Women Share Things Guys Think It's OK To Do But Is Actually Creepy

like the video and subscribe right now or this crow will be waiting at your window tonight ass credit women have read it what do men do that they think is OK but is actually creepy where's my hug if you have to force a hug you don't have a hug level relationship with that person oh man there's a guy at every job like that putting their hands on your thigh or back casually while talking to you if I'm being friendly it's not a signal for you to touch me far too many co-workers creepy uncles etcetera find this okay especially when they act super defensive with their hands up like okay okay geez when you tell them not to they would feel just as offended if another man did it to them I had a male boss years ago who would come up behind his employees and give neck slashed shoulder rubs not sexual just a power slash dominance move I also male just flinched and say how really loud when he tried to do it to me and that was his one and only attempt tell you to smile it used to make me really uncomfortable now I just grin manically at them my standard response is a deadpan I'm smiling thinking it's okay to send dick pics by way of introduction maybe I'll want to see it at some point eventually but try saying hi first edit to clarify I do not want a dick pic eventually maybe I'll want to see it in real life eventually but not if you start with a dick dick send some random dick pic back to them they all know what it feels like to receive an unsolicited dick pic and be mortified upon discovering that you have a dick my favorite was the mean where someone replied to an unsolicited dick pic obviously belonging to an adult is that a child's penis why are you sending me child porn flip the script when I'm walking down the sidewalk follow me slowly in a car while trying to talk to me by ducking hate this I will absolutely take a cat call from across the street any day rather than this vehicle nonsense cat calling makes me feel generally uncomfortable but slowly following me in a car until I respond makes me feel downright safe it's not most men at all but there was one man who acted super creepy and seemed to think it was fine I worked with this guy back when I was 18 the two of us as well as some other cow walkers would hang out all the time and I was generally friendly with the guy same sort of friendly as I'd use with anyone else but I guess it made him obsessed with me for about five years he would constantly message me telling me how amazing I am he clearly seemed to think that was a good idea and it would make me feel good and I guess make me into him or maybe he already thought I was into him point as if someone turns you down they probably aren't playing hard-to-get try once if they turn you down and you suspect they're playing the stupid hard-to-get game then ask them directly don't pester them constantly for years that is scary behavior and yes I did block the guy eventually then he started making alternative accounts to add me with that's where we are getting into stalker territory though DMS hey hey hey I'm not interested duck you you stupid bitch hey you're the most sexy girl I've ever seen I look you're fatter book and you are amazing new whoo five minutes later whatever you're ugly anyway sorry friend sent bat I just won't be friends so sex me yes two minutes later still no reply you just assume I want to sex like most guys you stuck-up bitch sorry phone hacked maybe it's just me but asking if I live alone now if at this point of inquiry there was an already established friendship I suppose it's okay but if you are a stranger or an acquaintance that would freak me out I have a large tattoo on my shoulder and I've had several men come up from behind and move my tank top strap and brass strap to see it better it's been mostly in grocery stores and lows of all places what the duck touching without permission is bad enough but to move clothing to expose more skin I'd like to believe your average guy does not think this is okay I sure as duck don't I don't have they're in my car but it's so hot where I live so my windows are always down when I come to a red light men try to talk to me from their vehicles and it makes me wildly uncomfortable because I obviously can't get away ask them if they know Jesus as their personal Lord and Savior they should leave you alone tout suite possibly the best way to end any newly started conversation oh my gosh I love Jesus what's your favorite commandment when strange men approach me and start asking personal questions like we are on a first date honest question as a socially inept person I'm often told that a good conversation strategy is to ask the person about themselves how should I make sure I'm not doing this just don't do it literally out of nowhere if you have never even seen this woman before there are literally zero appropriate personal questions that you can ask her without her being creeped out if these questions come up in conversation with context and the discussion of this topic is initiated by her then you're good to go otherwise keep it very casual and ask open-ended questions and make sure to actually listen to her responses I've come across a few men who don't seem to understand that I have a boyfriend means I'm not single and I don't want to be pursued or flirted with I tell guys I'm married and it still doesn't always stop them one guy even replied with you happy one asked if my husband beats me out so naturally you eloped with this silver-tongued Cavalier my workplace is mostly men there are three women and approximately 25 men I used to bring in homemade baked goods a lot pumpkin bread brownies cookies s'mores bars and the like I enjoy being in the kitchen it's a nice gesture to share one guy started drawing me borderline inappropriate Minnie Mouse drawings not done well traced images but with small changes like her bloomers too short weird to explain I'm the exact opposite of a person you'd think would like anything Disney related let alone sexy Minnie he said he drew them to thank me for the traits I stopped bringing and treats which resulted in every one else questioning why I quit baking very awkward all around honestly I would tell them because creepy guy kept giving me pervy poorly drawn Minnie Mouse fan art whenever I'd bring something in guys who try to assert their dominance by crushing your hand while shaking it I have arthritis and it is excruciating ly painful a guy would do that to a woman I always hate it cause I don't want to be all I'm a dainty woman please be gentle with me but also who the duck are you trying to alpha-male by crushing my hand I get it you're a man no need to attempt to assert dominance though my partner thinks they don't even realize they're being that aggressive and that's probably the most likely explanation I've got curly hair and I'm sick of men thinking they can just come and grab a coil of hair and pull it like I'm some kind of slinky spring don't touch my ducking hair and don't call me moody when I tell you to stop eater seems like it's people with curly