Family & Marriage Enrichment Sunday February 13, 2022

honor and he deserves all the praise we could have been otherwise minded but we are in the presence of jesus and in his presence there is fullness of joy and at his right hand there are pleasures forever more so let us worship the name of jesus this morning hallelujah hallelujah there is nothing worth more that will ever come close nothing can compare you're living [Music] is [Music] of the sweetness of love when my heart becomes free [Music] oh [Music] oh your glory god is [Music] to be overcome by your presence [Music] your presence [Music] nothing can compare [Music] you're [Music] is free god is please [Music] is [Music] hallelujah [Music] your presence [Music] let us become more aware of your presence let us shakespearians [Music] let us say let us be [Music] [Music] is [Music] oh oh [Music] your presence [Applause] [Music] [Music] is [Applause] [Music] forever ah ah oh we give you [Music] is oh [Music] oh yay i am [Music] shutters are broken i am [Applause] [Music] oh [Music] i've been set free it's my turn [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Music] totally free [Music] i am [Applause] [Music] my shadows are broken [Music] i am [Music] [Music] [Music] is [Music] hallelujah hallelujah let us just worship jesus hallelujah hallelujah hallelujah hallelujah hallelujah hallelujah we worship you jesus you are worthy to be praised hallelujah keep me true lord jesus keep me true keep me true lord oh [Music] is [Music] [Music] oh [Music] we're [Music] [Music] oh [Music] oh oh [Music] [Music] oh [Music] oh oh my hallelujah at this time i will welcome our mornings moderator and the moderator for this morning is no other than sister richards please make her welcome come on let me hear you praise the lord call the church praise god hallelujah first i must give god the honor then greet you all in the mighty name of jesus the songwriter said i'm too near to my heavenly home to turn back no let us hear you praise the lord come on church let us hear your praises that's the name of jesus our hope and in him is 2 22 the love of god who are standing if you can who are sitting sorry you can stand please the love of god is greater than [Music] is [Music] is [Music] more [Music] oh [Music] is [Music] [Music] [Applause] [Music] away [Music] refuse to play [Music] is [Music] [Music] [Music] [Music] we all should be oh [Music] oh oh [Music] hallelujah the love of god is gratifier right at this time of god calls us the curlew to come and do the opening [Music] prayer is [Music] [Music] [Music] good morning church hallelujah lift up holy hands and worship the lord this morning hallelujah the lord is worthy to be praised this morning hallelujah [Music] hallelujah church lift up your hands and shout hallelujah hallelujah [Music] jesus [Music] hallelujah lord this morning you are indeed worthy to be praised mighty god of daniel lord we are once more gathered here in your presence mighty god to worship your holy name mighty god lord i thank you for today i thank you for sparing our lives for keeping us almighty god in our right mind to be here together in suspicion god almighty to worship your holy name jesus lord i pray that you may consecrate this church from the rustom to the pew god almighty consecrate the groans almighty god the talk show the everything almighty god concerning you this morning i pray god almighty that you may consecrate it in jesus name lord i pray god that you may cover a pastor and sister read cover them under your blood almighty god wash them with your blood almighty god from the corn of their head to the very soul of their feet god i pray almighty god for each member is almighty god thank you for taking us here this morning thank you almighty god for everything that you have done you are doing and you are about to do lord i pray for the ushers almighty god keep them through god almighty keep them safe almighty god in jesus name lord almighty i pray almighty god for the entire leadership of this church jesus saturate them in your presence mighty god saturate them in your anointing almighty god god i pray god that you may give them wisdom and knowledge understanding god that they almighty god will carry out the task that is ahead of them lord bless us throughout this day god bless almighty god delay this ministry as we today celebrate love almighty god bind us together with cards that cannot be broken god i will lift up mine eyes onto the hills almighty god from whence coming to your help bless us continuously bless the praise and worship bless the musician bless each and every one almighty god i hand over the service to you in jesus name i pray amen hallelujah come on church let us hear you praise him again come on man let us hear you worship him praise the lord the name of jesus christ sister emmanuel thomas will come with our morning scripture coming from saint john 3 from 13 to 21. hallelujah thank you no as cain was of that wicked one and slew his brother and wherefore slew a.m because his own works were evil and his brothers righteous marvel not my brethren if the world ate you we know that we have passed from death to life because we love the brethren that the law that he that loves not his brother abides in death whosoever aids his brother is a murderer and who know that no murderer as eternal life abided in him hereby perceive we that the love of god because he laid on his life for us and we ought to lay down our lives for the brethren but uso has this world's good good and see his brother have need and shots of his balls of compassion from him how dwells the love of god in him my little children let us not love in word neither in tongue but in deed and in truth whatsoever we ask we know that we have the petitions that we desired of him if any man see his brother sin a sin which is not to death he shall ask and shall give him life for them that sinner not do not to death there is a sin to death i do not say that he shall pray for it all unrighteousness is sin and there is a sin not to death we know that what servers born of god is sins not but he that is begotten of god keeps himself and that wicked one touches him not and we know that we are of god and the old world lies in wickedness and we know that the son of god is come and has given us an understanding that we may know him that is true and we are in him that is true even in his son jesus christ this is the true word of god and eternal life little children keep yourselves from idols amen there under the portion of god's old work will honor thy saying the father to the son and to the holy ghost as it was in the beginning and there shall be world without an amen welcome welcome welcome blessed holy ghost we will come away [Music] [Applause] hallelujah let us praise him again praise the lord come on man hallelujah first i must acknowledge his father the son and the holy ghost then also i acknowledge my pastor and our first first lady sister evan read i welcome our guest speaker i acknowledge our virgin that are here today is there any first time visitor with us today can you stan please can we give her a commodore welcome i welcome you here today and i hope that when you're leaving this place you will say it was good for you to be here shall we bless the lord shall we bless the lord bless the name of jesus right this time i'll call on bishop thank you so very much sister richards and pleasant morning to all of you god's wonderful people amen can we just lift our hands and praise the lord in the sanctuary can we give him another shout out praise everybody praise the name of the lord hallelujah amen it's so good to be in the house of the lord with all of god's wonderful people today and i joined this song man we said it's so nice to see those happy faces praising god in heavenly places oh i like the thrill that i feel when i get together with god's wonderful people are you feeling that thrill today are you all happy to be here amen come on just turn to your neighbor and tell your neighbor neighbor it's good to see you in church today do you have another neighbor today bless you bless you praise the name of the lord amen all right i am here at this time just to help with a little organization of our day's proceedings and you have been told that today would be a very very special day like every sunday is but we put a little bit more today as we seek to focus on the family and marriage so today is designated family and marriage enrichment sunday now this is just a precursor um for june which is family month and so we are using today um to help to wet the appetites so that june it will be bigger and greater and so we have specially invited um all the spouses of our married folks to be here with them today and so i am very conscious that a number of persons have come you have made the effort to be here and we are very very happy to have you and so i would like now to ask that we just entertain a little bit of restructuring these chairs in front here have been placed in pairs for our couples and so we are now going to ask that if one couple one person sitting over there and the other one just bring your partner and please occupy um these cheers up front is that understood hello right so if you are not yet sitting with your spouse just bring your spouse and occupy the seats that are specially provided for you please come now am i clear i just have to ask because it doesn't seem like all right let me let me let me put it a little way if you are here and you are married and your husband or your wife is here and you are not seated together or wherever you are seated we have seats prepared for you so just come now okay okay okay come sir bring your wife lead the way for me seeing that the others don't understand [Music] [Music] while we are finalizing that yes sister rosie lead the way for me just scare them and go on amen i want us to recognize that we we have bolstered our our music department today because we have two visiting musicians sharing with us and you're going to hear them in very very fine style in a short while all right so persons are finalizing their arrangements thank you so very much i will be coming back to you in short order but in the meantime sister richards could you please carry on for me [Music] shall we praise the lord shall we praise him [Music] praise god right this time sister shanika baron will come in with a special item [Music] hmm [Music] let us continue to worship the lord we praise the name of jesus come on church worship god praise the lord praise the lord praise the lord praise the name of jesus praise the name of jesus we celebrate love today praise god and it is coming from god it's a wonderful thing praise god praise the name of jesus the blood that jesus shed for me [Music] way back on [Music] it is the blood that gives me strength for all day today it's [Music] again the blood that jesus shed for me it was way back on oh the blood that gives me strength [Music] is [Music] is [Music] [Music] and calms my face it dries upon my teeth oh it's the blood that gives me strength [Music] is somebody said is [Music] take care of you [Music] through [Music] [Music] take god [Music] [Music] say is today [Music] i want the church to know that the same jesus that's taking care of us he shed his blood on calvary praise the name of jesus and the same jesus that shed that blood that blood will never lose its power praise the name of jesus if you know the blood not going to lose its power praise the name of jesus praise the name of jesus praise the name of jesus praise the name of jesus it's [Music] praise the lord praise the lord if you know that the blood will never lose its power let it hear you praise the name of jesus come on church let me hear you praise him praise god it's time right this time i will be calling on our first lady sister eventually to greet the church shall we praise the lord shall we lift up holy hands and magnify the king this morning hallelujah church of god hallelujah hallelujah the blood that jesus shed on calvary it will never church of god lose its power and there's something that is so special about the blood it was not just blood his blood this morning washes the sins of everybody inside here so is blood it's so precious and there's a nice word that we use to describe the blood efficacious blood so it's not ordinary blood it is extraordinary let me see you lift your hands and praise the lord this morning hallelujah hallelujah today is our lady sunday and we want to welcome you this morning to this hour ladies day if you notice some persons are in white because it speaks to purity and that's one of the color that we use in ladies ministry in the new testament church of god there are some colors that we use purple gold and white and so we want to celebrate you this morning those of you are wearing your white you're looking lovely not that the others are not because you're all looking lovely red and white and all of the mixed color put your hands for yourself this morning you are looking beautiful boy no club thank you thank you clap yourselves man hallelujah i am tempted to pray but i'm going to just be bringing the greeting because this look like some of us not so into it but this