Reasons to Walk Out in the Middle of a Date

reddit have you ever walked out on someone in the middle of a date if yes why met her through some chat room early 2000s she lived one town over where i could reach within 30 minutes by train decided to go for it rather spontaneously it was a saturday afternoon with plenty of time to waste so why not arrived at the station she was pretty enough but had a rather wild look that i couldn't quite interpret ladies and gentlemen until we left the train station it took almost 1.5 hours she had exchanged pleasantries with every single addict hanging around the property train stations in german cities are drew guzza hot spots and asked if i could lend her 20 euros that she owed one of them told her i didn't carry cash might have been true don't remember she got pee asked how i was supposed to pay for her dinner to which i replied that i had briefly considered inviting her for dinner indeed had never been discussed prior and if so intended to pay for it using my credit card but that intention was finished then and there walked right back in and jumped on the next homeward bound train they come in at 20 minutes frequency and that's how i got a free tour of the dortmund central station with all its corresponding low lifes lucky enough my public transport pass covered the train fully so i didn't waste anything but 3h of my life yeah but you got an experience which resulted in a bunch of internet points no but i went on a date and called the girl the wrong name for three hours she didn't correct me until she got in her car then she sped off hard lesson bro ha i've told this story a few times here but i'll tell it again so i picked up this girl for a date as a preface i was 18 first semester in college and she was way out of my league but i mean i was ready for a pop quiz on the star wars extended universe and this girl jenny we'll call her was all set for her nightly fuge of pills alcohol and techno dance club so i picked jenny up she wants to go to her favorite club so we go at first i'm like oh my gosh how cool is this hot girl cool club hello new me at the club she introduces me to her friends and that's pretty much the last i saw of jenny she's off dancing and each time i get close to dance with her she moves away and dances with someone else so i ask her friends hey what's up with that and they say oh she just wants to make sure you're entrusted she just wants you to keep following her anyway cut to the end i tried to get close to her to tell her i was heading home but she kept sand crabbing away so i just left her there and went home to watch reruns of tng never heard from jenny again you made the better choice it wasn't the middle of the date more like i ended the date early it had been a while since i had been in a relationship i was just out of college and was seeing this guy who was into someone else we had been hanging out a lot though so i thought maybe things would work out i picked him up for a date to jumbo juice and a walk after he was on his phone pretty much the entire time i'd try to start conversations just to have them be shut down with one worded replies at one point since he was on his phone anyway i texted him asking how he was doing he looks at me with a what the frick look on his face and i told him i was just trying to start a conversation he promptly went back to his phone facebooking about a cloud in the sky that looked like a dragon i like dragons he could have pointed it out i told him it was time for me to take him home and got no argument bb text in facebook is worse than texting in some ways like i could kind of see if they were talking get to a specific person then you know that person is more important to them if they're just updating their status or whatever you know that they're more important to themselves than you are met a girl online messages me early in the day and is extremely charming and funny mentions she's having breakfast solo just a block or two from my house invites me to join her and we start chatting get some eggs as she announces that she just fought with her parents who live on another continent and is now cut off from her folks who support her financially i play the white knight card and immediately offer to pay for breakfast as i do so she asks to come back to my place to use the wi-fi we walk a block or two away laughing and talking and discussing her life at one of the top three engineering schools internationally i'm into her she's obviously into me and we spend the day in and out of bed at my house lovely long luxurious first date around 10 p.m we're having wine on my porch and she confesses to me that she's been living off the dating site we met on has been offer meds for two weeks bc she can't afford them and proposes that i'll let her live in my house for the next eight months until she graduates a totally stone cold proposition i'm faced with the option of either kicking her out onto the street to make her way or trying to help in some way free crying out quietly i casually ask her if i can play some music from her phone find her parents contact info and have a call with her mum who speaks almost no english from my bathroom a fugitive in my own house until i get the message across we furtively coordinate a rescue plan over the next two days while she happily runs around my apartment doing her best to be an ideal girlfriend third day her uncle knocks and picks her up still don't know if i did the right thing tldr a woman living on a dating website became my life