DO YOU SIT
IN YOUR WIFE'S SPOT, SIR? DO YOU SIT IN HER SPOT
WHERE SHE USED TO SIT? YES. 'CAUSE SHE JUST TOLD ME TO TELL
YOU TO GET OUT OF HER SPOT. I DON'T KNOW. ♪♪ DO YOU ACTUALLY HEAR YOUR WIFE
CALL YOUR NAME OR CALL YOU? SO I GO -- I GO, "OH,
YOU CALL YOUR HUS--" SHE GOES, "YEAH,
I GOT TO YELL AT HIM ALL TIME, THERESA, 'CAUSE HE DOESN'T PAY
ATTENTION SOMETIMES." THAT'S TRUE. SO DO YOU SOMETIMES FEEL
THAT YOU HEAR HER VOICE OR YOU HEAR HER TELLING YOU
WHAT TO DO? SHE TELLS ME
WHAT TO DO ALL THE TIME. PERFECT.
KNOW THAT YOU'RE NOT CRAZY. -KNOW THAT THAT'S REAL.
-I AM CRAZY. DO YOU MAKE YOURSELF BREAKFAST
EVERY MORNING? -YES.
-AND YOU TALK TO YOUR WIFE? I TALK TO HER
WHEN I GO TO BED. SHE HEARS YOU. -SHE WHAT?
-SHE HEARS YOU. OH, SHE HEA--
I KNOW SHE HEARS ME. -SHE TELLS ME THAT.
-I -- PERFECT. SHE SAYS,
"AND YOU TELL HIM, I AM JUST AS BEAUTIFUL
AS THE PICTURE THAT HE LOOKS AT." YOU STILL LOOK AT
YOUR WEDDING PICTURE? YES, I DO. SHE LOOKS JUST LIKE THAT. SHE TOLD ME
THAT YOU WERE MARRIED 50 YEARS. Mike: I LOST MY WIFE FROM
COMPLICATIONS DUE TO SURGERY. AND I MISS HER SO MUCH. I REALLY DO. SHE SAYS YOU SAY
HOW MUCH YOU MISS HER AND THAT YOU WOULDN'T DO
ANYTHING OVER AGAIN. THAT'S RIGHT.
EXACTLY RIGHT. SHE SAYS,
"I FEEL THE SAME WAY." SHE SAYS, "I WOULD NOT HAVE CHANGED NOT ONE THING
IN OUR LIFE." I REALLY APPRECIATE THAT
VERY MUCH BECAUSE EVERYTHING I DO, RIGHT, I FEEL THAT HER SOUL IS WITH ME. ♪♪ I WANT TO START WITH --
WHO LOST THE MOTHER? OH, YOU LOST YOUR MOM? YES. SO, PLEASE KNOW THAT YOUR MOTHER
IS STEPPING FORWARD. SHE TALKS ABOUT EARRINGS. DO YOU HAVE HER EARRINGS? YEAH. PERFECT. SHE TOLD ME
RIGHT BEFORE SHE DIED THAT I COULD HAVE
HER PEARL EARRINGS. DO YOU SAY, "I WISH I SPENT
MORE TIME AT HOME"? YES. SHE SAYS, "I WANT YOU TO LIVE
YOUR LIFE ON YOUR TERMS." NOW, DID YOU JUST HAVE A DREAM
OF YOUR MOM? YES, I DID. AND YOUR MOM LOOKED BEAUTIFUL,
RIGHT? AND SHE LOOKED PERFECT
AND SHE WASN'T SICK. YES. AND YOU WERE JUST LIKE,
"MOM, YOU'RE BETTER." SO, KNOW THAT WITH THAT DREAM
THAT YOU HAD, THAT WAS NOT A DREAM. KNOW THAT
THAT WAS AN ACTUAL VISITATION. DID YOU JUST
GET THE GOOSE BUMPS? YES. KNOW THAT
THAT WAS YOUR MOTHER'S SOUL THAT JUST MOVED
RIGHT THROUGH YOU. YOUR MOTHER JUST LEANED OVER
AND KISSED YOU AND SAID, "I WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT
WITH EVERY BREATH THAT YOU TAKE, THAT I WILL
ALWAYS BE PROUD OF YOU AND THAT YOU WILL ALWAYS BE
MY LITTLE GIRL AND THAT I AM HONORED
AND VERY PROUD THAT YOU ARE MY DAUGHTER." Jess: LAST CHRISTMAS
WAS INCREDIBLY HARD BECAUSE I DIDN'T KNOW
THAT SHE WAS REALLY WITH ME. BUT NOW THAT THERESA VERIFIED THAT MY MOM WAS
REALLY WATCHING OVER US, THIS CHRISTMAS IS GONNA BE
SO MUCH BETTER. KNOW THAT YOUR MOTHER IS
LOVING AND GUIDING YOU FROM THE OTHER SIDE. SHE SAYS,
"EVERY BREATH THAT YOU TAKE, THAT I AM A PART OF THAT." FEEL LIKE
I'M ON TOP OF THE WORLD KNOWING THAT
MY MOM IS WATCHING OVER ME. IT'S INCREDIBLE. HELLO, EVERYBODY!
