From Soulmate to Inmate - Psycho Ex Stories

creditors who were dating someone that went from i think i want to marry this person too i think i need a restraining order what happened we were actually engaged to be married then she went on holidays without me and came back pregnant she then told me you have never done anything to prove you really love me accept this baby and help me raise it to prove it i declined and asked her to leave the home that i paid for and that was in my name she refused so i made arrangements cancelled my lease then left and told her there were four days left on the lease i think she wailed but what am i supposed to do i don't have a job after being beat down mentally from her i started suffering from erectile dysfunction at 22 years of age eventually i mustered the courage to leave her she quickly moved on to someone else who would later become her husband and called me every week to basically rub it in saying how much better he was than me how much bigger he was that me etc etc i moved out of state changed my number never heard from her again she called my parents and even showed up at their home but they told her to go away about 10 years later my friend ran into an old friend of hers apparently my ex got arrested for beating her own mother got out of jail and beat her husband then tried to take their kids from him she was arrested again and later released guess i dodged a huge bullet there we met online we both had video games in common and hit it off fast forward two years and we get engaged all was well until he started getting abusive toward me and our pets i felt stuck because i could t afford to live on my own then he went on a business trip and i found child p on a hidden flash drive turned it in he got arrested turns out he was also hiring prostitutes and stuff he's in prison and it's illegal for him to contact me you dodge a missile right there that's a flat out psychopath good thing you jumped ship before you had kids i graduated she wanted to transfer schools so we moved to a college town where she told me she'd been accepted as a transfer turns out she hadn't been accepted and when she applied was not accepted she got a job at walmart while trying to figure out her next move after about two months she decides we should move to pittsburgh she's convinced this will solve all her problems and make her happy except we're in a recession and i just got my first good job i don't want to move she became abusive i didn't want to go home she was constantly negative and on the edge of a screaming fight i was just avoiding her at the end we were together four years before that and she was always moody but not abusive six months of that and she went to her hometown to take a semester at a local school and stay with her parents i called her two weeks later and told her not to come back it had been like a weight was lifted from me and i never wanted to see her again i was young dumb and thought i was in love and ignored many red flags as he got more comfortable around me he let his crazy out someone stole his cell phone and he asked me to purchase a shotgun for him so he could go shoot the person who did it it took me another year and a half to leave i did try breaking up with him but he told me that if i ever tried to break up with him again he'd kill everyone i love and then himself so i'd know what it was like to be alone that relationship ended in an order of protection against domestic violence he was nuts oh god i can't imagine the fear you felt in that moment i moved my ex in way too early she hated where she was living and i wanted to help her with her mental state so it seemed like a good idea at the time she didn't have a job so i paid for everything whenever she finally did get a job she would keep all the money to herself and then quit out of nowhere after a couple of weeks or so slowly but surely she started abusing me in pretty much every way but sexual and like a frog in boiling water i allowed it to happen by justifying it to myself i even found out that financial abuse is a thing you know it's a great relationship when it teaches you about a new form of spousal abuse she used her mental issues to manipulate me into buying her so many things including a freaking six or seven hundred dollar laptop as soon as i ran out of money we started having problems and sixteen thousand dollars in credit card debt later she broke up with me and continued to live in my apartment for another couple of months she was on the lease so i couldn't kick her out cuz legally the apartment was her just as much as it was mine she finally moved out on my birthday last december and i'm still picking up the pieces that's very similar to what happened to me frog in water is the perfect way to describe it once on vacation she punched me awake because she had a dream i cheated on her we were in the long distance relationship for over three years and eventually it started to fizzle she'd tell me to move to the states and drop my college degree my family and my animals to live as an illegal immigrant and i could just do whatever odd jobs i could find just to be with her i told her i needed to wait she'd get very upset every time i went out with friends and would bombard my facebook wall with random crap and send me private messages with passive aggressive insults and threats of suicide i broke it off with her and moved on but she kept messaging me asking to be friends i tried but she'd randomly blow up at me insulting me for ruining her life by making her think she could be loved i told her she did deserve love and she'd get even more upset we couldn't talk at all last year she messaged me yet again we broke up in 2013 telling me that i had a legal obligation to marry her since i said i would five years ago and therefore she expected me to just fly up there and fulfill my obligation to her had to block her legal obligation to marry her because you said that five years ago that's nuttier than a skirl sword of nuts started dating this girl during my junior year of high school we dated for about seven eight months when she started becoming a huge flirt i don't judge but it's not something i could emotionally handle so i called it off i started getting closer to one of my best friends as she was a huge support during the breakup and eventually caught feelings my ex did not like that late one night i see her flexing her dad's gun on her instagram and in the comments saying i'll shoot the both of them went to the dean's office at school the next day and she got arrested and spent the night in jail actually did end