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Please be seated. Hello, Your Honor. Hello. This is the case of Lee v. Lee. Thank you, Jerome. Good day everyone. AUDIENCE: Good day. Mr. Lee, you say your wife, Miss Lee, conceived a child after cheating numerous times during your marriage. Yes, Your Honor. JUDGE LAKE: Now, you claim your family disowned you because of her infidelity, and now, your marriage is on the brink of divorce. That is... Yes, Your Honor. You petitioned the court for a DNA test to prove that you are not the father of Miss Lee's eleven-month-old daughter, Carolyn Lee. Miss Lee, you admit to cheating on your husband, however, you say, "The paternity test will prove that he is the father." Yes, Your Honor. You're hoping that these results will save your marriage. Yes, Your Honor. So, Miss Lee, how did you and Mr. Lee meet? Tell me that. Um, I was actually getting ready to go on a date with somebody, and I got a phone call from a friend of mine to come to this hotel party to meet somebody else that actually wasn't even Mr. Lee. And I get there, and our eyes met, and we kinda fell in love at first sight. We started talking that night. I heard him speaking a little bit of Spanish. And we started making out the whole night. We actually kissed heavily that whole night. We did not have sex, though, we just made out. (AUDIENCE LAUGHING) The next morning, we exchanged numbers that night. We actually had to exchange our names, as well, because we made out the whole night, didn't even remember each other's names. The next day, I called him, went picked him up, and he took my grandmother out with us on our first date, and that was it for me, I knew that he was the one. So, that night we went back to the room... Back to my house. We had sex. (AUDIENCE LAUGHING) I figured he took my grandmother out, you know. That's all you need? MISS LEE: Yeah. (AUDIENCE LAUGHING) Might as well give it up then, right, Jerome? Um, Mr. Lee, you knew she was the one, too? Yes, Your Honor. But you also say she cheated. Yes, Your Honor. We met like she said. We got engaged about a week later on Valentine's Day. I was trying to be a little romantic. I'd been lonely for a long time, not really able to find a woman that I can really communicate with very well. So, we got engaged that night. The distance was starting to get to her 'cause I, at the time, I was living over an hour away, Your Honor. She went ahead and moved in with me. I mean, she stayed there with me for a few days, and then, like, the following week, she, uh, started cheating on me with a guy she claimed looked like Bon Jovi. AUDIENCE: Ooh! She has... JUDGE LAKE: The following week? Yeah, well, she says he looks like Bon Jovi, I said he looks more like the Wolfman. The dude slept on a cot. JUDGE LAKE: Miss Lee? You cheated a week later? MISS LEE: I have a celebrity obsession... Yes, I have a celebrity obsession and this guy, he looked like Bon Jovi. He's just jealous because, you know, I've cheated on him. The man lived on a cot, and played a guitar, and listens to Phish. JUDGE LAKE: But wait a minute you just said you were in love with Mr. Lee. He was the one. He took your grandmother out, and that's all you needed, so you had sex with him without protection, and he's the one, you're engaged, and then one week later? (STAMMERING) Well, I did, like I said, he looked like Bon Jovi, and he was flirting with me. I have... I really do have a big celebrity obsession. But Miss Lee, you do understand. I figured if I cheated on him, he would break up with me. I'd been staying at his house, and his family was just... It was a really close environment, and I didn't come from that. MR. LEE: There was easier ways to break up with me. (AUDIENCE APPLAUDING) JUDGE LAKE: Oh, wait, no, no, hold on. You could've just said, "Okay, yeah... MISS LEE: But he didn't break up with me. JUDGE LAKE: I wanna understand this. You had a celebrity obsession, so you said, if you cheated on him, he would break up with you? Why did you wanna break up? He had a really close family life, and I didn't think I was the right person for him, but I don't like to be the one breaking up. Had a real close family life. That kinda ended when you cheated on me. JUDGE LAKE: How did that end when she cheated, Mr. Lee? Well, she cheated on me, and I'm, like, well, you know, we're engaged... Mistakes happen, and so I loved her, too, so we worked it out, but the next night, after she was supposed to pick me up from work and didn't, my cousin, his wife did instead. They told me, "Well, you know, we kinda caught her cheating on you." JUDGE LAKE: What did they tell you specifically? MR. LEE: They told me that they found her naked in his trailer with him. MISS LEE: Oh, but I wasn't cheating that day. I was just hanging out with him and his sister. (AUDIENCE LAUGHING) MISS LEE: I do admit to cheating twice with this guy. What I did was not that time. That's cheating prep. No, this was after I already cheated. I wasn't cheating anymore. Oh, so then that was just post. Yes, I had left... So, it's the same guy... Yes. But you were just hanging out that day. But you know that's not right. JUDGE LAKE: So wait a minute, you all started this off like you were star-crossed lovers that found each other. Now... It turned sour real quick. I just... And so how much cheating has there been? MISS LEE: I've only cheated on him with two men. I got a little pissed off 'cause, I mean, at the time, you know, my family disowned me, I had no friends, she was a co-worker. JUDGE LAKE: Why did your