8 Ways To Outsmart The Controlling Narcissist
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Channel: Surviving Narcissism
Views: 958,217
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Keywords: narcissism, narcissist, Dr. Les Carter, controlling people, Narcissists in relationships
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Length: 13min 10sec (790 seconds)
Published: Fri Sep 06 2019
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I would say that for anybody who is healthy, confident, comfortable, secure in who they are - these suggestions come extremely naturally. I've never once in my life worried about what other people say about me, if they make fun of me, or if they try to manipulate me in any way. It really doesn't work. But I have to thank my parents and friends for instilling those traits in me from an early age.
I do feel bad for people who truly struggle to follow the suggestions this guy is saying. He even says how people have told him how simple it all is - that he's a genius - and he kind of shrugs it off as "yea, who knew?". He's right though - I've seen how enlightening these very, very basic points can be to somebody who just wasn't raised to follow them and have them come naturally to them. It's sad seeing people get so easily manipulated by other people - almost always as a function of their own insecurities and needing the person trying to control them to give them that praise they so require.
I hope people are able to follow what this guy says as gospel (only real). It's 100% spot on.
This is wonderful.
This is actually very helpfull for a lot of people...
I struggled for years by being to nice too machiavelistic personnalities, and I learned these principles the hard way.
I regret my late education regarding social power, not to practice though, but to accept and protect myself from people that can really hurt you bad in the long term.
If you know someone who needs to hear that, you should tell'em even if that means desillusion, and long time friendship ruptures if these relationships are toxic for them.
Educate yourself on people behaviors, for yourself, and for them. I personnaly started with 48 rules of power, by Robert Greene (be careful not to become an asshole on the way)