299 dollars a month to $19.99 a month you know why because I wanted to be a over and abundant blessing when a person find a groove and they start getting bull so my mindset was not let me just count much money I can make because guess what I could get a hundred people a thousand people that'll say you know what I'm gonna take this credit card and I'm gonna pay this $2.99 a month cuz I really want to be a life coach I could get people to do that but that would be selfish greed and it would end up hurting them in the long run because what if you own their six months and you have not got booked but you spent eighteen hundred dollars that's a lot of bill money but guess what if you own that six months at $20 a month and you don't get booked you still gonna be able to eat tomorrow you're still gonna be able to eat because what you just spent 120 dollars over six months a hundred and twenty dollars over six months a lot of people can spend $120 today in one day and still be able to eat tonight or eat tomorrow have room left on a credit card but over six months you spend $120 if you get zero bookings you still could eat but that's how I thought about it same thing with my course the life coach certification it's a thousand dollars guess what it's coaches that's making that some three four times that every single month with the coupon code my mentor is less than a thousand dollars so in a month three months six months your coaching you coaching your Facebook friends your Instagram followers your YouTube people you'll already made your investment back in a month two months and then the rest for the rest of your coaching career which you can do the rest of your life it's all profit I made it that way on purpose but guess what I could make my life coach certification course five thousand dollars and people will pay it you know why because people believe the more it costs the more value it is people also will Google my name they will see my what what I've done and they will say you know what they got his net worth on here and that's the wrong net worth they under they under quoting me but it but they make that up they self based on what they could see about you online okay well if that's what they say it never hit Tony guys in network fields these course ought to be worth $5,000 let me take this course they'll put it on a credit card on a chase freedom that got a $10,000 limit they'll put that 5,000 that Chase Freedom and they'll make a monthly pay me in the air month but why don't I make it $5,000 the reason why I won't make it $5,000 is because they could pay that money and then next week change their mind that they don't want to be a life coach anymore I don't want them to have taken up a month two months or three months worth to build money out of a kid's mouth I want them to have made a minimal investment but to have a massive return because I'm thinking about how can I use my knowledge and use my gifts to bless other people and didn't hear you or how people and this was people I'm talking to here you have people who see somebody and my wife she told me she was like Tony you know what the ad stuff just mention it for 30 seconds but don't don't talk about it longer than that and I and I had to come on here today and use it as an example I talk about it longer than that not to say that it bothers me not to say that it bothers me but just to say that well but for me to say my heart is invested in people being happy healthy whole and successful so the reason why I mentioned this it ain't about me and ads because the few people that say that that's not gonna make a difference in the YouTube algorithm they ain't gonna make a difference now if a hundred percent of people have something to say that'll make a difference but less than one percent people got something to say but that's who I'm out to reach not just the people who already get it I wanted people who stuck in a scarcity mindset a selfish mindset a greedy mindset or inconsiderate mindset I want those people that's why I do what I do the change their mindset so that you could enter into a seasonal blessings so that so if I come over here and I talk for a whole hour and I'm dropping jewel that's gonna save you from tossing Beus terrible situations in your life and your and your thanks is you got too many ads on there essentially what you're saying is Tony I want you and you to to do for me for free I wanna take from you and you to I want to use YouTube network and I want to take your knowledge wisdom and understanding and give nothing in return an hour every day because I can't be bothered with these advertisements I can't be bothered with this for seconds and then hits kill ad I can't be bothered guess what their attitude gonna have you broke busted and disgusted in your life if not financially then spiritually if not financially and spiritually then emotionally relationally socially you're gonna be broke busted and disgusted because your mindset is give me gimme gimme-gimme-gimme do for me do for me and i want to do nothing in return I don't want to give you not no thanks in return that is what's gonna block your blessings see just a big picture and so that's what I say you got to look at this because that's what that's what's happening on your jaw that's what happened on your job when you're going and you find