Nikocado Avocado really messed up, again

[Music] hey guys what's up and welcome back to my channel my hair is a mess don't know what to tell you doesn't really matter but I figured I just addressed that off the bat so I'm mad my family sometimes says that when I'm angry I become either a hurricane or a shark Stephanie sue made a video about my cacao avocado now Stephanie sue has a mukbang channel as far as I'm aware Stephanie sue hasn't really ever fully been in drama in my opinion she's not problematic she's not the type of person who kind of is consistently in drama which is something that we can't say about Nick ekkada avocado and one of the reasons why I'm also mad is at myself because I gave him the benefit of the doubt back when Trisha Paytas and him had their little disagreement but again at the time I had no reason to think he was dangerous in the way that now I think he might be 70 soon made a forty seven minute video I'm gonna put clips here and there but I strongly suggest you go see the whole thing over there I'll link it down below Stephanie sue essentially explained a little bit of why she's afraid of Nick ekkada avocado the title of the video itself is why I'm scared of Nick econo avocado and initially I wasn't really sure what I was in for because I was like okay he's been messy he's been kooky but as far as I'm aware I don't know of him being actually scary or a predator or whatever you want to call him I didn't think it was at that level after watching this video if there's something I really despise it's people who take advantage of their power hence why I talk about pedophiles criminals whatever the case may be because I find that one of the most disgusting things she showed proof of Nick acardo's toxic behavior the thing is I tend to try and give people the benefit of the doubt because everyone will at some point being a scandal sometimes it's their fault sometimes it's not and I don't really want to draw the bottom line from one scandal of course it depends on what it is but I'm talking about petty things that are someone being dangerous hence why Stephanie Sue's video changed my mind because if I think someone's dangerous then I'll draw a line Stephanie sue showed conversations that she had with [ __ ] kado that showed him to be weirdly aggressive and frankly allegedly a blackmailer because what happened is that Stephanie sue [ __ ] cada avocado and then another youtuber who does MOOC bongs Zach Choi were collaborating so they collaborated for a day and within that day Stephanie sue said that Nick econo was pressuring her to talk about some drama that happened a while ago and that drama doesn't even really matter because what happened then happened then the point is that he was trying to force her to essentially share things she didn't want to share with the public well he can trust me now I do know you do one thing I want to clarify the prior drama was centered around a video made by shook bong where the basic gist is that tension was created between seventy Sue and another Mook longer called Veronica Wang this is important because Stephanie had shared some things about her and Veronica Tunica kado so when he was talking about spilling the tea he was talking about what happened with Veronica Wang and Stephanie did not want to share that she shared that with him as a friend not as tea for the public to know he wanted me to make a video on my side of the story I had told him that I wasn't involved I don't think I need to make a video it was just back and forth of that and so I started opening up and obviously the conversation did lead to shift buggin Veronica and I feel like in any other situation I would never want to put this online but because I feel like this is something that he's kind of holding over my head right now kind of twisting my words I just want to share with you some things that I shared with him and it has nothing to do with shook fun and it is also another reason why I never made a video about this in the first place and we were in the car and the topic of what we are going to talk about and the talking bug bug came up and this is kind of when I first felt really uncomfortable because Nick said it very assertively we're going to talk about Veronica and we're gonna spill all the tea and I was kind of confused cuz I was like oh whoa what and so I was immediately like no no and then he he went but why'd you tell me yesterday that you wanted to that and so I thought back to what happened yesterday and prior to filming my mother on for my channel he had mentioned you know I think that we need to talk about Chevron because you know everyone's gonna be talking about in the comments and I don't know why I believed it I said oh yeah I mean I guess it's weirder if we just act like it never happened and so I felt like I was comfortable mentioning above addressing it to the capacity of me and Nick yes this is how we met through a [ __ ] [ __ ] video but we have no ill-will towards each other it's all over we're friends now you know I felt like I would never tell him that I wanted to talk about Veronica and specifically spill the tea it had always been about chef but that is something that new don't look like we sat down he was in the middle of us and we started eating these nuclear noodles and the first 30 minutes honestly they went amazing and I remember thinking to myself damn that car ride was important because like we were honestly having a really really good time like the first half and then Nick brought up the conversation of ship run but he brought it up in a way and I know that the full footage is not out there it did it in a way I don't remember his exact