Love Like A King | Kingdom Vibes Only | (Part 6) | Jerry Flowers

exodus chapter 14 verse 5 if you're ready would you shout at your boy i'm ready everybody online put in the room i'm ready exodus chapter 14 verse 5 when the king of egypt was told that the people had fled pharaoh and his officials changed their minds about them and said what have we done please don't miss us y'all what have we done we have let the israelites go and have lost their services so he had his chariot made ready and took his army with him i don't want you to miss he changed their mind because he recognized if i lose them i also lose a service okay don't miss that now matthew chapter 20 verse 28 somebody said that's a whole word right there that's the word matthew chapter 20 verse 28 this is jesus he's having a conversation with his disciples because they were just arguing about who is the greatest in the kingdom so jesus sets them straight he says listen just as the son of man did not come to be served but to serve and to give his life a ransom for many culture trips about certain types of greatness but i don't want that to be your focus in the kingdom greatness is serving then verse 26 it says yet it shall not be so among you but whoever desires to become great somebody say great whoever desires to become great among you let him be your servants i don't want us to miss this guys i don't want us to miss this pharaoh started to think about it after he let them go pharaoh started to think to himself he said pharaoh and pharaoh said what's up bro and then he said you know what we have not only just lost the israelites but we also please look we lost their service i want us to get this because the pharaoh type of heart is an individual where they're like you know what i don't really care that i lost the friendship i don't really care that i lost a bond i don't really care that i lost her i don't really care that i lost them i don't even really value that person the only thing i value from that person is the service i can get from that person y'all not talking to me i'm not pursuing them because i value their person i'm pursuing them because i value the service that i can get from that person y'all hearing this i only value what i could get from them because these type of heart types the pharaoh type of heart i don't view people as a person i view that person as a purse i'm coming out quick y'all i don't just view them as a person i view them as a purse i want their services i really don't care and i really don't value you adding stuff to me and me adding stuff to you truth be told all i give you is subtraction and you give to me addition and i'm cool with that because all i value is your service somebody say service this is not a transactional type of relationship where we have withdrawals and deposit it's me just taking withdrawals from you and i'm labeling that my deposit i have a type of heart where you live bankrupt hanging with me somebody say service he says what have we done we we have lost the israelites and their service let me go ahead and come for somebody's edges real quick maybe this is the reason why they start calling you again after you haven't heard from them in months it's not that they really want you they just want y'all don't talk to me your service now there are some services they shouldn't get to marriage anyway we gonna talk about that in cuffin season 2.0 but the reason they're back in your inbox the reason they're back in your dms y'all not talking to me the reason they have started leading you emails and you haven't heard from them in weeks could it be because this is a pharaoh type heart i just want they service maybe this is the reason they start calling again and i haven't heard from them in a year i'm like we in a whole pandemic i'm like chris tucker rush hour we're in a whole pandemic and i haven't heard from you at all you haven't checked to see if i caught covet if i got furloughed if i got laid off you don't know that i lost my mother you don't know that i lost my father but the first conversation that we have again is about what you can get for me they don't value the person they just value the service maybe this is why that individual popped back up after going ghost for several months i'm preaching y'all and first let me not get ahead of myself let me break down what it means to go ghost for somebody to go ghost this is a sudden switch in behavior and or pattern without explanation and their attempt to reach back out to you has gone unanswered for days weeks months and even years the reason i had to break that down because i'll never forget i was having this round table discussion and this one lady was like listen i didn't go ghost on you i just needed two months of a break i just needed a break for two months and i'm like but you didn't tell him though i didn't ghost him okay when you go somebody it means there is a sudden switch of behavior and or pattern without explanation and their attempt to reach back out to you to continue that pattern that y'all had for x amount of time has gone unanswered for days weeks months and even years this is when you've been ghosted i feel this y'all for anybody who has been ghosted and you feel emotionally stranded due to it for anybody who's listening to this message or watching online you are loki mentally losing it because of somebody else's immaturity or because of somebody else's poor communication skills what i'm about to say may sting but it's the truth they only wanted your services not the server it got quiet see we got one clap everybody online we got one clap one they did not want the server they just wanted the services jesus knew that these type of people existed because in john chapter 6 verse 26 you can put this on the screen you have to go there and john chapter 6 verse 26 jesus was talking to a group of people and he was like listen y'all are only following me y'all are not following me for the miraculous the only reason y'all are