I'm An Incel. Ask Me Anything.

if you could summarize your opinion towards women like what I think of them yes I do think they are very important but some topics are hard to approach more and more male hatred against women is rising up you might call this a new phenomenon either the subjects aren't accessible or people are uncomfortable discussing them so we found the subjects in person rented a space in Hollywood and invited our audience and any strangers walking by to come inside and ask them anything okay hey I'm brandy I also go by Derek hi I'm Anne insel and I'm here to answer people's questions about the topic hi how are you hi I'm good so you're an info yes why would you ever sign up to do this I I suppose I would want to give more of a positive light on this community which is a very negative light upon it okay do you think that's a good thing yes why's that because there's a lot of boys in this community aren't bad people but you acknowledge that a good handful of them are right not a good handful I would say a small handful who hurt you or what happened what a vent sort of catalyzed this way of thinking and you getting into this kind of research Society yeah do you hate women no no no do you have a female role model in your life a female role model mom and her friend I mean I love my mom I wouldn't necessarily consider her a role model but I do love her quite a bit if a woman was elected as president of United States how would you react oh I don't know it probably would depend on the on the woman I I probably probably wouldn't be supportive about honestly but why do you say that if you don't mind me asking I do think that you know men should be the leaders and women should be the caregivers and the poor you know the loving supporting and the teachers so in some cases since women of color or just women in general have been oppressed by certain systems and other oppressed communities especially the lgbtq+ all those those are don't really fit with the spectrum that in cells or you have been talking about so why do you think your method of thought would help fix what we have today I probably wouldn't view the things you might view as oppression as a depression I have a feeling I would view it more as how we treat children that we love we control them but we control them lovingly not as a slave not as we're forcing them to do things against their will I would view it more as a a loving domestic thing in the past and I would say that's if we were to do it in a civilized way maybe in a more even a Christian way even though I'm not really advocating for a certain religion or ideology I would assume that women would probably be happier and I wouldn't just assume that blindly I would assume that based on the data that I have seen what data have you seen that has brought you to this conclusion because I'm now curious where I can get this data from um I couldn't reference it offhand but I believe there was a study that I can't remember the name of it off the top of my head okay what do you think it is about liberal areas that create behavior and women that you think is a problem promiscuity leads to increased standards in more primitive aspects such as looks and that typically makes it harder for some people to find a relationship including sometimes good-looking people I there's guys who are much better looking than I am who are having a really hard time finding someone in a place like LA or in London or in Auckland New Zealand but they probably would have a perfectly fine time finding a woman somewhere else so you think that perm eschewing is the problem and if people were more monogamous and more withholding that would sort of fix society yeah I suppose people were more traditionalists there have been a few mass shootings in the past where these shooters actually stated that they were in sales or or radicalized by online in sales what do you think about their actions I condemn their actions I don't believe in violent believe violence is the solution I don't believe attacking random people is gonna fix anything whether they're you know women or men I do think that the reason why they committed those actions was probably because of out of desperation or out of you know mental problems it probably could have been prevented had the the white support was in their in their community in their household if they have you know if people you know saw what they were posting and saw what they were experiencing in life and did something to help them was there like a pivotal moment in your life like a straw that broke the metaphorical camel's back you know this constant years of rejection no matter who the person was constant years of rejection and other aspects of my life it did kind of push me towards more I suppose radical beliefs but I suppose they're only like radical but they're more of just old beliefs really no it's it sounds like like I had another like metaphor like death by a thousand cuts you know it's not like one pivotal moment it sounds like a bunch of things built up over time yeah one of the common criticisms about the insult community is that you feel entitled to sex or intimacy do you believe that you deserve sex or intimacy from alone um I think everybody at some level deserves someone that they someone that loves them and you know respects them as long as you are also loving and respectful towards that person you know they're an equal you know you're not like seeking someone beyond yourself you know if you don't have like two high standards I suppose you know if you can't tell the world about something about being in so that you know that may not be in the internet or that's overlooked heavily what would it be I don't know I think it's mostly that most of the men are not inherently bad people a lot of them are just lonely they just need some help really okay would you say that there's anything that other people can do to help guide or just support or you know the lonely person in your class or the lonely person in your workplace maybe maybe he's an in selling he's not letting you know and he's just kind of afraid to you want someone positive just just be nice say hi trying to make friends with him you don't have to date him you don't have to whatever just you know brighten up someone lonely's day I suppose notice thank you you don't want to be an insult no why not well I mean it's part of the whole involuntarily thing I mean I you know you want to try and escape it you want to be something better you know you want to get a wife get a girlfriend get someone who loves you spend spending your life with them and be happy and what's one thing you wish people understood better about you I don't know I guess I've people I wish people would recognize how much effort I'm trying I suppose like I you know I'm working out typically daily I've lost over a hundred pounds I'm out there job unthinking actively I don't think people recognize how much effort the in cells in general try to put into bettering themselves I would say you know people don't recognize their effort they just assume that they're all like lazy and sad and angry at women and just giving up and things of that nature I suppose you don't have to see the bad things in the world and then come out a bad person you can just see the bad things in the world and then improve upon yourself because of them I suppose so you do have hope yeah III have hope yeah I'm a very hopeful person I suppose I won't lie this one a lot differently than I thought it would well I thought we'd be yelling at each other you know it was nice to meet you he's nice to meet you too hello thanks for watching the video I hope you liked it be sure to like comment and subscribe comment as well I already said that cut that part out you know we'll keep it thanks for watching

