7 THINGS A QUEEN CONSCIOUS WOMAN NEVER DOES WITH A MAN

[Music] [Music] well let me get started they'll they'll get back in I think I left off with number two that a queen conscious woman never drives the momentum of a relationship if you have to talk a man if you have to push a man into a relationship you will have to push a man through the relationship and Queens don't have time to constantly sell themselves to man who is too immature to discern her value and her worth so if he can't if he can't drive the the momentum of the relationship in the beginning Queens would just eliminate him now number that was number two number three Queens never trust without verifying Queens never trust and let me just let me just recap one and two number one was never ignore his Queens never ignore a man's proven character when you begin to see glimpses of a man's character Queens never look past a man's character for desperation that they may not have another shot at another man in fact they don't view the man as the prize they understand that they are the prize so if a man proves to have poor character Queens will eliminate that man and move on because they never Queens never ignore man's character number two queens never drive the momentum of the relationship they always yield to the signals of the man they allow the man to dictate the momentum of the relationship if he's not man enough to drive the relationship or he ain't man enough to maintain the relationship number three Queens never trust without verifying Queens never trust without verifying y'all invite some more people to come in here Queens never trust without verifying Queens are not gullible Queens are not you know gullible credulous little women that a man can say anything to and and and she believes it and accepts it because her man said it you know Queens do not trust without verifying a queen verifies watch this in other words it doesn't matter how good a man looks it doesn't matter how good he sounds it doesn't matter what he looks like on paper I mean the devil looks good on paper Queens verify before they trust and how do Queens verify Queens verify through watch this intentional questioning Queens verify through observation and Queens verify through time see Queens are not in a hurry Queens will take the time to ask the questions that only a king can answer Queens ask questions because questions reveal motives and questions also will reveal character or the lack thereof Queens then sit back and they observe Queens are not in a hurry they're not in a rush and they don't allow a man to rush them because I need to question this man now I need to observe this man I need to see if this man is what he's projecting and then number three Queens give the relationship time see you don't trust is not something that you just throw up on the table Trust is something that has to be earned it has to be deserve that's why so many hearts are broken because you're just kind of willy-nilly throwing away for an out trust I don't trust everybody I don't trust everybody no no no no no I got I gotta know you to trust you you you gotta prove to me that I can trust you Trust is not a gift given it is a it is an honor earned and and Queens don't just run out their trust in a man because okay here you go he go to my church so because he go to my church nikeyra bye but we got same paths I can trust him imma I'm gonna let him in my house and we're gonna have prayer meeting tonight at 11:30 ooo here's here's another going oh my spiritual father is his spiritual father I don't care but no man telling you about I'm in the spiritual father I don't mean you supposed to trust him they don't mean you supposed to trust him some of them people I don't even know those folk then you open in your whole life up to somebody Queen's never trust without verifying you gotta verify that this man is what he says he is you have a man driving up like he got so much money and all that in first John four and one the Bible says just to give some some biblical context to it the Bible says beloved believe not every spirit but try the spirits whether they are of God because many false prophets are gone out into the world same principle applies you cannot just believe that a person is what they appear to be you can't believe the first two or three faces a man shows you of himself most men are lying most men are lying not only in the world in the church to you you gotta let a man you got to give a man some time you got to observe a man you have to question a man you have to interrogate a man analyze a man discern a man give a man a chance to prove that he is trustworthy is this helping anybody because Queens never trust without verifying number four number four number four this is powerful right here now you got to hear this because this is gonna this is gonna shake a lot of y'all up Queens we're talking about seven things a queen conscious woman never does something's in my eye number four queens invite some more people to come in here we will on our way to a thousand Queens never commit to potential alone Queens never commit to potential alone see a woman that lacks queen consciousness will marry potential can I submit to you that potential is not enough to marry can I submit to you that potential alone is not enough to marry you got to have more than potential because