here are because of the lows and because of the feel the only reason you came here is because last time i was preaching y'all got some fish and chips that's the only reason y'all are here because y'all got a little bread but you don't want me you don't want my person you don't want my word you don't want my doctrine you don't want my principles you only want my hand i wonder how many christians still today we don't want god's heart we want god's hand can i get somebody to say services i want to help somebody who has a endless mental loop that has been going on in your head which has handed you insomnia pharaoh-hearted men and pharaoh-hearted women and this doesn't even have to be relational pharaoh-hearted employers pharaoh-hearted parents lord have mercy pharaoh-hearted pastors pharaoh-hearted churches they don't care about the people they just want the crowds they just want the crowds which is why covet has hit a lot of pastor so much because it exposed i really don't love people i just love crowds i've been building campuses i've been building buildings but i have not been building people don't love don't love people they only love crowds these type of individuals only have a pharaoh type heart but jesus says listen it's different in the kingdom foundational text verse 28 jesus says i didn't come to be served but i came to serve listen i want you to look at the massive difference between a pharaoh heart and a kingdom heart the pharaoh heart we lost them and we lost their services the kingdom heart i don't even want your services i'm not here to be served i'm here to serve you can i get somebody say service and the kingdom the word servant means minister when you are a servant you are a minister and i think the reason some people are so disgusted with the term servant is because nobody likes serving a person when it looks like you won't lift up a hand and everything i'm doing is for your benefit but you're not helping me at all nobody likes serving and they feel underappreciated servant means minister in the kingdom ministers serve in culture they don't want ministers they just want many stars that's all they want somebody caught that that that's all they want i only want a bigger platform to serve my ego it's not about serving people i only want more followers where i could appear to be important it's not about souls i only am doing this business thing in the community where i can post it on the gram and look like i care god knows the heart y'all he knows the heart and he knows the motive and i'm trying to get us to understand when his kingdom you don't have to keep refreshing your social media to see if they updated their status but they're not calling you back somebody said fax i like that we need to say amen facts can i get us to say amen facts when it's kingdom you don't have to keep refreshing your social media to see if they updated their status but they haven't returned your call not when it's kingdom when it's kingdom you won't have to stop them because when your kingdom favor stalks you that she hit somebody when you kingdom and have surrendered to god and obeying him in all of your ways and striving to please god favor will stalk you and opportunities will stalk you and promotion will stalk you and upgrades will stalk you you don't have to stalk anybody just be kingdom can i get somebody to say just be kingdom and for the love of god if they block you please don't create another social media page where you can spy on them listen y'all it may be comical to some people but we do it when you spend so much time monitoring them you risk losing you losing you and instead of you serving the purpose that god has intended for you to service your esteem is attached to somebody else's follow and when you don't understand this that in the kingdom greatness is serving you risk returning back to try to fix something or someone who was really breaking you pharaoh said what have we done we've lost them and we have lost their services what in your life keeps trying to claim you back because it lost your service what website is trying to claim you back because it lost your service the service that you used to give it every night at two in the morning when your flesh was on fire what website is trying to claim you back because it lost your service what joint is trying to claim you back because it lost your service what drink is trying to claim you back what historical mindset is trying to claim you back what sexual immoral behavior is trying to claim you back because it has lost your service because whenever god is calling you forward the enemy will always trying to bring back something of former i know i'm telling the truth y'all i know i'm telling the truth every single time god calls you but here's the beauty y'all when you understand that you're called you now can live like an answer when you understand that you're called you now can live like an answer but every time you're about to enter into a new season something from an old season always shows up on its adele saying hello am i preaching y'all every time i've noticed it's hell's strategy whenever you're about to experience something foreign he always puts some familiar comfort in the door of a foreign pathway i want to see did your feet move but your heart remained i want to see did your location change but your taste buds didn't that's your appetite i want to see will you really choose destiny over your history will you choose familiar or will you choose foreign will you choose the birth canal or will you choose a womb that you have outgrown so now god has to make you uncomfortable by inducing you in this season i want to know preach holy ghosts i want you to know that you have been called when you recognize that you're called you will live like an answer and that is the whole purpose of this kingdom vibes only series that's the whole purpose of me standing before you week after week sweating out my clothes because i want us to understand