People Reveal How They Caught Their Partners Cheating - AskReddit

you're really still dating that stinky zookeeper he said yeah people who caught their significant others cheating how did you deal with it and what was your reaction i owned a house with my fiance i woke up in the middle of the night and he wasn't in bed i went searching his truck and another vehicle were in the driveway then i went upstairs and found the guest bedroom was locked after barging my way in i found him with another woman in bed that bed happened to be my childhood bed he forced me out of the room literally grabbed me by the neck and pushed me out and closed the door back i knew i couldn't do anything at that point so i called his parents who lived a few blocks away his dad showed up and another fight broke out i ended up leaving and staying at his parents until dawn i moved out that weekend and let the house foreclose nine years later it's finally off my credit report i'm happily married to an amazing man and we own a beautiful home together i was eight months pregnant with our second child at the time and he wanted to go visit his brother for the weekend i asked my doctor if it was safe for me to travel and she said it would be fine i told my husband i could go but he said he was really hoping to just have some time with his brother i understood because a new baby really makes it hard to spend quality time but i asked if he could take our older son three years old at the time so he could see his grandma and cousins he said they were planning on drinking and whatnot and wasn't sure it would be a good idea their country boys so think shooting drinking and whatnot i agreed and he left for the weekend after he left i get a call from his best friend telling me that he'll be in town for the weekend and he wanted to meet up not weird that he called me because my husband was terrible at answering his phone i told him unfortunately my husband was visiting back home bad timing his best friend then said okay i'm going to call you back and hung up very abruptly turns out my husband and his wife had been caught by him a few months previously and he gave them a chance to make it right i don't know why he didn't tell me but threatened to if they didn't stop well they didn't stop and he told me i think the worst part was that my husband's family knew and never once thought to tell me these people were my family for five years and nothing it's been almost 10 years now and i'm so much happier but it was definitely an eye-opening experience my ex and i used to share a computer she was getting messages from her first boyfriend i didn't bother reading them because i figured he was just saying hi or wanted to know where she was in life now a couple of months later i'm on the computer and she insisted that she log out while i'm there okay things feel weird here another couple of days pass and she wants to visit her parents okay cool i keep the kids and she goes off i get a call from one of my buddies who works at a hotel where my ex and i are both from saying my wife just checked in with another guy so long story short divorced her f you stephanie june 1 2018 normal day a friday my husband had kissed me goodbye and gone to work i was cleaning the house for company who was coming to stay the weekend the doorbell rang there was a man at my door who introduced himself as the husband of a woman who my husband worked with he was there to tell me that my husband and his wife were having an affair he had busted them about six months prior and had told his wife that she had to end the affair he thinks that she did end it for about three months but then they started up again when he found out they were at it again he called my husband because he knew if he confronted him in person he'd be in a jail cell for what he'd have done on the phone he told my husband to leave his wife alone or else he would come and tell me everything that was happening apparently my husband thought that he was bluffing so i was literally the last to know my husband never came home again he got an airbnb and a lawyer the divorce was december 21 2018. we had been together for 24 years still hurts a few years back i was dating this girl and ended up becoming really good friends with her brother he appreciated me helping their family when their father died suddenly two years into the relationship asks to meet up for coffee and a serious talk apparently he caught his own sister with another guy a mutual friend of ours it had been going on for like a year broke up with her still friends with the brother the end we got married when i was 17 and he was 21. he was shipping off to sea and i was escaping a bad home life when he came back after his deployment he wasn't the same person anymore after about six months he gained weight on purpose to fail his physicals so he'd get kicked out of the navy fast forward a year i'm working full-time and he is sitting at home watching anime and drinking during the day and telling me that he was applying to jobs i was applying to universities when my laptop died on me i asked to use his to finish an app and while doing so a message popped up on his facebook a topless pic of his ex from her i was shocked and opened it to find that they'd been dating for a long time started again while he was at sea in the navy he would talk to her and never to me saying that he never got the time to email she had sent him a pic because he had said how he missed having big boobs like hers to play with and how mine were just too small so he felt like he was sleeping with a boy or a child i confronted him he made a bunch of pitiful excuses i had my friends come to the house that day and kick him out while i went to work he then stalked me for the next few years and made posts on his facebook about how i was a coward he sent emails and called from blocked numbers to tell me that a restraining order is just a piece of paper or that our vows before god made me his property and stuff like that then he bought a gun and started telling our friends that if he can't have me no one can i ended up talking to our friends and told everyone conflicting information about where i was going and move states i deleted all my personal social media accounts and lived in fear for years watching him continually make memes about how he loved his wife and would do anything for her it took eight years for me to finally get the divorce from him the story is remarkable in that it happened before the internet was widely available in the very early 90s when the world seemed much bigger my fiance meg had one semester left of college that had to be taken as an internship abroad for her major she chose to go to belgium for this internship i stayed back and the plan was that i would set up house and when she returned that summer she would move directly in and we would set a date for our wedding so while meg was off in europe calling every couple of weeks to check in the long distance was super expensive back then sending me postcards and letters i moved into a brownstone bought furniture etc about a two weeks before meg was supposed to return