r/Entitledparents KAREN GETS KICKED OUT!

hey there mr reddit here welcome back to another episode of r slash entitled parent stories our first story we'll be reading today am i the jerk for kicking out my pregnant sister after that my brother is so entitled he almost made me homeless and after that i must check for any place a person can hide during a fire drill okay now for every thumbs up this video gets one karen gets kicked out how about i kick you out reddit boy so please smash that like button and if you're new subscribe and turn on notifications for new stories from reddit every single day am i the jerk for kicking out my pregnant sister i am absolutely furious about this right now my sister is 19 and four months pregnant father bailed and kicked her out of his place as soon as she told him and my parents live on the other side of the country she goes to school here in our state so she doesn't want to move back to our tiny little town since she didn't have a place to stay my wife and i offered to let her live with us until after the baby got here it wasn't ideal but we have the room and the money to let it happen first thing i told my sister when she came here was whatever you need tell me and i'll help you first thing i told her because i didn't want her worrying about things for the baby or food we still have all of our baby furniture and toys and clothes from when our son was born in our garage and in good condition it's barely been over two months and on the first week my wife was complaining because she couldn't find her earrings didn't think anything stuff like that is easy to lose sometimes but then it started to add up first her earrings then one of my watches a necklace a pair of new shoes that we bought for our son some of my wife's jewelry my class ring all this stuff was going missing and it didn't click for me until i noticed a few missing 20 bills from my wallet at first i thought maybe it was my son but honestly the kid's seven and still too honest he cried once after he took an extra donut from the table and confessed immediately so i doubted he was the culprit i confronted my sister and it took a lot of grilling before she fessed up her defense was she just wanted to make a little extra cash on the side for the baby i was so furious with her after telling her to come to me for anything she needs with a baby she resorted to going behind my back and stealing from my family i explained just how wrong she was to do this after she's had a roof over her head food and being told to come to us with whatever she needs help with she apologized many times but i told her she was going to have to pack her bags and leave i'll give her two weeks to find a new place but she better be gone by then this just upset my sister more she begged me to give her a second chance but i feel like the trust has been broken she wanted to stay here to continue school and she'll have to find a way to support herself if she can't then she can move back with our parents speaking of parents they've been on top of me for the last few days over this and i can't just kick her out when she has a child on the way i've explained what she was doing however they still think that i'm wrong and i need to give her another chance the issue is how will i know she won't be more sneaky about it it's just not a risk i'm willing to take and my wife is just as upset about this as i am this hasn't stopped my parents from berating me all the time over our choice and now i'm not sure if i'm being the jerk or if i should give her another chance well what would you do in this situation would you give your sister another chance or not please let us know i'd call the police honor to be honest my brother is so entitled he almost made me homeless in 2016 my brother had an unexpected divorce and filed for bankruptcy although he left his house out of it it shouldn't have come as too much of a surprise though since the reason she left was because he had cheated on her when she was pregnant with their second kid and although she tried a while longer she understandably couldn't get past it my mom paid for his bankruptcy and gave him at least one thousand dollars a month to help him make ends meet this was the equivalent of his house payment i know the amount is correct because my mom has bad eyesight and my husband and i have to help her manage her finances so we could see exactly how much she was giving him i never said a word because it's her money to do with as she wishes i should add some backstory too to show his history of entitlement my mom received a 100 000 bonus when she retired and he told her he was starting a business and needed 20 000 so although he had no business plan etc she gave it to him and he bought a truck that was the extent of the business he also helped her renovate her house with the remaining money and that consisted of literally gutting it taking up the flooring so it was only a concrete slab ripping out her entire kitchen taking down walls etc he even rented a backhoe to dig a koi pond that remained a big hole in her yard he's known to start projects and never finish them and this was another example of course the money ran out and she had to live like that for several years until she finally just let it go into foreclosure she has co-signed so many car and personal loans for him and he has often walked away from those too leaving her to pay off the debt in comparison my mom co-signed my first car loan and that is the only thing