that you're called to be kingdom you're called to live by a different ethic you're called to live by a different code you're called to live by different principles you live for one before many i want you to recognize that you're an ambassador i want you to recognize that you're a world changer i want you to recognize that you're a heavens billboard why are you crying over them if they don't like you god must have better if they don't accept you god must have better i'm not tripping over anything in the marketplace because i'm kingdom can i get somebody to say i'm kingdom when our past calls us we don't even send it to voicemail when your pass calls you it should get this message i'm sorry the person that you reach is now out of service please hang up and don't call again don't call again what would happen if we were a people who are out of service to help schemes out of service to hell's games out of service to hell's plans out of service to hell's plots out of service to hell's addictions out of service to hell's distractions out of service to hell's counterfeits what would happen if we got so focused on the kingdom well i'm out of service to anything that is not kingdom can i get somebody online and everybody in the sacred sanctuary say i'm out of service to you pharaoh said we lost them and we lost their services but jesus says in verse 28 of matthew 20 he says listen i didn't come to be served that's that's not what i came to do but i came to serve to give my life as a ransom for many so i want us to watch this jesus redefines what greatness is in the kingdom what culture thinks is greatness is status and influence and the kingdom greatness is surrender and service you want to be kingdom vibes only to be great and my kingdom is for you to serve now i want to break some things down get some points and get back to where we left off last week and then i'm gonna get out of your way i want us to understand that kingdom greatness is not tied to what culture labels as the goat if you don't know what it means the goat when the culture says muhammad ali was the goat michael jordan was the goat kobe bryant was the goat that means the greatest of all time whatever culture labels as greatness due to somebody's athleticism is not what the kingdom calls greatness kingdom greatness does not mean you have more prosperity because i know we think that we think more means more god let me mess somebody up more does not mean more god and less does not mean less god some of the best pastors who love people you have never heard of never heard of them and i don't know if you will you may if god breathes on them and this is what he desires for their life but they are killing it with about 80 or 100 members faithfully serving i mean this brother this this man of god this woman of god is just killing it every single week and servant they have less but they have more god and there are some churches that are mainstream if i were to call out names you know their name they have more but that does not mean more god because infection swells too just because it's growing doesn't mean god is in it so we have to be careful instead of saying oh they're blessed because they got listen more does not mean more god and less does not mean less god and the kingdom greatness is not tied to how well-known you are you know what well-known is to me god knowing my name for real at the end of the day there is nobody in this sanctuary and nobody watching online who could ever say well done my good and faithful servant period being well known is god knowing my name and watch this if the only way you could hear well done my good and faithful servant must mean you must faithfully be good at serving somewhere you catch that well done my good and faithful servant what makes you think you're gonna hear that if there is no good place you're serving at and being faithful with i'm trying to teach girls i'm trying greatness is not tied to being well known the culture has a view of success that the kingdom does not have as a view of success usually everything culture is the antithesis of what kingdom is and everything kingdom is the antithesis of what culture is so i need us to understand this scripture i'm probably gonna say for the rest of my life i say it so much but i want to give you bible i want to give this to your attention ecclesiastics chapter 3 it's one of my favorite passages of scripture that many people have never heard of ecclesiastics chapter 3 verse 10 it says i have seen the god given task with which the sons of men are to be occupied so in the kingdom success is when you are occupying your god-given task that's success so watch this look if your assignment for this season is for you to be occupied with healing like god is like listen what happened in childhood what happened that from that divorce what happened in that breakup my assignment for this season of your life is for you to be occupied with getting healed if you are doing everything you know how to do to become healed in the kingdom god calls that success god this redefines everything y'all that that's what success is that's kingdom if if what god's assignment for you right now is for you to give him your morning because you got your prayer time but it's at night and you always end up falling asleep you ever have anybody anybody honest enough like you praying just god i thank you so much [Applause] thank you so much for your grace and mercy god you're awesome you're wonderful god god and guys i listen okay i want our devotion time i want it to be your first fruit not your leftover strength because every time you start talking to me at night that's your leftover energy consecrate the morning to me before you even depart from the house before you grab your phone and see whoever posted or whoever's live on facebook get in my book how about in the morning let that be your devotion time everybody's different some people work at night so everybody's schedule's different but