Live Quality Queen Check-In: Live!

guys I'm literally at the mall so you guys are gonna see a bunch of random people pass by I am length again Wow two days in a row go me yesterday I was having trouble going live hi guys because the internet wasn't working where I was so oh my god hi Saphira the virus here thank you guys so much I I don't know I've really been feeling my makeup lately I think it's because I add the white under my eyes guys it's a little trick that I do and it kind of gives me the Barbie look but it to me doesn't look too dramatic where it's like what's happening here and then of course you guys already know my favorite hair buy my girls dumb this is the best unit ever oh my gosh I'm so glad I got your name right and because I know what it's like when people get your name wrong um so I just want to make sure you guys can hear me perfectly right thank you guys so much for all the compliments so just before we move on further I want you I know you guys are going to ask me what makeup do I have on so my foundation is fenty in the color 330 my eyebrows are a Nastasia Beverly Hills in the color brown or chocolate I think it's chocolate my blush and contour are a mixture of NARS orgasm blush and contour and also Fenty contour and my eyelashes are the same by Asia my friend Asia these are individual eyelashes these are not band eyelashes and I just put mascara on them only because they're getting old I also wash my my eyelashes every night I give my eyelash my eyelash is an eyelash bath every single night especially because I do wear makeup on them so individual lashes lasts I would say two to three weeks but I get mine done on a consistent basis and also I'm about to get my lashes done by another girl because I'm going to just be doing a promo for her but Asia is the best she is incredible at doing eyelashes so I am a little apprehensive about going to somebody else but like my friend is like you should just try it see if you like it so that's what I'm gonna do thank you for being that girl that shares where she got stuff instead of being stuck up a lot of people tell me this and I find that so shocking all my life I've always been the type of girl where somebody asks me where I got something and I literally tell them exactly where I got it I don't have an issue with sharing these things for instance I was freezing cold so I went and I bought this hoodie from Victoria's Secret because no pink and they're having a semi-annual sale so everything is super super super cheap there so this is like really comfortable and I really really like it oh also on my lips I'm using I use the NARS orgasm lip tint that I was raving to you guys about I'm good to lip glosses that I wear are either Fenty or it's the NARS orgasm 10 lip gloss that's it because normally I like for my lips to be some sort of sheer type of pink color or a nude color with a gloss that's over it so that's pretty much what it is that I like how do I clean my lashes I just take I have a foam wash but to be honest I kind of take any kind of soap and I just go I take my fingers and I go like this but my friend Savannah was telling me that she takes an eyeshadow brush and she just goes over her lashes like that so you can also do that as well so let's see what you guys are saying you are my big mom d1 hi sis let's see hello from Albania hi did I go to college yes I went to college I have a bachelor's degree in media and communications I went to SUNY Old Westbury that's where my bachelor's degree my associates degree I graduated from Farmingdale State toothpaste that I use is a brand called echo dent let me type that for you guys and hi from Belgium guys again I'm at the mall that's why you see so many people around me but it's not even that loud and I don't feel like the lighting is that bad so I'm sorry if you guys feel like the lighting is a little weird I don't know you guys tell me I see like that's there's like a spotlight coming in oh my god I just looked up and it blinded me I'm black blind out I keep getting like a shadow like right here but for the most part what do you guys think about the lighting is it okay oh that's so cute your confidence rubs off on me see that is what I like to hear okay that's what I like see no it's fine okay perfect guys so you guys can hear me well and see me whoa oh my god Ethiopia's in the house hello hello oh my god Saint Lucia yes the Caribbean Sea Brooklyn is in the house in the video you did with Bella you said you come from money if you don't mind me asking what do your parents do okay so my dad basically he owns some properties I will say that and but I do like to keep my family life personal only because I am just very protective of that and I am my own person in my own brand but my dad owns properties so you can say real estate really essentially this lady let me see it even those thing dudes who are we're leveling up majorly and having fun doing it I'm so proud of you so guys I want to really jump in - oh my god you can see the sliding why is this happening it's getting Werner's I'm wondering if I should switch over unto the other side because I don't really like this shadow thing that's happening I really can't see that well I think I'm gonna have to switch sides on here Oh or not I'll just stay here this is perfect this is actually better to be honest okay so I want to come on here because I really want to start catering to my younger audience mind you there's literally a lingerie store basically in the back what is this store called intimacy it's like a semi high-end or high-end sort of lingerie place how are you confident in streaming in public honey this is what I do I just I don't know I don't really mind people being around I'm in my own world right now I'm in my zone I don't really care what other people have a problem with it or they think it's weird I I have to talk to my sisters what's happening you know hey your channels growing so fast you're beautiful a Boston girl from Louisiana or you won't scream out Louisiana um yeah I will what's up Louisiana hi Pennsylvania yes Jamaica's in the house you guys know you guys are a subscriber of mine from the beginning you know then Jamaican what is my secret to being confident I would say my secret to being confident is one being confident in my appearance that matters a lot if you don't like the way you look you know the first thing that people judge you on your you know are based off of your looks and that goes for you know from job interviews to even relationships this Sun is killing me guys killing me I don't know what's happening I don't know how to help it it's worse down there it's like the Sun is like ascending higher and higher and higher and I don't really like the shadowy look it's really shamed honestly it's getting higher and higher look at this I'm literally about to disappear in five seconds so awkward okay okay so let me try switching seats guys cuz I can't do this anymore this is killing me hi hi I'm Colson personal oh that just got actually really bad and this is guess who oh my god guys it's like only working when I stand up it's like the strangest thing and I obviously can't like just stand here okay okay that seems okay for now my purse is literally sitting on the other couch but it's fine okay not of the lighting is back up and running Thank You Anthony I'm glad that you like my way I really want to answer some questions for you a lot of you have sent me questions because really again what cater to my younger audience and that's very important to me because I know I give a lot of advice but I also want to help the girls that are younger so I'm gonna answer some questions I received Leon there and I will do a mix of answer questions that you guys ask me on here and also ones that