Stepmother steals our money and goes shopping

[Music] a few background information before i get into the story i'm a bastard child child born out of wedlock but i'm not the only one i have a fraternal twin brother we'll call him dill when my mother and father who were both 25 at the time found out they were having twins my father left my mother in the hospital the day after we were born growing up he was never in our lives and my mother didn't have any ill intent towards him we resented the mention of a father who we never seen or met in our lives and was generally happy with my single mother even there was days my mother would share old polaroids of them together saying things like how we look like our father and how those were great days but how nothing could compare to the day we were born fast forward to 18 years old dill and i were at our graduation from high school my entire mom's side of the family was there to celebrate take pictures and then have an after party at my aunt's home before that could happen my mother said she had a surprise for us as between the crowd a man was emerging dill and i soon felt a terrible distaste as we could tell this man was the man who seemed to walk out on my mother all those years ago we felt hatred towards this man even if my mother smiled whenever she would talk about him our father cried in turn making my mother cry as they soon told us how he was involved in our lives even if it wasn't in person or physical my parents told us that when we were born they agreed that they couldn't take care of twins with the income they had with a worded agreement my parents agreed that my father would have to walk out for most of our lives to support us and sent money off from a job miles away from our birth town so the years of birthdays cars christmas presents halloween costumes and thanksgiving dinner wasn't only paid by my mother but our father as well they handed us envelopes that they said was for our college tuition our father even took us by the hands and got on his knees while crying as if on an instant it was like our resentment towards this man fluttered away i cried and bill was helping him up without a second thought we embraced our parents and my father wouldn't stop apologizing our relationship with our father nine years later couldn't be stronger we bond anyway children and their father could have with their help we graduated from college me in business and fashion while my brother in computer sciences we are both 27 now doing things we both love now you are probably wondering maybe they got pro revenge on their father who abandoned them for 18 years i'm here to tell you no it isn't my pro revenge story is about the woman our father brought to our high school graduation our stepmother her name being heather for this story as for privacy reason heather was and still is married to our father at first glance she was a very nice looking woman and we were happy that our father was in love with someone our mother had no qualms about the marriage as she was partially the instigator for my father's proposal heather was about five years younger than my father who is 53 years old now and has three other boys 6 8 and 19 then 15 16 and 28 now with another husband we also get very well along with them my brother and i loving the fact we have friendly kind and sweet step brothers who would step in if anything was wrong but what we first thought was not at all what we seemed the story within the first six years we got to know our father and heather we noticed that heather was extremely babied and spoiled by our father she and our step-brothers wore clothing brands and had expensive devices my father told us that he would shower us the same way if we pleased but we passed on the offer is just reconnecting our father and the times he spoiled our behinds off when we were children while we resented him was enough to spoil us rotten the days we would spend at our father's house i would wake up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom or drink water to hear heather shouting at my father who would attempt to quickly calm her down in a non-threatening fashion i didn't understand why he was being yelled at but it slowly pricked at me whenever i experienced it it wasn't until i realized my father would often visit us with scratch marks cuts and bruises on his face and sometimes his arms that was always unsettling to my brother and i when our father would joke that a cat would dig in their trash or some random excuse that was a obvious lie we figured we couldn't do anything until our father would stop bottling up his truth our stepbrother the eldest who we will call mad came with us to go drinking and dancing on our 25th birthday my brothers got wasted i had a bad experience with an ex-boyfriend and drinking so i stayed away from drinking therefore i was the designated driver for that day with the help of a few less drunk friends i managed to get my brothers in the car matt in the front and dylan back his face pressing against the leather cushion while bumbling something silly as we drove home matt was slowly getting sober but i could tell he couldn't fully comprehend what he was saying he smiled at me with his silly drunk face and slur some stuff about how lucky we were to have such a caring father and how much his younger brothers loved us that made me happy until he would blurt out something that made me uneasy what came out of his mouth would make me seethe with rage our mom always talks bad about him and your mother to us mom hits him too he said with a laugh before he leaned against the door said he was tired and went to sleep how dare she i would think as i got to my mother's house and got my brothers up enough to help them stumble into the house i would tell my brother and my mother what matt had said when he was drunk my girl was pissed when he found out and my mother was just in shock as she thought she was good friends with heather dill confronted matt two weeks later about whatever