- [Instructor] Hey, Psychtogoers and welcome back to another video. First of all, we would
like to thank you all for the support that you've given us. Psychtogoers mission is to make psychology and mental health more
accessible to everyone and you help us do that. So thank you. Now, back to the video, have
you ever had a conversation with someone that lasted the whole night? Did you feel like you
could talk to them forever? Unlike physical attraction where you're drawn to
someone's physical appearance, emotional attraction is to be drawn by someone's personality,
values, goals, and dreams. It's when you feel that
they somehow get you on a deeper level. You may have felt this connection with your best friend or romantic partner. Some people may even mistake it for physical or sexual attraction. Before we begin, we would like
to mention that this video will be focusing on the
signs of emotional attraction and potential romantic relationships. If someone you know is
showing these signs, it doesn't necessarily
mean that they're trying to pursue a romantic
relationship with you. That is something you are
advised to discuss with them to see if you're on the same page. With that said, here are nine signs that someone may be
emotionally attracted to you. Number one, you feel like
the other person gets you. Can this person understand how you think and how you feel on a deep level, the way they can somehow get you without you needing to
over explain yourself, maybe a sign that you're developing a deep emotional connection with them. Number two, they speak
highly of your qualities and personality to you and others. Do they talk about how funny or smart you are with other people? It's a sign of emotional attraction if they always express to
you or to other people, the things that they
really like about you. Whether it's how you crinkle your nose when you're studying really hard, or when you cry during movies, they can't help but
find your small quirks, and traits to be unique and endearing. Number three, you have long conversations which may last for hours. Do you text ,call or hang out with them for long periods of time? Communication is crucial
for any relationship and is usually a good sign
of emotional attachment. They might try to encourage
your conversations to keep going or to make an effort to
keep that communication as open as possible with you. Even just taking the time
to ask you about your day, shows that they're emotionally interested and invested in your relationship. Number four, they tell you that
they're thinking about you. Another sign that they're
emotionally attached to you, is when they openly tell you how much they've been thinking about
you when you're not together. Whether it's something you
said or something you did, the memories you've made
together could have made a lasting emotional impact on them and they've become
emotionally attracted to you. Number five, they like
spending time with you but also give you space. One of the more obvious
signs of emotional attraction is when they not only look forward to spending time with you, but also genuinely enjoy and value the time you spend together. While they always be
thinking of new things they want to do with you, it's also important that they
respect and give you space for you to do your own thing as well. Number six, they value your opinions and most of your life
values appear to be in sync. Do they welcome you
into their personal life and share their opinions
and values with you? If so, it's a sign that they're developing an emotional attachment to you. They might also show a level
of emotional compatibility if they encourage you to
express your opinions, thoughts and feelings without judgment, regardless of whether they
agree with you or not. However, if you do find
that you share a lot of similar views on family,
work and personal life, then this compatibility may easily develop into a long-term relationship. Number seven, they're comfortable being vulnerable around you. Have they let their guard
down when they're with you. Whether they're opening
up to you about their past or talking about some of the most intimate moments their lives. Being vulnerable is a sign
of deep emotional attraction. And this is because it shows
that they're able to trust you with their worries and insecurities. Number eight, they express an interest in meeting your family and
friends and vice versa. Do they invite you to
their family gatherings? Its a strong indication that you share a strong emotional
attachment with each other when you both wanna introduce each other to your close friends and family. After all, you're usually able
to introduce your partners to your closest relatives, only when you're emotionally connected and invested in that
relationship yourself. Number nine, they want to commit to you without pushing commitment onto you. Are you overwhelmed by
the idea of commitment? Oftentimes it's not
commitment we're afraid of but rather it's committing
to the wrong person. So if the person you're seeing expresses that they wanna be committed to you, but they don't push
you to do so in return, then it shows that they
respect your boundaries and feel a strong emotional
connection to you. Have you experienced an emotional
connection with someone, let us know in the comments below. If you found this helpful, be sure to like and share this video with those
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