My husband left me next day after the wedding

the groom from a wedding I attended last week admitted to his new bride that he no longer loved her it came out that he had been cheating on her for a little over a month reddit what's the absolute craziest thing you've ever heard done in a relationship last weekend one of my girlfriends best friends got married to a man she had been dating since high school he'd converted to Judaism she'd given up a permanent teaching position to move for his new promotion and by all accounts they were quite in love the story goes as was told by my Jay friend he had started acting a little distant about three weeks before the wedding she the bride wrote this off because he had already moved down for his new job and this was the first time they had ever been apart from each other in those eight years and she just invaded his new private life by moving in before the wedding so wedding time everyone is pretty happy the ceremony was beautiful their vows were quite good especially his he choked up a few times she could barely hold it together but they made it through all right the reception was quite fun as most Jewish weddings are and we go our separate ways last night I get a call from my girlfriend saying the bride is in shambles as the groom had just told her that he no longer loves her he spouts out every cliche in the book it's not you it's me I love you but I'm not in love with you etc his initial story is that there isn't another woman and that it's just crazy but it seemed like he wanted to work his feelings out today the bride decides to check on their phone bill and lo and behold there are a bunch of texts and calls to the same number when she checks his phone all of the texts were evidence of an affair including many texts espousing his love for new girl I actually don't know new girl's name that she's his cow walker many of these were sent while they were on their honeymoon and many of the calls were immediately after he had called the bride usually saying goodbye with I love you mind you throughout this whole process the bride had sensed strange things going on with the groom and even offered to postpone the wedding or cancel it altogether but the groom still went through it while was seeing this co-worker of his I nominate this groom for the Dutch a bag of the Year Award and I'm gonna ask my girlfriend if this should be turned into a Lifetime movie at some point seriously qualifies update one my girlfriend is currently assisting the bride in removing personal items from the bride and groom's apartment they are still going to work on this but yeah he's an idiot so he's most likely just trying to save face also his mom who was previously unmentioned and quite a monster in-law leading up to the wedding has apologized to the bride and is now working on trying to sort this loud good things to come from tragedy but this whole situation just bites a year or so after marrying my great-great-grandmother my great-great-grandfather received a telegram informing him that an uncle of his had died leaving him a handsome inheritance and a few acres of semi developed land in the Philippines my great-great grandfather promptly parted ways with his pregnant wife to visit the plot and if appropriate oversee construction of a property where he planned to move his spouse future child and several miscellaneous unattach aid family members a month after his departure his wife received a telegram in broken English - telling her husband's sudden death from Spanish flu she and the rest of the family were understandably shocked but soon undertook the appropriate funeral rites and settled his affairs in England my great-great-grandmother eventually remarried to a widower whose spouse had also died from the Spanish flu and her first daughter went on to give birth to my grandmother a few years ago however my uncle who has taken to cataloging our family history in obsessive detail found that no death certificate was issued at the time my great-great grandfather supposedly died besides the one they requested in his absence in England moreover he found a marriage certificate and a death certificate that all but confirmed that my great-great-grandfather had married another woman in the Philippines not long after arriving and lived there for another thirty years or so I had a female friend will call her legs and I played World of Warcraft I used to post funny whoa w lated pictures on facile contact my friends according to what character they played anyways I tagged her and another friend in one they started talking and really hit it off he came up from the states and spent the weekend with her and her daughter a week later she is crying and going on about how she thinks she's pregnant I sure not a week later my friend is calling me freaking out and I'm all Jo she wouldn't know she was pregnant that fast and if she is it's ain't yours same day I head to future a shot to get a new mouse or something I see Johnny a mutual friend of mine and legs I'm all didja here legs thinks she's preggers he looks at me no she's not she was asking for return baster of my ass so that she could have another baby I look at him and he's serious he shows me the text messages literal I want to have another baby we don't even have to do it I just need a turkey baster and yer s she was a single mom who struggled to pay her bills I just what I have a friend who is