MY FATHER MADE ME HIS WIFE | The Jessica Kayanja Show Episode 4

hear the story of my life [Music] hearted some pain weeping at [Music] my night victories and hope a brighter day has gone it's for you and for [Music] me hello welcome to the jessica canada show we bring you real life stories of people who have weathered the storms of life and want us to learn from their failures and their triumphs and today's topic the transition from a mistress to a fast wife is it possible does it happen is it in our dreams or is it real my guest today is a beautiful young lady who says she would never go back she went from the trauma of being that hidden wife the one that never goes to the ceremonies the one who never has her husband's husband go to the children's schools the one who stays in the background while the husband and his wife and his first wife shine today she is triumphant she is a victor she's here to tell us her story does this really happen mrs sylvia or we know you are welcome thank you mommy mrs wow mrs silvia is a we oh mrs silvia ueno is 32. at the age of 22 she was exposed um to [Music] an elderly man who preyed on her i won't say i won't say molested because this was a you know we were both adults it was two-way it was a consenting adult relationship but uh we are talking about emotional i i i believe he prayed on you emotionally and you're here to tell us your story um i would like to say that this is not my story this is her story so i will let her talk and we are here to listen sylvia you're welcome thank you thank you for allowing to share your story with us and thank you for allowing us to learn from it i know it can't be easy i'm honored how did you get into such an arrangement the previous wow i'm so glad to be on this show as mommy told you i'm sylvia um while i was growing up like any other normal child who was six i don't remember seeing my mom grow with us because of some domestic things that happened that are not really known so well because you are a child yes so you come from a dysfunctional family already yes yes and so as i grew up i learned to know christ at around 19 years and my dad or the background that we grew in was catholic so i met people that preached to us and thank god i accepted christ at that age praise god so after that i joined um the church that molded me to to become a good christian but i think that they didn't like it so your dad yes my dad didn't like it um he's still living and i know you will watch this show as well yes so um but he's your dad here because he educated you and for that we are grateful he gave me all my sickness yes he gave you the basic needs and you know i can see what you are eloquent woman you're a very good oled orator and you know you you're obviously a staple so you know kongs to your dad yes i'm so grateful daddy i seen i sent my greetings to you and so i'm so grateful to have you in my life um so uh he didn't like us being born again so i i found myself which is understandable out of the house you can't blame him because yes it was a different faith altogether yes so i was i found myself out of the house and i joined beautiful people that i would call myself you were adopted by a christian family yes yes you a christian family born again the wife are so good yes and the man as well yes something else later so i stayed with them i remember i'd come with my sister so they welcomed us they gave us the best they took us back to school because school had stopped and they brought us clothes who were their own children yes so during that time it's when the story turned the page okay you were brought into the house as young children seeking refuge seeking shelter a wonderful woman yes who you started you called decided to call your mother yes and a man who should have been your father a christian you know seemingly christian family yes and you said the tables began to turn okay that it's your story i wasn't there i don't know anything okay so it began to be as a relationship between me and the man that would call my guardian that you'll call your father yes i don't call my father because that is the one that i was seeing at that time was paying your fees he was taking you back to school yes giving you either food you needed yes and uh yeah what did he say i mean you know that he was a married man what did he say how did he propose to you what what what was his how did he lay down his um i remember when it all began he told me you're a beautiful girl you're a young girl i want you to become my wife and i told him about your marriage you have a wife a mom why would you do that he told me no you know i would want you you look uh an uh an innocent girl so having a lot of dreams and i think i can live in your life and we achieve those dreams i told him no i will not love a married man and i'm young you're a bit old i call you my my dad so it didn't seem to work out for him he told me me and my wife have issues that i wouldn't want you to know but just know i've chosen you i'll give you all this world name it you'll have it by then i was desperate i had i had a dream that i was following but it seemed it was not tearing down you know the the person the preposition was your your your source of everything absolutely financially yes he had put a roof over your head he was feeding you he had taken you back to school and you in a way he was your entire life yes so you you you were between a rock and a hard place really i didn't think i would turn back you did not want to go back to me no no no no no no no okay