Your Cheating Best Friend Ruined Our Relationship | Eating with My Ex: April And Callum

when you was going on a night out with him what what was she getting up to she talking to girls was he talking to [Music] girls we was together for about 2 and 1/2 years and towards the end we was arguing all the time she didn't like the fact that I was hanging around with a certain lad I found out that callum's best friend was cheating on his girlfriend who was my best friend once April had found out she looked at me and discussed because I knew about it hello you all right I am C you I felt really betrayed I felt like he should have said something because it was wrong so I have a question yeah so you know if we got back together would you kind of ditch your friend for me you know they not very nice one I completely lost all trust with khum he didn't tell me what was going on um when I feel like I'm his girlfriend he should have told me everything um and obviously this guy isn't a nice guy and he shouldn't have loyalties to someone like that are you okay with what he did no I'm not okay with what I did I've never agreed with it really I just always like seem to have been in the middle of it but still TRS trying around yeah because it was good company we had good nights out and he was a good L but was chea and his girlfriend I am my own person I I'm not up to stuff like that just because they have a friend that does stuff like that he said you know he'd never cheat on me he shouldn't judge me by other people's standards but you know I think you become who you surround yourself with their relationship shouldn't affect our relationship when when you was going on a night out with him what what was you getting up to what was you doing was you talking to girls was he talking to girls i' say yeah obviously he was talking to people but only because of the personalities like I have as myself like you know me I'm a chatting person if he's chatting to a group of girls are you going to mention oh yeah got a girlfriend yeah obviously but it's fine you can talk to girls like I'm noty it made me think was he cheating on me cuz he was going out with him all the time she had like trust issues because of my mate but I didn't want to get involved in that type of stuff question is could you trust me again um I do think I could trust you again um it just depends what choices you made who you choose to hang around with at the time I really thought oh my God maybe I cheated but now I've sat and thought about it I know you wouldn't ever cheat on me why why did you react like the way you did um just because I I felt lied to but there was no way of trying to explain it to you and obviously we we had each other blocked off everything so you wouldn't have realized that you wouldn't have you blocked me you did though I blocked her because I just felt like it was easier for me to move on with things I didn't want to see her enjoying herself I felt like he just didn't want anything to do with me even though I'd not really done that much wrong for me that was the easiest way of getting over things why didn't you want to talk to him why didn't you want to get in touch like what was topping you because you seemed happy I wasn't I wasn't that happy I might have looked but I wasn't you look happy so well it wasn't within about the first two or 3 months we moved into my mom's house I felt very isolated we was arguing all the time it put a lot of pressure on the relationship we got underneath each other's skin so did we move in together too fast yeah I definitely think we moved in together too fast was being at my mom's in that bedroom all the time like it was no good for our relationship but then I feel like we're at a stage now where like you know we want to get back together i' want I would want to move in together like I don't know or is that just me rushing again since we broke up um I have missed her a lot and I've not really gone out a lot because to be honest I don't feel like I've been myself really you want some my man I regret how we broke up because I do still have feelings for Callum and I don't want it to be bitter between us can we learn from our mistakes and try again I still love you I always will you're always in the back of my mind no matter what to do oh that actually really cute it's hard like because I've always wanted to sort things out I do love you c i do I would do reallyit you are like you literally are like my best friend like it's like losing a best friend and a boyfriend space is what we needed maybe this is what we needed to make things work time away from each other and realize what you know we have lost like I have I have been good a it feels amazing that he still has feelings for me because I still have feelings for him but I just wish he would have contacted me soon she is like my soulmate she's got an amazing personality and I do I do love her to bits I'm happy to give things another go if you're if you are but I mean there's no rushes you can just go step by step so would you like to go and have a drink I definitely would yes would you yeah decent I think we've both learned from this that we need to have space but we also need to be honest with each other I feel like we can put the past in the past and move on and be an happy couple and see what the future [Music] brings

Channel: BBC Three

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Id: ZO7D0KWVICQ

Length: 6min 31sec (391 seconds)

Published: Mon Jul 24 2017