MERRY CHRISTMAS! HOW ARE YOU?
MERRY CHRISTMAS. WELL,
THANK YOU FOR HAVING ME. OKAY, SO, UM... ♪♪ Theresa: WHO DO YOU KNOW
THAT LOST THE DAUGHTER? YOU KNOW SOMEONE
THAT LOST A DAUGHTER? THAT WOULD BE YOU? HOW DO YOU KNOW HER? THAT'S MY
EX-GIRLFRIEND'S MOM. Theresa: DID YOU FIND THINGS THAT YOU WERE SURPRISED
THAT SHE KEPT OR THAT SHE STILL HAD? OR DID YOU FIND THINGS
THAT SHE HAD GIVEN YOU? IT WAS A WHOLE BOX
OF THINGS SHE GAVE ME. SO KNOW THAT WHEN YOU WERE
GOING THROUGH THIS BOX AND FINDING AND REMINISCING, KNOW THAT HER SOUL WAS
WITH YOU. NICOLE AND I DATED A VERY LONG
TIME AGO AND THEN RECONNECTED. SHE WAS ALWAYS, YOU KNOW,
THE ONE THAT GOT AWAY. DID YOU THINK,
OR DID YOU GUYS TALK ABOUT IT, OR WAS THERE SOMETHING
WHERE YOU THOUGHT, "SHE WAS THE ONE
THAT I WOULD HAVE LOVED TO SPEND
THE REST OF MY LIFE WITH." YEAH. HOW DO YOU CONNECT
WITH THE NUMBER 37? ♪♪ Janice:
TODAY SHE WOULD HAVE BEEN 37. TODAY SHE WOULD HAVE BEEN 37.
TODAY'S HER BIRTHDAY. DID SHE LEAVE THE PHYSICAL WORLD
IN A TRAGIC WAY OR UNEXPECTED? WERE YOU SUPPOSED TO BE WITH HER
THE NIGHT THAT SHE DIED? YEAH. BECAUSE SHE SAYS,
"YOU NEED TO KNOW THAT YOU WERE NOT SUPPOSED
TO PREVENT MY PASSING." DO YOU UNDERSTAND THAT?
YEAH. AND SHE DOES NOT WANT YOU
TO CARRY THE BURDEN OR GUILT CONNECTED TO HER PASSING. ♪♪ "THE ONLY THING,"
SHE SAYS, "THAT I WILL DO IS TAKE
RESPONSIBILITY FOR MY PASSING." BUT I DO NOT FEEL AN INTENT.
DO YOU UNDERSTAND THAT? YES. WHICH MEANS
THAT SHE DID NOT INTENTIONALLY TAKE
HER OWN LIFE. SHE IS SO CONFIDENT
WITHIN HERSELF, AND SHE LOOKED ME
RIGHT IN THE EYE, AND SHE SAID, "DOES IT REALLY MATTER?
THE BOTTOM LINE IS THAT I DIED." THAT SOUNDS LIKE HER.
YEAH. Theresa:
SHE SAYS, "I WANT TO THANK YOU
FOR ALLOWING ME "TO LEAVE THE PHYSICAL WORLD
OF KNOWING WHAT IT WAS LIKE TO BE
UNCONDITIONALLY LOVED." SHE SAYS, "I AM OKAY," AND THAT,
"I AM AT PEACE." Janice:
SHE CAME THROUGH SO STRONGLY
TO ME TONIGHT AND TO ALL OF US. AND I THINK IT MIGHT
HELP MAKE THE HOLIDAYS A LITTLE BIT EASIER
FOR ME TO GET THROUGH, KNOWING THAT SHE'S AT PEACE
AND OKAY. THANK YOU VERY MUCH. [ APPLAUSE ]
