Stop Cheating in 2021 - Dr. K. N. Jacob

stop cheating in 2021 that's my new year message for you hey i'm dr kn jacob happy new year and my new year message stop cheating in 2021 listen gentlemen listen you have children many places some you don't even take care of you have slept with women some you can't even remember you have slept with women beyond what you can number your grandfather was having extramarital affairs your father was having extra marital affairs why can't you be the one breaking this generational struggle why can't you stand up and say i'm tired of failure i'm tired with repetitious failure vicious cycles in my personal life you've got to make up your mind because your son looks up to you to know how to treat women your son looks up to you to know what a husband means what a father means your daughter looks up to you to know what she expects from a man to know how she expects to be treated by her future husband she hears your voice as she speaks would you want your daughter to be married by a cheat like you don't you realize ages catching up with you hey lady lady listen to me you've broken your marriage because of extra marital affairs you have if you don't rectify right now you will carry the same baggage to subsequent relationships even if you remarry you will deal with the same baggage you are not dealing with right now and if you are still married thank god you are never caught but i want you to know this god gives you grace and you are exhausting that grace by not rectifying everyone jesus forgave he demanded they change their lifestyle he told the woman caught in the act seeing no more meaning cheating is a choice extra marital affairs is a choice young lady who is sleeping with other people's husbands let me warn you stop being someone's mistress why should you be somebody's second option why should you play a second violin someone plays you at his own leisure pleasure you are his toy he turns on and off whenever he wants why should you be someone's left overs he cannot even sleep in your house overnight because his loyalty is with someone else and what goes around comes around life is a big echo what you do to others will be done to you you sow what you reap stop sleeping with other people's husbands today i want to teach you how to start a new chapter in 2021 in your morals how to open a new chapter a fresh page have a fresh breath in your marriage because the number one killer of marriages is extra marital affairs and you can overcome it it's within your power and it's in your interest it's in your interest to overcome extra marital affairs so i want to tell you eight things you can do if you follow my suggestions today i guarantee you a hundred percent not only in 2021 but for the rest of your life you will never again deal with that other woman in your marriage that other man in your marriage you will not be crossing fingers left the wrong text lads on your phone you will never again be embarrassed that your children know you lose any moral you can do it yes you can i have seen very many people reform and you're the next testimony eight things to stop extra marital affairs eight things to stop cheating from 2021 for the rest of your life number one purpose that you want to overcome extra marital affairs purpose you will never again cheat it is taxed by a decision in your mind the main sex organ is not between your two legs your main sex organ is in the mind affairs don't start on the bed affairs start in the might you play the tape over and over and over again in your mind your body on it goes to complete the mental picture you have never result you don't want affairs you see you have treated last as love the first step towards going somewhere is deciding you want to take that journey if you don't decide what journey you want to take any road leads there to that place called not destination you will never defeat an enemy you have not identified an enemy you have not decided to conquer some of the quarrels and problems in your marriage is simply because you are not resolved to slay the elephant in their house extra marital affairs ask yourself if your partner cheated on you how would you feel why do you think you have more right to cheat than they have that's the question you have to ask yourself what are the benefits of extra-marital affairs gentlemen by now you must have realized there is nothing that woman has that your wife does not have if only you cared to focus on your woman you will see the beautiful qualities in her my mercy is far more beautiful to me today than she was on a wedding night she's by far the most beautiful woman on the face of the earth to my eyes and i'm telling you if you look closer at your woman if you look closer to your husband you will see attributes beautiful attributes you've never seen before purpose in your heart you don't want more affairs just let this be your song in 2021 no more cheating no more affairs it is touched by a decision you must make up your mind you don't want to cheat anymore purpose it's a choice it is a choice cheating is a choice you don't have your blood is not is no more hotter than our blood you don't have more opportunities to cheat than your partner or than any other person you just lose by choice step number two step number two learn to talk highly about your partner talk highly about your wife everywhere you go talk highly about your wife everywhere i have lived i talk highly about my mercy whether on social media in my conferences with my in-laws with my parents with my siblings with my friends i really don't care who i meet i talk highly about my mercy some people don't like it read my lips i don't care if you don't want to talk good about your life that's your problem i will talk good about my wife she's my partner my sex partner my financial partner my ministry partner my parenting partner my life partner she's by far the most important person by far the most precious treasure to me so i have learned to celebrate my wife because she's the most important person to me god number one in my life number two my mercy number three my children equally i have no favorites ivy and zeke they pray in the same league in my heart