everything to complain about what you're not thinking about the person who started that company and what they got a deal with you're not thinking about what it costs for the building that you going to work in for the rent that they got to pay or the mortgage they got to pay on the building you're not thinking about all the attitudes they got to deal with all the emotions all to read for calling I see you're not thinking about it bottom line you're not thinking about what this situation putting that your company through see a lot of time we go into a bid we go into work and what we just thinking about how can this serve me how can this serve me and we're not thinking about how can I serve this situation how can I allow this situation to make me wiser to make me stronger to make me better that's the same thing about when you go into a relationship you're going into a relationship and say who are you for me who are you gonna be for me what are you gonna do for me and you're not saying what can I do for you how can we create a win-win how can I serve you as you serve me serving with love understand the type of serve I'm talking about serving with love how can we create a win-win so that let me know if you could come and say Tony okay you give me an hour of your time but you need to remove the ads you need to take take some of the ads out I do know ads on Sundays on my Sunday sermon guess what I'm coming on Sunday on a marketplace and I'm posting a video for your spirit and I do know advertisements in that video I don't even wear a shirt that has a business on it because that still advertisement on Sunday and so guess what eventually me doing it is gonna equate to me giving away me forfeiting hundreds or thousands of dollars a month that my family won't get to put food on the table but I'm doing that because I say it's advertisement on all the other videos and so on this video I'm not gonna hit that little button that say monetization I hit the button and say monetization but you to they lay out the ass but they automatically they robots and now you could go in there and change it and move it around and all that I don't have time for that YouTube is not 100 percent of my income you to being 80 percent 70 percent my income so I don't have time to be doing all that trying to learn all that getting getting that deep into it I say okay if you to feel like this video is worth X amount of a stand that's what they're gonna put on them because that's the value they place on this video I'm gonna let them do what they do that's what they that's what they give is my GILF is to come on hand talk and to teach that's what my deal I'm operating my gift I'm gonna let you to operate in a deal you see what I'm saying that's my look on it but I go in there on Sunday and I turn it that monetization but know the reason why is because I don't want to offend the Spirit of God the word cuz because the way I know the devil work is I be talking about God and it'll be an advertisement for a psychic or a tarot reader or something that's completely against the Word of God that's how the devil like the play so I only give him the opportunity to do that just like on the video you might see video that dealing with somebody a guy relationship course and he might be all shyster he might be a scam artist and he got a relationship course and he's selling it the aunt got the ad running on my video because I talk on love relationships hopefully my video give you the wisdom knowledge and discernment not to buy to know scammy ad but guess what that compensates them as what compensate me for my time because when I'm when I'm here for an hour I can't be with my sons for hour when I'm here for hours trying to help you avoid a man going outside Joe here trying to help you avoid having a child out of print on wedlock in having another baby daddy or extra baby daddy or extra soul ties extra drama in your life when I'm here for hour with you that's how I'm not with my wife that's how I'm not with my kid so when you come and say Oh timing oh that's too mean ads on them that's essentially what you saying Tony listen give to me but I don't want to get none to you give to me serve me for free even though you don't know me from a can of paint and ain't giving nothing in return and they know your fans the bus about it well I don't have probably the ass but when it's 17 of them no no no ain't no if ands and buts about it ain't no if ands or buts about it if then what the system put on now then what the system put on them it's saying because of the length of this video because what they saying is your normal video is three to seven minutes so they saying get full on here for 60 minutes so if this fool offender be on here for 60 minutes he eaten up all kind of bandwidth he eaten up all kind of data he eaten up all kind of megabytes so we got to put mo ads on this cuz we need our bread what run be my money buddy cuz you filling up the service with your hour or day you filling up the service so your channel need to be paying us because that's how they get paid I'm using up day server space so then when I say oh I made a video seven minutes lock no don't make a seven minute no don't make a seven minute so you're saying essentially don't make it shorter Tony don't give me less time so you can give your family more time