Serving a man! | UMU | Tony Gaskins

hey hey tony guys here and i want to talk to y'all a little bit about serving a man now i mentioned this on my video and i just want to have this as its own video i mentioned this on my live and um i was gonna go into it uh yesterday on the video but i didn't and um but i heard a young lady it was a little video i seen i bumped into it and she said y'all y'all hoes the reason why yo man i hear cheating cause you ain't sucking enough d and then you and do everything he give him threes and you need to get your man threesome you need to be sucking me you do all this and and i say list let me tell you something let me tell you something from a real man and if you know that young lady who posted that send her this video let me tell you something from a real man a real man don't respect the woman who get on her knees for him if he has not earned her if he has not married her a real man don't respect that a real man don't want you to be no prostitute real man don't want you to give your body to another woman to a woman and no threesome in the name of pleasing him a real man don't want to be pleased like that because to a real man one woman is enough to a real man a real man want you to respect yourself a real man can let you not sleep with him for eight weeks 12 weeks a year and still be faithful to you but see when you think that doing favors for a man sexually is gonna keep him faithful that's when you're wrong that's when you're gonna get cheated on because you're feeding into his lust and so you tell me a relationship that has oh that you know of personally that you don't went behind the scenes and you don't live with them for weeks on end and you've seen just complete happiness and bliss where this woman is just is giving him threesome and every time he wants something she doing it and you don't been in the bedroom with them or you can live with them and you know listen i'm this what i do every day i get thousands of emails i know the end result i haven't seen the end of that it ends in divorce it ends in a breakup it ends in heartbreak because this woman giving this man threesome thinking that it's gonna please him and and keep him faithful and keep him there no that's gonna feed the lust and then what he's going to do he's going to go and cheat with more women he's going he because now when he has you this way now he wants you that way now he want you with two women now he wants you with three but guess what you introduced him to threesome but now he won a threesome without you oh that's okay too because he coming back to you but guess what when he go over there because these people so into doing threesome somebody got a disease so now he catch the disease and now he's coming and bringing it back to you and you just happy he come home but now he come and put a disease thing in you and now you got a disease and it's incurable and you gotta live with it for the rest of your life that right there is your repayment that's your reward for for doing all that sucking and doing all them reasons that you think gonna keep a man it's not gonna keep a man and a lot of and the young lady who said she probably dealing with me of another race and she thinking that she doing something by doing all this and don't even realize that other race despised her race and using her as a bucket to just release in don't care for her don't respect her don't want her and while she was uh drunk talking and having a good time talking about you need to be doing y'all hoes need to be sucking and doing all of this the man that she thinks she got is probably with another woman and then getting ready to leave her and then probably beating on her too because that's what's going to happen because when you get on your knees to look up at a man how you think he looking he looking down at you so you think you pleasing him and he's looking down at you you a servant use a servant and any real man gonna tell you you ain't got to get on your knees to get a stand up man you need to stand up to get a stand up man you have a real man ain't gonna have you on your knees to serve him when y'all married and y'all and y'all loving each other y'all taking care of each other that's your business that's what y'all doing don't nobody know what y'all doing but y'all but it ain't no third person coming in the room as a real man who faithful to my wife i never asked my wife to give me no threesome that's disrespectful to a queen if if if i ask a woman for a threesome that's cause i don't value her that's because i feel like she's worthless that's because i feel like she ain't enough for me that's because i feel like she ugly or she nasty if a man ask a woman that he don't love you he doesn't respect you you fodder you collateral damage you spoils of war he using you you will come up he wanted to be in your spotlight he wanted to be with you for your money for your connections for your clout for your name but your position cause of who your daddy is and he know he finna marry in the money if a man asks you for a threesome that man hates you that's what i'm telling you as a real man you ain't got no real man you got a wrong boy and i tell him that to his face i would tell him that to his face and he he gonna lie in front of you but he already know he don't love you because any man who truly love a woman will never ask her to lie down in the bed with a third party male or female nothing none of that all that nastiness that's disgusting you it it and and when i say discussing i'm