Khutbah by Nouman Ali Khan: Mocking Others and Arrogance

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rasool ullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam would put in the first row people that have any kind of handicap and you usually think of people that have a handicap you put them in some other side space or some other place some special accommodation this person is sitting next to those who allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in any case the story is actually somewhat interesting he was late one time he was late to come to the the hot spot that the messenger was giving ala he thought was sedan so he kept pushing people to come to the front and when he's coming to the front he sees this one Sahabi who doesn't know is basically a no-name companion not famous guy so he tells him move rudely now this the person who has the handicap is now being rude he's saying move and so the Sahabi refuses to move and he says to him why don't you move who are you who do you think you are when and if no one so he said polish me fool and this is my name and it's interesting that when he mentioned his name you know you'd mention your name in arabic you mentioned who you're the son of that's how you're identified so he mentioned enough food on a beautiful and I'm the sole and sole son he goes oh that one even fool Anna Oh your mom is this woman right now these people their parents are not Muslim right because they just became Muslim so their parents are not Muslims and if they're non-muslims they have history they have different kinds of lives so this is this guy's mother this sahabis mother she used to have a reputation in the in some shady circles and the guy the one who was moving him remembered that that she's married to that man so he mentioned her father his father he said oh I know your father but I also know your mother and he said it like that and this is an idea the idea was to humiliate him to embarrass him to remind him of what his mother used to be like and this is happening in the front row as the result slides I was sitting there solo so sytem stops the football and he points to that man and he says mother I look around you what do you see he asks the Sahabi who insulted the other side what do you see and he says allah i told us wad well appeal what ACMA I see black I see white I you read in other words I see all these different people of different ethnicities different colors different races I see all of them and then Russell sighs lamb says of Beaulieu Coomer and ilahe at on the best of you with Allah are the people that have the most aqua in other words of society Selim crushed this idea of being able to make fun of someone I'm not saying anything bro I'm just saying that's your mom right you're just going to do that much but also I saw them stop them in its tracks put it to an end there's ways to insult people sometimes you can insult someone very directly you can curse them out sometimes it's indirect sometimes you don't even have to use words to insult someone and as a matter of fact the most common way of demeaning someone putting someone down is not even to use words to make a face you can make a certain you could look at people a certain way and they can know that you're not welcome or they think of you as inferior you know so now our Deen of course it tells us what to say and what not to say but that's not enough that's just not enough because sometimes people can actually use good words and still insult you there's a way to call someone brother and then we say move brother brother you could say the word brother in a kind way and you could say the same word brother in a demeaning condescending way just because you're using the right word doesn't mean you have the right attitude you guys know those of you that are parents know that all too well when your children say Salam to you there's different ways of things about there's a way that shows respect and this parmesan uh-huh you what did you say is it why it goes around you did say it but that's not how you say Salaam you after Jamal is done you're trying to get to your shoes you're just trying to push people out the way so you can get to your shoes because you know you have an emergency meeting people's lives are depending on you so your shoes are very important so you're pushing people around and this brother that you push kindly says to you sell mrdiko so right goes on and you now you said something nice may peace be upon you but there's no peace on your face there's no peace in the elbow you just through Adam but you're saying something that you don't mean at all now in light of that these are a few incidents that are mentioned and have seed under the that I shared with you yeah you had latina a module is hot c'mon man call those of you who have Eman don't let any group any group among you make fun of any other group among you not any group can make fun of any other group now let's backtrack a little bit before we go further need to take a few steps back this is sort of who Jerrod and Sultan Kudarat begins with showing the utmost respect to rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam latter far osmotic own focus alton nebby well attach Haruna who built a jetty body calmly Bob and tackle Appa are Maluku what I'm - Natasha moon don't you raise your voice above the voice of the prophet salallahu alaihe salam don't you call him like you call just anybody else all your good deeds might be taken away just because you raised your voice and you call them inappropriately we are being taught the etiquette of dealing with the messenger of allah salallahu alayhi wa sallam well mo i'm nephew colossal Allah you had better know in your company the Sahaba are being told the Companions are being told in your company there's The Messenger of Allah watch it it's not just anybody sitting with you this is the Messenger of Allah sitting with you so Allah Hardeep said on you have to show respect so first we are taught respect for the rasul lost a lot love where i set up then as the the surah continues one of the things we're told is in the same aisle and nephew cobra Salalah he says the same ayah well a kendama haha Baba alaikum will Iman was a Janna who vehicle you become Allah made Iman beautiful in your hearts Allah Allah made Iman beloved to you and he beautified it in your hearts and what does that mean that means the love we have for a sort of lhasa Allah who are they Selim is something beautiful we carry inside our hearts but when you have something