all right so i saw him as the future at what age were you then i think i was 22 i was young that is what i would say you were younger than my last born yeah so i was young so when he said all this i really didn't take it serious because i was like no it cannot be possible and i grew up because of the domestic violence at home i actually didn't want to get married okay because i saw what my dad and my mom had gone through in the past and i hated men so almost especially when you talk about marriage i would like no that's not me so i really try to run from what you was telling me what now this was wasn't the wife suspicious that something was going on no by then when it had just begun she didn't suspect anything okay because what i was a friend what she took us in she really loved us because you are too me and my elder sister so there's no way she could even suspect because even that man would call us his daughters yes in the house and was sent like any other child can be sent so there's no way she could even think of it i think she looked at her innocence and what we had gone through she was like no she didn't she didn't suspect it but later as the relationship grew um she began to suspect so so you eventually gave in you eventually said yes i did after like five years you said yes yes i said had you any idea it would culminate into you getting pregnant and having three children with him and actually you know or where you are just saying yes so that you could continue having a roof over your head and and food wow thank you for that question because when he gave me all this life taking me back to school loving me back and my sister you felt you needed to reward him yes how can i reward this man he has been like an angel so i said let me give in but i didn't know it would cultivate into getting pregnant and having all this that i will talk about in the in the next minutes so i gave it to payback i was like was he demanding a reward did he at any one time say look this is what i'm doing for you i'm taking you back to school you know i'm paying your school fees i've put a shelter over your head was he demanding it or you just felt that you owed him he was not demanding it but he would usually say i would not want to wear a coke that i'll not eat eggs from [Music] i don't know there's a saying okay that's very easy yeah that's that's that's sad you know so yeah yeah he kept saying it but because i was not so fluent in uganda i would not understand what he would say so i wanted to pay back so i remember it was one night and then we had it it was my first man in my life i had never slept with any other man so it went on and on until i got pregnant when i got pregnant definitely had to run he had to escape me to a a place far from this i mean when you told him you were pregnant what did he say he he was joined up he was overjoyed yes he loved it so so you could see now that you were heading to be you know yes a mistress he told me you're going to be my wife okay that is not exactly of course that's not the wife he told me you're going to be my own and i'll give you everything you will never lack never lack so and you were in you had been through a period of want and luck so this looked like a you know a safe haven yes so okay and you hadn't really seen you had not admired the white wedding thing and because of what you had seen your parents yeah so you thought okay this is an arrangement i can you know i can have everything i want and then i will have children for this man okay that's true when i got to know that i was pregnant all this time the wife hasn't suspected she suspected and actually she arranged that we moved out okay we were moved out of that house to a certain other place so when i told him i was pregnant he jumped up and down but in my heart i died actually i remember that is the day i died sylvia got lost i died but he was happy he spent lots of money because it was a new home starting everything was set up in one day like furnishing the whole house with everything in it he told me life has now started so i don't want to see you anywhere near the house you used to live i don't want to see in other words i don't want to see you anywhere near my mind yes so change your friends change the cell phone change the lines change everything about you even your parents your relatives shouldn't know you're in this condition he even separated you from yeah because he was now you know a well-known figure in a community yes you know a minister so you know he you had to be hidden uh he that side of his life had to be hidden so i lived in that state i gave back my first child out of i no one knew not even my parents knew so i got the second bone immediately i raised the the two kids but during that time i think i just decided to close my dreams so now here you are in a house alone your parents don't know where you are your siblings have no idea where you are you don't have a social life no you are just having children yes for this man yes and he is continuing to go in public you know with his wife and you know you are that person that doesn't exist exactly okay that must have been and to you it wasn't painful it was you know you were okay having the bread and the meat in the house and the tv and you know i wouldn't say i was okay but i saw myself die i was this outstanding girl loving to worship being in church being around with friends i remember before to take you back during that time of relationship so many suitors came up because atari at the age of 20 to 23 you're looking