What Are Some Pretty Messed up Things You've Seen Your Parents Do?

what is the most freaked up thing you've seen your parents do i think it was probably sitting in a chair with a wooden spoon when i was about five screaming at me to come to her so she could beat me with it the kind of scream where they turn red in the face their expression is so distorted it barely looks human their throat gets so tight from the level of screaming they sound different i just remember standing there in front of her crying and frozen when i didn't go to her she started hitting herself with the wooden spoon on her leg screaming as she did it when it snapped in half on her leg she started hitting herself and pulling at her own hair she had a wooden spoon-shaped bruise perfectly shaped out on her leg and i remember a few days later when i saw it and said something she said that's because of you that's what you did i'm pretty sure it was because i didn't want her to brush my hair i can't really remember my brother never experienced any of this i always copped it when i was home alone with her but out of everything she ever said to me and still does that was the most fricked thing i've seen her do ah man bless you i hope you have a peaceful life now my dad was a regular my ex was aurega my so is the sweetest calmest man you don't realize the pain of yelling until it's gone mum threatened to shoot herself over the new dog crapping on the carpet she's a very all or nothing woman her sound for i am struggling with the peanut butter jar is the same as her sound for someone is currently being murdered might have to do with the depression and anxiety that she passed on to me my parents are the same omg my stepfather groping my girlfriend's breasts i complained but my mother told me not to be so jealous they might as well have given me a brochure of headstones saying they've decided to both be dead to me comma they might as well have given me a brochure of headstones saying they've decided to both be dead to me yep i would have to agree with you on that one that's a serious case of weight what oh frick no i'm out of here my stepdad threatened to kick me and my sister out of the house along with all do our stuff if my mom left on a business trip that would secure her job and make herself dependent i told her to leave because it was important that she go and do this for herself he indeed kicked us out after i came back from the airport he took the ski rack he helped buy off the car and moved all of the furniture throwing anything in a public space or their room into the garage or my sister's room i began secretly loading the car with essentials like our personal files and birth certificates i also grabbed the ps4 he bought me to prevent him from abusing my account my puppy was still on worm's treatments but he said he would take her back if we left her so we had to put her in her crate where she had bad diarrhea i took essential clothes and school stuff and tried to take my violin however he spotted me when i went to head downstairs and ran in front of me i had paid for half of the 1 500 instrument but he helped pay for the rest and claimed it was his i tried to keep it from him which became a wrestling match between my five feet four 117 pounds self and his 220 pound six featuring self he eventually reached past me and grabbed the strap ripping the handle i was holding off of the case we left shortly after seeking refuge at neighbours for three days i had to hide my car in a parking lot a ways away so he wouldn't try to steal it i did eventually get the violin back but he destroyed our house and put a three-inch radius hole in the stairway wall and kicked and punched the bathroom door in my mom's room destroying it and ripping it off the hinges i have never been so terrified of a guardian before she got divorced from him a month later tldr my stepdad kicked me and my sis out of the house taking a lot of our stuff while my mom was out of town at least her mom is away from him now and btw that is some weird stuff my parents go in an argument like i'm sure a lot of couples do but it just kept escalating voices raising eventually it ended up in screaming match my mom took the phone off the hook and threw it at my dad he caught it just before it hit his face and then he got right in my mom's face and screamed at her she then started smacking him and screaming at him at the time i thought that was how couples argued then i saw my wife's parents get in an argument she said it was one of the worst she had ever seen and they were barely one stroke tenth of the yelling my parents had gotten anyway this has led to a lot of issues with my wife she thinks i'm yelling at her when i'm in my mind barely raising my voice she always thought i was crossing a line while i thought i was holding back then about six months ago she saw my mom and i get in a fight i'm not even sure what it was over but i had to resort to yelling to get my point across and catching random crap she threw at me after that my wife understood that when i get stern and don't yell and don't throw crap i'm holding back i'm trying the hardest to not end up like my mom [Music] my parents divorced when i was seven my father died when i was in my early twenties he left me five dollars in his will that was fine i wanted nothing to do with him from the time i was seven the courts revoked his visitation when i was 13. i saw him three times from a distance between 13 and 18 and didn't speak to him we never got in contact again my mom wanted me to get a lawyer contest his will and turn over the money to her because she felt she was due on account of her crappy marriage and lousy divorce settlement her sisters agreed leaving a token