(calm upbeat music) (eye chimes) - [Amanda] Hey, Psycho2Goers, do you struggle to build
deeper connections with others? Are you looking for ways
to connect with people beyond the surface level? Today's video is sponsored by So Syncd, a place that can match
partners' personality types based on the 16 personalities model. You can access it by
clicking the link below. Hey, Psych2Goers, welcome
back to another video. Thank you all so much
(calm music) for the love and support
that you've given us, enabling us to make
yet another exploration into everyday psychology. So, let's get into it. Ah, sweet love, the happy little feeling that
makes the world go round. Nothing quite like it, right? Many people have strong relationships with someone they love. They seem to be inseparable for months, only to call it quits eventually. What causes them to tumble
down from their cloud nine? Okay, so you're in a relationship, things are going well,
you love each other, but how do you know if
you've found the one? And, no, we're not talking about Neo, aka Keanu Reeves from "The Matrix." Though, he sure makes for a
devilishly handsome the one. Anyways, here is a list of six signs someone is meant just for you. Number one, they support your dreams. Does your partner support the decisions, little or big, that you make in your life? Are they ready to support you on your journey towards
your lifelong dreams? If your partner is not
only your number one fan but actively building
something together with you, whether that be a business
or building a home together, they're most likely meant for you. According to psychological
research by Dr. John Gottman, couples tend to last longer and have a stronger relationship when they build something together that is meaningful to them both. Someone who truly cares
for you isn't selfish. They genuinely respect you and care what's going on in your life and wanna help you achieve any
goals you have along the way. They'll be cheering
for you the whole time. Number two, they alter your
brain just by thinking of them. Do you find yourself thinking of your love even when they're not around? If so, your relationship
is on a strong path. We all know that love
makes us feel all happy and fuzzy inside, but what
if the one does much more to our brains by thinking of them? According to research from New York's Stony Brook University,
real romantic attachment can alter one's biochemical
reactions in their brain. So if you can't get your
partner out of your mind and you gain a sense of euphoria just thinking of them in the process, they might be meant for you. Number three, you can't
wait to introduce them to your friends and family. If you have a partner who you
just can't wait to introduce to your closest friends and
family, things are looking good. When you feel strongly about someone and things are just right, you want to not only introduce
them to the ones you love but get their support and
feedback on that person as well. According to a 2014 study, support marshaling for romantic
relationships is normal, especially if you can't
stop thinking about them. You want your closest friends and family to root for the one you
love as much as you. Getting their feedback and
security is a stepping stone to moving the relationship
into a much deeper place. By introducing them,
you are subconsciously looking for the okay
to move things further, to a more serious commitment. Once they give you the okay, what's holding you back
from further commitment? Number four, they've
started using we and us. Has there been a change
towards plural pronouns? Oh, boy, there's no turning back now. You're officially in. In fact, according to research
from the University of Texas, couples who have a strong bond will more often use plural pronouns. So if you go from the singular
pronouns to the we and us, something is going on and
it may just be true love. We talked about the importance
of your potential partner being attentive and
remembering the little things, which is why So Syncd could
be the right app for you. They pair couples who have the
right amount of similarities to get each other, and just the right amount of differences to create that spark for
deeper, meaningful dating. Upon taking the personality test, you discover your personality, such as INFJ, so thoughtful,
or ENFP, so curious. Once you've mutually liked each other, you can start messaging. Here are what some people
using the app have said. Lily, INFJ, said, "I didn't
expect to find love so fast! Our personality types will
be tattooed on me somewhere." And Indy, ENFJ, said, "Matching people using personality types is such a simple and powerful concept. So Syncd helped us find love,
even in this difficult time. You've really changed our lives. In fact, we're now married! Thank you." Make sure you check out the app in the description box
below for more details. We encourage you to try it out and give yourself a chance
to find deeper love. Number five, they've moved on
from their past heartbreaks. Does your partner continue
to talk about their ex in a longing way, or do they
talk about them disrespectfully as if they're still holding onto a grudge? If so, something else
could be going on there. It can be pretty obvious when
a partner isn't over their ex, they may still have feelings
for them, but the one for you is only going to have you in their sight. They won't be thinking
about their ex often and instead, their mind will be on you. Remember sign number two? If you're thinking
about your partner often and it makes you feel
happy or fuzzy inside, they should be thinking
of you too, not their ex. And number six, you get
each other, you connect. There are dates where you understand and get each other on a surface level, and then there are deeper connections. If you've found the one, it's
likely they actually get you on a deeper level, you share
the same ideas, core values and genuinely like who they truly are. Everything about them you love, their personality, their little flaws, you love every part of them. Yes, things can be annoying sometimes, but, hey, that doesn't
stop you from loving them, and it's not always on your mind. If they're meant for you, the little things don't drive you crazy, instead they're just another imperfection that you love about them. Are you thinking of that special someone while watching this video? Do you think this person is meant for you? Is your heart all warm and
fuzzy just thinking of them? Do let us know in the comments below. If you found this video interesting be sure to hit the like
and subscribe button and share it with someone
searching for their soulmates. Thanks so much for watching
and we'll see you soon.
