Will and Jada Smith’s ENTIRE Shocking Bad Marriage Truth Finally Revealed – Body Language Secrets

does body language reveal Will and Jada Smith entire shocking bad marriage truth find out next welcome back to the channel shakers Derrick van Schaik here Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith have been known for decades as relationship goals in Hollywood while other Hollywood relationships would fail will and Jada's marriage was thought to be rock solid however we're more recently finding out that throughout all those years of them putting on this couple gold show relationship goals dance right above you and we'll head that look of love that I was looking at right there no I know what is the secret a successful Hollywood marry don't get caught up in all the gossip rags that say they're in trouble this is some real what you do keep this flame burning what was actually going on behind closed doors it seems to have been done to trick you into believing they were a head-over-heels happily married for positive publicity so we're gonna piece together the evidence along with breaking down body language to finally reveal the truth behind Will and Jada Smith's shockingly bad marriage which will help all of us know that no marriage we're relationship is perfect despite some trying to make it seem that way now let's get started in the Smith household success is truly a family affair will Jada and the entire Smith family we're invited to be interviewed on Oprah in 2010 to basically talk about how they're just one big perfect happy family what's wrong what could possibly be wrong but that's why I couldn't yes back in 2018 Will and Jada basically came clean that they never really had the perfect happy marriage that they made the public believe but get you now this is what you want your mama to look like there was so much that wasn't me that I was living yeah so much in authenticity people call the Smiths the first family of Hollywood remember when they made their appearance here on Oprah they were publicly viewed as the top of Hollywood I was much more conscious of public perception than Jada yeah right there was an idea I was trying to live up to an idea for him because they do everything acting singing producing on and on was this part of a master plan you all have externally our family was winning and there was a period where mommy woke up and cried 45 days straight I started keeping a diary damn I was failing miserably but on the outside I was winning Will Smith is admirably very candid about how he was and we get that shocking behind-the-scenes glimpse and to how some Hollywood parents and relationships sadly are but I hear that you all really do set goals that there is a marriage business plan Will and Jada had a marriage business plan so in other words they created a plan to blatantly profit off of their marriage of course everyone hopes to do better married than single but the fact that they created a marriage business plan which is spoken about front and center what do you think the focus of their marriage was at least at that time right for real at least it was about Fame achievement and money I felt that money and winning made a good relationship we're succeeding in the world that means our relationship is good so me and you on an island what do we have not only did I not understand I didn't care we want to make a family business how do we incorporate all the talent that we have in this family so you have a marriage business plan and also family meetings yeah did you notice when Oprah mentioned family meetings his right knee suddenly shifts to the right subconsciously a wafer Oprah as his head also moves away from Oprah will is oddly uncomfortable with the topic because it's surely bringing up some bad memories now watch that part again along with a little bit more of it and see what you think of his body language so you have a marriage business plan and also family meetings yeah we had a family meeting the other night yeah right we'll is continuing with his uncomfortable body language of shifting his feet looking away and is clearly stalling apparently trying to think of how he can talk about that family meeting and still come across as positive now listen to what Jada says very interesting yes yeah Jada was suddenly laughing at will for apparently what happened during that family meeting you have regular family meetings yeah here's the problem with letting your kids talk over apparently the kids don't want to completely go along with wills plans I was unaware of what it meant to truly connect with somebody trait with his with his football and willow is singing willow really broke it for me with whip my hair in the middle of all the whip my hair stuff she was on tour and it was she was having it was a great show and everything was amazing it wasn't like it was we were at the top of the world she was like okay I'm done daddy sweetie you can't you can't be done it doesn't matter that I'm done she came down the next day and has shaved her head ball that was a deep protest what it did for me is I had a crazy realization in that moment I was building what I wanted for her yeah Jaden acting I just want them now we really understand how family meetings go there are essentially business meetings to get the kids to become stars it's extremely obvious through his body language I'm gonna rewind it and see if he could spot it boom right he makes a fist indicating frustration of them not getting on board with what he wants them to do closes his eyes