3 DEADLY WORDS that BLOCK The Law of Attraction From Working For You (NEVER SAY THESE)

I hate to be the bearer of bad news on YouTube but there are three blockers that are getting in the way of your success of your manifestation and these three words that we're going to go over in this video I'll give you some solutions to it's not gonna just be bad news these get in the way of everything you want to achieve this Clarke with diffuse and subtle let's go I remember when I was a kid I would go out to my garden in the summer times in Seattle and my dad was there gardening and I was really hot out like 90 degrees just hot for Seattle and he had the hopes and he was spraying that hose everywhere and I was kind of a little rebel not the easiest kid to raise and I would go over to that garden hose and I would put a kink in it I would I thought it was so funny to just like put a kink right in the hose so the water stopped flowing and he would turn around get what the heck like what happened get out of that hose and so that kink stopped the flow completely and I'm telling you that story because I think that these three words are like the kink in the hose they're your limiting beliefs that are gonna hold you back from the flow of really going after and manifesting or achieving whatever you want okay so pay very close attention these are three things that I'm not saying before I give you the first one right here okay this is very important I am NOT saying the goals to remove these completely and if you don't you're a failure and add this to your to-do list and now god I'm a failure no no no no it might be impossible to remove these but the first step is identifying where the kink in your hoses so hopefully can straighten it out and get more flow does that makes sense let's start the first one this I want so I've been geeking out recently on an LP Oh slippery fish right here big book vent out all this stuff and I even have some rare books I wrote it off like eBay that were like 80 or a hundred bucks just on NLP neuro-linguistic programming and it's all the study of language communication now most people think communication is something we're doing right now like okay having the back and forth right or if you go out you know you're communicating and then you go home and okay I don't have to communicate anymore that is like 5% what NLP says is the most important communication you'll ever have is not with other people it's with yourself because you are communicating with yourself all day long and so when you say I want what the language of that is saying if you read deeper it's not I want this thing okay let me attract it let me get it it's saying I do not currently have now think about how powerful that is saying I want means also saying I do not have so when you come out of a place of I want what you're really doing is coming out of a place of lack of lack and it's parent it's a paradox here because if you want more can you really attract it from a place of lack you know okay so you want more of something but you don't have it so you lack it and really you attract it from a place of abundance from having and you get more just like it's easier to make more money once you have money because you're in that abundant mindset also math is on your side it's kind of hard to deny that another reason there's a lot of Western self development okay you know the motivational speakers the motivation videos that you watch with like epic cinematic music and there's a tube doing push-ups and getting jacked and there's a speaker like your dad like you want to breathe put your head in the pool and you know then we'll talk all that stuff I think really burns you out because it makes you want one it's like I lack I lack feeling good so I'm gonna study how to feel good I lack being healthy so my study health and that helps to a certain extent but it can turn you into kind of a self development jackass where it's never enough where you're always trying to level up level up level up and the more you focus on your flaws the worse you end up feeling about them so how do you fix this you have to see yourself as already bigger than your current situation okay I know you right now that there's a gap between where you are now and where you want to go so this gap right here if you beat yourself up along the way I mean that's gonna be a hard journey but if you see this vision right here of where you really want to be and see it as if it's already happening instead of trying to push yourself through this gap in hustle and grind your way it actually acts as like a magnet and a freaking attracts you there and it pulls you now would you rather have to post something or do you rather get pulled towards it absolutely getting pulled and here's how you do that I write really sloppily so you can't judge my spelling from dyslexia that's a little hack for you I am so grateful when you think about something you're grateful for it reinforces that you have it and I know this might be a little weird it's like I'm so grateful for a million dots but think about it okay the only way to really get something is to plug yourself in to the frequency of that vibration okay this is a perfect example you get into your car and you have your phone right here now what do you do to hear songs that you want you plug in the aux cord you put on Spotify and then you start listening because it's on that station it's the same thing in your life you have to plug into the frequency to hear the songs that you want to get the things that you want and you don't do it from a place of lack you do it from having it already on your phone so by saying I am so grateful for and seeing yourself as already having it now you're able to Paul towards your goals not push and you're able to come from that place of abundance instead of beating yourself up hustling and grinding from a place of lack okay so you clear on that moving on the second thing now this might be a little bit of a curveball and this really blocks the law of attraction from happening because you got to realize one thing and I'll give this to you you can only exist in the present right the past is an illusion because even when you're thinking about it when are you thinking about it in the present the future hasn't happened yet and when you're thinking about it it's in the present and eventually if you knew for sure if you had a crystal ball and you saw your future when that happens when does it happen in the present so both are really an illusion and a waste of energy okay and I'd much rather think about like the future where you want to go and stuff but conversation for another time the second most deadly thing you can say to yourself is this in the past man if there's one thing that's scary its regrets ever know those people who like you hang around and they all they want to talk about is like the good old days and you're like I don't really want to talk about the good old days because I'm having the good old days all right I know I'm gonna life keeps getting better and better like that's an affirmation I want in my life like it keeps improving and it's awesome like the best days aren't behind us necessarily it gets even darker when people let themselves go down that hole of like in the past this can be take place in a couple different forms you know let's just say someone had a and they're like you know in the past I was in a relationship for four years and that was just a waste of four years it's like no it wasn't a waste because you really learned something that you can apply in every future relationship you know are people who look back on old photos of them when they were working out and in shape like in the past I was so fit and like look at those photos of me man like no it's not a waste because now you have all the knowledge of how to get back in shape in the future let's look at the semantics okay let's go back to some NLP and read between the lines what is this really saying if you ever catch yourself reminiscing about the past or wishing you're in the past and look it's okay to like have