in gf until her family recovered her i have repressed this memory for so long and now i'm ready to share it with the world this guy asks me out on a date and they'll pretty much give anyone at least one chance if they have the balls to ask me out so i say yes he picks me up and says i was thinking we can just hang out at my house but don't freak out i'm kind of rich okay so we pull up to his house which is actually his parents house we walk in and immediately i can see where this date is going his mom swarms me and tells me how beautiful i am and his dad is asking me questions my date let's call him dylan starts dipping his finger in a candle on the table that he just blew out dad starts yelling dylan goddamnit did you take your freaking zone off today you're a freaking embarrassment boy and dylan is yelling shut the frick up dad you don't know what you're freaking talking about they swear at each other for a good 10 minutes until he tells me we should go downstairs and i follow him his basement is nice and has a huge gaming setup at this point i wasn't out of the nerd closet all of my friends and guys it dated thought i was just a prissy girly girl so i was struggling to contain my excitement when he asks if i want to play a game with him he gestures to the case and says pick whatever you want his choices of games are crap but i pick cod he looks at me and says i don't want you to mess up my kd ratio wait what what then he says how about i play and you watch so i chuck skyrim at his head and sit on my phone for an hour as he aimlessly wanders around not knowing what he's doing his dad appears later dolan go get us some taco bell we will even pay for your lady friend here wow how generous we drive to taco bell which is about to 15 minutes walk from my house and he turns to me and says i'm not freaking joking this came out of his mouth i just want to let you know i've seen a lot of peace so don't freak out like yours is something special i think i blacked out for a few seconds with rage i looked at him and said you won't be seeing my pee and then got out of the car and walked home tldr guy brags about being rich fights with family about his adhd makes me watch him play video games like crap and then tells me if he sees my pee it probably won't be a new experience can i ask how old he was because i can't imagine anything older than 13 stroke 14 but that's not old enough to drive so it's got to be older once she was one of my co-workers friend's daughter we met for lunch and she was incredibly horribly rude to the waiter after she dropped a racial slur about him i got up paid the bill apologized to the waiter and left good move dude never trust people that are rude to wait staff it's like they know for a fact it will lead to crappy service and spit in fire food but they can't help it fire dong jeans just kick him and they have to be the reason for someone else's bad day i was telling her about how my dad was adopted and that my grandpa is black he said wait your grandpa is then exposed from another thread would have bailed but instead convinced my roommates to come to the same bar so she could see firsthand what i was working with first ever okay cupid date guy shows up still talking on his phone looks me up and down motions for us to go into the bar restaurant it was a lebanese place and he declares i don't really like african food he continues to tell me how lucky i am to land a date with him and somewhere down the monologue i hear the words 911 musical he had written a 911 musical it was a comedy i also paid because he was a feminist a brooklyn sounds like a freaking gta character not me i started dating my husband in high school so yeah my mom dated on and off for a while after she and my dad divorced and left a few bad dates we had a code she would act like her phone was on silent and i had called call me back and check on me i'd tell her i wasn't feeling well scared of being at our house alone at night some bs and she'd have to come home i think the two that stick out the most to me are guy meets her at a restaurant humming what we later assume was his very own theme music and proceeds to speak only in third person like he is a narrator to his own life she said he would theatrically pull out his chair while singing b.a dan de dahir and then proceed to say something like clive pulled his chair out from the table where he plans to sit for dinner tonight's choice is italian food which he hopes does not give him indigestion i told mom later that i would have probably gone on more dates just for the laughs she lasted about an hour and realized he was going to talk like that the entire date she paid her half of the meal and came home the other was a man who obviously lied about his age on his dating profile online and was actually closer to my grandpa's age 20 years older than my mom they met at a restaurant where he ordered her meal for her because women are to be seen and not heard she let it slide afterwards he asked if she could drive him in her car to such and such store turns out it was the local makeout point and he had brought some barry white cd she said he started doing this awkward strip tease in the front seat of her not so roomy mustang and getting mad she wasn't jumping across the car after him but was laughing her butt off instead she dropped him off at his truck and told him to have a nice night he continued calling and asking for a second date for a few weeks i'm losing it just picturing clyde pause look at her and dramatically say indigestion