Fathers ABANDON FAMILIES, Live To Regret It | Dhar Mann

joey wait joey please we can talk about this talk about what how i've had to put up with you and your nagging for 13 years joey take out the trash joey don't watch tv joey don't drink so much enough is enough it's not called nagging it's called caring we can work this out nah i'm good look i can't live here with you nagging and complaining all the time that's why i got my own place so i can do what i want whenever i want no you can't go is it because of mom what did you do kevin look i'm not going to be far you can come and visit anytime you like i gotta go this is all your fault you made him leave hey kevin i was just about to call you dinner's almost ready what are you doing you know there's no sweets before you eat well i wanna eat ice cream now excuse me it's gonna spoil your appetite and it's gonna give you a tummy ache this trash smells why didn't you take it out because i didn't feel like it you know that's your job and i would appreciate if you did that this is so unfair honey everything i'm telling you to do is for your good one day you'll understand go have a seat i'll bring you your food make sure you eat before it gets cold i put in my ipad no you have a math test coming up if we don't study you're gonna flunk your math test school first no i hate studying and i'm tired of this you're always telling me what to do and nagging all the time nagging it's not nagging it's caring yeah and i'm tired of all these rules no wonder dad left i was with him then he'd let me do whatever i want i wish i lived with that okay kevin if that's really what you want and starting tomorrow you can go live with your dad good i'll finally be able to do what i want well here it is your new home kind of nice right ah dad why does it smell so bad in here you didn't take out the trash i take it out whenever i feel like it that's the joy of living alone you don't have to have someone telling you what to do all the time sounds awesome so uh where's my room room you're looking at it you can sleep right here on the couch on the couch there's always the floor your choice i'm not gonna tell you what to do here oh this is so great you know mom would never let me have this much ice cream yeah tell me about it she's always nagging me about everything you know hey want another ice cream really of course yeah actually my stomach's kind of hurting maybe i should have dinner first dinner this is dinner isn't this awesome we get to eat ice cream anytime we want oh okay so can i plan my ipad while i eat yeah i'm not going to hold you back i say go for it yes if we don't study you're going to flunk your math test oh wait actually i have a math that's tomorrow do you think i should study first look kevin in this household you could do anything you want there's no need to ask for permission you understand really yeah that's freaking awesome hey man why are you home so late well he didn't pick me up so i had to walk home sorry little buddy i completely slit my mind how'd the math test go terrible i got an f on my test and i never get f's i always get a's well when i study with mom anyway anyway who cares i didn't get good grades like how i turned up hey you want an ice cream i'm good my stomach's been hurting all day and i need some real food is there anything for dinner i could eat i'm starving i don't know you can check the refrigerator dad when are you going to take out the trash it smells so bad i don't worry about it you get used to the smell after a while [Music] there's nothing to eat just beer oh hey that reminds me can you give me another beer sure here now can you make me something to eat please make you something to eat i don't know how to cook i just don't get it you didn't pick me up from school you haven't taken out the trash and now there's nothing left to eat for dinner what do you do just lay on the couch and drink all day hey listen don't tell me how to live my life all right starting sound a lot like your mother now listen i didn't leave her so that you could come and nag at me all day too wait you left her i thought she made you leave of course i left her she's been nagging me for 13 years you're wrong dad it's not called nagging it's called caring she just wanted to help you look i don't need help and if you don't like it here you can go right back to mom's [Music] kevin what are you doing here hey mom uh i missed you listen i don't want to live at dads anymore i want to live with you but i don't understand i thought you hated my nagging no i'm sorry mom i realized that you weren't nagging you were just caring and i actually missed your rules it's okay kevin i understand and i'm sorry for saying it was your fault that left you i love you i love you too you know what just this once we're gonna break the rules i'm gonna let you have ice cream before supper oh actually mom i'm kind of sick of ice cream nothing beats your home-cooked food come here oh hey i didn't know you'd be home oh hi babe um yeah i was just uh i got a fork early why are you slurring have you been drinking i'm just having a beer james did you really just drink all of those beers it is four o'clock in the afternoon i don't need a lecture right now i am just really worried about your drinking when is it going to stop can you just calm down nina i am just having a few beers wait where's jacob i don't know i haven't seen him you haven't seen him what do you mean it's wednesday it's your day to pick him up from school don't don't tell me that you forgot i don't know how i forgot you forgot because you're drunk i can't even believe this right now you are choosing alcohol over your own family hey mom hey dad oh my gosh honey how did you get home i had to walk i tried calling dad but he didn't answer i am so sorry honey do you mind giving me a couple minutes so i can talk to your dad sure i'll be in my room i can't believe you made jacob walk all the way home from school alone what if something had happened to him it's fine he is old enough to figure it out on his own he's still a kid james there you go again another lecture i wouldn't have to lecture you if you would stop drinking and start taking care of your responsibility look at this mess i will take care of it why is there a letter from our landlord saying the rent is past due don't worry about that i will figure it out what do you mean you'll figure it out you didn't pay the rent i couldn't nina because i lost my job what when were you planning on telling me this look okay it's no big deal i'll find another one when did this happen a few weeks ago you didn't think it was important enough to tell me what are we gonna do now we can't make the rent on my income alone i don't no okay i said i will figure it out i can't believe you're just gonna sit here and drink as if nothing is wrong so if you have no concern for your home or for your family can't you just leave me alone nina okay i was having a great day until you walked in i am sick of you lecturing me all the time james this has gone too far your drinking is ruining our lives you're gonna have to make a decision what is more important to you your relationship with your family or your relationship with alcohol then i will choose alcohol okay even my worst hangover doesn't give me the kind of headache that you do i'm out of here you're just gonna walk out where are you going to my dad's house i can't take this anymore hey there door was open so i let myself in yeah yeah yeah come on in son come on in have a seat come on in you want a beer yes there you go oh what