you coming i'm you hearing from an ex-womanizer who was nasty and i'm calling it disgusting that's disrespectful if you love a woman that's what you that's what that's what men do with prostitutes that's what men do who it says workers they ain't what a man do with his woman with a woman that he claimed to love and guess what a real man ain't gonna do that period point blank period a real man i'm not so don't get it twisted that i'm saying a real man gonna just be with his wife and that's just and it's just him and her but when he won a threesome he go out with the ho no a real man ain't doing threesome period because it's nasty because it's degrading is disrespectful to the human body to the human race that's nasty you fulfilling a defiled lust one human supposed to be with one human that's why you got one thing and one whole that's why that's why it's one-on-one that way he ain't got two of them that's why the man ain't got two things down there because he supposed to be with one woman understand what i'm telling you stop giving in to this wicked and evil and foolish and ignorant society believing that you serving a man you doing all this cooking you doing all this cleaning you doing all this sleeping with this man stop thinking that that is going to keep a man that's not going to keep no man stop thinking that that that's not gonna keep a man a man who wanna be killed ain't got to be kept he love you for you he love you for what you bring to the table your heart your character your personality he don't want to share you and he doesn't want to ask you to share him he loves you that's what you got to understand so feel them on this now hit me on this listen to what i'm telling you stop playing yourself that's why every time you indeed a threesome you ended up getting cheated on that's why the relationship up and down that's why you're fussing and fighting that's why you're arguing that's why you crying because you have debased yourself and he does not respect you he does not love you he does not want to be with you you mean nothing to him you are an accessory you collateral damn you just you a play toy you need to love yourself and respect yourself get up heal yourself get real knowledge about love and relationships and see the thing about it is so many women trying to be trying to say this stuff because they want clout from a man because grown boys is clapping them up clapping you up you're not getting cool points you're not cool you're not swaggy you're not respectable you're not getting cool points you know what he clapping you up for because you're a fool he's giving you full points not cool points you need to understand the difference when you subservient and you s you just giving your body away and you just doing whatever for these grown boys and they clapping you up and they saying they calling you a real woman oh you a real woman oh you the realest woman not a man we need more women like you we need more women who think like you those words are affirmation he affirming your stupidity he's affirming your ignorance and that make you feel good so now you think you didn't did something now you think you wise now you think you smart now you think you got the keys to the city you think you got the keys to keep a man faithful no you justin taught him he got to cheat better you just taught him or he got to ask you for a threesome but you don't know about the ones he doing with other women you don't know about the disease he didn't caught that he finna get to you you living in stupidity you that ain't strength that's not you not in the uh empowered woman that ain't the feminist movement you got life messed up you got to get your life all the way together you got to get your life together you got to wake up and smell the folgers in the morning you got to start loving yourself you got to respect yourself get off your back close your mouth close your mouth and get you a ring right here from a man that's gonna love you as his one and only woman and be faithful to you and and let you be a human not no robot not no sex slave that's that's that's the beauty of my wife that's why she got it all that's why i treat her the way i treat her that's why i serve her that's why i love her the way christ loved the church that's why i'm 100 faithful to her because she know who she is she ain't been over backwards for me the the the giving to my youthful lust to my idiotic whims she ain't doing that she ain't saying hey i'm gonna give you a threesome so you'll be faithful so i'll be everything you need so i'll be the coolest woman no because she know that's degrading that's degrading to her body that's disrespectful to her style and husties to her swagger that's that's putting her down she knows she all of that she know she a 100 woman she knows she one woman and that's all one real man need is one woman she know that she ain't enough for me then that mean ain't a man for her that's what she know and that's why she got the husband that she got because she developed that by loving herself and respecting her stuff and standing her ground saying no you gonna respect me you're gonna love me for me i ain't gonna be doing all this sucking and ducking shucking and jiving and and and degrading myself and down there eating fish for your entertainment down there licking on another woman unnatural that ain't natural man supposed to be with a woman mary i'm not she saying there's a woman i'm not finna be with no woman for no man what kind of sense do that make you down there rubbing