ever and i didn't ask for or receive any of her bonus money she used to live with him and his family and cooked cleaned and kept the kids and he still charged her to store stuff in the 800 square foot storage building in the backyard he's supposed to be paying her 300 a month to pay her back for all the money she gave him after his divorce but he refuses because he said she might give it to oh her granddaughter and what if she does anyway in 2017 my brother asked me and my family to move from out of state to become roommates with him to allow him to get back on his feet and it would allow me to save more money too to reach my financial goal of getting into real estate investing i was leery about the idea but he was begging and i hated my mom was still having to give him so much money since she only had a retirement in social security and he was taking a huge chunk of it the house was a renault because true to form he had started various projects that had never been finished and he had never done any repairs for example his two-year-old daughter had accidentally locked herself in her room so instead of taking off the doorknob he kicked the door in and broke the frame so it was still like that we signed a rental agreement and agreed to include that if he decided to sell the house he would allow us to assume his loan and we would pay him 14 000 in equity as an fyi he had bought the house in 2013 and didn't have a lot of equity in it in 2018 and nine months into the lease he lost his job and decided to move out of town to be with his girlfriend now wife who owned her own house he didn't have the funds to fix up his house and wanted to be read of it so he agreed that we could assume his loan we weren't anticipating it to happen quite so soon and i asked if we could wait until 2019 to allow us some time to raise my husband's credit score and i also wanted to be on my job for two years he agreed and we paid him the fourteen thousand dollars we had another contract that outlined our agreement which included that we were responsible for everything regarding the house all major and minor repairs upkeep etc we would pay the closing costs and that we were also going to begin the renault because it was depressing to continue to live in a house in such need of repair we completed the entire renault that included all new flooring entire interior repainted entire new kitchen cabinets backsplash quartz counters appliances etc new exterior doors lighting the works we viewed this as our first real estate investment and i had no reason not to trust my own brother this was a fantastic opportunity for us because the renault and assumption meant we would have a good bit of equity in the home and this was basically part of our retirement plan side note my brother is 9 years younger than i am in good health started his own business after he lost his job and his business is low overhead and did 272 000 last year and his wife is a teacher i am middle aged my husband is a senior and he had a stroke 10 years ago after two years of marriage that left him paralyzed on his left side and is in a wheelchair with dvt and blood flow issues and i'm also raising three grandchildren this home really is literally our main retirement plan so anyway we got started on the assumption paperwork the end of 2019 as soon as i had two years on my job and we were almost finished with it when lockdown struck i happened to be changing jobs too a dream position that fell in my lap and it was going to pay 13 000 more a year and so it came out that i was changing jobs and the bank stopped the process my brother was irritated but seemed to understand my job is in the tourism industry so it was one of the first and hardest hit industries his business has thrived during lockdown and my new job cut my hours way back he agreed to wait a bit longer to start the process again but as soon as we got the paperwork the second time i was furloughed for the winner i should add that we had to submit our lease purchase agreement with the assumption paperwork but since he lives out of town he asked me to sign his name and it is now expired so we are not currently under an official agreement i just found out this week they're bringing me back full time so i let him know the good news and asked him to please call for the paperwork now he says he's tired of dealing with this so he's going to hire a realtor to sell the house and get this he thinks he is going to keep half of the profits in addition to the fourteen thousand dollars we've given him the cost to renovate the home and the one thousand dollars a month we've paid straight to the mortgage company for 36 months 36 000 we've also done all maintenance to include stuff like trees trimmed the house pressure washed a roof leak septic pump etc he has never paid a dime since he left and i have never even asked i treated the house as though it were ours because it was supposed to be we've never paid a single bill late even though we live off of my husband's social security and lately my unemployment and he's acting indignant as though i've done him over i honestly never look for sympathy due to my husband's issues etc but this would cause a severe undue hardship and he has shown no empathy whatsoever on top of that we really needed the house in our name because we were going to do a heloc to enclose the garage because our mom is starting to have additional medical issues so we were planning for her to come live with us later this year if he