really good yes yes so so many suitors would come up and you tell them no that one already is taken here's someone else i didn't know he was positioning himself there so going back when i was in that house i would cry every day but you had the first baby i had the first baby yes and then you went on to have the second the second baby so you know i am in in between this crying and they just sit back to think okay i've had this baby but i don't have to stay at this do do you okay now let's first go to i had forgotten to ask this how often would he see you at what time would he see because this was a man who was maintaining impression somewhere else so when would he see you um i i would i would count the nines would spend home he would know when he come during day and certain days he would come at around 11 then by one he has to be away so come at 11 in the morning no 11 years 11 a.m and in the morning 1 p.m and 1 p.m he's left his has left so that was the relationship yes so it was short-lived he comes and then he pampers you and then he he speaks all the promises in this world okay what did he promise you i would like to know what he promised you that when she took you from the first kid to the second kid to the third kid in the solitary state hidden away who knows tell me i'll marry you okay i'll get rid of my first wife i'm going to marry you i'm going to give you everything even that which i've never given my first wife i'm going to regular titles he started buying me cars he took me and i learned to drive so he gave me all the cars i remember i would change cars i i don't think i i don't know why he would always think it's what took my heart but inside i was different i didn't want a curse i didn't want the good food the good house i wanted a man you wanted a companion the company of a man and i remember telling but you give me little time and then i have two children the children grew and they would ask me mommy where is daddy and i would always tell them that he has gone to work so whenever you come you turn in between your time and the kids yeah yeah so the kids still want you also still want so you all left one thing so he kept telling me things are going to be better each year i'm going to go and introduce you to your parents you introduce me to your parents and we do our wedding so how was that going to be achieved because this is a a a a a christian you know person and you know me you know [Music] how how and he has had a marriage in church a white wedding how was he what did he tell you how did he tell you he was going to achieve that he would talk and the public person that he is yes he would tell me you'll speak to your parents we meet in a hotel i paid a diary that they've asked for then we arrange like a silver wedding i don't want it public okay so how was that going to be achieved i mean um what status was he what was he trying to do obviously i think he knew you were a kid so he was telling you all the lies yes yes i thought he thought every girl needs a wedding okay and did you believe him when he was saying he would marry you times i would believe and have an official wedding with you yes because you don't want to show me at home things are terrible things are not working out anytime they are divorcing with a wife any time the wife is leaving so i was left in the state of anytime please be ready anytime please be ready anything anytime became one year became two years before three years became how many years it came to nine years because i still had a third born wow so for nine years you were packed and ready to to to replace the official wife yes because that's what would always tell me he would always figure out that to me that the wife is not good the wife is lacking in so many things and i am but you had lived with this i had lived with she had welcomed you as a daughter so did you see her lacking in anything did you did you at any one point feel that you were better than her i would not because uh i grew seeing this lady and actually i always admired her so i would sit down she was your own mother yes and here was a man telling you she was hopeless there is no day i've ever caught a diva never called her maybe says your first wife how he was called her mom and i'll tell her but you have mom it's like live alone your mom alone she's on in her life let's start our own life alone let's start our future with you we will edge up together we will raise our children together and you're not going to get anywhere like get married to any other man your mind we are meant to be together so he later involved my family my siblings hated it actually during that time of having children they would not come home because remember i was secured in my own prison cell no friends no family because because he didn't want his wife to find out so life was really what did he ever tell you anything about his wife that i don't want her to find out or yes he he always said that like stay away from my family stay away from my wife but have my children of course these these children are me mine and yours and the other life the other lady and the other child don't think about them let's build our own castle in our own island so that's what he always told me you always showed me that we can only be together and the and the promises that the land titles there did you ever see any any any of those promises fulfilled i didn't i didn't see any land titles even if he would buy me cars they would always stay in his names so there was nothing like permanent i owned so i remember