boy exactly so how are you doing i i haven't seen you in such a long time uh everything's okay no no it's not i mean nina is driving me crazy because she keeps lecturing me about my drinking ah so i'm sorry to hear that uh so what did she say oh she said i need to choose between alcohol and my family so i left i mean i don't need that kind of stress in my life right now you know maybe you should listen to her son what me dad you split up with mom when i was a kid and you don't have anyone here to tell you what to do or or not to drink doesn't look like you have any regrets dad what's wrong it's nothing it's nothing wait no dad seriously tell me what is wrong son i never told you this but not a day goes by when i don't regret that decision you see i've been drinking for as long as i can remember but at some point it became an addiction my drinking started causing a lot of problems between your mom and i i just took it as she was always lecturing me so i never listened to what she actually had to say then one day she gave me an ultimatum she told me i had to choose between my family or alcohol so i chose alcohol i walked out of the house and never came back and now not a day goes by where i don't look back and regret that decision i missed out on all of your birthdays i missed out on all of your games i missed out on all the special moments of your life simply because i wouldn't stop drinking [Laughter] dad i had no idea that's what happened i didn't know how to tell you please son don't make the same mistake that i made because your relationship with your family is more important than your relationship with alcohol oh dad i can't believe i was gonna let alcohol take that all away from me i feel so bad i gotta make this right i'm glad to make the right decision son thanks for everything hey nina james what are you doing back well i um i wanted to give you these and to tell you that i'm sorry oh wow thank you but i don't understand where's all this coming from to be honest i didn't realize how many problems my drinking was causing today i finally realized that my relationship with my family is more important than my relationship with alcohol i can't tell you how happy i am to hear that so going forward look i promise no more drinking okay i want to be the husband and the father that you and jacob deserve [Music] i'm so proud of you honey come here 200 to 220 240. great you're all set welcome to basketball camp jamal i'll go get your jersey yes thank you so much mom for keeping your promise you're welcome um where's dad is he coming oh baby i don't think dad you came yeah hey buddy listen um i'm gonna need that 240 dollars you got i got some things i need to take care of but i just used it to pay for jamal's basketball camp well get it back look i need that cash my business is struggling right now [Music] no todd i can't do that to jamal you know how much basketball means to him um that's okay i don't have to go to basketball team today you can give the money today yes my boy no jamal i promise you go to basketball camp and i'm keeping that promise look i'm not gonna ask you twice get me that cash or you'll never see me again how could you say that i have struggled by your side for years i can't i won't creep that promise to jamal fine but if you're not gonna be a part of my struggle then you can't be a part of my success [Music] [Music] the mom is devastated her husband left her to raise jamal all by herself but no matter what she always supported jamal in his dream to play basketball jamal kept practicing his game and started to get better and better his mom was so proud of him as time went on jamal ends up winning lots of championships and quickly becomes one of the best players in the league [Music] jamal butler wow amazing game tonight can i get a photo of course come on thank you so much anytime man i got your mom jamal dad yes sir it's been too long todd what are you doing here what do you mean look i just came to see my boy he's my son after all right anyway look son i know you're extremely successful and so i was wondering can you help your pops out i really need some money so after all this time you came here to ask him for some money i'm talking to my boy [Music] look i'm uh i'm really struggling right now and i could use some help so what do you say can you help your man out but if you're not going to be a part of my struggle then you can't be a part of my success dad yeah i don't think so as someone once said if you're not going to be part of my struggle you can't be part of my success good luck todd he's going to be so excited oh hey babe i'm sorry i'm late i went and got some food with the boys after the club it's okay you're not gonna believe this ugh you smell like alcohol how many drinks did you have i don't know a few what's up um guess just tell me brenda i have a headache i don't want to play any guessing games maybe you should sit down [Music] so what is it [Music] i'm pregnant what yeah i know can you believe it we're gonna have a baby no no please tell me this is some kind of a joke [Music] i wouldn't joke about something like this i thought you'd be more excited excited brenda i just want to party i want to have fun i want to hang out with my boys not raise some baby not everything in life is about having fun and hanging out with the boys we've been married for seven years [Music] don't you think it's time don't start having a family no this might be what you want but it's not what i want first thing tomorrow we're going to the clinic to take care of this i'm not giving up on our baby well it's either me or this baby so make your choice you know i can't make that decision fine [Music] i have a divorce paper sent to you [Music] the wife is devastated and can't stop crying the husband continues to party and have fun he hangs out with his boys and drinks every night over time the wife slowly starts to regain her strength the pregnancy gives her a new level of confidence she's never had before as her life starts going up the husband's life starts going down his friends settle down and begin to have families of their own one by one they all disappear until the husband is left all alone the wife ends up having her baby she cries tears of joy feeling so happy as she holds her daughter in her hands for the very first time brenda it's been so long i want her to come by and see you hey roger this our baby to be honest i haven't been able to get the two of you out of my head and i've been thinking maybe we could try this marriage again i understand i thought you wanted to hang out and have fun with your boys yeah but they all ended up settling down and starting their own families so it's just me now anyway [Music] what do you say [Music] hey honey here's your bottle hey thank you uh who's your friend uh this is my ex-husband roger oh nice to meet you [Music] when i go feed ashley and uh play to catch up i didn't realize you had a new boyfriend beyonce actually listen roger if you ever want to see your daughter you're more than welcome but as far as anything else goes i've moved on i needed to find a man who was ready to settle down and have a family you take care of roger hey darm and fam make sure to subscribe to my channels and check out this next video i know you're going to love it i may make only half the money but i give twice as much love and that's what matters well that is the saddest excuse i have ever heard i can't live without my baby i hereby grant her 100 custody of wait

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Published: Sat May 01 2021