if that's what god has given you for your assignment and this season and you are occupied with it the kingdom calls that success it redefines what success is i think failure is succeeding the most in what matters the least that's what failure is if god's assignment for you right now is i want you to be focused and occupied enhancing your photography skills i want you to be intentional with getting voice lessons for your gift i want you to beat your craft because you don't know an opportunity is going to come your way in two months and i told you in my word be ready in season and out of season the only reason i would tell you to be ready in season and out of season is there must be something that's gonna happen in a season you think it shouldn't but it is so beat your craft now because when opportunity calls only the prepared can answer preach holy spirit i had no idea in 2018 my brother torres is in the back telling you to tell you the truth i was up in this sanctuary by myself sweating just like this preaching to a camera practicing practicing practicing perfecting i had no idea a pandemic was coming in two years i had no idea all of 2020 this is how i would be preaching what's up everybody anytime i come on clapping and it's i had no idea that god was preparing me two years out if god is telling you prepare i'm talking to somebody i feel it prepare prepare get your finances in order stop eating out you eating your paycheck stop doing that get your house in order create the youtube channel get the podcast prepare prepare prepare and it's something how you know it's god is when it doesn't go away like you dating this dude and you hear him break up break up break up break up break up break up it's about to get cold outside break up break up break up break up break up and it goes both ways you married and god just keep apologize apologize apologize be softer be softer notice that mean divorce this doesn't mean a voice work through it patience is the ability to survive the season of not yet patience is the ability to survive the season of not yet so just because it's hard we preach in a discernment series hard doesn't mean quits forgive and try again forgive and try again when it's god it doesn't stop [Applause] when it's flesh after you commit the sin it goes quiet you ever notice that you should go over the house bro bro she don't want she look look she lie for she with it and you go over there and you do whatever you do and after you walk out you're like man you stupid it's funny how the enemy will always get us to salivate over that which will eliminate somebody say kingdom i have to let it just say live for a moment i want us to notice that there is a massive difference in how pharaoh said their services is what i miss and how jesus said i'm not looking to be served but i'm looking to serve and this is the kingdom key that god wants us to execute in our own life because hear me y'all knowing what you're supposed to be occupied with causes for you to experience peace somebody right now you know why you don't have any peace because you're not occupied with your god-given task you're occupied with everything else what your mama said but your friend said what cnn said that kept you up all night what your bank account numbers are showing you can't even sleep because of your bank account you forgot that jesus said look to the birds of the air they neither sow nor reap nor gather in barns but yet your heavenly father provides for them how much more valuable are you than they look at the look at the wheat of the field i tell you that the way that i have dressed these wheats solomon's temple wasn't even dressed like this and next time you worry and find yourself a bird we forgot because when you know where your oil is that's a gift to your future self preach holy spirit when you know what you have oil for that's a gift to your destiny now here's the problem many times we confuse destiny with urges i'm just feeling this i just i just really feel it i just feel like that's what i should do i just feel like god's calling me there's a difference between your destiny and an urge urges comes from the word urgent it is a haste swift motion to carry out a fleshly desire that's urge it's always haste whenever it's an urge is quick real fast you gotta hurry up and buy this you gotta hurry there was something i saw i was gonna wait and share this for the cuffing season 2.0 series but i remember when i was getting my wife when we were getting a car i walked up to the lot and the guy said hey man uh you know what you're looking for i said yeah i'm looking for this type of car i want this type of year and i want these type of conditions he said i can't sell you nothing i said what you mean he said i'm just kidding but when a client comes on the lot and they already know what they want it's hard for me to make a sale because they won't listen to the other options there's something that we want to sell and if you already know what you want go ahead and talk to this department because i really can't convince you to do other things i said man what if we already knew our assignment when the enemy tries to offer us another other things you're like no i want peace i want joy i want clarity i don't want drama i don't have to duck from stuff in my house i want to know he gonna come home though i want to know that she gonna come home i want to know she never gonna grab a knife on me i want to know i never have to sleep like this at night cause i don't know what she gonna do i wanna be able to know that i trust him and she trusts me i don't care if they go through my phone how can we touch all on each other's bodies but we can't touch each other's phone i don't wanna worry about that so when the enemy tries to offer you something different you won't bite it because you already know what you want and you know what i want kingdom can i get somebody say kingdom [Applause] urges haste your destiny is your inward gps that