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You may be seated. Hello, Your Honor. Hello. This is the case of<i> Kidd v Rawlings.</i> Thank you, Jerome. Good day, everyone. AUDIENCE: Good day. Mr. Kidd, you say Ms. Rawlings is a manipulative user, who convinced you that you were the father of her son, Nathannel, then changed her mind when someone better came along. You and your mother say Ms. Rawling's mind games have wreaked emotional havoc on your family, and you are 100% positive you are her son's father. Ms. Rawlings, you say Mr. Kidd is fully aware he is not Nathannel's father, as he himself told you he could not have children. You say Mr. Rawlings and his mother are two desperate people who convinced themselves Mr. Kidd is your son's father and you intend to prove them wrong today. Is that correct? Yes, Your Honor. Mr. Kidd, why are you so convinced you are Nathannel's father? Well, Your Honor, when this first started out, she came to me and told me that he was mine. She was sending me letters when I was gone. JUDGE LAKE: And so, you were away when she found out she was pregnant. I was away... About a month after. I went away a month after she found out she was pregnant. JUDGE LAKE: Okay. And did you tell him it was his child, Ms. Rawlings? No, Your Honor. When... Okay, how it happened was we met through a mutual friend, and... I didn't know anything about Mr. Kidd, starting off. My mutual friend ended up leaving and the situation that I was in, I didn't have anywhere to go. And that's how me and Mr. Kidd ended up having relations because I was staying with him. But as, you know, everything progressed, and everything started off, somehow, another female came into the picture, and I went off and did my own thing and was dealing with him and another gentleman also around the time that I conceived my child, so... What was your relationship with this man like? We were in a serious relationship, and I was actually, at some point, once I left from being around Mr. Kidd, that I was actually staying with him. JUDGE LAKE: So how often were you with Mr. Kidd and how often were you with the other guy? Pretty much going back and forth, because I was staying with him and I was leaving from being with Mr. Kidd to going with him and coming back to Mr. Kidd. Did you tell him, Ms. Rawlings, that he was Nathannel's biological father? TANEVAH RAWLINGS: No, Ma'am. JUDGE LAKE: You never told him that? No, Ma'am. JUDGE LAKE: You just told him you were pregnant, and then somehow he assumed he was the father? When I found out I was pregnant, Mr. Kidd told me hisself that he has some type of rare form of blood disease, and that me and his child would die... If I was pregnant by him. Oh. He had a rare blood disease. No. And if he got you pregnant, the baby would not be able to be carried full-term? JENKINS: Your Honor. It's not a rare blood disease. I am A Rh negative, and he is A Rh negative. If she's Rh positive, and doesn't get the necessity shot during the pregnancy, it could prevent her from having future children or that child could pass away. JUDGE LAKE: Okay. So, Mr. Kidd, did you ever tell Ms. Rawlings you didn't believe you could have children? KEVIN KIDD: Yes, Ma'am. I informed her of the situation, because I'm typically in a long-term relationship, I've never had, any kind of hiccups in the, uh... Thinking that they might be pregnant, any slip-ups, no... You've never gotten anyone pregnant. KIDD: No, Ma'am. JUDGE LAKE: And Ms. Jenkins, when did you find out about the baby? It was approximately the mid of August of 2016. And at that time, were you aware that your son was in a relationship with Ms. Rawlings? No. Um... We've never been in a relationship. So, it wasn't... Just a sexual relationship. KIDD: No, Ma'am. We were just... She just needed somewhere to stay. So I was just looking out for her and it just became a sexual encounter. JENKINS: A hookup. It was an encounter? RAWLINGS: No. KIDD: More than one, but, you know... So that's what we call a sexual relationship. KIDD: Yes, Ma'am. It's a form of a relationship where you have sex but you have no commitment. KIDD: Yes, Ma'am. JUDGE LAKE: Okay. So, Ms. Jenkins, how did you find out about the baby? I got a phone call from my daughter, and she said, "Mom, you need to look at this picture." Sent me a picture of the baby, I was like, "Uh..." "Who got my son's baby pictures?" She said, "That's not your son." I said, "Yes, that is. I gave birth to him, I know who he is." She said, "That's his son." And I was like, "What?" (STAMMERING) "Hold on, no, no. "Why am I just now hearing about this?" So, I contacted his friend, who gave me Ms. Rawlings' number. I called her, and we talked for a couple weeks, and I asked if I could see the baby and she said yes. We were at a park, he was in a car... Uh, a stroller, and I said hey to her, I said, "But you know "what I'm here for." And I went straight to the baby. Picked him up, had said, "Hey, sugarfoot," and he smiled, and we played, and... It was... Honestly, the best day of my life. I'm holding my grandson. I know it's mine. And I have pictures. I'd like to see those. Of both my babies. And when you look at these pictures, what do you see? JENKINS:<i> My son.