number four parents both sides number five siblings both sides and number six close friends both sides then my ministry that's how it works talk highly about your wife why should you do that because every time you talk kindly about your wife especially when you are having corporate company parties when you go out for corporate trainings or events every woman respects your space when you speak highly about your wife no woman wants to tempt you they feel you are fulfilled you are satisfied and you have no gap that they can feel and number two when you speak highly about your wife you protect yourself from yourself you protect yourself from your personal lust because if you try to tune the same women they will remind you i thought you just talked about your wife so good i thought you loved your wife so much were you kidding are you hypocritical they will hold you accountable and responsible for what you have said so when you talk good about your wife you kind of put off anyone with a dirty thought anyone who wanted to bring you down you have already told them there is no space in your heart that's how it works so the moment you introduce your wife to the world educate no one wants to joke around with you because people exploit a vacuum there is no vacuum in nature so silence doesn't help you when you're neutral people will try to exploit your neutrality but when you are very strong about your life everybody respects that space so you protect yourself from your personal lives and from anyone who is trying to advance towards you woman talk highly about your husband when you do that you paralyze you disarm any any lustful man any man who's lasting after you they get confused some get irritated so people will only engage you professionally those who don't want to deal with you professionally they walk out of your life they realize you have no gap to be filled they realize there is no space in your heart for anyone else and you're respected for it because every time you talk good about your husband every time you talk highly about your husband you set a strong signal you are a dignified woman you respect yourself you honor your marriage you honor your men women who speak against their husband are foolish every time you go to company parties you meet your girlfriends every time you're talking against your husband guess what you're doing you are creating space for the enemy to destroy your marriage people will notice your vulnerable points and take advantage of your vulnerability you want to fear proof your marriage speak guilds speak great about your marriage this is a sure proof you will have here prove your marriage from affairs and from people who take advantage her in us who are ready to tear your marriage apart you want to stop cheating in 2021 number three meet people in public places listen me gentlemen don't ever go to a single woman's house or even to a married woman's house alone don't even go to their houses at all but if you must because you're a counselor you are a pastor you are a work colleague you are an electrician a plumber you know there is something you need to fix in your homes make it a habit not to go alone it will keep you safe it requires a very high level of foolishness to go to a woman's house what if she has multiple sex partners and one day you get in there and you meet with the guy who pays for her mortgage you meet with the guy who bought her the house or the car and maybe this guy is gonna shoot you down because if she sleeps with you she's a cheat she can sleep with anyone else she knows you're married and she doesn't care sleeping the married person that means you are not the only man in her life get into a house is risky in fact let me tell you what the bible tells you about going to her house proverbs 7 27 the bible says this about this woman her house is a highway to the grave leading down to the chambers of death think about that verse 21 with persuasive words she led him astray she seduced him with a smooth talk all at once he followed her like a knocks going to this water like a deer stepping into a noose literally knowing it will cost him his life and if you're going to a moderate woman's house the bible says you're foolish proverbs 6 32 but a man who commits a totally lacks judgment amplified version lacks sense new living translation is foolish let me read for you 28 and 29 proverbs 6 can a man walk on hot coals without his feet being scotched so as he who sleeps with another man's wife no one who touches her will go unpunished think about that make it your custom to meet in restaurants meet in a hotel in a restaurant meeting shopping malls if you must go to a public park don't meet people in private places alone it's foolish woman don't allow people in your house how do you allow men into your bed chambers you are you reasoning right how do you allow a man and another one into your bedroom think about that you allow people to waste your sweat to come to your house where you can easily be caught by his wife seriously seriously if you really want to play life safe meet people in public places decide in your heart if somebody has to come to your house they have to be two or three of them if you're going to somebody's house you have to be two or three of them just don't trust your flesh you are not just one bloody some of you are hot blooded that's the reality meet in the public places if you want to avoid cheating from 20 21 don't even get in a guest room don't get into a lodging just meet in an open restaurant i practice what i'm telling you i'm a coach i'm a mentor i'm a pastor and sometimes i have to meet people for counseling let me tell you everyone i meet for counseling must say schedules my appointments she keeps my diary so we never have to discuss later about what i was doing about that other woman no and you can decide to do the same meet in public be accountable to someone more about that in a moment by resolving your heart for me if i have to meet someone whether they are be read as a pastor sometimes i have to go to people's homes to pray for the sake to pray for them be read to console people sometimes i have to go for their birthday parties anniversaries guess what 95 