potential with our corresponding character is as good as no potential you know their whole lot of men that have potential but do they have the character to manifest that potential and more importantly do they have the character to maximize their potential when a woman lacks queen consciousness she will commit and submit herself to a man that has nothing but potential but no character to manifest that potential and so she ends up bitter and angry and disappointed because the man that had all of the potential manifested none of it and so what she thought she had she did not have because potential alone is nothing a man can have potential but it is not the same thing potential is not the same thing as a man being fruitful I'd rather see a man that's producing I want to see what a man is producing and and see if a Queens will look at what a man is producing and if he's presently producing then she can determine where his county is but if a man if a man has million-dollar potential but he's not really manifested in it versus a man that's producing a hundred thousand dollars where do you think the greater value is is the greater value in the man it has the potential to make a million or is the greater value in the man that is presently making the hundred and has been making the hundred don't 100k for the last ten years Queens will never marry a man with just potential especially now watch this I have to make certain that I bring balance here especially if he's a man of a certain age if he 35 still talking about you know where he going and he ain't got he had me he hadn't gotten didn't progress the first mile of the way he 40 years old still tell me what he gonna do and he's done none of it yet oh no now if he 21 years old y'all coming up together y'all in college together y'all dreamin together and you you you know the Queen has analyzed this character and and you know he's on his grind he hustling to do his thing well then y'all grow together but when a man start getting up past 13 he ain't got nothing to show for it you've been here 30 years and you ain't got nothing to show for it but you got potential because last time I checked potentially don't keep these lights on leave those potential pay the light bill potential don't pay the light bill it's cold outside it's freezing outside leaders potential keep the heater on it no potential don't do none of that you got to have a man that is a producer queens are never going to commit themselves to pretension some of y'all trying to marry potential we got potential why hadn't he Mac manifested any of it why don't have any fruit you you you you you trying to be y'all trying to marry potential you bringing all the fruit to the table he bringing potential Queens ain't settling for that Queen needs a man that is producing watch this he ain't necessarily got to be producing as much as sheep but he gotta be producing if he ain't producing he ain't the one for you suppose you for another level homie you for another level I think you I think you got off on the wrong floor go to go to levels down you ain't supposed to be up design look look look what the Bible says in mark and Levin look what you look what happens with Jesus I think this this captures this illustrates potential versus productivity I want to see what you're producing I don't hit that about your potential I want to see what you're producing you know don't just tell me you're me and then show me some show me your bank records let me see your credit score don't tell me area in a few years baby I'm gonna be no no what are you now what are you now what are you now mark 11 12 to 14 and on the morrow when they will come from Bethany he was hungry Jesus was hungry and seeing a fig tree afar off having leaves he came if happily he might find anything there all he wanted to get something eat from the fig tree and when he came to it he found nothing but leaves for the time of figs was not yet they had produced in the feed yet and jesus answered and said unto it no man eat fruit of the hereafter forever and his disciples heard it and that fig tree died and with it Jesus said she sitting there with all of these leaves and I came here expecting to find some fruit and you ain't got no fruit I curse you you die at the root and it died even Jesus was disgusted with what look that's all leaves represent its potential potential but ain't no fruit you Queens are not going to commit themselves to leaves Queens only commit themselves to fruit alright number five Queens y'all invite some more folk to come in here for I'm getting tired now I'm working hard tonight number five Queens never finance a man and I'm gonna bring some balance to it Queens never finance a man let that soak in Queens never finance a man Queens are not paying car notes Queens are not paying for lunch and dinner Queens are not paying light bills Queens are not paying child support for another woman's child as she had by this Queens do not finance men the only man at Queen will finance is her King when he's down temporarily if he's down in most cases he gonna make provision even if he's down but Queens don't finance an unproven man Queensland a man is not spending no Queens money he ain't running up in no Queens house tell my give me some gas money no no no once a man start asking for a Queens money adios that's a bad answer that's