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You may be seated. Good morning, Your Honor. Good morning. This is the case of <i> Davis v. Hamb.</i> Thank you, Jerome. Good day everyone. AUDIENCE: Good day! Ms. Davis, you claim you got pregnant with Mr. Hamb's child after knowing him for only two months. You've petitioned the court for a DNA test to prove that Mr. Hamb is the father of your one-month-old baby, Gerrale Hamb Jr. Is that correct? DAVIS: Yes, Your Honor. You're suing him for $1,500 for the cost of the baby shower gifts that you say Mr. Hamb took from you. Yes, Your Honor. Now, Mr. Hamb, you say Ms. Davis was dating two other men and you are certain that you are not the father of her child. Yes, ma'am. All right, so Mr. Hamb, how can you be so sure this child is not yours? First of all, I'd like to start off by giving you a little background of how me and Brandy met. JUDGE: Please do. Um, I was in my car, just came from getting a haircut. I was looking good in my car. Me and Brandy have the same exact car, just different colors. She was looking pretty, too, I'm not gonna lie. She looked pretty attractive. She flagged me down to stop me so we could switch numbers. When we switched numbers, we, uh, started talking on the phone within those same exact hours. So, during that time, we agreed to meet up. When I'm thinking we meeting up, I'm thinking just me and Brandy. When I pull up to the lake, that's where we agreed to go, to the lake. When I pull up at the lake, she got a whole crowd of people surrounding her car. So, as I get closer, Ms. Davis then comes and approaches my car, we start having a conversation. And me and Ms. Davis having a conversation, when her female friend comes up to the car and says, "Well, your boyfriend is getting upset "due to the fact that you're over here "disrespecting him by talking to another man." Uh... Do you remember someone coming up to you and saying. "Your boyfriend is mad..." No. Nobody came up to me. Nobody came up to me, because it wasn't my boyfriend JUDGE LAKE: Did you have a boyfriend at the time? Yes, I did have a boyfriend at the time. JUDGE LAKE: You did? But that wasn't him. But that particular person wasn't him. She had two boyfriends, now that was... I had one. That was just the first boyfriend I had one. That was just the first boyfriend. You met... That was just the first boyfriend. That wasn't my... That was the second boyfriend. DAVIS: That was my first boyfriend. So, in your testimony Mr. Hamb, she had more than one boyfriend. Yes, Your Honor, and is married, too, and she's still technically married now. Yes, true, true. HAMB: She's not the person... ...and she had two boyfriends, too. So, this why I'm at a point where, "Okay, this can't really be my child." <i> Due to the fact that she had all these boyfriends</i> <i> and at the end of the day, I found out she's married, too.</i> <i> So, I don't know what to believe.</i> At some point after you're at this lake, and you start talking, you have a sexual relationship. Ma'am, she gets in the car with me and we left that same day and we had unprotected sex, the same day. Unprotected sex the second night... Go ahead and lie. We had sex the same day. And after we had sex that day, we was like peas and she was on my heels, we was together. I couldn't get rid of her. No, actually, how can you be with somebody after two days of knowing them. How can you be with somebody? You slept with me the first day. You don't even know me... So what, you had... So what, but you were just saying it was the second night. Okay, look you had unprotected... And I'm not lying. Yeah, we did! The first day I met you. ...how can you be in a relationship with somebody you just met. JUDGE LAKE: Okay. How can you? Wow. HAMB: I'm not saying I was right... Ms. Davis. DAVIS: Yes, Your Honor. Ms. Davis, you say there was another man. That you did have a boyfriend. DAVIS: I had a whole boyfriend. HAMB: And a husband. That treated me good... Husband, separated. So, wait, you had a husband you were separated from and a boyfriend and you slept with Mr. Hamb on the second day? Boyfriend, legally separated. Second day, yes, I did sleep with him, Your Honor, yes, I did. JUDGE LAKE: Okay. So, you do understand why Mr. Hamb may have doubt. Yeah, I do. I do. I do. JUDGE LAKE: Okay, good. She already had boyfriends, before she was even with me. And just like I said, when she gets drunk, she's real sexual. When she gets drunk, she gets so drunk that... Oh yeah, I'm bad. ...that she, you can't... You're right. If she were drunk right now, she would be passed out sleeping in front of the TV. What's wrong with that? JUDGE LAKE: Okay. What's wrong with that? I ain't gonna say we was boyfriend and girlfriend 'cause every time we tried to get serious or tried to like, you know, say okay, well, "You my girl," make a title for each other. It would