keep it the same length but take out take out a lot of the ads so that I don't have to be bothered you see you don't say so I want you to understand ain't man with you alright a man with you but listening you blocking your blessings not just on not not here not here cuz what I'm doing only gonna do so much for you but in life because that's a mindset that is a scarcity mindset that is a selfish mindset that is that mindset is going on to your job that mindset is going in to your friendships that mindset is going in to your relationships so that is what is going to block your blessings if you notice all I try to do is Gil that's why you never hear me do the normal spiel that you hear you tools do you never hear me say on most youtubers on every video they're gonna say hey make sure you hit the subscribe button and the like button Oh ask you to do nothing but to sit down and have an open mind and an open heart to receive a word that garden gave me to get you I don't care if you hit subscribe because YouTube shows me that 50% of the people that's consuming my videos have not hit the subscribe button I don't care no about that I don't care about that I don't care if you hit the thumbs up button button or thumb down but I don't care about that because it's about me being obedient to who sent me so all I'm trying to do is give and that's what I'm trying to tell you when I shift to that mindset coz he some people they still thinking about they sell so they're gonna say hey do for me and in the wrong with ain't no wrong with it that's how you live they're gonna say hey I'm doing this for you I'm providing the value for you make sure you here subscribe make sure you hit that like button that what they're gonna say I don't say all that because I'm I'm coming to give and then I'm just gonna hope that if you're a decent person if you got if your heart in the right place that's gonna be the people who hit thumbs up and he'll hit subscribe that's gonna be the people who do that the people who just come and take and they just taking and they just taking and they just take it and they won't hit thumbs up or subscribe guess what that state mindset those people are takers those people are users especially if they come in everyday to get the content and so they value they see value in the content but they won't do nothing else that's a scarcity mindset that's a selfish mindset that's a greedy mindset so guess what your mindset determines your life your mindset that's what's gonna block your blessings in business block your blessings in your relationship in your friendship familliar relationships intimate relationships that's what's gonna block you but when you go to a place to where and now I'm seeing some people do this it's been some it's I don't see some people comment okay Tony you baby you can all have attachments now now they they might be looking at it like I'm a brand and I'm getting brand sponsorships man ain't got nothing do that you to do that number and don't even know me number and don't even know who videos they showing up on number and just paying Google some money and saying put our advertisement where you see fit and then the robots doing the rest of it but it's some people okay Tony I see you you didn't you don't blew up ok you got all kind of ad and it's like they cheering me on like they happy like a broke that's a blessing you can't advertisements on your video that's a glass tank god bless you cuz I appreciate the hour you give for me guess what the old people gonna succeed because they don't mind seeing somebody else be blessed especially if they getting a blessing from it too but even they ain't getting a blessing from it and so sometime I see you know I watched YouTube video to not only love relations i watch like car vlogs and finance stuff i watch different youtube and i don't bother nobody though i'll comment and then i hit the like button on comment and i hit the subscribe button on my subscriptions are private my like videos are private you know so you ain't got to be in my business and not what you ought to do too if you want to but i don't say that in the comments but I see people who didn't give a whole spiel about hitting the subscribe button and hitting the like button and I go to their comments and look to see who complaining about them taking five ten seconds to talk about that and I don't see any complaints I won't see any complaints and I'm like alright so people really might not care about them saying hit the subscribe hit the like button maybe people don't care you know and maybe some people get it but then I come over here on my oh you know I really appreciate your videos and everything that you do but the advertisements oh my goodness if I have to see one more ad I'm gonna throw up in my mouth and I'm like so here we go okay and I go to my wife sometimes I talk to about it and it should be like what if for seconds then you hit skill and like how people making an issue by that and then she is she is si man i'ma pray for you man she's like I don't I don't understand cuz she helped me do customer service my wife do customer service email - sometimes when you write in the support sometimes you think you talking to Katie no you're talking to Sheree Gaskins a lot of times you might be talking to Sheree Gaskins with your looking nasty attitude