the other woman the guy she is having relations with spent the night before his wedding with her is still married and still seeing my friend three years later she still believes he's going to leave his wife and they'll be happily ever after I have a friend who is also the other woman she got pregnant by the guy he ditched her and a baby she talked bad about him for about eight months a few weeks ago she announced she's pregnant by the same guy she is happy because both of her children have the same deadbeat dad she is barely 21 sigh back in the day I had a friend wheel called Trevor Trevor was bitter and very unbalanced he was brought into my group of friends after another friend Lebed with him and thought he was really cool and he has a BMW and money at 43 years old trevor was Labine and hanging out with a bunch of 22 22 year old nerds in college while his wife and two young children stayed at home he worked and had a social life an hour away from his house and rarely ever seemed to want to go home or spend time with him for some reason or another he became an imp and part of our group because my other friends really really liked him and his money and nice car helped of course he went to one of our Halloween parties dressed as Hitler but that wasn't enough to get him booted the relationship was though this is the story what me and my friends would forever in joke and call the relationship starring Trevor me and my friends were planning a weekend trip to Chicago to celebrate the end of finals and Trevor offered to drive us there we said sure because he offered to pay for gas and we were poor and stupid packing was kept to a minimum because all five of us had to fit in his BMW flash forward to the Friday we were supposed to leave Trevor calls the guy who brought him in the group I'll call him bill and says those dreaded words there's been a change of plans basically we had to gut one person from the road trip because Trevor decided he wanted to bring his girlfriend along his girlfriend was 18 a freshman in college about to be expelled I did not want to spend the weekend with a 43 year old man and his poor naive troubled girlfriend who didn't know about his wife and kids I couldn't believe he was still hanging around with us at that point I didn't want to go anymore but another friend of mine guilted me into going with and being a good friend I couldn't bring myself to bail on her what occurred was the weirdest weekend of my life Trevor took my Blue Man Group tickets and gave it to his girlfriend and saw it with her because she wanted to see them he was with her her loud the bathroom for two hours Saturday morning we had all gone in on the hotel room he got pee and wanted us to go to only 18 plus clubs because his girlfriend would feel left out we said duck that noise and got a cab Saturday night to go to a few decent clubs but not before Friday night was ruined by a run-in with the worst 18-plus goth clubs Chicago has to offer it was horrible but the worst was yet to come on Sunday morning Trevor woke me up still one of my black dresses for his girlfriend to wear out of my suitcase and then had her put it on before inviting me with them it was so annoyed before the long and uncomfortable car ride back home he put the icing on the skeezy cake by stopping at the American Girl doll store in Chicago and picking up a doll for his daughter I couldn't say a word to him on the car ride home I was so grossed out I chewed him out when we finally got back to our home city and told him not to come near me or speak to me ever again I also advised his girlfriend that he had a wife and two kids they broke up soon after that and to his credit Trevor did leave me alone but he was still part of our lab group so I left which was something I had been meaning to do for a while anyways grew out of the whole vampire thing my childhood best friend of more than a decade got married a couple weekends ago to a gold-digging succubus whom we all hated his own family offered to take the financial hit in the week leading up to the wedding if he called it off her family business is marrying rich and he alienated tons of his friends irregularly fought with his family over her I refused to attend the wedding but at least half the wedding party including his sisters this girl had no friends so her only bridesmaids were her sisters and his sisters also couldn't stand her her oldest sister who was her maid of honor turned her toast into a narcissistic rant about her own recent divorce and apparently his family as a whole was shocked how their family conducted herself he realized on their honeymoon just what a terrible person she was and how she would ruin his life she told him that she had no intention of ever working again she had quit her job right before the wedding or going back to school she went to five undergrads in six years is nowhere close to graduating from any of them and that she wanted nothing to do with his family ever again so they got married on a Saturday and he asked for divorce on the following Thursday their marriage lasted 6.9% of a Kardashian this is an excellent example of how so many people think marriage fixes everything he knew exactly who she was before the wedding he just thought that marriage was a magic band-aid that transforms people while I agree with you normally on this his situation was different I've known him since fourth grade so I have a bit of