percent of the time i will go with my mercy in case she is not available i will carry a church deacon with me but i will not enter a woman's home even a man's house i will not get a loan even a month's house i don't i as a policy i will not go to somebody's house alone it is safe for me you want to avoid cheating in 2021 and you're serious you mean business about it number four money disclose your money to your partner all incomes or expenditures you must be a hundred percent accountable and a hundred percent transparent money matters the lord jesus said where your treasures are there your heart is where your money is there your heart is money reveals your values money reveals your priorities money reveals the condition of your heart that's why jesus said you cannot serve two masters you cannot sell god and money you can't sleep with a mistress and fail to spend money if you go to her house you're buying her shopping maybe some jewelry maybe you're paying her rent if you go to a guest house you will have to pay for that guest house maybe fuel her car or hire a cop for her you cannot sleep with a woman and failed to spend money no matter how rich he is no matter how rich a woman is nobody might be treated for a good dinner no woman will tell you no if you buy her some jewelry some earrings a hat bag she won't say no to a gift of her phone to a gift of a card season of greeting card her birthday card so you cannot be in an affair and fail to spend money it's just a fact i'm a mentor and i can tell you this it's easy for you to tell me what you value and who you value guess what i don't need you to tell me what you value i don't need you to tell me who you love or what you love i just need to check how you spend your money and it tells me who you love and what you love don't tell me you love god show me how you spend your money show me you spend your money with your children you buy them food you pay the house for them you buy them clothes you pay their school fees you take them for holiday because you love them you have never sent me a check to take my children for holiday it's easy to go to my facebook page and say doc we love you lip service you can't love without spreading you can give without loving for public show because you want to be seen you're giving like people do in church many people in church give for the sake of being sin they're giving those who truly love god i can tell by how much they give not giving but by how much they give that's the truth by how much not just by giving that's the truth if you love the widows the poor the needy i can tell by the percentage you allocate to the needy most people throw change to the needy they throw coins to god simply because they want to be seen their giving and jesus said if you draw coins to god or to the needy you have already received your reward others have seen you gave that's your reward done you have wasted the few coins you drew who you love you give what you value you spend significant amounts housing your children sheltering your children feeding your children dressing your children paying their scoop is why you love them for most of the rest of us it's lip service so if i really want to know how well your marriage is doing i need to check how you spend your money in marriage there's nothing like her money and my money but our money stop that arrangement how many is for foods vegetables clothes and you know what my money is for projects 10 years later you have no projects to show you have taken your money to prostitutes or to a mistress in the name of her money my money come on rubbish marriage is our money our mother our dad our children our house our car one flesh naked and not ashamed there are only two reasons why you cannot disclose your money both incomes and expenditure number one you are insecure you don't see the future in your marriage so you have a buffer account just in case this marriage backfires i will not start from ground zero i have an account a security account i have something to start my new life with so i need to hide some money so that my husband does not see it i need to hit some money so that my wife does not see it just in case this marriage backfires i have a plan b i have an out scheme i have an escape route you can't have a bridge and fail to use it someday you can't have a plan b and feel to use it destroy that bridge and your marriage will work so insecurity is the one reason why people have secret land secret bank accounts secret assets secrets talks and boots but number two is because money reveals your life if you have nothing to hide let your wife let your husband see what you earn and how you spend plan every coin together if you're still feeling insecure register all the assets together every house every car so that if you go through divorce then you get your 50 but that's not god's plan god's plan is for your marriage to work and if you stop cheating on your partner your marriage will work it will work some of the fights you have in your marriage some of the reasons you have unresolved conflict the major reason your marriage is sexless testless is because you keep cheating on your partner every time you cheat on your partner your heart they move apart intimacy has been compromised people who don't cheat on each other work on their intimacy they have a blissful relationship they long for each other they send each other nice text they want to see each other they kiss each other they walk towards their marriage because marriage does not work marriage is caught to work miserable marriage is a reflection of two miserable people two foolish people living together stress each other antagonize each other two wise people make a marriage good for each one of them and both of them by the way i have an online marriage course i encourage you to just get it get my marriage online course twenty dollars and there's a new year offer of ten dollars just ten dollars you go through seven modules together you can decide to do a module per week one module every week sex in marriage is a module money marriage is a module in-laws in marriage is a module conflicts in marriage and how to resolve conflicts communication in marriage another