a bad that's a bad sign it's a bad sign Queens do not finance men Queens don't take care of no grown man like he's her son Queens never finance an unproven man I know some of y'all don't like this part right here you just love taking care your little your little clown in a crown you love financing your little clown in a crown your little bro clown in a crown you just bring your little broke clown in the crown all around the church all around the city and you just parading with your little clown in the crown that he got muscles he told and he broke and you financing him and he playing you in most cases Queens do not finance no grown man period Queens do not finance a man if I'm okay my nerves getting bad second Thessalonians 3:10 and 11 for even when we were with you this we commanded you that if any would not work he talked about the brothers here neither should he eat for we hear that there some which walk among you disorderly working not at all but are busybodies Queens do not finance men grown men I'm sorry only only man Queens finance are their sons and then they're growing men and they teach them from childhood you take care of a woman a woman doesn't take care of you some it's okay sometimes I get trouble with that some women believe that you know that I'm antiquated because I believe a man is pulled take care of his well I don't how much money you want to make a man is supposed to have his mind set on taking care of his woman period that's that's just my mind said he ain't supposed to stop his woman from advancing in her career doing whatever she want to do but he's supposed to have a mindset that he gonna take care of his woman any man that is comfortable sitting on his behind and letting a woman finance him ain't a man at all in my opinion I know some of you are so liberal that you disagree god bless you I respect your opinion but I don't believe that's you know a queen does not finance a man a queen does not bring her checkbook into a relationship that is outside of marriage if y'all keep on inviting whoo I'll hit a thousand in the room tonight all right number six Queens never cater to a man that has not dedicated himself to her now what do I mean by that number six Queens never cater to a man that has not dedicated himself to her what do I mean by number six a woman is not required to submit to Amanda she ain't married to you you know you don't you know you watch the progression of the relationship and you follow the pace of the man and as Demand demonstrates certain commitment to you you kind of you know moving in self in step in sync with that but a queen never caters to a man that is not dedicated himself to her in covenant you don't give a man all of the privileges and the advantages of a wife before he's brought you to the altar in Queens don't don't give a man that that they've not married you don't you don't provide this man with his sexual needs you don't you don't wash this man's clothes and cooking for this man every day and and there's nothing on the radar that says wedding day Queens do not cater to a man that has not dedicated himself to them a man see the woman the man moves and the woman moves it's kind of like that's it the man moves the woman moves you you don't go ahead of him if he if he's not moved towards the altar you don't cater to a man that is not dedicated himself to you and never lay your body down for a man has not laid his life down for you you don't a man there's not your husband husband privileges you don't you y'all am I making sense here or is pastor Diaz this making sense Queens never cater to a man that has not dedicated himself to them or to her Ephesians 5:22 says wives submit yourselves unto your own husband's as unto the Lord submit yourselves unto your own husband's as unto the Lord now here's the kicker with women that are that lack queen consciousness here's the kicker the scripture says wives submit yourselves unto your own husband's as as unto the Lord here's the kicker women that lack queen consciousness will take a no good man and submit themselves to him and he will constantly break or they were constant they break the woman over and over and over and over again and then when she finally gets a husband she's so bitter that she can't submit to her own husband because she has been broken by illicit men who she was not supposed to be catering to because those relationships were outside of covenant and then when she comes into a covenant relationship she's so broken and so full of anger and bitterness she doesn't even know how to receive the king but Queens do not cater to a man that has not dedicated himself to them and in number seven and I'm out number seven and I'm Oh Queens never tolerate disrespect you don't disrespect the Queen now you don't call no Queen out a name I don't care what they say on the movies on the on the on videos on CDs you don't call no Queen OB you don't call no Queen my H you don't disrespect no Queen you don't raise your voice and talk Oh crazy - no Queen because the Queen will quietly get her grip and move on and you will never hear from her again or Queen will quietly move towards the telephone and call those people with those lights on top of their cars and before you know it you'll have somebody on your front lawn because you don't Queens do not tolerate disrespect and if you sit in there