- [Woman] Hey Psych2goers and
welcome back to our channel. Thank you so much for all the
love that you've given us. Your ongoing support has helped us make psychology and mental health,
more accessible to everyone. So thanks again. Now let's continue. Relationships can be tough
and they're not always filled with romance and flowers and dates that sweep you off your feet. Difficult times come along
in any good relationship. A good number of couples can still manage to hold on together, if they
both bring trust, respect and kindness to the relationship. But other times, no matter
how hard you may want to hold on to your once perfect partner, sometimes you just need to let go. - I won't let go Jack. - Bruh. - [Woman] To help you pinpoint
the behaviors that may mean it's time to let go of
your beloved Jack Dawson, here are six signs you should
move on from a relationship. Number one, you lack trust in each other. Trust is an important part of
any successful relationship. You and your partner should
build a relationship on trust along with other important qualities which is kindness and respect. If you don't trust your partner, how can you ever move forward as a couple? When you lack trust in
them, you may find yourself questioning if your partner is really where they say they are
when you're not around. You wonder where they go
or what they're doing. You get angry and suspicious. It leads to more and more arguments. Number two, you don't
like each other anymore. You once had a romance that
you believed would last eons, now you can barely stand
the way they pop their gum and even something as trivial
as the way they chew gum turns into a fight. Odds are, these arguments
over little irritations and annoying habits may
have a deeper meaning. You may fight over how loud
your partner pops their gum while you're both cuddled
up and watching a movie. When a dramatic movie like
Titanic is on you need silence, but really, you may have
had all this pent up anger towards your partner, over other things and chose to let that anger out over your annoyance with the gum. The truth is, you may
have some deeper problems to sort out in your relationship, or you simply don't like
each other right anymore. Ask yourself this, what is it that I don't
like about my partner? Do I like them at all anymore? If you and your partner have
been acting distant, rude, disrespectful, or annoying to each other, including being chronically irritated, then you may simply not
like each other anymore and it might be time to move on. Number three, they have
no respect for you. Respect is foundational for a
good successful relationship and if you don't respect your partner, or if your partner doesn't respect you, it's time to get out of the relationship. Common behaviors that
show disrespect are lying, cheating and name calling and we don't mean using pet
names, kind of name calling. You and your partner should
not be insulting each other and using name calling
to belittle each other. Ask them how they feel.
Have a conversation. Find out what's going on in their head and if they do in fact
have respect for you, they better show they do. All you're asking is for a little respect. Sing it Zy. ♪ R E S P E C T ♪ ♪ Find out what it means to me ♪ Yeah, that's right. You got this. Number four, they're selfish and make everything about themselves. It's totally normal to gloat every once in a while on your success and expect praise from your
supportive and loving partner, but if your partner never
has time for you in return, boy, that's a problem. If your partner is selfish, they only have time to talk
about themselves all the time. What about you? Do you think Jack only talked
about himself on the Titanic while Rose sat there listening? No. They talked about both
of each other's lives. Do you think Jack just
would've let Rose drown and keep the floating door all to himself? No! He let Rose have the door to float on. It couldn't carry both their weight, okay? The thing is, if they make
things all about themselves all the time, leaving little room for you, then it's time to move
on from the relationship. Number five, you've drifted apart and no longer want the same things. If you no longer have a strong
connection with each other and on top of that, no longer
want the same things in life, it may be time to move on. People change and grow and
you both may have become someone different from when
you first met each other and that's okay and it's perfectly normal, but it's time to assess whether or not you both hold the same values and goals. Are you both still compatible? Can you see each other together
in five years, or 10 years? And number six, you're the one
who puts in all the effort. Perhaps you weren't feeling
the strong connection you once had with your partner. Does that mean you should give up? In your eyes, never. So, you put your all
into the relationship. You're going to salvage this
bond you had with your partner and build up that connection again, but you're the only one trying
and you're trying too hard, because they're not helping. If you find that your partner
simply doesn't care about you enough to make things work,
then it's time to move on. You shouldn't be the only
one putting the effort into the relationship. As much as you don't want
to, as much as you promised you wouldn't let go, ask
yourself, what did Rose do? - I'll never let go.
- She let go. She let go. Hey, don't worry. Your heart will go on. Did you relate to any of these
signs mentioned in the video? Let us know in the comments below. Please like and share this
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