always be something stopping her because... We never had a title. Well, me being a player, I ain't gonna say being a player. Boy, you were. Well, me being a man. You did. He did. I like to talk to women... Uh, it is far gone and tell the truth. Like I said, me... Me know how I like to talk to women. DAVIS: You've had a lot of women too. Boy back on the phone. There's knowing the fact, that yeah, I'm starting to talk to her, but at the same time, I am fooling around with other females. All right, take me to the point you find out you're pregnant. I'm at work, throwing up, sick. Couldn't take it, so I told my, um, asked my supervisor, "Can I go to the hospital?" They took me to the hospital. I'm thinking, I have food poisoning or something. And I had, I was pregnant. After you found out you were pregnant. DAVIS: Yes. How did you tell Mr. Hamb. I called his phone, I told him I was pregnant, he was at work. I went to his job. And me and him was talking about it. HAMB: What? He was happy, excited. Yes, I did, I went to your job. He was happy, excited. So, you felt like his reaction was that of excitement. Yeah, he was gonna be there. He was gonna help me out and do all this regardless of the fact what went on in the past, he was gonna be there. And I gave her my word. For me and my first born. I gave her my word. DAVIS: I have two kids. Due to the fact of what she's going through, I gave her my word as a man. And due to the fact, the situation with me and my father, I said, man, I'm gonna be here, regardless of what me and you got going on. I'm going to be here for this child. Due to the fact, I didn't have him in my life. Is he here? Has he been here? He hasn't been here. But, Your Honor... He hadn't been nothing... JUDGE LAKE: So, Mr. Hamb, you told her you were gonna be there. HAMB: Yes, Your Honor, I did. But, now, you're in court, saying the child is not yours. HAMB: Yes, ma'am, I... So, tell me why you doubt it. While me and her arguing, she told, in front of my mother and aunty, that this was not my child. When the child was four weeks old. DAVIS: I never did that. She told this. I never did that. In front of my mother and aunty. And the second time, the second time, we was arguing in front of... I said that to you out of anger. ...her mother's house. I said that to you out of anger. Out of anger, yes, Your Honor, I did say that. Twice out of anger. ...he made me mad. And then a second time in front of her own mother. JUDGE LAKE: All right, one at a time. I wanna understand this. So, you're saying, Mr. Hamb, that in front of your family members, she says... ...that I was not the father I did not say that, of that child. I said it to him in an argument. HAMB: It was getting heated and she is to the point, she was like, "You know what, I'mma just be honest "this ain't even your child, so, you ain't got to worry "about being here for this child, "you ain't got to worry about doing nothing." DAVIS: I didn't say it like that. So I said... That's what got it. DAVIS: I didn't say it like that HAMB: That's when I completely snapped. Stop lying. HAMB: 'Cause I decided, I'm in a 50-50 situation. Yeah, I wanna be happy, but at the same time I don't want nothing to do with it, just 'cause of what she put me through. You've admitted that at this time, you had a husband. Yes... JUDGE LAKE: You had a boyfriend. HAMB: Two boyfriends! Actually, my husband... We separated. JUDGE LAKE: Separated. But she had a boyfriend. Separated, legally... And you also were sleeping with Mr. Hamb. Yes, I was. Were you sleeping with any of the other men. DAVIS: My boyfriend. HAMB: All four boyfriends. My boyfriend. JUDGE LAKE: So, you do admit today, that during the window of conception you were sleeping with your boyfriend and Mr. Hamb. I stopped sleeping with my boyfriend, the beginning of July. I'd say July 10th. Hold on, hold on, let me get my calendar. Can you think back, when was the window of time, when you and Mr. Hamb were intimate. Were you having unprotected... All day, every day. DAVIS: Yes, we was. Because of me. Because of me getting drunk. JUDGE LAKE: Ms. Davis, Ms. Davis. Around what time were you in this relationship, did it begin? HAMB: It wasn't a real relationship... Since I got pregnant. JUDGE LAKE: Around the time you got pregnant. In August. When your baby was conceived. What was the month? Um, August... Around August 25th. The last week in August, is that what you're saying? DAVIS: Yes. All right, so, that's the last week in August. Now, Mr. Hamb. HAMB: Yes, ma'am. You do agree that you were having sex... Unprotected sex, yes. JUDGE LAKE: ...during the last week of August with Ms. Davis. It was the whole month of August and the whole month before August, too. JUDGE LAKE: So. Yes. So, the whole month of August. All right. Just circle the whole month, all right. Now... HAMB: And before August, too. JUDGE LAKE: Ms. Davis, Ms. Davis. When were you intimate with anyone else? HAMB: The same time. My boyfriend. Yes, my boyfriend. And when was that? The beginning of July, right. July 10th around that time. That was the last time we had sex. Ms. Davis, you are saying, you were still sleeping with your boyfriend in July. DAVIS: Yeah, Yes. In the beginning of July. And then you started sleeping with Mr. Hamb in August or late July. Beginning of July. Beginning of July. We had sex... The first time we had sex was the second day we met. I was having sex on and on, every day. And then, but you were also having sex with your boyfriend during that time. HAMB: Yes, and her other boyfriend too. He broke up with me in July. So, now, you say, Gerrale was born early. He was born in May. I conceived him at the end of August. And I was not back with my boyfriend, we broke up. JUDGE LAKE: And that was earlier than anticipated? Yes, ma'am, it was. And so, that is what adds to your doubt. That put red lights, red beams, everything off in my head. I was in a 50-50 situation. Like, yeah, this could be mine, but, at the same time, it's too early. So, you felt like, when Gerrale was born the date he was born was too early for the window of time that you were sleeping with her. Yeah, she was spending time with me, but, at the same time, she was spending time with somebody else during the same time she was spending with me. So, I can't sit up here and say, "Yeah, I'm 100% sure that this is my baby." JUDGE LAKE: Part of your claim is about a baby shower. So, at some point, you had to be excited about the baby, you had to feel like... (STAMMERING) Let's bring up the story about the baby shower. The baby shower, I did not even want until after the baby was here. Until I found out it was mine. She went behind my back and talked to my family, I told her not to. But, at some point you had a baby shower. Due to the fact that she talked my family into it. I never... I got into it with my family... JUDGE LAKE: Ms. Davis, did you talk his family into giving a baby shower for the baby? No, I did not. I didn't know they were throwing the baby shower, they begged me to come to the baby shower. Because me and him, previously, got into it, we got into an argument. He like, "Don't come to this baby shower" and I'm like, "You know what, I'm not coming." The day before the baby shower his mom and sister call my phone begging me to come. They say, "It's not a baby shower without you there." HAMB: They did. "We talked to Gerrale..." JUDGE LAKE: 'Cause you still pregnant at the time. Yeah, I was still pregnant, I was eight months. Well, yeah, you can't have the baby shower without the baby there. Yes, I said the same thing. But, ma'am, due to the fact, me not knowing, if this is my baby. <i> I didn't even want to be around.</i> <i> So, I calmed down and said "You know what,</i> <i> "y'all go ahead and invite her. Let her come."</i> And Ms. Davis, you went. I went, me, my sister and my cousin went to the baby shower and, Your Honor, I didn't get nothing from that baby shower. Nothing. Nothing came to me HAMB: It's not for you, it's for the baby. Everything came to him. The baby stayed with me. I should get the stuff that came to my house. All the stuff went to his house. So, all the gifts that were given to the baby at the baby shower didn't leave with the baby. No, it didn't. Right, because, it was bought by my family and me. So, you say, you showed up to the bay shower. Because they said they really wanted you to be there. DAVIS: Yes. And they said they would control his mouth. JUDGE LAKE: Everybody... They said they were going to control his mouth. Well, that's a job, I'm trying to do that, right now. You showed up. People brought gifts for the baby. DAVIS: Yeah. But, then, when you left, they kept the gifts? I didn't get nothing. Only thing I got, Your Honor, was HAMB: And there's a reason... Okay, can I talk? The only thing I got was five gift cards and a check for $45. And the basis of your suit is that he took all of the things that were given to the baby. DAVIS: Yes. Yes, Your Honor. I have a list of all the stuff that I didn't get. JUDGE LAKE: I'd like to see that list, please. Jerome, please hand that to me. JEROME: Yep. So, what types of items are outlined in this list? Ms. Davis? Baby shower? Um, the stroller, car seat, clothes, shoes... HAMB: But, Your Honor... ...diapers, milk, JUDGE LAKE: Bibs. I didn't get nothing. So, these are the gifts that were presented that day? And even more than that. HAMB AND DAVIS: Yes, ma'am. So, ultimately... Mr. Hamb, you do acknowledge that your family came, threw a baby shower, gave gifts to the baby. But, because you say, you weren't certain whether or not the child was yours, you decided not to give the gifts to her. Yes, Your Honor. JUDGE LAKE: To the baby. Yes, Your Honor. Anyway I was gonna have to take the gifts to her. 