The Language Of A Queen | Try Me | (Part 3 ) Jerry Flowers

what is up what is up what is up everybody first I want to thank you so much for joining us for a Thursday online service this is our tribe me series and I know that is absolutely going to bless your life I don't know if you're gonna like me up tonight I really don't especially my sisters but if you can hold on part four of Sunday night at 6 p.m. we deliver brothers so you could just get through tonight's I believe your life will be blessed challenged convicted and encouraged off of the purpose of being all that God has called us to be I'm thankful that you here with us on tonight let's get straight to the word [Music] [Music] well once again thank you everybody for joining us on tonight and listen we have a word for you and I want to skip all the preliminaries all the platitudes all the introductory declarations and let's just get to work so if you would could you follow along with me on First Samuel chapter 25 we're gonna read a few passages of Scripture this possibly is a story that you don't know about First Samuel chapter 25 roughly verses 32 to 35 a backdrop of this David and his boys have heard about Nate ball having some food so what do men like to do we like to eat so David I listen I've helped Nate ball and his boys we gonna go over there to eat and a ball disrespect David so David was one of those soldiers I don't play with disrespect I'm gonna ride on him I'm gonna let them feel my wrath but his wife Abigail comes out and has a conversation with David and this is where we're gonna part for the time that we have together on tonight First Samuel chapter 25 verses 32 to 35 then David said to Abigail blessed is the Lord God of Israel who sent you this day to meet me and blessed is your advice and blessed are you because you have kept me this day from coming to bloodshed and avenging myself with my own hand or indeed as the Lord God of Israel lives who has kept me back from hurting you unless you have hurried and come to meet me surely by morning light David was not playing surely by morning light no males would have been left tuned a ball so David received from her hand what she had brought him and said to her go up in peace to your house see I have heeded your voice and respect your personal claws of concern in our verse of emphasis takes residence and verse 33 and blessed is your advice and blessed are you because you have kept me this day from coming to bloodshed and avenging myself with my own hand father thank you that you bless this hour anoint my lips to be the soundtrack of heaven and Jesus name and everybody who agrees with that prayer in the room in all caps I need you to say Amen hey man oh man hold on wait a minute part three has some heat in it this is now the third installment of our tribe me series and if I'll be honest I don't think you're gonna like me after this one especially the ladies I think brothers they're gonna be feeling me for certain parts but ladies you may not like me so buckle your seat belts but I feel as though I'm a well rounded kingdom spokesman so on part three ladies is kind of coming for you but then on par four on Sunday night then is coming for the brothers so if you could just hang on for part three and get to part four I believe it's gonna bless your life all right and I'm explained about that a little bit later this is now our second week in this try me series we are lesson number three of our try me series for part 1 of this series we dealt with trust issues a message that was orbiting around try trust try trusting God because faith in God also requires faith in his timing and do you trust God enough to wear when you've been working hard for something and believing for God to give you Rachel when he gives you Leah Leah is his will but Rachel is your will and have you got to a place where I trust God so much I just want your will you get this posture this nevertheless posture that's what Simon said to the Lord he said Lord we've been out here all night fishing is what we do being a rabbi as what you do Dan biting tonight but nevertheless at your word I will let down the nets God is looking for nevertheless obedience he's looking for nevertheless holiness he's looking for nether nevertheless prayer because it's our nevertheless nature that position us to receive an abundant catch somebody say trust issues and then for part two we came together and we dealt with can you please hurry up this message was all about try patience we've tried doubt we tried worried but why don't you try patience because jesus said it this way all men will know that you are my disciples by the way you love one another and our foundational text last week in 1st Corinthians chapter 13 verse 4 Paul was telling us that love is patient so if we merge these two passages together what Jesus is really saying is by this all men will know that you are my disciples by the way you are patient with one another and what is patience patience is the ability to survive the not-yet patience is the ability to survive then not yet have they started putting the lid back on the toothpaste not yet has your teenagers who are making up the bed like you asked them to not yet has God answered that prayer not yet is there any evidence that the prayer that you have prayed is about to come into fruition not yet have they started listening not yet have they got over that insecurity not yet have they got over that doubt not