Man Believed To Be Dead Comes To Court (Full Episode) | Paternity Court

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Please be seated. Hello, Your Honor. Hello. This is the case of<i> Cayce v. Ewing, Edwards and Hawkins.</i> Thank you, Jerome. Your welcome. Good day, everyone. Good day, Your Honor. Ms. Cayce, you say that for more than 25 years your mother has told you that a deceased man, who is listed on your birth certificate, is your biological father. Yes, Your Honor. Now, another man, Mr. Edwards, is claiming he is your biological father. Yes, Your Honor. Ms. Ewing, you say, you are sure Mr. Edwards is not your daughter's father. In fact, you say you are 100% certain that a man named Otis Hawkins, who you claim was shot and killed, is in fact, your daughter's biological father. Yes, Your Honor. And, Mr. Edwards, you claim that you and Ms. Ewing were still in a sexual relationship at the time her daughter was conceived and hope to prove that you are indeed Ms. Cayce's biological father. Yes, Your Honor. So, Ms. Cayce, please tell the court. What has it been like to spend your life without a father? Actually, it's been hell, um, not knowing where I came from. I built a bond with Otis Hawkins, who's on my birth certificate, <i> even though he's not ever been in my life.</i> <i> I do not know what the man looks like.</i> I don't have a picture of him. I don't have anything about him, but he is on my birth certificate. My oldest daughter, I gave... I passed Hawkins on to her. So, I pretty much raised my kids the way that I have never been raised. I made sure that the mother and the father is in the home. And they know exactly who their father is, whether he wants to be there or not. Ms. Ewing, when you hear your daughter talk about how much it hurt to grow up... Mmm-hmm. ...without her father, how do you feel? It hurts me to find out that's how she feels. If I would've knew that that's what she needed, I would have did my best to help her. But I did not know. Ms. Cayce, you seem to kind of roll your eyes, like you don't believe your mother. It's not that I don't believe her, she has nine children. My other siblings had their father in their life. Me, it was like a dark hole, I was walking down a... A dark hallway that it was never gonna have no bright light to it, and it was kind of rough. It was real hard on me. Ms. Ewing, what have you told Ms. Cayce about Mr. Hawkins and your relationship? Um, I called his cousin to see did she want to spend time with Laconda and um, she informed me then that he had been shot in the head... (AUDIENCE GASPS) ...by his brother and he was deceased. Laconda was seven years old when I was told that. I didn't want to tell her until she got older. I didn't know how to tell her. And I'm telling you exactly what I was told. And what was your relationship like? Were you all in a committed relationship... Yes, ma'am. We was until he came back from overseas. You obviously were in a relationship, had a sexual relationship with Mr. Edwards. Yes, Your Honor. And, Ms. Cayce, when did you hear that Mr. Edwards could possibly be your father? Mr. Edwards had inboxed me and we had spoke. I had spoke to his youngest child. And, he was like, "You sound like me." I'd seen a picture of you and my dad in St. Louis with my sister, which is his daughter. Um, she was like, "You kind of look like me." Our face was just similar to each other, like she certain that I was her sister. So, to be clear, Mr. Edwards is your older sister's father. Yes, ma'am. (AUDIENCE GASPS) Okay. Mr. Edwards, you weren't in your daughter's life or Ms. Cayce's life, am I correct? Correct, Your Honor. So, you reached out to her on social media? I was looking. You were looking. I was looking for them. And, you know... I... I'm sorry. I am so sorry. I felt like this. We lost one. We lost one boy. We ain't losing this one. I'm not losing you. (AUDIENCE APPLAUDS) I'm not losing you. Why are you so convinced that you're her father? I don't even understand how I can tell. It's like the hair stands up on my back. She looks so much like my family. She's got everything that my mom had. You know, what my mom looked like. I got six other daughters. (AUDIENCE GASPS) And my youngest daughter... I mean, if you would look at her and look at her, you would... JUDGE LAKE: <i> They look very similar, you're saying?</i> <i> Yes. Yes, ma'am, they look.