amount means i didn't forget this person exists i just don't want them to have anything so they can't contest the will saying they were accidentally left out or something my dad has very bad road rage when i was about eight he got us into an accident on poor pose just to get back at the person for getting into the turning lane in front of the neighborhood he was trying to get out of my dad swerved in front of traffic and hit the guy from behind i still hate being in the car with him my mum cheated on my dad when i was 5 yo i remember seeing the guy and mum saying don't tell dad to save the marriage they moved states and my dad still kept his same job 150k salary in the 90s and came home in the weekends of course mum found someone else to cheat with while dad was at work he got her all the new cars and started her a business but still she was committed to cheating they divorced during the custody court case she lied in court say my dad violated me and my sister same mum different dad my dad was trying to get custody of my sister even though she wasn't his own he knew she was better off with him the case destroyed my dad lost his job house money etc mum remarried and had more kids with the new guy fast forward 10 years and she cheats on him with his best friend told my sisters don't tell dad she broke the news on my birthday which was the same day as my final exams they go to court for custody can you guess what happens next she said my stepdad violated her and my sisters utter bulls he can only visit with a police officer present these are examples of what she has done to people in my life i could write a book about the crap she has done to me personally welp when i was about 10 me and my aunt two cousins and my mom went to this water park my older cousin had gone off with her friend and me my mom and my younger cousin went to go on a ride and my aunt was sitting by the wave pool when me my mom and younger cousin got to the slide he got scared he told my mom that he wanted to go back to his mom my mom then started going ballistic on him and cussing at him and crap and that scared him even more so he ran off to his mom well my mom grabbed me and we went to find him we found him with my aunt and without her saying anything my mom then started cussing her out and threatening her saying that my cousin was a little pee and she was gonna kill her because he ran away that just scared him even more and he started crying we got kicked out the park and the whole 45 minute ride home she was just talking more crap after that my mom cut my aunt off it's been nine years and they still haven't talked your mom's a sea when i was in third maybe fourth grade i was crying in my room on the bed because my mom wouldn't let me go to a neighbor's house she then proceeded to take a pillow from my bed and hold it over my face attempting to suffocate me luckily i was smart enough to hold my arms over my face to keep her from doing it i still hate her for that till this day and i'm 16 she wonders why i don't love her the way i do my dad what the actual freak i have really low blood pressure and high anxiety stress this was also when i was struggling with an eating disorder and hardly ate anything i got into an argument with my mother about something incredibly stupid probably about how i left a crumb on the counter when i wiped it down or something and started telling my mother i felt faint and was struggling to stand my mom screamed at me to leave her room and get ready for school i left her room and promptly fainted hitting my head on the corner of a wall and knocking myself out cold when i woke up minutes later i couldn't move my legs or my arms and began screaming for my mom to help me sobbing loudly and begging for her to help my mom opened the door looked down at my crying begging body unable to move on the floor and said you're always so freaking dramatic before slamming the door in my face i had a severe concussion that's awful i'm sorry you had to go through that my mother loved to use dramatic especially when it came to genuine health or mental concerns i hope you're doing okay now x my father strapped fireworks to me at a family barbecue and recorded me as i ran around frantically screaming whilst trying to remove them as my entire extended family cheered and hooted with laughter my mom and dad have been divorced since i was one and despite the fact that i spent approximately an equal amount of time with each other then through my childhood my mother's house was my legal residence so i went to school in the town she lived in during my eighth grade year i began living with my dad full time due to years of abuse and neglect by my mom that following summer my mother moved without telling anyone leaving me and my dad to either move to the town where my mom lived which had a great school system and all my friends or stay where we lived in the most drug infested town in the county with a considerably worse school system my dad and i had to find a place and move in less than two months my father held my mother down and screamed in her face because she didn't pay a bill threw her backwards into a glass door because he thought she was cheating shoved me through drywall because i clenched my fist while i was being yelled at swung at me for trying to leave during an argument kicked me out repeatedly throughout my entire childhood my mom stays with him still she acts as if he is the perfect human being maybe he has changed but i still don't trust him not my story but my husband's at six years old he had a loving relationship with his dog star the stories he's told me about her really light up his eyes he loved her so so much but star was getting old and he could tell