Dan Mohler - Truth About Sexuality

why are you gonna why are you gonna set your mind on things above because you died and your life is hidden with Christ in God that's what's wrong with me I believe I really do I'm either the most deceived man you ever met and I'll find out one day where I'm free I got all my chips on free and we'll find out one day but I'm banking on free yeah for you died what did you do man I wish all these dead people will quit complaining getting hurt and frustrated and being disappointed and offended and angry and hurt and mad at ministry and mad at people past and be great if it wasn't for the people I don't know how all these dead people have all these feelings you're supposed to die to everything you've been and realized that Jesus never taught you those things the fall of man taught you those things you were born into Adam and you must be born again the problem is we made born again a prayer to go to heaven instead of an answer for new life when Christ who is our life appears then you're gonna appear with him in glory therefore because this is true watch this this gets a little touchy right now you guys all good can you take just a little bit more therefore put to death he didn't say manage he didn't take control and he didn't say find a healthy balance he said kill life as you know it first thing on the list section where morality its fornication uncleanness and passion evil desire every one of us were burned by it from the time we can remember I'm telling you some of us were aware of our sexuality and we were in our single-digit ages man some of us were barely even past 10 and we were already experienced and experienced in an experiment with things like masturbation and stuff and we were driven and we're looking at books and I found a pornography magazine when I was 11 and it just freaked me out I just sat there and went and that was my school I've heard it said that people teach that God gave us your sex driving God made us this way no no God did not give you what you were born into Adam did that how do you know Dan because it's totally self centered and self driven and it's all about sensuality feeling needed being wanted being honored being appreciated in orgasms you look at the number one thing on every list of the flesh in your Bible colossians galatians thessalonians Ephesians chapter 5 you look at the first thing on every list its sexual immorality why there's not one topic and you're in my life that's been exploited more than that watch this there's not even a close second to sexuality and sensuality there's not even close second and you women have a condom and there's so much pressure to have to be something and look like something and if you don't have the genetic giftings you're really in trouble and then you have to live under the pressure that and deal with it and let your heart do this or that just to get by or even act like you don't care or whatever because the world is so twisted in that arena and us guys have fed that thing and fueled that fire in just a ridiculous way as the women have been under the pressure the first thing on every list is your view and your response to sexuality he didn't say modify it he didn't say balance it he didn't say control it he said put it to death why God never made you that way from the beginning Adam wasn't walking around in the garden with an erection wondering what to do with it and God said I'll tell you what that's just make a woman great idea God that ain't how it went down he's looking at Adam in the fullness of God and everything that's in God is in man and he's naming the animals and the Lord doesn't upstage him even one time and everything Adam says so it was and God says man there's none comparable it ain't good this dude is alone man there ain't nobody out there like him he reached into the fullness of God in man and brought out the woman he did not make another lump of clay he reached into the fullness of God in the man and brought out the woman and they what was one two so two could enjoy being one he blessed it and said be fruitful multiply and cover the earth with my image my love and my glory because each seed after its own kind and when you come together and conceive it'll be after that thing which it was conceived it and then sin came along and then self-centeredness and lust came along so we do everything the world is doing and try to wrap Christian terms around instead of live from a transformed changed and pure heart you say what is sex wrong absolute covenant intimacy covenant love with one woman one marriage one woman is amazing when I got the revelation I wondered what I was doing so deceived in that camp when I was more aware of the presence of God in my union with my wife than my physical experience when the presence of God was more overwhelming than my physical experience I cried and said man was i deceived I was one of those hey it's been three days honey now I don't even think about it I just love her purely like God would love his Jesus will love his church and my wife feels so safe in this non needy driven place she doesn't need me chasing her around the house she needs me loving her and honoring her and being there for her and bringing the best out in her and she feels so safe to open herself up to that love and that Union comes together in God's presence as their blessing it with his presence and it has nothing to do with an orgasm and I need to feel this and while do it this way and oh that feels good honey has to do with I love you with everything I am and I want to bring the best out in you and I want you so blessed all that as mine is yours and she's saying all that is mine is yours and in that place 2 or 1 and it's amazing see God calls that holy the world calls it boring one wife come on you created a certain way ladies don't you get condemned by this it's just true God made people you're made with a hymen that makes you a virgin that thing's