An obsessed Tinder stalker

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now I can't wait for a gas station I need to stop as soon as I see a place where I can park my car anything when I'm tired I fell asleep really fast if I'm tired enough I can fall asleep in the middle of a sentence when I'm talking so it's a bit urgent for me to find a place where I can stop it felt like an hour but probably just five minutes go by and I spoke this little pocket in the road it's like a parking space for quick it stops like peeing switching drivers or stuff like that not even a real resting area I stopped here turned down my windows to check if I heard any weird noises total silence I turn up the windows again nothing bad is gonna happen I haven't seen a car for like 30 minutes this road is empty if someone is checking out my car I bet it's the cops checking on me if I'm alright I leave my keys in the ignition and lock the doors just to be safe I just might see it a bit to make it more comfortable to sleep in and I take off my shoes and put them on the passenger seat on the right it's so nice to close my eyes and I instantly fall asleep I don't know why but something wakes me up I Carolee see anything some kind of bright light hits me in the eyes first I thought it was a flashlight but then I realized it is the high beams from another car in my rear view mirror that is blinding me I look at my left mirror and see a dude walking up beside my car maybe he wants help with something should I make it clear to him that I'm in here he's right beside in my left backdoor should I step out and ask what he's doing I didn't have to this dude proceeds to pull on my left back door I almost [ __ ] my [ __ ] pants when I realized that he's trying to force his way into my car my seat is adjusted for me to lay down and I pushed it back max I can't reach the pedals which makes it impossible for me to drive my car I slammed the car horn and it breaks the silence with a roar and the dude jumps that gives me like two seconds to push my seat to reach the pedals but it's still way out of adjustment so I'm kind of pulling myself to the steering wheel because my seat is laying flat and isn't supporting my back anyway I start my car and drive off with a cloud of smoke for my screeching tires it's hard to drive a car with nothing holding up your upper body but I managed as I leave I look in the rearview mirror and I can see how they dude stands there and looks at me and I can see two more guys coming up beside him but I can see in the silhouette of their beams one of them has something in his hand like a wrench or crowbar I drove super fast way over the speed limit my whole body was trembling with adrenaline and fear I drove like that for thirty minutes then I stopped at a gas station to fix my seat and put my shoes on again I figured out I was only sleeping for like 10 minutes well I didn't have to sleep until I got to my destination which is surrounded by heavy-duty fencing and the building has an alarm I told my boss the next day and he said they actually have problems with what we call it in Sweden Road pirates criminals that force you to stop on the road robbed you of everything including your car in that specific area it could just be three nice dudes that want to check if I was okay then why didn't they just knock on my driver's window the thing in his hand could be a big flashlight be safe here's a picture of the senior took right before I went to sleep and I'll put in the picture this is exactly why I don't like the concept of sleeping on the side of the road of course this person didn't really have that many options considering [ __ ] like this scares me so much and this is also why I refuse to sleep in my car if there's any other way I will refuse but I'm glad that they woke up and thought quickly because I know that when I wake up I'm so groggy I don't know if I'd be able to think this quickly maybe the fear also helps but I'm just glad this person got away this is definitely gonna stay in my mind whenever I want to stop on the side of the road though hi guys this is my first post ever on Reddit and I made a new account just to post this story so please bear with me for context I am 5 3 about 105 pounds and 21 years old and this happened to me this morning New Year's Day 2020 also just for a warning this is long but it's really weird and unsettling and I was hoping someone here could help me come up with a theory for the motive of this man because going insane not knowing and scaring myself even more so my boyfriend Jack and I went out last night to a bar to celebrate New Year's Eve I noticed he was getting possibly a little too drunk at the bar so I suggested we go home he agreed this was around 12:30 a.m. we had been drinking since 8:00 we got home and Jack stumbles into the mud room and lays on the ground I was super exhausted being drunk and also dealing with a drunk person so I took this opportunity to lock the back door we came in through before I forgot after that we go upstairs and go to bed so a little bit of background I always lock my bedroom door even if the front and back door are locked because after watching the Ted Bundy documentary of him breaking into college students housing just had me so freaked out in addition my bedroom is on the third floor of the house and just rationally the last bedroom that you would get to if you walked into the house not knowing the layout and entered the rooms as you encountered them anyway I locked my bedroom door before bed the night before because I had a bad feeling but I just wrote it off as my general anxiety but Jack got up to pee during the night and didn't reluck it shaking my head anyway at about 7:00 45 in the morning I woke up to hear my bedroom door opening and immediately thinking it should be locked eidart my head up to see what's going on jack is also laying next to me closest to the door at this point I look up at the door to just see a man open my door and my blood runs cold he spots my boyfriend then slowly closes the door and walks calmly back down the stairs he was wearing