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Subscribe button below and turn on notification. Today we gonna address the question "How do you find your life purpose?" Why are you here? (upbeat music) Welcome to another episode
of Boss in the Bentley. This is Dan Lok. On my way to work, during
meeting, this is what I do. I turn on the camera and
I answer your questions. If you wanna ask any
questions, comment below. One of the most common
questions I get from people from all kinds of age group is, "Dan, how do I find my purpose? How do I find out what am I here for? What's the reason of my very existence?" I think sometimes people
get confused with the whole finding your purpose thing. Where they think, okay,
I'm just gonna wait. I'm gonna visualize and
somethings gonna fall in my lap. Oh, that's what I'm supposed to do. I don't quite agree with that philosophy. I do think we all here for a reason, but it's not so much where you just kinda find that thing and then
everything will works out. I think a lot of people
they kinda procrastinate, they kinda wait, oh yeah,
that's not my purpose. That's not what I wanna do yet and they just procrastinate too much. I think when it comes to, asking what is my life purpose? that's not the real question. The question is. How do I invest and how should I spend my time on something important? That's really the question. How do I spend my time on
something that's important? How do I live my life? That's important. That's actually the question. So, how do you do that? I can give you some guidance and maybe give you some questions. And it's not as complex
as what most people think. First, I think the very question
you should ask yourself is What do you love to do? What do you love to do? That when you do that thing,
when you doing that kinda work that you just forget about time. You for forget about to eat. Time just disappears. What are you so passionate about? When you do it, it doesn't feel like work. It doesn't, you don't even
care if you get paid doing it, you love doing it, that's
your joy that's your passion. What you love to do. That's question number one. Assuming you have that. Now, if you don't you cannot
even answer that question, "Dan, I don't know what I love to do." What it tells me is you
haven't tried enough things. You haven't tried enough
things that you didn't like, that's why you don't know
what do you like to do. So, what do you love to do? Second question is, what are you good at? What's your natural talent? That when you do that thing that you love, somehow, well people will tell you, "well, you're so natural,
you're so good at it. Wow, like I don't even
know how you do that." And to you like it's so
easy, "what do you mean, just do dut dut da da
and you just do this" That's your natural talent. Your strength. So, what's your natural talent? That's the second question. The third question you need to
ask to find your life purpose is who do you like to help? Who do you like to help? When it comes to life purpose, you got to think you know to kinda find it to identify what it is you need to think bigger than yourself. You need to think bigger
than what is around you. You know, think bigger than just survival. You need to think bigger
than just paying the bills. You know, think about not just
internal me, me, me, me, me, you gotta think about
who do I enjoy helping? Who do I enjoy serving? It's very very important. Because only when you're through
giving and through serving and through contributing
you get satisfaction. You get joy. If you just do it for your
own ego, you just do it for your own gain, you just do
it for me, me, me, me, me. Yes, you'll get achievement,
but you won't get fulfillment. And that's the problem. Sometimes people they, they try to win the race for fulfillment, running on a track of achievement. And it doesn't work. They are two very different things. So the third question. Who do you enjoy helping? And the four question, the
number four question is, not just who do you enjoy helping, who do you enjoy hanging around with? Who do you enjoy spending time with? Cause think about that, the people that you spend time with, at the end of the day, I think life, it's made up of experience, it's made up of memories. And at the end of the
day that's all that is. It's not things, it's
not possessions, it's, by the time you lay on your death bed all you remember are just memories. That's it. The people you spend time with. The people you've helped. What's your legacy? That's what legacy is. When you die, who is
going to your funeral? Who is gonna be, who
is gonna remember you? What are they gonna say about you? And for most people, it's very sad. They probably don't have much
good things to say about you. Because your whole life
you actually haven't impacted a lot of people. You haven't helped a lot of people. You just, going through
life paying the bills, doing my thing, going to a job. You know, have a mortgage. So at your funeral maybe you
have two, three, five people. You know, some family