up giving a no-contact order i was dating a guy who was very sweet in the beginning after about six months he got possessive he didn't trust me an example of this was one night i told him i was meeting a friend i used to work with at a bar a block away we lived in a safe area and it was a short walk her name sounded like it could be male or female but i assured him she was a she he showed up at the bar while we were there and it made him look very insecure he began tracking my phone's gps i found out when i stopped at a relative's house after work on my way home and he freaked out and called my mom she actually knew that was where i was and he had a hard time believing i wasn't cheating the last straw was my first week at a new job i worked nights and had my phone i got this long-winded email regarding an innocent comment on a facebook selfie of me there were screenshots of it and a huge manifesto about why my buddies online all wanted to take me away from him after i broke up with him i got emails for months swinging between apologies and telling me i was the abuser i got emails telling me he was being drugged it was insane started dating in high school had some ups and downs but at the time i just chalked it up to us being immature my last two years of college really proved he just had serious issues when i moved out of state for good it's like a switch flipped and he got extremely possessive and controlling wanted all my friends numbers gave me a schedule of when we need to be in communication and if i missed any he was blowing my phone up with threats of suicide it finally got the restraining order when he showed up to my friend's apartment looking for me threatening to call the police because i still had a pair of issues that i didn't even have that's so crazy something very similar happened to me except i was the other side of it looking back it's insane to me how i could think the things i was doing the right but i did them anyways i'm not sure what happened in that relationship to bring that out of me but i developed some serious hang-ups that i'm still working to get over today i found out he was soliciting underage girls like a record scratch it was over this is about my sister she and her ex dated on and off in high school at some point in the eighth grade he admitted he was in love with her and she admitted she had feelings for him too so they started dating in 10th grade i told her something was off about him i'm not necessarily an intuitive person i try my hardest not to judge a situation too quickly but something about him just rubbed me the wrong way they dated for about six months and he began showing signs of abusive behavior like others have stated he began calling her and keeping tabs on her he demanded to know when she made it home and when she went to sleep he demanded that she edit her social media myspace at this time to include pictures of them and only them so everyone knew they were together she visited me in the hospital i had a severe stomach flu something wasn't right and she told me she wanted to break up with him she told me she was a bit scared of him he was a big guy maybe six feet four inches about 230 pounds my mom begged her to end it with him and she did the calls kept pouring in for about two weeks and she did her best to avoid him once i was back in school i happened to catch an encounter between the two of them he had her pinned against her locker telling her she wasn't leaving until they talked things out i told him to back off and he threatened me and then she threatened him he stormed off punched a locker broke two of his fingers he dropped it for a while he popped up a few years later on the morning of my sister's wedding with a love letter we are not sure how he knew she was getting married we all had him blocked on social media the letter was mailed to our home which he no longer lived in he hasn't come around anymore but honestly i would not put it past him my sister's husband is an avid hunter so that may be what's keeping him away i honestly thought this story was going to end with him killing her i'll throw my hat into the ring here dated a chick years ago she was essentially everything i thought i wanted in a girl she was cute funny like just enough things i liked for us to have common interests but just different enough to show each other new things and experiences i was heavy into her and she was heavy into then things got weird she started getting jealous of high school friends i'd known way before her and even went as far as telling me i wasn't allowed to hang out with some of my female friends except for the few she thought were uglier than her things got worse she started getting jealous of inanimate objects like my game consoles and video games some of which he gave me it came to her head when my grandmother asked me to watch her dog she was a tiny hand dog that i adored and one day i was half asleep and saw her literally kick this tiny dog off my bed like with her feet i asked her what the heck her problem was and she told me that she doesn't like that i give the dog more attention than her things got even worse she would physically abuse me when i did things she didn't like such as bending my fingers hitting me in the face etc eventually everything i did she didn't like after a while i got the courage to dump her butt and she tries to tell me she's pregnant to keep me which is an obvious lie after that i discovered she'd still stalk my facebook page and told some of her friends and mutual friends that i was the abuser i also learned that when i was away she let dudes feel her up and other stuff too luckily i landed a great girl that cares about me and i sent a jealous psycho like she was i hope you had support while extracting yourself from that person so often men that receive abuse are just shrugged off it's infuriating i was dating a guy i really liked him he was smart funny and adventurous we were getting pretty serious he pretty much lived at my house one weekend i went home for my dad's birthday all of my brothers were home i have five of them we ate drank and were merry one of my sister-in-laws took some pictures and posted them on facebook with me tagged in them got back to my house sunday evening and my boyfriend was coming over shorty to hang out spend the night when he got there he was basically frothing at the mouth he shoved me and called me a w started pushing me around ranting about how he had to see me whoring myself all over the internet and hanging on a bunch of guys i told him they were my brothers but at that point i was done with him