a baseball hat with his head at a slightly downward tilt when coupled with the darkness of my room completely shrouded his face possibly wearing a flannel type shirt over a t-shirt as it was open like a flannel I wasn't able to see or make out any other details other than the fact he looked on the younger side and was skinnier but he walks in I think he only looked at my bf but I'm not even sure if he saw me turn to look at him at first I think my roommates boyfriend walked into the wrong room drunkenly and almost dismiss it because I'm so startled by what is going on mind you this whole ordeal happened within the span of a few seconds then my boyfriend asks me who was that and if he should go check it out he didn't see the man but he was also woken by the sound of my door opening he also heard the footsteps going back down the stairs me not fully comprehending it said no need to check anything out but about 15 seconds after I said no I told him there isn't supposed to be anyone else in the house as all my roommates are away we hop out of bed and throw on some sweats and I grab a pair of scissors for defense and leave my room to find out what the [ __ ] is going on we headed downstairs about one to two minutes after I saw the man at my door I'm calling the police as my boyfriend Jack grabs a knife and goes through all the rooms of the house making sure it's clear as we were checking I noticed the front and back door is still locked although the windows are unlocked they are all still closed at first glance it doesn't even seem like anyone had been in the house at all everything was just as it was nothing touched or ransacked the police luckily showed up about five minutes after I call really quick response time I was so appreciative and began to search the house we had to file a report and fill out some statements but all in all they weren't able to find anything but a set of possible fingerprints on the outside of our ground-floor windows because there was such little evidence I think some of the officers were doubting what I had seen they asked me if I could have been dreaming it since I just woken up from a night of drinking when it happened or if a possible friend just decided to crash her place without telling us and I said sir I've never been more positive in my life that what I saw was real I didn't perceive the threat mildly but there is no doubt in my mind was real and there was not even a person who could have possibly done that as we don't have a large friend group and we rarely ever have anyone over then the officer and my roommates texted and asked if I could look at all the rooms and see if anything was taken so as I mentioned my bedroom is the last bedroom you would reach if you went through the house logically meaning two of my roommates rooms on the second floor and before mine I checked every bedroom and all valuables were untouched I sent pictures of my roommates Apple laptops watches air pods etc and they all said nothing was even slightly moved so this man took nothing also all their bedroom doors were still closed as if no one had ever entered them I have no proof he entered any room except mine so this is where I get super freaked out before the police leave they asked me if I have any past issues with stalkers or restraining orders etc and I said I have not they said what was really weird about the break-in it was not only that there was little to no evidence anyone broke in but also because we had three cars in our driveway one of my roommates is abroad right now so her car is here including my and Jack's so for a stranger to look in there seem to be at least three people at home at the moment I left lights on throughout the house so it looked like more people were home can you tell I'm a very paranoid person which is terrifying that this man felt comfortable creeping in that occupied a home secondly the fact this man not only got caught breaking and entering but the calmness of his walk back down the stairs after I saw him just sends the chills down my spine I have no other way to describe it other than he was acting like he had the right to be in my home just accidentally opened the wrong door the police said it's very unusual for a thief to lock up as enclosed the windows / door he came in through after being caught because he took nothing it worries me that maybe his motives were more sinister and that he could possibly come back why would a burglar enter a house that looks like has three individuals in it why was he so calm if he was there to rob me why were the first two floors seemingly untouched there were other weird details that I can't recall right now cuz I've honestly been agonizing over this the entire day and feel very uncomfortable if anyone has any theories as to what possibly could have been going on here so what his motive was it would remember sleeping for a benign answer like what if he was confused or drunk or something because that is just not the case I can't even explain the feeling of fear that ran through me when I saw this man at my door so at the man who woke me up on New Year's Day let's not ever meet again frankly that is so creepy I don't even know what I would do I feel like I would be so petrified and just just scared that I might freeze like ideally you'd get up and catch them or like walk them in some way from running away so the police can get them but at the same time that's just so scary and I'd be worried that they are armed or have something on them that could hurt me some people in the comments of this story we're saying that this guy was a rapist looking for a passed-out girl to take advantage of and frankly I mean that's probably one of the most realistic things in terms of theories because if he's not taking anything and allegedly he's not a stalker as far as this girl knows I don't know what else he would be doing in there apart from looking for someone to assault because it is New Year's Day so people typically do party on New Year's Eve and get drunk this happened to me my freshman year of college tinder was new and everyone at my university was