module love respect psycho another module expectations in marriage another more deal if you purchase that cost it goes for 20 it's a new year offer for 10 don't try to do the whole course one day decide you're gonna do it in seven weeks every weekend you will take some 20 minutes together watch the videos do the assignments and reflect on the questions i'm asking in the course some people say they can't afford it you can't afford ten dollars for your marriage how much is your marriage worth sharp people see value from a distance and they go for it stupid people don't invest in themselves bright people see value from a distance and they go for it they believe in self-improvement they know their work in progress they know nothing works until you work stupid people depend on luck they say he has a good wife he's so lucky he's so fortunate he has a good husband you're senseless if you're still talking like that someone can take the same woman you look down upon and they make a great marriage someone can take the same husband you divorced and make a great marriage you don't need to change your spouse you need to change yourself change yourself and you will see your spouse looking differently change your spouse change yourself sorry change yourself and you will automatically change your spouse or change your perception on your spouse let me say one more time this needs to sink change yourself and you automatically change your spouse or change your perception on your spouse this is the simple rule in marriage work on me pray for partner and wise people foolish people are trying to change their partner you can't change anyone who told you have that much power there's some men who say i'll drive the sense in her head foolish you can't drink the sense in her hair she's a mature human being you can only raise sense in your head in your bulwark head you can only change yourself come back to your senses you can only change one person on this planet and that's you walk on me pray for partner work on me pray for partner that's the cardinal rule of a healthy marriage you can pick that course go together look for my online marriage course go together through that module be a man be a leader in that marriage and tell your wife honey i want a brand new marriage in 2021 come let's do doc's program together iron sharpens iron so does a man's continent shop in another man's countenance your marriage you never walk through prayers alone your marriage you work when you identify what eats you and fix it no one will fix your marriage you've got to do the fixing and the first step is to build trust by stopping extra marital affairs stop cheating and ask your wife to give you a second chance stop cheating and plead with your husband to give you a second chance and together you can open a brand new chapter in 2021 to stop cheating your marriage number five t-i-m-e time disclose your time time reveals your life how you spend your time reveals your life let your husband know where you are with who doing what at any given moment listen woman at any given moment let your husband know where you are whether it's shopping coffee dating your girlfriend whether it's work or a seminar let your husband know where you are that way there will be trust in your marriage gentlemen let your wife know at any given moment where you are with who doing what even if you're meeting your male friends on friday evening let her know where you are which restaurant what time you'll be going back home that's the rule she has a right it's not a privilege that's what doing life together means you must disclose time your time reveals your life because every moment you leave you're spreading time you cannot recover time you cannot turn back the hands of time you can never waste time you are always spending time time is always moving so this close your time what does that mean be accountable and be transparent don't meet anyone if you don't want to disclose to your spouse anyone who wants to meet you in secret is an enemy for your marriage in your marriage identify them as threats to your marriage and it takes foolishness to destroy your marriage that girlfriend can walk out on you that mistress can walk out on you you can lose your job other people value what you give them your family loves you for who you are your family is priceless have your priorities right and i want to challenge you if you live in georgia in the in a toronto if you live in georgia in atranta come to family church come to family church connect with my anointing i have a special grace a special anointing for marriages no one interacts with me and their family remains the same even singles added my spiritual cover they all a hundred percent get married a hundred percent get the right life partner my the calling in my life is for family stability if you live in marietta georgia and you love yourself you love your life you love your marriage you love your future join me in family church address 2237 holy springs road georgia 2237 holy springs road marietta georgia you cannot attend church where i am teaching for one year and divorce impossible you cannot both of you husband and wife attend my teachings for one year and your marriage remains the same i tell you this to god's glory not to black any couple that came near me they started my life with mercy they listened to my teachings their money changed their parenting changed their kids did well in the university they themselves did well in their career lives in their personal branding in their personal leadership in their personal standards they understood who they are because i teach a lot about personalities i teach a lot about purpose knowing your purpose in life discovering your purpose and pursuing your purpose in life no one under my anointing adam my spiritual cover messes up in your marriage because i live what i teach a good mentor does not point to places they have never been they invite others to a journey they themselves have taken they are not travel agents who point to destinations they have never gone good mentors good like coaches are tour guides they guide others to a journey they themselves have already taken you see you can only