wording but it was enough what did you wanna share or do you change him I know you said you want to talk to our viewers with me here but cuz you never talk to any reviewers in it and I just remember feeling just shocked and her NACA kado had built a friendship also because Stephanie's who had shared with him about her being assaulted in her own home and how it made her paranoid and how she had a security system this becomes important later so remember the security system so she felt comfortable enough to have him in her own home which is a big deal if you're assaulted in your own home and you're paranoid letting someone in is a big deal while he was at her home she saw footage after of him taking pictures of her home I think that's really creepy and I think that's really invasive considering but that's not even the worst and I still think that's really creepy to do the only thing I can do is check what I have of security footage and I went through all of Saturday when he was at my house he was here for about five ish hours and out of those five hours that he was here I used the restroom once and during that time that I slipped away to the restroom very very quickly the one time that I did without letting me know what he was doing he took multiple pictures inside my house and then immediately he started looking around at the ceiling I didn't have any cool light fixtures up there just don't know what else would be up there other than security cameras the second day they were supposed to collab again Stephanie sue didn't want to collab because she'd felt uncomfortable and frankly you can see the tension in the video cuz Nick ekkada posted the video you can see the tension she showed it and she showed clips within her video too and I felt uncomfortable watching them frankly it made me just want to shrivel into myself because I'm like this seems really inappropriate and the thing that disgusted me more is that nicka kado posted I guess some kind of bait on his Instagram he had an Instagram post where he was saying that he wanted to expose t on some what kind of fuelling this idea of oh I have this information that the public doesn't know that I'm gonna air out let me just clear one thing up there is a difference between you airing information that is private in order to save someone aka if someone messages you some weird [ __ ] and their pedophile or they admitted to a crime that's a different thing than you sharing information of someone venting about their friend or venting about family problems difference because one of them is private and it doesn't affect anyone else apart from them and the other one is to help protect people does that make sense he wants to air information that she shared that has nothing to do with anyone but herself so if you're venting about your family if you're venting about a friend whatever the case may be that should not be aired publicly for there's no reason for it I felt like anything will be used against me and I felt like anything I say even Nick stop he would use it and make a exposing video or threaten me with I don't know I was just scared whoever I knew wasn't here anymore I just felt like it wasn't the same Nik I knew he knew that I was uncomfortable he knew I didn't want to talk about this but he kept going and so at what point does my own comfort or does my feeling even matter to him if Stephanie su knows that there's some tension between her and Nick akkad oh and Nick Okada is consistently posting things saying I'm gonna expose this person having a post t an indirect way of telling Stephanie hey I'm gonna do this thing so you better watch it which is an indirect threat potentially direct but he didn't like tagger so I guess it's not direct except for her I don't like that aside from that he also gaslighted and manipulated her when she canceled the collaboration the next day due to her discomfort called her eight times he texted her blocks of text these are things that manipulators do and I frankly relate it to that because it makes me deeply anxious when people bomb me with [ __ ] like that and Stephanie even showed camera footage of herself at home freaking the [ __ ] out when all this was happening because it is anxiety inducing it's horrible when someone makes you feel like you did something wrong when you're not the one who did something wrong so then you start questioning did I do something wrong and I don't think Stephanie sue did anything wrong hey guys sorry it's an in-and-out asleep watching it I'm just hanging up late after getting back I don't think I'll be able to film any class today I'm feeling really sick and I realized I had a few sponsors due before year end that are really time-sensitive I'm so sorry I hope you guys understand but I'm really happy that we knocks them out yesterday and I put my phone down I put it on silent and these are the next messages I got you just not realized Stephanie I have been sitting here for five hours when you were going in and out of sleep you should have picked up the phone and given me a call not leave me hanging you didn't like it with Veronica did that to you so no I'm sorry I do not understand I texted him back I was so sorry for making you feel that way I sincerely apologize I was so trained and slightly out of it this morning and I'm so upset I didn't call you back earlier because I would never want because I would never want you to feel like I don't respect your time again I'm truly sorry and out of respect for our developing friendship I do want to be transparent and let you know I was uncomfortable with yesterday's video I'm so sorry if I let you think or miscommunicated in any way that I wanted to talk