yet not yet not yet it's the not yet that reveals our patient meter and since he told us to go therefore and make disciples of all nations baptizing them in the name of the Father the Son and the Holy Spirit and lo I am with you always even to the end of the age and in the root word of disciples we see disciplined Jesus was saying go make discipline people and if you're gonna make discipline people you're gonna have to have some patience you're gonna have to have some patience and then I got on my soapbox for a second I said listen if God was patient with us during our rebellion surely we could be patient with him during our becoming and I put my foot on the gas and I said I'm gonna go deeper if God was patient with us during our rebellion surely we can be patient with others as they're becoming because there's a problem when you want to receive grace but you don't want to extend grace and I believe both messages have been amazing and I don't know about you but has the Word of God ever came off like a wrecking ball like you listen to what messaging like man I feel wrecked that message is wrecking it's like a wrecking ball and as I was thinking about it I believe God literally wants us to be his construction sites literally wants us to be his construction sites there are some stuff he has to knock down and tear down because there's some stuff that he has to build up I can't build on the rubble of your will I have to tear that down and I have to build the skyscraper of my real my will because there's something that I want to do in your life and many times it feels like a wrecking ball many times you hear messages will you feel wrecked and there's two things that I would like to reiterate before we go to the new content on tonight we stated in part one that we have to be able to have the ability to discern the season and I believe for many of us the season that we're in is when we should have a caution yellow tape around our heart and our vibes and a big sign that says closed I'm under construction closed I'm under construction because anybody who comes on this site prematurely they could possibly experience injury bodily harm or even death there's some stuff that's broken listen there's some stuff that gosh trying to heal me there's some stuff I have some leaks but I'm thankful that when Jesus was here he was not just a rabbi but his earthly occupation was carpentry this means he specialized in building repairing and fixing stuff that's broke so I'm gonna season right now Jesus fix me I'm gonna season God right now fix my perspective God fixed my worry fix my doubt fix my mind Oh God well I can stop overthinking and creating scenarios that aren't true and being counseled by my thoughts and I'm not sleeping sleeping and I don't have peace I'm under construction I'm closed can I get somebody put that in the room I'm closed I'm under construction and the second thing I would like to touch somebody asks I listen I understand you're talking about pawns partners parasites and project I get that but I just got a question Jerri why do I keep on attracting parasites like what's wrong with me why do I keep on attracting parasites I want to attract a partner but I keep on colliding with these parasites what's wrong with me and if I could change your perspective I think the question is not what's wrong with me but the proper question is what's in me y'all didn't hear what I just said what's in me that terrifies hell so much that he has to keep on trying to send me distraction after distraction after headache after headache because thieves do not target empty houses please hear me thieves do not target empty houses there's something on the inside of you that Hale fears there's something on the inside of you that God put for your life and the devil knows it because parasites look for life they don't look to feed on dead things when I go fishing if I use dead shrimp I'm gonna attract bottom feeders I'm going to attract catfish that's a word in itself I'm gonna keep on attracting catfish but if I want to catch something bigger if I want to catch a drum if I want to catch a redfish I gotta use live bait so the devil knows like listen it's not necessarily you it's what's in you please hear me you are not responsible for what you attract but you are responsible for what you entertain and you hear what I just said you may not be responsible for what you attract but you are responsible for what you entertain he's after was in you because you literally give them life he's after what's in you I shared this before have you ever noticed that the devil is referred to as that old serpent and the type of snake is a Python the way pythons kill is they have a stronghold they wrap themselves around you and have a stronghold and every time you breathe they squeeze every time you breathe they squeeze the the evidence for them to get tighter is when you breathe Gossett let there be light there's light he said let there be firmness and vegetation there's firmness and vegetation but when he came to you and I he breathed the breath of life on the inside of us here oooh up he breathed the breath of life on the inside of us and what is that serpent after the breath he's after that god-given nature that god-given gift that anointing that power that next level you because he never wants you to transition and becoming everything that God has you to be it's not what's wrong with me but rather what's in me so we deal with