members and that's it. And that's not what life is about. I don't think that's what life is about. So, life is not so much
about finding yourself, it's about creating yourself. I never, I don't even
know even unto this point, is it of my life purpose
is to impact entrepreneurs, impact people to help them see, to become a better version of themselves. That's what I do. To help them become a better
version of themselves. To inspire you, to motivate
you, to give you tools, to become a better man, a
better woman, a better husband, a better wife, a better
father, a better son. That's what I do. That's my mission. That's my purpose. That's why I make these videos. And so, is it something
that just fall in my lap? Oh, you're supposed to make videos. You're supposed to go
out there and do speech. You're supposed to do that. I don't know. But I try enough things I
find that okay, you know what, I love doing this, I
get joy from doing this. And then as I do more of
course, I enjoy doing it, I get better at it, and then people say "oh, you're talented at
this" I don't know if I am, but through enough practice maybe I am. And through that, oh wow, you
know, I'm also helping people. And people are telling
me my video, my message, my story has impacted your life. Wow, okay. And through that maybe I can,
that's become slowly oh wow, I'm good at it, I'm impacting people. I'm helping other people and I enjoy being around entrepreneurs. I enjoy just having
conversations with people who are go-getter's, who are hungry, who are not wanna be's
but gonna be's, who are, who wanna make something outta themselves. Who want to provide better
future for their family. Those conversations I love. I hate to have conversations
with people who are like, doom and gloom, bitching
about the sports game, bitching about their life,
bitching about their work, I don't have time for that. So I know that's what I don't want, to spend my time with those people. So naturally, I gravitate
towards spending time with people who are positive. Spending time with people
who are business oriented. Who are, who have the abundance mindset. That's why. That's how this whole
thing, that's how I form, how I identify, how I
found my life purpose. So don't think it's that too complicated. You can't find your purpose
by just sitting there and thinking "Oh yeah, you know, Dan, what is my life purpose?" How the fuck do I know? Do something. Try something. Try more things. Try that, you know what,
that doesn't work for me. Okay, try something else. That doesn't work for me. Try something else. That doesn't work for me. Try something else. Oh, okay, I like this and people
will recognize me for this. I'm good at this. I'm helping people. I'm impacting people. So, it's very interesting
to find the purpose you gotta think beyond in yourself. You need to think bigger than yourself. More than just you. It has to be about more than you. Because that's how you leave a legacy. When you can do that,
that's a life purpose. It may not be a one line. It may not be a so clear
of my purpose is to blank, but you will know. When you're doing something
you love, when you're doing it with the people you wanna do it with, when you know you're helping people, when you are providing a good life for yourself and your family. When you are good at it. That's life. What more do you want? What more do you want? That's a good life to me. If you can consistently, every day, experience those types of emotions, joy, satisfaction, pride,
not pride, not ego, pride from doing good work, pride from knowing that you
are good at what you do, you take pride in what
you do, that the outcome, the product, and you can, you
know you're making an impact, you know you are serving people
and you know you are secure and you know you are
providing a financial, a solid financial future for your family. What more do you want? That's about it. It doesn't get more. It doesn't get more simpler than that. That's really what life is about. It's not so "woo or foo
foo" it's a purpose. Here's a statement that
what your life is about. And your purpose might change. My purpose changed. From my early 20's, to you
know 30's, to now where I am. It changes too. It's not like you're born and suddenly someone gives you statement. "Hey, you know what? This
baby, that's the purpose. Here's another baby, that's
that baby's purpose." No, life it's about, I'll say it again. Not finding yourself, creating yourself. What do you want to create
and shape and create that. It's like a sculpture. You are sculpture and you
are the only one that know how to shape that and how
you want it to be shaped. So there you go. That's how you find your life purpose. Again, comment below
if you have a question. Maybe you want to go
deeper with a conversation. I mean, I'll make a future
video based on this. I can go a little bit deeper. But share with me what
is your life purpose. Those questions. What are your answers? Comment below. I read every single comment that you post. Every single comment that is
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