carpet down there doing all that with a woman the entertainer man that's a grown boy let me tell you as a real man your man is a punk that's a punk you with a chump you with a lost broken boy that's why he put hands on you that's why he cursed shot that's why he spit in your face that's why he dog yeah that's why he talked to you the way he talked to you that's why you cry so many nights out of the year because you're not with a man you're with a boy who got childhood trauma who got abandonment issues who lost broken and confused that's why he asking you to share yourself with another woman for him that's why he asking you to let him cheat on you that's why he got you just serving him sexually all the time but he he ain't doing nothing for you he protecting and providing in a real way not emotionally he ain't bending over backwards emotionally he's not helping you grow spiritually he's not stimulating you in a real way mentally yeah y'all conversate you talk about politics and sports and all of this but he really ain't got your back you just fall for him he using you he using you for what you could do for him he don't want you he'll want you because he don't want himself cause he don't know himself because his daddy one day he lost and broken and hurting you his band-aid you his test dummy you his teddy bear that he gonna pluck the idol and ripped open this keeps stitching back together but when he get mad he throw you against the wall you hit human teddy bell you got to understand it's not a woman's place to forget who you are it ain't your place to just get on your bike and just serve a man hand and foot like you his robot like you his slave no stop that a man earn your love make this man court you make this man communicate conversate really talk to you make this man make love to your mind make this man be exclusive with you commit to you fully wholeheartedly and and truly be with you and then get engaged to you work for you and then marry you and then when he marries you then you give him all of you stop bending over backwards giving all of you to a man that don't won't have for you that don't even want you that you need he don't even see you on his level he only see you as good enough for him but he letting you think that you smart he letting you think that you cool that you own something that you heal he let you think that you're a real woman that you're a renaissance woman that you the woman that the world need no he lying to you he lying to you he using you and he dogging you out understand that pick yourself up 80 videos short because i'm shooting all these in one day because right now you watching this i'm on vacation i'm in the snow right now i'm in the snow but i just wanted to just pop in and do these little quick hill video just just to give you something to think about let's give you something think about so sit down and i want these short because this right here need to be witnessing tools so your lost cousins your lost girlfriend your lost sisters your lost family members who they thinking that serving a man and being over backwards for a man and doing all that what's going to get them a man and keep them a man you you send this to them so they can hear from a real man that's a lot that's a lot that's how you gonna lose a man you got to be warm enough to tell a man i got a headache i ain't sleeping with you you got to be warming enough to tell a man i don't feel like it i'm not going to get that right now i don't feel good right now you got to be warming enough to tell a man no i'm not doing that you got to be warm enough to tell them that no i don't know you like that we're not going there you got to be warm enough to tell a man you can have my body when we get married because i'm not going to be sleeping around with a bunch of random men with a bunch of boyfriends because what if we don't work out now i got another body on my list listen i'd have made all the mistakes i'ma make deliberately i got to trip and fall into a mistake now you got to be woman enough to say that to let a man know that you got some common sense that you know who you are that you love yourself that you not no slave that you not no role mod that you not no lap dog but you not no rug man you got to be woman enough to do that you got to be willing to lose a man in order to keep a man because if you're doing everything to keep a man that's how you're going to lose them because that means you're not loving and respecting yourself and you're doing stuff that you shouldn't be doing you doing when you don't even feel like doing no you get the right as a woman to be a human you get the right to not feel like doing stuff you get the right to pick and choose when you want to do something that's what he do when he don't want to do something he tell your own feel like i ain't going over there i ain't doing i ain't doing no life coaching with no dumb tony guys i ain't you know my mentor dot like i ain't taking no course i ain't read no book what he don't feel like doing he tell you he don't feel like doing it but then everything he asked for you you doing it cause you think that's gonna keep a man no that's how you gonna lose a man he see you like a dummy but he clapping you up for being dumb he clapping you up for being yeah he give you roses yeah he didn't brought you some stuff yeah you got a house yeah you got a car yeah you might have a purse yeah you might have material things that don't mean he loves you that doesn't mean he respects you that doesn't mean he wants you