directs you towards your god-given task that's your destiny it's your it's your internal gps it's always been there it's just we keep driving our life versus letting the holy spirit drive our life if you look back on your life there's always been something that either irritated you or you are passionate about that is your internal gps pointing you to your god-given assignment i'm living this y'all i was the fifth grade president fifth grade doing speeches captain of the debate team my teacher would say jared you kind of go back and forth too much you will be an excellent salesman i said okay why don't you give me some extra credit i always had a way with words it wasn't for me to use it for taking advantage of people but even in elementary school i could see that preaching and pastoring was my destiny somebody listen you've always hated bullies just any time somebody got up you didn't have to know the person you just want to jump in no don't talk to her like that she said she ain't doing this back up it's just always there something in you was always fighting for justice so maybe this is why you're so passionate about law because god needs more attorneys in the marketplace god needs more spirit-filled politicians i need you there because a lot of people they won't come here they won't come ever to hear me that you share the link they won't ever listen but if you're faithful at where you're supposed to be at and serving the kingdom agenda then maybe they could see the light we're all living epistles the real question is what version are you i'm that riv version the riv ratchet international version i'm that god ain't through me what version are you god wants to get us to a place where i want you to desire your kingdom not just quote it but desire kingdom and in my kingdom greatness is serving so god would you help us to understand help us to understand it's not about likes it's not about followers it's not about our will help our will to die so that your will could be manifested in our life and jesus precious name anoint me to be the pa system of heaven in jesus name we pray and everybody who agrees that prayer would just say amen for a few more moments i want to speak around this thought from this subject love like a king love like a king jesus models this to us i didn't come to be served but i came to serve and give my life as a ransom for many for god so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son their mary two kingdom keys that i want us to focus on on tonight is serving and love love like a king can i get somebody to say this from everybody watching get your fingers ready confession fingers can i get the whole house to say this father y'all got to say it like i'm convinced like i want to be really convinced that you mean like you praying this father created me a servant's heart help me love like a king one more time father creating me a servant's heart help me love like a king pharaoh heart we lost our service the king heart i didn't come for services and i really have been stressing the last week when we were here i said listen god has a design for the home god has a blueprint for the home god has a model for the home because the home is the epicenter of a generation the home is the control center for a generation for whatever happens in the majority of our houses will always be in concert with what happens in culture and we talked about it and we shouted but i want to finish this conversation the health of the home remember this represents the unmarried man the unmarried woman and the married couple nisha's going to come up in a minute i want to just want us to see this but i want us to get this the health of the home is tied to this man's spiritual well-being before he ever shared a home with her okay we only got a few guesses all right so let me say it again for the ladies the health of the home is tied to the spiritual well-being of this woman before she's ever joined with him and they get in covenant okay does that make sense so in this phase of his life he has to have a cross encounter can i get somebody to say cross encounter while i am by myself by myself an unmarried man right here in this season of my life i have to know god for myself coming up in the south list flowers what you'll find so give it up for my wife y'all have to say you won't trip you got it then i want you to trip down end up on church and laugh or church milk and in this phase of my life it is critical that i know the king for myself because if ephesians 5 informs me love your wife like christ love the church if i don't know christ and if i don't go to nobody's church nor am i a part of the church there has been a love that god has created for his daughter to receive the one who has been called for marriage there is a love that god has created for her to receive that she will never get with me ever this is why you could be in a relational context and constantly feel like something's missing it is god you cannot listen marriage is a god ordained institution so far to work god has to be in the institution so in this phase of my life i have to know god for myself let me stand up and preach listen y'all this is not jerry's words i'm not up here telling you my opinions and my thoughts and my interpretation i see clearly god's design was before eve ever came along it was just god and adam that's it notice god didn't create adam and eve at the same time he created the man at the same time and it was just god and adam he was intimate with god so therefore this lets me know every man must have a garden season a season where it says you and the lord you and the lord a garden season god gave him stewardship responsibility he gave him assignment he gave him identity and then god did something so awesome he put him to sleep he put adam to sleep took out of his side closed it back together and adam woke up to a naked woman i'm like god it's cold see ladies y'all think that's funny but i'm just like brothers just