morning you must be excited when it comes to the things of god church of god so any other spirit this morning that is sitting in here we discharge it in the name of jesus no uninvited guest this morning so we speak to all the spirits and i church of god we are here to praise god hallelujah [Music] oh holy ghost we welcome you we welcome you so we dispel every other spirit couples here looking lovely the devil don't like family you know that hey but this morning as a church we welcome we applaud you family and those who are here with their babies the bible tells us about that procreation and it's good that you take them back into the house of the lord to give them it's scriptural energy just that and so we welcome you to this morning we want to give god thanks for the president sister curlew sister carlos stan let them see you sister riley powell stan let them see you sister hurry stand let them see you these are the ladies put your hands together for them these are the ladies behind the woman's ministry at the lynn state new testament church of god you may be seated ladies i want to welcome sister sam wells our speaker you'll hear about her some more and her chauffeur er i'm a bearer er prior person it's good when you have somebody who will travel with you to do business for god the lord bless you my darling yesterday a group of ladies went out single save and satisfied i want to applaud them all a single save and satisfied who went out yesterday evening to enjoy yourself in fine dine and style stand for me please so that the church can see oh my god look at them radiantly dressed nice show them up on the camera and i can tell you about one sister she said coming to church tomorrow because i know i would be enlighted i like them they went out yesterday afternoon and they had a good time and to god be the glory and there's another group the young woman's ministry sister pantry is the leader may i ask all the young women's ministry persons in the house of god to stand just now i'm looking anybody from the exec thank you sister andrade god bless you my darling sister poet anybody god bless you god bless you put your hands forget together for them god bless you you may be seated so ladies and gentlemen as we continue to support the seniors my god sister hunter the senior citizens put your hands together for them too as we continue to worship the lord may i encourage you to give up your give of your best to him because the scripture declares only what is done for christ will last and because god is a faithful god he honors faithfulness may i just ask you don't just close your eyes everybody father we bow before you in obedience to your holy spirit god hey there is no like unto you so we stand in your presence this morning one more time to give honor to you we asked you over gabor that as you encircle this place from pulpit to pew pew and back every heart every cheer god we speak to discouragement this morning we speak to despair we speak to despondency because you're a god of cheer you're a god of love and you're a god of mercy your god who ordained family and so this morning in this service we know you are present we know god because you are our god so we ask you just no lord as we continue to worship you we come against every plan of the adversary god everything that is until you we rebuke it we discharge it we dismiss it and we dispel it in no other name but the name of jesus and so lord all praise and the glory and honor we bring it up to you and the people of god say and the people of god say and the people of god say continue to worship the lord is now a very special time in our service we here at commodore we be the hand of god extended to our community folks and to all who the lord would lead us to be partakers with and so we have some very special persons in church this morning they are here to dedicate their babies and this is the time that we do so may i now ask a praise team to raise that lovely song for us and we ask those who are here to dedicate their babies that you come forward please jesus [Music] [Applause] me for i will receive them and hold them into those for the little children foreign how kind was i saved children [Music] thank you so so very much praise team for that wonderful wonderful episode that just ushers us into something beautiful we have with us today parents god parents friends well wishers maybe grandfathers and grandmothers and our officers are just standing behind which is a show of solidarity and support i want to say to you all welcome to your father's house welcome to the new testament church of god that you have chosen to come and to dedicate your children we are so so happy that you have come and of course i would want to make very special mention of the fathers that are here with their children today let me see the father's just raise your hand right yeah man you're proud daddy man raise your hand man amen so one two three oh four forefathers are here no feeling over here all right never mind but but it is a great feeling having these men as they have come to support their children's mother at this very special moment in time men you have done well you have done well and especially to all of you i'd want to say to you now you are welcome to return to us even if it's not baby dedication you are welcome to be a part of this church family whenever you choose to visit amen so please an open invitation has been extended to you this morning all right so let us do for you what you want us to do for you what you're doing today has biblical foundations and like sister reed had said before that hannah is one of those mothers that has exemplified the fact that she has faith in god where the life of her child is concerned and so she brought samuel into the house of the lord for eli to bless that child and that's what you are doing today and so i commend you for your act of faith these children that the lord has blessed you with they are not just commodities but these are human beings that have been placed in your care and you have the responsibility according to scripture to grow them up in the fair and the admonition of the lord and so you you can call on us for spiritual support and i'm sure that some of your the god parents and the grandparents will be able to help you in growing up these children in the right and proper way but you as parents have the first responsibility and so i'm going to ask you a few questions and if you are in agreement if you are pledging to ensure that these children are brought up in the fear of the lord you will answer accordingly is that understood all right here is the first question in the sight of god and in the presence of these weaknesses do you as parents god parents grandparents solemnly promise to bring up your child in the fear of the lord if you're in agreement all you have to do is to say we do do you promise mothers and fathers to endeavor to lead your child to accepting jesus christ as personal savior and lord and that's where many of us come in to help you but we are partnering with you and if you are in agreement all you have to say is we do all right i'm going home with you now do you rededicate your home to the lord as a place of christian environment in which the spiritual nature of your child may grow and mature if you are in agreement all you have to say is we do praise god i'm going to ask you to turn around to the congregation now and many members of the congregation would know you and so i asked the congregation do you members of this church receive these children in the name of the lord jesus and promise to be father mother brother sister and friend to them if you are in agreement as members of this church all you have to do is to stand and say stand please if you are in agreement in the name of the lord jesus christ we do go ahead praise god thank you jesus all right i'm going to ask you to turn back around here for me praise god um get the olive oil olive oil parents had it not been for the period we are in i would have taken your child from you and to hold up that child and to pronounce a blessing but we have to be smart people all right and so i'm going to ask you to hold your child but i am going to pray on behalf of these children is that all right good amen i wonder if i could actually daddy say just take the baby man dick come on hold your daughter man oh yes sir yes yes wonderful oh boy this looks good i'll step forward to video with proud fathers these man yes daddy come come come here sir man wonderful all right these are blessings in your lives and you want everybody to know that you are proud of your blessing and you are thanking god for your blessing amen i'm gonna pray praise god all right we know how that goes let us pray a gracious god or a kind loving eternal father we come to you in the name of jesus this morning lord we are thanking you for the privilege of having these parents and their children in the sanctuary here at commodore lord you have blessed them in that you have provided the means by which they could get here in order to dedicate their children lord we thank you for opening doors for your children and now lord we raise them up before you lord we are committing these children into your hands at this time these children lord have come into this world at a very difficult time they have come into this world wherein we are experiencing a pandemic that we have never seen before but lord we are confident that even in the midst of this pandemic you can cover these children with the blood of jesus christ and you can protect them from all harms accidents and dangers lord we pray that they will not be victims of the circumstances but they will grow up as victors these children lord we raise them up before you today and we ask that you will lay your hands upon them and that you will bless them scripture tells us that children were brought to you you laid your hands upon them and blessed them and that's what we are believing is happening right now in the name of jesus father we pray that even as they grow that they will grow before you as tender plants they will grow up and they go through the various phases of their educational life we pray from now lord that you will allow them oh god to be able to grow up as useful men and women of this society lord keep your hands upon them and let not the enemy have dominion over these children we have lost so many children in this nation but today lord we claim these children for the kingdom of god in the name of jesus christ father thank you now and continue to do for them what must be done that not even the parents can do because you are god bless these children now i pronounce a blessing upon them and i pronounce that as of today they are blessed and eternally dedicated in the name of god the father god the son and god the holy spirit and the people of god say amen praise the name of the lord all right we want to thank you again for coming thank you for participating in the services and i see that you are all looking forward for the best of your children and you have all the support you need from us here god bless you um i'm going to ask you for sure just to allow the the the names to be taken did you give your we will be providing the dedication certificates and you will get something that will show that today on the 13th day of february 2022 your child was blessed and dedicated amen so the final act i'm going to ask you this is pure undiluted good i'm going to ask you daddy just to yes just to rub the foreheads of your of your child as an act of dedication in the name of jesus praise god that you stretch with your hand you want a handful that's all right come on sir just stretch your hand wonderful have i covered all praise god god bless you richly yeah man and i like that daddy your wife to respond your head good you're doing well god bless you thank you so very much you may return to your seat and continue enjoying the rest of the day's service god bless you god bless you god bless you my brothers and sisters we are back with you again and when i say we you know who the next person is we are here with you we want to help to reinforce the fact that god has placed a very high premium on families and if he has done so all we have to do is to ensure that we continue to raise up families before almighty god and we do so today this being our family and marriage enrichment sunday i really just want to welcome all who have responded to the invitation to be here and you are here today because the lord wanted you to be here amen and this invitation that was sent out it's not just for members of the church but the church family generally and there may be persons here who have never um come by in a service of this nature before we certainly want to welcome you and sister reed and i we are using the opportunity now to share just a few things with you as we seek there is an slot here with expressions of love and we have thought about it very long and hard that if we are able to just allow couples to understand the many things that god has in store for them and the formulas that should be used for success then we will have a better church we'll have better family lives we'll have a better society because that's where the