I've been asked on Instagram as well do I have a lot of friends yes I would say I do have a lot of friends because I've been friends with the same people middle school and younger you know up until now so I I do have a fair amount of friends I would say I have a good 10 to 15 maybe a little more people by actually consider my friends ok so a question that I was asked to discuss on Instagram is how to deal with Mean Girls so in high school there are always going to be bullies mean people and everyone's coming from a different place so you have the girl that will go to school that will bully you because she's getting bullied at home she feels neglected at home so she's gonna go home and pick on you or you have the girl that's going to pick on you because she is jealous of you and not all the time are people especially young high schoolers able to even recognize this that they are jealous they just do things just because they're just acting out like that but they don't necessarily understand okay why am i acting like this it's because I'm jealous of this person I desire something that they have and it angers me to know that they have it and I don't it angers me that a lot of people gravitate towards this one individual and not me you know because when you're in high school and you're young you know everything seems like a big deal you're not going to necessarily do a lot of self-reflection or things like that because nor you know normally that comes as you get older and you progress as an adult and an individual so someone wrote tell these little ladies to not worry about high school drama yeah well that's that that is true but I don't want to neglect the fact that's on thank you so much Priscilla I don't want to neglect the fact that it still is a thing right it's kind of like adults not acknowledging the fact that there are there's a possibility that teenagers do experience depression and stress and all these things because to you know adults hi Allison yes I'm literally at the mall guys two adults they may look at our issues and think okay you guys are children you're a teenager it's not that big of a deal I don't want to discredit the fact that the things that you guys feel are very real okay bullying may not matter when you're outside of school but that doesn't take away from the fact that you are being bullied does that make sense so I think it still is important for me to ignore you know these subjects and the things that people experience in Middle School in high school and in my generation that was a completely different animal right now people in high school people in middle school I'm sure their disappearance saying you know probably issues that I didn't even experience in high school or maybe they are and to in you know an even more higher degree a more intense degree because it seems as though the more that generations progress the younger kids seem to have the same responsibilities as you know the older kids or seem to experience similar issues to older people and also they act a lot older as well so that's to be considered Oh guys here goes the Sun it's fine I was bullied twice when I was younger whose name I really wonder how some people up in live are these actual subscribers of mine that in my life or are these just random people I was so confused let me see I don't know how to deal with it I don't have a confidence to speak up or be assertive when people cross the line you have to because if you don't it's never going to end it's always going to be something on top of another and people will go and this goes for all across the board people will go as far as you allow so if you don't put your foot down they're gonna keep on going going going and this doesn't necessarily mean that it has to get you know physical or turn into something absolutely crazy but what it means is you have to be able to stand up for yourself so they know that you are not going to tolerate that behavior any longer okay or they're gonna keep on doing it because they know you're not gonna do anything does that make sense can't allow that cannot allow that let me see how do you deal with a boyfriend that has mostly female friends oh okay I can actually relate to this hold on guys let me see if I can move this if the lighting gets better down here oh this is like a disaster so I think some movie the couch see the Sun now is like over here so now I have to move back over here and it's like oh this is a disaster and it's great it's so bright let me see something that's a nightmare that's the nightmare guys do not follow me on the floor in the mall okay but nonetheless guys we will be good here I promise because I'm under the window now so the lighting is not going to be changing drastically like that was solos I started sweating honey that would have really been the end and the Apple stores down there but like honey I don't want to buy another laptops like what's happening now where's my phone that's just like total my entire breath away give me one second guys I can like get everything together oh my phone's right there my bags right here my Starbucks hold on they spelled my name wrong at Starbucks but like what else is new they spelled it a I sha what's happening let's see what you guys are saying see okay can I be honest and transparent with you guys okay every single time I come on live and I'm like okay I'm going to talk about this I go online and I see so many of you guys which I don't have a problem with it all asking me a whole bunch of questions so it gets really difficult to have a specific subject sometimes because I get overwhelmed by the questions that I'm that I see on here and then I feel bad if I don't answer them because they're right there and I don't want to just ignore people that are typing that are right here but then I also want to talk about wow I'm not about here is everything okay let me see what are my preferences in men what do you mean by one of my preferences in men what do you mean by office do you like physically personality-wise be specific okay how do you deal with the boyfriend that says he's not cheating but he's not communicating as much as he used to when the relationship were started by the way I love you quality queen I love you too so okay it seems like he's a little bored right it seems like something suspicious is going on again I want you guys to always keep this in mind this this fact this is the fact this doesn't change if somebody is not doing what they used to do there is a reason you have to figure out what that reason is is he cheating is he bored or not keeping up with your appearances what exactly is causing him to put in less effort into the relationship now everyone from time to time gets comfortable right in a relationship but guys are very physical quite simple actually they're all visual visual creatures if you look good all right that is just like almost I'm exaggerating but ninety percent you know the issue you know because they're always gonna have a wandering eye so in regards to you guys relationship what do you think is contributing to him putting less and less into their relationship and actually have an answer to that question I was answering someone's question before my computer basically almost fell you know on the ground who cracked open I did have a boyfriend at one time and all of his friends pretty much were all female now I'm basing this on that experience if that's even fair to say it is very suspicious to me because ten boys and girls be friends yes they can but I find in my experience that there always is some sort of line that is cross eventually where hold on guys leave there's always some some sort of line that's crossed eventually or somebody likes somebody more right one person almost never feels the