imagine this woman is perfect there ain't no wrinkles they know there's no such thing as an imperfection she has a heavenly body you wake up from a nap from eve on a hey boy i bet he was like this is whoa man flesh of my flesh bone of my bone but but there's an intricate part that i think we miss when god put adam to sleep after he performed surgery he closed up his side this is important because if god would not have closed his side it would have created an infection hear me y'all hear me there are wounds in men that only god could fix weed can't fix it club scenes can't fix it alcohol can't fix it the gym can't fix it your music can't fix it weights can't fix it only god is the one that could close this wound now look at this if i try to get with her with some open wounds in my life she'll never be able to be my full wife she will always be my full nurse she'll never be able to be my wife she'll just be my nurse so as as a man i'm bleeding on this woman bleeding on that woman see bleed men who are bleeding create bloody homes i'm bleeding on my children i'm bleeding on my brothers and this isn't male bash and every single time i talk like this or another male basher i'm like you know what god why do we keep on thinking this male bastion to remind people of the original kingdom agenda and then i got this revelation a daddy loves different than a mother okay daddy's love feels different than mommy's love so if he grows up and daddy's not in the home if he never gets daddy's love or uncle's love or grandpa's love or brother's love every time he does get father's love it feels like bashing because i grew up used to mama's breast not used to daddy's love mama's breast just means i'm used to being nurtured i've never been corrected so as a little boy i got nurtured nurtured nurture nurture nurture nurture nurture nurture nurture nurture nurture nurture so now i'm a full-grown man and when you hear another man tell you how kings love man watch out bro you judging me no it's just as foreign to receive love from my brother when i've never known it it's the same thing for my sisters i promise this message is equal sex offensive i promise ladies just wait you ain't man and now but you're not gonna be in a minute it's the same thing for sisters if you grew up with your mother working hard and she told you to be independent and she told you to go get your degree and she told you to go to school and she told you don't rely on nobody and she told you you don't need nobody and then you really do want somebody and then when you have somebody you still act like i don't need nobody and you still act like i don't want nobody so when he says something like no i don't want you getting gas tonight what you mean you don't want me to get gas tonight i'm grown what did i do before you i was doing my own thing before you i have my own bills i'm starting to grab air i pay my own bills i know how to do my own thing you're trying to tell me i can't get gas excuse me you chauvinistic narcissistic manipulating men i'm so over y'all trying to tell me see this is my problem [Applause] this is my problem now look though if daddy was in the home and daddy told you i don't want you to go get gas tonight you would be used to what it feels like to be protected okay all right so now since i grew up in a home with no protection when i meet a protector it feels like control but if daddy was in the home he would ask who's that calling you daddy we going a football game who oh it's me just me and jamison i haven't met jamison tell him come over i need to meet him well daddy why you got to do all that and even though you may not like him doing all that it feels good to know a man cares for you and so now i'm not looking for daddy and jamison because i got daddy at home all right are y'all seeing this once again this is not jerry's opinions this is bible so i recognized something as flowers as i was studying i said hmm there's this tactic there's this tactic and i want us to see this mark chapter 10 verse 9 it says therefore what god has joined together can i get somebody to say god now y'all got to say it convinced somebody said god therefore what god has joined together let no man separate a lot of us are joining stuff together and then asking god to bless when he didn't sin really oh i'm about to mess y'all up god is not obligated to keep together what he didn't send all right see nobody wants to talk to me this is why i'm so intentional with trying to get us to understand how to do things the king's way so you won't experience yourself in covenant recognizing i don't think he knows the king and i don't know the king either there's some pain you don't have to feel y'all i'm telling you we're all going to experience pain but don't experience unnecessary pain i just thought god would do this god is not obligated to keep together what he didn't put together and so there's this tactic that i'm recognizing there's a strategy that i'm observing on how hell is causing for this woman to be discouraged it's an attack a military science if you will and it's not due from a devil it's not due from a demon it's not due from a stronghold but he's causing for her to get tired you know why she's so tired because he's so out of position okay now look look look listen single mothers doing the best that they can i mean you are killing it no gas i am blown away how strong some of my sisters are i mean you put your babies to school you going back to school you there for her gymnastics you there for his football games you bought the uniform you're doing everything you know how to do you're being intentional with your growth you're being intentional with your evolution you're even being intentional with your healing because you recognize the people who hurt you are not going to come back and heal you there's no bla there's no healing in blaming blaming is not the fertilizer for your healing but rather it is the umbilical cord for your bitterness and you