breakdown has taken place but today we seek to start to rebuild that foundation and early on i was speaking with um sister robinson sister robinson did say to me that her husband would be coming shortly and sir we are seeing you now and we welcome you we welcome all of you so so so very very special amen whether you are members of the church or not you are in your father's house and you have a right to be here amen praise god so sister reed and i we are going to share with you the theme of today's service do you want to remind us of the theme sister reed together forever and a song comes to my heart love me forever and we will never part or love together so those couple you can just turn to your spouse just now and say yeah mon i like that sister together for ever say it stronger we should hear you know together forever nobody have a look at a woman all right together forever all right so we're going to continue forever maintaining healthy marital relationships we're very sure that some of the things we're going to say you have been practicing but guess what nothing beats reinforcement and so we're just going to reinforce today and can i be truthful to you wife and usborne if you feel like chips your wife or your husband just do it marriage is honorable scripture declares that and the bed is on defile that's the word of god wonderful all right so in short order we're going to try to just um throw three six ideas for maintaining healthy marriage relationships one continue to date each other wow and i'm sure that many persons here will agree with me that before marriage dating sparked various emotions when you see that person that you want to get to know a little better and more so for that person to become your life partner then you care for that person and you give a lot of attention eh and the time spent with each other seems so valuable and priceless therefore [Music] as husband and wife dating is encouraged do you agree with me as husband and wife dating is encouraged and yes we would want persons to understand that this wonderful relationship that we are sharing that it was ordained and created by god and so it is nothing to be ashamed of but rather we should be very proud of it do you remember when you were dating mrs yes i do anything you remember yes i have and you want to tell us all right our lives our dating time period was so very interesting we would always call each other and one of the things we would never end not one time without praying even if somebody fall asleep on the phone but we would never end a conversation without praying and one other thing that resonates with me and is that every time my to be came for me he would always come out and open the door for me to enter the car i never forget even though it continues up until now the door and it appalled the persons at my workplace they were saying miss me never see a man like this the mechanic still exists but he exists and thanks be to god wonderful and you enjoyed your dating period didn't you yes because boy every dm is only for food chinese food all right and so even after marriage we have not stopped dating but you know i wanted to throw in something here our son marvin is here and and can i tell you that the first day that i i was going to visit my 2b didn't even know where she was living so i called her and i said i i'm planning to visit and so please give me directions as to how to find your house and she gave the phone to marvin and it was marvin that directed me to find the house and he only had to do it once you know never have to do it again i was able to find my way every time thereafter marvin and natalie good to have you in service with us today wonderful all right the second thing is pillow talk anybody here know what we talk about pillow talk yes you see we have to live together we have to sleep together so we go to bed together right and so pillow talk tell us about pillow talk now there well our pillar talk is a bit different because i don't bring stresses into my bedroom i don't all the sad story and negativity have to stay on the outside so i always cuddle and my husband liked a big kiss so he's going to tell her that want me to kiss and you know sometimes even when i would forget or go on like a forget you're going to get that but we talk about the things of god which is ultimate in our lives and when we are through a lot of plans most of the accomplishments is when we are aligned together are traveling together and can i tell you it works because most time when we travel or when we are together lying down and we tease each other because sometimes something like a funny things that can't even talk outside you're just saying your thing say and you think say are we fun and laugh so we go to bed well we go to bed and one of the things we have planned we never go to bed with a disagreement so we don't go to bed angry and and that should not be practiced so we are always off well i fall asleep before pastor so we go off pleasant wonderful and that has scriptural base because scripture says we should never allow the sun to go down on our wrath and more so as couples we should never never allow that to happen all right she she see a point here that she's going to share with you but she's laughing already all right so play table games you have to play with your spouse right and i see sister robinson around here yes sending few nice messages to to mr robinson and he's just absorbing it i saw eating forgot here man keep it going amen wonderful i know she's your energy energizer you know i know she's your energizer bunny amen duracell battery that never runs out amen so we play table games together and i i marvin and natalie myself and my wife almost every opportunity we get we play games so we're going to play dominoes we're going to play ludi we're going to play scrabble and and some other names card games that we don't play too often but marvin loves a a hard game of looting my god if a man can kill people but i'm sympathetic to him yes anything you can do to save his mother he does it but if his mother ever kill him once then the process is started but listen me couples spend quality time together it is not only times of intimacy that you get together with your spouse but rather create an atmosphere of togetherness of love of appreciation for each other laugh at each other sometime yes make fun at each other because certainly that will help to just set a shock absorber in place so that when difficult times you'll find an opportunity to even laugh are we still having church today amen because you see we are helping to set a foundation for those who are planning to get married that you don't get married and just start feel boredom but you must enjoy your spouse that's the gift of god to you and you must enjoy each other's company no my dear wife is going to speak on tell them what you're going to talk about no number four this one says touch each other as often as possible i must confess pastor as a toucher amen sometimes my mind is in heaven eh and i'm just i'm like jesus man i never you know but that's that's why i was laughing pasta and it's very busy pasta is not as fast obvious at home and he will he will [Applause] say that again yeshua and he will openly tell you i'm your husband i am not pastor at home i'm pastor at church but i'm your husband at home so that is why i was laughing i'm busy sometimes he said jesus you know but wonderful and even now i have to touch her all right but what does this do touching shows intimacy and can give each person an enormous sense of belonging a sense of peace and a sense of well-being when when you touch your spouse it it affirms attention and attractiveness for each other amen so don't refuse to touch your hands we touch touch touch your spouse we we must be able to express our love for each other in many ways because that will ultimately lead to satisfaction all right give verbal bouquet you know what a bouquet is and every lady loves to receive a bokeh and so i'm saying to the men in the house give your wives verbal bouquets don't wait only for very special moments like birthdays and anniversary and christmas to give those bookies but if you give those bouquets uh regularly then i am telling you husbands it is going to cause the hearts of your wives to be warm towards you hello [Music] and you never can tell you may be rewarded for those bouquets so let me say this it's an expression of affection and appreciation verbally to each other in an effective way when you when you affirm your spouse you are saying you are looking so good today well as you tell your wife that all right you don't have to answer but when your wife gets ready to go out whether on a date or to work or anywhere listen amen just look at your wife before somebody else out the street tell her that can i tell you she need to hear it at home before somebody else out there see her and tell her so because the next person out there you know have ulterior motives talk to us church lord i wish i could talk to you today but when you do it many times when i tell my wife how well she is looking and how nice she is today and when she go to the street around somebody tell her says she look good let me she's gonna tell you what she tell them i was told at home my husband did tell me ah good i wonder if you'll get the juice man yeah do it at home so that it won't become his music to our ears oh dear but rather the music is right brother robinson amen yes man all right good you you you you have to use loving names before i move on before i move on use loving names for your spouse find a nice name for your spouse man not just ivan ivan ivan and grace and grace and grayson no man you can't do better than that everyone lemon all right so what name you have for your husband now marvin okay i always have to say honey or darling our baby sometimes i said no when i mischievous because something like we have a different kind of relationship sometimes as a pastor i want and he said no man no more and sometimes you know when i called some other name amy said put something on that man somebody have a change and say honey i'm baby and then he said no you're talking [Applause] come on listen to me this is my partner for my life and so we have to make life interesting yeah man and so for me honey is darling is sweetheart sometimes i say plum plum sweetie pie i mean just nice updating yeah is your spouse so make her feel ah wonderful and so therefore these verbal bokehs are important all right we'll talk about that a little more time all right so the last one now [Music] make time to talk about each other know once each other day to day experiences now up to yesterday i was sharing with the ladies and i they they crack because the truth is we have a unique thing we don't call i can tell you once i remember i was angry about something and when i said honey i am saying we're not going down that road and i paused and i said all right put me one can go down the road so it might as well me turn back somebody just re rethink about it and every reason and we have never we don't leave and i said it to the ladies yesterday person said titan tongue must meet enough aquarium believe me you can have difference in opinion but you respect each other that i accept what you see and what you think and we move on because we don't quarrel it's my son there and and and and we live in his presence because it passed i was squatting with me you know and i'm quieting it past i wouldn't be together marvin said would take me back home right but the truth is we make fun with life and i would encourage partners joke about the things reason it respectfully yes so we do that but i can tell you pastor is the better one of it and i thank god for him right pastor you're the better one and i love you so much oh my god yes it's because his church was a pastor because sometimes he said my youth we live like that yeah my youth i mean i'll pass manchester and say hey you don't know say you know but i'm happy for that kind of a life because i can be myself around my spouse and so to god be the glory thank you so very much just to close understand that you make time to talk about these things because they are important to each other you she just said each other's day-to-day experiences ask your wife how was your day today ask your husband how was your day today because sometimes it's rough all day no and boy you have some kind of experience right brother iris well sometimes sit and fall down and bust up your finger and by auntie rosie after turn nurse when you reach one so express your interest in the next person um you should also seek to help your partner to achieve his or her ambitions what are the things you would like to achieve can i help you in achieving those and the needs the needs that will become obvious and some that may not be very obvious seek out those needs and help to respond to them and when your partner achieves um listen me you must be your partner's cheer cheerleader so tell your personal good i'm proud of you i'm happy for you i thank god for you and i will change you for nobody else in the world and do it without attitude to man yeah listen me i would not trade you for nobody else in this world [Music] [Music] shall we praise the lord praise the lord we will be now blessed with a musical item the tubes [Music] um [Music] hello [Music] we can live together there love will be your home [Music] we can live together [Music] me [Music] is [Music] [Music] hello [Music] thank you so very much my brothers and sisters i must tell you the word of god is true and sure [Music] and if god gives you a partner and if we continue a relationship with him he will show you he will teach you how to keep that partner it's like you have a crystal vase in your house you're going to have selected place where you put it we're not going to put it anywhere so that just about anybody can bounce it so it is with your spouses put them at places in your heart where they are so secured so kept so loved so cherished every time you think every move you make think about that person and i can tell you there's a key ingredient for marriages respect your partner comes what may never talk down to your partner respect that person every step of the way and you know what that union will grow support your partner every step of the way and the union will go and go god bless you thank you so very much all right we are getting out of the way but i've just received information that there is another baby who apparently came late to be dedicated could you quickly bring that child and let us do what you have come to do and couples couples we ask of you immediately after service don't run away because on the adjoining building we would like to have you there all the couples i'm going to ask you kindly to join us upstairs mr reed and i we want to share something more with you that we don't want you to leave is that understood please please please let us meet immediately after service as you come mother i remember when jacob was about i mean um was about to bless his sons not jacob as jacob and esau are the sons isaac isaac was about to bless his sons and when when he blessed the first one and the second one come he said but let me give you everything already but we have reserved a little for you all right thanks for coming to commodore to dedicate your child is this child to be dedicated also so he's not one but two all right so today church seven babies are being dedicated all right so just hold the child there i will not be able to take them father here are two mothers that have walked to this altar in faith believing that what you have done for the other five you will be able to do it for these two we know that you're a god who cares and is concerned about the welfare of children and that was demonstrated in scripture and lord these two mothers have come now with their children to be dedicated we ask of you lord that you will stretch down your wounded hand and you will bless these children let these children experience a presence of god in their lives even from their infancy we know lord that even as samuel was left in the temple at jerusalem that he grew up before you and when the time came that he should recognize you as lord you spoke to him and he was directed as to how to respond we accept these mothers and those that are not here will be able to help these children to grow up in the fear of the lord and that when the time comes when they should be smart enough to be able to decide between good and evil they will choose good and it's god and the devil they will choose god so lord bless these children now we pray and we here we refer to them now as we raise them before you blessed and dedicated in the name of god the father god the son and god the holy spirit and the church of god say amen hold right there for me as an act of faith yes praise god thank you just stretch this is pure undiluted don't you worry it won't hurt your child right oh she's etching out her hand too wonderful just anoint your child as an act of blessings the point of dedication the lord bless you richly and we will collect the names and the documents for them and provide the dedication certificate praise god shall i bless the lord shall we bless the lord it's time now for to worship in tights and offering you we will follow the instruction of our hushes we will sing m235 235 no freedom from my sorrow i found but jesus came and listened to me glory jesus i am jesus is [Music] me foreign oh [Music] is he set me jesus jesus oh is jesus jesus jesus praise the lord [Music] richard williams will bless the offering for us amen bow your heads while i pray most righteous and lasting father we come before you another time lord we give you thanks at this moment for that which you have blessed your people with oh lord thank you o god almighty for your provision and even lord as we have given the portion of which the spirit these i ask in your mercies in jesus name amen bless the lord our first lady she'll be coming to introduce our guest speaker but before she comes sister sean graham will give us a special item [Applause] praise the lord praise god when i'm low in the spirit i cry lord leave me for i want to [Music] but the lord knows i can't wait on the mountain so we picked up [Music] jesus needs me [Applause] [Music] me [Music] here we are [Music] is [Music] me [Applause] [Music] is is me my [Music] i don't know any of you here ever had a valley experience [Music] valley experience of family friends loved one they beat upon you they hate you they hurt you they do all manner of things to you it's a valley experience [Music] me me [Music] up to me [Music] in the fun in the valley [Music] so [Music] hallelujah [Music] [Music] [Music] [Music] there is restoration until people there's restoration in the valley oh hallelujah glory to god hallelujah [Music] [Music] oh thank you lord hope in the valley hey [Music] is [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] thank you jesus [Music] hallelujah [Music] in the valley in the in the valley [Music] [Applause] hey [Music] [Music] praise the name of jesus [Music] after my holy spirit [Music] [Music] [Music] [Music] [Music] [Music] so [Music] [Music] [Applause] glory be to god thank you jesus [Music] hallelujah praise the wonderful name of jesus he's a rock hallelujah i stand just now i stand just now to introduce to us our days speaker and i'm so happy that that song was sung and mystery took place so hearts are ready now to receive the word of god sister christine samuels i must tell you she's my mentee [Music] i'm her mentor yes we have a national mentorship program with ministers wives all across the island of jamaica to which i am the chairperson and so i have the responsibility to mentor ministers wives and blessings sister christina fall the individual one while i do the others too from a distance she's a woman of god who is passionate about holistic development she has been saved over 10 years and has served her local church in port antonio in various ministries including women's ministries children's ministry youth and evangelism to name a few sister christina is a worker always promoting things she serves alongside her husband reverend elvis samuels who is currently the associate pastor at the mandeville new testament church of god she's also a mother of a dynamic some son who she loved dearly sister christina is a voice for the no she has been graced by god to be an advocate and mentor for women exhorting them to rise above all odds and live a purpose-driven lives she strongly believes that all women can arise above everything that challenges them and break free from whatever holds them captive she lives her life daily with this these words i am not what i have been through and i would not live as or like what i have been through christine is passionate about marriage and family advancement christine also has a passion for male development and find fulfillment in their service and submission to the work and worship of christ she seeks to please none other than god and the scriptures is what guides her life i know invite you to stand please everybody as we make welcome sister christine samuels put your hands together and maker god bless you god bless you sister christine hallelujah hallelujah hallelujah hallelujah somebody worship god hallelujah somebody lift your hands and give god a praise in this place come on somebody just lift your voice with me and worship our all-powerful all-knowing omnipotent appreciate god hallelujah lord we worship you in this place god lord we bow down and we acknowledge your lordship in this place god lord we stand against every plan of the adversary evil no lord even though we take a stand and we pull down every stronghold in this place god lord we bind our principalities and we bind our powers even though god will speak against every altar lord we speak against every spirit lord every demonic force lord we pull them down even though lord we crumple and paralyze the hands of the adversary lord we must shop oh god every plan lord we tear down lord we must god every plan of the adversary lord with this monk oh god lord we rebuke the devourer oh god we trample lord we pull it down in the name of jesus christ lord every unseen eyes lord rendered and powerless in the name of jesus christ lord we stand firm lord we are the warriors that are income addressed lord god almighty we are the warriors oh god in the name of jesus oh god even though lord we pull down every stronghold in this place god oh god we worship you the old suffering god the omnipotent god the omniscient one [Music] of heaven god we stand against every attack lord you render every spirit powerless in the name of jesus lord god almighty lord love everything that comes to hinder your words this morning god lord will pull them down in the name of jesus lord lord given us the authority to burn in unto us and even more lord that we speak against everyone all god that will enter your word this morning lord god almighty every rich we speak to them every result we speak to them all proud we stand oh god we stand against every plot of the enemy our blood and come and lord lord to enjoy your world lord we raise your blood in the name of jesus and we pull them down oh god we render them powerless oh yes you are i render you powerless powerless this morning all but in the name of jesus oh god lord we stand because you have given us the power for god to blind and to loose and even more i sent back to the center oh god you cannot stop the world of almighty god this morning i stand firm because i am planted by the reverse yes you knew i was coming but i was prepared oh god i'm ready for you oh god lord we put them down in the name of jesus oh god we honor you we honor you our suffering our god we worship you king of king the conquering lion of the tribe of judah oh god almighty the god who parted the white sea sister that don't understand what i'm talking about all god's done my sister's son in the spirit oh god they don't understand it oh god we don't want nowhere flying oh god we're not gonna we are blind oh god hallelujah oh god almighty lord we worship you sovereign god oh god we honor you you are god in this place and even now lord with the clear of blessing over the family is here this morning oh god almighty those that are struggling financially god lord we bring the word over their life this morning lord god almighty those that the enemy have been giving them trouble lord we speak a word oh god over their life this morning those that their children have been giving them trouble we speak a word over their life this morning and we command them to arise and stand all god stand firm in the will of almighty god oh god we worship you hallelujah master of the world oh god somebody please and sister salome and mike oh god so she can help the praise and worship team greetings commodore new testament church of god otherwise known as linsted greetings greetings greetings hallelujah you have done well to come into your father's house this morning hallelujah mighty god i am pleased to see that the people of commodore are ready for worship i am pleased to see oh god bishop that those here at commodore they are armed oh god they stand firm oh god in the spirit river lord god rest you have a support down here lord god ravel you don't see them all the time oh god what you have a support system down here they have your back you don't need to see them but they are here oh god almighty lord god what a church this is this morning okay that will trouble me lord jesus oh trouble me this morning oh glory lord jesus lord we pulled on in the name of jesus holy spirit god even know lord we release a blessing over the praise and worship team god oh god almighty lord these are the days when we find diluted worshipers can i say you may be seated if you can can i say praise them red you have a wonderful wonderful prayers team hallelujah when i came in early and i heard the worship i was in oh my god what a worship these people know how to worship god wonderful give your heart give your praise team a round of applause hallelujah say to you stay at the fruit of almighty god oh god praise is a weapon stay at the feet of almighty god pray esteem hallelujah one of the most powerful or one of the powerful ministries in the church is the praise and worship team once you have a powerful praise and worship team you are all set