same and if they do then the next question come then the next thing code comes into question of okay do you want to sacrifice you guys friendship and risk it never being the same again by starting to date your best friend the guy that I was dating where all his friends were all female he literally told me mean let's really stuck with all of them so is that something that necessarily makes you insecure I don't necessarily think so because you know naturally women we as women need we do have the tendency to be very cunning and you never know what an individual's intention is and you stepping in to if that if they don't they if you don't feel intuitively like these females around your your boyfriend or family and I'm not talking about yo that's the sis yo that's my bro I'm talking about actually family and not even necessarily about blood but I you know the difference you know when someone is just calling someone their bro or calling someone their sis but you really know what's happening and then you also know the difference when you genuinely feel like oh that's their family but the fact that you're bringing this up I'm betting that it's not like that right there's it's always gonna be an uncomfortability because it's it's a strange dynamic really it is as crazy as it is friends like it's just kind of strange and I you know me I'm a girl's girl sorry to know if I feel comfortable even if I had I have guy friends I wouldn't even know if I feel comfortable going to lunch with my guy friend without his girlfriend why not invite my guy friend and his girlfriend to lunch if I want to go out with them with with him why not invite her too because I'm that type of girl where I would do something like that because I want to show one respect to her and I also want to respect him as well I respect you guys relationship so I'm not going to try and get private time with you the rules change when you're in a relationship and you're in and you and the person that you're best friends with is of the opposite sex you have to learn to respect that you don't you don't run off the basis of well I was here before her so doesn't matter what she has to say no be respectful give that energy so that you can get that energy back okay let me let me see I'm scrolling down guys to see what other questions hi Jess how are you I am actually great today I had trouble sleeping last night and I woke up wide awake at 8 a.m. today I think I must have honestly slept for a solid three hours today and I woke up very determined answered some emails and things of that nature now again I want to stress to you guys if you guys want to have a one-on-one session with me I have now incorporated which I'm also going to add to my highlight reel on Instagram I have now incorporated a video chat option because a lot of Android users were expressing to me their concern in regards to the fact that they cannot download the instant Go app it seems to only be available for iPhone users so what I want to do is I will offer for anyone really if you want to have a video chat with me via appear dot in I can choose whatever domain name that I want and once you make the deposit I will send you over the link so we can video chat one-on-one and the same rates apply so you can have that one-on-one session with me because in us in a setting like this I can answer your question but I won't be able to go in depth like you may need you know or maybe like I even desire to because I want to get to as many other people as I possibly can okay heishi please make a video on how to play hard-to-get that's a good con video concept and I definitely will do a video on that hi I'm new to your channel you're so smart and pretty thank you thank you so much what's my study in college I was a media and communications major in college I like to talk I like to speak um and I also love social media I mean it's really not that shocking what I do for a living I mean ask anyone that knows me in high school this is not shocking to them at all but this this was designed for me okay for me what are your hygiene videos coming out so I feel like I have so many different types of series okay let me let me just have a transparent moment with you guys okay I'm just gonna be honest so a lot of you have noticed that I have been uploading only once a week and I used to upload so much more frequently which is ideally what I'm going to get back to but things have been just a little shaky for me in my personal life without getting too much in you know in depth with it right now because I'm not really ready to talk about it right now it was just a snowball effect from you know my grandmother being sick and then that snowballed into its own animal and then bled over into you know my personal life and things of that nature and it really took a toll on me mentally which I did kind of Express to you guys on the YouTube bulletin board and it was just I'm coming out of it now but it definitely had an effect on me for sure which is why I wasn't able to I've been incapable of allocating you know be time to spit out the videos for you guys like I want and that's why honestly I'm so happy that these lives even exists because I just realized oh my gosh I could just hop on alive and post the video and alive instead of just trying to film a separate video and then edit the video and then get it up instead of just going live and this Auto uploads and I also get to interact with you guys in real time as well so to be honest and and transparent as best as I can it's just been a lot that's going on with me personally that I've been dealing with it's going to get better I'm I'm okay you know right now but at the same time everything that I talk about with you guys like I'm helping you guys but I'm also helping myself and I know everything that I experienced and everything that I go through in retrospect is going to help me all the more to help other and that's all I ever really want to do and I'm so blessed to have incredible friends and people in my life that you know support me and love me and understand things that I go through and don't judge me because of that and they're there for me so I'm very blessed in that aspect so yeah your videos are so informative I wish to have your confidence keep watching my videos you'll get it trust me it's gonna bleed on to you hope everything is going well in your personal life it's coming together babe it's definitely coming together and you know what I want to put this out there because I believe in the law of attraction I believe in manifesting what it is that I want and I know I know ultimately I still do live at home and ultimately I really really want to get a really nice place because you guys know me Luxuria all the way I really want to get a really really nice place that's spacious I don't just settle for any and everything I'm a Taurus I crave stability I don't move unless if I know that's gonna be the move for me so I would never move prematurely and just like get any old thing just to get it I want to make sure that where I go my next step where I go is going to be amazing so I could do you know apartment tours for you guys and I can really just be in my own space and I I just can't wait for that to happen and I was you get into existence because I know it will happen and I know I have all you guys supporting me which means more than you guys could ever know or more than I even capable of explaining so I'm very I'm very fortunate in that aspect that I have all you guys I feel bad I didn't even answer the questions that I wanted to answer on when I came on here I have to change the title of this live if I can do I recommend dating in high school yeah I do I think it's okay to date in high school I don't think you know in terms of you know