on the app I joined to see what all the fuss was about looking through profiles I found a few guys that were really interesting and this one guy in particular caught my eye we'll call him Walter I was excited and kind of giddy because he was super attractive he messages me and I got butterflies in my stomach we message on the app for maybe an hour typical conversation is happening I asked him what he did for a living and he asked what my major was harmless conversation after a while he asked for my number so he could text and set a message on this app I gave it to him he seemed nice enough we messaged back and forth for a few days lots of flirty conversation and plans to hang out finally occurred by the fourth day of conversation he started calling me babe which gave me mixed feelings it was cute but also a little weird we didn't really know each other and had never met I ignored it and continued on with a conversation he started saying he wanted to be exclusive and you really wanted to see me in person he was begging me at this point to come to his apartment and cuddle and watch movies with him and his dog I told him that our first meet needed to be in public I would not be going to some stranger's apartment he said I was overreacting kept begging I can order him for the rest of the night next day he apologized and said he understood we needed to meet in public so he made plans that weekend the weekend came faster than expected and it was the day we're supposed to meet something just felt off and I decided to back out I texted him apologizing saying my mom wasn't feeling well and needed me to come home to help her with house chores this made him annoyed and he said your mom is a big girl if she needs you she can call you just come over and you can leave one other to go help her I really want to see and kiss you I told him no that I would be staying with my mom that weekend and that was that I only lived about thirty minutes from home so I actually did go home to see my mom that day after we said about my mom I started ignoring him and the text started rolling in text after text babe I'm sorry please come over babe I miss you are you going to come over I find out replying the next day that I was just busy with my mom they started calling me I had a total of 45 missed calls within a two-hour period he left voicemails saying he was sorry and he just missed me and wanted me to call him back similar voicemails continued almost the entire time I was home my roommate texted me shortly after I finished dinner with my mom and asked if we could go out that night I agreed and went back to my University dorm suddenly the calls from Walters started to increase again more text voicemails and he started messaging me again on tinder asking why I wasn't replying to him I wasn't playing on replying until I got a message on Instagram that said why didn't you tell me you were coming back to town tonight getting this message really freaked me out I replied to him and said sorry I've been busy with my mom how do you know I was back in town and he said well I checked your tinder of course tinder doesn't tell exact locations but has a within one mile message this really freaked me out and I messaged him back and said that he was being really creepy he seriously had to be constantly refreshing my profile to see the distance change the messages calls and voicemails continue all were now him apologizing for making me feel weird about him knowing where I was he was just quote-unquote worried about me when we had been texting for less than a full week less than a full week I told my roommate about it and so he decided to stay in that night the last straw for me was getting a call saying look I'm really sorry I'm outside your dorm with flowers and chocolates please forgive me oh hell no I called campus security and told him about this guy and they never found anyone waiting outside any doors I'm assuming he was in his car waiting for me to reply watchman Hall socials phone number deleted tinder and I've never been back on since I've seen him once out and about in the town but he never recognized me thankfully Walter if you ever read this I'm glad we never met thanks for making me second-guess every guy I find attractive so this was majorly creepy I'm every time I read stories like this I think God that I'm not any of these apps honestly I feel bad for people who are dating because I feel like hearing stories like this would turn me off from apps entirely that's not to say you can't meet anyone without an app but apps definitely make it a little bit easier to see more options especially if you're looking for someone whose interests did and maybe niche interests I'm glad nothing happened to this individual I'm glad they got out of this and that they called campus security that was a smart thing to do I'm glad they didn't give in to the pressure one thing I'm gonna say is to avoid giving your phone number for a longer time I met Jacob my husband on tinder and I think I only gave him my number I think about three months after we started talking on tinder I just didn't really want to run the risk and now I'm a lot more paranoid so I know that people can like find your address with your number and stuff like that so definitely better to just talk on an app or even on social media if even if it's not tinder before giving your phone number out I watched a film that reminded me of what I went through so thought to share it here it still bothers me but as times gone on it's getting better my first start dating my now husband a few years ago we had meet up after he finished work and he would bring his bike and lock it up as he lived a few miles away from me and the next town where I lived and he worked he biked a few miles a day we'd also meet up with friends sometimes after we would walk to his bike and then he would walk me to a taxi and I would wave goodbye as it's driving off I lived a few miles from the nearest town myself my husband lived a few more miles out he would then bike home I never once thought to check at the taxi man had an ID or the face