</i> JUDGE LAKE:<i> Your son on the left.</i> <i> And that's Nathannel on the right.</i> (JENKINS CHUCKLES) And you really believe as you look at those pictures, that's your grandson? Yeah. JUDGE LAKE: And as we take a look at the second picture... (JENKINS CHUCKLES) <i> ...it's Mr. Kidd as a teen.</i> JUDGE LAKE:<i> And Nathannel.</i> JENKINS:<i> Mmm-hmm.</i> JENKINS:<i> Oh, he has my lips.</i> And you think... (AUDIENCE LAUGHS) You think they look exactly alike, minus your lips. Those are your lips. Oh, he's got my lips. Okay. So, so you look exactly alike. JENKINS: Mmm-hmm. JUDGE LAKE: Ms. Rawlings, you began to let Ms. Jenkins have visitation with the baby. Me being me, as a mother, and I wasn't able to grow up with my father. If Mr. Kidd can't see the moments that he's missing, at least his mom will be able to have 'em and his family has some stories to tell... JENKINS: Yes. ...just in case... JUDGE LAKE: And I completely understand that. And... And... It's truly a beautiful sentiment. But as you stand here at the defendant podium, you say you know Mr. Kidd is not your child's biological father. Yes, ma'am. KIDD: It's a manipulation tactic. Yeah, it was... As long as you are giving her what she wanted and needed at the time, it was okay. I have never, one time, been told I wasn't the grandmother. She did not ever, ever say that she doubted full-heartedly that Kevin was the father. She said it's a possibility between this one guy and my son. And as I sent her pictures, she's like, "Yes, I believe "it's Kevin's. It's Kevin's. It's gotta be." Ms. Rawlings, did the other guy... The other potential father, did he ever acknowledge that he could be the father or express interest in being in Nathannel's life? Yes, he did, because he was the one that actually told me to get a test to see if I was pregnant. And me and him, we're stick together and he actually reached back out to me, because he had some other situations going on, looking at pictures, and he questioned it again. He was like, "Are you sure the other guy is your child's father? "Because he looks like me." And going through pictures that even his brother said, "Yeah. "He has our nose, he looks like us..." JUDGE LAKE:<i> So the other guy thinks Nathannel...</i> <i> The other guy thinks Nathannel looks like him, too?</i> Yeah, and he favors his daughter. And where is the other guy now? RAWLINGS: He's in another state. But he still... JUDGE LAKE: So, he's in another state? Yes, he still reaches out and checks on him. Okay, does he have a relationship with Nathannel, does he see him ever? The other guy actually came to the hospital after I gave birth to Nathannel and... They instantly, you seen it in his face, and in Nathannel's face, his face lit up. And even his brother was there, it was like... "Yeah, man, that's your son." JUDGE LAKE: The other guy? Yes. 'Cause he... JUDGE LAKE: Did he sign the birth certificate? No, because I didn't have my ID with me at the time. So there's no one listed as father on Nathannel's birth certificate? No, Your Honor. AUDIENCE MEMBER: Wow. I had him for a period of time. You took him back. We went through that phase, and now we're back at the point where you're sending me pictures every day again, video chats every day. We speak every day. We text every day. Ms. Jenkins, you said you had the baby for a while. What do you mean by that? She was going through a situation and got kicked out of where she lived, because her choice of men are not just the greatest, I guess, in the world. He wasn't safe, she wasn't safe. She was trying to get her life together. She gave me the baby for a period of time, with a... How long? I had him for a month and a couple days. AUDIENCE: Wow. And I got a handwritten letter, of custody, it's... Let me see that, Jerome. No, it wasn't... You said it was a handwritten letter of custody. JENKINS: Temporary custody. RAWLINGS: Because of the fact that I had got a job that was paying $10 an hour and I didn't have anybody to watch him. And at the same time, trying to figure out who's gonna watch my child, and me not knowing how I'm gonna be able to feed my child, how he's gonna take his bath, I chose it to where... She was there... JENKINS: At that specific time... No, no, at that specific time, you did not have a job yet. You had already lost a job the day before that. I know... (BOTH ARGUING INDISTINCTLY) Let me read this letter. This... You wrote, "I, Tanevah Rawlings, <i> "the parent of Nathannel Rawlings,</i> <i> "I give Tammy Jenkins temporary physical custody of my son."