talking down to people you might be talking to Sheree Gaskin you might be talking to Tony Gaskin right there in the support yeah uh-huh yeah yeah sometimes yeah and sometime I why she come she said I just don't know why some people like this but it helps me understand human nature it helps me understand why there is a separation between the successful and unsuccessful it helps me understand why everybody is not successful it helps me understand why everybody is not at peace why everybody is not blessed why everybody is not where they want to be or making good progress to where they want to be it helped me understand that and the reason why is because of the mindset and your heart when you jealous of others when you selfish when you're greedy when you think about yourself you are going to block your blessings think about it like when we go on a Q&A you will see some people ask a question and get a question answer and then ask 50 more questions and just hog up all the questions and make it a one on one session when they could look and see that is so many other people asking questions and not getting their question answered just because their question is is showing while I'm talking so I'm not seeing their question and it just so happened that when I go back to read the next question is somebody that I already answered a question for so it's sometimes by accident I answer the same person question two or three times and then some people will take and get a whole session for 15 20 dollars because when you give a donation it pop up on my screen and if this were the question I gotta answer that but some people they'll take and give $5 $5 $5 get all their key questions answered so for 15 dollars they just had a session when that same amount of questions get answered on a coaching call that cost two hundred and seventy-five dollars you know it's some people that I will take and make a course five dollars like the soul talk course is five dollars then I will by mistake I will give a coupon code of thirty percent off for courses I would give a coupon code of thirty percent off for all the other courses but I don't think to go in and take off that five dollar course because I'm thinking like man ain't nobody gonna see that I don't gave a 90 percent discount on this course this course is 50 dollars I don't made it five dollars ain't nobody fender gold and add a thirty percent coal on top of the nine percent on engage you will be surprised you'll be surprised how many people do that I say wow oh my goodness I'm gay you 90% how you finna take my 30% cold and put it on top of cold on top of a course that's already discounted 50% tonight % oh my goodness and then somebody say well it's only something y'all letting people litter they just might be broke they might it might just be that tight no no it ain't that it's that tight that somebody needs something that's five dollars they need it for three dollars it ain't that tight it ain't that tight especially if you fish from somebody that's already giving you a whole lot but that's the mindset that people have I went to a site one time and I'm just showing you the difference in my mindset and why I've been able and being blessed to be able to start multiple companies and create over 50 streams of income and not have stress and worry in my life I shift my mindset I'm gonna tell you what happened one time I went to a site and they had a code at the top and say use this code for 20% off I ordered the item for my wife that was probably $300 Oh 300 to 700 I ordered two items and I forgot to put in the code I forgot to put in the code so guess what do you think I emailed them people and said hey let me put you through the trouble of refunding me the difference because of my mistake because of me Russia because of my short-term memory let me put you through the trouble oh you tried to give me a gift let me put you through the trouble or refund and me the difference or refunding me completely so I could do this all over again and I go through sitting and having a way five to 14 business days for it to show back up on my car I saying do that you know what I said I said if I forgot to put it in now and I didn't take my time to look hard at where this cold go then that's a sign that I really didn't need that discount cold that bad I really needed that bad and they doing me a favor they trying to stay in business and they might be hurting right now or they might be just trying to be a blessing and that's why they give me this 20% off so I missed it on them two orders but you know what I said I'm gonna make a mental note I went back to that same site probably a week ago or two weeks ago and I don't order two or three things since then from that site and I put that code in I learn from my mistakes it was my mistake so I ate the mistake ain't called him and topped a customer service and top day logistics and top their accounting department for my mistake what I did is I learned from my mistake then the next time I went to the site the next time I went to the site I made sure I took my time and I made a mental note and I took my time and I look and I clicked around I click okay account summary cuz I ain't see the code click account summary okay it dropped down to me okay there now I say enter your code right here all right there go okay