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(writing utensil scratching) (bell dings) - [Amanda] Hi, Psych2Goers, and welcome back to another video. Thank you so much for
all the love and support, enabling us to make
yet another exploration into everyday psychology. So, let's begin. Can you instantly tell
when you're in love? That moment of realization
for some happens in an instant and you've suddenly
realized you're in love. But often, love is simmering
on the back burner of our minds without us even realizing it. Each lovely interaction, genuine phrase, or sweet conversation
is another seed planted in our little love gardens. And then, before you know it, you have a whole gazebo of love that is. Now, you may know if you love someone, but how can you tell if
your partner loves you? Well, they could just tell you. Yeah, that would certainly help matters. But in case you both haven't yet spoken those three sacred words, or perhaps you're too scared to, here is a list of things
someone just can't help but do if they really love you. Number one, they'd rather
call you than text. Would you rather text or call? In today's busy world, a simple yet thoughtful
text can go a long way when the work is piled high and you simply just don't have the time. But more often when someone loves you, they can't wait to hear your voice again. A quick text or two won't do. The truth is, your partner
is likely really starting to fall for you if they favor calling you than the easy text message. Or what's always better
is talking in person. Number two, they stop
by to talk in person. If you love someone, wouldn't you wanna spend
time with that person, any chance you get? If your partner surprises
you by stopping out to eat with you during their
lunch break every now and then, or knocks at your door
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you their full attention in a conversation. People multitask. It's a thing, a pretty stressful thing at times, but quite relaxing if
you have the right music. But if your partner is constantly scanning their social media feed
when talking to you or only having time to talk with you during their last match of Halo, they may not be ready to say
those three vital words yet. When we love someone, we're attentive when we need to talk about serious topics, even not so serious topics. You enjoy focusing on the one you love and being their focus too. You value their opinion and
the things they have to say. But first and foremost, you
listen and pay attention to your partner, not the scoreboard. Number four, they wanna create
special moments with you, AKA road trip. Don't you just love going
on special little trips with your loved ones, or perhaps spending the
day at a unique place that means something to the two of you? When we love someone, we scavenge and hoard beautiful
memories whenever possible. You'll often find yourself
on weekend road trips to pack on the memories or spend the day picnicking
at a beautiful spot that means something to the both of you. Whatever your thing is,
if you love someone, you wanna create special
memories with them, not just the same old, same old. While the usual routine
can be fine at times, who doesn't wanna take the person they love somewhere special? But hey, odd are those three
magical words will be said for the first time simply
hanging out on the couch or at your home. And if you love the person, you'll even turn the regular into special. Number five, they're there
for you when you need them. Does your partner reach out to you? Do they genuinely care
and ask how you are? Can they sense when something isn't right? Or do they often ignore it? It all comes down to this. Are they there for you, really there for you? This one should be obvious. And if your someone
special isn't there for you when you need them most, then
boy, do we have a problem. If you love someone, you wanna help them
through their darkest times because you care about
what they're going through. While some simply can't read the signs that you weren't okay, they should at least be
there to listen to you or care enough to ask every now and then. And if you reach out to them, they should make sure
to be there and listen, not just through text, but they'll call you or
surprise you with a visit. Remember points one and two? And number six, they say, "I love you." Hmm, you don't say. Yeah, of course saying I love
you would be an obvious sign, but here's the thing. Sometimes love can fade
in people's relationships. If your partner no longer
tells you they love you, there may be a chance
their heart has moved on. Sometimes it may have never
been there in the first place. Sometimes someone says
I love you too soon, misjudging their feelings. When we love someone, we
tend to enjoy telling them. They like to remind
you every now and then, like, "Hey, I love you." It makes you and them feel
happy and, well, loved. If you know you love them and they often do the things mentioned, it's best to stop and ask
yourself what's holding you back? Because if you love someone,
why wouldn't you tell them? We hope we were able to give you insight into some of the ways you can tell if someone truly loves you. Do any of these signs
describe your special someone? If you found this video helpful, be sure to hit the like button and share it with those
out there plucking petals over the questions of whether
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