sells this out from under us we would literally be about homeless because we can't afford to rent in our area we would not have any funds left to save and the housing prices have gone beyond what we would probably be approved for it's not easy to quickly or slowly find a wheelchair accessible house to buy or rent and part of our renovations helped with that like creating a walk-in shower although one reason we moved here is because my granddaughters often had to change schools when they were with their mom and i promised them that we would stay put so they could put down roots and make friends we found out that they were going to be living with us as he was begging us to move here so it made sense financially and was a great school district my oldest two granddaughters are in high school and would most likely have to change which breaks my heart we would not even have any equity in a new home and we would not be able to create space for my mom either and with the equity we would have in our current one it opened the door to various options to help fund our retirement pay it off and do a reverse mortgage use equity for an income property buy another primary residence with 3.5 percent down and use this one as a rental pay off student loans etc we could also plan to start a side hustle a home-based business using the big storage building we have here this has left me feeling basically gutted it's broken my heart and soul because i was an only child for nine years and used to always beg for a sibling i was elated when he came along and his birthday is one day before mine so it was like he was my birthday present growing up my friends would often say they wish they had their sibling treat them how i treated him and even though we had nearly a decade between us i have always tried to keep a close relationship with him and his kids and i just can't believe he's acting this entitled i've never been a vengeful person but i honestly feel i would take the house back to what it looked like previously before i let him make a penny off of our hard work and sacrifices i know some money is better than none and it would be a big setback but i can't help but feel like it's all or nothing and as an fyi i have an appointment with a lawyer but i'm sick it's come to this no matter what happens now in a way i really have lost my brother but who needs someone that entitled in their life anyway again thank you for taking the time to read what has become a novella please put good thoughts into the universe that he will have a change of heart and stick to our original agreement i must check for any place a person can hide during a fire drill okay i worked in a building where i was a fire marshal no extra money and a small amount of extra work but someone has to do it i was also first aider and somehow got landed with arranging the christmas night out so maybe the building manager saw me as an easy mark the only advantage that i had was during a drill or real event i had absolute power anyone not following an evacuation order swiftly was called up for disciplinary action we had random drills about 12 per year my job was to ensure that the building was clear basically pop my head in each office space toilets kitchens etc and see that nobody was there and then take a register outside five minutes tops anyone booked into the building that was not registered by me was in trouble the drills were sprung on me as well as the building manager had the fire alarm keys and it made a more realistic test the building manager was a jerk he wielded his small amount of power as much as he could and loved to report people for tiny infractions during one drill he hid in a cupboard and then called me into his office for failing to ensure that the building was clear apparently some people may run and hide from a fire instead of leaving the building i got a wagging finger and told to do better next time or i would lose the marshall roll my job was pretty safe since nobody actually wanted to take over and after hearing the story of me getting into trouble they absolutely did not want the job the building manager changed the fire marshal process instruction to include checking hiding places this is a side instruction we had no power to do so i later found out malicious compliance begins the alarm went off the first after my failure to check cupboards everyone left crossed the road and stood in the assembly point in and this is very important the rain and wind i searched the top floor very carefully opening up large cupboards opening up boxes large enough to hide a person looking under each desk in case someone was hiding first floor ditto uk so our first floor is u.s second and our ground is us first by now people were cold and wet and unhappy but building manager refused to let them enter he knew that it was coming so he was well prepared for the weather most people had light clothing on as the car parks stood next to the building they don't bother with coats and the 20-foot trip from the car to the building ground floor checked everywhere and finally the basement where the boiler lives and is a general dumping ground for old files and junk that took ages but i was thorough very thorough and slow i left the building took the register and a mass of sudden people headed back into the building i was massively unpopular until i showed them the pl that said i had to check all spaces that someone could hide in they knew what happened at the last test and directed all of the