effectively teach what you consistently model the most effective way of inspiring others is bringing out the best out of your own life i model a good marriage i model great parenting i model pursuit of purpose i teach over and over again never chase money never work for money you are created to pursue purpose a higher ideal if you interact with me closely you will get to know the purpose for which god made you the very reason for your existence the reason for your marriage you'll be a better husband a better wife a better father a better heart a mother trust me on this trust me on this my testimony is even in heaven but if you can't come to church because you live far away for those of you watching me in the nations of the world and you're wondering doc what do i do and i can't come to your physical church listen you can follow me on youtube i have hundreds and hundreds of videos free of charge you don't pay a dime just subscribe to my youtube channel dr k and jacob and decide you're gonna you will go through one video every single day for the next five years of your life and your marriage will change so my point is this point number five spare time with your family and this close the time this close where you are to your wife this close where you are to your husband singles listen if you're calling your boyfriend and he switches the phone on you you can't tell where he is he's cheating on you comes to the engagement young man if you are dating a girl three days a week you are never sure where she is with who comes with engagement before god you already won from the day you proposed to that girl and she consented before god you don't become one on your day of wedding you become one when you propose and she agrees that's why angel gabriel told joseph don't be afraid to take your wife mary they are not yet married mary was betrothed to joseph but the ager said don't be afraid to take your white mary not your girlfriend not your fiance your wife mary why before god when you speak it's sealed in heaven before god's words are not neutral they are either life-giving words or death-giving words life and death is in the power of the time proverbs 18 21 jesus said by your word you shall be justified and by your words you shall be condemned so if a girl is blocking you when you're dating that's a red sign if your boyfriend is unreachable when you're dating that's a warning sign it's a deal breaker you can't be together unless someone is willing to disclose where they are with who doing what i'm not saying you become suspicious with each other i'm saying yes they're going for a corporate training a corporate workshop a strategy meeting out of town but you need to know where they are if they truly love you they will update you they will even let you know what they are doing in the evening even when they are taking a walk along the beach they will even make a video call because they are transparent you don't want to cheat again from 2021 number six passwords disclose your passwords in my marriage master edda use the same person for our phones we use the same passwords as a family including our children the only reason we have passwords is in case our gadgets are picked by a stranger otherwise we wouldn't be using a password so we have a certain password for phones one for laptops that's the way it's supposed to be there are some men who can't allow their wives to touch their phones let me tell you from now henceforth mark my words she has a right to your phone without any explanation she owes you zero explanation the reason you fear your phone being touched is because you cannot have a date without communication so you know a wrong text can learn on your phone or a wrong call if you have nothing to hide why do you fear us in your phone why go with your phone to your shower cubicle woman why do you hide your phone in your handbag when you're cooking leave it on the sitting room if he picks it don't accuse him of mistrust he has a right to your phone without creating any suspicion listen to me woman once in a while when you're going for shopping just leave the phone at home communicate a strong message to your man you have nothing to hide sometimes when you're going to the gym deliberately leave the phone behind this guy just came just 20 years ago how are we living before then you won't die for leaving your phone behind and they say no phones in your bedrooms some of you take your phones to your bed you know some people are weird they even take a phone call at night they reply a text message at night in the name of just in case there is an emergency with my cousin an emergency with my mom come on who are you kidding what were you doing before the mobile phones came are you the holy spirit to solve everybody's problem any hour of the night switch off your phones and go to bed dump your phones in your sitting room and go to bed re-educate the people near you and your close relatives you are not an ambulance for their emergencies don't take your phone to your bedroom why especially to your bed because every time you're holding your phone you're interrupting someone you are whether you're reading a text what's up whether you're on facebook instagram twitter even youtube it doesn't matter you're interacting with someone else why are you bringing other people to your marital bed naked and not ashamed there are no secrets between couples otherwise you have no marriage you are cohabiting you want to live a straightforward life in 2021 disclose your passwords number seven be together hang out together reserve purpose you will go to your wife once a week no matter what i proposed to my mercy 15th of december 1998 we waited four and a half years later 29th of march 2003 17 years 10 months later we go out every week she's here with me we are doing this recording together she's by far my best friend she's by far my best company you choose friends you purpose that's what needs to sink in you you choose to who to hang out with let me tell you gentlemen some of the women you hang out with they are not as neary as beautiful as your wife you're just a loose chop change your ways change your attitude learn from me go out and jog with your wife learn