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Please be seated. -Hello, Your Honor. -Hello. -This is the case of<i> Hardin v. Nelson.</i> -Thank you, Jerome. -Good day, everyone. -[audience] Good day. Ms. Hardin, you have opened your case today in hopes of saving your relationship with the defendant. You say, due to a misunderstanding, he is now denying your two-month-old daughter, Sophia Nelson. You are certain he is the father and, once proven, you want his help raising your daughter. Is that correct? -Yes, Your Honor. -Mr. Nelson, you refuse to lift a finger for a child that isn't yours. You say you are 1,000% certain you are not Sophia's biological father and claim that you know who is. -[Nelson] Yes, Your Honor. -All right, so, Ms. Hardin, you say you need help. Delonte doesn't help me with anything. He doesn't help me financially. He won't pick up a diaper. He won't watch her for 15 minutes while I go to the store. He won't watch her for 15 minutes while I get in the shower. He walk past her like she Casper. When she cry, he be like, "Hey, get your daughter. Your daughter crying. Your daughter wants you. Get her, get her." He don't help me at all. One, I don't see why I should have to do all of that if I'm not 100% sure that I'm the father. My baby look just like you. You denying her, she look just like you. Y'all cheeks, y'all face structure, your forehead. -Your eyes. No, she don't look like me. -Like you. I look like my mom. Mr. Nelson, you are basically saying that Ms. Hardin's testimony is correct. I really want to understand the nature of your relationship, -how y'all met. -I met her when I went down to Louisiana with my family. I thought she was cool. She wanted to move <i> with me to Arkansas.</i> -[Judge Lake]<i> Wait, how did we get there?</i> -[Hardin]<i> Right?</i> <i> No, that is not how it went.</i> -[Nelson] Yes, it is. -So, how did it happen, -Ms. Hardin? -When he came down to visit with his family members, we became friends first. And then when it was time for him to go back to Louisiana with his family, he asked me, "Do you want to come with me -or do you want to stay?" -No. How long was he there? [Hardin] He was there for a couple of months. I said you could come if you want to. I said, "But the best choice for you is to stay home with your people." -That's what I said. -[Judge Lake] "With your people." So... -But you went, anyway? -[Hardin] Yes, I did. -[Nelson] Yes, Your Honor. -All right. And then soon after that, you find out you're pregnant. [Hardin] Yes, Your Honor. Tell me what happens when you find out you're pregnant. At first I panicked, 'cause I didn't know how he would respond. <i> He didn't seem like the person to want to have a kid.</i> He didn't seem like a kid person. But, I mean... -That's true. -So, why were you having unprotected sex with this young man, and you didn't think he was the kid type? And why are you following behind him? I didn't really have anybody. My mom died when I was 12, my dad's not in my life. My grandmother, she's not really there, either. Okay. Now, I understand what's going on. [crying] [Judge Lake] It's all right. We come here to tell the truth. And if that's your truth, you say it. -Yes, ma'am. -So, you were feeling alone in the world. Yes, and I never really had nobody in my life talk to me, you know? Nobody... They would talk, but they wouldn't listen to where I was coming from. They didn't listen to what I had to say. And he was there for me. And I gravitated towards it. So, you wanted to have his baby because, "This was a person, now, -that I decided--" -I thought that I was gonna -be with him for the rest of my life. -Right. So, take me to the birth. [Hardin]<i> He was semi-there, I call it.</i> -At least I was there. A lot of dudes... -That don't count. -...wouldn't even be there. -He watched her be pushed out, he waited for my daughter to be weighed and wiped off, and he told me, "That's a white man's baby," and he walked out of the hospital room. -[audience gasps] -[Judge Lake] What? [Nelson] 'Cause she came out, really, like... -[Hardin] That's how she came out. -She didn't look like that -when she came out. -[Judge Lake] She'd been in the womb! [Nelson] Come on. I'm black, though. A black baby gonna come out with some type of blackness on 'em. Babies come out in all different shades and colors. -[Nelson]<i> That wasn't the real reason why.</i> -[Hardin]<i> That's not an excuse.</i> So, Mr. Nelson, did you sign the birth certificate? No, ma'am. No, Your Honor, I didn't. [Judge Lake] So you came there to support, but in your mind, you were like, "This isn't my child, <i> so I'm not signing the birth certificate."</i> -[Nelson]<i> Yes, Your Honor.</i> -[Hardin]<i> No.