a vacation in mind and be like oh that was fun but if you're like spending obsessive amount of times either on people in your past or things that you had in your past or like longing for the past right that's what Joe Dispenza calls depression and it's his definition of it it's like longing for the past or being stuck in the past and he says anxiety is really being stuck in the future because you're over thinking oh my god what's gonna happen all these different possibilities and you're fearing something that hasn't happened okay but if you're really in the past let's go back to semantics and language what this is really saying is that you lost something okay loss and how we fix it is a reframe okay it's like this book right here reframing that sometimes it's not about adding all these new ideas in but it's about taking ideas out of your head that actually makes you happier removing some blocks and you can start attracting things like a magnet here's what you do everything is a test I'll put prep here to everything are you being punished right now okay if you don't have what you want if you don't have a meal you know if you don't have a relationship if you don't have a I don't know the dream house you're in if you're in a situation or is that a punishment okay is the universe punishing you is God punishing you is is some outside force punishing you or are you being prepared and man that's deep and we can have a whole other video on that are you being punished are you being prepared in fact type in the comments down below I am being prepared I am NOT being punished I am being prepared I'm not being punished because that's really what all things are you got to realize right now that you are a badass okay there's two kinds of animals out there if you look on a Savannah right there's the prey animals okay and they have the eyes on the side of their heads so they can scan their horizon and look for fear or look look for danger they're in a fierce state right they're like where's the danger where's the danger okay they go back to the watering hole they look up eyes on the side of their head and so they can run away right you following me but then there's a second kind of animal this is hunters their eyes aren't on the sides they're right here so they can look and scan the horizon for their prey because they don't really need to see around them because they're top of food chain where are your eyes right now they're on the freaking front of the head watching me on your phone or your computer or whatever okay you're a hunter you're a badass by nature you're designed to go out there and get what you want okay so if you're worried about the past like you just know and have that inner truth that everything is a test you're being prepared you're not being punished you're being prepared to go out there and get what you want and just know that it's not enough to be in the right place at the right time you heard that saying like oh I got rich you know right place at the right time yep I was lucky I did it you know I joined Microsoft right place at the right time I got a buddy who made a lot of money in that or my dad's friend right no it wasn't the right place at the right time he was the right person at the right place at the right time he had to have the qualifications to even get that job to get his foot in the door and then all the success came so it's not enough to be in the right place at the right time but you have to be the right person in the right place at the right time and so maybe everything you're experiencing now that you might not want or that has a negative energy or whatever maybe it's a test maybe it's being prepared you're not being punished all right moving on the third most deadly word we're gonna talk about your big fat butts all right but you notice that word every time I hear someone I was on coaching calls last year I did a lot a lot of coaching one-on-one hours and hours with people okay and I'd give them a task let's just say okay you film a YouTube video alright that's kind of the business I was in yeah Clark I'll totally do that but I have some obligations of tonight and blah blah blah blah hey write that email okay I'll totally do that but I need to set up this thing XYZ every single time you follow up with a but it's always an excuse it's always something negative so in your mind in your self-talk okay I want to do this thing but catch yourself and reframe it I like that person but they have this non-negotiable they're really messy right or I would start that business but I don't really know it's too competitive it's too saturated to this I would move to Arizona from Seattle but I don't know a moving company I don't know a car like how would I even do that I don't have a place picked up they're all just excuses that are gonna get in the way and catch yourself when you're saying but what butt is really saying is the third deadly word is never you have lack loss and never and these are the three most deadly words that are gonna get in the way and block the law of attraction block you getting what you want blocking manifestations I want in the past but these are the sayings that coincide with this I'm so grateful now saying it in the present tense everything is a test in a preparation those are the fixers or the reframes of your internal self-talk which is the most important communication all right but there's one last component right here notice that all of these were trying to overthink and figure things out you ever thought that it was thought that like oh man if I could just figure it out I would take action but I don't really know where that path is gonna lead me I would start that business but I don't really know if the future economy is gonna hold up or it's just gonna go away like the last thing I tried alright this is your job it's not your job to figure things out it's your job to ask believe and receive that's it if it was your job to figure everything out there wouldn't be a need to even manifest or believe in the first place if everything was just you know written in stone and here's your destiny and okay you're just some pawn in a game like you wouldn't need it but ass believe received this is really your only job one thing I learned is you can over think your way and this is very very important aside here but it's worth saying in this video you can overthink your way all of these out of belief okay isn't that true all of these can kill belief and belief when you boil it down is really faith okay it's faith in something you're not supposed to have the answer is by definition of faith right you're supposed to have a hundred percent certainty it's a certainty is going after logic okay need the logical masculine way of explaining something of how it's gonna happen belief is more of the feminine emotional side of it like I have a deep internal gut feeling that it's gonna happen but even if it logically doesn't make sense okay you get in that distinction so having faith is how you tap into belief and if you having a hard time like if you cringe at those words like I don't want to believe ask or see if that means you need it even more trust me from personal experience as soon as I started giving up control and letting go and being detached from outcomes of how many views of video gets or how much money I'm making a year and if it's as much as the year before okay if are we increasing KP all that stuff I just had faith that if I was on the right path and I went from my heart instead of all my head everything started to change I started to be happier and more relaxed and have more fun and relax into things and get better results okay post that in the comments below ask believe receive I will ask believe receive post that in the comments down below and smash the heck out of that like button if you haven't already and if you're not subscribed double check that the Bell 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Channel: Clark Kegley

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Length: 15min 26sec (926 seconds)

Published: Fri May 29 2020