indicating his intensity of his desire of having them do what he wants them to do and he uses the first-person pronoun I indicating that is something that he really wants and likely what his kids want isn't much of a concern to him to live in service to greatness greatness you can see Jada give a little chuckle to Oprah indicating that she's not fully on board with what will is saying and yeah this is staged dead to the max clearly the kids becoming stars is all about him and how he's perceived by the public Willie's masking and pitching his desires for his kids to everyone watching as great but the kids clearly aren't choosing it for themselves he's pushing it on them to satisfy his own ego I saw for the first time what Jada had been saying the whole time about hiding behind my ego and my dreams and my desires and pretending like it's love I want to warm blue blue will is passionately going on and on about what he wants for his kids and look at Jada I want him to live and to yeah she's looking down with a big smile indicating embarrassment for what will is saying with such passion certainty and conviction this is clearly not the first time Jada heard this type of thing from will and it may even be consistently part of his opening speech during his family business meetings with his kids create in a way that when people see it people are inspired and people become better just by having contact with the things what they're excellent with they're excellent Oprah was surely getting a little scared by the things we'll was saying so she had to step in there to soften it up a bit but they're excellent what they're excellent so he doesn't seem like the obsessive stage dad he apparently is because keep in mind the main reason for having them on her show was surely to give her audience a positive example of what a picture-perfect Hollywood family looks like one big happy family and Willie's coming across as an obsessive controlling stage dad you know and she Jaden now jumps in because she seems to know that this is not what a picture-perfect family is supposed to look like but will is apparently oblivious and probably his own world and he doesn't understand that he's making Jada his family and Oprah look bad and that's the thing we can realize the world yes the rub seems to be will trying to get them to do career things his kids don't want to do well is so egotistical at this time he can't see what everyone else can blatantly see trying to force a childhood Direction career on his kids isn't for his kids it's for his own ego and I realized she didn't want none of the stuff I had built parents don't have to understand cuz they in charge why does he have the name captain correction Oh how do you know about that's good information you must have black work at the Europe I told the kids all the time it's like mommy and daddy are rich y'all are broke will seem to push his kids into lucrative childhood careers but putting the idea in their heads that they're poor they need to get to work I'm energized every day by just what the possibilities are I was saying no all the way Willa and he had a picture at a picture and I had a public public that I wanted to protect some of our relationship of the family and what my kids are and what my wife is and what we are in the world bringing the kids up now is like oh my goodness there's a whole new burst of energy and burst of possibilities as you can tell that burst of energy and possibilities will describes isn't really for his kids it's a burst of energy and possibilities to feed his own ego what I realized is I was building a picture well it was like Oh daddy it's so sad she said she's putting a hand on my face she's like nine and Jayde was in the kitchen she said mommy isn't it sad what said daddy has a picture of a family in his mind and it's not to have to let go of the picture yeah you have to let go of the dream was devastating what we can do in this world as a family I've been trying to live up to an expectation for will yeah you know who were trapped in a life that you didn't build what I did and then I didn't want but that I had to come to the understanding that I allowed myself to have not wanting to rock the boat ahead kids you know and just whatnot you know cuz he's a force to be reckoned with is this a lot of stuff you let slide and go pass that angers you and you get resentment absolutely you know but you don't change it because you're scared I want to know what you do to keep this flame burning because what happened was our characters were trying to have a relationship and if you're gonna wear a mask then the person's trying to love your mask right they're trying to love the image that you're presenting but that's not what you really need the fact that I was broken and I learned how to look fixed to the world right Will Smith is a character yeah right but deep down inside I was an insecure little boy that wanted Jada to say I was great right and if she didn't say I was great the dragon came out yeah that was a difficult one for me when you stopped clapping when I did things in the exterior world that were great yeah there was a decline from there yeah you put out this song nunya and a lot of people were saying okay you know uh kiss is dating Jada pinkett-smith [Music] what was the real situation with Jada Pinkett Smith [Music] I actually sat down with will and had a conversation due to the transformation from their marriage to life partnership that they've spoken only several times will and I have decided to even throw