trust issues we talked about try trust we del wit can you please hurry up we were dealing with try patience but on tonight I would like to speak from this topic around this thought for a few moments the language of a queen the language of a queen how about instead of talking venomous let's try to talk virtuous how about let's learn how to have a kingdom language are y'all ready for this are y'all ready for this ladies and gentlemen brothers and sisters and everybody under the sound of my voice watching online this scripture might be education to some but then a reminder to others and depending on where you are in your faith journey you possibly heard it before memorized it highlighted it or even could have posted it on your social media as a status or a caption and this statement takes residence and derives and proverbs chapter 18 verse 21 where the Bible tells us death and life are in the power of the tongue so in other words your mouth is either a Grim Reaper or a king activator my god your mouth is either a Grim Reaper or a king activator it's either a serial killer or a delivery unit it gives life the way you speak in the language that comes out of your mouth gives birth to something the way you speak and the language that comes out of your mouth can cause for a baby to leap on the inside of a dreamer the way that you speak and the language that comes out of your mouth can convince a strong man who has fallen on his knees to get back up and I can't speak for anybody else but I personally personally need a voice in my life that does not strengthen my Simon I need a voice that Shrimpton zmei Peter I don't need a voice in my life that strengthens my Jacob I need a voice that Shrimpton zmei Israel I don't need a voice in my life that strengthens my old self I need a voice in my life that strengthens who I'm supposed to be and who I'm called to be and that will remind me who I am there is a language and I want to know do you understand that on the inside of every man there is a king and a fool let me break it down there was a king and a fool and I think two questions that we need to ask ourselves on tonight the first question is do you know which one to talk to and the second question is do you know how to talk to his king now this isn't just romantic this is period period I am an equal sex offender in certain parts of this message the brother's gonna be like yeah this is sparta yeah and in other parts of this message lady's gonna be like see that's what I'm talking about that's exactly what I'm talking about where they at know where they at though let me know what they add sometimes we don't understand that there's a language there is a language that speaks to a king your boss your father your brother your grandfather or even your son there's a king on the inside of him and do you know how to speak to that King on the inside of him because how God has wired us men were warriors were fighters were kings were Chiefs but life has a way of hitting us so hard that it could make even the strongest man to fall to his knees sidebar a man is always stronger when he's on his knees because the man who can kneel before God can stand before anyone but sometimes we don't talk about it enough but brothers we have doubts and we could be on the canvas of life not secure about who we are don't know if I'm gonna be a good father don't know if I'm gonna be a good leader and we hear the rap of life counting four five six seven and there has to be somebody in this man's life who is louder than the referee somebody who can convince him to get off the ground because you still have some fight left your community needs you the church needs you the government needs you the community needs you your family needs you your son needs you your daughter needs you your wife needs you you have a critical position to play in the earth and there must be somebody's voice who is louder in that man's life one day I was sparring and this guy was getting on my nerves because every time I was swinging to punch him he was smiling at me because I was missing and so I'm like okay I'm gonna knuckle buddy's head off right and I'm getting all discouraged and I hear my coach yelling so loud that I really can't even hear the dude talking noise my coaches yelling so loud flowers go to the body then go up top but I want to knock his head off right you ever been in the season where you don't even want to do the right thing you just want to do what you want to do you just want to prove a point you just want to prove that I am worth something you just want to prove I can do it I didn't want to listen to him but he kept on saying flowers go to the body then go up top and then I just decided to listen to my coach and I went to the body went up top boom I hit him in right in the middle to fight I was like oh snap oh and coach I put your hands up put your hands up I got so distracted but what if I didn't have somebody in my life please hear me what if I didn't have a language in my life to encourage me you're fighting wrong it doesn't mean that you're not a good fighter it just means I can see the technique of your enemy I can see the act the technique of your adversary that's trying to knock you out but if you listen and if you have a voice in your corner that can speak a language that can get you to adjust the warfare that you in because right now you're in a level of warfare well I need some wisdom I need a language in my corner