insight here both of his parents are extremely smart but he was never very bright and grew up a bit entitled so he never developed any sort of drive or work ethic of his own he was a great friend but was always very passive and a follower we would always have lots of fun that he was never the type to make decisions someone else would make them and he would follow along not that this was ever a problem I'm just painting a little bit of a picture of his psychology here when he first met this girl she was actually dating someone else we went to high school with that she dumped him they started dating that she was always just too nice the kind of girl who you get a weird vibe from but just can't put a finger on why she's always been extremely shallow and dressed expensively and well however as it turns out her entire family has the appearance of wealth but lives completely hand-to-mouth based on income that comes in from a few buildings her grandfather owns no one in the family ever works and they always try to keep it that way they picked a very expensive place for the wedding only to stick his family with the bill at the last moment and once he asked for a divorce he stole two TVs an iPad and cleared out his admittedly small bank account with her father's help so in the end she's extremely manipulative and managed to sink her claws into someone extremely easy to manipulate I'm honestly unbelievably impressed that he had the stones to do what he did so soon after the wedding I had said the over slash under at three years thank God his wealthy family saw through her enough to not give him a dime of their property and even managed to stop payment on the very generous wedding cheque they had given them as a gift a friend of a friend grew up in a really tight-knit community of Christians she and her husband waited until their wedding night to have s etc cut to a few months after the wedding and they mysteriously break up and she moves out turns out she'd started sleeping with her personal trainer who helped her get in shape for the wedding she's also pregnant in college my rich friend was planning her extravagant wedding about three months before the big day she finds out she's pregnant for the first few weeks she went around happy and excited about the baby then a few weeks later I see her drinking at a bar and I was like what about the baby and she cheerfully replied oh I'm having a Natur I won't fit into my wedding dress if I'm pregnant now and here people would like to have you believe that all our decisions are this frivolous but they are not please don't construe the story as me being anti-choice because I am NOT still this was truly shocking to me she wouldn't be showing her pregnancy that much at her wedding and she certainly could afford to buy a new wedding dress her fiance completely supported this decision to not let their baby ruin their wedding fast-forward six months via happened the big perfect wedding went off without a hitch and she's bragging about being pregnant again wondered why her all Catholic pack of friends weren't jumping for joy for her a few years ago while our unit was in Afghanistan this idiot that I used to work with was sleeping with this army chick we are Air Force on the regular well one day towards the end of her deployment she tells him she's pregnant he freaks out and tells his wife about the whole thing his wife decides to forgive him meanwhile he gets orders to a new base coincidentally about 20 minutes from where his army girlfriend was stationed but because now he can take care of the kid right well they move there and come to find out army chick was never pregnant at all and the whole thing was made up so he would stay with her idiots wife is once again pee and hurt but decides to forgive him again if he gets her face tattooed on him guess what he has now a giant portrait of her face right over his heart this will probably be buried but I know the story fits in here a year in nine months ago my cousin's best friend for 10 plus years became pregnant after a one-night stand she met while out at a bar let's call my cousin Emily and the friend will be Becky Becky was frightened and mad but chose to keep the baby and not to involve the dude Emily was always there for her all along her lone pregnancy meanwhile caring for her own two boys they were two and five at the time and she had them with her husband James so around two weeks before this baby is due a mutual friend of his confronts my cousin Emily he says I can't take it anymore you have to know Becky's baby is James so not only did this coward cheat on her he never actually told her about this baby so now he's living with Becky and his kid and the to legitimate boys are left without knowing why daddy isn't around anymore the worst part is the older boy seems to think pops flew the coop because of something he did nothing anyone says to him will convince him otherwise and they can't figure out how best to explain the truth to him my friend got married to the love of her life last year he told her a couple of weeks ago that he no longer finds her attractive and hasn't done for a while we're all wondering why on earth he married her if that was the case they were together seven years in total she moved for him and everything and has to start all over again it's all very hard breaking

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Published: Sun Jan 05 2020