</i> -[Hardin] That's not what happened. -[Judge Lake] What happened? When we were on our way to the hospital, I called him multiple times to say, "Hey, make sure you grab your ID. You need your ID to sign her birth certificate." He left his ID at home on purpose, brought an empty wallet. Well, on purpose. -[Hardin] On purpose. -[Nelson] The same thing, yeah. [Judge Lake] So, Mr. Nelson, you say that you didn't sign that birth certificate purposefully. Because you have doubt. -Yes, Your Honor. -And you've brought an exhibit to outline that doubt. Am I correct? -Yes, Your Honor. -Please, step up to the monitor. Okay, Your Honor. It all started, we went back to Arkansas, got our own place together. <i> Around that time, her ex-boyfriend John and his baby mother,</i> which is Rachel, at the time, didn't have nowhere to go so they wanted to come stay with us. But that being her ex-boyfriend, I thought it was disrespectful. I said no. She still went along with it anyway. And I thought that was suspicious. 'Cause if that was your ex and y'all had relations, why would you want to be under the same roof as him with me? So, I got mad and I left during that time. But if he was with his new wife or girlfriend, or fiance, why would it matter if they needed a place to stay for a moment? Because, before I even knew her, they, all three of them, had sexual relations with each other, -so, I wasn't... -Oh. -[Nelson] I'm not stupid... -So, they had threesomes together? Yes, Your Honor. Oh. -Okay. -So, if I'm not there, -what's to stop them doing it again? -[Judge Lake] What is goin' on? [clears throat and stammers] Yes, Your Honor. Eventually, they left. I came back. Everything was cool, I thought everything's fine. I wasn't suspecting nothing, 'cause I had no proof. Until... I went through her phone. And I found text messages of John texting her, "Hey, baby, -you want some more? How you doing," this and that. -[Judge Lake] What? -Yeah. -"You want some more?" [Nelson] She denied it. Um... Three weeks later, I find out she pregnant. [Judge Lake]<i> And then three weeks after that...</i> [Nelson]<i> Went to the doctor. The doctor said she was two months pregnant.</i> -Mmm-hmm. -[Judge Lake] Oh, so when you calculated that, that put you back to that time -when you decided you were gonna leave the house. -Right. The time when you thought she was having the threesomes. -Yes, Your Honor. -Okay. You may step back to the podium. So, now, you believe the ex-boyfriend, John, is really Sophia's biological father. -[Nelson]<i> Yes, Your Honor. -Now, Ms. Hardin,</i> when we were going over that testimony, you were not vehemently denying anything. -Correct. -So, you do admit that you were intimate with this couple. Yes, I do. And you admit you were intimate with them -when Mr. Nelson left the house? -No. So, you weren't intimate with them then? -[Hardin] Not at all. -John will comment on her Facebook, "When am I gonna see my baby?" This and that. It got personal when he actually texted her number saying, "What are we gonna do about our baby? You know that's my baby." So, then, -he called her. -So, you say the ex was not only sleeping with her when you were gone, -he's now claiming the baby. -Yes. The Facebook post that he's speaking on, he didn't necessarily claim Sophia. He made a statement, which, he was like, "How my baby doing?" And I don't necessarily think he was-- That's saying that that's his baby. I mean, we're from Louisiana. That's how you talk. "Hey, lil' baby. Hey, baby. What's up, baby?" That's how you talk. John called my phone, so I put it on speaker and John was like, "So what are we gonna do about our baby, bro?" And I was like, "Huh, what baby? My baby does not belong to you." He was like, "Come on, now, Pinky. We both know what happened when Delonte left." -And I was like, "Nothing happened." -[Judge Lake] What? So, the bottom line is, your ex got on the phone... -And claimed my daughter. -...and claimed your daughter. -[Hardin]<i> Yes, ma'am.</i> -[Judge Lake]<i> Well, I wanna see if he's gonna claim</i> your daughter in this courtroom. Jerome, please escort Ms. Hardin's ex into the courtroom. -I wanna hear from him. -[audience cheering and applauding] I'll have you come up to the witness stand. -Hello, sir. Please, have a seat. -Hello. -State your name for the court. -John Patterson. Do you think you are Sophia's father? That's what I wanna know. -It's impossible. -[Nelson] Yeah, now you don't. -[Judge Lake] So, why are they testifying... -[Hardin] Why deny it now? ...that you were on the phone saying, "What are we gonna do about our baby? You know that's my baby." I never said that. They're both delusional. You never claimed this child? No. Actually, I got text messages and screenshots with Pinky texting me, asking me to take a DNA test for the baby because she thinks that the baby's mine. No, you... I text you, -after the fact-- -You have that in your hand? -Yes, ma'am. -That's what... Let me see that. So, this is a text message exchange between you and Ms. Hardin. [audience exclaiming] "So, can you do a DNA test for me, please? <i> We talked before</i> and you said you think<i> she's yours.</i> <i> I just wanna know. I mean, the timeline adds up."