when i was 20 i met a beach cop and he asked me out to dinner when i got to the restaurant he introduced me to his mother who he had also invited i ordered a drink excused myself to the restroom and walked out the door him and his mom probably talked crap about you the rest of the night i didn't walk out in the middle more like on my way to it met her online and we chatted for a while she told me about how her ex-husband fricked her bf and they ran away together it actually explained a lot one night we agreed to meet up after i got off work the entire day she called me baby said she loved me and texted non-stop if i didn't answer her texts right away she would blow up my phone with calls she knew where i was then during the last two hours of my shift she would count down only two hours an hour 45 hour 30 and so until the last 20 minutes then it was every minute finally when my shift was over she text me three or four times if i was on my way i finally had enough and told her no i wasn't and it wasn't going to happen then she starts with the pictures of her crying i had to freaking ghost her for two days before she stopped i felt horrible and i hate to hurt people but there's no amount of shame i'm willing to feel to avoid that amount of crazy i was on a date with a really nice and pretty girl really enthusiastic and friendly waiter came up to us and asked what can i get you two beautiful people she gave him a look that would turn milk sour with a nice frick off we're talking here that happy waiter was one of my best friends and the owner of the restaurant he come to offer us three drinks i told her to be gone when i came back from the kitchen to apologize to my friend she was someone who isn't nice to the waiter is not a nice person commerce someone who isn't nice to the waiter is not a nice person this this is a simple and easy rule for everyone who is dating to live by if your date can't treat service people with respect who are in a situation where they could be abused no or low tip verbally abused but can't really argue back because they need the job you do not want that person in your life not a date person but rather a long weekend with an ex-girlfriend we had met in a chat room then finally agreed to meet face to face i was working a lot of overtime but could get an occasional afternoon free she was working at a retail store and living with her parents while trying to pay off student loans she made it very clear that no hanky-panky would happen until she felt really comfortable with the guy she was nice so this didn't bother me we had many dates she spent the night at my place several times always with me on the couch after a couple months she said she'd never been to las vegas and would love to go for her birthday working overtime allowed me to splurge on her birthday so being a gentleman i paid for two airplane tickets and three nights at the tropicona i worked 10 hours thursday then picked her up and drove us to the airport we got on the plane and knowing she was expecting to be partying all night i fell asleep for a couple hours we checked into the hotel then went to the casino sometime after midnight i told her i had to go to bed despite getting a nap she's pee and tells me to go be an old man i wake up friday to find her in the other bed naked with a one-night stand so yay i checked out of the hotel told the front desk about the entire mess no refund but they did comp last night's dinner plus drinks then waited at the airport for a standby seat got home in time to work a few hours on friday got an email saturday asking if screwing some random stranger meant we were through learned through a mutual friend much later that she got some itchiness from said random stranger p.s although the room was cancelled she still had her airplane ticket back home i'm not that big of an but nobody would have blamed you canceling her ticket would be the next thing i'd do after cancelling the room had a date with my buddy's co-worker set up by him she was a triathlete worked as a financial analyst for a big brokerage firm and according to him incredibly funny we met for drinks and a bite to eat noticed after her first glass of wine she was a getting flush and acting a bit off after the second glass she just went completely crazy town got loud kind of manic some younger guy walked by wearing a raiders shirt with a ny giant's hat and she just went batch it on him make up your freaking mind are you a raiders fan or a giants fan guy was just trying to go the bathroom called him a pee just unloaded on the guy challenge him to a fight complete with the whole hands up watch a gonna do b move i stood up gently shooed him towards the bathroom threw 40 on the bar bill was 25 or so and just turned around and walked out called my buddy to let him know he was no longer allowed to set me up with anyone i went on a tinder date a few months ago the dude had seemer pretty cool via texts and whatnot so i asked him if he wanted to meet me at a local place in austin he said yeah we agreed on six so i got there early and putzed around for a while had a couple drinks etc at the bar page threw a did and read some of my ebook seven rolls around and the dude hasn't shown at this point i'm kind of enjoying myself with a cocktail and my book so i decide to chill like a quarter to eighty shows up doesn't apologize and immediately tries to make out with me i kind of laughed it off and we got a few drinks and started talking a few rounds in i notice he hasn't opened a tab so i watch what