boom cold but 20% all all right thank you whew that's a big savings I'm like wow I kept supporting this company this way I go to get my wife something some nice for nothing gifts and instead of tying them up you see what I'm saying so what my mindset was is if I make a mistake let me eat my mistake and not blame them estate on somebody else see we'll have people that write in will have people that write in and they'll say hey I bought your course on this side on Tony guys in the Academy but then I bought the same course on self law of universe so can I be refunded for the course on self law University because I bought the same course and then I'm like that's your mistake because it's a what courses you buying it but you got to take your time and you got to click what's included if you click what's included then you're gonna see what you buying it and then you will see that you buy in the same course that you already got from the other site in the difference between two sites is one is a monthly payment if you don't have the upfront money for this site so this site is a one-time payment this site is monthly payments so that you could get the same courses but broke down into smaller payments so Toni guys's Academy that you see that y'all go to the sign up for coaching it's different than itself love you it's that that shirt I'll be wearing a black and white shirt to say self - love - the letter U dot com which is also Gaskins University you could type in gasps in the university it's the same courses but just one is monthly payments as low as $9.99 because you may won't be these courses but you don't have forty seven dollars right now so you pay $9.99 you get to take the course you've done with the course you council your membership you actually just got that course for $9.99 you see what I'm saying and so people are going make them estate and then write in to my company and want us to eat their mistakes because guess what now when we have to eat their mistakes it shows to the payment processor that we are high risk business because we have to keep issuing refunds but the refund is due to user error not our error you see what I mean but some the way we are in life is we want to do the crime but we don't want to do the time we want to make the mistake but we don't want to pay the we want to rush through life but we don't want the consequences that come with rushing and taking shortcuts we want to get everything for us but we don't want the person that's giving it to us to get anything for it so we want somebody to hand sew song take 50 hours to hand sew this quilt and then we want to bargain them down on the coast we want somebody to live for 10 years 15 years 20 years 25 years of experience in the industry make a course for us and then we want to talk them down in a course when they spent 25 years 10 years 15 years getting that knowledge we want somebody to invest they entire life savings into real estate lose thousands of dollars or hundreds of thousands of dollars and then we won't limit eight and make a course for a few dollars after data invested countless hours and countless dollars so that we could learn and people do it but even though they doing it people are still say I'll give me a discount that's our mindset you know what I came to the place if I'm not buying like a you know if I'm if I'm buying something that I know is like you know 300% markup business then I negotiate on the price but when I'm buying something that I know is at its price this what the market value is it's like I don't want the lure of a time and go get my wife my wife bought me this hell Louisville time thing she can go to the counter and say hey this is on $500 or $600 can you give me this for 250 No because they're gonna say no this our brand it's our legacy you don't know what kind of level of the sales you know what this will mean at this said this one I this one may Hill in Florida this from Italy okay this this legacy this prestigious don't come up here to this counter asking us for no sale you said I'm saying but that's the mindset that a lot of people have so no they like no get on your grind get your work ethic together get your savings together hey you could get jobs you could get your credit up and get a credit card and coming here and then come see me but I'm coming to ask for no discount because this is my brand is my legacy you said I'm saying and so that's what you got to realize is that when you change your mindset and say okay instead of asking instead of me asking you to compromise your self-worth to get on my level let me elevate my life they get on your level instead of me coming in the relationship and say hey be okay with my body because I eat what I want to eat when I want to eat it how I want to eat it and I ain't seeing a gym and I don't know how long but you be ok with that door instead of me saying that I need to go and say hey let me get myself together let me start eating clean let me start eating healthy let me start going to a gym or at least working out in my house doing bodyweight squats push-ups it up walking around my neighborhood for 30 minutes a day let me do that for 3 months then let me come back and approach you then let me connect with you because I see you take care of your body I see you you eat right you work I you do what you're supposed