would do to our father and why matt said that he knew heather was extremely manipulative and spoiled so much so that matt's father was angry with heather and divorced her after she had cheated with his slightly more wealthy friend he told us heather would scratch throw stuff threaten and belittle my father whenever she didn't get what her or any of her children wanted immediately my father being the kind man he is would tolerate it and give her anything she pleased with a smile matt would be forced to stop her before anything worse could happen there would be days where she took her kids and stayed at her parents house if my father would attempt to refuse or tell her that funds were low it was terrible when she had found out our father was tucking aside money for our college funds she would talk terribly in text and in person to her children about my father being a filthy broke cambodian immigrant and not loving her my mother being a gold digging woman white be trying to coax my father in to help pay for our lives on the side we were disgusted and pissed at heather she would hurt her father and talk horribly of my parents without looking at her entitled self this was a moment where we would need to put her where she belonged we wanted to ruin her but we settled on changing the way our father would look at her which would be damaging her in a special way dull matt and i came up with a plan dill and i were our fathers pride and joy after all so why not put one of ourselves as bait with the three of us we scrounged up money we saved up together from jobs birthday money gigs and side tutoring from the several years we grew up together dill and i were saving money to buy my mother and her boyfriend a new place to live as their place was being littered with pests ranging from rats to termites each summer so the money we pulled together came up to around twenty eight thousand dollars after our argument with dill it was decided that i would be the one to enact the pro revenge the revenge after the three months of gathering and careful planning i had taken the money and told my father and heather that we wanted to buy mother and her boyfriend a home to live in my father asked my budget and i pull out the money making an effort to count it in front of them to push the bait when heather saw the money i could see her eyes widen in surprise my father told me that we were good kids that he was proud of us that we grew up to be kind people i felt kind of guilty i was going to contort my father's feelings towards this woman i was hesitant but looked at heather's face i was determined we spent the next hour finding a good home for mother settling on one as we would visit the real estate place the next morning i took the money and went to my room i hid the cash under my bed mattress the most obvious place a person would hide it right during the whole house finding my brothers were setting up something in my room something that wasn't in my room before one of those large valentine's teddy bears that dill had got me when my ex-boyfriend dumped me on valentine's day matt dill and i would leave the house going to our mother's house under the guise of saying we were going to tell her the surprise fast forward to five hours later we go back to my father's house he was at work doing the night shift as a security guard when we walked into my room i will visibly surprised as all my drawers of my dresses were pulled out my closet was ravaged through and my bed mattress was flipped we didn't expect a hurricane to go through my room needlessly the teddy bear was also disturbed though thrown on the ground with its face to the ground we were slightly panicked as dill had picked up the teddy and rip out threads of its back and pulled out something i went call to my father a little panicked and said my room was rummaged through and the money was gone honestly i was actually scared because it was most of the money dylan i saved to actually get my mother a place thinking it would have been spent soon enough my father was panicked saying he'd be home as fast as he can as soon as my father got home i was joined in my room with matt dill and our father dylan i expressed our disappointment and anger to my father about heather next to my laptop was camera that matt had received from his dad it was plugged into the computer as dill asked my father to sit down and watch the video the video played it had showed an empty room before heather had walked in not at all sneakily as she pulled out my drawers pulled my clothes out and threw it to the ground before repeating it with my closet she even walked over straight to the bear and picked it off before frustratingly throwing it to the ground it was facing most of the ground for the time as there was no sound either as the video ended dill and i could see the gears clicking in our father's head our father was kind not dense after all in our nine years of knowing this man we have never seen him angry until that night alone dad had called heather telling her to come home immediately she got home four hours later with three bags of brand name clothing i felt my heartbreak as i already knew she had probably spent all of that money i started to choke back my sobs as dyl would try to calm me down being angry himself matt just staring at his mother with a face of disappointment my father began to ruthlessly shout at heather he reprimanded her for spending all the hard-earned money of their children she scoffed handing over the envelope with only three-fourths of the original money and some change this only made father more angry as he would shout at her to get out of his house threatening to divorce her and throw her onto the streets without the items her eyes got wide and her face contorted into a face of ono she began to plead and beg as my father forcefully turned her around and pushed her out of the house still yelling at how horrible she was matt was forced to follow because even if she was a horrible person she was still