hair colored hair long hair no hair and facial hair all suffering together here also I've not had many women reach for my hair but obviously they do please don't touch our hair without permission it's such an intimate thing to do for a lot of us I know you said you're a lesbian but I think you're cute and wanted to know if you'll give me a chance admittedly that has thankfully only happened to me online and that is a per lightly worded version but I have plenty of friends who have gotten it in real life to a guy once tried to ask out one of my lesbian friends once by claiming that she just hasn't found the right take yet I stopped in and told him that he just hasn't found the right take yet he was not gay or amused consistent pursuit my senior year of high school a junior guy kept pursuing me we were in an algebra 2 class together and had after-school practices for theater this was my first year in any production my goals that year were to try something new and maybe make some new friends enter junior it started off as friendly conversations things we had in common he was nice and funny but not my type was no spark for me he asked me out I said no he was polite about my rejection and I figured we'd be friends about two months into the school year he said that he was having a bunch of the cast over for a party that weekend sure who doesn't like a party when I got to his house it was just him his family and me I thought I was early no problem i sat in the living room and we talked 15 minutes later I texted a friend and told her to call me ASAP and fake an emergency because my gut felt off by the time she calls I've been there about 35 minutes his mom is almost done cooking dinner no one else has showed up and his dad had made a passing remark about his son bringing such a nice girl for dinner that was the official red flag I knew Julia hadn't invited anyone else over I nope doubt of their saying my sister had locked herself out of the house and she needed my key I ignored him as much as I could after that one-word responses when he asked me things minimal interaction during class and practice he asked me out three more times that year either oblivious or ignorant to my retraction the last time was to prom and he knew I had started dating someone he played it off as oh no I meant both of you come with me not a group mind you just him I had to drop out of theater that spring due to a band conflict and it ended up being a blessing because it got me away from him it's a team example but it still gives me the creeps when I remember him I'm an elderly woman and it really really pisses me off when men that I don't know call me sweetie or honey or sweetheart dudes just don't I'm not your grandma with a dish of cookies for you could you be I want a grandma that says dude also I like cookies one flirting with me in a position where I can't leave like an uber or a taxi it's terrifying one time I had an uber driver flirt with me the entire time I was in the car late on a Friday night after a party I tried to stop responding and he kept telling me how beautiful I was and how I needed a nice man etc he actually ended up skipping my street I thought I was going to die that night most of the times when women don't want to talk with you / aren't interested and you keep pushing it we get scared that we are gonna get assaulted or killed a real possibility at anytime - I've heard men who have been on FaceTime in public follow me with their phones talking to their friends about how I look and such and it's just really uncomfortable because I didn't consent for my body to be recorded and sent to your pals well I'm just trying to get my ducking groceries when you get messages like hi hon in a business setting I draw for a living and regularly get guys messaging me under the guise that they want to commission something when it's really just an excuse to get closer to me this will sound blunt and bitchy but I don't want you I want your money you commissioning or not alright stop wasting my time thank you when men I don't know well it all do random favors for me without me asking I know it can come from an innocent place but I've had enough bill that's too creepy behavior that started with small things that I'm immediately suspicious example not terribly dark a previous neighbor of mine who was around 45 I was 25 we lived in a house split into apartments so we shared a yard he would water my flowers spread mulch onto my flowerbeds clean my gutters etc without asking beforehand if I wanted or needed him to help but he'd always tell me after what he'd done it I was already kind of weary about what he expected from me so I thanked him with a six-pack which seemed to disappoint him he also said numerous times that he worries about me living alone and he'd protect me if I ever had an intruder or anything which okay thanks I decided he was just a generous person he introduced me to the other neighbors and once in a while we'd all go out for a drink at the pub down the road and he'd pay for everyone's drinks regardless of whose idea it was to go out so I thought okay this is just how he is and I thought that until I looked up from my couch around 11:00 p.m. and he was standing in my flower bed staring through my window with hands cupped around his eyes he grinned and tapped on the glass like hate me let's talk so I went outside I was waiting on a friend to come pick me up to find him wearing what I think was a suit swaying very drunk and he says let's go out where do you want to go I was like hey sorry I've got plans with a friend tonight so he interrogate me about what kind of friend it was a guy then out comes the list of all the things he's done for me how he'd never let anyone hurt me how even though he's old enough to be my father then he kind of trailed off I asked do you mean go out on a date mumbles yeah kind of I said I didn't think of him that way and that he was right I kind of did put him in the category of people my father's age then he got mad saying things like whoo-whah so that's how you're gonna be huh and I was just so surprised and had no idea what to do so I just started apologizing my friend arrived with flawless timing talking badly about their ex and their kids I'm a single middle-aged woman I don't know what's going on with some men but a lot of them regret having kids and are mad about having to give money to their ex to raise them I'm not talking about unreasonable amount of money but for example $100 for two kids at the beginning of a school year and of course their ex is crazy for asking for it she's the one who wanted kids some have complained about having to spend time with them why are they telling me this we just met it makes them seem so mean and cheap if you don't want kids get a vasectomy you have been visited by the long snake dogger smooth slithering and a thin body will come to you but only if you comment slither on dogger thanks for watching do not forget to subscribe for more daily videos [Music]

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Length: 15min 11sec (911 seconds)

Published: Wed Oct 02 2019