the sex aspect I don't think that should be done super early because you know it changes you and I think it's it's there's such a an emphasis placed around that you're not cool if you don't do that and there's so much peer pressure based around that it you know it's just when you get older and you're out of high school and you realize what was the big deal it's kind of just like did you really have to do that in high school it's not really not that necessary and to be honest like when you got out of high school I'm just being honest with you you look cool honestly if you didn't do it in high school I'm telling you that's the real gag you look cooler if you didn't do it in high school yeah yes I agree with you Kat this too shall pass I love that you're so real greetings from South Africa I try my best I pride myself in being as real and authentic and transparent as I can oh and speaking of transparent I want to also address something else I sometimes get comments on my channel of people saying I'm copying this person's content of copying that person's content there are a select few people handful of people that are pretty much well-known that kind of disgust in everyone's own respective paths the same sort of thing of dating and relationship advice and things of that nature oh my gosh somebody is texting my phone or it's the strangest thing a cousin sorry about that guys and it really throws me off guard because I can show you guys right here all my video treatments go into this book here and I write everything down and I date I date everything that I write down like in my book all my video treatments that I write so that I have it on document and it really just throws me for a loop when people are like you are copying so-and-so's content and it's not even one person it's half the time it's people that I've never even heard of people that I've never even watched that I'm being that I'm being accused of copying their content and really my right I mean on the other hand I kind of think it's it's amazing that God would even put these things in my head and I write it down and and and apparently someone else already said it I mean if anything I call that confirmation you know I'm the type of person where if I got something from someone else I'm gonna give that person credits I've quoted things that gl Lambert has said on multiple occasions and I've given him credit for it because I love his content and I love what he what he talks about and he also has a blog I give resources where I get things from all the time from my hair to my face to my lashes to my clothes you guys if you guys genuinely know me you know that I'm not a stingy person in regards to the things that I do the things that I wear and where I get things from why would I hide something like that to pretend like I originated something what do know okay so now that that's out there okay if you guys see people coming for me correct it in a nice way me okay let's see what you guys are saying because I don't think I'm honestly gonna get to these questions because you guys keep on asking these though sheera is my favorite she's the OG I like you a lot as well your new school I'm new school girl year and I've heard of Shira from you guys actually I heard I heard of Shira from you guys and I watched a couple of her videos and I loved her too in fact I would love to do a collab with her I love to do a collab with anybody to be honest because I love people how do you turn into a person that doesn't become emotionally attached oh you got to watch my how to become emotionally detached video and I have these great subscribers sometimes where they will watch my video post and they will bullet lists everything that I said in the video I'm thinking every time someone does that I literally go thank you so much because come on that's impressive we love that we love but I will say this as a ground-rule just so you know kind of give you an answer to your question you need a roster you detach by getting more people into that thing okay that's really how you do it either that's or you literally put all the energy into yourself from that person and I know this sounds really crazy right but you need to start making a list make a list of the pros and cons of the person that you're trying to detach from cuz I'm guarantee you guaranteeing you the cons are way more than the pros and a lot of the times you know we as women we like to highlight the pros more than the cons we like to stretch thin the positive for why for what reason guys don't do that when they're done they're done right they can effortlessly easily ignore us who cares about how long they've been with us once they're done they're out they're gone intercept I'm saying write that list look at that list make sure that permeates your brain this is why I need to leave this person he lies he cheats he manipulates he gaslights whatever it may be he's inconsistent makes me question myself he makes me feel invaluable okay he's trying to force me to be in his rotation he refuses to commit to me I feel like I'm getting I'm you know getting less than I'm giving there's no reciprocity hello what do you have to say about friends of benefits relationship okay one I personally don't care for friends benefits relationships and here's why because nine times out of ten somebody's gonna want to be in a relationship eventually and it's nine times out of ten more than likely going to be the female why because there's going to be an emotional attachment after a while no girl really wants come on let's be real no girl really wants a guy that she's giving her body to even as friends to just be giving it to the next chick giving it to the next chick giving it to the next chick because you're going to feel because it's not just you guys you guys are not mutually exclusive it's not just you guys there okay in this situation nine times out of 10 it's going to be you giving your body to this person you probably want wanting more or settling for that because you're hoping it will turn into something more right and then you're worried about okay all of a sudden the guy that you meet up with every Thursday night you know at 12:30 is becoming unavailable please tell me that you don't think that's gonna bother you that is going to bother you please that's going to bother you because you're I'm gonna feel away you tell yourself over and over again oh we're just friends like it's going to bother you I don't believe in the long run especially if you're someone that is a relationship type of person like myself friends of benefits doesn't work for people like me there's there's no benefit for me bye-bye all or nothing leave bye now if you really want to tell yourself that you were capable of doing something like that I mean be my guest but I skirt no I don't do friends of benefits you're not benefiting off of anything over here honey skirt start mm-hm say a lot of for the people with I am people in the back how do you get a bigger roster well you just need more people you go out more estado and as I know II don't know totally kidding or am I know what Spain um you add more people you start talking to where people that's really what it is you know even if these people are just like your friends at first as long as your focus is not primarily on one individual okay keep on working out people are working yes I do have advice for teens specifically and I was trying to get to it but you guys keep asking me Kristen's and it's so hard to like ignore it like I just oh my god I just want to answer everybody and I just feel sad when I can okay so let me read another question though guys on my phone for my advice for my teens I love about how to dress classy but still age-appropriate I really like that let me see who