i stopped into a nearby coffee house that i had noticed down the block but had yet to visit to my surprise i found that my neighbor from growing up in a completely different city claire was a waitress there we hadn't seen each other since high school so we made a plan to meet up after her shift for a cup of coffee to catch up we met and claire told me that she was engaged as well to a man ben who was completing his course of study by working on an internship in you guessed it belgium i couldn't believe the coincidence and told her about my fiance and that they had to know each other crazy right a couple days later i stopped in for a cup of coffee and claire looked extremely upset she asked if i had time to wait as she had a break coming up and that she needed to talk to me we went outside and she told me that she had gotten a call from her aunt sue the day before and sue had just returned from czechoslovakia and that something very strange had happened while they were touring prague sue and her travel group had stayed in a local hotel and the next morning she had run into claire's fiancee ben in the lobby with a female companion by the name of meg she said that he introduced her as a student from america that they worked together but it was very awkward and they both looked scared claire said that she immediately called long distance to belgium and after several tries over the course of a day or so got him on the phone she asked him about the chance encounter and he said he had been kind of expecting her call and ended up admitting that he had been seeing meg pretty much the entire time they were in europe spending weekends and holidays traveling around with each other i was floored couldn't believe it i went home and started trying to call meg at her dorm in belgium finally getting through to her late into the night early morning for her i point blank asked her if she was dating ben i didn't even explain how i knew about it she hemmed it haud for a moment kind of acting like i was crazy for saying something so nonsensical but when i said that i knew claire she dropped the facade and admitted to all of it so ben and meg had a very bittersweet homecoming meg got off much easier than ben as claire had already left all of his belongings on the front lawn from the day she found out which had been pretty picked over by the time he got back two weeks later i did pick meg up from the airport i think at the time i really just wanted to see her face when i told her that all of our friends knew what a piece of [ __ ] she was and that i never wanted to see her again to this day i revel in how many utterly astounding factors of complete random coincidence went into megan ben who later married then later divorced after he cheated on her being caught the universe works in incredible and mysterious ways i caught my wife after she passed away from cancer worst feeling ever caught between unending love mourning and absolute anger i smoked a pack of cigarettes a day and smoked wheat every chance i could and i was on prescription for hydrocodones that i started to abuse i was on i didn't give a f about anything phase that lasted a good while a lot of times i didn't want to be around anymore my family friends and god are what pulled me through the worst of it it's been three years since she passed and i'm the only one who knows about her other life i didn't ruin her name to her friends or family but my image of her is forever shattered i did forgive her eventually and i am now living with my girlfriend and i'm happy again [Music] this first started back in december right before we went on a holiday trip to see my family she started acting somewhat off kinda distant and easily aggravated i had a suspicion that something was going on and i'm embarrassed to admit that i snooped on her i watch found some incriminating texts she had with a friend so i confronted her in january she tells me that she kissed a guy that she works with and that was it we were having some issues in our relationship and i choose to forgive her and we decided to try working on some of the issues we were having well fast forward to this past may she breaks down that she wasn't honest with me and that she had actually slept with this other dude we split after the news we had been together eight years and had been engaged for almost two years our wedding date was supposed to be yesterday it's still killing me i don't even know where to go from here oh wow i posted this before a long time ago in a revenge subreddit but it fits here perfectly i had been dating this guy for almost a year and i thought it was going pretty well we had even been talking about moving in together soon once he got a promotion and could better afford a house one night i was at his apartment and he left his phone charging in the bathroom i got up to go to the bathroom and his phone buzzed maybe i shouldn't have looked but i was curious why he got a text so late so i looked and it's some woman saying are you coming over tomorrow night or is she still around i was of course furious so i unlocked the phone i don't think he knew i knew his code but i did and read through their messages apparently he'd been dating her for about a month and she even knew he was in a relationship they were talking about me and she said you're really still dating that zookeeper he said yeah and she smells like one two or something like that and how i was broken he was glad he met this other woman instead so i cried for a while in the bathroom before leaving i told him i was just sick and had to go home while i thought about what to do i can't believe he was not only seeing her but also that he'd insult me like that i work with otters sea lions and foxes which are all super stinky animals but i always shower after work when i can i'm sure there's still some smell but he'd never said it was a problem before i decided not just to break up with him but to get back at him if he wants to cheat and say i stink after i shower i'll show him a stink i started secretly shoveling some pretty nasty stuff at work into a baggie towards the end of the day and taking it home and that went on for a couple weeks one day when he was at work i went to his apartment i had a key and went to the bedroom and dumped about 10 pounds of otter crap on his bed the bed we slept together on i underestimated the effect this would have in a warm indoor space it's awful even at the zoo in open air but that putra digested fish smell hit me like a ton of bricks after walking outside to gag for two minutes i got the courage to go back in and leave him a note saying that i'm breaking up with him left the key on the counter and went home he texted me in all caps that night about how he was going to sue me but i blocked his phone dated a girl for about two years like 18 months into the relationship we're talking about moving in together then kinda out of nowhere she starts becoming distant and irritable we ended up breaking up fast forward three months after the breakup i found that facebook has a section where messages from non-friends are kept turns out my then girlfriend was