there had been some talks of taking her to the vet to be euthanized but nothing ever came of it one day he heard a scuffle in the shed and peeked his head around the corner of the door only to see his mother hanging his dog from a beam this is always the story that kills the lights in his eyes when he talks about her i'm big into rescuing and fostering dogs so this story really tears me up every dang time of all the freaked up ways to kill a dog you would think that somebody with a barn would have a gun to put it out of its misery right away but hanging the poor thing i can just picture it my condolences to your husband watched my stepfather hold a gun to my mother's head telling her he'd kill her while he had her pinned on the floor it's not a great experience calling 9-1-1 at 13 years old they decided to frick kinky in a small hotel room while me and my baby brother were in the same room that is messed up holy crap saw my dad kill a dog with a hose because he was always fighting with the other dog saw him drown a cat in a five-gallon bucket not sure why and saw him possibly beat a person to death i was young around eight and he stopped at a bar and fought a guy right out front with me sitting in the car he got the guy on the ground and just kept pounding his face until he wasn't moving got back in the car with blood all over him and his hands all messed up we went to my grandparents house right after then stayed at one of his friend's house for about a week then moved far away from that state he told me later in life that it was a random guy that just tried to jump him and he just defended himself he also very seriously told me that i can never go back to that state your dad is a sociopath my mom who is a nurse had to do an interview with some businessman for some reason she had to record the whole thing in secret she used a ballpoint pen that was actually a voice recorder i never found out why she recorded that interview to this day i wonder if my mom is actually a nurse or not that's actually interesting to be honest asked me if i was hitting on him when he was high on him because if you are that's okay what the frick i will crap on his grave and that is the next time he will see me it's been almost two years and i still get sick thinking of that mom told me at 15 when we reconnected after 12 years that this local guy was hot but such a sleaze bag that her pee couldn't get wet enough to let him in i don't talk to her either my dad duct taping my foster brother to a chair because he wet the bed jesse if you are out there i am so sorry i couldn't save you from him i'm so happy you got away from my hideous family my sister received a cancer diagnosis before she even turned one year old my mom eventually refused to take her to the hospital for treatments because she was tired of missing episodes of roseanne and that thing is going to die anyway she made a show of grieving at the child's funeral a few months later but the next day back to being in butthole as usual i was 13. my dad forced me to look at incriminating photos of my mom who was sleeping with another dude he hired private investigators to obtain them when i was 17. can't say which parent is more freaked up but the situation felt awful at the time i have way too many dark ones so i am going to go with something kind of funny so my mom spent about a month in a mental health ward when i was a kid when she got out our neighbors took us to an event where a local winery had jazz concerts on their wine my mother not thinking about all the drugs she was on to unfuck her brain did four wine tasting flights and got smashed she then proceeded to take off her top spin it over her head and shake her massive memories while hooting the mating call of the drunken redneck when someone tried covering she did a bob and weave and tried to make a run for it i got to stand outside of the police station while her husband pissed at her bail fun times guy i used to go to school with tried to molest my sister when she was a kid failed attempt runs home and my sister came back home and told our parents my dad along with me and some other boys in the neighborhood go and find this kid at home my dad tells his dad the situation and his dad who was visibly frustrated with dude and his antics tells my dad to do what he has too my dad grabbed this kid drags him to our backyard ties him to her pole and whips him on the back with an iron gourd dude yelled in anguish as my dad relentlessly tore his back up one of those memories i'll never forget my dad was responsible to pay the cemetery fees for my grandparents plots urban latin america he let the lease expire and they toss their remains in the trash that seems like a really stupid system they got into a big fight at some point my father grabbed my mother by the throat and pushed her against the fridge luckily nothing happened he let go and grabbed his stuff claiming he'd never come back only to come back a few hours later they are okay now but that was scary as heck seeing my father who's normally as cuddly and sweet as a giant teddy bear turn into a violent monster was terrifying my parents once began arguing over a casual freaking website most likely similar to tinder but for married couples my dad began raging through and broke glasses and hit and violated my mom against the christmas tree the most traumatizing part was when he stormed to his closet got his gun from the gun safe and put it to his head and cocked it i was in my room crying my eyes out but i still remember how terrified i was when i heard the gun just waiting to hear the shot ring out if my mom hadn't knocked it out of his hand i honestly believe he would have shot himself this was probably around five