Channel: Jubilee

Views: 5,371,943

Keywords: jubilee, jubilee media, jubilee project, live deeper, blind devotion, love language, middle ground, spectrum, ask me anything, jubilee ask me anything, ask them anything, strangers ask anonymous, feminists, feminism, men's rights

Id: DdHqzr4DyIs

Length: 8min 44sec (524 seconds)

Published: Sun Nov 03 2019

Reddit Comments

[u/LodlopSeputhChakk]

“We’re not oppressing you. We’re just treating you like children.”

[u/rafits]

balls of fury was good, not sure why he turned this way.

[u/MrJQ27]

Not nearly as cringey as anticipated. This feels more like an individual who found he fell into a certain definition of a group than someone who wants to be a part of it or lives by it's credo. He's got some generally sexist outlooks, but not ones that are individual to incels or uncommon in other conservative groups.

He's hopeful and definitely has hope. I think if he continues to improve himself, he'll likely break away from that mold and live a pretty fulfilling life. Good luck to him.

[u/forevz_a_student]

Yeesh, some incels on here

[u/Natdaprat]

I hope he one day looks back at himself and cringes. That's a sign of growth.

[u/[deleted]]

It's frustrating that someone so well-spoken and seemingly 'approachable' could have such sexist views. Like - why do you think you're single, buddy? You have everything going for you, but the way you view women is not acceptable.

[u/Whatistweet]

Something that I find quite interesting is the fact that despite the current state of the incel community online, it was originally started by a woman, and a woman with good intentions. The thing about incels is that it started as a sort of group therapy/support system for people who were involuntarily celibate, and it helped a lot of people.

The main problem with the incel community and why it became so horrible is that it's a self selecting group. The only people who were still incels after a long enough period were the ones who couldn't improve themselves or see their own faults. So now anyone seeking support or sympathy in this support group is greeted by bitter, lonely, flawed people who blame anyone but themselves for everything bad in the world.

That's why I think this kid's situation is especially tragic, because things really could turn out well for him, and he probably has good intentions, but he's going to be more and more misguided by this community that isolates itself while bitterly complaining about being isolated.

[u/[deleted]]

god damn this is a good post, OP. Cringe in the questions, cringe in the format, cringe in the guy, cringe in some of the questioners. This is what I come to this sub for

[u/justxkyle]

What a sad way to life your life.