and the untold truth about men is there is a language that activates our King so possibly one of the problems I'm not saying it's the main problem but one of the problems could it be we never received the language we never received the language I never was taught how to roar I never was taught what manhood looked like I never was taught what biblical manhood looked like and for the most of us many times our Father wasn't there and mothers trying to do the best that she can and I haven't seen men roar and this is the problem when we don't hear enough roaring men because there appears to be a famine of Kingdom men can we talk about it there appears to be a fad a famine of godly men and if we don't hear enough men who have a roar who get impressed with the man who has a meow impressed with the man who has a Meowth and mama trying to do the best that she can but she really can't speak to the king in him because she can't help but to speak from the wound in her and so by default what she has done it she has nurtured and has raised a wounded man did you hear what I just said listen when God created Adam and Eve he put Adam to sleep open Adam side took out a rib and closed it and many times when we hit that scripture we just overlooked the surgery part I think the fact that God closed up Adam site was very intentional because if God would not have closed it it could have performed it could have made an actual infection and I think brothers we have to be honest enough to say there's some stuff that I need got too close there's some rules that I need God to fix there's some areas in my life that hurts and I need God to deal with them because watch this if I never allow God to heal these wounds a woman can never be my wife she'll always be my nurse did you hear what I just said she'll never be my wife she'll only be my nurse have you ever been in a relationship where you're trying to nurse his ego you're trying to nurse his childhood trauma it to nurse his esteem issues you're trying to nurse his emotional issues it's because I never was taught the language I never was taught the language if daddy was there because it's possible many times that daddy was there but he wasn't there he didn't teach me the language so I don't know how to rule from a palace and I have formulated my preference in the pasture because when you don't know who you are you're very preference could be making you settle preach holy ghosts I'm gonna give you Bible I'm gonna give you Bible somebody say Bible I'm gonna give you Bible David was anointed as king over Israel in the pasture right Samuel anoints him and leaves him in the pasture then goes to Ramon so what do we have david has a pastor placement what a palace anointing and so when you recognize that you have oil for the palace you don't date pasture you don't date pasture like in people that this level is beneath you because I'm not staying here can I just say it how I wanna say it some of us have too much oil for some people I'm not standing this pasture I'm just staying here for a season there's some stuff God's trying to teach me I have to learn how to use my slingshot I'm gonna fight some lions tigers and bears oh my I'm not gonna be staying here so I'm not formulating stings that I like here because I'm going to the next level listen a bird and the fish can fall in love but where they gonna live a burden of fish can fall in love but where they go live and some of us may think it's comedic but we have been drowning to stay with some fish preach Holy Ghost we need to talk about this because there are tons of conferences all talking about a woman's brokenness and women how they're hurting but men are wounded - men are broken - we try to hide it by some sense of false macho masculinity and we don't want to cry because when we were six years old somebody told us that's what girls and we don't know how to express ourselves and we don't know how to vet healthily and we don't know how to talk we have to deal with this issue because maybe there's a language that we need that can cause us be who God has called us to be listen this is not just confined to the sacred this is all this also works for the secular because the Lila knows how to use the language hmm yeah that Delilah secretary she knows how to use that language they had a lot of woman that he saw at the gym she knows how to use the language the only problem is usually men can't discern she may look good and she may be good to me but she's not good for me that girl is poison she may look good but she's not good for me and a lot of times brothers we get deceived because I'm about to get in trouble I'm about to get in trouble a lot of times guys get deceived and we settle for stuff that's toxic and we stay into something bad because she gives you good orgasms this is too much I'm sorry I just believe my generation requires real we require real talk the church needs to talk about this we need to talk about this because if we don't talk about it in here we're gonna go out in the world and try to get educated and their parents are gonna wonder what's wrong with my children what's wrong with them why they acting like this we cannot keep we cannot keep sending our children to Caesar and then that confused when they come back talking like Romans we have to be able to talk about stuff like this in church there's a language there is a language and I just like man why every time we talk about counterfeits it's always