i told him to get the frick out of my house he took that as an invitation to throw me up against a wall and try to force me to kiss him my roomie heard the commotion and came out of her room with a bat then crap head made the only good decision he made that day and decided to leave kicked in a pantry door and wrecked some drywall on his way out though i threw all his stuff in a dumpster he ended up stalking me for years showing up drunk at places i'd moved to after we dated calling after i changed my number even texted me on the week of my wedding to ask me to reconsider marrying him instead yeah you crazy frick i want to dump the love of my life for a crazy stalker jesus christ hope that man leaves you alone we were spending a large amount of time together with me staying at his house several nights of the week he went mad one day because he said we weren't spending enough time together he pulled out a notepad and drew up a schedule outlining in excruciating detail each hour that i would spend with him throughout the week from then on i distinctly remember sitting there saying nothing and feeling like i was in the twilight zone things got significantly crazier from then on but this moment always sticks out in my mind i had a similar situation where i was told it's okay to hang out with a friend for a few hours but more than that isn't okay i invited him to join we were just hanging out chatting and watching tv but he didn't ever want to hang out with my friends i wanted just him and me he then informed me his mother agreed that a few hours with my friends is more than enough time a number the worst version i have of this was a guy that i had been dating who rammed my truck with a moving van repeatedly at an immigration checkpoint in new mexico well after dark he thought it was funny he'd been behaving badly but i just thought it was the stress of the move the aggravated assault by you hall is when i decided to break up with him he stalked me for years after that harassing me at work which led to me getting fired i switched from law firms to legal software and that seemed to make it harder to find me his stalking ended in blowing up a brick and mortar mailbox with plastic explosives i think he laid low after that because the fbi was looking for him he eventually moved back to california years later an ex-girlfriend office contacted me about seven years later when she was settling his estate she wanted to make sure there weren't any children started dating not long after a previous relationship at first everything was amazing and i did everything for this girl for my 21st birthday we went to alden towers with two of my friends one boy and one girl we stayed over at the hotel we were all in the same room having a drink and a laugh when suddenly my gf storms out the room for no reason rightly so i follow her back to our rumors to ask what's up before i can even finish my sentence she punches me square in the face gets me to the floor and kicks me about five strokes six times i ask why and it's because i'm apparently always looking at my girl friend anyway in the morning we set off home and i assume all is well we drop my friends off and as i pull up to her house she puts her feet on my windscreen and kicks it three stroke four times cracking it i'm not sure why i stayed with her for a month after this as she scratched at my face repeatedly when i accepted an old school friend on facebook i'm glad you made your way out of that crap dude i started dating this amazing girl but she was just getting out of an abusive marriage and i was her first female partner she started showing up at my work with flowers and coffee which was sweet but i had never told her where my office was then she started showing up at my house at all hours and would get upset when i needed to sleep i worked graves she then wanted me to meet her daughters which i wasn't comfortable with because we were in the first stages of a relationship i decided to break it off she was too needy which was understandable coming from someone who had just left an abusive relationship and discovered their sexuality but i wasn't the person that could guide her she decided that i was just afraid of love and started leaving books of poetry on my porch and leaving long letters in my mailbox i finally had to call law enforcement after i came home to her in my bed she had taken a ladder to my second story room window i lived with roommates and broken in i found her naked in my bed covered in blood from cutting herself she proceeded to tell me that i was the only thing keeping her alive i cut a full contact but i truly hope that she has gotten some help and is doing well she was a wonderful woman but so so broken my relationship with my ex and uni seemed really great he loved me a lot was supper attentive i even went on holiday with his family and at some point i thought we'd eventually marry and start a family long story short when i got busy with school final year and didn't see him as often he stated getting clingy and jealous of everyone including my female friends i tried to break up with him probably three times before he accepted it explained how i wanted to focus on my studies and the situation wasn't good for either of us but the last time he seemed to understand my point and we remained friends this also didn't last long and the eventuality started stalking me online and in person and constantly bothering my friends he managed to go to my senior year party even though he wasn't in my year eventually he texted me calling me a w that i had cheated on him you name it he also told this to all our mutual friends in uni so that was fun he acted like a total lunatic begging for me to reconsider a friendship after that but obviously there was no chance for that the last straw was him showing up at the graduation ceremony making it awkward for me and all my family she punched me in the face while i was sleeping apparently my phone had awoken her when i received a text in the middle of the night from a girl asking if there was any chance i could come pick her up she assumed i was cheating and figured that the most efficient way of addressing her concerns was to just punch me in the face hard while i lay there sleeping the text was from a non-alabamian cousin who had some sort of semi-emergency and needed to get picked up from a party if you are new to the channel you can subscribe i publish new videos every day until then check another video [Music] bye for now

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Length: 20min 27sec (1227 seconds)

Published: Tue Nov 24 2020