to do ministry and so we give god thanks to these persons who have dedicated their lives to god and i'll encourage you do not dilute do not oh god almighty pull down that standard hallelujah you are utter place in god hallelujah greetings once again greetings hallelujah what a awesome god we serve hallelujah what a awesome god we serve let me use this opportunity to greet your host pastor and bishop reverend reed greetings man of god greetings oh god almighty he is a warm warm servant of almighty god and we give god thanks to him put your hands together and give your pastor a clap hallelujah we give god thanks for your ministry i'm humbled to be here in your congregation this morning hallelujah and i also must acknowledge the presence of this wonderful woman of god lady reed hallelujah somebody give it up for your first lady hallelujah oh god almighty she's the driving force that stands behind the man of god greetings one of the woman of god i am so delighted to be here this morning and as she had said earlier that she is my mentor in pastoral ministry and i am so grateful she's a wonderful woman of god a woman who is filled with love i cannot over emphasize that hallelujah as an intercessor you are able to know people and their personality and so i am being i am blessed to know this woman of god hallelujah greetings to all the officers and their spouse greetings members family friends greetings hallelujah god is a good god and we give god thanks what a mighty god we serve hallelujah your theme today is together forever hallelujah no the lord has given me a word for you hallelujah and when i started to ponder in fact when i heard the theme i said wow this is a beautiful team together forever and i was i was so excited when i heard this steam and i started to because i love speaking and marriage and family and so forth and so something left in my spirit and so i was thinking about the theme and you know excited and so forth but then when the lord began to carry me and carried me down the journey i was saying oh lord my god lord what a word this morning and so the lord oh my god have a word for you because in these days hallelujah when we think about the family my god almighty so much is happening with the family these days and we realize that not only that so much is happening we realize that people these days they begin to change hallelujah what god had intended or what god created and called the family these days you find that male with another male and society is calling that a family women with another women women with women and the society is calling that a family but this morning as we think about staying together forever i want to say to us that the only one that can keep us together is god almighty amen is nothing nothing about us it's only god that can keep our families together there is a statistic that has been released in the media since the pandemic and it speaks of the divorce rate well the divorce rate the divorces that have been applied for and so on and the numbers high among the christian believers and then we will wonder what is happening to our families in the church but the lord gave me a word and the lord said to tell my people to build back the altar in the families hallelujah this might not be the word that you want but it is the word that you need because only god alone know what you need hallelujah i was so excited and started to bubble up in my spirit when i i think about starting to talk to the married people and you know maintaining in their marriage relationship you know the wife being the wife and just being nice and all of these things because you know as wife when we're ready we can't just be nice to story just demonstrate that appear because we're cute and when the husband they square their shoulder and we speak to them i'm speaking their spirit sister and you know we stretch their ego and they feel like the man in the house i was getting ready oh god almighty to touch down but before i get there let me speak to our general general family lord says that we should build back the altars in the family turn your bibles with me and go to genesis chapter 2 and we will read verses 7 we will skip over to verse 18 and then down to 21 through to 25 and it reads and the lord god for man of the dust of the groan and breathe it into his nostrils the breath of life and man became a living soul and the lord god said verse 18 it is not good that the man should be alone i will make him and help me it for him another translation said i will make a help me it suitable for him verses 21 to 25 and the lord god caused a deep sleep to fall upon adam and he slept and he took one of his ribs and close up the flesh instead thereof and the rib which the lord god had taken from man made he woman and brought her unto the man and adam said this is no bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh she shall be called woman because she was taken out of a man therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother and shall cleave unto his wife and they shall be one flesh somebody say one flesh one flesh one flesh hallelujah our god and they were both naked and the man and his wife were not a shame this is the word of almighty god father we give you thanks for your words this morning almighty god father we know your words they are already anointed lord i pray holy spirit that god even know you will cause your words to go forth with power and with clarity lord anoint your servant one more time to speak though set god without fear or without favor lord i place my body oh god i place my mouth lord i place my voice into your hands this morning god and lord i say speak oh god through this oracle this morning almighty god lord i stand ready to declare your words almighty god father i pray that god you'll anoint your servant from the crown of her head and to the soul of her very feet lord god i thank you this morning almighty god that god you chose me for this job lord i thank you almighty god that god you knew that god you are able to trust me to deliver this word holy spirit almighty god i stand ready to declare your words lord cause your word to fall oh god let it fall on good soil this morning oh god almighty lord let your people not only be hearers of your words but god do be doers of your words almighty god father we thank you for those gathered here this morning lord i pray that your word will go through oh god almighty and will pierce the heart lord it is your words that bring forth change and transformation almighty god lord you told us in your words that god you spoke and things came into existence almighty god and so that you have given us god the authority to speak and so lord as i speak oh god on your behalf this morning almighty god oh god calls your word oh god to soak in your people's spirit oh god almighty cause your word oh god to accomplish that which you have sent it to accomplish this morning almighty god oh spirit of the living god we thank you oh god almighty have your way in this place this morning almighty god lord let somebody oh god let somebody receive from you this morning almighty god minister to a soul this morning in the name of jesus christ hallelujah oh god we thank you thank you lord now as we heard this morning the theme that was given uh god almighty is together forever now when we think about a family being together forever we think about words or scriptures such as as for me and my host we will serve the lord a family that prays together stays together for this cause shall a man leave his father and his mother and be joined oh god to his own wife and the two shall become one flesh hallelujah these are few things oh god almighty that we think about when we hear hallelujah for together forever hallelujah as a family my god now these are the days we find that families in the church are drifting apart for various reasons some of which are ridiculous i would say these days we find that everyone wants to do their own things oh god almighty these days nobody want to answer to nobody may make one big man me my own bigger man oh god everyone hallelujah nobody wants to embrace the principles of god anymore nobody wanna honor god through their lives oh god these are the days that we find believers compromising oh god almighty the standards and breaking down the principles that god had set no when we define the word family the word family is defined as if or as the foundational institution of society ordained by god it is constituted by marriage and is composed of persons related to one another by marriage blood or adoption hallelujah oh god almighty no if we as family desire to stay together forever hallelujah there are few things that each of us as individuals must do so the man has a task that he must do the woman also have a task that she must do and likewise the children have a task that they ought to do hallelujah the family is the phone is the fundamental institution of human society we see that in genesis when god created man and woman hallelujah and he said to them be fruitful and multiply the family is constituted by marriage hallelujah marriage is ordained by god and nobody else marriage is not ordained by society oh god and married mighty marriage must be between one male man and one female woman i say that because these are the days we find man calling themselves woman and woman calling themself man and so we must clarify that marriage is between a male man and a female woman and not anything else hallelujah marriage is characterized by leaving the authority structure of one's parents and joining together to form a new authority structure my god this is challenging for some persons because even though you find persons are married and you find that one party had not leave as yet the persons not to leave has not leave their parents they leave physically but spiritually they are still joined to their parents i say you'll find find trouble in their marriage because the either party whether the male or the female is well the male rather is still cleaving to his father's own soul hallelujah marriage is a covenant before god between a same male man and female woman hallelujah god has commission and bless humanity oh yes he did with the charge to be fruitful and multiply and we find that society these days want to stop that by bringing about abortion oh god we stand against the plans of the enemy this morning hallelujah god has ordained our children be brought into the world only through the procreative activity of the husband and the wife and only to married parents hallelujah the ordinary the ordinary privilege and responsibility of married people is to have hallelujah and real children we see that in genesis hallelujah parents have the primary responsibility and god-given authority to teach their children somebody say amen hallelujah do we still teach our children hallelujah in these days oh god almighty parents responsible parents are responsible for their children's general education parents are responsible for their children spiritual and theological education and we can find that in deuteronomy 6 6-9 or proverbs 1 verse 7 o god almighty hallelujah lord we thank you oh god almighty as we speak on the family this morning i want for us to understand that family is god god ordained hallelujah these are the days when we find that families are in trouble for various various reasons we find that the man oh god almighty is not doing what the lord god has called him to do and we find that also the wife is not doing what god has created her to do oh god almighty a man oh god yes lord oh god must understand why his wife was created he should also understand that the lord gave to him a helper and not a maid oh god almighty and no i wouldn't get an aim in there oh god because we're afraid to speak on these things but i'll go there today the word helper in this context speak of so much more than oh we use it in these days and let me break that down for us the word helper in its hebrew language means easier hallelujah a helper oh god is the same word used of god six to six times in the scripture this easer hallelujah pronounced azer speaks of god's strength hallelujah power oh god and protection help being a rescuer hallelujah a woman is a helper and so is god hallelujah so the value that god places and a woman is far above what we give to women these days and i am not oh god almighty standing too much and the woman's groan because i am a female but when god created oh god almighty the woman the bible tells us that god after god created adam the lord and all that he created the lord looked on adam o god and said it is not good my brother for the man to be alone and so the lord said that he is going to create a health meet or a help mate oh god that is suitable for this man it means that the woman will come alongside this man not behind him not in front of him but will come beside this man and help him to fulfill his god-given purpose in our jamaican culture we define helper as a maid but can i pause here to say that in a jamaican context when we use the word helper it means made and a maid is a profession it means that it's something it's a it's a job that you do and you get paid for it just like janitors and teachers