broken that means you're not a virgin I get all that don't be condemned by that I've even seen God restore that the truth is he needs to restore you if you've passed that line he needs to restore you and you're thinking and they're staying and identify yourself as a virgin because of the new understanding you have you get it layer of skin one virgin it breaks it doesn't grow back unless God grows it back right why it's made for one man he goes through the veil of her flesh into the holy place that center of her being it's amazing it's Hebrews 10 it's a spiritual physical amazing creative reality there's a sprinkling of blood there's blood in the semen and there's blood in the breaking of the hymen they cut blood covenant and together they're one forever we've turned it into one-night-stands orgasms all the phrases that we all grew up with in the locker room slang we got these poor precious women out there just trying to be loved and if they heard the way the guys talked in the locker room they'd have a different vision we think because somebody wants to sleep with us they love us no they have urges and insecurities to and they need to feel a certain way to I'm sorry I got on this guy's I I didn't try this he said put it to death he said put it to death so ladies please just look at me I can't look at you all at once but look at me you are not for sale your prize to be won you don't need some cheap fix and some man's arms around you saying I love you you need somebody to honor you enough to see the value of your life someone that's willing to lay down his life to see you at your highest best you'll need a cheap fix you don't need emotions and feelings and starry-eyed who he's cute and then you look at me please these are your sisters these are women of God don't you ever from this day ever live at the expense of one of these ladies or any other you're here to be like Christ on the earth and to love people like he loves people and if you have a woman in your life and she becomes your wife you're to love her like Christ loves his church that's put to death this arena as we were trained because it did not come from God and it's the first thing I was aware of when I woke up the morning I got saved that night I went to bed I woke up in the morning my sexuality was the first thing in my face and Jesus wanted to deal with it and I cried and wept like a baby and I said you couldn't have made me this way because it's at the expense of another and this is what I said you didn't create anyone on the earth to scratch my itch nobody has that job description everybody has the job description of walking in love don't you reduce a person to meeting your need thanks for hearing me I can tell that's you're hearing me i man I appreciate how you have no idea how I respect this room right now I don't even feel static I feel you guys at your young age receiving that that's really impressive to me I mean I'll say it whether you receive it or not the worst you could do is kill me and I won't die so [Applause] okay man did I get on a thing there whoa therefore put to death here members which are on the earth fornication and clean this passion evil desire a covenant which is all idolatry because of these things the wrath of God is coming upon the sons of disobedience that means those who continue to just disobey in which you yourselves so we're not better than anybody we're just forgiven and came to a new truth and got transformed but we were all guilty we all fallen short we've all sinned right that's why we don't look down on people we call people up we were all walking this way we were all living this way but now but now you you it's not an order call it's not somebody casting a spirit of anger off of you stop that it's not that you you yourself because see if anger exists you got to take away the platform if anger is there you got to take away the the landing strip like if you take away the runway the plane can't come in we're due arguments come from schisms he says your carnal and it's because you can't have your way and you want to have your way you're telling me we don't ever have to be angry I'm telling you you never have to be angry to the point of sin and at the cost of another person why because you love not your own life unto death and you denied yourself and you wake up to shine very simple when Jesus hung on the cross he wasn't saying you bunch of idiots I did all that good for you and this is what you did for me no he's beat beyond description you can't even tell who he is people marred more than any of the other sons of men they burn people on stakes for witchcraft and stuff when the fire goes out you're telling me you can tell who they are he was marred more than any the worst they've ever done to a man he was worse when they were done why because when sin got done with man in the garden he didn't look anything like he was created to be he was unrecognizable so Jesus had to be made unrecognizable to get identity back in the truth back and the purpose back in our lives and you think I believe that and I'm gonna get offended today and hurt and tit-for-tat and he said she said and I feel not today friend now you be the steward of your heart you walk out your convictions you run this race worthy of a prize you go after this truth cuz you're called yeah yeah but now you yourselves now you yourselves you're to put off these things not manage them it's not anger management it's put it off put off these things what things anger wrath malice blasphemy filthy language our mouths don't lie to one another why cuz you put off the old man with his deeds now watch this verse 10 and you've put on the new man who's the new man look he's renewed in knowledge according to the image of the one who created him let us make man in our do you see when Jesus rose from the dead in John 20 I've talked about it the other day he comes and he says as the father sent me I send you do you hear the same as the