banging her ex and the ups driver that delivered to her store at the mall she ended up getting together with the ups driver and his three kids last i checked they are miserable and it brings me joy every time i think about it four years ago i was dating a girl who became distant and disinterested in a lot of things we both enjoyed together despite attempts to talk about it she only grew more distant then became less available to hang out and suddenly was working late a lot i started getting suspicious about cheating when she was on her phone non-stop again i tried to talk about it but she wouldn't engage she also just didn't want to break up with me for whatever reason i was actually going to end it on my own but one weekend when she was seemingly unavailable some mutual friends told me they spotted her with a dude from her work and they were all over each other coincidentally she had also lent me her ipad and it was synced to her phone so i saw lots of texts between those two over that weekend they were talking about running away together etc he was married and her supervisor mutual friends were also composed of her co-workers and reported them to hr they were both forced to do training on not sleeping with co-workers they were both denied promotion his wife left him and she moved overseas sucked at the time i was devastated but karma got them good it wasn't a big damn breaking moment it was a lot of little things like how she'd cancel plans at the last second or the random phone calls from unknown numbers she'd get this was back before spam calls were an epidemic or how her phone was mysteriously off one night when i needed to get a hold of her i had my suspicions and then finally it clicked into place when i did some instagram snooping and found a guy who followed her who posted a selfie wearing a very unique jacket that belonged to her i confronted her the next day she denied it tears begging all of that i dumped her and walked away the next day i messaged that guy on instagram and he confirmed everything had no idea i existed he dumped her too last i heard she's an emt in utah wyoming hope she figured out how not to be a garbage person i was at work and tried to call my boyfriend but he wasn't answering even after a few hours and i just got a horrible feeling it stressed me out so badly for some reason that i started to cry and my boss let me go home the whole way home i just kept feeling serious dread walked in the house and into my bedroom and he was laying in bed half-clothed with some naked chick obviously a huge blow-up went down and after everything settled this a-hole tried to tell me that he went to the movies alone and met her there and she followed him home like even if i believe that this person just followed you home and got naked you let her do it so what's the purpose of saying that to me it was an abusive relationship and it didn't even end then i eventually broke up with him but not on the spot like i should have if i could change anything about my life it would be that i wish i broke up with that guy sooner that was over 10 years ago though the husband of one of the women he was cheating on me with called me at work at first i didn't believe him and hung up how could the man i spent the past eight years with had two beautiful babies with suffered together the loss of one of those children do something so hurtful still a part of me had doubt he had affairs in other relationships and we had a rocky patch early in the beginning where i suspected an affair but didn't have proof i told my boss i felt sick and had to leave early and i called this guy back and found out that my ex and his wife along with one of their friends were all sleeping together for about a year he had confronted my ex and told him that he was going to tell me but my ex convinced him to wait a month since my mother had just died i took my time coming home and confronted him and told him to pack and leave since i've pieced together a lot of what happened and all the lies he told me where if i was in a different headspace i might have caught on to the affairs earlier i also found videos hidden on one of our computers and found out he was having booty calls in our apartment while i was at work and he was watching our daughter at that point it put the headstone on any possibility of reconciliation i caught my ex-husband cheating as an accident we had gone to work in the evening and i couldn't get into my office due to a building screw-up so he let me in his so i could print something he went for a walk to get his steps in as i was on his computer i realized it was logged into facebook i just had a feeling i looked in the messages and he had been chatting with a woman he met in another country via work i copied all i could and confronted him when he returned made him take me for a drink and told him there would be no reconciliation he was shell-shocked and i told him to go home and pack a bag that was six months ago and i'm really happy to have lost the dead weight he was a difficult man emotionally abusive but i lived my vows and tried to help him as much as i could and reorganized my life around him in a relationship for six years broke up one month before our wedding because i found out my fiance had cheated on me two years into my relationship with my then fiance lots of suspicious little acts kept adding up the biggest one being that i found some condoms were missing from my drawer confronted my fiance at the time i was very sad angry and confused she denied any affair four years went by and about a month before our wedding she broke down and confessed that she had indeed slept with her ex-boyfriend at the time because she was depressed and was simply seeking any sort of way to feel something else that broke my heart i was also in the middle of an insane workday from home and had to power through the rest of the job with that on my mind not fun anyways i had always had a bad feeling that she had been lying to me over the years and she had an undying jealousy towards all of my friends who are women she was clearly projecting it hurt bad that she had cheated on me but hurt way worse that she had lied to me for four years and went along with planning the wedding i'm grateful that she told me before the wedding since we called it off due to the mistrust amongst many other things that weren't going well in our relationship we met at a young age so no big surprise i genuinely believe that she was going through some really heavy emotional turmoil from her past so i don't take it so personally i wish her well with that said i have cut off all communication to her because i simply could not trust her after that all's well that ends well and have met the love of my life and we plan to get married as soon as this kova 19 takes a hike and it's safe to gather in groups again thanks for listening to radio tts hit the subscribe button and activate the notification bell for more videos click the right box for the cheaters playlist let us know in the comments what you think about these stories

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Published: Sun Aug 09 2020