i tried to complain i think i was going a bit mature so telling but we are renting and i'm giving my bath to my children at least set up something permanent that i can raise my children in it and they'll tell me it will come i'm going to build you this nice house yeah but it never that's the one the wife was living in yes they had the permanent home well we used to stay so he said he'll build you one just like that yes you could stay there and you become so happy you're going to become the most happiest woman in this world but i did see that happiness really would he come on a daily basis no no once in a while and he comes in the day at 11 to 1. yes sometimes would come so early to see the children go off to school then immediately leave because of his other duties okay did you ever have an outing with the children did you ever go out with him yes we used to go out but if you go out specifically in a hotel you enter your rooms and you of course you have from service and that is all it would have you don't get out of the of the hotel so how was that an out thing because you might as well stay at home and eat who does the hotel room is like a house i think i sometimes would find me so packed with thoughts and tells me let's get out of this place let me take you somewhere in a hotel you have a good meal you sleep in a different environment then like after night you come back home wow so that was your outing yes and did you meet get to meet his relatives did you get to meet his family um later in the years the relatives came up to see their children um that was after how many years after six years years they would come um be a visit and definitely run away because they would tell me we don't want your mom to know we came to have anything to do with we have anything to do with with with our brother's girlfriend yes so they would also show me we are not sure of your relationship but of course they will tell me we are happy thanks for giving back to these children [Music] that's all that's all [Music] thank you so much for tuning in i hope you're enjoying this program so far please like comment and subscribe to pastor jessica's youtube channel oh and don't forget to press the notification button so that you're notified whenever we upload a video also you can follow pastor jessica on all of 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know it's as big as mine and the years that we had spent that the love that i felt was because i had children with him and i wouldn't want my children to grow without a father i know so i wouldn't feel that deep love that you would have for a husband because i always he had never posed in my mind as my own husband now what do you mean i would i i'll always think i stole like you find a plot a piece of land written this plot is not for sale so you go uproot that signpost and you decide to take the land by force i always told myself it's what i did and the guilt would always kill me inside my conscience was killed and this as a christian you had you know you had betrayed somebody yes had parented you yes so every time you mother did every time i would come home i would feel no he's in the wrong position he's in the wrong place i'll tell him please go back to mom please go back to mom and you tell me why do you always mind about her i'm like cause i know you're not mine and sometimes you would end up quarreling because it doesn't make that statement like why do you always chase me away why do you always disown me and i'll tell him you're not mine i just got you from someone and i need to take back what's not mine wow wow wow now um because you were with him was there anything about him that you particularly liked apart from the fact that he gave you everything was there something ah because we don't want to to we need to have a balanced you know argument here we don't want to say it was it was complete hell yeah so you know was there anything about this man that you know you felt was a good attribute yes um one thing that i would say he was a caring father he gave me and the kids the best of life food was always home security hospitals taken care of so there was no day we lacked home you know there was no decision there was no such a day in my life there's that i was with him do you feel that he was giving his family the same treatment or did you do you feel that you stole from what the family should have enjoyed definitely if it was if the man had remained with his wife all sources would be to his family and his wife but now you have to divide but there's some men who can afford to to to to no it cannot still be equal so you were you the the greater beneficiary i don't know really but me i always saw what was brought to my side but of course whenever it would come to his wife he would tell you my wife and my family comes first oh that's what he would say yes he you'd always tell me speak about anything don't talk about my wife don't talk about your mom leave her in her own world i know how i handle her life and her family so you build your own and how your lifestyle the way you want to live wow wow okay um what what what led to the apart from if you were lonely he came in once in a while the dreams never became a reality at what point do you say enough is enough well i was waiting for that [Laughter] um 2018 2017 is when 77 days began i remember it was september i started watching and this man of god would always talk about broken marriages divorce adultery fornication and it's what i was going through and to make it worse whenever