What Did Your Friend Do That Just Straight Up Ended The Friendship? (AskReddit)

Sirius has a friend done slash said something that just straight-up ended the friendship what happened at the pub one night with a group of friends this guy I kind of know was there with his fairly new girlfriend this black guy comes over and talks to her for a minute just saying hi how are you doing kind of thing guy says to his GF how do you know him GF says we used to date a few years ago guy looks really uncomfortable pauses for a minute then blurts out did you [ __ ] him GF says let's talk about this later guy says because if you [ __ ] him we are through I don't take any an asterisk asterisk asterisk er apostrophe s sloppy seconds she asked me to poke around in her husband's life for proof that he was cheating for months she asked me I finally gave him found proof in process of gaining proof husband started trying to hook up with me save texts and email he had sent showed everything to her she called me a lying [ __ ] and said I faked it all because I wanted to sleep with her husband instantly dropped her as a friend don't have time for crazy many years ago when I found out I was pregnant with my daughter my sister found out she lost her baby at the same time to keep my family from worrying about me and to give my sister time to emotionally heal I decided to wait till the 12-week mark to tell my family I couldn't keep the news to myself though so I told three of my friends and told them to keep it a secret and why they needed to the 12-week mark rolls around and my parents say that they already know because one of my friends told them I confront this friend she denies it another friend who knew called her on her [ __ ] so she finally admitted it she said she thought my parents deserved to know and that I wouldn't even have to keep a pregnancy a secret if I weren't such a [ __ ] who got pregnant only months into marriage then she went batshit broke into the home of the friend who called her out and stole a ton of stuff so she lost two friends that day and from what people tell me she's been slowly losing the few she has left she asked for a favor and it's rapes when she was getting married for me to do her wedding photography I agreed and it her a really cheap bail but I worked full-time at the time so told her it had be several weeks before I'd be able to get through editing them all she was impatient bitched about it on Facebook and complained when they weren't ready after she came back from her honeymoon once I'd given her the photos I cut her out of my life had this one friend in university we actually became good buddies I went and spent Easter with his family and things like that well we had a rugby formal dinner and as you'd imagine there was an open bar and people got messy there was this girl who went her date and her split up somewhere along the line and she got really really drunk this friend of mine latched on to her and she was too drunk to know where she was I told him that it wasn't a good idea to try and hook up with her given her state he said if I don't hit it someone else will something like that I ended up speaking with another girl who was a friend of mine at the dinner and had her take the girl home with her I didn't ever speak to that dude again one of my best friends asked me to buy a shirt for him on my credit card okay he said he would pay me at the end of the month between these dates we went out one day and by the end of the night he said he lost the shirt he brought it along because he was going to change later the next day he would say he lost it in my car and since I didn't find it he wouldn't pay me because he lost in my car okay then [ __ ] you to a guy I had know for three years all in college met him as a freshman and was a fraternity brother of mine texted me one morning with pictures of a drunk girl that had passed out in his fraternity room on his bed self eyes of him grinning like an ass and groping her oh she lay on his bed passed out completely severed a three-year friendship to the point where I couldn't even talk to him and he was only a few doors down the hall from me I was engaged and I asked the guy who I had been really good friends with for several years if he would be one of the groomsmen at my wedding he started laughing out loud and just said no I'm not going to be one of the groomsmen at your wedding his response shocked me and it made me feel really embarrassed for having asked haven't seen him since that day one of my friends once insulted my sister and I gave her a warning she did it again a little while later and I got pissed and called her out the next day at lunch this was high school I invited my sister to come sit with us and my sister sat in the place this girl usually sat there was no room for her there anymore and she had to go sit at another table no one talks [ __ ] about my sister my roommates and I had a bad habit of leaving our door unlocked in our freshman dorm one day our friend comes over noticing the door is unlocked comes inside to hang out assuming someone is there upon realizing no one is home he decides to take my laptop now in possession of my laptop which is registered with the University because all computers that connect to their wig have to be he without changing IRA raising anything connects to the whiffy and begins using away he was promptly caught and arrested and my laptop was returned to me I have no idea how he is doing now because