to be doing so let me instead of asking you to compromise and come down to my level let me elevate the yo level you see I'm saying you have to change your mindset in every aspect of life and when you do that when you do that that's when everything changes that's when you open the windows of heaven that's when khakha open the windows of heaven and pour out in your life but as long as you broke mine did you PO mind it see if you broke mine that you're gonna be broke pocketed but when you rich minded you abundant minded when you stop looking at a dollar cost and you look at the value when you say you know what because because people will look at something $19.99 a month are you kidding me some people gonna look at it like that and say I cannot afford $19.99 mine for my life for my business for my brand for my future for my family I cannot afford $19.99 lutely not that is too expensive and then other people gonna come and say $19.99 a month and I could put a professional headshot on there how much the headshot $100 I could write a professional bio write some blog posts I could take a course for $1,000 or less so all in eleven hundred and twenty dollars and I got another 40 years thirty years to live I could charge $50 an hour I could get the ten ten sessions a week I could make five hundred dollars extra income a week two thousand dollars extra a month twenty four thousand extra a year twelve hundred Fiegel you said I'm saying a broke mindset gonna produce a broke life a rich mindset and abundant mindset gonna produce a rich life a giving heart when you give more gonna come back to you I talked to you about the way that I Gill I talked to you about the way that I give every month and sometimes I give when I don't have it to give but guess what it all comes back pressed down shaken together and running over like it's certain people that watch TV videos it's certain people it's a handful of people that they'll send me a can shout shout out the arm you know caramel kisses because she always put my cash out money signing Tony Gaskins and the God be the glory I got my own name on them but she'll put that sometimes in the comments and somebody send me a blessing and guess what sometimes a blessing is a dollar but I will pray over that dollar and I said Lord thank you because I don't know where this person is in a life and we're there yet but thank you that they saw me fit as good ground the so long bless them a hundredfold bless them a hundredfold and there's people that have given me a thousand times that amount that have blessed me and I and I sit down in tears and we'll pray over them people who came in my life but I look and I see how much that I give and I realized it's a correlation and I see the people who are selfish and who are greedy and who only think about themselves and I noticed they don't get the blessings that I get so what has shown me is that when I changed my mindset I changed my life hey if you got to this point in this video and I use YouTube as an example I want you to understand ain't mad which if you the person put the comments but the ads and all the ain't mad with you but I just want to enlighten you on that mind setting where you operating from and you might get offended and want to go back in the comments again and all of that that's you um I want you to know I got a block button and I do use it every day I blocked me three to ten people okay I have a block ministry as well as a relationship in life love and business ministry I also have a block ministry and I operate excellent in that gift okay so all I'm trying to do is enlighten you to help you understand perspective and mindset and how your life is gonna change when you start to look at things differently instead of give me give me give me what's for me do for me do for me do for me what's mine what's mine what's mine I wanted this way I wanted this way I want it this way and people are like that they'll come and say hey don't make your videos our make them 15 minutes hey don't make your video 15 minutes make them out hey don't do this kind of live on the radio do the other kind of live on the video hey don't do the video live hey you do the radio live people will come and tell you what to do for them and ain't no nothing for you and I say lord help me quick in my spirit Lord convict my spirit Lord when I'm operating from a place of greed or selfishness or jealousy or ignorance or scarcity convict my spirit Lord that's my prayer and that's the pray you ought to be praying so that God can open your mind to be abundant so that you could be a bun that minded so that you could be grateful heart it so that you can have gratitude and abundance and I guarantee you on the other side of that you gonna start to get blessings you're gonna start to get blessings it's a couple of it's a couple of people on here that can attest to the blessing that they don't come into from me from just serving they might be serving and I told them don't tell nobody so anything on say their name but I told them don't tell nobody by this blessing but it's people that can attest to having a servant's heart and seeing blessings coming back a this real if you change your mindset to a positive one an abundant one it will change your life to a positive one and an abundant one Hades Tony Gaskins god bless you bonus video