to walk around the house and do weird things pat her back touch her cheeks kiss her countless times during the day said that a lot of texts during the day prepare her for the night stop complaining there's no sex in your marriage prepare her for the night make a phone call not a mechanical phone call hello where are you what are you doing make a romantic phone call hi darling i miss you a country oh my god last night was hot oh my god you killed me at night you killed me during the day i know this is gonna sell strange because you have not done it for long change sells strange but guess what a journey of a dozen miles starts with a single step you can recover lost ground you can regain lost territory start practicing these things right now decide there is not a single day that you pass without sending a kite text to your wife oh dark but you don't know how hostile my wife is yes she's giving you back a harvest of the seed you have been sowing life is an echo what you sow comes back to you you have been sowing hatred and strife antagonism you have been holding back affirmation and kindness and gentleness and she has brought it back to you multiplied for every seed you sow it comes back as a harvest so when you start again being kind and nice don't expect a harvest immediately you have crushed a spirit for many years don't expect results immediately do it over and over again until you melt back the same heart that you broke the same heart that you crushed in the words of helen keller sticks and stones may break my bones but words will break my heart you have spoken careless words for too many days for too many years made in the broken heart it's not gonna happen overnight come to that reality so i say strongly start spending time together every week go out together hang out together and every single three months papa to do a day or two out of your house every year purpose to do a holiday for three four days who are you working for what are you working for putting up apartments saving for what you will die and live all these things here life is just 80 years if you are very blessed so if you are listening to me at your 60 you have 20 more years to go so tell me you've been investing for whom if you're 50 years old you are 30 to go come on go for a cruise learn to spend holiday together what do we do to stop cheating so i told you number one purpose to stop cheating why cheating is a decision number two talk highly of your partner that is the surest way of proving your marriage from those who want to exploit your weak areas number three meet in the public don't go to anybody's house number four disclose your money both incomes and expenses plan how to spend money together to the last coin number five disclose your time where you are with who doing what your partner has the right to know where you are number six disclose your passwords share passwords let her get you into your email into your facebook into your phone number seven be together spare time together don't allow him to go overseas for greener pastures don't allow her to go overseas for further studies go together don't put money ahead of your marriage physical distance creates emotional distance if you choose to go work abroad so that when you get enough you'll get your family you've destroyed your marriage a lot of people cheat simply because the husband or the wife had some job to do out of town out of country be together family first career second you can change jobs you can relocate businesses but you have one family in this life if you take care of it yes it's possible to have a second marriage edit that marriage and be happy that's true but if you're in your first marriage you don't need to destroy it to proceed to the second marriage you don't need to there is no guarantee you will get a better woman there is no guarantee you'll get a better wife that's why god hates divorce because god wants us to raise godly children it's not god's idea for us to divorce divorce certificates were given because of our sinful nature our failures jesus said it was not so from the beginning let me read for you the art of jesus in mark 10 jesus did not want us to remarry he did not want us to get it to get a second wife to get a second husband so mark 10 verse 2 mark 10 verse 2 and following some pharisees came and tested him by asking is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife what did moses command you he replied they said moses permitted a man to write a certificate of divorce and send her away verse 5 it was because your hearts were heard that moses wrote to this law jesus replied in other words because you're about to kill your wife he said hey you better divorce her than murder her it's because of physical abuse verbal abuse sexual abuse spiritual abuse emotional abuse moses preferred i better separate these guys before they kill their wives verse six but at the beginning of creation god made the male and female for this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife and they too will become one flesh so they are no longer two but one therefore what god has joined together let man not separate meaning when you get into marriage it's god who've joined you together not the will of a man verse 10 when they're in the house the disciples asked jesus about this you see they are not satisfied with jesus answer so in privacy the disciples followed up with the same question he answered verse 11 anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery against her and if she divorces her husband and marries another man she commits adultery that tells you god wanted the first marriage to work he didn't want you to have multiple sex partners but if you have already moved on to your second marriage make it work don't repeat the same as takes you ahead in your previous marriage stop condemning yourself you can't change yesterday you can't change your past the important thing right now don't carry the baggage of previous relationships into future relationships and for those with their first wife or their fast husband don't lose your marriage because of your affairs work on your marriage let it work marriage works when you work how do we avoid cheating