mommy pastor jessica would come on the show the girl power cleaning clinic that ended up the 77 days then you would start talking about second wives and make make us feel that we are the worst people we are actually it was i think more of a prayer about it was praying and you know but you would sit in your sitting room and want to switch off that tv set yeah i went through hadoop i went through trying to dodge my reality i didn't want to face the truth that i was a second wife because everything seemed good i got at the point and i settled you are driving i was driving my kids were healthy my family school my family yes my family always told me yes you made it oh they finally said you'd made it because whenever anything would come up i'd be the first one to stand and support so they were like okay but whenever pastor jessica would start to talk about the hagas the second wife those women that come in to break marriages that's how that would be my prayer tell them about me i'm different may this man just called me as young i didn't interfere any yes the wife is there but i'm not calling her i don't interfere with her i don't go to our home then the holy spirit teaching began the holy spirit began to convict me you're doing wrong that man is not yours take back the wife that that has the man to his wife but aldo is still good but why would you let me have all these children and then now you're telling me to leave so it was a trouble it was a war in my spirit so as time went on the conviction became stronger until i told myself it's time to gather up yourself and find your destiny as a woman leave that man and god will give you so you started teaching us usually on shows of marriage now i would admire couples sitting together hugging eating together marriage seminars yes and i'll be like you mean life can't be so sweet like this because i don't remember ever moving out with this man holding hands even if it was in his car you always take the back seat oh he will tell you sit at the back yes no one should see you with me okay because since he was a public sort of a public figure and married yes and married and everyone knew he was married so life did started i started seeing the negative now i forgot about the cause and everything i started seeing the negative part i am not allowed anywhere i don't go to parties i don't celebrate my birthday kids parties with anyone they buy you all this big cake and you eat with only your kids and this is a life i enjoyed i would see my neighbors sometimes actually some someday my neighbor asked me your man seems to love you so much but he's never home are you a second wife that question pulled me down i didn't want to answer i told her no why do you ask i don't date so i started finding out who a second wife is and who a first woman is and you realize it's better to be it's better to be a first lady so god started speaking to me i remember i i re accepted christ during those shows of 77 in 2019 praise god that that is that is actually powerful that was that's a powerful testimony yes i realized it's it's a powerful transformation so you packed your bags now let's let's get to that point because of time you pack your bags you know how did you leave um one thing i told myself was i was a sinner that needed to accept christ again i needed to put back things right there's no i was going to go to the top with just corners so i packed my bags i told god give me the strength to live so i left my children that was 2019. you left your children in the house yes in september i got out of the house i mean without anything the way i was dressed is how i left with everything there i would look i turned and looked at my children i told god there's no way i would call myself your disciple if i cannot deny these things so i denied myself like the love to the children and everything that was going on and i said god i will follow you everything will come up after i've made things right with you so when i left i remember i landed into my sister my young sister's house she told me what's happening i told have left that marriage so i started confessing to this man and telling him i am not your wife i am not your wife if christ would come back now i would miss heaven and i wouldn't want to miss anything like heaven on this earth so i told him go back to your wife i am tired of sin i am going to move right with god i am tired being a second wife and i am tired always causing pain to your wife i am tired of seeing her tears so government things will help with your wife i'll remain as the mother of these children but not your wife so i moved he tried to follow me up but i decided you've made up your mind yes i had made up my mind i was a new self actually um when i'm wonderful that that that is wonderful yes and um the good news is today that you are that god gave you a husband yes a white wedding not so far mommy not so far wow i remember i left 19 september in march 2020 i meet my god-given husband you your priest in shining armor oh my god that job boy he's a jumper dollar but i call him my job boy wow uh we met and he was he looked at me he saw a budget wow a woman of three children yes he saw a virgin wow i told him do you know the ladies it's everything beautiful in his life he made my actions to beauty wow wow my shame to glory wow please yes he did so that's wonderful you know how it is when you fall when you obey the commandments of god and and walk in his statutes and do what is right in his sight he said i will not bring upon you the diseases