his mother for only 10 minutes heather banged and begged to be led back in before she was forced to leave my father's property my father apologized profusely that night as i did nothing but stare at the leftover money and cry in my room my father is still married to that woman but he refused to look at her most of the time or sleep in the same bed he still loves her in a way as a husband would a wife but now it is different for him as his wife was the filthy thief of his blood and flesh we had given matt his portion of the bait money and was given back a little of the money when heather returned a few of the items back to the stores fortunately two years later we finally bought my mother a three bedroom two bathroom house in an uninfested neighborhood she was unbelievably grateful maybe now it's time to help save up divorce money i'll try to make this as short as possible but it's going to be long as hell because there is so much lying going on my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost three years living together for two we have a pretty good relationship obviously with ups and downs but we make it work and are happy a little background on me my boyfriend for context i come from a single parent home my father was absent my mother was is by no means perfect but she did her best with what she had we were poor life was never easy for us but we had each other since i was pretty young i've wanted to pay her back someday i've worked incredibly hard to be able to do so i help her financially as much as i can and regularly pay her bills slash send her cash i'm also her only living child now as my brother passed away five years ago which basically left me to help her i don't care i love my mother and the right thing to do is to help her when she needs it but it is stressful this is relevant because my boyfriend described coming from a somewhat similar past and it is something we have bonded over having the mutual experiences seemed to bring us closer he told me he also helped his parents financially and we would often vent to each other about the stress it brings i'm not one to confide in many people so having someone who i felt like actually understood me was meaningful to me so here is where the lies come in and i need someone to either tell me i'm not crazy and this is up or that i'm crazy and this isn't a huge deal i'm fine with either when we met my boyfriend lived in a condo in a pretty swanky part of the city i live in the u.s northeast he told me he owned that apartment slash condo i found this to be interesting slash odd because he was 28 at the time and i know this property is upwards of 650 000 on the low end and he was in an entry-level job for only like two years so the numbers just didn't really add up whatever maybe he's good at saving but then since living together i never once saw a piece of mail for a mortgage payment electric bill taxes nothing not for two whole years very odd also when we started living together he didn't have his room rented out in the former apartment yet so he was still responsible for that portion of the rent he would send a venmo payment to his mother on the first of every month for his portion i don't own property but i can't think of a scenario where i would then mow my mother to pay the mortgage on a property i supposedly own getting more odd he would then go to his parents house for an afternoon and come back really upset usually when i would ask why it was because they were having financial problems and he needed to help them out i totally understood this and supported him he literally has cried on my shoulder about this many times he tried to start a company years back and ended up getting into debt somehow he told me this debt was 17k and that he paid it off i'm confused because i met him only two to three years after the supposed debt accrued company dissolved and it was already paid off he told me when he moved back home after the business failed he was dollar signed 17k in debt and living at his parents house working at a minimum wage job how someone with a minimum wage job pays off that much debt in three years i'll never know we got into a fight a few weeks ago and i finally had enough and confronted him about these things long story short he doesn't help his parents they actually pay his phone bill and this was all a lie he doesn't own that apartment he didn't pay off that debt from his company he initially told me his parents helped pay it off and then like three minutes later came clean and said that his business partner paid it off so i have literally no idea what the truth is there and if anything in my eyes his parents are the ones who are financially supporting him so now i'm dating a 31 year old man who doesn't pay his own phone bill was lying to me and or completely fabricating aspects of his life for three years and then when confronted about it continued to make up lies and then came clean about them five minutes later i'm obviously concerned that he could lie for this long about fundamentally important things like our values and so on i sincerely thought i would marry this man he seemed to understand me like no one else and to be a truly caring and genuine person now i'm having a hard time rationalizing actually planning a life around someone who would not only lie about their background and family etc but also financial aspects aside from that i now can't tell what is the truth and what is a lie i've also noticed other things he has lied about called him out on it and he has denied it outright to my face i see this as a form of gaslighting as i know i'm not wrong but he is trying to convince me otherwise am i overreacting is this a white lie that went haywire or is this actually a series of complete and utter used to manipulate me and also is it insane for me to actually consider a life with this man any advice is appreciated [Music] you

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Length: 18min 59sec (1139 seconds)

Published: Sun Jan 03 2021