he does when he orders he freaking gets a mexican martini and jerks a thumb at me as in this one is on her i hadn't opened a tab but the place was slow so the bartender was kinda rolling with its inside paid up thus far dude had racked up like four drinks assuming i was paying after he was late and to make things weirder he was getting really gropey talking about what he was going to do to me later and making creepy boob fetish comments i excused myself to the bathroom walked around the corner and booked it to my car a while later he texts you didn't even see my penis yet followed by whatever thanks for the drinks i had my debit card in my wallet still little did he know he texted several hours later that he met a chick at the bar and they were hitting it off so frick me buying her drinks courtesy of me i assume he thought then a while later a string of angry texts about how he'd racked up like a couple hundred bucks and i was a freaking c and he couldn't pay for it etc actually demanded in broken butt drunk text i show back up and take care of his tab because i stood him up i don't mind picking up the tab but at least ask or offer to help first and ff don't try to pick up chicks on my dime after you were creepy i'm actually super picky about being late if you more than 10 minutes no thanks i met a guy for a first date once at his house i know bad idea we had a few pieces of cold pizza then he said want to watch a movie in my room home alone is on at 7 um okay weird first date movie choice but fine he leads me to a pullout couch in his bedroom and on the first commercial break he asks may i be so lucky as to have a kiss i felt so awkward and uncomfortable but we made out for a while he was a terrible kisser the final straw was when he took out his very small penis and tried to jerk it next to me i just got up and left freaking weirdos on a cupid yes the waitress made a mistake on her meal and my date blew up and treated her like crap but that's an absolute deal breaker for me i ended the date halfway through and apologized to both the waitress and the manager after my date left for the night they calmed me a drink and thanked me for being cool about it the old phrase how he treats his mother is how he'll treat you is very true yet if you're meeting the mum it's already too late so servers are a great substitute yes it was a first date and we went to a party where he knew everyone and i knew no one he went from ignoring me to i think completely forgetting i was there so i left we had taken my car i went back to my dorm and hung out for a while and went back when i knew the party was ending because it was a rented venue and everyone had to leave my friend who was a bartender set me up with a guy i was sitting at the bar and turned to see him coming in through the back door he made it about halfway and stumbled and fell over a chair he was completely wasted i told him no turned my back to him and the date was over in about 15 seconds that's weird bartenders usually know only the most high caliber people he said i should throw away all my books because they take up space and i don't need them anyway plus women shouldn't work full time or have careers by found bell my sister recently shared her worst experience with me she met a guy online and decided to go out on a first date guys said that they would go to a friend's place who was having a party turns out this party is actually a swinger's party and you must bring a date to participate upon arrival the guy dumped her on a couch and then proceeded to focus on a cute guy there he was trying to get a threesome going with him and his wife or maybe a one-on-one she never found out she left got drinks with a girl i met at a bar a week before she invited me to a party at one of her friends places downtown afterwards so i went along well an hour later i rounded a corner and found her with her tongue down another guy's throat in the hallway i just walked out and never talked to her again honestly i wasn't even that mad i went and joined my friends at the bar told them the story and got a couple free rounds from the cute bartender who overheard ended up hooking up with her a couple weeks later the bartender though she sounds like a catch if we're dating you can't have male friends met him through male friend pfft okay we're not dating in his favor he showed up at my home a while later and told me how immature that was and apologized how messed up that was now i get some folks don't agree with opposite sex friends and if you both agree more power to you but if you meet someone through opposite sex friends that's not liable to fly i was super confused there for a second because i thought you meant there was an app called male friend so here we go i met a girl one night at a bar she was blonde well in doubt fairly attractive and seemed very nice she was there with her boyfriend guy she was dating but they ended up having some fight and he bailed on her she said it was over my friends and i gave her a ride home that night i even did the gentlemanly thing letting her wear my coat because it was cold in lady and we exchanged numbers several days later we got together for drinks at a friend's party this girl and her sister came down from the smaller town they were from for it a smaller rather redneck town she did disclose to me that she used to be a stripper but it didn't faze me at all although it was hilarious because she had one of the most stereotypical stripper names imaginable in fact at this time in my early 20s all i