family disown you? Because she cheated on me and I chose her over them, and they didn't like that, so it burned a lot of bridges. So she cheated on you, they told you, "We don't want you to be with her anymore." Yes, and I didn't do what they wanted, so they threw me out. Just because you went back to somebody, they threw you out? It's messed up, I know, but... You know she's cheated on you with two guys, then you find out she's pregnant. Yes. JUDGE LAKE: All right, when you find out she's pregnant, do you believe the child is yours? Yeah, at first, she's my wife. When, I mean, if you were in my shoes, wouldn't you believe that? I don't know. (AUDIENCE LAUGHING) I mean... I'm not gonna sit up here and lie. After what she said, no, no. I mean, she's cheated on me before, but I figured, why not stick around? JUDGE LAKE: Things had gotten a little better... Yeah, things got better. So you felt like you could trust? MR. LEE: I felt like I could trust her. I felt like that this was my kid. JUDGE LAKE: But now, you're standing in court with a marriage on the brink of divorce. This is correct. And now, you have doubts. MR. LEE: Yeah, I have doubts because she revealed to me that... He was there for me, but never acknowledged the baby, really. He never sang to her, he never talked to her, going for ultrasounds. He was either asleep in the room, or he wouldn't even go. I worked late nights... JUDGE LAKE: He was emotionally absent. So yeah, I was kinda sleepy. Yes. And you were emotionally absent, Mr. Lee, because you didn't believe the child was yours? Well, after about a week later, after we find out she's pregnant, she told me she cheated on me again, and that's where this whole allegation came on. (AUDIENCE GASPING) So, it's like, "Oh, by the way, I slept with another guy." JUDGE LAKE: So... I was like, "Oh, man." So one month into the pregnancy... One week into the pregnancy. And then the third one started jumping. JUDGE LAKE: So, wait a minute. because at first they said... Wait a minute, wait a minute, wait a minute. One week into the pregnancy, she tells you she cheated on you? That is correct. Yes. For the third time? MISS LEE: Where was I during this conversation? JUDGE LAKE: Oh, you didn't... You say it didn't happen. I mean serious... No, no! The last time I cheated was in Montana when I was told he was cheating on me with a co-worker. MR. LEE: She told me. So, wait, explain to me, Mr. Lee, how did this go down? What happened? MR. LEE: Well, she found out she was pregnant. We went to verify it. She told you, "You may not be the father?" Yeah, she told me I may not be the father 'cause she slept with another guy once. And you say you didn't tell him that? MISS LEE: No. Well, now, that's not a conversation you forget. So, Mr. Lee, what? Did she sit you down? She told you on the phone? She told you where? MR. LEE: Told me after we left the OB/GYN, and then, she's like, "Well, you may not be the father." And then what did you say? I said, "Well, we'll just kinda ride it out, "and see what's gonna happen here." 'Cause, I mean, there's still a chance I could have been the father, so I didn't want to just abandon her during pregnancy with what she might be my kid. I mean, what kind of father would I be if I didn't at least see? She cheats on you the first time... Yes. You take her back, your family disowned you. Yeah. She cheats on you again, you take her back. Yeah. Then one week into the pregnancy, she tells you it may not be yours because she slept with somebody else? Yes, Your Honor. And you stay with her. Yes, Your Honor. Despite her courts, and despite everything, I do love her. (AUDIENCE CHATTERING) I mean, I realize people... People have problems. People do things that they're not proud of. I mean, who among us has not. Now, you stand here, after saying you love her, and you don't leave her, but now you're saying you're going to divorce her. Yeah. (AUDIENCE LAUGHING) I've had enough of it. MR. LEE: We just can't live with it, you know... A love's still there... We just, if the baby's not his, we can't stay together. We decided that if the baby isn't mine, we're just not gonna stay together. If it is, we're gonna try to patch things up, work things out, try to move on from this whole experience. Is that the agreement of what's gonna happen? Yes, yes, Your Honor. MR. LEE: That is the agreement of what's gonna happen. I mean, I have the divorce papers right here. You do? Jerome, let me see those please. So, you actually have started the process of filing for divorce. Yeah, we went ahead and got the papers, and we agreed upon this. So, these DNA results, they really do mean everything. They make or break at this point. I mean, it's like you said, you know, I put up with a lot, and why didn't I leave her years ago was because, I mean, I was always hoping to, uh, make things right. And when you throw a kid into the mix, it complicates a lot of things. So, Miss Lee, why do you cheat on him so much? I wasn't... I never really saw a good relationship. I love my mom to death, but nobody in my family really showed me how to be in a relationship. My grandfather died when I was six, and he was only... Him and my grandmother were the only decent ones I really saw. So, you basically were flying by the seat of your pants. Yes, Your Honor. Literally. Yeah, literally. So, instead of working on a relationship, you'd go outside of it to look for your answers. Yes. What did you say, Mr. Lee? We really haven't even had sex in about two years. Since I found out I was pregnant, we haven't had any