wrote this oh I can't that's lovely um so I'm guessing this is a teenager oh okay all right so in terms of dressing classy being very young I would say though the type of classy you can dress is very cutesy very girly feminine troll colors three feminine cutesy type of things you can wear like a little you know low heel you know a really a nice platform heel they have very cute platform heels that you that you can wear that are still very classy and cutesy with coming across as grown and sexy you know what I mean and you're just like 13 you know what I mean um where would I shop if I was 13 years old geez cuz I was bring up he had justice limited to aid Burrell g-class too cute all these things but I don't even know where I would chop bars 13 do those stores do stuff with stores even exists anymore I feel like we got 13 year-olds shopping at Zara not that that's an issue but I mean I'm just fine like maybe a lot of boutique stores maybe you guys to chop at I don't know what's happening let me read something I feel like you guys are let me see something yes thank you so much that was nice I had dropped this piece which I actually need okay I'm sorry guys I'm scrolling through the comments how do you stand out from the rest of the female sea talk soon well first of all okay this sounds crazy but what you actually have to do is compare them that's the only way you could figure out what your advantage could be right if you see the rest of them looking like who did it and ran okay well then you need to look like better than that okay you need to look put together you need to look like you actually care about life you know not look like them um I just I I know this sounds so crazy but I can't place enough emphasis on looking looking good dressing well I can't sighs right now I'm in a sweatshirt from pink put my makeup son my hair's done my hair straightened and I have on socks sneakers but it's so cute sporty but I look still like I care about life I care about what's hold on I'm not just like out here oh here here we go you know like when you look at me you don't think it was she has on and like she does anything she cares about like at all I'm blushing guys the hottest I'll just walk by okay back to work back to work I love to see a video on roster dating using the oh I'm write that down that's a good idea rocker day and do's and dont's do's and don'ts all right my face is so animated all the time guys it's really really ridiculous would you be open to a fan meetup in the future when I injured thousand percent absolutely feminine patterns and colors with minimal cleavage and not too short very well said exactly very well said you don't want out the last thing you want to be especially when it comes to be you know dressing age-appropriate and keeping it classy is you know showing too much at a young age you don't have to do that even being mock that you don't have to do that okay something that's fun thing it is very rare that I show my cleavage I'm 25 I can if I want to you know but it's very rare that I show my cleavage do I look down on girls that do no I don't it's just for me it just depends on how want to you know dress that day but I prefer to be just a little bit more covered up do you feel like B do you feel like being close to the person who you are intimate with is the way to get them to commit what do you mean by being close to them what do you mean by that because if this guy is not courting you inconsistent taking you out on dates showing that he actually really wants to be with you putting in consistent effort you can't overcompensate that by trying to get closer to him that's his job he's supposed to be working to get you he's supposed to be earning you I've been cutting so many guys off lately and my tolerance is very low is this a problem no if you don't want to be whatever you want to do you can do if you feel like you can go and find somebody else then yeah you can go find somebody else if you don't feel like dealing with someone's BS then you don't have to I'm a very strong believer in that whatever I don't want to deal with honey I'm not and I don't have to stop you know what I mean it's just that kind of drive for me I'm you say nice okay can you do a video on how to spit I already read that I love your content so much thank you my daughter loves you her name is Missy oh hi Missy that is so cute so I'm interrelationship with this guy we're always fighting over the dumbest things and I'm 21 and he's 26 listen babe 26 is not that old away 26 does not mean together you know he'll guys in their 20s do not have it together half the time and even if they have the money you know they're going buck wild with it at 20 in their 20s I'm sorry but they are you know I think it's very important for us to have realistic expectations for people that are in certain age groups men mature slower than women that is a fact you know and at the end of the day we have to understand that and if you really want something serious with somebody you got a date up an age I'm sorry you know redefined when you consider as old redefine it also you guys are in a very trip you know transformative positions in your life and I really do mean that when you're 21 you are an official legal adult you can go to the bar and sit there and drink and all it's so like that that's significant within itself and aside from that when you're 26 you are you know het on your way and you're you're in your mid-20s essentially but your frontal lobe is fully developed at 25 so you're starting to think differently about certain things and it's sometimes there's a there's a war within yourself and when you've been in a relationship at these prime ages you know when you're in relationship in these prime ages you're trying to find yourself and find your footing still right and it's very difficult to do that sometimes being a we and you may not even understand or grasp that concept and so you're fighting but really you're you you're essentially probably fighting for yourself and finding yourself and that is very difficult very difficult let's see yeah I'm gonna actually instead of doing a live trying to do a live dedicated to answering his questions oh my gosh it's been an hour already almost what I'm going to do instead is just make a complete separate video not do alive on it it's just so hard to do a live like I said in the beginning of this live on a specific topic because I get on here and then you guys have so many questions for me and then I want to answer them I don't want to ignore them coz I love you guys I you I have the same question can you marry me do you have a roster are you exclusive Rasta I have a roster you heard it here first until someone proves to me that they're worthy of you no exclusivity than honey she's practicing what she preaches that's hot love bombing is what you need to look for stay away from people who give you insane amount of compliments when they just meet you that is actually very very true they're just gas lighters and before you know it you enter into relationship with this person and you can't even differentiate if they actually met what they said you look good honey it's like a program in their head you look great fabulous it's like shut up it's like I can't and then they get mad when you feel like you know what did you even mean that then guys want to say oh my god like you just don't appreciate anything I say to you because I can't tell if you're serious or not you say this all the time honey I'm glad someone else knows about NPD what is that what is NPD for some people looks don't matter personality and education kind of goes right and also beauty is in the eye of the beholder is boring in cliche as that sounds it's actually true in real life okay I don't know