and doctors and so forth that's what made is in jamaica jamaican context but when we look at it from the biblical oh god context the in genesis and what god meant when he spoke about the helper the lord spoke about a woman oh god almighty will come alongside this man a woman sent an ardy and by god a woman that is anointed to help take this man vision to a whole new level a woman sent by god oh god to stand and watch over her husband a woman who comes oh god to bear food for this man that is the helper that almighty god speaks about hallelujah mighty god i also want to speak to the women because sometimes we get these things twisted a woman should also understand that she was created oh god to help her husband fulfill the god-given assignment upon his life and so if as a wife you have any other thought in your head about why god created you as a woman then you have been misled oh god almighty a wife should she this as an assignment oh god almighty with much of value because it is a divine task from almighty god these days we find that women are moving away from the principles and this is why we find so much trouble in our church in our homes because all women are now competing with our men our women no longer respect our men because they are highly educated i have nothing against education but as a woman when you find oh god almighty that you are educated you are strong you are powerful and you don't know how to subject our god almighty or submit to your husband may i say to you that you need to come down oh god almighty be careful the ground that you are treading on as a woman you are stepping out of god's will and into the will of the enemy and so hallelujah at this time i want to say to our men oh god gentlemen hallelujah god creates you as a man you are a protector you are a provider you are the priests of the host you are the one that god called oh god you in fact the word said that woman came out of man that's what the word of god said hallelujah and so men you are the one who god tasks oh god almighty to lead the whole soul oh god and these days we find that the men are compromising and running away from their places in the home oh god the men don't want to be the priests of the whole soul anymore that is why we find that in church oh god almighty we find more women than men in the church and not only that we know that the reason one of the other reasons for this is that our men they have been bruised from they are young oh god i'm going all over the place this morning but as a woman you are assigned to know and to understand how your husband should function and you ought to know when something is wrong whether the man is thinking straight or whether he's not thinking straight you ought to know as a woman oh god almighty that something is wrong with this man and that is why you are dear to bring this man to the level that god wants to take him oh god almighty i will say to us oh god almighty to build back the altar in our homes these are the days we find that everybody in church is busy we are busy with church where rev and story nothing is wrong with doing church work oh god almighty but when we find that the home is being neglected then we know that something is wrong sometimes we can be so distracted with doing church work that we are neglect our family and can i say to us that when we find ourselves going down that path something is wrong and we are to amend our ways in fact some of the women lord jesus i hope we don't have any of these women in here history some of our women we find that they will dress nice they will come to church and they will leave their spouse at home oh god unattended they will leave their home oh god almighty and kept they will leave their home with things not done whether the money is saved our e is not saved and we find that the men they are complaining they are having trouble because the wife is not fulfilling her duty in the home oh god and when i say duty i'm not talking about a woman who walk up and down and pick up the clothes and wash the dish and cook the food and doing that i'm talking about a woman of purpose who understand why god created her and a woman or god walks in integrity a woman who is anointed to help a man fulfill his god-given assignment so she would understand that her husband calling her husband ministry comes first lord jesus ladies your husband ministry is calling his job comes first oh god a bible may i teach let me say that again it doesn't mean oh god almighty that a woman was strong and powerful and wants to walk in in in integrity and all these things ought to neglect her calling it's not about that but it's a thank you sister read balance a woman who understands her calling oh my god my husband is a minister of the gospel i am also called to declare the gospel of almighty god but i don't compete with my husband there are times sister reid when i have to know that i have to step away from doing some things because my husband ministry must go on he's the head that's what god called him to be he's the one oh god almighty that should lead me sincerely before i get married oh god i ask god in fact i go to my husband and i asked him why you want me to ask him over and over because i need to know sister reid when i just get mad we dated for five years we're one years old with court for a couple years before we get married and i say to my husband oh god why do you want me i asked him these things story because i want to know that i can trust this man with my life because a strong anointed woman of god like me needs to know that i have a man oh god that when i let go of my life in his hand he is well able oh god to stand and to lead me and to lead the family of god where god wants us to lead it is not me competing with my husband when my husband makes the decision oh god i agree oh god because i pray for him the reason why some of you women can't agree it's because you don't pray for your husband it's because you don't pray and ask god to lead your man of god hallelujah sister read oh god almighty i was troubled before i got married because i said god oh god a 19 woman like me with so much vision oh god visions not to own one business my sister what businesses oh god almighty a woman with so much wisdom locked up inside of her ready to release i want to know the man that i'm getting married to oh god almighty so when he makes a decision says i don't have to worry because i know that he see god before he makes the decision for the family there is nowhere that i would not follow my husband to sister reid oh god almighty in fact oh god it was so hard for me to let go oh god are helping somebody today when i just get married all god's history i'm an independent young lady i was working from i am 16 years old oh god almighty and so just imagine me taking care of myself from a tender age man are you straight no other way may not wanna help but almighty god oh god and then a man to come beside me i'm used to paying the bills i am used to paying my own rent i am used to doing everything for myself but when a man come beside me it is time for him to take up his duty because as a man he is the provider and he is supposed to provide for the family he's supposed to take care of the family he's supposed to provide for me because i am his wife and so i was troubled my sister you're married yet oh god almighty oh god almighty lord jesus oh god senator a good good man oh god almighty senator good good man oh jesus my sister i was troubled in my heart because i wanted to know when i step aside for my husband to take his place i want to know that he's a good man and he can manage all god almighty to run the family like it's supposed to run oh god almighty when the bills is due what we are going inaudib do this is going dear and that is going away and i say all right baby i think that this can go over here so or something that is always supposed to be and so i was troubled because you can imagine me working for years rebel i know me figure put step aside oh god and allow the man to step up i was troubled i wrestled in fact i did not even know how to say honey i needed this because of the independence within me sister read and then i had to learn or to go on my knees and i said jesus you give me this man as the head but god i am fearful to release my life into this man's hand god can i trust this man oh god almighty to take care of my family oh god almighty ladies you know understand not to save lord jesus whoever want to get them see money are from lord jesus my god almighty lord guarded me to break through this afternoon i must deliver this word i was troubled since i've been working doing everything for myself and i did not know in fact the earlier part of my marriage i did not know how to say babe i needed i did not know because men are used to that we used to do it in doing it on my own with only the help of almighty god so when this good good nice nice sea of sanctified man of god come to take his place i did not know how to let go in fact i was wrestling oh god almighty with god because i did not know how to let go oh my god see swollen to this battle oh god almighty i was struggling because i said god i don't want things to drop oh god i am standing oh god and it's like a tagawa i said god i don't know if i can choose oh god almighty fully to let go of my life oh god almighty i don't know how to fully surrender everything oh god to this man oh god almighty i don't understand and i wrestled my sister until i started praying and i said god you send me this good good man oh god you must lead him oh god you must teach him oh god you must show him oh god so when he makes a decision in the house my sister i don't have to wonder i don't have to go back to god and say god something wrong with this and where did somebody come from because he seek god to make the decisions all for the family sistery there is nowhere that i would not go with my husband there is nowhere sister read oh god almighty if i don't have mocha i'm going with my husband because i trust him to lead the family you know why because the word of god tell me that the sincere prayer of a righteous man i feel it much so if i am a woman of god and man dear mean both male and female oh god if i a woman of god knows how to pray then god nothing answer my prayer sister god nothing teach oh god almighty god i have to help my husband oh god almighty to steer the family so that i can let go everything sister reed can i tell you from i let go my life in my husband's hand to lead the entire family oh god you don't know the woman i love jesus sister reid oh god almighty good good safety sweet oh god almighty lord jesus i am enjoying being the wife oh god almighty of reverend samuels oh god maybe he's watching and i must salute my husband this morning for being the good good good good man that he is oh god almighty my sister oh god almighty jesus it is a blessing me no worry my sister oh my god this one time oh god in my journey before i got married i struggle with bills oh god you ever been backed up in a corner where i get deals left right and center the range you and you know where money i come from oh god sister reed i don't have to worry about the rent oh god almighty and not understand oh god o kingdom women must live oh god almighty kingdom women for live life because we are loyalty oh god almighty tell me how the women out of the street oh god they are fine their bills are being paid oh god by the man some of them they have people mine but their bills are being paid but we in the kingdom oh god almighty we sit down like we're cute oh god almighty we sit down like we're cute oh god almighty and we don't know how to pray and ask god to send things our way my sister i like everything everything my sister lord jesus i can't tell you my sister has struggled caesar read the bills then it coming like a walk you know how you open me he call me like a bird in the lord jesus let me help some of these women sister instead of god and understand me oh god almighty sister read i saw the bills then they buy me jesus like a burden just a real medal just a real on sister real oh god but friendly man stepping up in life oh god where god's saying lord jesus sister read oh god almighty light light light like a feather oh god that is the life that god wants for us to live as women of god that know why we are grown us struggle and we stress and we full of burden oh god almighty and may i just say this it doesn't mean that i am not independent oh god because i have so much vision so much passion sometimes jesus when i start we load the visual name to me as well lord jesus mr dm you will support me now this be a bit more under this sister read everything he said go ahead go ahead go ahead go ahead oh god almighty go ahead go ahead i am talking about a god-sent man or god and when a woman understand how to step aside and make demand them wrong things oh god and i understand reverend read that sometimes we are married as women they are married to men who demand they don't know their head from their foot oh god almighty i understand ladies are sometimes we are troubled but ladies that's why you are there and you are not to miss your purpose because if he had no function then