that you have upon the egyptians yes that was an egyptian disease indeed what you had before it was at the moment you walked the ordinances of god the moment you do what is right in his sight he blesses you he's something amazing something beautiful um i'm going to ask sylvia's husband to walk in right now and join us so that we can all see this chapadora boy who grabbed this mother of three and treated her like a vagina wow you're welcome you are welcome mr oh we know thank you mommy wow wow wow wow wow this is your jack boy this is my job boy tell me how he went through how you told him this story because you know even i hear you i'm you know i think wow um he told me i want to marry you i told him i'm a mother of three told me even if you have ten children wow you're the woman god has shown me and you're my wife wow you're my evil god created only one evil oh my god i'm not seeing any other evil apart from you wow yes he was so good and so bold i told him my whole story mommy i did not hide anything so he accepted me wow wow wow and in june i went to my parents we visited and um in september 6 we had a white wedding oh my goodness wow praise god and was because of this white wedding that actually got to know yes of your story wow that's wonderful wow i thank god wow that is wonderful that's such a powerful story i think um maybe i should let the viewers know that you approached girl power about your testimony and what god had done for you and we managed to arrange a meeting where you actually apologized yes to um your mother the woman who had let you into her home and uh the woman who had uh you know the woman who you had you you and her husband had actually battered emotionally for over nine years and i'm glad that you started your journey yes on that footing yes mr orweno can we hear from you just something say something well thank you very much mommy i'm so glad to be in this show this is a real blessing i remember when we came to your home to meet her mother to apologize it was the first time i saw you first to first we met and this is the second time so actually when i met her or not gopher i i'm called jacob or winner this is my wife slavia i met her in an interview it was a collusion in an interview it was on fourth of march job interview job interview so when i saw the beautiful young woman yes i saw a virgin woman saying that she said this is a girl from isaiah from fort porto yeah she's from shema yes wow so after one the beautiful girl from shema yes after one month i went i said okay i will not sleep on this bed because i don't have peace when you see a flower in a neighbor's home you don't just have to go and watch the flower and go back you have to pick a branch and you put in your own compound so that you can look at it every day so that is exactly what happened you pursued her i pursued her despite uh she told me all the stories me i was i was looking at it as i'm like okay i don't think whether i i am the best but what do i want because uh the at the end of the day there is somewhere you're supposed to reach the the past is passed those are stories okay we all go through that but what do we want in the future you see that so at the end of the day you you need someone who who will go with you who will keep you you see so uh i'm really grateful i'm so proud of her thank you i'm proud of her too and the reason i'm proud of her is because there are so many young ladies you know her age who will actually push for something that is empty you know and and and even if you did win the man the the joy of having stolen you know the the pride of of having worked the way we met our main and came together and worked and had our children that joy is not there you're always looked at as an impositor always looked at as an opportunist even you always looked at us up at as a novice as a thief yes and um and and you no matter what you try to say it it will never sound right and and and the holiness is of god luke chapter 16 verse 18 says he who divorces his wife and marries another commits a doubter so you you did you don't want to live in permanent you know adultery okay so and these were your parents it was your father was your brother really that that that that that was happening so spiritually this was spiritual you know and um i feel that for you to come out of this to walk out of this and say i would rather start is very noble i would rather start the way my mother and father started i would rather walk slowly yes and get to the level they are i don't want to be an opportunist yeah i don't want to walk in and grab somebody else yes i don't want to reap where i have not sown because god will not allow that that soil can can can reject you sure you know and and you you and you might even fail to harvest and cause that man to stop harvesting when you walked out of this home and even when you were there was it only you that this man was cheating you know cheating going with his wife was it just you um after i'd gotten out actually because as out of the world i came to know that we are several women girls that were being used in the same way i i lost he had actually abused so many guys and women in his care yes actually certain thinking has also part of the girls that were used obviously yes there were many yes i have gotten to know a number of them and you are not the only one who has not the only ones children yes yeah i think anybody who can cheat you know who can do that you can use you will use other people sure yes and so i'm sure right now you are a voice