why they're doing that mm-hmm I shopped at the Kohl's department stores and warm mud jeans at 13 see ya mud was in as well the ants for summer class on here okay someone said become super pretty thanks to your videos that people don't recognize me anymore okay so again this is just the outward appearance right so if you if you want to change your appearance the first and easy thing to do is change your nerve change your hair get some legs so you can switch up your look all the time I don't wear weaves I've only had a weave once I think or twice I've had a weave before I don't wear weaves ever my cuz I just want to rip that thing off my head you know I don't want it like sewn down and my I just I'm not sayin maybe I'll never do it in life but definitely on a velar basis I don't their weaves and so not trying to be rude or anything but if you're still wearing leave out in 2019 it's like like when there's a world of like frontals and you can just like you know put this thing like back and like flip this thing this way and like flip it that way and just like do whatever you want you know and it honey it rains and this thing is all gonna be the same texture you know it's like not coming off your head you know you just make sure it looks good good good good good like it's like why do I damage your hair thank you so much thank you so much for the donation babe why bother damaging your actual real hair when you can just get I only were frontals only I only were frontals and when closures first came out I was wearing silk based closures because they literally look like the scalp and then as soon as like frontals came out I sooo I was on to that and I never ever because I love the versatility of it you know and I at this point I mastered how to use the got to be and it takes me three seconds I don't do the whole blow drying and all that I don't do that I literally will take some got to be spray or the gel I will put it on the hairline take a scarf close that thing do do my makeup on the lower half of my face then once that's when once my makeup is done from like my eyebrows down I go take off the scarf and then I'll go on my forehead with the rest of the foundation because I don't really put a lot of foundation on my forehead I mean I just really don't see the point and um and that's pretty much what I do it's not some big intense process and then at nighttime if I want to take this off I mean this whole week I slept with this on really I did if I want to take this off I'll take it off run it under extremely hot water rinse the the glue out of the hairline so that and it's boom it's a brand new I'll set it on my wig stand comb it out like new you know and I'm not even wetting the whole thing it's literally just the hairline okay I'd hiccups let me see you guys would say do I recommend working out or getting plastic surgery I recommend whatever you want to do now if you are someone that is you know when you go to the doctor and they tell you something's wrong and I just ate like what's wrong with me I'm not even hungry umm if you were somebody that well I just got a ton of questions out of nowhere so Oh Felicia Felicia or is it Felicia or Felicia I'm I'm betting it's Felicia right thank you so much Felicia for the donation I really appreciate it oh and thank you so much choke Oh mandus I did not even see that before see this is why if you guys oh my god thank you so much Fifi oh my god whoa I have not seen all these things I don't know you but supporting my black people yes sister thank you cleaning box top thank you so much for the donation I don't know how I didn't see any of you guys see how too shocked did I get I will answer one question midway answer something else boom next you know it never even answer it forget the whole thing that's me right now sorry I literally have no idea what I said before what is NPD guys is it narcissist personality disorder is that what it is let me see so I think this is also important and also to be transparent to talk about so somebody also asked me yesterday when you basically have a roster like are you basically kissing everybody on that roster my response to that question was everyone on your roster is at a different level everyone is not on the same level because more than likely you don't like everybody the same and you don't have to you're they're just there to keep you distracted keep you from focusing and honing in on one person and you shouldn't be doing that anyway for multiple reasons one because you got your own stuff going on right and then two you don't want to put all your eggs into one basket yeah well unless if that person is doing what being consistent supporting you doing what it is that they need to do to prove they live you know you being and Olivia that specific period that's back so ninth out of ten you're not gonna be keep seeing all the guys in your roster you may kiss one or two is that bad is that crazy no it's not crazy you know what I mean and it's easier to hold out on these things which really does build up for good suspense - for the other people however many people that you talk to and that you're dating you know you're not really kissing every single guy that you're that's in your roster everyone is not on the same level of like and you shouldn't be doing that anyway I'm not really that type of person in general that likes kissing anyway so I don't really like guys you want to know something funny about me I get really nervous when I go on first dates only because towards the end I get nervous that someone's going to try and kiss me and I've gone as far sometimes as literally putting my entire hand in someone's face and going like just I don't I don't do that which is kind of rude I think I only did it because I kind of knew the person too but I just get anxiety I'm fine the entire time and then at the end I get anxiety because I'm worried all day like okay are they going to be worried are they going to be trying to kiss me and I have to figure out how I'm gonna reject them and tell them I don't really do that and all this that it's just but that's just me guys so you see I'm not invincible I do get nervous sometimes and I get nervous with that because I know I don't want to do it there really is nobody that I just met that I want that I want to first thing with that I want to just kiss but that's just me you know if you do that then that's on you that's your preference mm-hmm yes if you're in your twenties you should date guys between 35 and 55 yes exactly kami I absolutely agree with you and people have the audacity and the nerve is so old oh my god how could you well you tell me what a 23 year old can do for you you tell me what even half the time a 30 year old can do for you he's 30 year olds these days these men are not even that established by time we as we as women are are 30 we are you know for the most part more established a lot of the times so you can't expect to be getting all this like amazing treatment from someone that's in their twenties they can treat you well maybe emotionally maybe here there but for the most part if you're a 20 year old and you're in you're in if you're in your 20s and you're a man you are trying to find it your footing you're trying to find yourself you're still trying to date around you are not really looking for a girlfriend 9 times out of 10 I mean he'll ok we got 50 rolls I still play games 60 year olds that still play games ok guys it's literally been an hour so I feel like it's just been too much like it's so long I don't know he's gonna watch this back so I do definitely want to end this live stream he'll and I also want to say thank you so much to all of you guys that have donated to me it means so much to me that you guys even would do something like that