Would You Choose Me Over Having Kids? | Eating With My Ex: Faye and Sade

can you control your jealousy [Music] issues sh and I were together for around 2 years and it was it was great in the beginning there was never a dull moment with chaet myself and faay started bickering quite a bit her wanting kids and me not really wanting kids right now we found ourselves becoming more and more angry and we just both blew up at one another and realized that maybe we shouldn't be together before this meal today I've had a little bit of a makeover shade always said I'd never be brave enough to cut my hair make it the color that I wanted to so I hope she'll be [Music] surprised [Music] wow hello wow hello wow you look fantastic I see you can you control your jealousy issues I saw her jealous side and I realized how jealous she was it did become an issue for me and it just kind of made me feel like like you were doing something wrong that I was doing something wrong I mean sometimes you'd get jealous if like a guy looked in my direction or if do you know I can't control that that's not my fault I just feel like it's a natural human emotion yes it's ugly and unhealthy it was tough it was really tough trying to trying to voice that jealous emotion there's no nice way to be jealous you've lost your temper a little bit because of it you know that that my temper goes from 1 to 10 in 0.1 seconds sh has a very short temper which makes it very difficult to communicate and get my points across that route when we broke up I had to walk away from cuz there was just no getting through to you I I just can't speak to you when you're like that you can be quite mean I feel like I need to apologize to you about so much how I react to things sometimes I know I'm a very difficult person to be with you're not a difficult person to be with you're a difficult person to argue with I've been working on it oh wow oh thank you wow okay children became a conflict for us because um Fain wanted children whereas she's not so keen on the idea and um we've never really come to any sort of resolution um on that would you choose me over having [Music] kids wow um without a doubt without a doubt [Music] because really yeah I would choose you if for having kids but like the reason I want kids is to have a family with you the wonderful a child is is there and it's strong it's because I want it with you I want a family with you and if our family has to be just you and [Music] I then yeah so the answer is [Music] yes I didn't expect that answer to be honest with you that's uh quite powerful maybe I just always wanted you to not write it off completely it's not not an option it's just you have to sacrifice so much to have a child and I don't not in the right mind space and place to do that see I didn't know that I thought it was just no and that's it don't worry suppose I never really again communication I didn't really communicate this properly with you are we too different for this to work [Music] again I've spent a lot of time in the last two months just thinking about us and where it went wrong and we're not cut from the same cloth we do have very different upbringings and backgrounds and we've had different relationships but I personally would like to think that that's not a bad thing but I think we need to find a [Music] way to embrace our differences yeah I'm not going to lie I've been absolutely miserable without you that's absolutely sucked and I miss you every day every day so in my ideal world we would leave here go get a drink carry on talking and hopefully i' be making out with you by the end of the night I don't want to be without you either there's a lot to say I've so yeah so if you'll help me [Music] back girl you going make me [Music] cry I think the meal went very well better than I expected actually hugging her and just being able to kiss her again was probably the best feeling I've felt in a very very very long time I think we needed this breakup and I feel like we're both feeling very positive and very hopeful about the [Music] future

Channel: BBC Three

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Id: 3kZhXUpIo9I

Length: 7min 6sec (426 seconds)

Published: Mon Jul 31 2017