beautiful inside your heart then it goes out and out will be my feet under a container gives out what it contains so what happens when somebody has the love of Rasulullah sallallahu adding Salam in their hearts one of the things that happens then is anybody else who has in their heart muhammadur rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam my heart becomes soft towards them too and the only reason for that is I love the messenger so much Annika salatu wassalam that anybody else who has love for Allah messenger I have love for them that's actually becomes it becomes an indication of my love for rasool ullah sallallahu I leave Salem so when a Muslim doesn't think twice about making fun of another Muslim then there is something missing in his love for Allah's messenger Ali salatu wassalam after all the messenger Allen sought wa salaam would love all of them the same you know to help you understand this easier to give you a different example there are people who have lost a parent and when you lose a parent it's a very traumatic thing and you want him you miss your dad you want to remember you want to honor his memory you know what you do you go visit some of his friends and visiting his friends and showing them respect is the closest thing you have now to the memory of your father my dad used to love these people so I love them being around these people reminds me of the one I love that I no longer see that is actually the relationship you and I have with each other we are actually remember reminiscing remembering the messenger of allah salallahu Marduk's allah who is no longer in our midst it's no longer among us all we have is the memory of him that is carried into each of our hearts that's what it is so from that point of view liars are calm women comb no one group should be making fun of another group let's understand so shreya a little bit so clear in arabic actually means to make fun but it stays that also means to make fun does hate in arabic is to put something down or put someone down when you think of someone as less than you dumber than you an inferior race than yourself a poorer class than yourself not as worthy as you not as qualified as you not as good as you not as smart as you not as healthy as you not as strong as you when you think of someone is less in any way and then you say something about them whether you're making fun of them or not but your comments are inspired by the idea that these people are less than me even your comments that is to say that is Satya that is Satya when Allah Azza WA JAL gave us this beautiful Deen then he put the red the black the white the skin color didn't matter anymore and the rasul of allah salallahu alaihe salam would tell us just like allah will say in this surah in the Quran behind Allah at cocoon the most noble among you are the ones that have the most aqua aqua of Allah consciousness of Allah is inside the heart I cannot see it so what makes you better than me or what makes me better than you is invisible which means we will never know we're never going to know that all we can know is we're equal we stand equal somebody has somebody looks very pious somebody doesn't look very pious we have no idea what's going on inside their heart the guy that looks really religious may be really corrupt inside I don't know and the guy or he may be really great I don't know I have to give benefit of the doubt in a coma coma and allahi a taco Allah took the appearance of the Muslim away from this conversation we have to treat people equally we actually can't even treat people based on their knowledge somebody is a scholar so you think of them as better and somebody's not a scholar you think of them as less no not in Islam not in Islam somebody is a scholar you can respect their knowledge not sure but they deserve as much respect as anybody or any other Muslim because what they share that really brings them honor is the top of Allah and the top of Allah a farmer can have it who knows nothing about Islam who knows very holy law viola heinonline that's enough for him and it could be our animals been studying 50 years here stuff of Allah he understands it what you have inside your heart is what makes you superior to allah azzawajal so now no group should be putting another group down and then Allah goes further to say well that is how I'm in this hot no women should be putting other women down with jokes the women should be passing comments about other women Allah separated the two even though when you say no group should make fun of any other group it covers everyone men and women but he separated it on purpose now I separate it because apparently the way women make fun of each other is very different from the way when make fun of each other and each of them can each other actually very easily justify that they're not doing anything bad I can give you lots of examples from my home because I have four daughters and they make fun of each other in ways that are very creative I would eyes a guy would never think of it oh you're wearing pink today I thought she says hearing pink today and the other one is offended mama she's making fun of me I didn't say anything I just said she's wearing pink yeah but the way you said it and the way you looked at her and your animations and at the end all of that is part of Sophia oh you think that matches oh okay well guys don't do that no I don't think it matches and that's why I'm wearing it you know that's for guys it's different for girls is different so let's separate it Allah made it a separate issue and everybody you know people use language that when you come after them so I don't know I didn't say anything what are you talking about I was just commenting on the color I was just commenting hey did you get that at Walmart I was just curious I wasn't making fun of the fact that you're cheap or you buy to you I was just saying I'm curious where did you buy the product from you want to justify it to anybody else you could you can't justify to Allah you can't until a level of it now you're gonna be you're gonna justify this to Allah this is why at the end of this surah he says that Wadley moon Allah Habibi Newcomb you're gonna teach a lawyer Dean you know better you're gonna run your mouth like that and then try to get away with it so how Allah you know I'm going to give you some examples that are closer to home because this is a problem that should have been solved 1400 years ago when these ayat came down we should have been the example the OMA the Muslims should have been