intimacy. So, this has really affected. It's really affected us. I mean, in my family, I mean, my biological family is just... The relationship is so strained. My family, doesn't even call me on my birthday... Your family disowned you... Yes. And after all of that, all you've been through, now, the marriage that you gave it up. You gave everything up for this relationship. Which is why I've worked so hard to try to fix things. I've given everything up for this woman, I can't just abandon ship. I mean, I've given... It's all or nothing with me. You know, I put everything I had into it, and the cheating continued, but I still tried to mend things simply because of how much time, effort, how many bridges I had to burn just to build this castle. Wow. If you find out today that... Carolyn is not your child, then this is all for nothing. That is correct, but like I said, it's complicated when you put a child in the mix. You're right, sir. I mean, I just... I was... (SIGHS) That's all right. (SOBBING) (SIGHS) I... JUDGE LAKE: Take your time. MR. LEE: I was there when she was born. I signed the birth certificate and everything. JUDGE LAKE: I'd like to see that, Jerome. You were there from the beginning, and I can see that you love her. So, you sign the birth certificate... I just don't want to live a lie. I wanna know if this is my daughter or not. So, Miss Lee, if he is not Carolyn's biological father, do you know who is? No, Your Honor. I'd like to hear from your witness. Ma'am, please stand. State your name. Patricia Peterson. Miss Peterson, you are Miss Lee's mother. Mother. What do you make of your daughter's infidelity? I mean, she's been very honest. And just basically saying, "I really was clueless." She never saw, really, any happiness in my household. I feel bad for that. Um, I was not a great mother to her, but also, she got kinda taken by my mother and my stepfather. They had her most of the time. But she did not see good things going on in the household. She saw a lot of fighting, she saw a lot of dishonesty, and so she got into the dishonesty herself. So, she lived what she saw. When you look at the state of her marriage, and what she has done to that marriage, what are you thinking? I'm really surprised he stuck around. I'm really proud of him that he has. That takes a lot of guts. But now we've got a young, innocent little girl, your granddaughter, and we're in a situation where we're not sure if Mr. Lee, your daughter's husband is in fact the child's father. I believe that's his, and I've talked to her many times. I've given her opportunities to tell me... Cause you've asked, "Tell me the truth." Oh, I've asked many times 'cause I said I'm not doing any of this. I'm not if you cheated on him, I'm not having anything to do with this. She swears she didn't, and I honestly believe that that little angel right there belongs to Brian. She admitted to cheating three times... Yes. ...in this courtroom, and Mr. Lee says that one week into the pregnancy, she says, "I cheated. I slept with somebody else." Unfortunately, I don't know about that part. I know about the other cheating. I don't know about the one when she was pregnant. We were kind of, um... MISS LEE: At odds. MISS PETERSON: We were at odds. We go back and forth. We've had rough times 'cause we were a lot of alike. So, Miss Lee, I need to give you this opportunity, because, you know, it seems like you're at a point in your life, where you just wanna lay it on the line. Got this beautiful little girl. So you wanna tell the truth, get it done. Is there anything you haven't told us? Is there anyone else you haven't admitted to? MISS LEE: No, Your Honor. Okay, I think it's time for the results, family. Do you agree? MR. LEE: Yeah. Let's have 'em. Jerome, thank you. You're welcome. These results were prepared by DNA Diagnostics and they read as follows. In the case of<i> Lee v. Lee.</i> Pertaining to eleven-month-old... Carolyn Lee. It has been determined by this court... Mr. Lee, you are Carolyn's father. Yes. (AUDIENCE APPLAUDING) MISS LEE: I told you. I told you. MISS PETERSON: Told you. I'm so glad. MISS PETERSON: Sorry. I tried to tell him I've been faithful to him. I made some mistakes. I did, but I've been doing a lot better. I just want us to be a family and just start over. What do you think, Mr. Lee? Can you try that? I think I won't have any problems trying that. I'm very happy for you both. I really am. Mostly I'm happy for Carolyn because she has her mom and her dad, and you guys are willing to give it a shot, but this is gonna take some work. You too have a lot of water under the bridge. You have a lot that has transpired, trust issues, and you, Miss Lee, have admitted that you have some issues with understanding, processing, and being able to operate in relationships because you don't have a point of reference. Yes, Your Honor. You gotta be able to do the work to change that. I've started therapy recently, and they're going to start doing family therapy so he and I can live together. JUDGE LAKE: That's fantastic. (AUDIENCE APPLAUDING) That's what I want to hear. And this court also has resources for you that I want you to take advantage of, and I want you just to figure out how to get this right. It's never too late for a brand new start. So, put the past in the past, and I wish you both and Carolyn an amazing future, all right? Court is adjourned. (AUDIENCE APPLAUDING)
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Published: Mon May 13 2019
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