father sent me I send you does that make us one Genesis 1 let us make man in our image and our own likeness that gets lost second Adam comes last Adam Redeemers through his blood as the father sent me I sent you it's Genesis 1 renewed in knowledge according to the image of the one who created him how do I put off all these things and kill these things without getting into works and running the risk of failure that's a great question in a Bible College you get in your place of prayer with us serum pure hawkers appear on hartsey garden what should you say father I was taught by life I was taught by lies I'm no longer my own person I give you everything that I am and Thank You Holy Spirit for working the truth in me and change in my life a selfless truth the truth that just causes me to shine I thank you for the grace that just makes my life everything you paid for so father I'm just making these declarations when nobody's looking my own heart and my own conscience bear witness that nobody owes me a thing I am NOT an angry man a frustrated man an intolerant man I'm not indifferent father I'm being made and molded and shaped into your image growing up into you and all things no one owes me a thing I'm on the earth to shine and you begin to pray and talk out and if you have an area in your life that you think is weak and weakness you put it off in prayer father I just thank you that I'm not an angry person I thank you God that self-centeredness will never rule my life again Holy Spirit I yield myself to you and thank you for working the love of God in me in such a way that when I look through my eyes I see what you behold father I thank you for the transformation of my life in prayer you put off and in prayer you put on you come out of the place of prayer and you're saved by grace through so powerful and all sudden you go to work or you're hanging around and somebody does something that normally would have got on your nerves and all of a sudden you've realized three hours later oh my goodness I must have new nerves because that would have hurt me before and I didn't even feel nothing oh my gosh II would have reacted at that I'd have felt insecure about that and I didn't even oh my goodness god you're doing and then you weep and you run back into that secret place and you put off and you put on you put off and you put on and you're saved by grace through so we all saw the list of what we're putting off look what we're putting on therefore is the elect of God verse 12 holy and beloved put on this is the image of God put on what's the first thing you're putting on tender mercies so where's offence and tender mercies where as offense in tender mercies where as frustration in tender mercies where's impatience in tender mercies it's put on tender mercies kindness humility meekness long-suffering watch this bearing with one another and forgiving one another and if anyone has a complaint against another please don't call James and file it just forgive them even as Christ forgave you but above all these things put on love why it's the bond of perfection and let the peace of God rule in your hearts to which you were all called in one body and be thankful and let the word of Christ dwell in you richly with all wisdom teaching and monitoring one another in Psalms and hymns and spiritual songs singing the Grayson hearts the Lord and whatever guys whatever you do in word and deed do it all to the name of the Lord giving thanks to God the Father through him sound like a good exhortation to close with listen we were called to this we were created for this and he paid the price for this in Matthew 18 he didn't say he came to save who was lost he said he came to save that which was lost something was lost through Adam he paid to restore its new life new attitude it's his ways it's the image we were created in the image is God that's your birthright that's your destiny go after and settle for nothing less are you hearing me run this race worthy of a prize don't let anything else get on your nerves effect you hinder you or pull you back if what you're thinking doesn't encourage your heart it can't be from the Lord because he gives life more abundantly if what you're believing doesn't encourage you and move you forward it's a lie are you with me stand your feet I'll close in prayer and I won't get out here too terribly thanks for hanging I know we were supposed to be done at 12 I I snatched a few extra minutes I didn't mean to I got on that sexual thing you could tell I I got intense made sense to your heart dough didn't it and I'm not saying sexualities dirty or anything like that but here's what I am saying no one like the devil would take the time to counterfeit at the level he has an arena if there wasn't a beautiful value and truth and pot of gold at the root of it you don't counterfeit $1 bills you don't spend so much time counterfeiting something unless it has incredible high value yay so at your young ages and if you're in relationships start asking Holy Spirit to teach you in that topic ask him to teach you what was from the beginning tell him you don't want anything to do with the fall of man anything to do with self-centered affairs you want to live by the spirit and you want to live in the Spirit of God and as I read my word Lord I asked you to show me these things and Bernie sing my heart you got to learn to talk to the Lord like that all the time and ask questions communicate with him all the time all the time nobody looking shutting off everything just sitting on the corner bed before you tuck in my life is yours and I thank you you're doing a work in me that's sure beats sitting there wondering if you're growing and wondering if God's mad and wondering if look we're not people with 10,000 issues were people with one amazing answer let's go through the door and receive grace and run well amen you

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Published: Sun Apr 08 2018