and that you believe in me and I absolutely love talking to you guys so much um the play they play games because they're boys we can't do nothing can you finish what you were saying about going to the doctor what was I saying about going to the doctor can you remind me I'm sorry I'm like I'm thinking my own things in my head and then I'm reading at the same time and then I'm conscious about the time so just remind me what I said about the doctor can you cook Italian for me one day yeah you can as long as you can make it begin mm-hmm a 35 year old man wants a cold beer and food that may be exactly right in here that's it if you're the type of person when you go to the doctor oh my gosh babe I'm not I'm really not remembering at all what I said where did you get my where'd you get your necklace so my friend actually bought me this necklace for my birthday it's a Tiffany necklace then he got me so yeah he bought me this for my birthday at first I was like but now I've gotten acclimated to it and I actually really do like it I I didn't I never ever used to wear gold until my birthday month I only used to wear platinum and still platinum is number one I like I love platinum that we've never changed oh my god guys my brother's literally facetiming me all right I'm on live right now with my subscribers I'm gonna call you back in like two minutes what yes yes what I'm gonna call you back in two minutes I mean it's up to you can I call you back all right that's my brother I'm sorry I'm sorry oh my god my cousin's here haha evil please say my name hi Tracy thank you so much babe thank you you brought it back to context okay plastic surgery versus working out if you're the type of person where you feel like you you want to work out to lose the weight then you can do that but a lot of the times when you go to the doctor this is what I was saying thank you so much but no lo Molina I butchered that I know I did so if you are over a certain but like fat capacity depending on if you're doing a fat transfer a BDL or oh my god I thought that was like one of my friends if you're doing like a fat transfer bbl and you're over a certain amount of um like fat percentage they will ask you to lose weight try to surgery okay um and it's really up to you I am Pro plastic surgery I mean I definitely want to get my boobs done eventually probably sometime next year I don't know don't me but it's just something I've always wanted to do and yes I am in the mall babe and I I feel like whatever you want to do I'm all about women empowerment if you feel like that's what's gonna make you feel more confident then that's it now I I like surgery I really do but I also like surgery that does look natural do I does that mean that I have a problem that the girls who go overboard know like why would I hate on them because of what they choose to do with their body I don't care whatever makes you happy but I know that for me I genuinely don't have an issue with it at all I'm not gonna judge someone that you know decided to workout and lose the weight you know versus someone not decided to have surgeon and who's the way more power to you and you know if you got to get a shortcut then you get that shortcut honey okay yeah injectables are amazing too I mean I have I've Botox actually um right here so when I frown it's just like like that's me frowning and I just did it just to be extra because the doctor was like you don't have any wrinkles like which is true like when I want to go like this he was telling me like to frown and everything there was nothing for me to do on my face but I'm just like so extra I was like okay I kind of just went a little like eyebrow lifting he goes okay I'll just put a little bit right here I'm like okay so he goes so he put like a little there it lasts for three months I may or may not get it again the only reason why I don't have a problem with Botox is because Botox is um preventative and also it doesn't harm you in any way now injectables when it comes to fillers like things in the lips and things of that nature over time it's hent it has the capacity to stretch the skin especially for people that are not of color it stretches their skin out more than it does for people that are of color like myself so I have no work done on my face at all other than like - Botox injections just right here everything else is natural I was gonna try and get like my lip done a little but ultimately I changed my mind because I realize I really don't need it and then this other girl recommended to me she goes oh my god you should try and get like a lip flip which is basically Botox here which kind of just like makes your lips like a little bit like I don't know more powder but I am very satisfied with how I naturally look anyway so it's fine and and it's this is always gonna be a controversial topic and I could care less with who ever has an issue with it because you should really just ask your why you have a problem with what other people are doing to make themselves happy in life that's what it really boils down to so yeah spread love and okay I see people asking questions about keeping the conversation going I do absolutely agree with Briana writing a bunch of questions down and your phone and then prior to the date just keep asking them guys it really is easy I mean when you let's say you walk in and you and you are that ultra ego right that takes away the shyness you were you're walking in as that alter ego version of yourself that you want to be that fearless you know confident you know girl guys love confidence and you it's easy to keep the conversation going when you don't know somebody there are so many things to ask people that you don't know where'd you go to school how what was your upbringing like how many siblings do you have you know what was your family dynamic like where did you go to college what year did you graduate what is your favorite hobby what books do you like to read you know as long as you stay away from politics and religion on the first date I think you're fine and I'm also having your five non-negotiables making sure that if this person doesn't hit this does this okay for majority of the list cuz not everyone's gonna hit all five then they're eliminated don't waste your time so Audrey I see what you're saying babe and if you go to my Instagram you'll see that I also offered a option to do video chats with me now and because the app instant go is not available for Android users and I and I was made aware of that so ultimately and also if you check the YouTube bulletin board if you're subscribed to me you check the YouTube bulletin board I also listed that you can still select the the package that you want cuz the rates are gonna be the same ultimately what I will do is I will submit a link to you after I receive the deposit via appeared in which is a free website you can video chat on there and then we can proceed on with with the consultation and said you don't have to download the app in order to book a consult with me is essentially what I'm saying you it's still the same rates you email me you can send me the payment via cash app instead instead of using instant go I send you the link and whatever further details you need to have the video chat with me boom that's it we're good to go so you don't have to worry about not being able to get me be in sync oh why can't I donate from Europe I have no idea to be honest I have no idea I didn't know that it was exclusive to people only in the United States this is the first time that I'm hearing this and to be honest I find that quite shocking mm-hmm yes older men are where it's at older men have money and more maturity the more you date older the more attracted and used to use them you are you'll become much more benefits