could think was holy crap i'm going to hook up with a big tittied stripper after a few drinks however and some off to the side making out she started talking about her step brother is also named with griff she said he is currently incarcerated on felony m possession and conspiracy to manufacture methamphetamine but that they've been in love for years and that they were getting married when he finally got out she made comments like i know he's my step-brother and that's kind of weird but love is love and can't be stopped i nodded and smiled trying to be polite she then said something about loving my cologne and wanted to know if she could take my shirt home with her to sleep with and something about casting some sort of spell on it right around this time one of my good friends pulled me to the side saying he needed to talk to me but he had been talking to the sister who had asked if he wanted to smoke a foil m she said she gets it for free because they live with their aunt and uncle who cook it i quickly gave him the abridged version about the step brother and amateur witchcraft and we both agreed to bail after some subterfuge we left those two crazy b alone at a stranger's party where they didn't know anyone else a couple months later the girl i almost hooked up with ended up pregnant by a guy who lived down the street from the party who just so happened to be there that night i dodge a bullet a crazy and loving step-brother freaking magical bullet i'm usually not okay with people bailing on dates but when the m comes out it's perfectly okay to bounce well not really in the middle of a date it's more of in the middle of sex been dating this bloke for about three weeks i wasn't really that attracted to him but okay he is a nice bloke so why not give him a chance right so we continued to date i noticed that he tends to be clingy as frick but okay maybe if i explained to him that i can't text him 24 stroke 7 or go out on dates with him seven days a week because i have to work he'd understand so the first time we slept together i was on top of him riding him a few seconds of that he started going on and on about how i'd be the perfect mum for our future kids and how his parents will be visiting later that night to meet me and how i'd be meeting his mates that week he also pointed out that we could start looking for engagement rings that would suit my taste i stopped riding him put on my knickers and clothes and walked out of there he was too shocked or frisky to realize what was happening but nope don't give me a fright like that when i have been upfront about my commitment issues and i told you that i don't want to rush things i also blocked him off my phone on my way home so i'm not sure if he tried contacting me after that perfect mid coat is conversation so my parents are coming to town this evening i've posted this before but i took a girl out we'd been friends a while and thought we'd try and see how things go busy food place she was getting impatient but i remarked they looked pretty understaffed and hey we aren't in a rush conversation was going well and we definitely clicked but something was off she rocked back stared at this young male server and clicked her fingers at him three times loudly then just proceeded to act rude i tried to explain to her why i found her behavior abhorrent but she told me i was being stuck up and we wouldn't see these people again so who cares i feigned a walk to the toilet just after starters and fricked off home i regret nothing i picked up a friend who bailed early she was trying the whole online dating thing met a guy for a movie the theater was just down the street from her app so she walked and then after he asked her to go get a late night dinner since she walked there he drove them he took her to ihop my friend while she though it was a weird choice was perfectly fine with this even though we live in a city with lots of good late night options but hey food is food she tells me that guy is the absolute worst rude to the weight staff ask a million questions about the food he talks constantly about who knows what she tries to interject here and there but he just steamrolls over her she just decides to wait it out patiently and nods along with whatever he is saying the final straw though he says you know you're a very pretty woman i can't believe i a girl like you agreed to go on a date with me and believe me if it wasn't for my adhd medication i'd be rock hard right now she smiled and politely excused herself to the bathroom and walked out the front door called me and i came and picked her up about three or so blocks from said ihop the time i got naked manned i had been talking to this guy on okc for a while then texting and he seemed completely normal so one night he invites me over to hang out with him and his roommate when i got off work just to chill i had just worked a 15 hour shift so i was tired and smelled like red lobster but i went anyway because he was persistent so i get there and he's nice enough asks if i've ever seen how i met your mother which was a no he goes into the kitchen to grab a drink and then calls me in to get one too when i walk in he's but buzz naked doing the captain morgan pose flaccid dong blowing in the wind i've never ran out of a place quicker if you are new to the channel you can subscribe i publish new videos every day until then check another video [Music] bye for now

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Length: 29min 7sec (1747 seconds)

Published: Fri Sep 17 2021