about Veronica but I truly did not I mentioned that I wouldn't mind addressing you and me as it pertains to ship bug that neither of us had any hard feelings towards each other after what happened and I did give you my perspective on what happened when we hung out and I felt as if it was misrepresented in the video I've mentioned to you many times that although Veronica and I aren't friends and I am hurt or annoyed by some things that happen between us I have absolutely no ill-will towards her and I feel some compassion for a situation since I've gotten to know her prior again understand this is your video and I respect your feelings about the situation but this is how I feel again I'm sincerely so sorry for not getting back to you in time this morning and I hope you enjoy the rest of your stay and I'm so sorry for this morning he texted me back then why did you tell me at your house that you wanted to address it on my channel also why are you texting this to Zack I messaged you privately and I responded I want to address the issue here since all three of us were in the video and I also have an apology for this morning and not keeping him updated on the schedule I'm so sorry for any inconvenience as I caused again from the bottom of my heart I'm so sorry if I made you feel that way I wanted to let you know because I didn't know that there was a gap of miscommunication and understanding between us till the middle of that video we were filming I was ok with talking about [ __ ] but as it pertains to just you and me again I apologize for any misunderstanding there could have been I hope you enjoy the rest of your stay and I'm so sorry again for this morning as well he responded with you already talked about this morning but ignored me for five hours after that don't play games it takes to the back and I said again I'm so sorry if there was any miscommunication if I made you feel that way I wanted to take this time to clarify miscommunication about the video because I didn't know there was a gap in understanding to the middle of filming the video and to apologize this morning I truly am so sorry did you schedule today and I'm so sorry about he said awesome so which day would you like to be scheduled for and I responded I know that you're in LA for only a couple more days and have a lot scheduled and I'm so sorry for today I do have to get back to you since I do have approaching deadlines and I know my fiance already had things planned for me and the dogís and the holidays again I'm so sorry for today and I hope you're able to enjoy the rest of your day and he responded with literally at any point in this conversation you could have resumed with our videos planned for tonight please talk to me Zack told me he wants to be left out I reached out half a dozen times already please talk to me there the text messages that he said please give me a call I got your group message but it would be nice to talk to you here can you give me a call please I haven't heard from you personally since yesterday and I feel we need to chat Yoli message things to the group chat but not to me here this is going to be my last time you two not for the evening I'm feeling hurt please talk to me not there Zack I see some comments that were saying you know you should have just left if you were uncomfortable and it's like if someone gives you the off feeling that they're going to take it out on you in some way whether it's indirect blackmail or sharing personal information or whatever the case may be it's sometimes not as simple as just walk away because if someone makes you feel like you upsetting them will cause them to do something irrational you're gonna try to appease them I don't think it's as simple as oh yeah just walk out because at the same time you care about this person because you're friends so it's not like you just want to be like okay [ __ ] you goodbye and especially not if they know personal information of yours which they could easily release which is what it seems like Nick Okada might be planning to do I don't like this behavior I don't support that type of behavior unsubscribed unfollowed honestly I think he should just apologize directly to Stephanie I really hope he doesn't post anything of her private information because it's no one's business I really am gusted by this type of manipulation and and it hurts me because a lot of the times I've seen him play victim and now I'm kind of thinking back on all the times he has played victim and I'm like is he really though you know like is there more that we don't know coz if Stephanie hadn't made this video none of us would know he was doing this to her so who knows how much other people might not want to say because it is scary to just talk about these problems out loud and have yourself be criticized honestly I don't even consider this drama because manipulation gaslighting that's no joke that's not someone shading an eyeshadow palette or something so I hope she's doing okay frankly I saw a lot of supportive comments on her video so I hope at least she feels like people are on her side but the cacao has a lot of thinking to do because if you think it's okay to do that to someone that is your friends what would you do to someone who's your enemy like that's really concerning to me anyways guys let me know anything in the comments down below thank you guys so much for watching thank you to my patrons as always and I'll catch you guys next time [Music] [Music]

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Length: 16min 23sec (983 seconds)

Published: Sat Dec 21 2019

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I felt so bad for this girl. Poor thing