the example to the world of what it means to treat all human beings equally yeah you had NASA now hadouken acqua means a car in Monza we're right now talking about Muslims not making fun of other Muslims but the final conclusion of this surah is all human beings were made for them from a male and a female and the only reason you're different is so you can get to know one each other better and appreciate your diversity that's all that's the only reason but now just give you an example closer to home I come from Pakistan that's my home country and there in many parts of the Muslim world you can go to a fancy restaurant ironically a fancy restaurant in Lahore as McDonald's but anyway so you go to a fancy restaurant and you're going sitting there you've got you dressed up super nice to each or you know whatever sandwich and you sitting there and then some family some some taxi drivers family or some security guards family some jockey daughter's family comes into the restaurant and this hit right next to you now you're dressed all nicely and your family's just allies and you've got your SUV outside and all the stuff and these guys came on bicycles they were in dirty shell are commuters and they're sitting next to you speaking out they're really excited to be in this restaurant for the first time their dad saved up for a few months so you can take them on a treat and the family that's sitting there the posh family that sitting is getting uncomfortable and they're looking at them like why are they here what kind of people do they let in this place even if they don't say a word their face the Solia your face this is the religion of muhammad salallahu alaihe salam where everybody is treated equally you can't even look at another Muslim equally what are you talking about non-muslims you can't even look at another Muslim and this is a fundamental teaching of our Deen fundamental all human beings are equal they're all children of Adam Adam something's wrong in your in your not only your thinking your belief if you can think of someone is inferior there's something seriously wrong with your Iman not to mention the lack of love you may have for a sudden loss of a loved one you said of liya Sacco woman-owned well Ana Salomon is ha ha ha yo Kuno Hyrum enemy added it may be the people you're making fun of are better than you well Annie Salman is huh don't let women make fun of other women they may be better than them better than them how the girl says when you mean better look at her clothes look at the neighborhood she lives look at the car this guy drives he's better than me none of that makes you better than anyone the only thing that makes you better is what's inside what's invisible and that's only visible to Allah so you may be making fun of a friend of Allah and when someone makes fun of a friend of Allah they become enemies to Allah so be careful just be careful you know I not too long ago I met a brother and came up to me he wanted to take Shahada you know he's into the Midwest summer in Ohio and he told me that he's been a you know white guy he's been a Bart for his whole life and I don't know how he found one of my videos or something on YouTube and he starts watching a bunch of them and he went through the entire design I might have series that I have done podcast which is complicated but he went through the whole thing sitting in the bar just plugging in the ear and he's pouring drinks for his friends six months took Shahada on his own no Muslim around him actually he did tell me he has some Muslim friends regulars at the bar you know he asked them a few questions about Islam so he takes Shahada and he says you know I'm ready to leave this life I haven't had a drink a bartender hasn't had a drink for six months as an Ender drink when you look at him you're not going to know this guy has taqwa but I can guarantee you that man has more tough way than most of us the situation he's in and the way he holds himself back and then you finally quit no savings don't off and he quit I can't do it anymore I can't go back even though Sahaba radiyaallahu ta'ala anhu ajma'in were not given the the i ought to quit alcohol right away they were told the harm and the sin is greater than the benefit then they were told at least don't be drunk when you're about to pray then years later they were told leave it all together Allah did not reveal one time leave alcohol and this man left alcohol on his own once he heard about us out Subhan Allah that's that one but when you look at others you wouldn't know you hadn't you'd have no idea don't put people down don't think of them as less than you they may be way better than you are AHA and yakumo kurama tengu naraku Nehalem in Hoonah then he goes on and he says well I tell me so and for second please pay attention to this part folks the ayah is almost done well I tell me to enforce I was all one ayah which means it's one teaching there's one piece of wisdom from Allah he says that tell me to enforce Akuma and illumise in Arabic or lumps they say is actually blind the way you look at someone or you wink at someone or you raise your eyebrows and go no words no words just facial expressions did you know in the Quran some of the people that Allah punishes the worst their crimes are described as their facial expressions from another abba-zaba vasa so my ad the bar was stocked bar he just stared the way you could stare at someone to make them feel stupid somebody's trying to tell you something you're like you know what they're saying what you want them to make the field um so you just or you're avoiding eye contact like you're not even listening somebody has said I'm to you and your look when you do that that's Loomis when you make someone feel down when you put someone down just with your facial expressions not a word not a word came out of your mouth analyst has Latin Mizzou and full circle it's so remarkable he doesn't say Latin Latin visual al-karim don't put down others he said don't put down yourselves yourselves when you do that kind of insult you are actually insulting your own self you will read so much better than that they're insulting yourself and you're inviting others to do that to you when you treat someone in that way then you are asking for yourself to be treated that way this is why in the Quran sandy moraga and facecum for sending Malala and fascicle when you go to somebody's house say Salaam to yourselves what does that mean say Salaam to yourselves I thought you say Salaam to someone else but when you say Salaam to