How to Know if You've Found "The One"
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Channel: Ascension Presents
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Length: 9min 15sec (555 seconds)
Published: Tue Nov 13 2018
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God's providence is real, and he knows our vocation before we do. However, without free will there is no Love. People often dart between the extremes of "there is no such thing as 'the one', marry whoever you like" and "where is my destiny, who is my prince charming, are you the Jim to my Pam?". Really, the Theology of the church has always been a both/and. God's all-knowing providence and our free will. They don't contradict. They can't contradict theologically speaking, or it would be counter to the "essence" of God etc, yada, [theological words here].
Read Tobit. God intends their Marriage before the foundation of the world. So that's definitely a thing. However, it shouldn't discourage people from dating. We should offer every circumstance of our lives to God. Some people's spouses die and they re-marry. Was only one of those people their vocation? Nah. Vocation is a series of moments, a dynamic route of instances that may lead us into the life of God. God intends certain individuals to be a part of that path in specific ways, but we have to accept love and that's one of the ways that our Choice is incorporated. Participation is an expression of our Free Will.
I didn't watch the video just now. I think I have before, idk. I've seen enough videos about this.
TL;DR God's eternal will and our Free Will aren't mutually exclusive, so vocation involves both in tandem. Read for explanation.
I’ll save you minutes your won’t get back.
Wanna know how you found ‘The One’? You’re both standing at that altar.
Anything else is gobbledygook at best and bullshit at worst that only feeds unrealistic or false expectations.
Dating isn’t complicated if you don’t make it.
Thank you so much for recommending that youtube channel!
“The one” is a myth
Yeah, "the one" and "soul mate" and other stuff like that is cringey, feely nonsense.
Romance is important, sure. But if these things were real, people wouldn't remarry after the death of a spouse.