</i> And so, at some point you hear from Mr. Edwards. Yes, Your Honor. You go meet him, what's going through your mind? I did not have a bond with him. Me and my oldest sister had a conversation about my mother, and she was like, "Well, what if he is your father? "Since your mother lied to us for so many years about different things, "what if Mr. Edwards, becomes your father?" And I said, I don't believe so, because the bond that I had felt with him, it wasn't there. It wasn't no daughter and father bond that I'd felt. It was a blank feeling. So, Ms. Cayce, let me ask you something. All these years, you've had Otis Hawkins on your birth certificate. Yes, Your Honor. Eventually, I had, when I got over the age of 18, me and my husband sat down and we did a research. I got on a social network and I found Otis Hawkins and he was in Natchez, Mississippi. They did not expose whether he was alive or deceased, but they had gave me two addresses and three phone numbers. At that present time, I contacted the three numbers that I had for him. They was all disconnected. So, at that point, me being frustrated, holding everything in from being a child, I just blew up and let it go. If you had the opportunity to speak to him, what would you have said? It would be like a dream come true. Like, would anybody would love to meet Jesus? I would love to meet him. It would be amazing. I would just ask him a lot of questions, like, "What happened? Why did you leave? "Is it something that she said to you or did to you "that make you leave me "and not want to be in my life?" He didn't leave because of you, Laconda, he left because of me. Not you. You had nothing to do with it. (AUDIENCE APPLAUDS) Well, I took a lot of blame for that. Well... You need to stop feeling like that. He left me. I left him. And it had nothing to do... JUDGE LAKE: You were an innocent child. You was a child. You had nothing to do with it. Ms. Cayce, all this time, you've really been torn. Yes, ma'am. I don't believe any child in this world should grow up without a parent. Whether it's the mother or the father. I don't believe any child should have to go through that. And then, just... Not knowing where you came from... That gentleman is... Mr. Hawkins and Mr. Edwards are African American. She is Caucasian. Everyone said I look Puerto Rican, which is Mexican or something. How is that possible if both of them is African American? So, it's kind of confusing to me growing up not knowing where I'm from. Who I came from but her. Well, Ms. Cayce... Yes, ma'am? You've been told for over 25 years that Otis Hawkins, the man you believe to be your father, was dead. Yes, ma'am. But he's alive. (GASPS) Oh! (AUDIENCE GASPS) And we found him for you. Ms. Cayce? Yes, ma'am? You've been told for over 25 years that Otis Hawkins, the man you believe to be your father, was dead. Yes, ma'am. But he's alive. (GASPS) Oh! (AUDIENCE GASPS) And we found him for you. Jerome, please escort Mr. Hawkins... GINGER: Oh, my God! ...into the courtroom. He's here, Laconda. JUDGE LAKE: You need to sit down? You okay? JEROME: If you'll go up to the witness stand. GINGER: Oh, my God! Laconda, that's your dad! There's your dad! Don't worry. Oh, my God! That is me. Let me see. Oh, I got this picture and my sister lost it. That's you! I have this picture. GINGER: Look at you, baby! This is the picture I had. <i> My teddy bear. My bear. I loved that bunny.</i> <i> And Mr. Snuggles was his name.</i> I used to always take that bunny with me everywhere I'd go. And, Mr. Hawkins, thank you, sir, for joining us today. LACONDA: Oh, my God! You're welcome. I look at this picture every night. I never stopped loving Laconda. GINGER: Oh, my God, Laconda. I look at this picture every night. At home, this picture been in this frame, right here for the past 26 years, 27 years. It's been in this frame, hanging up over my bed. GINGER: You look just like him, Laconda. I love you. I never stopped thinking about you. GINGER: <i> You see that? You look just like him.</i> OTIS: <i> Yeah.</i> I never got to see you, ever in my life. I never got to lay a eye on you or even speak to you. You'd have forgot me. Here's a picture, Your Honor. I took her to Mississippi for Christmas. (LACONDA LAUGHS) I see you. JUDGE LAKE:<i> With all your family.</i> OTIS: <i> Mmm-hmm.