someone else you know the reaction is going to be what they are going to be saying Salam to you it's going to be reversed immediately so he says it's the same as saying Salam to yourself because the reaction is necessary it's going to happen and just like that when you put down someone look down at someone make facial expressions at someone you're condescending towards someone it will come back to you what I tell me is one full circle well at and Ava's a villain Club and he goes on and he says and don't call each other with nicknames don't throw nicknames at each other hey fatty how's it going yo wide face or whatever you come up with no no he doesn't mind bro he's we're dogs we're good you don't mind at all we're good right and the guy will say yeah sure we're good but he's not good a bunch of girls are hanging out together he you're so short so cute well she didn't appreciate that you called her short even if you added it so cute at the end and even though she may not say anything now and your friend may not say anything now there is a day when they're going to be desperate for good deeds on judgement day and if you have crimes against them they can take your good deeds they can take them they may not collect now they'll collect on Judgment Day watch it this is this is especially among friends don't call each other nicknames don't call the nicknames even nicknames that are not mean if they don't like a nickname don't do it you know I had a this I travel a lot and I went to this one place where a person doesn't have a lot of respect for I guess personal space the guy doesn't know me at all actually doesn't know me at all hey know me how are you I was like excuse me oh no me it's okay I can call you know me right I was annoying you actually you can't my mother calls me no man so I'd prefer you coming online if anybody could call me anything they want I'll be my mom and dad and you can't I didn't say no it's okay bro I don't like it and if I don't like it I better tell them now because I'd rather not tell them on judgement day fix it now if somebody's doing that to you fix it now if you're doing it to someone fix it now well that enables will be that pop and here's the conclusion base a dismal fukube our daddy man how terrible how terrible is Alice willful sue a corrupt word the corrupt word badly man after you have Iman what is it this one for soup mean a single word that can be offensive to someone is a horrible thing for anyone who has Iman in other words filthy language out of your mouth and faith inside your heart cannot coexist you cannot have Iman in your heart which has been beautified zeljana who feel cool new become and ugly words come out of your mouth if you have no control over you know whatever four-letter words you keep using every time you get frustrate there's a spiritual problem it's not just a habit problem it is a spiritual problem the other side of that equation from the same ayah is actually how can you use a terrible word for anyone who has Iman anybody who has Iman you cannot use terrible words for them anymore you can't use bad words for them anymore corrupt words are no longer allowed for another Muslim it's just not allowed they said this one for supermodel iman one man Lamia taupe felt like a home employee one and people who don't want to give it up people who don't want to repent and those are the wrongdoers I wanted to highlight and dedicate this entire whole but to this one I offer a simple reason in our minds there are some things that are really important in Islam prayer is important in Islam you know charity is important in Islam we have an idea of what is really really a big deal in Islam but you know what what I'd like to share with you the things that Allah makes into a big deal until the end of Quran are a big deal in Islam this is a big deal there's a lot of time and I ah dedicated to this subject which means it's not a small matter to Allah it is not a small matter to Allah and the way that it's been the continuum this is the you know where it's placed is so remarkable in the beginning of this you know was the love of the messenger sallallaahu I said oh then Allah talked about the most terrible thing what if what if it happens that Muslims are fighting and killing each other how should you make peace between them that was the second subject of the surah and the third subject of the surah is don't make fun of each other why is that the third subject because when you make fun of each other hatred will grow among you and if it gets out of hand eventually you'll be killing each other it's already happening why do people kill each other why do Muslims kill each other it starts with them thinking of the other race the other ethnicity the other village the other tribe as inferior as corrupt as ignorant as something else and eventually you can have policies that are that are driven by that kind of bias and that's those policies when they get enough out of hand it can really lead to entire conflict between Muslims that all began with them making fun of each other so Allah identifies the root of the problem lie Asarco move in calm at the end of the surah allah says something that puts you and me in our in our place in allaha yeah level a bersama Watty one-upped allahu wa sallam the muhammadun no doubt about it Allah the unseen secrets of the sky and the earth and Allah has full view of the things that you do he has a full picture of what you do why you say what you say what you say and how you say it he has the full picture so may Allah as though it had make us merciful in our speech and our attitudes and our gestures towards each other may Allah give us the courage and the Iman to seek forgiveness from the people that we've offended may Allah make us a people that have a soft corner for one another only and only driven by the Iman we have of Allah and the love we have for the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam marek allahu ta âlâ come fill Colonel Hakim when a funny way accumbens IIT was a cracking alhamdulillah he vacasa salat wa salam o allah a body he ladino stafa ho susana of body he Muhammad ibn Muhammad al-amin wa ala alihi wa sahbihi ajma'in yaqula lahu Azza WA JAL Fikret ABI Hakim bata and a Buddha Arvilla human eternal regime in a la Habana EK Tahu saloon Elena be Yaya Han latina amanu sallu alayhi wasallam you Taslima allahumma salli ala muhammadin wa ala muhammad 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Published: Thu Feb 05 2015

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