than broke players that way couldn't say it better myself I don't really like answering questions on a date and that's okay too because you you can be you know a bit of a mystery um just make sure that you're serving those questions signing to him am i competitive person not at all and I really do wish I was one sometimes I really do but I've just never been that and I can't get myself to care about anything ever that much to compete over it I don't know cuz I'm just someone that genuinely believes that what's for me is for me I just I don't care if I let a guy walk all over me is it too late to get respect back love you I love you too yes because if he did it once and he did it twice and he did it three times I'm sure he has he's really nice when you finally put your foot down alright you can still try he's either gonna be like okay or he just gonna be like all right whatever I'm out I don't even need I don't even need to deal with this like I'm on to the next you know he's it's it's just sometimes it's best to just start fresh start new that's honestly what's best a lot of the times then fixing what's broken and when you and I find that when you have an extensive history with somebody it is just incredibly difficult to get over the past issues it's so difficult it's the point where I'd rather just start over with somebody else something have to deal with your nonsensical nonsense okay so what if I catch a guy lying on the first date after researching him afterwards so I confronts him what did he lie about what did he lie about what do you do in your friends our friends with your ex I've recently been isolated because they're all hanging out with him those are not your friends how dare you move like that okay no absolutely not those are not your friends friends would never ever do that ever those are not your friends I'm 22 what age should I go for into maturity and stability 35 55 okay Asia but are you a model what else no I'm not a model um a lot of people ask me this for and I find it so strange I don't know why I find it so strange but I'm not a model I'm a very petite person guys when I have a meet and greet and you guys meet me in person you're going to be shook at how much bigger I seem on camera and then in person you're gonna be like where is she no yes I'm just buying what's up a team that's right Equinox II what's up guys let's see you I live this guy lied about his job so did he lie about his job and does more and better than he explained or did he lie about his job and does weigh less cuz honey if it's less he's cut off I'm not even I'm not even going to bother confronting you about it because I know that I'm leaving you understand I'm saying and it's that early enough for me to do so if he lied and he's doing better and more than what he expressed to you then I'd be like hey like you could have told me what you did and he's probably gonna give you some generic answer you know I just don't want people knowing what it was that I do because I just so I want to like meet the real thing like I want people to want to be with me for me you know and honestly I can understand that to a certain degree but he should also have a good gauge on who's you know really gonna be with him for him anyway but guys are always testing women I mean people test people a lot of the times in general but guys definitely test women you know more times than none and even for me when I date people I actually no longer tell them what I do anymore because the last couple of times that I was doing that it just it was a disaster so I just say that I do makeup for a living so what and in the end what I do is far greater I have a wonderful platform that I'm able to communicate with you guys all over the world and and genuinely do the best that I can to make an impact or help you guys you know in any way that I can and that's so important to me and sacred to me so I don't want to just you know when I first meet somebody share that with them and especially because nine times out of 10 the older guys that I date anyway don't even really understand this sort of thing anyway because it's just like so you're like on the internet and you're like a youtuber half the time they don't think they don't think it's a real job anyway you know but also the guys that I date don't even really care what it is that I do because what does it make a difference to them I mean they're successful in their own right you know hmm can you talk about single females with no kids dating them with kids I don't recommend dating men with kids you can but I don't recommend it because it's too much responsibility for you you know you have to deal with the baby mother and the kids and guys lie on their children please believe me when I tell you it just happens like in a situation that I that I was that I was in Shirley recently I'm with my kids right now you [ __ ] you're a [ __ ] like you're not with your kids your kids it'll come over I see why um they lie so much so please be careful about dating the guys with kids please because you know they can always use the excuse of having their kids over but really it's just a filler for you know a girl that they're dating the InnoCentive saying I would not bother hmm you are in a model you're beautiful but you don't show yourself and that's great that means you have others quality thank you mm-hm yes these are fake nails this is called pink and white ombre you guys can't really even really see it like that but this is what it looks like pink and white ombre nails and I just get it in a simple square shape and sorry if it looks a little dirty under my nails it's actually makeup that's why it's like brown under and you have to take lemon which I didn't do today and go under it and I hate on people's nails are just like gross under but on these two fingers which is what I use to do my makeup the most see like this one it's like nothing but I use this finger and and this with my Beauty Blender and I'm squeezing it so the brown gets under my nail so guys I'm going to end this live here because it is an hour and 22 minutes and I don't know who's gonna watch this back and I love that my other live was super short and to the point I want to kind of keep it around 30 minutes from now on because I don't want you guys still have to watch an hour-long worth of footage back I feel bad so don't worry this live will be saved everything will be saved and uploaded so do not worry about that if you guys want to chat with me personally about anything again you guys can email me which is in my Instagram bio if you head over to my Instagram right now which is I just wrote it down head over to my Instagram right now you can see my highlight reel that says consult and you guys can see exactly the steps you need to take so to put it plain and simple if you have an iPhone you can simply download the instant go app search my name select which pack which package you want chat with me boom skit app if you do not have an iPhone you can go to my Instagram as well click email okay send me an email select English package you want and then also I will send you my cash app so that you got so you can receive my cash app to make the deposit and then we can schedule a video call for you okay so it's very simple I know it sounds very overwhelming but I promise you it's a lot more simpler than it sounds if you just head over to my Instagram you guys will basically see everything there so with that being said I love you guys so much I kind of want to end this and be like I love you if you god loves you and I'll see you beautiful angels in my next video or lies I love you mama

Channel: Asha Christina

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Length: 84min 9sec (5049 seconds)

Published: Tue Jun 04 2019