</i> So you've been keeping Laconda's picture... All these years... You remember the relationship with her mother? Yes. Tell me about that relationship. It was pretty good at first and... It just, after some years, it just went bad. When... I was overseas, when Laconda was born and when I got back she was like about maybe two or three months, and that was the only Christmas that I didn't go back to Mississippi to see my parents. I stayed in California, 'cause she was just born. You obviously loved this little girl. You carrying this picture in the frame for all these years. What happened? How did you lose contact with your baby girl? After couple of years, I moved back to Mississippi. And, uh, the last time I saw her when Ginger brought her over to the house. I didn't see her no more after that. But, this was your daughter. I mean, there were phones. There was the mail... I don't know. She said she tried to find me on cell phones. Everybody got away from house phones. The number they had was house phones. Did you ever doubt Laconda was yours? No. No, ma'am. She mine. She mine. GINGER: I don't either, Laconda. They just asked me last weekend, when I buried my mother, in her obituary, 25 grandchildren. You one of them 25 grandchildren. Oh, my... Did you ever hear that people were looking for you? They were told you were shot and killed. How did that incorrect information get out? I don't know... I don't know but I know one thing for certain. Ain't nobody in my family put that out. Did you make up the story about hearing that he had been shot and killed? No. No. I did not make up that story. RICHARD: Oh, man. That's what I was told before I left San Diego to move back to Long Beach. That's what I was told. (AUDIENCE GASPS) Okay. So I think it's time to get the results. And you have another man that believes in his heart that you could be his. Both men have been tested. If anyone needs to have a seat, please feel free. We know this can be very emotional. In the case of <i> Cayce v. Ewing, Edwards, Hawkins,</i> pertaining to whether Mr. Edwards is the father of Ms. Cayce, Mr. Edwards... I didn't see her no more after that. In the case of <i> Cayce v. Ewing, Edwards, Hawkins,</i> pertaining to whether Mr. Edwards is the father of Ms. Cayce, Mr. Edwards, you are not her father. (EXHALES) In the case of <i> Cayce v. Ewing,</i> <i> Edwards, Hawkins,</i> pertaining to whether Mr. Hawkins is the father of Ms. Cayce, Mr. Hawkins, you are not her father. Oh! (SOBBING) Laconda, in my heart, you're still my child. GINGER: I know who your dad is. (AUDIENCE APPLAUDS) JUDGE LAKE: Ms. Ewing? Do you know who her father is? Yeah, I do. And it's... His brother. (AUDIENCE GASPS) LACONDA: What the... Mr. Hawkins' brother? RICHARD: Whoa! I didn't see that coming. So, you were sleeping with him and his brother at the same time? He was gone. No. Not at the same time. He was gone. He was out... Out to sea. And I had slept with his brother twice. And I told his brother I couldn't do this no more. And I was with him. When Laconda was... Was born, my brother wasn't even living in California. No. My brother was not out there. Yes, he was. My brother came out to California after I was out of the Navy. I can understand how you might in denial and disbelief as well. Is your brother still alive? Yes, he's still alive. Okay. I was also told that Ginger was foolin' around with the man that ran the store, which is, Arabic. GINGER: Okay. Ms. Ewing, it's time to lay it on the line. I don't know if what they're saying is true... Mmm-Hmm. I don't know. But I will keep it real in this way. If you sleep with a man's family member, the man at the store ain't too far-fetched. Mmm-hmm. We... (CROWD APPLAUDING) We at the point now where it can be no shame in our game. GINGER: There is not. We just have to tell it like it is. Mmm-hmm. This woman has grown up her whole life thinking it was her fault... Her father was shot and killed. Off of a seven-layer lie. That's not acceptable. It's not. And you're her mother and you can help her right this wrong. I will be in touch with you. I want you to do your thinking. Mmm-hmm. Do your research and see if you can get the other man or men to cooperate. Until that time, court is adjourned.
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Channel: Paternity Court
Views: 3,989,826
Rating: 4.8313732 out of 5
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Length: 17min 36sec (1056 seconds)
Published: Tue Apr 16 2019
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