ascribe to that being men but yeah these dudes are trifling I'm like sisters keep you trifling two sisters can be trifling good-for-nothing type of sister they could be out there too they don't care if your husband's married at matter-of-fact the fact that he is married makes them a targets they're women who are like this - why we always think it's men now how come we can't talk about brothers having standards so what you can have a standard that he can't call you up to a certain time but then it's okay for him to pay your rent that's a double standard that's a husband privilege bro why you paying her rib rub bruh she is not your wife okay yeah I don't want to talk I told you sometimes women call me say a man that's how his brother's gonna be sayin a man so now listen I think sometimes the church spends so much time talking about Jezebel that we don't spend enough time talking about Abigail I didn't make that round the Bible did we spend so much time talking about Jezebel but not enough time talking about Abigail Abigail knew the language Abigail knew the language please hear me listen Abigail knew the language so much so where she was able to talk to David and remind him who he is he was so angry due to him being offended that he forgot who he is and all I'm trying to ask you is do you know the language that could help somebody be reminded on who they are bro you are anointed you got the oil God has chosen you you are a worshiper you are beasts with the harp you are a warrior why you tripping over an 8-ball God has a plan for your life can I mess this up for a second a lot of people they don't understand that wife is just the title but helpmeet is the function I should just end the sermon right here listen wife is the title when you ask God when you say okay god I thank you for my marriage but I need you to do something with this joker are you praying say God could you please send me somebody what you are really doing is saying God send me somebody to help it changes everything god I believe I'm a woman who has the grace to help him evolve in his manhood now I'm not talking about raise him we already talked about that project spawns I'm not talking about this I'm talking about a kingdom sold out man still needs help he still needs help and if this is what you were desiring you're saying god I want to be a helper there's some places that I know he can't meet without my help so give me the wisdom and give me the virtue and give me the purity and give me the character and give me the righteousness righteousness and give me the prayer life and give me the holiness to be able to help upgrade this brother's life all right so now look if that's what you desire then at the same time as brothers we have to be men who listen maybe she's not nagging she's activating we got to talk about it because the Bible has a lot to say about the mouth I was talking my wife about this I was like man you know he like God was so intentionally he was letting us know it is better for you to be in a desert brother it is better for you to be in a desert then for you to be in a house with a quarrelsome woman listen this the Bible it I'm just quoting the Bible don't get mad at me then it says listen brother it is better for you to be on top of the roof then for you to be in the house what a wholesome life and I'm like my god you don't even consider the elements I'm like what if it's what if it's what if this winter guys I listen it's better for you to be out here getting frostbitten it's better for you to be out here freezing your hiney off then for you to be in the house with a woman that does not know how to control her mouth and loves to fight and loves the corn this is the word of god y'all it's better for you to be burnin up in this humidity on this roof with this towel burning your hind parts then for you to be inside with a course and wife there's a language can I hear somebody say language there's a language that activates our King but men we have to be men who listen so therefore this changes everything this means men we should stop looking for big backsides and breasts and look for a woman who knows the language okay I'm not saying God is gonna give you somebody that startles you if they roll over too fast in the middle of the night I'm not saying that God is gonna give you somebody and say listen this is my will love them in spite I'm not saying the car's gonna do that he knows you god only knows all the hairs on your head he only knows your personality he knows what you need but it's possible for us to get so infected by culture that we don't even know what to look for when you know who you are you know what to look for if you don't know who you are you won't even know who to take with you I have to know who I am so I could identify the language and there's so many listen this is not weakness it takes strength to understand this it takes strength and meekness to understand this a lot of us have personalities that aren't even you you picked up a personality like you're goofy but your ex thought you were immature and so you change yourself to cater to them but gods person that he has for you or the place that God wants you to be in or the ministry that God needs you to lead he needs that goo for you but many times if we're not careful we will become somebody like adjust ourselves to becoming what they need and that's not who God needs for you to be there's a language this isn't weakness this takes