away the concept of marriage we don't even call ourselves married it's a life partnership in the sense that we've created a foundation together that we know is for this lifetime this lifetime we have devoted ourselves to each other as you were seeing Will and Jada spoke candidly at Jada's read.table in 2018 however they omitted and didn't mention any other love interests they just said that they're now in a life partnership and you know not involving romanticism mm-hmm he gave me his blessing that I and I I totally gave myself to that relationship for years of my life but as you just saw August Alsina broke the news that he was in a relationship with Jada Pinkett Smith there's all this stuff that's going on in the press mm-hmm I felt like it was important to come to the table to really clear the air so Will and Jada decided to address that claim here coming to the table was like we just felt like they got to the point where you got to say something man to stop that cycle yeah you know those people's feelings involved right when Jada says people's feelings are involved she gives off a smirk pointing her hands and giving off a head tilt at will indicating it's wills feelings that are involved but we'll notice throughout is that Jada is not feeling any personal grief or sympathy for will because notice wills body language and see what you think you know and at the end of the day yeah well you know two sad droopy red eyes mouth twitches and winces indicating pain and disappointment will sometimes do those mouth switches as a subconscious outlet of the pain we're feeling also notice the body language difference between the two this conversation of course is more emotional for will than Jada but it's alarming that Jada isn't mirroring even some of real emotional body language which would show empathy for wills feelings throughout their discussion you'll notice that Jada seems fine and will is overall distraught so it comes across and seems that Jada doesn't really care how we'll feels probably how sensitive he is he's extremely sensitive now watch Jada's body language in this next part and see if you believe what she's saying is actually the case I don't like how all of this came to be that doesn't matter mm-hmm it's all love honestly yeah there's a massive body language cluster which seems to indicate that it's not love for will but it was said in defensiveness over her own feelings I don't like how all of this came to being first as she talks about how there are long history doesn't matter with that expansive gesture that doesn't matter she immediately turns her palms towards will in defensive 'no stupid criticism away it's all love she brings both her hands to her upper chest indicating self caring mostly about herself and not him contrary to what she's trying to make him believe honestly they know overcompensates with convincing and not just conveying by saying honestly however she then shakes her head within congruence indicating that it's not actually all love for him it's her being defensive in to persuade will to not make her look bad here remember in body language we look for clusters and evaluate the whole picture about four and a half four years ago started a friendship with august we actually became really really good friends did you notice Jada strongly emphasized the really part really really closing her eyes and looking down was to hide from seeing wills reaction she emphasized the friends part with a double really along with a congruent head nod and bottom teeth showing which indicates her in august basically told each other everything when arg first came around he was he was really sick outpouring for him from our family goes initially about his health yeah now if we really think about what happened it's kind of wrong they apparently met august when he wasn't doing well mentally and physically Will and Jada invite August into their home and then forty four-year-old married Jada hooks up with 23 year old August while he wasn't doing very well mentally and physically the good Jada says boo boo you're married once a while bad JJ you and I were going through a very difficult time yeah and we decided I was done with you yeah we decided that we were going to separate for a period of time and you go figure out how to make yourself happy I thought it was his job to make me feel a certain way I said Jada you know what I'll retire I am no longer doing the job of trying to make you happy you know what you are free to go make yourself happy you do anything yeah anything you want to make yourself happy and you bring your ass back here happy just to show me that is even possible no we were over and then what did you do Jada will starts to call out Jada along with a held-back smirk indicating anger given the situation I got into a different kind of entanglement what the heck is entanglement have you ever heard a relationship called an entanglement meet my entanglement partner with August and one thing I want to get clear about and clean up one of the things that was kind of swirling in the press about you giving permission the only person that could give permission in in that particular circumstance is myself yes exactly yeah if you notice at this point they're both diverting probably just sound less than hot ball couple of course will doesn't control Jada obviously that's not what August was saying he was saying that we'll knew about his relationship with Jada and at the time didn't really care I think you need to say clearly what happened as far as what