what he gonna do he gonna keep cheating on you like he's been cheating on you and then when he meet a woman who love and respect herself he gonna trick her by telling her he's 100 single and he's going to give you his butt to kiss and then he's going to go and start kissing her butt and he's going to lie and trick and deceive her into a relationship he's gonna leave her for you because she respects herself because she don't know that he got a woman and he might ride off into the sunset with her and the reason why is because every single man wants to be held accountable he won't tell you that he won't admit to it but the woman who hold a man accountable is the woman who gets his heart the woman who get on her back and give herself to an undeserving grown boy thinking that because she's sucking and ducking because she doing threesomes and she cooking and cleaning and she is on his every beck and call the woman who doing all that thinking that that's what being a good woman is that's the woman who end up losing the man that's not being a good woman that's being a good slave and good slaves get beat get beat get dog dot get mistreated get raped and eventually get soul make sure you in a relationship and you not in slavery make sure that you got your righteous mind make sure that you know how to say no make sure that you know your heart and your feelings and your emotions and you willing and ready to voice that and that a man got to earn your love and he got to respect you and he got to come correct and not come at all and when i say come i mean in more sense of the word come correct not come at all use it how you want to use it but you need to get your life together stop serving this man that ain't serving you stop doing for this man that ain't doing for you you somebody daughter and yeah your parents might have one perfect but they ain't expect for you to be living like no sleigh in the modern day when we've been free from that and you living for this no good sorry man who keep giving you his butt the kiss of his thing the plop in your mouth you singing on the microphone on his microphone doing karaoke and then he turn around and walk out on you and then you then you look up and then gave 10 15 years of your life serving this man thinking that that's gonna buy you his loyalty no what get loyalty from a man is knowing who you are and knowing what you worth and knowing that he got to work for you and he got love you that's what gets you that's what gets you a man heart stop letting society fool you to make you think that why are you dating you need to be cooking and cleaning and doing his laundry and sleeping with him and then grown boy's gonna tell you oh it ain't no man in the world gonna be with you if you ain't gonna sleep when i ain't yeah you're gonna get married he's sleeping that's outdated that's old school yeah he's the wrong boy he's a grown boy the woman who knows her worth that's the woman who win understand that stop listening to these grown boys letting you grow more talk you out your draws and clap you up for being a fool and then you patting yourself on the back and you getting dummy award you getting a number award and then happy about it because you're out here cooking and cleaning for boyfriends you're out here cooking and cleaning and doing laundry for a boyfriend that's a husband benefit let him let him see you worthy enough to marry you let him marry you then you give him the benefits of being a husband and don't be expecting a wife benefits from him don't be expecting him to pay your bills and do all this for you when you're a girlfriend and don't be doing all that for him when he a boyfriend when y'all get married then you ten toes down then you all the way in then people say well how are you even gonna get there how are you gonna get married if you ain't doing all that a man don't need no tutorial he know you know how to cook he know you know how to clean he know you he he know you know how to get on your bike you ain't got to you ain't got the audition for no man oh let me show you i'm a great cooking cleaner let me we'll never walk this oh let me twerk so you see i'm hot let me drop it like it's hot so you see i'm frisky oh let me get down there on your microphone and just sing karaoke you don't have to audition for no man all you got to have is a good heart a good mind and integrity for a real man if a man in the comments saying otherwise that's a grown boy and that's why he act where he at that's why he act where he at in the comments on a real man video trying to sing his stupid case instead of working because he right now that grown boy he's so broke busted and disgusted he come over here to pay me he come over here to pay me to leave a comment he watching the video to comment to try to tell you that you stupid for listening to me if you think a man gonna marry you if you don't get on your back for a man or if you don't audition for a man and show him that you what is wife material wife material is not cooking and cleaning that's the idiocracy that these fools got y'all believing wife material is not cooking and cleaning and sucking and ducking all on your bike that's not wife material white material is a woman of honor woman with integrity in class a woman who you could sit down and come up with a blueprint and a plan to build with to build generational wealth with a woman that you could raise your kids with and they ain't got nothing to do with what you're doing on your back they ain't got nothing to do with what you're doing