</i> No, that's not true. When she conceived or whatever, I was in Louisiana. No, you weren't. You were there, but I didn't have sex with you. -Like, I left... -You were staying in my house. [Judge Lake] But wait a minute. If Mr. Nelson's the father, why do you need a DNA test with Mr. Patterson if you said you didn't sleep with him? I was trying to prove to him that he wasn't the father. His family members kept coming and was like... No, that's not what the text message said. No, no. [Hardin] I asked him a question. You were sleeping with me behind Rachel's back, -at one point in time. Stop it. -I've been going through this -for a very long time. -[Judge Lake] What did you say? He was sleeping with me, at one point in time, behind Rachel's back. Since you want to be up here and bat for everything, -tell the truth. -This is while you were with Delonte. -[Judge Lake] Hold on, now! -[Hardin] No, it was not. Me and Delonte were friends. We had just started talking. -Y'all met through us. -The last time-- Whoa, whoa, whoa. No, no, no... -[all arguing indistinctly] -[Judge Lake] Wait a minute! Hold on. Hold on. This is getting interesting. I would like to hear from Rachel. -That would be Mr. Patterson's wife. -[audience] Ooh! Please step up, ma'am. -[Davis] Hi. -Hello. I'm Rachel. Okay, so, I went... The back-and-forth calls with Pinky. Pinky's called me a week and a half ago, telling me that John was obsessed with the fact of thinking that her kid is his. -I guess trying to make me jealous. -[Hardin] Nope. [Davis]<i> 'Cause me and John got in an argument one time,</i> and he was being petty and was like, "Ha, ha the baby is mine." He told me that. But we were arguing. We were arguing about it. -He was being petty. -Yes, I did say that, Your Honor... But this was after she kept calling me, telling me... -lies after lies. -I have two screenshots though of him telling me-- You would tell me one thing and tell Delonte something different every time. [Hardin] He knew. He has the password to my phone. All right. Ms. Davis, thank you for your testimony. It was very enlightening. Now, you say your husband, Mr. Patterson, said he's the father. Mr. Patterson, you say Mr. Nelson is the father. Mr. Nelson, you say Mr. Patterson's the father. Ms. Hardin, you've told Mr. Nelson he's the father and Mr. Patterson he's the father. No, I did not tell John he was the father of my child. [Judge Lake] That's not true, though, because I've got a series of text messages where you're asking him to have a DNA test because the timeline adds up. Those messages were after this was all brought up. I didn't claim he was my baby's daddy. If you sent a text to Jerome and said, "Jerome, so, can you do a DNA test for me, please?" What would you think at that point? That I slept with her. Okay, well, I know who the baby daddy is, and it's not him. [Judge Lake] Okay, so, here we go. This is a mess! I say this in this courtroom all the time. Sex is not a board game. It's not like<i> Monopoly</i> where it's better if you play with more people. -It's not! -[audience laughing] It really isn't. It just gets messier. And at the end of the day, y'all just all up here, arguing, so, "all of us sexting, and now we gonna have a threesome, and now we're doing this"? No. That's not really how it works. And, listen, if that's what you wanna do, that's your business. But protect yourself. Because how dare you bring an innocent baby into this nightmare? And I know you don't want this for your child, Ms. Hardin, after what you testified to that you've been through. -Do you? -That's the reason I'm here. Jerome, I'm ready for the results. [audience applauding] These results were prepared by DNA Diagnostics and they read as follows. In the case of<i> Hardin v. Nelson...</i> It's not! Pertaining to whether Mr. Patterson or Mr. Nelson is the father of two-month-old Sophia Nelson, it has been determined by this Court, the biological father is... Mr... Nelson. You are the biological father. First off, I just wanna say I apologize to you for accusing you. But you gotta see it from my point of view, my shoes. I just wanted to know the truth, 'cause if I'm gonna be here, -and we gonna do this... -Can you get a relationship with her now? -Can you help me with her? Provide for her? -Of course. -Of course. -Watch her while I get a shower? Of course. You already know how I get down. Of course. I don't play that. But he know what he was doing to cause all this. To stir all this up, my doubts. Can't make a mess, then be mad it's messy. That just don't make no sense. I was... I just wanna say, I was brought into this mess. -[Judge Lake] Hold on. -I didn't start nothing. I don't do drama. [Judge Lake] This is the lesson we have to learn here. If we don't get better, then Sophia grows up and 20 years from now she's standing up here talking about, "Well, my daddy did this and my mother did this and I was looking for love in all the wrong places. And now I don't know who my child's father is." You know it. I know you know it, Ms. Hardin. And I know that's why it pains you so much. But you had the courage to come in here today and talk about the ugly truth so that we could get to the real truth. Which is, you and Mr. Nelson are the parents. You gotta grow up, now, for this baby. You have to ask questions, and there's no shame in just saying, "I need help." And we gonna get you some. I wish you all the very best of luck. Court is adjourned.
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Published: Thu Oct 24 2019
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