tolerating disrespect now let me say this before I let y'all go tonight one of the things that is most disrespectful and even damaging to the psyche of a woman is when you let a man cheat on you over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over again every time you let a man cheat on you and you keep taking this man back and it's proving that he's not even trying to do better your self-esteem is plummeting you don't even realize it your self-esteem is in the tank now man me you know a man may have some struggles like I had and and he may mess up and you may feel like okay I need to give him another chance when you pray about that you discern that and you give him another chance and you work with him but if you if he is blatantly disrespecting you and if he's not even trying to get better and he's almost laughing in your face and he's just doing this because he know you gonna tolerate it you're gonna accept it see you didn't know that your consciousness has been drained because the queen is not going to tolerate this respect period whatever woman settles for a man will push her to the limits if a man know that he can go out and stay out all night on you and he can come home tomorrow and you just gonna be you know smiling and good with it he gonna start every night especially when you've married a man that's not a king in his own mind but queens do not tolerate disrespect look what the Bible says in first Peter 3 and 7 likewise she husband's dwell with them according to knowledge I like the we keep talking about the husband see there's something that there's some things that just reserved for a husband y'all giving these boyfriends the reason y'all called it boyfriend cuz you dealing with a boy likewise she husband's dwell with them according to knowledge giving honor unto the wife as unto the weaker vessel and as being heirs together of the grace of life that your prayers be not hindered he says giving honor unto the wife Queens demand honor Queens demand other my wife and I had to I had to teach my wife certain things because my wife had a broken consciousness I think I've created a monster though my wife unless it's freezing and I'm too far away my wife goes to the car and she wait by the door for me to open the door she sit in the car and she'll wait for me to get out of the driver's seat come around and open the door for her to get out she walks up to a building she'll stand there and she'll wait by the door for me to get there to open the door because Queens demand honor a woman didn't watch this God gives the woman to the man as a gift why is the woman such a gift to the man she brings his seed to harvest she brings favor into his life there's nothing to be compared to a woman not for a hetero a normal heterosexual man it ain't nothing on the planet that compares to a woman and when a brother is privy to the womb of a woman when a brother has the favor a woman and the presence of a woman she deserves no wings no what they bring to the table and they do not tolerate disrespect Queen's demand honor and when a man dis honors a queen she banishes him she banishes him from the kingdom because Queen's demand honor so I hope you all have gotten something out of this again I say to you go to the FD talk those of you in Florida Atlanta New Baltimore New Jersey go to the FD talk.com we're coming with the queen ology tour and I'm talking about Queen consciousness in all of these meetings beginning February the 2nd in Fort Lauderdale I need you to go and register for the Queen ology tour if this is your kind of thing if this is blessed you I dare you to meet us for these one night meetings it is going to be amazing each meeting is starting at about well starting at 7 o'clock and I'm certain the doors are going to open at about 5:30 but I need you to get to the website and register now I want to see you on the Queen ology tour I pray that you've gotten something out of this now let me also say this to you go to there's my daughter margarita I love you sweetheart I love you love you love you go to my youtube channel Robert Blake's and subscribe to my youtube channel please do that I'm trying to build that audience social media is just what God's hand is on in terms of reaching and ministering to people and I need you to help me I need you to share this video all over the place all over the place and like it and just know that I love you if you need to reach out to Lisa or I you can reach us at our email addresses pastor rse Blake's at gmail.com you can go to our se Blake's comm you can buy my book clean ology my book the father-daughter talk wisdom women in ministry soul ties at RC Blake's calm I love you I look forward to seeing you in the near future on the Queen ology tour go to the website now and register register register the FD talk.com are recei Blake's comm know that I love you thank you for spending this time with me this evening god bless you [Music]

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Published: Tue Jan 02 2018

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[u/--wellDAM--]

“Lee, does potential pay the light bill?”

No

“Lee, does potential keep the heater on?”

No

[u/ShieldMaidenLagertha]

“For the time of figs was not yet” 😂😂😂 I’m gonna use that!

[u/bigtoebigtoe]

Dude has this guy read the FDS handbook or something??? Holy moly.