matched the picture to check the company actually exists I just trusted it was a real thing I do constantly check these things now and ring up to make sure the person actually works there sounds paranoid but here's why I thought the taxi just like every other time the taxi driver seemed quiet but I just assumed he was either tired from a long shift or a bit shy being a bit shy myself I thought I understood I did the usual and told him where I lived to get to my parents house I was living at this point you have to go down a very long road and it Street about a mile long then you have two turnings if you miss one it doesn't matter you just drive up a bit more and you get to the second turning the man missed the first turning I thought you must have daydream while driving and didn't know the area very well back then I did a lot of giving people a benefit of the doubt and overly naive and nice I told him but he kept on driving fear did kick in and actually shouted you're going to miss the second turning - as he was still driving he wasn't saying a word at this point I remember grabbing my phone to ring the police and he slammed the brakes on causing my phone to slip out of my hand and land on the floor near my feet he reversed backwards not checking if any other cars were behind us and it was about to go down the second turning I quickly said here's fine as I had a bad feeling and didn't want him to know where I was living he finally spoke I said sorry about that I'm tired been a long night I felt bad for shouting and doubting this man at this point but after the second turning if you don't go down it it leads to countryside and nothing for a few miles so I was scared he was heading that way I said don't worry give him money and then said keep the change as I felt it for him being tired he said thank you and smiled and put his hand on my leg and said you know you're a very pretty girl with that I quickly smiled awkwardly and said goodnight and I didn't manage to get one foot out the door when he grabbed my arm and I felt funny on my right side which hurt and I should pull myself back up and tried to get out some of it is a blur but I remember him pulling and I could feel pain on my arms I managed to get one foot out the door when he yanked me by my hair and I could feel pain on my neck I managed to whittle free and I left everything in the car it was the case of run Forrest run and I ran home as fast as I could luckily he was just around the corner I remember running up the stairs and ringing my boyfriend now husband and then it just went black I passed out I woke up the next day in my own bed my boyfriend stopped over on the sofa my mom and dad let him he informed me what had happened they let me sleep for a bit when I did wake up had scratch marks and blood all over my arms and back from the taxi driver and didn't realize at the time but the [ __ ] bit me too on my arm I ran upstairs to feel safe and blacked out from shock I rang all the taxi services and even the police the next day I gave the company name and nobody ever heard of it I gave the description of what he looked like I didn't thought has anyone else in her hometown had this bad experience so I went on Facebook and asked around into my shock lots of girls that I knew said they had an encounter with him one said he was acting shady and showing off so she didn't go in another got out when he complained about her sitting in the back seat and not the front the police said he must have started and backed out the plan or so I was about to use my phone when we went past the second turning but got the courage to do it again my boyfriend went back to the area where I ran from and found all my stuff laid out on the path obviously didn't want evidence in his car police were keeping a lookout for him but nothing ever came of it until a few years later he was caught me and my husband were watching the news and he got arrested one woman rang the police and they got him on so many attacks and attempts I do wish I managed to get a good swinging punch in his face but glad he was caught and he's learned his lesson taxi driver from hell let's not mean and this is why I'm afraid of any rideshare apps or taxis or any kind of transport that includes you and one person like anything other than public transport I suppose any time I'm in a taxi or a rideshare and they miss a turn that causes such deep anxiety hence why I avoid it to the death if I can and the few times I do I use an app where Jakob can track exactly where I am and where I can call nine-one-one because there's so many weird people and ride-sharing apps and taxis and things like that that [ __ ] scares the hell out of me it makes me super paranoid because small things like I said like missing a turn now our red flags I'm like oh god they're gonna murder me or something this took place about seven years ago I'd been single for a very long time my kids kept telling me to go back into the swing of things but I just kept making excuses man if you told me about this dating site he said there was no harm and talking to people so I did I put everything out there so there were no surprises when or if they met me I thought that if they still contacted me after reading all that I described about myself and we matched then maybe I would have coffee with them well I matched with a few and the conversation went well I met one gentleman who was way too regimental for my crazy life and kindly declined any more involvement with him another guy seemed too pushy and acted like I should be honored in his presence but then there came we will call him Richard now please keep in mind at a very low self-esteem at the time that being said Richard seemed great we carried on conversations for hours he lived an hour and a half away so all we could really do was talk to each other we talked about her kids dreams goals my daughter even a friend did one of his sons on Facebook I was a secretary for some self-help meetings in my town and he was going to school to be a counselor perfect right we talked for at least four months but after a while I noticed