recognize that and you're doing the best you can but if you be honest you're tired you're working hard and i understand you got the grace for it god has given you the grace and he's giving you the mercy to be it but you're handling weights that you were never designed to carry i know that this is not popular but the kingdom agenda is for there to be kingdom man and for there to be kingdom woman in the home to raise kingdom children and now i get it when more of us are out of position it causes for them to be tired tired listen if we keep on addressing how to prepare her but we never address a underprepared hymn y'all don't want to talk to me i know this stuff don't sell this is going to get a lot of thumbs down and that's okay if we keep on addressing a prepared her but we're never addressing an underprepared hymn we'll have a generation of women waiting for a man that doesn't exist because we're not having conversations about the kingdom agenda we don't have biblically saturated sermons besides on father's day we don't have biblically saturated services that are telling kingdom men you are a warrior you are a king you are a chief and god needs for you to be in the home he called for you to be the head he called for you to be a servant he called for you to be the president of your domain nothing can get in this house without first getting through me you can add some gangsta to it you can add a little heart to it because i'm a kingdom man and nones get into my bride and nuns get to my family without first getting through me that is biblical manhood we don't have conversations like that there'll be a wife wanting to change to hit her husband's heart but it'll never happen because we don't hear sermons like this except on father's day except on father's day so now even my unmarried sisters you looking at the state of him and you like god is this all you got know y'all ain't feeling me right now ladies is coming i promise about two minutes god what you got in the back for real you have another shipment coming through because you know how sisters are i know i'm called for marriage i know i'm called i've seen it no candidate but i know i'm called but when i'm looking at at these brothers god is this all you got it's funny but i'm serious i'm serious so we need to get the men back on fire for god i'm just convinced we need men who fight to come back but look i'm not fighting with this i know how to fight on this i know how to fight right here i'm talking about fight for purity fight for my home fight for my marriage fight for my mind fight for my integrity fight for holiness that's not old school y'all that's biblical that's how you love like a king so i need i need my king in the earth because remember god is always going to call adam first because you are called to be the head that's why i dressed you first now for ladies ladies i want us to understand i want us to look at this scripture i want to show you the original lie of the enemies this good so far i promise i'm almost done genesis chapter 3 verse 4. says then the serpent said to the woman you will not surely die you ain't gonna die tonight for god knows if you eat this fruit you gonna be like him knowing good and evil now my wife is going to represent eve she is the baddest woman on the planet he don't get any more finer than eve she is the only woman to ever walk this earth that was perfect no flaw like her hair is on fleek eyebrows on fleek no wrinkle her body is heavenly but then what does the enemy do when a woman gets in a place where everything seems to be just right as soon as you get your mind right as soon as you get your emotions right as soon as you get your sensitivity right he always tries to tell you this lie you're not enough that's what he did with eve won't surely die god knows if you eat this this fruit you're going to be like him knowing the good and evil what is he telling eve you're not enough you're not enough you're not good enough you're not pretty enough you're not smart enough you're definitely not saved enough you're not clean enough you're not godly enough you are not holy enough you are not enough and so what she ends up doing is climbing this invisible ladder to try to find this fruit and she bites into the fruit she bites into the relationship she bites into the lesbianism she bites into the cheap sex she type bites into the cheek thrills she bites into being a stripper she bites into all this stuff only to find out it does not cure me from my insecurity but rather it separates me from the one that gives me security so now you know what happens this man right here could be on fire for god he could be like me on fire for god love the lord with his whole heart i'm loving her like christ loves the church but since she feels she's never enough everything i do is not enough i can give flowers that's not enough i can clean that's not enough i can compliment that's not enough i can share images on social media that's not enough i can try to do everything we can book a trip to bahamas that's not enough i get to have your mama come and move with us that's not enough that's not enough and so now the man feels tired and he feels like there ain't nothing i could do right and then you have to know the devil always has a delilah for samson you do that you do that if i had a man like this or if i had girl you girl you lucky that's how i start it start with the girl you're so lucky ladies noticed that you so lucky you you just he do this it's because i'm not used to that type of treatment but there's nothing i can do nothing that i could do because her feeling not enough is not my fault her feeling not enough is because she believes a liar y'all kidness she believes a liar now watch this when you believe lies you'll keep on biting fruit that's been handed to you by snakes y'all see that y'all see how the ladies y'all see that i told you fellas y'all could chill it's lady's turn so now you can always tell when a woman has eaten