six years ago but it's one of the many reasons why i honestly hate my father one of my older twin brothers is autistic but usually could do movies very well i think it was toy story 2 and he started to get over stimulated so my mom got up to walk him out a group of teenagers in the back screamed at him that he was a [ __ ] and tripped him as they were walking by my mom absolutely slapped the crap out of one them who then grabbed my mom's shirt or something my dad was there in like on second and actually picked the kid up out of his seat and over the next row one of his friends tried to hit my dad so my other twin brother did this hop over the seat thing and into the melee i was like six or seven years old completely convinced that my entire family was going to jail and i would be forgotten in the movie theater i don't think anything ever came of it and i honestly don't remember if the cops were called or if management got involved but a few minutes later my other brother just told me we were leaving and we got baskin robbins on the way home good for your mom and dad frick those kids i was taken away from my parents for fighting back when i was 15. there were no previous reports of abuse so i was charged with misdemeanor assault and ended up in foster care then a halfway house before foster care and after jail they sent me to rehab as punishment for claiming self-defense spending my bigger college fund on the venture they told me that they'd take me out as soon as i recounted and somehow gotten my sister to try to convince me to go along with it i was there four or five months until the money ran out as a condition to graduate from the halfway house i had to complete my probation as a condition to complete my probation i had to graduate from the halfway house i was screwed a few months before hs graduation i'd made plans to move out with a friend and attend a local community college leading to an arrest for a probation violation i went before a judge who'd received a four-page letter from my mom basically saying i deserved the harshest sentence under the law and a page-long letter from me explaining the catch-22 my compliance with all other requirements and my enrollment it turns out that it was the same judge who took my sister away and my mom was almost charged with contempt for screaming at the judge when i was released from my probation on my way back to the halfway house my mom nearly drove the director of the halfway house and i off the road screaming at us and flipping us off but when i got back i finished packing my things and moved into my friend's place not even two hours had passed when my mom showed up on my friend's mother's lawn across the street from the elementary school she taught at my mom was there for over an hour screaming at this woman telling her that she was harboring a fugitive and that i was going to violate her daughters and murder her sons about a week later i saw the letters my friend's mom brought home that had been sent to everyone at the school about the dangerous fugitive she was harboring the lady nearly lost her job and had a major breakdown she also somehow still had the authority to pull me out of school which she did out of spite all of my teachers had been harassed by her at one point or another and banded together to help me graduate early i've got an unrequited friend request sitting in my facebook from my mom and a few years ago she showed up and tried to bribe my love with a meal and a fleece jacket i ordered something expensive and lost the jacket bonus when my parents moved to nc their friends threw their more going away party they all pitched in and made this sweet scrap book with all their shared memories we all gathered to watch my mom unwrap the presents when she opened that one she glanced over it said how cheap and tossed it aside i'm just happy you won the legal battle good guy judge when i was 15 i started freaking dad found my boyfriend's condoms in my room and in rage shaved all my hair off i had waist length hair and he forced me into a chair and pulled all my hair into this tight painful pony at the top of my head and just chopped it off i cried for weeks that is really horrible i had to experience that kind of humiliation like freaking was the worst thing i could ever do i deleted the rest of my comment it's embarrassing i've literally only talked about it a handful of times dad beating up my mom was pretty freaked up i was like two or three brother wasn't born yet and i'm 3.5 years older and vividly remember it this was back when police involvement and domestic violence typically meant separating the two for a night to a sop my mother broke a beer bottle over the living room table and slashed her wrist with it because we confronted her about doing coke again she put several rocks through the windshield of her car tried to jump out a fifth story window only to find window crazy barged through the door at 3am with two of her h addict friends barely able to walk because they tried to jump someone who had a bat went from sitting on the couch to leaping over the living room table and putting a fist into the tv in one motion crashed a car she got two days prior and to celebrate walked into the nearest bar countless evictions for noise complaints but my personal favorite bitter cop while being dragged out of the house only to immediately scream police brutality when she was met with a knee to the forehead dad seems like a chill person what the frick if you are new to the channel you can subscribe i publish new videos every day until then check another video [Music] bye for now

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Length: 23min 45sec (1425 seconds)

Published: Sat Sep 19 2020