</i> Because of the fact that once I told my stepmom, I came to the decision where, when I lost the job because I didn't have a babysitter, and I wanted that job, so in order for me to be able to get on my feet, because I was also planning to go back to school and get everything situated, so I couldn't set up somebody to watch my child. So I... I understand. Listen, listen, Ms. Rawlings, I can see you're a young woman. I can see you're a young girl. I understand that you got yourself in a situation, you were in a situation where you didn't know who your child's father was, and you were trying to do, I believe, I sincerely believe, what was best for your child. You basically, in that moment, were trying to get your child to a safe place. Yes. JUDGE LAKE: All right. And so, Mr. Kidd, you presented evidence to the court in your paperwork that suggested you had another medical issue which would prevent you from impregnating Ms. Rawlings, is that true? Yes, ma'am. JUDGE LAKE: All right. Well, the court wanted to get down to the bottom of this particular situation, because we were very, concerned about this information, and wanted to be accurate in our assessment of it. So we've called upon one of our experts, Dr. Jameelah Gater. Jerome, will you please escort Dr. Gater into the courtroom? Yes, ma'am. I'd like to ask her a couple questions. Hey, Doctor. Gonna have you go up to the witness stand. Watch your step. Hi, Dr. Gater. Hi. Thank you so much for joining us today. We are here discussing the paternity of baby Nathannel. And we have spoken with Mr. Kidd about a medical issue. What is your assessment of this particular medical situation? So, I think there's two separate issues here. There was an issue about Rh blood incompatibility. Yes. And that has to do with a mother and a baby. And if there's different blood types between the father of the baby, positive and negative. But that doesn't really have anything to do with the ability to father a child. Okay. He had a separate issue, which was a childhood infection and so there are various childhood infections, from mumps to repeated urinary tract infections, to STIs like gonorrhea and chlamydia. Those can cause inflammation in the testicles, which then causes scarring, and makes it difficult for you to emit sperm. So if the infection is appropriately treated, then the fertility rates are normal. So you're saying that this condition he basically dealt with as a child, that does not necessarily preclude him from being able to father a child after this condition is passed, or... Correct after the infection has been treated. Correct. Only a small percentage of males will go on to have infertility from those childhood infections. JUDGE LAKE: A small percentage. JAMEELAH GATER: Correct. So, Ms. Rawlings, after you've heard the testimony of the doctor, does that change your mind in terms of your belief? Because when you came in, you don't really think he's the biological father. No, Ma'am. JUDGE LAKE: And, Ms. Jenkins and Mr. Kidd, if Nathannel is proven not to be your biological child, grandchild, do you still wanna maintain a relationship with him? I mean, honestly, I'mma be... I'mma be devastated, you know, 'cause that's supposed to be my first child, and it's a boy, you know what I'm saying? I'll be around you know, I'll help out as much as I can, but I can't take care of him as if he was my child. (SIGHS) All right, I, um... I think I've heard enough. I'm ready for the results. Jerome. Thank you. These results were prepared by DNA diagnostics and they read as follows... In the case of<i> Kidd v Rawlings,</i> when it comes to 10-month-old Nathannel Rawlings. It has been determined by this court, Mr. Kidd... You... Are the father. (AUDIENCE CHEERING) (JENKINS CRYING) You are the father. Thank you. JENKINS: (SOBBING) Thank you. And at least, even the fact that he said that he would have stood up, that was what I was still going for, period. The fact that that is his son? I am happy because me and him, we don't have a hate-type relationship, and that I knew he's a good man at heart, and he has a good heart. And knowing that me and him can be on some type of page, that my child will have his biological mother and father. Go hug her. And he has a family, something that I really didn't have. JENKINS: Hey! You do now! You got a big family now. Come here, my baby. I told you from the jump I loved you. We got this. (SNIFFLES) This is really one of the miracles of motherhood. A family. And in this court, when we celebrate fatherhood. That's what we're about. So, Mr. Kidd, it sounds like you've been through a lot. I hope that this baby is a seed for change for you. For you to understand now you are his example. Yes, ma'am. I wish you all the very, very best of luck. Thank you. Thank you so much. Thank you so much. Thanks, Doctor, for your insight. Court is adjourned.
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Length: 16min 13sec (973 seconds)
Published: Sun Jul 22 2018
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