he got shunned and I quite frankly don't care a colleague I knew through University and I became pretty ok friends over the course of our two years together in school one day we were hanging out at lunch and a transgender woman and the beginning of her transition walked by my friend said ugh what the [ __ ] I didn't know we let [ __ ] [ __ ] into this school little did he know that I myself am transgender and that woman he insulted was a close friend of mine that had just started coming out to people with me being one of the first at that point I decided to end the friendship because I'm not gonna stick around and deal with someone that hates me for who I am I had this happen with a friend I had known for a couple of years we met at work instantly clicked and ended up being pretty good friends outside of work he was warm funny witty outgoing and basically one of those life-of-the-party types of people not only did I not know anyone who didn't like him but most of the people he knew seemed to adore him so one day this really sweet mutual friend of ours who happened to be from Thailand brings him a gift it was some special recipe of hers that she had made just for him he gets all excited thanks are hugs her etc and she leaves when she's far enough away that she can't hear him he laughs and says like I'm going to eat that chinks food I was stunned I didn't know what to say and finally just asks did you really just say that he laughed and shrugged his shoulders I wouldn't let it go and kept questioning him about until he said she's nice but they are all the same they are dirty too so I hope you don't eat any of her food the conversation went a little further than that because I remember him admitting that he hates pretty much any other race or minority group it was a really disappointing experience and really made me question my judgment because I did not see that coming at all I guess he's gotten pretty good at hiding it and thought we were close enough that he could finally be openly racist with me I had a good friend who was just too damn picky about money he's a great guy smart affable funny and otherwise generous but when it came to dollars and cents he was like heaven he's a Scrooge if we went out to eat the bill had to be calculated to within a penny with a thorough and careful accounting of who a [ __ ] how much was tax how the tip should be tabulated and who should pay a larger or smaller percentage because of fiscal considerations are B and C I usually busted up this process by throwing bills on the pile and just covering it so we could all move on to the next portion of our lives my life is too short to quibble over zero dollars eighteen one day we agreed to go to a rock concert we wanted seats together so I casually mentioned we'd order together and pained a vigil II for the seats next day he calls me to tell me he had purchased seats I owe dollar sign xx for the seats plus tax I also owe him dollar sign YY for the costs of the monthly interest on his revolving credit card which he had used to purchase the tickets he also wanted me to prepay for one half of gasoline expenses for the 200 mile round-trip including a small mileage fee for vehicular wear and tear this is where our estate I told him I'd pay for the tickets cash rounded up to the nearest dollar I told him to suck up his revolving credit interest it wasn't my problem and I would drive us there and pay for all the fuel myself because I just don't give a [ __ ] this began a long discussion face to face replete with calculator I hand waived all of it just throwing cash at it because one dollar twelve here and zero dollars 73 there means nothing to me I don't give a [ __ ] I just want to go see the show but he returned repeatedly to the budget it got so complicated I gave up I threw him 100 dollars and told him to sort out the change when he had the time and inclination it was an interest-free loan until he figured out the details he got back to me days later with an itemized invoice and the change we went to the show with another friend we wanted drinks so I went up for them and paid for them myself to avoid the cost / tax / tip argument in the middle of a stadium after that show I was pretty much done I never wanted to haggle over pennies ever again we stopped hanging out I moved to another state to this day I don't give a flying [ __ ] about $0 70-200 off cash to cover a restaurant tab and move on to the next problem in life penny pinchers drive me insane yes female friend found out she contracted herpes from her ex didn't stop her from [ __ ] new guys left and right when I asked her do you tell these guys about your herbes she goes are they probably have it already shook my head and stopped talking to her [ __ ] I had a really good friend he would help me out with [ __ ] through bad times and good my mother has LC mers and he was aware of that and he would usually understand if I had to miss some stuff with him because I had to take care of my brothers or something along those lines one day he had something that he really wanted me to come to some sort of award shirt by my mother and father were going to to get what was basically a checkup I told him that I couldn't make his event and he was upset and pissed next day I saw him and he said he was tired of my [ __ ] he said that I needed to stop using my mother as an excuse and that she was going to die anyway because they would never find a cure I punched him in the [ __ ] face