to those women this is not a tale and shame show so we have not mentioned any names the people who should know will know those who don't know will not know but you are a voice to those women you are a voice to those girls that are being taken advantage of by this man you are a voice you are the one who can tell them that this man will not marry them he will not take them to his home he will you know he will there is no plan b because there are so many sure you are the one who can say this yes and in a few words before we close this program before i say something do say something to these women tell them how good it is to have a man of your own wow i'm honored i would love to tell girls out there please do not look at yourself as the worst thing no matter how far you've fallen no matter how many children you've had no matter how many married men you've really go to your life christ can make you start up again you start up your journey with victory a new creature a forgiven one and with her esteem i always admired mummy having a man of my own you know show them your wedding ring because i always admired to have a ring on my finger girls usually go and buy these ones on streets and put on to show their marriage you're lying to yourself first the reality no matter how you fallen christ is there to save you the blood can wash away the sin and make you a brand new person so don't be don't hide in that lie in that life of denying yourself the opportunities that god can even give you god gave me the opportunity to get married again god gave me the opportunity and he gave me mommy my husband had never had children wow actually we're expecting our first body oh that's wonderful that's a beautiful story what a wonderful ending yes so please come out of the shem come out of the lies come out of the darkness the light is there praise god yes wow that's wonderful i'm so proud of you um sylvia now if you are watching you've had 10 children you've had 10 20 children there's still a jabra dollar man indeed there is still a young man who has had no children you are you know you are a new creature and and if you walk in the ordinances of god he will give you exactly what you ask for yes you know and it is unrighteousness that causes us not to prosper yes proverbs chapter 10 verse 2 and i've mentioned this before in in another show um proverbs chapter 10 verse 2 shows us that you begotten wealth does not profit us okay so you you are at a point where you walked away from everything but you were happy now yes and you're starting a new yeah what a beautiful story what a wonderful story your children are with their father yes the the the ex wasn't yours but it was somebody else's husband would you like to send your beautiful children a message right now i would thank you um i have a beautiful daughter please i know you're still young and my other children what's your daughter's name she's called pal but i usually call her my my jessica wow so i i want to tell her when you grow up god has a man for you you don't have to go stealing anyone's man you can still be the best in this world you can produce the best to your children even to your generation and you can be the best example in the society mommy i'm glad that i can still stand on a tv show and tell the girls of my daughter that yes i made mistakes in the past but god has washed me clean i am a new creature now i am a wife a first lady you're a first lady and the best mother to your children right now because you're happy yes i'm happy i feel fulfilled and i'll make it to heaven as well and be the best thing in this world wow yes that is wonderful i know mommy loves you so much and we will soon meet wow so yeah you send this you know message to your children yes mommy loves you say something to them and my babies i call you my angels mommy loves you so much she misses you every night she prays for you she thinks about you she keeps keeping so many stories to tell you and i pray that wherever you are you'll be comforted and still know that your mother still lives and you'll soon meet her if you are watching and you have sylvia's children we are praying that you will avail her a chance to see her children she is not wanting to snatch them away she's just trying to reach an agreement she would like to see you know her babies she did the you did the right thing and i know you will not regret and i know that god will enable you to meet your children amen and you you've heard that they're okay and they're safe and that's the most important thing one praise god thank you so much for tuning in rewatch this on youtube god bless you and until next time stay blessed [Music] thank you so much for tuning in i hope you enjoyed this program please like comment and subscribe to pastor jessica's youtube channel oh and don't forget to press the notification button so that you're notified whenever we upload a video also you can follow pastor jessica on all of her social media platforms facebook instagram and twitter under the handle of pastor jessica kyania if you would like to contact pastor jessica kayanja please do so on 077-263-1603 and if you'd like to advertise with us please don't hesitate to let us know [Music] i'm so sorry that's all we could do for today i do wish we had more time but remember it's a weeklies program so please do stay tuned for the next upload i love you i'll be praying for you and bye it's for you and for me

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Length: 49min 38sec (2978 seconds)

Published: Wed Mar 17 2021