strength could it be you couldn't get your son to respond because you're not speaking to his King could it be you could not get your husband to respond because you're not speaking to his speaking to the king in him could it be your co-workers you can't get them to respond because you're not speaking to the king in him I'm coming for the brothers on Sunday I know it's hot but I'm trying to get us understand there's this language of virtue instead of this language of venom that God wants us to learn abigail knew the language and this is what's so powerful about this abigail was married to neigh ball neigh ball means food she was with a fool but she didn't allow who she was wit to cause her to speak foolish all right I'm gonna give you Bible first Samuel 25 let's read verse 20 let's read verse 25 listen it says please let not my lord regard this scoundrel a pawn for us his name is so is he named ball is his name and folly is with him but I your maidservant did not see the young men of my Lord whom you sent so she's I listen I understand that he's a fool but I wasn't there and I think it's powerful when you can recognize I'm dealing with a fool but I don't have to embody it and it causes me to speak foolish that X relationship that person that you were witness with a fool you were with the fool do you now speak foolish because you were with a fool I'm making my lip hang on purpose he was a fool she was a fool and are you allowing their foolish self to cause you to engage and speak foolishly maybe that's the problem a lot of brothers were round fools we hang around fools we've been taught foolish things like manhood is about how will you throw your fists and how high you stack your money and true manhood is none of those things manhood is not from the waist down it's from the neck up that's what manhood is and if we haven't been taught that then no wonder we don't know how to look for that so I was thinking I was like okay maybe maybe the issue is and I was formulating my points that's okay God maybe we should talk about what is the condition of your mouth and the Holy Spirit checked me really quickly said no that's not it it's not what is the condition of your mouth it's what is the condition of your heart because out of the abundance of the heart out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks it's not about what is the condition of your mouth it's about what is the condition of your heart because if Jesus doesn't have your heart it will never manifest in your mouth okay so did this this this last part right here I believe applies to everybody okay I want you to see this really quickly got these cups hopefully I don't make a mess up here so I believe there there are different types of hearts all right I'm gonna put the broken heart right here because the broken hearts kind of busted broken hearts have walls around them right so then we have an empty heart then we have a thirsty heart and then we got a polluted heart all right so yeah let's do it like this I believe we have different types of hearts we have polluted hearts we have thirsty hearts we have empty hearts we have broken hearts and the ultimate goal of God he wants us to have a whole heart okay so let's talk about the polluted heart right polluted hearts are people who have hazardous mouths okay their heart is polluted due to the second-hand smoke of something god this is good their heart is polluted due to the second-hand smoke of the childhood to the second-hand smoke of that X due to the second-hand smoke of a bad preacher due to the second-hand smoke of being abused and so now they'll curse you out because they listen to music that curses their mouth how in the world you wonder like how do I stop cussing but you getting cussed out you paying $9.99 for it every day you repairing an Apple subscription every single month and you're wondering why why can't I stop cursing but you're listening to things that keep cursing you out polluted polluted heart and sometimes this heart is polluted because of pain I've experienced pain because the devil knows unaddressed pain becomes a personality so if I could write I wish I had like some ink or something this polluted heart right here many times is black with what they went through the pain of what they went through and so when you enter into this type of relationship you not gonna get them to speak a whole language to you because they have a polluted heart somebody say polluted and I've noticed I don't know if you guys have been watching the news pollution levels have dropped since this quarantine pollution levels have dropped because sometimes staying in benefits atmospheres Lord staying in prayer benefits the atmosphere of your heart staying in the Word of God benefits the atmosphere of your character staying in community benefits the atmosphere of your integrity maybe you're so polluted because you kept on getting outside of the will and God said right now in this season I need you to stay in my presence I need you to stay in my face not not as though you didn't do it before but we need to do this an overload right now because we have to address this polluted heart the second type of heart this is the thirsty heart okay people who have thirsty hearts they keep ending up in relationships where they're required to a pour and other people drink they just want attention they just want affection they just want somebody to love them they just want somebody to see their