that he kept having small problems come up arguments with his mom with whom he was living no money for gas his truck broke down his oldest boy was mad at him just little things you know not anything that would set me off but it was his poor me to heck with the attitude I tried to let that go and be a really positive influence in his life his mother and boys loved me and told me they had never seen him so happy time went on and we were still talking every day I had opportunity to come see him and of course my daughter went with me so she could meet his in person as well I took him and his son to eat at the only little coffee shop in that town he knew I was on a fixed income but I paid anyway because he was going to school and didn't have an income as of yet we had a good time we met his son's house on a hilltop town we were having such a good time that we didn't notice that the snow was coming down hard and the roads were icing up so my daughter and I stayed the night in one of the rooms it seemed like the closer he got to the family the more distant they became to him it was odd the next day the roads were clear so we said our goodbyes and went home but before we left I received one extra hug from his son's mother-in-law she whispered in my ear don't fall for him I thought maybe there was something she didn't like about me that came out of left field next few days we didn't talk I thought that was odd did do something wrong someone from the self-help meeting told me there was a man looking for me she said he looked disheveled and smelled like alcohol this was not a surprise to me because I helped quite a few people get back on their feet and maybe this one fell off the wagon and just needed to talk as I was driving down my street I saw a truck in my driveway I didn't recognize it at first it was him she found out where he lived and was singing for my house at first I was happy until I looked at his truck and so I'm slumped over reeking of booze at that point my fixed mode set in and asked him in for some strong coffee he told me that he had a blowout with his mother and she kicked him out and his boys won't talk to him I got some clean clothes and told him to take a shower I figured we could sort it out the next day in the meantime I was taking him to a meeting he sobered up and agreed to go the whole time at the meeting my friends were acting like I had lost my mind did they see something I was blind of I went back to my house and he seemed okay almost to okay like nothing at all had happened my son pulled me aside and told me he didn't like him much but I thought maybe he was just being overprotective I should have paid attention went to the store because I wasn't prepared for the extra mouth and I bought for two liters of soda a gallon of milk and two monsters for him and my son some chips and stuff for dinner after we all watch some TV and headed off to bed I let him sleep in the spare bed in my room but in the middle of the night he tried to get frisky at that point no my grown kids were in the other room and something just didn't sit well with me like he wasn't the same man he was before the next morning my daughter came running out of the bathroom angry and she says someone pissed all over the toilet he didn't say a word later we were all eating breakfast and he started to let food drop out of his mouth onto the table and it was spitting food while he was talking he took two three eaters and drank them back-to-back langsam run down his chin what the hell then yes there is more he took the remote and started to set recordings for his favorite shows deleting a few of my grandchildren recordings set for weeks in advance wait wait wait what are you doing my friend this is not cool I told him but he acted like I said nothing then he went to the refrigerator and told me I have to go to the store and buy more soda and stuff it was all gone like it was gone he even drank my son's monster and the whole gallon of milk and this point my daughter was also livid so she contacted his son and he proceeded to tell her that his mom kicked him out because he wouldn't get a job and was stealing money and eating her out of house and home his other son won't talk to him because he keeps asking for money and won't pay it back he himself was mad at him for lying to me by telling me that he was going to school when he wasn't and was using me as his next big meal ticket well that was it I got all his stuff together and took him to the truck and asked him to leave it doesn't end there he had loosened some bolts on his transmission making it impossible to move he begged and pleaded for me to stay he was at the point of snot coming out of his nose good God he said that he just wanted to be close to me and if that meant sleeping in his truck he would do that and he couldn't live without me well held to the no I called his oldest son and told them that if they didn't come with a tow truck and get their dad his fate would not be nice they arrived two hours later apologizing for his father's actions we found out through his son that for many years he had gone through many unhealthy relationships and took advantage of a lot of women that fell for his limps he still tries to friend me on Facebook to this day frankly that's super creepy and I mean this guy just sounds like he was lazy and didn't want to put in the work and I feel bad for his sons for having to have a father like that thankfully it seems like the rest of the family is there for the kids and I mean they're adults because one of them owns a house but nonetheless it's just crazy to me the extent someone will go to not work to the point of getting into a relationship just to be not even necessarily a gold digger as much as being taken care of right so I'm just glad this person got away from him because this dude sounds creepy as [ __ ] anyways guys thank you so much for watching and thank you to shutter for sponsoring this video thank you to my patrons as always and I'll catch you guys next time [Music]

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Published: Mon Jan 13 2020