for beating fruit because her mouth is venomous yes it's your turn it's your turn it's your turn come on it's your turn kingdom vibes it's your turn her mouth is venomous now watch this look the mouth of a woman is an activator did y'all hear me the mouth of a woman is an activator what's the condition of your tongue sis is it a grim reaper or is it a king producer there's a king and there's a fool inside every man listen there's a king and there's a fool inside every man which one do you speak fluent in kingdom are foolish foolish so you talk to him out of venom let me give you bible see he got quiet i like this i promise you we were around it let's let's give you bible let's go ahead and go to these familiar passive scriptures and then we're gonna be done proverbs chapter 21 verse nine it says better to live on a corner let me go way over here tanisha somebody say i knew that was coming you shall write it's better to live on a corner of a roof than to share a house with a quarrelsome wife now look the quarrelsome state is in herself she doesn't even like herself because she herself is not enough she doesn't even view herself pretty i'm like good lord he says it's better to be on the roof i'm like what if it's winter what if like last week hurricane nicholas is coming through it's better for you to be blowing bruh it's better for you to be blowing than for you to be in the house with her venomous mouth this is bible y'all verse 19 same verse it says it's better to live in a desert you know desert's got cactus and sand and rattlesnakes and all types of stuff it's better for you to be out there getting sunburned bruh it's better for you to be getting sunburned and freezing at night then to you to be dealing with a quarrelsome and a nagging wife now i want to give you more bible all right look um most of us don't know this but i studied this this really blessed me when when satan was about to go tempt job first he had this conversation with god he had this conversation with god and then he told man listen if if you let me touch him he gonna curse you to your face now i want us to look at this um job chapter 2 verse 3 um it says then the lord said to satan have you considered my servant job there is no one on earth like him he is blameless and upright i pray god never does this with me just being real a man who fears god and shuns evil and he still maintains his integrity though enticed me against him to ruin without any reason and look at this uh verse 4 skin for skin satan replied a man will give all he has for his own life but now stretch out your hand and strike his flesh and bone and he will surely curse you to your face okay everybody say curse you to your face so satan goes and afflicts job look at verse nine verse nine says his who his who why y'all talk us off now y'all oh yes preach his who his wife's my son i can't see that word okay his wife his wife said to him are you still maintaining your integrity curse god and die i want to know how did she know to say the exact same statement that satan told god that job would say after i get afflicted could it be because the enemy knows how i get to him is by talking to you i'm staying in your ear and i'm going to tell you stuff that you need to tell him tell him he's sorry tell him he's no good tell him he's trifling good for nothing type of brother tell him tell him he's so sorry tell him you don't need no man tell him this is why you don't even put it down in the bedroom anyway tell him stuff to hurt his ego tell him and when she can't discern when a snake is talking to her she tells him all those things that he's been wrestling with already because remember it always happens in the spirit before the natural so now her mouth is used to assassinate things in him that he was trying to build but we want a kingdom home proverbs chapter 4 verse 7 it says wisdom is the principle thing therefore get wisdom somebody say get wisdom and all you're getting get understanding one point one point get under the principles that's it get under the principles and all thy getting get understanding come in miss flowers so so when we give teachings like this about kingdom the goal pop yours open why i got the feminine one you get the feminine one it's raggedy too the goal is for me to get under a principle for you to get understanding there must be something you stand under okay so now lift yours up so while we're meeting let's meet i stand under purity is that something you understand i stand under holiness is that something you understand i stand under righteousness is that something you understand i stand under as for me and my house we will serve the lord is that what you understand i stand under honesty is that something you understand so now if we understand the same thing come on over here come on come on i have my arm around your purpose keep coming keep coming keep coming now we can stand under the principles of the king together does this make sense so a lot of people want to get here put it down but there's nothing they're standing under so we're getting wet by everything the world rains on us every storm every trial we're getting soaked because we're not standing on nothing but when we stand under god's will i'm not saying that we won't get wet but i am saying god got us covered this makes sense god has us covered because we're standing under a principle so father god in this moment we recognize that you have a design and you have a blueprint for the home for that brother to know you to have a garden season before she ever takes interest in him recognize his garden because unmold gardens give room for snakes god help us to redeem the original kingdom agenda because you told us in your word you desire godly offspring and that requires godly kingdom parents and kingdom covenants we love you so much of god in jesus name we pray amen

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Length: 60min 52sec (3652 seconds)

Published: Thu Sep 16 2021