in the kitchen because see y'all get together y'all put your hair together y'all got enough money for a chef y'all cooking together cause you bonding together it ain't you ain't slaving for this man you ain't no maid and that's the problem with the men we got today we got weak men who were looking for a mother they could sleep with and call her a wife team online we looking for we got men who looking for a mama that they could sleep with and call her a wife that's not wife hood that ain't womanhood you called to use your mind not what's between your legs you call it a bill you building your house you building your family you building your business you building your brand that's what you call the bill not doing dishes and laundry yeah you could do that yeah that's all yeah you could do that but that's not your job description don't let that define you that don't that don't determine whether you're worthy or not if you don't do larger till it's all stacked up taller than you that don't make you less of a wife don't make you less of what that means you on your grind that mean you be that mean you got stuff going and you doing it when you get to it and and if you do it every single day that don't make you no better of a wife don't make you no better off a wife because being a wife is about being honest and being trustworthy that's what being a wife is about it's about your heart it's about your integrity it ain't it ain't just about your service and your acts on your back ain't about what you do what you could do with your mouth ain't about how good you cook because it's chefs that got a husband and still getting cheated on as a chef cook and get cheated on it's maids handmaids in a literal sense of the word it's helpers cleaners maids whatever term that they're using today it's people who it's women who clean houses for a living who do laundry and clean houses and do dishes for a living and still getting cheated on by the man listen ain't none of that gonna keep a man faithful and guess what guess what ain't none of it not doing it ain't gonna make a man cheat are you hearing it from a real man my wife if she don't want to cook for a month and we got to have chef colby steakhouse chef love caesar's pizza chef mike donald chef burger king sh i'm not finna go cheat on her because that's my wife that's my rib and i love her and it ain't her place to be auditioning in no kitchen if she wanna cook okay great if she don't wanna cook guess what i'm a grown man i could cook and that's why we got punks today that's why we got grown men can't raise their children that's why the boys in chicago run around shooting killing each other because they daddy's is punks because they daddy want a handmaid they daddy want a concubine they daddy think sex is casual they daddy think a woman places in the kitchen their dad is not honoring and uplifting a woman and building an empire with a woman see i'm well met and doing what i'm doing because i'm building an empire with a queen i'm building a council with a queen not with a concubine not with a handmaid with a queen the queen got help the queen got workers she using her mind how we gonna expand the kingdom ain't no kitchen cooking i ain't cleaning unless i want to unless i have to because our plan ain't been activated yet because we ain't in our season yet and even we in our season and we making millions and we making millions she gonna do it when she get to it she don't do it when she get to it and i had to shift my mindset because i was a grown boy thinking a woman places in the kitchen thinking the woman supposed to just be cooking and cleaning on her back for me not realizing that when i'm doing that i'm debasing that woman i'm crippling that woman i'm disabling that woman i got a so strong eye like a robot but she's a human so i got her so strung out she can't even think she can't even help me take nothing to the next level we can't even grow and build his teammates because i'm treating her like a worker instead of like she a ball she a balls too instead of me helping her boss up i'm treating her like a worker tell me oh you just supposed to be sucking and ducking you just supposed to be cooking and cleaning hey yeah mine a minor woman business and let me do this over here let me do what men do and then i'm over here by myself working with one side of my brain when i could be uplifting and building my woman up and encouraging and inspiring her uplifting her so that she invigorated and she she's sharing her she ideas the kingdom our earthly kingdom and the heavenly kingdom with me working for god because she got her righteous mind that what you got to understand look y'all got like messed up y'all like here serving grown boys and look at who getting the service now look at who getting the service y'all serving grown boys that's no return on that investment ain't no return on that investment you want me to show you what my wife life is like you gonna then see what return on investment mean you gonna see what your life how comfortable your life is with a woman when you attract a real man by being a real woman you're gonna see how comfortable how sweet life feels when you know your worth and you don't feel like your worth is on your back serving no man that's the point you got to get to when you get down that's where your life gonna change hey this is tony guy god bless you we'll talk soon

Channel: Tony Gaskins

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Length: 31min 24sec (1884 seconds)

Published: Tue Dec 29 2020