I could understand why he would be upset but he crossed the line this will get buried but it's nice to get out I'm a strong agnostic with religious folk in my family an atheist friend of over 20 years told me that religion has no value to anyone when I told him it helped my mother to face her death he we iterated his stance I asked him if his opinion was that important he informed me his opinions were facts and of friendship I had been friends with her for a couple of years at some point she had expressed interest in having a threesome with my husband and I and we decided to try it out it didn't go great mostly because she wasn't willing to abide by the agreements we all made in advance so we decided not to try again after that I supported her through several breakups standard scares and abusive boyfriends and the friendship seemed fine she came to visit one weekend and I was busy the first night she was in town so she and my husband went out to see a play he had won tickets too she tried to convince him to sleep with her got furious when he wouldn't and then told him that I was having sex with another of our friends I wasn't that was pretty much the end of that edit because it's a common question the rule she couldn't abide by was that she wasn't allowed have sexual contact with my husband while I was gone or asleep she kept trying to initiate things with him behind my back she did abide by our other agreements about standard testing condoms confidentiality etc I had a really good friend since freshman year of high school we had a D&D campaign together we had classes and school together and were both in band and such we confided in each other for everything hung out whenever we got the chance it was all great my boyfriend and him will like brothers so we were always just one big happy group that stuck together once we were out of high school we each became a bit busier but I would always come visit him at college on his weekends off when I could he eventually enlisted in the Marine Corps we knew we had to hang out one last time before he left so we were texting each other to coordinate a plan it was around midnight and I asked him what's even open right now I'm always open haha you're barking up the wrong tree dude you know that are we hanging out or not my BF s away right what does that matter yeah I don't think it's going to work tonight hope to see you again someday and that was it I didn't bother going to his going-away party and we haven't spoken during or since he got back seven years of friendship built up to a booty call yep was at a bar with my usual group of buddies I played poker with not anymore my childhood friend dropped by decided to play within an hour or so she developed a crush on one of the guys decided she wanted to hook up with him q blatant flirting I shrugged it off but after the game he pulled me aside to tell me he has zero interest in her I told him I really don't want to be the mediator between them we keep chatting group reassembles to continue to play my girlfriend gives me death stares every time I talk to her crash we usually joke around slash try to wind each other up while playing not just him but all of us somehow me being single came up yes yes I'll be like the crazy cat lady from The Simpsons very funny then my girlfriend just goes well it's no wonder she's single she was raped a couple of months ago few problems with that one apart from close family only about four people knew her included - I was on stress and sleeping pills at the time due to the severe PTSD three these guys were the first ones since my rape I felt relatively safe with guys who didn't question why I didn't drink refused all in victims for one of them to walk me home why I didn't like contact all while I dressed in baggy jeans and men's sweaters we just hung out and played poker for you never ever say something like this ever that night was the last time I saw her we became friends when I was seven this happened when I was twenty now I'm 26 and I don't give a [ __ ] about her but I was angry for a long time the guy started walking around on eggshells when I was there so I just slowly dropped out of the group my best friend of seven years first week of seventh grade he said to me you are no longer my friend you're so lame and boring and nothing cool at your house don't talk to me anymore in the weeks to follow he vandalized my locker and twice slashed my bike tires at school he wrote on my locker and on my bike seat not my friend after doing this fast forward to high school graduation he sat next to me he felt extremely awkward and a few bad droppings landed on his graduation cap he didn't notice that I did I didn't say a word in my friend and I kept blurting out loud bird [ __ ] jokes to each other he received his diploma and family took his photo with bird crap all over his cap my so at the time asked my best friend for naked photos of her she obliged and then requested some of him in return I had to pop over to her house to grab some of my stuff and I found the stacks of photos both hers and is she was living with her parents at the time 18 but in high school I gave the stack of photos to her dad as I walked out of the house never spoke to her again I understand that her parents went ballistic and she no longer speaks to my ex neither do I and she hasn't apologized yet [Music]

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Length: 17min 17sec (1037 seconds)

Published: Thu Sep 05 2019