'Cause she had a car full of her friends and everything, she didn't have anywhere to put the gifts. But, you admit you took them. HAMB: Yes. I took them to my house. I took the gifts to my house. Did you ever get those gifts Ms. Davis? DAVIS: No. No, I didn't get nothing. So, Ms. Davis, you're saying the value of those gifts was $1,500. Am I correct? Yes, Your Honor. So, Mr. Hamb, do you agree that the value of these gifts were about $1,500? Just about, yes. JUDGE LAKE: About? Yes, ma'am. JUDGE LAKE: All right. The point is this. There was a possibility that she was pregnant with your child. HAMB: Yes, ma'am... Your family stepped up and did what they thought was the right thing. HAMB: And I did too. And had a baby shower for a baby that might be yours. And at that shower, they gave gifts to the baby. HAMB: Right. Keyword is gift! Once you give a gift, you cannot take it back. At this time, based on the evidence you presented, I have no choice, but to rule in favor of the plaintiff for $1,500 because those gifts belong to the baby. Okay when you say, I... You need to return the gifts or you need to give her $1,500, which is the value of the gifts, because you testified that that was the value, whether or not, you are the child's father, the law is the law. So... JUDGE LAKE: And at the end of the day, you slept with a woman, without using protection. Now, I personally think you should be happy and proud that you have a family that would step up to the plate after you have acted so irresponsibly. (STAMMERING) JUDGE LAKE: Excuse me. And still give gifts to a child, when they don't even know for certain if the baby is yours, 'cause they're doing the right thing for the baby. Now, you gotta do the right thing by the law. You either give her $1,500 or return the things. That's my ruling, I'm done with it. Judgment for the plaintiff. Now, I often ask in this courtroom, "Do you feel like the baby resembles you?" No, I do not. JUDGE LAKE: You don't. No, I do not. It's quite a few guys who I might think about 'cause all the guys she messed with has light skin except this one guy, he's dark-skinned. Like, I said, the baby is light-skinned. <i> So, the dark skinned guy, I kinda...</i> <i> He outta the picture. But at the same time</i> <i> she was still messing with him, but at the same time she was messing with me.</i> So, it's kinda hard to put him outta the picture, too. And then I see the baby's starting to get darker, too. (AUDIENCE LAUGHING) 'Cause he was so light when he first came out, they had to put him under the light. JUDGE LAKE: Okay. Mr. Hamb. You better go on ahead and present some evidence. What do you mean? JUDGE LAKE: Bottom line... Because, that entire testimony that you just gave about the color of the baby and he's browning up. HAMB: I'm just saying like... You do understand that children are born in various colors, shades, do you understand? HAMB: Yes, ma'am. Especially as African-Americans, you understand. But the baby also gonna look like one of the parents that baby don't look like her and it don't look like me. JUDGE: Okay... So, it must look like the father. (AUDIENCE LAUGHING) These results were prepared by DNA Diagnostics and they read as follows. In the case of <i> Davis v. Hamb,</i> pertaining to two-month-old Gerrale Hamb Jr. It has been determined by this court, Mr. Hamb, you... ...are Gerrale's father. Like, I said, I don't have no problem with stepping up, but at the same time, I can't be in this child's life if she's trying to control me with this child. It has been determined by this court that you are this child's biological father. Which means, as a father, you have rights. You have... Listen. But, ma'am. Stop talking so much and listen. You have to take care of this baby financially, but you also will have the legal right to see the child. If you all can't work together, then, you will have recourse, in your home state, to go to court and fight for visitation and a chance to help to raise your child. Ms. Davis, you have to let him be a part of this child's life because it's his child. I never kept him from this baby. I never kept him one time from this baby. HAMB: I just... Never. Never, he always get mad. And he never wanna come get the baby. He come see the baby for an hour or two and leave. We are not gonna solve this today and that's why this court has resources for you and I want you to take advantage of 'em. You all need to talk to some people. You need to figure out where you all are at in this process in terms of your relationship and how you're gonna be able to co-parent together. I'm done with it, the court is adjourned.
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Channel: Paternity Court
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Length: 17min 6sec (1026 seconds)
Published: Wed May 08 2019
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