anger at the building manager it was the equivalent of the angry villagers turning up at castle frankenstein with torches and pit forks people were furious at him one of the office staff was a union rep and reported him to the site safety officer who went ballistic at him telling me to remain in a potentially burning building longer than necessary and a number of people went home to get dry clothes and the company had to give them special eve to do so or else the union would have to get involved he got crap from all sides workers union management and site safety officer most of the time nothing gets done when it's just you complaining but it really gets done when the correct people are inconvenienced make sure you know what i'm working on before letting me go i was working for a logistics company several years ago they went through a merger and wound up shutting our office down they presented it to us like they were doing us a favor and expected me to pick up and move states to keep working with them that obviously wasn't in the cards so what happened next was a bit of fun when we got the email talking about the merger i had my reservations when we got a second email indicating that the company president vp head of sales and an hr supervisor were all coming down to meet our eight person office i clearly saw the writing on the wall you don't send that type of firepower if something great is happening the day of the meeting comes up and they told us that due to the merger they were shutting down our office but we could go to any of the other offices they or the new company had i wasn't 100 not going to move but i wanted to know my options to say they weren't prepared for this meeting is an understatement i asked them several questions that were critical to me making a decision on my future within the next five days one will you pay my moving expenses two will you pay to break my lease which was march and i renewed my lease in february three will you pay cost of living adjustments if average costs are higher where i go the answer to all three initially was we don't know we'll have to get back to you this was on a friday and they told me by the end of the day i would have my answers shockingly enough come monday i did not have these answers i told this to my local manager and he hopped on the phone about 30 minutes later i get my answers no no and no while i had expected these answers i could tell they did not expect my next question by the merger i had just gone over three years with the company i asked them what the severance package looked like one more time i was told we don't know we will have to get back to you a couple of hours later they offered me one month's salary not factoring in my commissions which had exceeded my salary not only did they offer me scraps they wanted me to sign a new non-compete with all sorts of new teeth needless to say i told them no thanks to all of it this made them mad and then they told me that i could turn in my stuff and would be paid for the next two weeks what they didn't know or ask is what i was working on in the business it's typically very easy to pick up the ball for someone else unknown to them i was working on an incredibly complicated project moving a portable air traffic control tower from jacksonville to puerto rico this is also a government project since its involving airports so all of the teas needed to be crossed along with all of the eyes dotted to get this down to pr we put it on a barge this thing was basically a massive camper converted with a pop-up tower and all sorts of electronics if you're trying to imagine it oversized and needing permits to move i honestly can't tell you what happened from this point i never found out all i can do is sit around from time to time and chuckle about whoever tried to pick up my slack stepped into a hornet's nest the likes of which i couldn't have set up had i planned and tried they let me go on the spot since they didn't want me harvesting info to poach customers and start my own gig what they didn't know is that i knew all of this was coming and had already printed out everything i needed several days before had they asked me to see this thing through i probably would have am i the jerk for walking away when my friends joked about fairy rings for people who don't know what fairy rings are they're rings usually made out of mushrooms in fields there's folklore attached to them that says if a human steps into one the fairies will take them away i know this is not real but i grew up with a very superstitious grandmother who would tell me this stuff all the time as a kid if she saw me walking towards one she would literally yell for me to stop and change direction as an adult again i know they're not real but that doesn't mean i'm about to start walking through fairy rings willy-nilly i live with my boyfriend and two friends a couple and we arranged to meet another couple for a hike they tease me a lot for being superstitious as there have been a few times that that's come off we were hiking and i saw a fairy ring directly ahead again i know they aren't real but i just tilted a little to the left so i went around no one noticed then a few minutes later there was another and again i went around this then happened a third time at that point my friend asked why i kept swerving away from the group i was like huh didn't notice but boyfriend realized and burst out laughing telling them what i'm doing they started laughing and joking and