number eight and the last one number eight pray together you can't pray together and fight each other you can't pray together and tear each other emotionally you cannot join hands pray for each other in the morning and in the evening and continue in extra marital affairs yes you can fall in sin to are is to human but you cannot enjoy living a life of sin you see there's a difference between the two first john 1 3 first john dre story first john driver 6 first john 3 vi no one who lives in him keeps on sinning no one who continues to sin has either seen him or known him we are human beings we can fall in sin but for those who know jesus they cannot continue living in sin anyone can fornicate it's a fact stop pretending stop hypocrisy hey stop hypocrisy you have no idea how many pastors write to me who have cheated on their wives telling me to pray for them you have no idea how many pastors wives write to me in secret telling me to pray for them and to help them overcome their sin they're living in pain anyone can fall in sin that's why don't condemn anyone the problem is not falling in sin the problem is living in sin what's the difference falling in sin means you perhaps went out of town and you compromised some of the things i told you you allowed the god to get into your hotel room and you lacked self-control but living in sin means you're keeping a mistress or you're somebody's mistress you're conscious this is somebody's husband and day after day week after week month after month you're moving in that person you are living in sin that's the difference and i want to pray for you to get out of that sin because god will judge you for living in sin here is the deal learn to pray together as a couple families that pray together stay together every moment you pray together joining hands all bitterness begins to disappear resentment gives way to grace and love and admiration and affirmation i do that every day i tell my wife every day i love you my mercy i love you my darling you are by far the most beautiful woman i have ever met i love your breasts i love your butt i love your cheeks i love your kiss my god i love the way you take care of our children i love the way you support me in ministry i love the way we do life together you do me a do you my god i love it oh it's so sweet to be with my mercy and it can be so sweet to be with your wife it can be so sweet to be with your husband just purpose pray together prayers destroys the shackles of sin the chains of sin prayer will break a generation of baggage and generation of cause the sins of your forefathers want to pray for you right now but if you live in georgia just join me in church come i'm ready to be a spiritual mentor i'm ready to be a spiritual father come the under this unique christ there is so much anointing in my life for marriages and for families join me 2237 holy springs road marieta georgia if you can't come to my church you're far away in other states in other countries at least you can follow me on my facebook page and you can subscribe to my youtube channel subscribe to my youtube channel dr k and jacob and you have a chance to follow my teachings i want to pray for your family right now lift up your hands towards the screen father in jesus name i thank you for this woman she has cried for many days for her marriage look at her tears bring back her husband home like the prodigal son father i pray this marriage will not break come through for them in the name of jesus lord i thank you for this gentleman and now in the name above all names i bless his marriage may you bless him in his leadership behold he he's your child stabilize this marriage in jesus name god i pray for this family provide them with finances bless them with peace bless the work of their hands may you bless their children in the name of jesus we bless your name oh god we honor your name thank you for this single lady watching me right now i pray that you may bless her with her husband in the name of jesus lord you know her name you know her location you know her address you know her desire and i pray right now she will be still and know you are god 2021 is a year of miracle in jesus name lord i thank you for this man who is not married i pray you may bless him with a god-fearing woman may you bless him with a family in the name of jesus bless him with a good job i speak promotion in the name of jesus i speak promotion in his life in the name of jesus lord may you bless your children may you bless the ministers of the gospel may you bless these professionals may you bless this entrepreneur expand his business cause customers to flow in the name of jesus lord i thank you for 2021 i decree and declare victory in 2021 in the name of jesus any baggage from our forefathers any generational cause be broken in the name of jesus thank you lord for our children our children are mighty in the land our children will prosper they'll be blessed in elementary school in primary school in high school in colleges and universities even as they work they are blessed and they will live for god all the days of their life we thank you lord we bless your name we decree and declare you are holding the beauty of your holiness you are the eternal god we love you lord we honor your name there is none like you in all eternity you live outside time you are jehovah you are jehovah we bless your name in jesus name we pray amen and amen the lord bless you and keep you the lord bless you and be gracious to you the lord exped you in 2021 may the lord promote you in 2021 may you be the head and never the tale may all your deaths be canceled may you let too many and borrow from none you are blessed as a family you are blessing the city you're blessing the country in jesus name amen shalom have you been blessed by this video please like and share with family friends and colleagues great people are either sources of light or they are mirrors that reflect the light be a channel of blessings to others and hit the subscribe button to enjoy thousands of my videos free of charge

Channel: Dr. K. N. Jacob

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Length: 63min 17sec (3797 seconds)

Published: Tue Jan 05 2021