significance they just want somebody to be there I just want somebody to see my side I just want to feel significant so since they're so thirsty for that they keep on getting in relationships and most of the time when they get relationships they keep doing this thank you I appreciate that now are you tripping you just being sensitive I appreciate that kind of your keys your car and have your keys your place appreciate that and they're left empty they're left empty so now what happens is this person who is thirsty now they're empty they have an empty heart these are the type of people who just talk cold no passion no love and you're like man why are they so heartless it's because they're truly heartless and the reason they're empty is because they poured out for so many people they poured out for the parents they poured out for the brothers they poured out for the job but nobody ever poured back into them and since nobody ever poured back into them they have an empty cup and so they have an empty heart and how that happens many times is every time you begin to express yourself to them they don't really have much emotion they don't really have many things to say does they have an empty heart right and now this one this is the broken heart you guys can see this in this little container this is the broken heart now this the crazy thing about broken hearts broken hearts want people to treat them with love but they're constantly surrounded with this wall right and these people like I know I got a wall around my heart the dangerous thing with walls is nobody can get in and you can't get out right and so it don't matter it doesn't matter how much people pour into you because every time somebody pours into you there's all this brokenness there's all these issues and you're like man I didn't mean it like that why are you taking like that every single thing you try to put into them the love that you try to put in them the compliments that you try to give them the encouragement you try to give them they never really receive it why because they're broken they're broken and listen people have a broken heart will break your heart they speak the language of brokenness they'll try to break you because they're dealing with brokenness themselves please listen a whole glass can quench your can quench your thirst but that same glass if broken can cut you and this is how a lot of people this is what we do in our relationships we bleed on people we bleed on them every single person we go to we constantly keep bleeding on him it's not them you know you've mattered that they're polluted you don't even matter that this person is thirsty you're broken so you constantly keep on bleeding on people who never cut you and the last type of heart that God wants us to have is that whole heart love the Lord your God with all your heart he wants our heart to be whole where people can pour in us and he could pour into us and guess what I could point to you and important to you I could pour into you because I have a whole heart and I think many times well we don't recognize is God wants you home he wants you home because there's a whole lot of work that he means for you to do but I can't have you do the kingdom work if you're so broken and you think everybody's gonna take advantage of you and you have these constant trust issues and you don't know if their motive is sincere I'm not saying don't have discernment but I am saying we should trust God enough that God will show us people who are toxic God will show us people that are trying to use us God wants us to be whole I think many times for us to get here we have to understand there's a language so father God we pray give us hearts oh god this this is not really just a pop relationships this is just in general you told us in your word guard your heart with all diligence for out of it flows the issues of life rather if we have a pollution flow a thirsty flow would empty flow are broken flow God give us the wisdom or how to guard our hearts not wall our hearts so that we could speak the language that you need us to speak so that we can speak the language of grace you told us to trust you you told us to be patient now God you're challenging us the talk kingdom and we pray in such a hearts and our minds so then the mind I was in Christ Jesus can also be on the inside of us give us all hearts because out of the abundance of the heart the mouth shall speak and if we're constantly supposed to speak life into people have got to be hold in my heart you said blessed are the pure in heart for they shall see God make our hearts pure so that others can see you in us in Jesus name ain't not about the condition of your mouth it's about the condition of your heart God wants us to have pure hearts blessed are the pure in heart for they shall see God I pray that this message blessed you and challenged you and also for us to understand this was not just like a relational message but it's more about the heart type that God needs because if Jesus doesn't have our heart it would never reflect in our mouth make sure to join us on Sunday night at 6 p.m. Central Time for part 4 of this try me series I'm so thankful for all of your love all of your support all of your prayers we are honored to serve you can't wait to see you on Sunday night try me I'm wonderful that [Music]

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Length: 42min 20sec (2540 seconds)

Published: Thu Apr 23 2020