then began jumping in and out of the ring and stomping and kicking the mushrooms while teasing me about it they were loud enough that a few people nearby were looking over and they looked like total jerks i told them to stop but they didn't i then started walking we were on our way back so i just kept going they caught up with me a few minutes later and three out of the five people i was with said i was being a prat and overreacting making them feel bad and ruining a nice day out i said that acting like jerks in public wasn't my idea of a good time and they said i was being a jerk the other two said the joke's over let's just head back and things went back to normalish however once we were back my boyfriend rounded on me and echoed his earlier sentiments he was one of the people who gave me crap saying that i embarrassed him and was acting crappy over a joke and i'm being overly superstitious and need to chill i said he was being a jerk then and he's being one now and i'm sick of them teasing me and they should have known when i wasn't laughing along that i didn't find it funny he said they aren't mind readers and i can't expect them to just know i don't find things funny and i owe him and the others an apology for getting upset over a joke about something i take too seriously anyway am i the jerk well who do you agree with op or her boyfriend please let us know boss got mad at me for wasting time organizing how i realized my job wastes more money than i make i spent a ridiculous amount of time looking for pins important keys and work essentials yesterday in fact that's every day for the last year spent the last 15 minutes of work yesterday organizing our two main only drawers that were cramped with things from over the year and making sure daily essentials were easily accessible came into work today typical day things got super slow so i continued my organizing efforts found hundreds of dollars in equipment that had been forgotten over the years but mostly trash i discarded took about an hour in between pausing to take care of immediate things i was almost finished when boss came over and starts half-hazardly organizing things basically complaining i'm being too thorough and that we weren't going to be using this precious time to organize i asked if everything was okay and got snapped at as boss swept what was left to organize back into the drawer i then spent the next 20 minutes doing nothing expecting the theatrics to be followed by what was supposedly so much more important 20 minutes it would have taken me less than 10 to finish organizing while not having any further instruction i open the drawer messy once more and see boss's phone i close the drawer i mean this is the level of organization we aspire for right who am i to waste time questioning this boss eventually gives me a sheet to check inventories with i haven't been trained on this particular task i make that clear but i'm barked at about how simple it is the sheet doesn't make any sense so eventually boss comes over and starts trying to storm through it oh wrong sheet man if only we were organized eventually get to the end of it and we're missing hundreds of dollars in inventory boss had been helping so i clearly state that i had approached my task carefully one by one and in order with double checks and i know i hadn't messed up eventually boss asks if i've seen their phone i say yes where you organized it don't you remember boss barks at me with the same question i say they swept it into the drawer with everything else boss says they don't remember that and i say nothing as boss returns to their office why didn't i say anything it was all on camera anyway and the perfect spot actually i'm quitting this job shortly so i didn't feel the need to make it a big deal epilogue a former co-worker a great one visited and confirmed that things in the drawer were years old we have a pretty high turnover rate and it's because employees either don't care or actually do care and are penalized for it or both we've lost two senior employees in a month and i'm just sitting here with a secret deadline until i'm out too though after today why not at least look for another job i can already hear myself why did i leave my last job we didn't share the same values in organization i felt a lot of man-hours were being wasted due to an unorganized environment i've shot up the totem pole a lot because of turnover and have accepted increased responsibilities by my calculations in just over a month we've wasted somewhere around three thousand dollars due to lack of organization and that's only from the responsibilities i've inherited if things are proportional in each department that number multiplies easily this means organizational mishaps cost my job more than i even make p.s would it be unethical to ask for a raise knowing full darn well no amount they pay me is making me stay more than a few more months have you ever felt unappreciated at your job if so what did you do about it please let us know co-worker that thinks she owns and runs everything a bit of backstory i 28 mail will be turning 29 later this year i've been working at my current job since before lockdown and through it as an essential worker however i will have to generalize a lot of details so as to not get in trouble now pretty much ever since i started working at my job food service there was one particular woman that pretty much defines the meaning of kieran in the workplace from day one she would often yell