sister god has given you the authority and the power to pray and make the man head function oh god almighty these women don't know how to use up the authority if the man has sleep a word oh god i need not come in at night and he now come at church with you oh god almighty you ought to be wise women and this is why it now works history because some of us we are so foolish oh god almighty can i say that again you ought to be women of wisdom oh god so when the man oh god sister in our commune and he now come at [Music] lord jesus oh god almighty kingdom women fight physical battles all god kingdom women fight with wisdom oh god almighty sister oh god when you make love to the man you make sure say you make love the right way because you're competing with another woman can i get real up in this place oh god almighty red women they argue too much they argue too much lord jesus almighty god oh god i want this in a commander since that woman named mother the problem lord jesus a [Applause] week ladies you ought not to argue with your spouse oh god this is weird the proverbs 31 woman come in the wise woman oh god almighty oh sister lord jesus stand up oh god almighty the man may not come home but that is all right and sometimes people come and they remind you all god said the man i sleep out you know worry about it because the word of god said the sanctifier oh god almighty wife will sanctify oh god almighty the husband so sister when the man come in you make sure i said it already oh god almighty you make sure i said it because they wash oh god almighty lord jesus oh god oh god almighty somehow we're too nice and if we ever know the women they will tell you what whatever oh god we keep some men are they care they don't take care of them and they can't give somebody a girl them and they wash them lord jesus oh god almighty help me in this place this afternoon my sister sometime oh god almighty you have to know oh god almighty how to make love not bother me no people come come tell you know about that story tell them grand and wheels tell them say except god almighty oh god where we come from oh god and christian reed oh god sorry let me fix that up for some of the you know whether okay they don't know how to keep a man they don't know how to but they are giving advice oh god almighty sister lord jesus when the man the man gets trouble at jesus alone can't fix it i him alone have the answer oh god almighty lord jesus if we follow the holy spirit sometimes my sister the man the one place with the woman oh god anna and somebody called and tell you then you'll start blaze up oh god and which girl thought and i will under my christian you know read really can use the word there go for those who are to say this jamaican creole you know so um yes and it bless up inside there just go one side in one can i say lord in the name of jesus let fire touch him in the name of jesus while it was fire making one fun day oh god confuse them oh god made the woman make the woman run away sister oh god almighty and then the holy spirit just said to you oh god almighty my sister oh god just send him a nice picture lord jesus in the right witch my doom and day my sister and boobs and wife picture that come upon fool oh god understand how the holy ghost work oh god you want god no to teach you let god teach you how oh god almighty to fight all god's spiritual battles oh god for your spouse to come home you don't understand oh god almighty cook his best meal we're his favorite color oh god almighty and ensure that when you make love to your spouse he is well satisfied oh god almighty you're going to bed oh god and you're one and a man saying well i'm a club to you and sister read that song sitting down oh god almighty lord jesus no recognizeness no lick of flavor oh god almighty lord jesus and not even get little strawberry oh god i can't go put on the bed you're not even getting little rose i'm gonna sprinkle upon the sheet i say honey this is all yours men have something called ego sister even when you strike that oh god almighty that was why delilah knew how to trim something some of you you're women you don't know how to make your lap a comfortable place for your husband to lie down oh god almighty the only time in city lap oh god that one time insane while because something you understand my sister at that time inside the leg but you have to know how to make your home a comfortable place for your husband oh god at night when he comes if he sometimes he's so stressed lord jesus oh god almighty sometimes the man have a rough day at work and because here and this is why i say women oh god we have to go back to genesis and understand our purpose my sister because we have to know that we have to keep our husband in line oh god almighty we have to know our purpose as a woman and so sometimes the man have a bad day at work and you're just feeling your spirit oh god prepare something nice he's sick oh godly korean wet him he have flu and you just feel like if he just boiled liquor soup lord god when the man come home and say they saw the man myself where did somebody come from baby so you know somebody wants soup you know me never feel so well oh god you said behavior don't worry i am your wife i am supposed to know what i should give you you understand me sister and you just made the man feel comfortable oh god almighty lord jesus we don't understand the holy spirit is the only person that can teach you how to take care of your spouse you know why sister read because the holy spirit nor rev more than you oh god almighty know it from the creation of her we just come we just get married we just know about them oh god almighty but god know it all lord jesus and so that's why women we have to allow the spirit of god to teach us how to love our spouses and even if we make a problem don't worry about that no worry about that do what you are to do do what you ought to do in due time but guess what you keep pouring more fire the fire is that you keep yeah you just have really built up below build up fire everything your quarrel boat everything all that please just leave the argument alone women leave the argument man like woman when knocked them man like to be comforted respected pampered and then stopped me a man like what am i getting today money [Applause] [Music] holy ghost you're real in this place ladies and gentlemen oh god almighty don't let your husband have to ask you for certain things and i'm laboring on the women because we are the one who god called to be help meet we are the one who god called to help them fulfill their purpose and so we have to take care of them oh god almighty sometime you know you just put yourself aside and just ensure that they are well comfortable men don't just only like women who can give them sex let me say that cause as christian women sometimes we think i just fear sex sex sex say men don't it is one of their greatest desires but it's not all men like women will understand a vision and purpose men like women who will believe in them sister you it demands bill you know what i want one can structure in every inevitably one good title what jesus sister you're supporting nonetheless you know what's the one equal program iguana say be good on our heart i'll go somewhere you'll encourage him to get to that place because he's the one that is seeing his vision so you come alongside him and ensure that you two are seeing the vision you believe in your spouse oh god almighty help the man oh god we know that in our house oh god in our house we have a lot of men who the women are basically the one leading i'll share a story sorry there's this lady young lady before i got married and she said that she she dating this gentleman and they go out but she's a teacher the man you know is not so up there financially and she what she did when they went out to dine and and women men recommend watch men may not have much but they understand and embrace certain things and she said what she did she before they left out of the car the man had the money for pay for the meal but she take it out and she gave him to put it in his wallet so she nobody never see say she appear for the food you understand a man said these are some of the ways oh god that you stand by a man you know say i'm not having you never go come maybe come back i wanna shoot with you get that spirit from huh we'll get that spirit from you called the man oh god there you say baby i'll go and put ten toes on the line here account oh god almighty and i soon get there you're going to put 10 toes in the line go and go buy one nice shoes or something you're still on nations by fema or something no console demand you can't ever buy one good boot put 10 foot all these things oh god man and then we come and praise god where they see a moat with common praise god with the same mote oh god you are not a woman of purpose oh god you're destroying a vision you're destroying a life oh god almighty and in our culture we know that the men they are used to being beaten down from their mother from family you're worthless you're coming like a wordless pupa you're not come out to nothing and these things and so when you as the woman come and you are doing the same thing you remind him about him so you're just like the others you ain't nothing different oh god almighty you need to let the man be in ah and say where is this woman coming from this must be sin from god she hurt angela something oh god almighty we ought to know how to treat our men believe in your spouse even if they don't understand believe in the men of god oh god almighty believe believe in the men and ensure to ensure that their home is comfortable there's sometimes sister read i don't go certain places because at home i have so much to do and so sometime may not go and you wouldn't know a sister either sometimes pastor's wife everybody wanna see you at everything everything huge fellowship prayer prayer this prayer meeting first and everything and when you're at work they want to see about sometimes you have to step back and ensure that host is kept oh god almighty there's somebody that said even if you're coming to church i always want to ask for a little take off by the closer and give oh god oh god yes i hear that another church may compress god i heard that i heard it yes i heard it yes man yes yes yes i heard it i heard your sister yes alifea come praise god yes okay sister read the person saying everyone was saying wanted before me about my church clues lord god look here when you have a prophet in our nomics be careful what go into your thoughts be careful what go into your thoughts unless it may answer the question for you yes sometimes that's how the men are sometimes that's all they are and sometimes i really mean sometimes just give them manly column and there we go church go worship that better you go god go worship better oh god almighty we have the trouble that we're having is because our women don't know how to satisfy our men they don't know and so they think that you know just laying down and like god maybe maybe you think that is just laying down and giving them men not at all i will say that mama papa jesus not so at all ensure that he is satisfied because that's what you're there to do satisfy his needs when your husband when you're finished making love you're not supposed to want nothing else he must be so satisfied that he relax and justin boy hey robert he said all the money we had he asked him for the twenty thousand dollar friend last month he just said baby um you know submitting money no me because he is satisfied and can i say that a key in communicating with your spouse listen and he's not listening one of the way is when you make love to your husband and he's well satisfied he's listening hello mertel brothers show me brother oh god almighty the men them in your church they know nobody know their business but i mean like yo they are satisfied and so when they are relaxed and then comfortable you're able to communicate with them when they just come in from where that realize let me tell you complete and compliant metallurgy oh god that is what men hear that is what they hear they are tired they come in they need to be relaxed and so forth every time my husband gets home sister rita asked him babe how was your day how are you you understand everything i write me if you make sure saying all right and sometimes i'm watching fierce cosmo i know until my answer may say you sure cause me no the normal when something is okay oh god what time we have history let me quickly run on oh god women you ought to know how to pray for your spouse you ought to know how to pray for your spouse yes they are called to be the priest but you have to know how to pray for your husband there's nothing like a praying wife nothing like a praying wife and so the holy spirit will teach you how to pray for your husband some of the things that are troubling us in our families did not know are some stuffing at the past and so as a woman you have to know how to intercede for your husband and pick up things fandom in the past oh god almighty father tell up on him somebody thieves something and then blame him for it for years and he's carrying that scar a mother tell him