you and I decided we were gonna take our space and what happened see will wants it very clear to the audience what Jada did he gives off a smirk that he's holding back and especially now he seems to be hurt by it and wants her to own up to it yeah and then I got into an entanglement with August that's what I said Gaeta defends what she said and doesn't try to restate it for clarity like most were doing any normal situation she seems to be desperately trying to deceive the public by not calling it a relationship and she seems to know what she's doing by holding back that little guilty smirk and entanglement yes when will calls are out on it and chides her for it he causes her to laugh and break her frame finally admitting that it was a relationship I was in a lot of pain and I was very broken in the process of that relationship I definitely realized that you can't find happiness outside of yourself that's the thing I had to learn I have to be the thing that I'm asking for and if I can be it then I can create it and most of all I came to the table with some hardcore daddy issues it made me really angry towards men I have very high expectations I used to think well if you don't need somebody then you can't love them right exactly and if you're not needed then you're not loved that was a false belief I had I can't expect someone to love me more than me I would definitely say and he did everything that we could to get away from each other only to realize that that wasn't it possible it seems like they realized that they had kids together we're generally friends were business partners and had mutual friends etc so to split up when they were so entangled meant that they were truly cause a massive amount of destruction so in their minds they're stuck with each other during that time launched into an interaction now will calls Jada's relationship with August an interaction even after so much grief for calling her relationship and entanglement interesting right it could be to not make her feel uncomfortable or it could also be to save his ego with August what do you feel like you were looking for I just wanted to feel good mm-hmm it had been so long since I felt good this is probably the first year of my life that I can say I am happy hmm because that's how the journeys been pleased look what is the routine what are you doing it's happiness as I get older I get more and more happy this is some real love I feel like that husband like I'm with you at the press conference I love my baby I must stand by my baby no matter what it's a little odd that he feels that way because he said he was done with her cut ties with her it wasn't sure he was ever gonna see her again the fact that I'm speaking to you again is a miracle yes he didn't seem to care if someone else was with Jada if he was never gonna see her again but that was only if he was never going to see her again there's a real power in just knowing somebody's riding with you no matter what when people say love they mean it transactionally I love you as long as you do things that make me feel good if you don't do the things that make me feel good or if you've even worse you do something that makes me feel bad I don't love you and I'm going to discount one a disconnect and then your love for the truth for the truth yes are not who you think you should be for somebody I don't want to go through this no more ya know either I'm gonna get you back first then you won't get me back I think you getting her back seems to be getting even with her for what she did but he's laughing really hard so we don't really know what to make of that let's keep watching I don't think it's about getting anybody back no for me it is okay that's what you want not sure if you would actually do it but this does indicate that what Jada did really hurt will which actually shows that he cares 25 years and counting mm we ride together we got there's nothing like being optimistic about your future together right also don't we recall them saying that they don't call themselves married anymore we don't even say we're married anymore we don't even call ourselves married yeah we don't call ourselves married anymore we're in a life partnership we started out with them being called the most perfect marriage the most unbreakable couple in Hollywood to them pounding it out as having a bad marriage for life here's the thing no human relationship is perfect because people aren't perfect so if a relationship appears to be too good to be true it probably isn't true give this video a thumbs up if you think there's no perfect marriages or entanglements give this video a thumbs down if you think there are picture-perfect marriages or entanglements turn now in the comments what would you do if you were real Smith would you leave her in the dust would you get back at her if so how let everyone know and they come and spoon loo remember to hit that subscribe button now because we don't want you to miss out on new body language at investigative videos that always seem to shake up YouTube and I'll see you at the top [Music] [Music] [Music]

Channel: Derek Van Schaik

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Keywords: body language, will smith, jada pickett smith, red table, entanglement, august alsina, bad marriage for life, willow smith, jaden smith, trey smith, oprah, entertainment tonight, e! news, inside edition, men in black, will smith body language, jada smith body language

Id: NGJJe263Hs8

Length: 25min 21sec (1521 seconds)

Published: Mon Jul 20 2020