at me or other co-workers now she pretty much just leaves me be i've worked my way up from delivering the food to cooking it however back when i first started there was this one particular cook that i would joke around with a lot we would honestly make the kitchen sound more like a zoo then one day while i was on lunch he had gotten to work and pretty much immediately grabbed his stuff and walked because she never had anything ready for him that he needed to do his job and her excuse every time was i'm just so tired now she was put in charge of training his replacement however that poor girl didn't make it through the training shift because of how much karen not her actual name of course was yelling at her then after another co-worker got a former co-worker to join our fold karen would constantly yell at him too then one day when i was in charge of one side of the service line i basically had no one to help me and karen flat out insulted one of my co-workers that i've known since high school and think of as a little sister and she thinks of me as a big brother now karen yells at me five times to get someone to help me and i immediately replied each time that there was no one available to help me and at one point she even yelled at one of the managers to yell at me to get someone to help and that manager immediately replied with he's already told you five times that there isn't anyone available to help him so what do you expect me to do about it shortly after that i ended up breaking down crying and my boss sent me home to rest and recover however i wish that karen's awfulness ended there but it doesn't she constantly yells at everyone about how they're not doing their jobs when yes they are or at least they're trying to and whenever certain people would try to help me with a certain task for our boss instructions she would immediately yell at them to do something else instead she even has other people not doing things correctly such as rinsing things with her bare hands she has even been instructed several times to stop doing that as it's a health code violation most recently though she decided that she was going to overrule the decision of the same manager that she had yelled at to yell at me on a day when we were short-handed then because she was upset she decided to leave work without telling anyone called the top manager of our department and lied to him about her so this weekend was ruined because of this but after a quick short investigation he immediately realized that karen had lied yet she still acts rude towards pretty much everyone basically no one likes her in the kitchen and we are all praying for the day that she leaves we basically refer to her as the jerk kitchen princess she's always trying to go behind the boss's back to have it be her way or the highway even though she's been told repeatedly about new protocol and how to do certain tasks from now on am i the jerk for forcing my son to babysit so i don't know if i'm really the jerk here or not but by how my son's acting i might as well be wanting to see unbiased opinions on this i'm 34 male and i'm a single parent to my two kids son who's 18 daughter who's 11. i have a meeting coming up this saturday that requires me to be out for the whole day in a city about an hour away my usual babysitter isn't able to make it that day since she has prior commitments i contacted the list she gave me for people who she can trust no one available i contacted my friends and yep none were available and i don't interact with family due to other unrelated reasons so that's not an option either my son has never babysat my daughter and that's okay so i asked him if he'd be willing to babysit her i even offered him 100 since i'd be gone for about six hours that day all he had to do was make sure she's safe and feed her lunch which i was planning on just ordering from my phone to my home man technology is great so all he had to do was get it from the front door he refused i thought it was a pretty solid deal but i guess not but all good the meeting was cancelled anyways and was booked on zoom instead why was it not originally i'll never know today he came knocking on my office door and asked me for some money so he could take his girlfriend out on a date he doesn't have a job i thought to myself that it's been a while since i had a day for myself maybe i'll go fishing so i offered the same exact deal 100 to look after his sister for the day otherwise no money he started tripping out saying that's not fair to me you're a horrible parent this is parentification she's not my responsibility so on and so forth so i said well if you want money to take your girlfriend out that's how it's going to be he reluctantly accepted but has been since audibly complaining to his friends online my daughter asked me why he doesn't like her which broke my heart her room is next to my office so she probably heard everything at this point i may just take her out on saturday make it a nice father-daughter day since my son is being such a drama llama currently am i the jerk well who do you think is the jerk op or his son please let us know i hope you kicked that boy out of your house soon i can't imagine living with someone so entitled this video right here is absolutely crazy you're not gonna believe it so please come watch it next and we'll see you when you get there and support our 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Length: 32min 1sec (1921 seconds)

Published: Thu Apr 15 2021