saying coming like a wordless pooper and he's carrying that scar you have to know how to pick up those things from years down the line and destroy them dismantle them so that it can release the man into his purpose some of these things they who about the men of god from fulfilling their purpose it might even be something that he has done and he's now saved and he feel as though he has not been forgiven you can't remind him that women of god you are to be wise and so you command yourself and that's why we're feeling what the scripture is women of god you have to say honey there's therefore no condemnation to them which are in christ jesus so whatever you have done in the past god forgive your you forgive your father a long time so let it go you have to help your spouse to get to where he is and i'll say to us when i jump over to the man that women when you're praying for your husband you have to know how to pray strategic prayer and then everything you see your fatal demand yes and it's always another woman with us as women yes mr sister so and so then i looked at you you don't need to tell me [Music] her are you deal with it almighty god and when the time is right the holy spirit will tell you when to speak the problem with us as women is because we don't know when to speak to our spouse we don't know when to say to them what we are to say to them and so when the time when you say it's the wrong time he's not listening and god will turn it around the other way when you pray and he'll come to you and say baby yes that is all the holy spirit world you have to be wise as women and everything you talk you go and pray about it and if the man of any weakness you pray about it you don't remind the man about his weaknesses don't remind him about his weaknesses go and pray for him that's why you are there to back him up to strengthen him to ensure that he doesn't fall into temptation or fall into sin and if you have a problem with troubling money you pray for him if in the nuance take care of the children's name pray for him i pray a prayer pray prayer sister read a prayer prayer prayer prayer a period before i get married i pray i pray i pray i pray everything i feel like everything have to line up everything must line up and so let me go over to the men quickly brothers god has called you to be the priest and we are slowly shying away from our call for various reasons i i observed and i'm not trying to highlight anybody's sister i observe when when rev was blessing the baby and they asked they asked for us actually asked for us to ask the men to raise their hands you find that is you know the men were were shy to raise their hands but men you have to be bold god has called you to be the priests of the whole son so you have to step up even if you are fearful even if you are shy even when you feel inadequate even when you feel as though you can't do it even when you feel like your wife is so much that she's overshadowing you stand up women love men who are supportive women love men who are who love them for men men love respect and we know that because we have spoken about those things men you have to love your wife love your wife unconditionally that is what god called you to do and we have to use the scripture as our guide god called us oh god almighty to love god call you to love your wife and so you have to ensure that your wife is taken care of you have to ensure that your wife is well taken care of then the family will be okay you are the priest of the old so you have to know how to pray you have to know how to say a word of prayer even if you're shy you have to know how to pray oh god almighty and that is why we need the women to help our men if they don't know what to pray you have to help them and so when they start to pray or take time with them take time with them take time with them until they get there man you have to know how to layer your hand and your wife sometimes on prayer sometimes they are tired they are exhausted they have a rough day they are drained you have to know how to lay your hands on your wife and pray our god almighty and ask the lord to strengthen your wife don't tear don't don't tell her that first you get promotion she decides to die the devil is a liar liana and pray for your wife and say be a big one another word please day oh god and dominate oh god almighty men you have to learn how to pray for your wife support your wife oh god almighty for the family to go forward oh god almighty hallelujah jesus men sex is the thing for you it's not so much for women women love sex but it's not so much women love attention this is what women love women love comfort affection romance these are the things the things that women love and so many you have to know sometimes even showing public affection women embrace these things she feel appreciated you understand so sometimes when you're going out you tell her baby you look nice we've spoke about it oh often you say that oh god almighty to your spouse oh often do you tell him in love when my husband pick up my clothes say my weird sister me love it love jesus just make me feel nice i love when my husband does that it just made me feel nice sometimes a person comment me and say you know what you look nice today and maricho mr babe you couldn't tell me yesterday look nice and his response is i know because i was the one who picked all the clothes you understand you have to be there in a way for your wife that she appreciate you so much stand by your wife oh god almighty show her the affection that she needs and let me say and this may be for another time that sometime men the reason why you're not getting so much out of your wife is because of the past let me touch on this that sometimes all women come with baggages they come with so much hurt and so much scars from the past and as the priest you have to discern these things you have to know oh god almighty what is affecting your wife she's not performing she's not doing what you are what you desire for her to do you have to go down deep some of these candies are deep secret these are scars and you have to use wisdom oh god almighty to deal with these things and so that maybe it's for counseling or something like that though some of those stuff are root causes from way down and so you have to learn to deal with those things oh god almighty i'll say to us quickly that forgiveness you have to stand by each other forgive quickly oh my god almighty [Music] finances is one of the things that crumble marriages power struggle you find parties the both parties struggling oh god almighty without the finance are so fortunate more and all these things that cannot come to agreement ladies if you are earning more than your husband doesn't make you the head of the home oh god if you are earning more than your spouse it doesn't makes you the head of the home i'll say that again so it means that you ought to submit oh god almighty hallelujah submit justice and submission does not mean oh god almighty that you are to be walked upon submission don't mean that it means that you understand that your husband is the head and certain things he is the one that's supposed to make those decisions forgive quickly forgive we hold so much things in our hearts sometimes oh god almighty listen husband listen to your wife listen to your wife ensure that you are listening listen to your wife listen to your wife oh god sometimes she's hurting women need men who are protectors who are providers women need men who will stand by them and understand what they are going through and you should not be so burdened though men you should be so stable mentally emotionally financially and spiritually that you're able to brace your wife women need men who are spiritually stable mentally they are stable they can handle certain things emotionally because women are emotional be and so to what we can be the same thing women can be emotional and man emotional to somebody have to be stable somebody have to be there and that's what you are called to do as a man as a man rather you have to be emotionally stable so that's when your wife come and she's torn apart you are able to strengthen her oh god hallelujah thank you jesus and we are wrapping up we're getting closer oh god almighty women oh god almighty need men to be financially stable so brothers try your best try your very best to get to that place where you're able to take control of certain things in the home oh god hallelujah lord we thank you and the final thing that i'll say before we wrap up is honor and i'll speak on this because a lot of person misunderstand this honor we don't know how to honor our spouses men don't know how to honor their wives and wives don't know how to honor their husband or their husbands wives you ought to honor your husband in all that you do honor your husband oh god almighty lord help me with this one honor your husband in such a way where you don't give nobody honor over your husband i know him in such a way where he doesn't feel less and as women of god this is where god wants for us to be we have moved away from that as women of god we have moved away from that as women of god we no longer and our spouses because society is now dictating to us how we should treat our spouses and so you find that and and rev river know that you will understand that sometimes the women evil honor their their their leaders more than their spouses you are not even not you you should give honor to your spiritual leaders but it cannot be that you honor your spiritual leader in such a way that your husband that is in your house you speak down to him you disrespect him god is going to charge you for it and that is why our family cannot cannot get to the place where it ought to be and men you are to honor your wives as well under your wives where you ensure that nobody disrespects your wife no other woman has the right because you give them that privilege to disrespect your wife honor in such a way where she appreciate you oh god lord we thank you honor your spouse hallelujah lord we thank you hallelujah thank you i will say that we just need to build back that altar oh god almighty that god called us to build in our families hallelujah i am gonna be handing over hallelujah invite us encourage us to stand sister reed hallelujah thank you may i just invite the congregation to stand thank you hallelujah we're just going to pray thank you so very much father we continue to honor you we thank you for the spoken word we thank you for your divine presence we thank you for the sweet darling holy ghost which has led your daughter oh god and we surrender this afternoon to you because lord we are going to listen and we are going to be obedient we're going to build back the altar oh hallelujah we join with the songwriter this afternoon that's what the altar is for we're now going to take the marital problems around with us we are not going to take the problems of the children around with us god we are going to surrender ourselves to you and we join again with another songwriter and we say all to jesus i surrender so we surrender everything to you lord because lord when we surrender our lives can never be the same we pray for good marriages godly marriages oh god your words say when you join persons together let no man let nothing come between so lord the mouth is that are broken the marriages that i limp in marriages that are hip started god every asunder this afternoon we put them on the altar whether it be another woman whether i be disrespect whatever it is lord we are putting them before you because it is said the family that prays together stays together and because you are there in family it is good because you said in scriptures it's not good for man to be alone so holy spirit we bow before you and we are expecting lord to see changes so those of us lord who are brothers or whatever whether we yap too much whatever weaknesses are we give them to you this afternoon we lay them again before you on the altar have your way in our lives oh god direct us and for the rest of this day and for the rest of our lives we pray that it will be better together and together forever have you in our lives again we pray as we continue to honor you for yours is the kingdom the power and the glory for ever and ever and the people of god say you may be seated for a few minutes thank you very much sister samus put your hands together follow the word of god put your hands together for the i won't say much more but that lady went deep do it in my virgin tell you wooly partings bully puttings i mean like because she talk of the things one thing this is my take away from the word you're not in a competition with your partner you complement your partners you're not competing because if him look bad you look bad so we don't compete we compliment where brother paul the lord god bless you brother pj the service over there are two i know announcement i have to make before we go and before pastor comes he wants to speak to you we are ready with the tickets for the the cake sale no church of the living god i am asking you kindly if you can take 10 and sell it sell it and if you want to buy the 10 buy it if you can't

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